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I'd like to see more quality posts like this and not these recent "field reports" where the fucker doesn't even f-close the girl.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 06:46 AM
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Get a vasectomy, a good lawyer, and strap a GoPro to your forehead. You'll be golden!
/r/askTRP24/08/17 10:31 PM
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Your body realizes it its reservoir of sperm isn't being used, which is an ability that would be non-existent unless there was a biological fail-safe that humans developed through millions of years of evolution. But if cave man Sam could simply decide to never ejaculate he would never reproduce and therefore it would be impossible to control with will power to this day. Now cave man Dave developed a slightly different genetic anomaly. His semen happened to contain a hormone that can pass into th…
/r/askTRP24/08/17 04:40 PM
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"Honestly I'm not sure, every time she brought friends over the lights would go out as soon as we were drunk."
/r/askTRP19/08/17 09:25 PM
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She sounds like a professional. Next time bring a girl over. Tell the chef girl that it's date night. I'd love to hear what happens
/r/askTRP19/08/17 09:09 PM
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They could be girls who've been alpha widowed; other dick just doesn't compare to Chad's. Or it's buyers remorse. The guy gave good dick, but cut communication. It's like a bandaid for their ego and perceived SMV.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 08:58 PM
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You're going to simply text her that you're breaking up with her and then you're going to delete her number before you get a response. Next you're going to block her on all social media. Well, unless you're a pussy. But you are a man, so you know that you will ruminate upon every single comment here because you know how valuable advice from experienced males is. While ruminating, you will stop communicating with her. Eventually, you will cry because you realize what must be done. But you are sti…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 02:02 AM
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To me, alpha means having confidence in who you are and everything that you done. If you are an introvert, many TRP concepts will have you questioning whether your actions are "right" or "wrong". Never allow this to happen. If you desire to be more social, simply plant that seed and watch it grow. Make your own rules in life. Personally I am on the extreme end of being an introvert, to the point where all social interaction that does not give me immediate gratification or profound knowledge is a…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 12:53 AM
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Covertly displaying signs of disapproval is what I'm implying by saying "control"
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:04 PM
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I've been that gay best friend before too, but she wanted to sleep with me all the time. This was my character- Cocky funny: +10, DGAF: +8, Amused mastery: +12, Abundance: +.5, Seduction +2, Sexual Intent Repression Due to Fear of Failure: +MAX. That led to me being an HB 9's first guy to ever sleep over, which was like my top acheivement of the game. Pro tip: Make sure you completed the Read The Fucking Side Bar quest because it adds to all your stats and allows you to play the Main Quests.Also…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 04:44 PM
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Based on the doubtful story, your girlfriend is probably looking for a comfort test from you which is fueled by not only your gf's feelings toward mom getting a new bf, but possibly from the lack of a stable father figure for a period of her life. (Tell me if I guessed right lol) Let us not forget the possibility that the bf IS a weirdo. Weirdo test: is their significantly odd BEHAVIOR from both women around him, and does this change when he is not around? Does he look you in the eye? Is his han…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:26 AM
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Do you not want to be with her anymore, or do you not want your girlfriend to flash people? If you choose the latter, simply control her alcohol intake when with her. But if I were a girl I'd fucking want to show people them. Like they probably hurt like a bitch but now I feel a sense of uniqueness that I want to show someone other than my bf. Personally I'd just jokingly say something about keeping her shirt on- IF the catalyst was solely alcohol and she has no prior history with flawnting her …
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:10 AM
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I have the same history, but never really hung out with guys till 11th grade. You must be perceived as having the greatest SMV of the group to be the alpha. I believe these are the 3 most influential factors to this. The hands-down most influential factor of this is the frequency of your sexual activity. Men can tell when another man fucks more women than they do. Social skills. Have the ability to control the conversation, agreeing and amplifying, and story telling are all integral to your stat…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 09:27 PM
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You are naturally alpha. I wont say that you are seeking validation like a beta on this post because I think no matter how alpha someone is, we still enjoy any compliment directed towards our manhood and enjoy completing competitive challeneges, in this case being alpha. You should make a post about the benefits of lifting, you have some good stories and anything that threatens the ego of newbies is welcomed with open arms. Especially by the higher ups.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 11:49 AM
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A lot of good answers in here. I'll word it like so: Any man who displays competitive behavior for a women who's interest is in the competitor, recognizes-either consciously or subconsciously- that their pursuit has failed. As in your situation, the subject has most often gone through this process numerous times. This is done because the alternative would be to except rejection, and realize their perceived low SMV which goes against their self-image. Recognizing their weakness, you give them exa…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 02:09 AM
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What do you mean by "I've made sure it won't happen again"? Also can you explain your current social dynamic? I've wondered how different it is in highschool compared to college. Or your age group compared to 20+. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 01:07 PM
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Personally, I never feel lonely. It could be because I'm a very introverted/lone wolf type of a guy, it could be the fact that I enjoy watching myself grow more than socializing, it could be that my job is extremely social, and/or it could be the fact that I DO have a rather large social group who still invites me out once or twice a month. I was going to suggest going out to meet some people, but it's rather difficult to bond with other men if you're only seeing them once a month, as most men d…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 11:54 AM
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If english isn't your first language, please let me know so I don't have to call you an unintelligible fuck. You unintelligible fuck. Learn how to write don't just throw every stray idea in your mind into a post. Anyways, read the side bar. Don't read PUA anything. Read The Rational Male. Lift. Validate her looks with your eyes, not your words. If a girl calls you ugly it's a shit test whether or not it's true. And those girls who's numbers you received? Hang out with your two least favorite on …
/r/askTRP24/07/17 11:55 AM
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Make a list of creative passions/things that are skillfull. Like drawing, painting, writing, making music, magic tricks, sports, YouTube etc. Now pick one thing. Now do that thing everyday for 2 weeks, with the goal being just to do it, regardless of how long you spend doing it. Then do that thing everyday for 2 more weeks but with the goal being to eventually get better at doing that thing. Then do that thing everyday for 2 more weeks but try to spend as much time as you can on it without missi…
/r/askTRP22/07/17 09:26 PM
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Practice talking from your chest instead of your mouth/throat. Also after ~10 days of semen retention I feel as if my voice gets lower. Just experiment
/r/askTRP20/07/17 12:21 PM
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Frequent sexual activity with multiple partners is proven to increase testosterone.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 05:30 PM
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Just keep spinning plates until you find a girl that you desire a relationship with. Once you are confident that uprgrading her to LTR would be advantageous, you do exactly that. But again, mindset is everything. For any beta bob in an LTR will tell you their relationship is benefiting them, when really this only arises because they're entire self-worth consists only of the satisfaction received from their loving sacrifices to their partner and the awkward hand jobs they get rewarded with.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 08:05 PM
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I believe the bond you form with an LTR turns every moment with this woman into a little ecstasy (hence the frequent discouragement of cohabitation) and a complete connection that makes all other human bonds pale in comparison. After realizing this, theories from TheRedPill have the new value of impeding this entire process. This can appear cynical based on how you view LTRs. Personally, I decided that many aspects of LTRs don't make logical sense. Why make your happiness dependent on someone wh…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 03:40 PM
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Find your passion. Some skillful activity that begins to occupy your thoughts and you long for the next opportunity to grow in. It takes effort, but you sure as hell won't be bored ever again. Do fun shit alone. Go to the movies, go for a hike, play video games. Work so hard that you feel you deserve a reward.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 02:21 PM
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Your writing ability and vocabulary are superb. I haven't had to look up a word in years and I needed to google about 4 in just this post. You should seriously consider plagiarizing popular posts simply to make them more attention-grabbing and legible. If you ceate a composite of important redpill ideals, spice it up with a little humor and attractiveness, and I'd pay money for it.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 10:26 PM
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My frame is visualizing and desiring sex while prentending we are kindergarteners playing in the sandbox. If you have a problem with the sexual aspect, make sure you aren't watching porn; also taking a break from masturbating works wonders in my experience.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 04:05 PM
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Greet each member, isolate a member and find something you have in common, become bros, find some girls (if they are relatively hot), run game on them, have a good time. I actually talk to any girls first just to get my social gears turning. They are easier to talk to and you can bring them into your frame very easily.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 01:25 PM
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That's fine too, you already have everything you need. You just need to realize it
/r/askTRP30/06/17 07:33 PM
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"Seek and you will find. Knock and the door will be opened." You have to work for it. Ask yourself- do I deserve happiness? If not then what changes could I make to bring me closer? Make a detailed list of every ideal quality you will have and every ideal circumstance you will be in 10 years from now. Now grow in all the areas that will lead to that future. Do these things for 5 minutes a day and then congratulate yourself for growing. Don't focus on happiness, focus on implementing more and mor…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 02:15 PM
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If you see this comment I'll be surprised. Okay the number one thing is does she know that you don't want her to be alone with a guy that isn't you? She doesn't have to "know better", it should be a rule of yours. Next, I'd like to say that I enjoy occasionally smoking weed. It feels great. I enjoy it most if I'm alone but when I first did it I would want whoever is with me to be chill, trustworthy, and experienced. Also I bet your GF has the same mindset. An added bonus is the fact he's probabl…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:41 PM
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You need something in your life that you focus on more than her and has stronger emotional connotations/associations. 1)Find a passion 2) Find another one 3)Get in a daily routine 4)Grow in all the areas that you know will lead you to happiness. 5) If you get in another LTR: sweet, just don't let it distract you.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:01 PM
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In my town goodwill is unorganized and lacks a good selection. Now Salvation Army on the other hand is organized by clothing type and color and sells designer shirts/jackets for $2-5. They also frequently have crazy sales.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 12:04 AM
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Nothing gets the white girls more wet then an alpha with basic bitch tendencies
/r/askTRP17/06/17 11:40 AM
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It absolutely does. If you have an Instagram full of pictures screaming high value and you post snapchat stories that feature you, high smv men, hot girls, and fun shit, people don't need to know who you are. They just assume you are high value. I have always thought that social media was a waste of time...and I still do. But being 19, everyone who is high value and around my age group is using social media like it's a 6th sense. I was just hamstering when I convinced myself that it was a waste …
/r/askTRP16/06/17 04:19 PM
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At around day 20 I feel as if: my desire to eat unhealthy food is practically gone, my social anxiety goes away completely, women like to stare at me and like to touch me more. But please, do not believe anything unless you have realized it first hand. You not only know of your experience, but you know that people on r/NoFap have experienced insane super powers! And you know that many RedPillers think it's all bullshit! Just be aware of how it affects you, whether abstaining or going 6 rounds a …
/r/askTRP12/06/17 07:54 PM
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Start journaling every day and intend to write clearly and powerfully. With practice you will notice yourself instinctively knowing how to write well without effort. You may wonder how this will help with speech, but do you realize that a majority of your thoughts are just words? When developing your writing ability, this skill will ingrain itself into your subconscious, and will not only relate to the formation of words on paper, but will also relate to every thought and idea you have which con…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 12:13 PM
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All you need to do is not mastubate or watch porn
/r/askTRP30/05/17 02:40 PM
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If you want to speed up your meditation progress, look up hemi-sync. Its like meditation on steroids and roadblocks turn into foot-high hurdles. CIA HEMI-SYNC
/r/askTRP25/05/17 01:32 AM
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I see frame as the "framework" of your consciousness, and all new stimuli are adapted to fit in that framework. A feminist views all men as misogynistic because her state of mind distorts logic. If you see your girl going out with friends, you should just see AWALT, but without any hints of anger or frustration. You don't give a shit because you know you have options. If she is not acting according to your frame of "how my sex partners should act" you next her. Or you bring her into your frame b…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 08:51 PM
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Remember that she would be binge watching gossip girl and eating Ben and jerry's all day if it wasn't for you. So I'd say that these are successes, not failure. Go get em tiger
/r/askTRP21/05/17 12:14 PM
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Think about/ practice these things at least 5 minutes a day: Your desire for sexual succes with women. Make it your goal to stop watching porn and masturbating. Forgive yourself for failure and thank yourself for small successes. Read Taoist secrets of love. Meditate on you desire sex, irrelevant of your ED. For the current situation: Think about the best possibility of this situation, then try to think about it more except give no thought to persons or things only feelings. Go over her house. F…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 02:29 AM
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Its beyond reason to disagree with my subjective reality
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 12:56 PM
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Let me start off by addressing the fact many people believe NoFap only works for those who have a porn addiction and a permanent hand imprint on their cock. I am an exception to this belief. (I started masturbating around 13, never really got into watching porn, and never masturbated more than 3 times a week) When I use NoFap I see these obvious effects around day 20: I lose all my social anxiety, become much more disciplined in areas that aren't NoFap (such as eating healthy), aquire extreme co…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 12:13 PM
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I didn't read that last part, if she's put more effort into you then vice versa, you're probably able to stop by for a quick nut whenever. Provided you gave her enough feelz. But it looks like you handled it exactly how chad would have. Maybe some more dread game at the party would have changed the sad handjob into her begging you to make her your slut... but idk I wasnt there. A1 job
/r/askTRP04/05/17 03:43 AM
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Dude you're playing it perfectly right now. Just try not to initiate contact, let her do that. If you have her on social media, post a picture with another (more attractive) girl. If fiancé is coming back soon, text her that you're in her area running an errand (or grabing coffee, etc.) and she's invited. If contact does happen again, make sure you realize that she has a fiancé waiting for her so she probably just wants to fuck-that means illicit more of a sexual/playful vibe and turn up the sed…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 03:37 AM
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I was in a similar situation, I had a feeling that everyone was looking at me/judging me and it went away from a combination of meditating on the fact that my thoughts were not real (as nothing can prove that X was judging me), realizing I was judged/bullied when I was young but that the difference from then to now is that it was truth then and now its just a feeling; I also smoked and "faced my fears" so to speak- I brought this subjective reality with me and turned up to max power. Once I came…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 07:24 PM
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My mom likes me and she doesn't shit test me. If she doesn't shit test you it could be because she isn't interested in knowing more about you or she isn't interested in testing your frame.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 04:21 PM
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There is no special thing to use on them. The fact you no longer get shit tests means you fucked up. More shit tests=more desire to fuck
/r/askTRP24/04/17 12:36 AM
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There could have been many factors in play here, but I would suggest thinking about how well you seduced her. Did you use frequent kino and rapport breaking before even kissing her? Did she seem like she really wanted to fuck you, but something else was in the way? You know of the saying about heating a frog on a pan right? Seduction is similar. Excite her emotions rapidly and gradually without her being consciously aware of it.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 11:55 PM
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You and OP are using two different definitions of redpill. The "red pill" is the truth and usually a painful one at that. If someone goes on r/theredpill and absorbs the sidebar straight into their subconscious, they only know the truth regarding the psychology involved with social perception, social interaction, female mating behavior, and various aspects of life satisfaction. So in those bodies of knowledge that individual would be redpill according to OP. But that definition is very vague. Yo…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:59 PM
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Read- Taoist secrets of love: cultivating make sexual energy Or just have more sex and keep practicing
/r/askTRP16/04/17 02:52 AM
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That they aren't special
/r/askTRP16/04/17 02:43 AM
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This is the funniest shit Ive seen on this sub 😂 well done
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:51 AM
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Lmao I feel like you look scary af and you just realized it 😂 Girls are always drooling over alphas from afar but one glance at them and their frames are shattered and they practically piss their pants. Try to appear like social and approachable even if it means looking beta. You cant break rapport without first giving her the comfort she needs.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 12:57 AM
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I feel like I can be of some help, as your mind sounds seems to work similar to mine. Ill start with my situation and then follow with some advice. Im diagnosed with ADHD, I feel no "desire", have no motivation, and dont have a list of "things I should do" in my mind. Im practicly oblivious to consequences/the future. Instinctively my brain's sole focus is instant gratification. I used to even have no desire for sex because it isn't something I can just decide to get whenever I want it. Everyone…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:46 PM
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Are you smiling at them
/r/askTRP08/04/17 10:41 PM
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I just saved this post bc of your comment. You have some knowledge my dude start making posts
/r/askTRP08/04/17 04:00 AM
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Damn this is exactly what I needed, thank you
/r/askTRP08/04/17 03:48 AM
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This works for me, but everyones brain works differently. Lay down (if you get sleepy sit up) Close your eyes. Imagine reality (your mind) is like a cloud. Feel the sensation of your breath in your nose. Imagine that sensation is like a knife cutting right through the cloud. Now try (but dont try too hard) to give up all effort and control. But whenever you notice your breath's sensation gently breath even deeper and imagine it cutting right through the cloud. The key is to balance eliminating c…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:23 AM
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Dress nice, approach, kino+comfort, break rapport, kiss early, plausible deniability, ignore LMR, fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:01 PM
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Lmao I dont think she believed me when I said she would be my first that day
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:54 AM
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name fits
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:53 AM
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Hahaha I love it, thanks
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:51 AM
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Its beyond stupid, like we've met twice who do you think you are😂
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:50 AM
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Shit thats good I'll remember it
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:47 AM
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Thank you, never thought of negging her back or even playfully disqualifing her her actions. I kept trying to change the topic but she just would ask again for my body count. So I left and havent spoken to her since. She tried to bribe me with her sexual history and I just said I dont care lol
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:45 AM
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Thank you, figured that bitches love mystery
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:39 AM
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anti-slut defense
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:29 AM
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Also, similar to your girl, I called her right before and said I want to tour of your house and maybe we can go to the park after and shes like "what does that depend on ;)". Then the thing she says when we start making out is "i guess we arent going to the park then huh" So I guess both our girls just baited our asses to the max and it fucking worked
/r/askTRP04/04/17 06:13 PM
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Hahaha I knew this girl was quality after her LMR the first time, but doing it a second time? Damnnnn. I shouldn't have to give any girl the comfort she wants until I get what I want, but I guess my efficiency mindset backfired in this case.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 06:08 PM
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The only difference between plating and masturbating is the fact your perceivable value can skyrocket, but if its not benefiting you socially than its pretty pointless. I feel what your saying though, a relationship can ultimately be more rewarding
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:58 PM
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Learn how to be fun, befriend a girl, try to act mostly beta but also slightly alpha. Tell girl to bring her friends and that we're going to X. Fuck one of the girls. Theyll know, then theyll ask you to hang. Profit
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:51 PM
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Ask her when shes free then schedule a date at the park (could be anything that is fun and cheap). Call her if its been 3 days without contact. Abundance mentality, you look like youre 20 so you can have 18 y/o's lined up at your bed (but youre a busy guy). Comfort her by talking to her like you're flirting in the sandbox. Talk with constant kino. Break the comfort often with pauses and eye contact (Im going to fuck the shit out of you eyes). Go for the kiss soon. If she resists, more comfort an…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:39 PM
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You should be stoic and self-sufficient. If you're dreaming of your ex just because its warm outside Id say you have some work to do before you get another gf. Build your own happiness
/r/askTRP03/04/17 08:52 PM
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Okay, that seems much more casual than my "you dont get to know". I'll use yours next time
/r/askTRP03/04/17 08:38 PM
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I thought shed fuck off when I responded "none today ;)" but she kept asking and I just responded saying "you dont get to know" every time. Like she went from resisting sex to resisting kissing (unless I answered the question) to just straight going cold. When she did that I just started planning the rest of my day out on my phone and ignoring her until I left like 10 minutes after. After hearing what you guys had to say I have to agree that she probably thought I was either hiding something or …
/r/askTRP03/04/17 08:32 PM
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Just actually know why you came there. OP suggested to say you are going to meet new people, but anything works. You could say anthing from "My girlfriend is on her period..." to "I was going to play WOW and eat cheetos all night but my internet was down". It all comes down to your frame to determine how they see you. All people subconsciously analyze each other when they first see you and interact with you. Whether they know it or not, both men and women look to see if you could benefit their p…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 02:27 AM
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From personal experience it takes ~20 days for your cycadian rhythm to adjust. Right now your body is behaving as if your sleep schedule hasnt changed but after thats over you'll be golden.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:54 PM
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He drove a fucking hour and half... that hands down justifies skipping the conference. Only betas should be the ones left with blue balls, not us. And OP I really appreciate story, especially the way of highlighting what's relevant to the readers. Fuck some more tinder babes so we can get more posts like this.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 07:41 PM
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Think about it and analyze until you are 100% confident in your decision. This is your life and doubt has no place in it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 11:27 PM
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Great content as well as writing and I'll definitely be putting this concept to use man, thanks
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 06:06 PM
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