justLernin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 08, 2023 Cheers	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/08/23 01:25 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 08, 2023 If you have some more specific criticism or advice, feel free	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/08/23 12:27 PM
-3	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 08, 2023 Got into a dumb fight with a coworker, over ego. Should've STFU and worked around him. Mentioned a negative trait of another coworker to my team, so they'd know how not to step on his toes. Should've trusted them to deal, or let them deal with it. Wasted attention and energy thinking about and chatting with a cute girl at work I intend not to get involved with. Haven't been lifting since I relocated and got injured almost a month ago. Did 25 pushups yesterday, 40 today. Summary: been too trustin…	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/08/23 04:48 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - March 07, 2023 Not married, don't lift yet, and don't know if I'm doing this right. Got out of a relationship recently: Learnt that I was weak Multiple times left issues alone or ignored then Made her feel insecure by being wishy-washy Made her insecure by dreading her (didn't know what I was doing exactly, just tried to seem cool and maybe to hurt her) Didn't adhere to my religious beliefs out of fear of not impressing her enough Spent a lot of time whatsapping and calling even though I believed it was bad fo…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/03/23 11:21 AM
1	Starting in the late teens, the parental age of both sexes positively correlates with de novo mutations in offspring, with paternal age providing a stronger correlation. So... ideally have kids as young as possible? Maybe encourage your kids to have kids really young, and help them raise them?	/r/BlackPillScience	13/03/23 02:54 PM
1	How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women? If some idiot wanted to sell his gold bar for 20$, why should I refuse? These women are adults, they want something, the men want something, so why not? These men don't feel paternalistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 12:03 PM
–	Is having a bad relationship with one of your parents or with your parents that much of a deal breaker? It's a massive red flag, but if you're hot then... "maybe it's just orange?" Life isn't fair, but you do the best with the hand you're dealt and you'll be fine. Red flags are just warnings, not deal-breakers imo. Having an issue with your parents means you didn't have a healthy relationship role model /experience forming you, which makes life harder. You can also learn unusual, positive things of what (not) to do as a parent or spouse from this situation, so you can end up with positives too. Ba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 11:47 AM
–	Are jealousy and insecurity more represented in men? Male, but RP says that women want relationships/commitment, men want sex. Commitment ending devalues the level of commitment he had for her - at the end of the day, the latest girl wins. The whole point of commitment is being committed, and clearly the last girl didn't really get that. The girl no longer getting commitment from her ex doesn't devalue the sex she "gave" him, if anything he got it for cheaper.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 11:30 AM
–	Question for both genders: what do you wish your own gender would stop doing or do more of? Man. Wish men wouldn't mess around with women they're not serious about. I kinda wish they would refuse to commit to women who have lived a promiscuous lifestyle, and make that clear. Basically make a wife/whore dichotomy. It would fix a lot of issues going forward (though it would make a lot of different issues)	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 10:42 AM
1	Are my standards too high or are many peoples standards too low? Is your preference something niche, or do you just want the top 1-2% of women as far as the mainstream standard of looks go? If the latter, you better be a top notch guy, cuz you only want the top 1-2% of girls - as far as everybody is concerned - and you only want a very specific personality set from that group. Reexamine what you really want out of life, unless you really are all that and are willing to be single till you find a girl who meets your criteria and you both want eachother. If you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 06:21 AM
1	Would you look down a woman who let her husband fuck other chicks the same way you look down on a cuckold? No. Hypothetically, if this was the norm, would you see these men as weak? I would not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 09:05 AM
1	Would you look down a woman who let her husband fuck other chicks the same way you look down on a cuckold? Notice the difference. Gangster treating her like property to be shared if he feels like it, vs the woman doing what she wants. Do you still think the same if there are two guys who have wives, and the women really don't want to sleep with the other guy, but the guys use each others girls when they're hanging out?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 08:43 AM
1	Would you look down a woman who let her husband fuck other chicks the same way you look down on a cuckold? Yeah. A guy could be a jerk that uses his wife and has his buddies use her too, cuz he doesn't care (and obviously takes other women if he wants to), and I'd be grossed out and see him as scum, but he wouldn't be weak in the same way	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 08:36 AM
1	Would you look down a woman who let her husband fuck other chicks the same way you look down on a cuckold? I can try to justify it logically, but that's my gut reaction. I just feel bad for guys like that, and respect them less	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 08:22 AM
1	Do you think the majority of women are significantly more open to experimenting sexually depending on a man’s perceived status/value? If a girl would do it for her ex but not for you... then it says a lot about you status as a man - in this girl's eyes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 10:38 PM
1	Would you look down a woman who let her husband fuck other chicks the same way you look down on a cuckold? No I can imagine a respectable household with multiple women and one man, or a man who philanders (though its not very virtuous). A women taking part in such a household isn't necessarily lacking in self-respect, and she isn't taking part in a fundamentally messed up relationship- just a non-modern one. A man whose wife is sleeping with other men is a loser (or a hedonist I suppose)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 10:23 PM
1	What did you open up about that caused the end of the relationship? My insecurity over her past. My insecurity wasn't terrible in the beginning - I thought I'd just get over it. And I mostly did, until she felt bad. When she'd feel bad she'd say things to really dig into that insecurity. Eventually I decided I needed out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 10:11 PM
2	Redpillers make women not want to date men It's bs. Men want to get laid, sure. They often want to have a girlfriend too. They want intimacy(at least to some degree), they want to be loved, they want their girl to be nice to them. If all those nice things seem unrealistic, because women are horrible to them - then they'll look at women as things to get sex from. If they met a girl they hit it off with, and she is nice to them (not just saying words, little gestures like making him some food or whatever), and they get appreciation for the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 09:32 PM
1	Women In Their 30's Aren't Lowering Their Standards We agree that there's a change in experience, the question is how much explanatory power that change has. I would expect people who start dating younger, who have more partners, to change their standards at much younger ages, modulated by how introspective (or something similar) they are. I would expect this (if it's the only major cause) to create a very high-variance distribution curve, where there's not a huge difference between 25-28/42-45 rates and 30-33 rates. That's not what it looks like…	/r/ExRedPill	21/07/22 06:05 AM
1	Does anyone actually talk about having sex on this Sub? Power is about sex, sex is about power, or something	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 05:15 PM
2	Women In Their 30's Aren't Lowering Their Standards Your last point is very interesting, and reading it has made my foray into this corner of the internet worthwhile. Thank you.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 05:13 PM
1	Women In Their 30's Aren't Lowering Their Standards There are biological changes, market changes, and changed amounts of experience (which you think causes the psychological standard change). Occam's Razor doesn't work like that. We have 3 identified existing (possible) factors that could plausibly have an effect (each one could plausibly explain it entirely, but hasn't been shown to explain it entirely), and you're privileging one of the three without explicit justification. There is actually reason to assume that it isn't only experience: the c…	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 05:11 PM
2	Women In Their 30's Aren't Lowering Their Standards On the one hand this should be true for anyone with a hint of introspection - we're supposed to learn from our experiences. On the other hand, if woman generally start with one set of standards and later move to another set (which is again common to most woman at that age), something is probably changing, not just wisdom. This might be a biological change, a human psychological effect of age, it might be market value change. But it isn't just wisdom, even if it feels like wisdom from the inside.…	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 04:06 PM
1	What do you guys think of sexual market value? Woman hit a 'wall' - it's called menopause. They look less attractive afterwards, and can't have children. Even beforehand, ten years of age generally doesn't do a girl's looks any favors, and looks is one of the main things guys seem to look for. Of course, these things only matter as much as the 'buyer' values them. For men who aren't looking to eventually have a family with her, if the guy is attracted, he's attracted.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 03:50 PM