| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | My friend’s bf (both 34) messaged me on tinder while she was overseas at a funeral. He didn’t recognise me.Did you swipe right on him while knowing who he was? Just trying to figure out how you matched! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Guys that only take you on drink dates?How into you does he seem otherwise? Has he asked you for date 4 yet? It's not sounding hugely promising. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:06 PM |
| 23 | Attachment theory, avoidant=LVM, anxious=Pickmeisha, securely attached=HLM/HLWSome LVM are definitely anxiously attached. It leads to (among other things) jealousy, clinginess, a lack of confidence that bleeds into other areas of life, paranoia, etc. Not recommended! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020Sticker shock is fair enough, but "MUCH lower"? And it's not for him to decide what's gaudy and what's appropriate for a woman to have on her finger, that seems controlling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Be honest, your HVM isn't perfect. No one is. Let's list things they do that aren't deal breakers, but would be nice if it were different.There's no need to denigrate men with stereotypically feminine characteristics - it comes across as gender role policing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:14 AM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Oooh that wedding sounds fun! It sounds like you are a bit invested in this guy, even though your better judgement is telling you he's not putting in HVM effort. Maybe detach yourself emotionally, go to the wedding so you feel you've got something out of it, then dump? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 10:42 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else go from HVW to Pickmeisha out of habitI struggle with this too. You have to be prepared to lose them. You can never put their needs and wants above yours, even if you have to risk acting uncool in their eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 12:03 PM |
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