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my point is life isn't fair - and this is true. the sooner you accept it the better
/r/seduction15/11/25 04:55 AM
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what the fk are you talking about? life isn’t fair - you are proving my point i have no issues with that and i dont consider myself unsuccessful sounds like you got the short end of the stick - well do something about it
/r/seduction14/11/25 08:33 PM
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because the world isn’t fair and even tho we say equality - it doesn’t seem to apply to “unsuccesful” men
/r/seduction14/11/25 06:34 PM
50

Damn. 100+ ghosts. Bro is a ghost buster
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:59 PM
101

What the heck are you yapping about my dude It's not blue ocean you have blue balls
/r/seduction07/11/25 11:18 AM
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Did this happen after covid? It would be a good idea to get tested on your testosterone levels
/r/seduction07/11/25 04:55 AM
2

Then leave it. It means she doesnt want to meet you Try meeting other girls. Be a bit more relaxed
/r/seduction31/10/25 04:08 PM
1

Stop calling. Text her and ask her out for food or drinks after work If she comes you have a chance
/r/seduction31/10/25 03:48 PM
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Honestly, make an excuse and say hey could i get your opinion on x? Maybe we can talk it over dinner or drinks after work Make it an actual work thing then transistion, see how it goes THANK ME LATER
/r/seduction31/10/25 03:42 PM
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did you message her after the date or no
/r/seduction10/10/25 07:30 PM
2

well hunt her down first and then give her an uppercut. and then take the money from her wallet that corresponds to the price of the meal this is a joke but if enough people did this there won’t be anymore ghosting
/r/seduction10/10/25 07:30 PM
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i used to date a lot - many dates and relationships. after a while i realised i wasted a lot of energy and time and money chasing the novelty of dating new girls enjoy it for a while but i recommend getting out this phase asap
/r/seduction20/09/25 04:21 PM
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yeah but dating most of the time isn’t really rewarding but yeah porn is not a good alternative
/r/seduction20/09/25 12:17 PM
4

bingo. if women are into you and come back home with you they kinda wanna to sleep with you and if you don’t they often take it as a rejection
/r/seduction18/09/25 05:00 AM
2

yeah bro didn’t mean to come off as negative - my initial reaction is that i felt that it was cringe, but who cares even if it is cringe - do what works for you have fun and being yourself works and we should all be more supportive of each other as dudes
/r/seduction05/09/25 11:27 PM
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bro this sounds crazy to me. blocking her cart. let’s make a fruit salad. are these conversations you have in your head?
/r/seduction04/09/25 07:52 AM
3

It's all a bit pointless in the end.
/r/seduction24/08/25 04:26 PM
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what is dressing cooler?
/r/seduction08/07/25 10:48 AM
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GG.
/r/seduction09/05/25 08:50 AM
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check in in a couple months and let us know how it realised being nice got you no where brother she emotionally dumped on and you are acting like a girlfriend. but do you
/r/seduction06/02/25 02:05 PM
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you ok bro?
/r/seduction20/12/24 12:29 PM
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man. some what of what you said sounded good to start with. but then it sounded a bit like you ended up catering for the insane
/r/seduction20/12/24 07:58 AM
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both. be authentic and own it
/r/seduction17/12/24 10:59 AM
1

will and jada, johnny dep and amber heard are great case studies on the wrong partner ruining your life
/r/seduction13/06/24 07:15 PM
9

keep that woman's name out of your keyboard!
/r/seduction13/06/24 04:04 PM
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I am all for tact but it's all kinda BS. By relationship the girl obviously means serious/exclusive.
/r/seduction25/04/16 11:51 PM
1

Great attitude. Glad things have worked out for you mate.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/16 08:14 AM
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Sorry to hear. It's messed up that you were the victim but she managed to turn that around and make it out like she was the victim.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/16 05:45 AM
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Hey. Sorry. I don't think this is a great anology, good write up however. Just because you are ready to go all out doesn't mean she is ready to. More often then not. You want to make a connection. Get the number. Then hang out again. It works.
/r/seduction10/03/16 03:55 AM
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It's simple. It's the opposite of neediness.
/r/seduction16/11/15 01:26 PM
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who's Carlos? Is that your friend?
/r/seduction29/05/15 12:37 PM
9

Hey great write up - but a little misconception about introvert vs extraverts. It's actually less to do with whether you are outgoing and highly sociable but how you expend and recharge energy. I am really good with people and outgoing, but am an introvert because I need to be alone to recharge and re-energise, an extrovert is the oppose.
/r/seduction10/04/15 02:52 AM
1

It kinda sounds like you need to work on yourself and like yourself a title more. Start with that man.
/r/seduction13/02/15 04:37 PM
42

This is pretty much common knowledge, but reading it the way it is written as a list is a turn off to me. It makes me feel like I am handling a child.
/r/seduction20/01/15 06:26 PM
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Lol. You seem to have some issue. You must be called a creep a lot.
/r/seduction04/12/14 03:52 AM
1

Look, thanks for the write up. Stop hanging onto one thing that I said and then making a particular conclusion - it's not a debate. Of course I would buy a bro dinner. I recently flew to Macau to see a good mate for a birthday (from SEA). I maintain what I said, I am upset specifically about female friendships and how they work (and don't work). If I am doing that wrong then fine (in fact that's what I am doing now I am reassessing) but stop trying to save me from being a nice guy. I have discus…
/r/seduction04/12/14 03:13 AM
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You were telling me when a guy pays for dinner you get scared that he will expect more and that's classic projection by assuming that it's exactly what I'm doing. Go pick up a book or something. You've offered very little beyond the cliche creep shaming, followed by exaggerating my intentions to make them sound ridiculous. Are you 12? Or is this the intelligence level of the typical seddit female contributor?
/r/seduction04/12/14 03:06 AM
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I am well aware of what I wrote, it's not like you are catching me out. SOMETIMES there is interest.
/r/seduction03/12/14 08:44 PM
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Been meaning to read that, will bump it up on my to do list. Thanks.
/r/seduction03/12/14 07:10 PM
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Yeah. In agreement with both of you. I think if a fancy dinner does happen - make sure it isn't too early so you have had time to build attraction, make her earn it. I don't mind a nice fancy dinner date from time to time. Just make sure the logistics are good before/after dinner, find a place where you can sit next to the girl for good physical rapport - a bit of planning and a fancy dinner can work well.
/r/seduction03/12/14 06:45 PM
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You are projecting your own anxiety. My intentions to take her out is purely a friendly gesture and I keep dating and friendships cleanly apart.
/r/seduction03/12/14 06:40 PM
1

For the most part I agree with your comments if in a dating context, but I am specifically talking about friendships here. In my view, being generous doesn't mean I shouldn't keep an eye on who is and isn't reciprocating and who is adding value in my friendships - not unlike the screening that you are talking about. If I do something nice, it's nice to be appreciated. It really is as simple as that.
/r/seduction03/12/14 06:36 PM
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Keep it up. It gets easier the more you do it.
/r/seduction30/11/14 06:42 PM
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It can help frame the meeting but honestly what you are doing on the meet to build attractions is a lot more important.
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:36 AM
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I find that when your memory is too good some people react badly to it. I would meet someone, we would have an interaction - and I may see them months or maybe a year later and I would recall little facts about them "oh you had this watch last time etc" and they would freak out a little like I was obsessed with them. I'm not. I just have a really good memory. I would have said with a smile something like "Don't look so surprised, I heard your friend call you by your name andI happen to have a go…
/r/seduction08/10/14 11:23 PM
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Nice. Bruce Lee actually has a very similar Philosophy. Removing what is not essential.
/r/seduction23/09/14 04:11 AM
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Nice. Thanks for sharing that.
/r/seduction23/08/14 11:23 PM
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It sounds like conversation and creating interest with the girl is a weak point. You seem to have the foundation down in terms of looking after yourself.
/r/seduction21/08/14 03:45 AM
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Seriously guys, holding eye contact is just one part of being confident. Running around initiating stare-offs honestly isn't exactly confident, it's just weird.
/r/seduction18/08/14 11:43 PM
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honestly this article isn't very good. some girls take a little longer to warm than others - don't be so attached to a first kiss on the first date.
/r/seduction16/08/14 11:09 AM
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Bro firstly congrats on your weight lost but that's such a weird thing to make the girls do but yeah it sounds like you've realised this.
/r/seduction23/07/14 11:50 PM
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Let me know how you go. This sounds good on paper but likely difficult to execute in real life. Imho the conversion will be very small. Females need time to build trust and rapport which leads to a date. That's what messaging and texts help build. Very interested to hear the outcomes. Good on you for trying it out.
/r/seduction17/07/14 02:36 AM
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Not a bad way to see it. When I meet someone. My mentality isn't "I wonder if she will like me", but rather "I wonder what she is like".
/r/seduction13/06/14 01:32 AM
1

Thanks man. What's red pill?
/r/seduction09/06/14 09:38 PM
1

Could you explain what Alpha vs Beta is?
/r/seduction06/06/14 12:20 AM
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I was completely calm during this whole ordeal. What exactly is Beta vs Alpha behavior?
/r/seduction05/06/14 11:16 PM
1

Amazing.
/r/seduction05/06/14 03:25 PM
1

Mate I am in Sydney - feel free to drop me a line if you are as well!
/r/seduction05/06/14 03:03 PM
1

Lol that would have been a very different FR.
/r/seduction05/06/14 06:44 AM
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Appreciated bro. These things often aren't black and white but I wanted to assess openly whether or not my behavior was unsound.
/r/seduction05/06/14 06:39 AM
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How was she half way committed? Did you read anything I wrote? She just showed up for the movie. You are projecting on me what you are fixated on. You are still going on about $20 and have brought nothing new to our (mine and yours) discussion. I write about money once or twice in my entire wall of text. You sound like you are the one with issues with money mate.
/r/seduction05/06/14 06:36 AM
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I've shared my rationale, and you are entitled to yours. However yours is basically "it's just fucking $20 dude" and if that's all you can read from everything that I have shared, then clearly we aren't on the same page. No where do I say this I felt manly or applaudable about what I did, in fact I questioned it. It's not the amount, it about her behavior, and mine.
/r/seduction05/06/14 05:55 AM
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lol appreciate the enthusiasm bro.
/r/seduction05/06/14 02:43 AM
2

I think you make some good points but I generally don't think a movie is a great way to be building rapport when you know nothing about each other. I.e. I would be much more comfortable doing that with someone I already know and was interested in. I was thinking of saving that until later when we have drinks. We didn't. However, to turn it around. I didn't know that I was interested in her and her behavior (lateness, no reciprocation) essentially put me off.
/r/seduction05/06/14 02:41 AM
1

Yup. Welcome to Sydney! The average median salary is also higher though. 50 - 60k last I checked for graduates.
/r/seduction05/06/14 02:17 AM
1

That's a fantastic way to approach this.
/r/seduction05/06/14 01:53 AM
2

Great point. Framing and assertive is important. Absolutely agree with: 1) Let's get to know each other over activity being much better than 2) Please let me bribe you to spend time with me by me paying for whatever
/r/seduction05/06/14 01:51 AM
2

That's exactly why I did what I did. It's not that it went nowhere (it's not about scoring per se for me) but she didn't show any interest in getting to know me or common courtesy overall.
/r/seduction05/06/14 01:36 AM
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That would be hilarious. Imagine the morning after on her way out. "Oh I nearly forgot..."
/r/seduction05/06/14 12:50 AM
2

It's a time sink. 2 hours + and you have learnt nothing about each other. Note: this applies particularly to first dates where you don't know each other. If you already do and already have good chemistry a movie can be fantastic.
/r/seduction05/06/14 12:42 AM
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:(
/r/seduction05/06/14 12:37 AM
1

It was actually entertaining. A few good laughs, not as funny as TED. A little long, and a little heavy handed on the "The west really sucks and you are going to die"
/r/seduction05/06/14 12:19 AM
2

Exactly how I was thinking. I mean with paying for things, I prefer not to set a hard and fast rule. For me, it's nice to initiate and offer to pay and I think it works well to give her an opportunity to reciprocate.
/r/seduction05/06/14 12:17 AM
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After the interaction (or the lack of), I really have no intention of seeing her again.
/r/seduction05/06/14 12:13 AM
2

I've read this and PUAs love this line of phrasing but honestly it's just semantics. "Would you like to join me for a coffee", or even "I'm going to have a coffee at whatever place, you should join me" - it's still an INVITATION.
/r/seduction04/06/14 11:53 PM
1

I doubt it. I did text her after saying it was nice to meet her wished her a great trip. Honestly I wouldn't be interested in meeting up with her again.
/r/seduction04/06/14 11:46 PM
6

Mate it sounds like you are quoting a textbook here. Did you read my rationale of why I made certain decisions and actions?
/r/seduction04/06/14 11:18 PM
9

Lmao. This must seem so ridiculous and racist to someone who didn't get the meme.
/r/seduction04/06/14 11:04 PM
1

that's a fantastic approach - not necessarily about payment per se but about setting expectations.
/r/seduction04/06/14 05:52 PM
1

She looked slightly surprised and stopped, but it wasn't overt. lol are you Asian bro?
/r/seduction04/06/14 05:51 PM
1

Trust me, that's exactly how I felt. I didn't feel embarrassed per se.
/r/seduction04/06/14 05:45 PM
25

Appreciate the female POV. A couple others have said a similar thing. I was waiting to see where it would lead. Would we have drinks after the movie? Would she offer up "Oh how much was the movie btw can I pay you back?" (this is not uncommon). In agreement with how I should have gone about setting expectations.
/r/seduction04/06/14 05:36 PM
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ok. THIS is my favorite comment of the thread.
/r/seduction04/06/14 05:17 PM
2

lol no it was A million ways to die in the west.
/r/seduction04/06/14 05:12 PM
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lol. favourite comment of the thread.
/r/seduction04/06/14 04:46 PM
8

When did I say I was proud of saving $20? What does it say in the title? What did I say about how I felt about doing this? Why the would I care about my odds with a girl I never want to see again?
/r/seduction04/06/14 04:15 PM
2

Would love to hear female opinions on this.
/r/seduction04/06/14 04:08 PM
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I am being honest about my actions and opening up myself for critique and this is the reply from a supposed self-improvement coach?
/r/seduction04/06/14 04:06 PM
3

As in that's pricey or cheap? Everything is expensive here : )
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:59 PM
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Thanks man, you have articulated exactly what I was thinking but didn't express in the above post.
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:54 PM
5

Did you even read what I wrote Mr Josh Sway?
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:51 PM
9

Incredibly apt about my actions being jarring, and logistics.
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:29 PM
11

No mate I am open to critique as I said so no need to apologise. The area is a little grey. How I see it is: - I should not be expected to be pay for the movie since it was her suggestion. My offer was for drinks. - However I would be inclined to pay for the movie if I did have a good time - I would have no issues paying for drinks as mentioned - I felt like she was basically showing up just for the movie, and didn't invest any time in getting to know me and to me, so she didn't hold up her end …
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:28 PM
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We didn't even have a conversation. She basically rocked up when it was time for the movie, watched the movie, and then wanted to go home after.
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:08 PM
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I wanted to get a general read of whether what I did was as you said 'a dick move' - it may well have been so I am opening myself up for critique. To clarify, I asked her out for drinks, but the movie was her idea. I paid for my movie, she paid for hers (when I asked for it at the end).
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:04 PM
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I actually agree with you. Depends on the girl. Yes he got the number but telegraphed too much interest too quickly.
/r/seduction14/05/14 11:00 PM
1

Isn't that just embellishing the truth though?
/r/seduction13/05/14 10:48 PM
1

You problem right there - SHE has decided the entire night is just getting ice cream and going for a walk. Think of some interesting things to do. Could you plan something to do after the walk? Could you surprise her with where you guys are going for a walk - a nice look out someplace? Do a little planning, you'll be fine.
/r/seduction09/05/14 05:21 AM
1

Creepy because he is older?
/r/seduction07/05/14 10:34 PM
1

Glad you did! Deserve better mate.
/r/seduction05/05/14 03:28 PM
1

Did you ever call her out on this?
/r/seduction03/05/14 04:35 AM
2

Which specific part of South East Asia if you don't mind me asking?
/r/seduction25/03/14 02:41 AM
5

Hey. Thanks for the write up and some good stuff in here. I have no issues around being assertive around making solid plans but honestly I find it boring when I am planning everything. Anyone else feel the same?
/r/seduction21/01/14 06:58 AM
1

Who else promotes inner game in the current scene?
/r/seduction06/01/14 09:11 PM
2

I like David DeAngelo, and this is some of his earlier stuff - if you follow him you'll notice that later on, he focuses on deeper, character transformation rather than 'techniques', which is more or less what cocky comedy is. For me, the main takeaway from Cocky + Funny is that humor and confidence are highly attractive - but you can't fake those. However, starting off with this is not a bad way to switch things up, and to approach women with a different mindset - not unlike training wheels for…
/r/seduction06/01/14 07:29 AM
1

Completely on point. Sexual history has little to do with a person's character.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 10:52 PM
0

Good bit of fun but this is a terrible idea. You are lieing to get a girl interact with you professionally for 30mins. There are much better ways to practice.
/r/seduction26/10/13 12:32 PM
2

Yeah, look there's a message in there - Tony Robbins does a lot of this. A lot of hype and not much substance. Yes! I am going to get out there and destroy my comfort zone! 5 minutes later - wait, what do I do now? The message in itself isn't bad, but I think the ranting lost a bit of direction towards the end - I for one take pride in dressing well and having a well pressed suit. This is about pride and standards on how I present myself, and less to do with idling in my comfort zone. Why is he …
/r/seduction16/10/13 02:57 AM
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