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ConversationjuslokingArounD/r/seduction04/03/24 04:23 PM
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Do you match with ugly girls or like subjectively less attractive? Aint no way someone sends nudes to someone they havent met 😄
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:05 PM
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But is it like that in general? I cant stand texting with someone too long. Most of those girls are stupid and boring and you have to carry the whole convo
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:02 PM
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So you meet a girl on a dating app, text for months withojt seeing each other then invite her to your place as first date?
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:01 PM
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Its really weird like for example colleagues at work whom i see everyday dont even say hello, people i frequently see at the gym wont even greet even though i greet them most of the time and help them in the gym, if we see each other outside they wouldn’t give a shit let alone saying hi. I dont understand the people here. And im talking about both genders not just women. Idk how people make friends here
/r/seduction27/04/24 10:42 AM
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170cm or 5’7
/r/seduction27/04/24 10:40 AM
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I am a foreigner as well and people here are not friendly to foreigners (even people from their own country but not someone they know). And even though i am somewhat great in their language, they are not that friendly. Idk man, i live in Slovakia btw, could be something specific to it, because Ukrainians here are generally more friendlier and open to new people than Slovaks, on dating apps it could be my height as im not tall, but with even low users around me i still get good amount of matches.…
/r/seduction27/04/24 08:32 AM
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I live there and it is the exact opposite 😂😂
/r/seduction27/04/24 08:22 AM
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Which eastern countries do you mean? But yeah i have it the exact situation as you. Just gotta suck it up
/r/seduction26/04/24 04:16 PM
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Nothings wrong bro dont mind the self prohibiting prophets
/r/seduction23/04/24 04:08 PM
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Yes, ever since my beard has grown it boosted my atteactiveness and i started to gain lot of attention from women However, remember that its just an opener of a door. Girls will not just fall in love with you suddenly because you started having a beard
/r/seduction23/04/24 09:27 AM
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Close people doesnt mean friends only. This can be your siblins, parents, cousins, uncles, aunts then friends. If you can not maintaint a close relationship with the people i mentioned above, I, as a man, would not even befriend you, let alone women giving you a chance
/r/seduction22/04/24 03:31 PM
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Women are a player in this game as well
/r/seduction22/04/24 01:02 PM
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?
/r/seduction22/04/24 09:50 AM
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It is not about dominance knock off with that stupid “show dominance” mentality. If you think you want to show and assert dominance that girl will mostly leave you 3 days later. It’s about that you are not boring, you are a teaser, a seducer and someone who is willing to play. If you just send her a selfie just like she asked, this ends up just boring and probably the conversation won’t continue. Rather if you play with her and for example do what i wrote in my previous comment, first of all she…
/r/seduction22/04/24 09:28 AM
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Because in todays market, women have the power as they have it relatively very easy in terms of access to men and everything else in life in general. Women can now dump and ghost a man and the next day shed have 10 lined up, thus men do not want to invest emotionally and economically for someone who wouldnt give a fuck about them in a blink of an eye, and i dont think anyone should, regardless their gender. Blame the game, not the player.
/r/seduction22/04/24 09:22 AM
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My friend girls will lose interest even for the best of us, for ridiculous reasons. Stop the self prohibiting prophecy and just have conversations with people. If you want to know if your personality is really that bad then ask 5-10 very close people to you to give you an honest and harsh opinion. Your siblings, cousins, close friends etc. because what could be super personality to a person may be very lame to another. That way you can get different perspectives
/r/seduction22/04/24 07:17 AM
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Why is this downvoted. Thats what girls actually like to get when texting. They like teasing and sarcasm not some boring shit. Be playful with her, send a photo of shrek’s ogre version and tell her thats you and will stay like that unless she doesn’t kiss you by tomorrow evening However her text isnt a shit test
/r/seduction22/04/24 07:10 AM
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Just go and try to talk bro. Honestly. I’ve had a lot of girls glancing at me then i go talk with them they are cold af and uninterested, some of them are interested and you exchange contacts but then never reply or talk again. So just do whatever you feel like
/r/seduction16/04/24 03:16 PM
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Best thing to do in smaller areas is to seek out social environments where women are more involved. For example latin dance classes, yoga classes or whatever. You’ll be able to meet women more natural way and socialise more. You don’t necessarily need to date the ones you meet there but you can befriend them, hangout with them and they’ll inteoduce you to new friends
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:33 PM
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The only thing that that will improve is your ability to approach strangers, strike a conversation on the go and beat your approach anxiety. This does not do anything in any means to help an individual to get better with women, rather just help accessibility, which is not what OP is asking for
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:31 PM
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Yeah exactly. If you’re vibing then probably she is interested to exchange contacts. Even if she doesn’t, just ask. The worst is she will say no, but sometimes she gives out but never replies back. You can always ask for contact just so you can practice, and so you never think to yourself that you “fumbled”
/r/seduction15/04/24 06:32 AM
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Was on a date with a hottie. She was 24 and I was 19, we were dancing in a club and the next day she followed me on IG. Anyways after the date we walk up to her dorm and I tell her i had good time although i was still a bit nervous. After I leave her i inly realize she told me that i can come up with her to her dorm but i was so into my head that I didn’t even hear that. Oh well
/r/seduction15/04/24 05:14 AM
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Should’ve added after that text “hahaha im just being sarcastic, are you free ….?” Funny how our brains work sometimes
/r/seduction15/04/24 05:12 AM
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I fumbled like 2 3 times and sometimes it haunts me when i sleep, goddamn man
/r/seduction15/04/24 05:04 AM
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On to the next girl. If no one is looking at giving signs of interest, improve your looks
/r/seduction14/04/24 02:33 AM
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Your coworker watches Psychhacks on YouTube;)
/r/seduction13/04/24 08:17 PM
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Know your worth brother and go outside and get it
/r/seduction13/04/24 04:18 PM
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Look at her, make eye contact for a second or two, give a head nod with a smile, if she smiles back say hi, or “THEY ARE PLAYING REALLY GOOD MUSIC, DO YOU AGREE” she will probably nod or say yes. Now you will be dancing together and just enjoy and smile and talk here and there like “ hahaha you got good moves!” “Damn i never thought i would see such competition in a club” key here is not to talk too much and just vibe, then invite for a drink and there talk whatever, escalate and enjoy. If you a…
/r/seduction13/04/24 02:10 PM
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Other person has explained it in another comment, i would’ve also love to explain but no need to repeat. Plus there are plenty of men who get sex easily yet care so much about it
/r/seduction13/04/24 10:12 AM
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Keep your heads up brothers. Women have very easy access to a lot of stuff in life, specially male attention, hence it’s so easy for them to ghost and not give a fuck, by tomorrow they will have 5 new men. That’s why it is always adviced for us, to level up in all aspects in life. Because you as a man, are a job recruiter. You reach out, introduce yourself, show your future employee what promises them and leave them to do the pursue :). However if you never reach out, no one will have an idea ab…
/r/seduction12/04/24 10:39 PM
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Why is sex so important for you? Attention is also important for men, just as sex is for women. But men has sex very high priority while women has attention
/r/seduction12/04/24 06:56 PM
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?
/r/seduction12/04/24 03:24 PM
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You have to understand, that Attention for women, is exactly what Sex is for men. Attention is currency. When you haven’t had sex, all of your aim and goal and life purpose is to get sex, once you have, sex becomes the last thing you think about. Now when you know you have someone, thats guaranteed to give you sex, whenever you need and desire or even whenever you don’t, you start to not give a fuck about pursuing or chasing or giving an effort to that source, because it is in your pocket for yo…
/r/seduction12/04/24 01:28 PM
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In Eastern europe its also like that. They have this non welcoming look on there face even when checking you out it feels like just a mad look or complete stare into your soul feels so unfriendly. A lot of times makes me doubt approaching them
/r/seduction12/04/24 05:25 AM
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Move on. Immediately. She probably needed someone to rant and empty her mind with. Now she got better, she doesn’t need you. Do not initiate contact at all unless she does, and when she does, make sure its about planning a date or to meet, do not accept any other form of chatting or whatever. If she doesn’t mention meeting or show any signs of it, Do not ever reply again. She is just using you, not interested in anything else.
/r/seduction10/04/24 02:00 PM
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Just start with asking them questions about their own life, hobbies, school etc. then from there just try to talk, joke and see where it goes. Just practice
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:00 PM
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What do you mean how to socialize? You are already there? Just go say hi, ask them about their day, hobbies, school or whatever. I don’t understand what do you want from this post. Go talk to them. Conversations are awkward only if you think they are. At first there will be an ice to break with a stranger thats completely normal, other than that only the way you carry yourself makes it awkward
/r/seduction08/04/24 02:24 PM
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How to do that in small cities
/r/seduction08/04/24 12:27 PM
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1 million is a small city? 😂 try 200k or 50k
/r/seduction08/04/24 05:03 AM
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Attention and also using them for advantage
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:07 PM
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What’s that
/r/seduction05/04/24 06:53 AM
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Facing this right now. She is not pulling away completely but just through texts she is less talkative. Sometimes she replies every hour or so sometimes she is replying in minutes. But she is still flirting, sending photos of her, liking my stuff etc. our date was last week and we haven’t arranged a next one yet but she said she enjoyed her time. We’ll see how it goes
/r/seduction05/04/24 04:19 AM
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What is this post bro just delete it
/r/seduction31/03/24 06:13 PM
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Corny ass shit
/r/seduction31/03/24 12:35 PM
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Wtf is a gym date
/r/seduction30/03/24 10:44 PM
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This cant be serious, this post is satire. All of these signs and you are still typing here? Shes better off with a guy who is not a pussy as you
/r/seduction20/03/24 09:06 AM
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Interesting. How are you meeting these women? Online dating? Social events? Through friends? Do you have any other addictions? Gaming, social media, internet or any other? And how did you manage to quit porn may I ask?
/r/seduction18/03/24 05:43 AM
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You’re literally sick in the mind
/r/seduction18/03/24 05:34 AM
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Do you watch a lot of porn? Are you addicted?
/r/seduction18/03/24 05:22 AM
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Could be 0, could be 2, could be 10. Does it matter?
/r/seduction14/03/24 11:15 AM
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Tbh i am too, am still a little bit like that but i am trying to overcome it. Thing is i dont know how to start a conversation but like im really good at maintaining it. But one downside is i live in a foreign country and my local langauge is great, not the best though so i sometimes have this feeling what if i dontknow how to answer back or what if i say something doesnt make sense.
/r/seduction11/03/24 07:05 AM
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Yeah generally i dont talk at the gym, but like it feels bad to see them interested and not taking action you know. Also because im new in town so kinda an opportunity to make friends or whatever
/r/seduction04/03/24 05:56 PM
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Maybe its height or the fact i am a foreigner. I get a good amount of matches but till now no dates at all. All the time I initiate convos and try to arrange stuff even though i dont know the city. Got flaked 2 3 times even
/r/seduction19/09/23 05:50 PM
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In which eastern europe you are? Why isnt it the same for me?
/r/seduction19/09/23 05:46 PM
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