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Start lifting and get jacked. You should be doing it already anyway.
/r/seduction13/11/15 02:40 PM
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Cool story but there is not much to learn from here. I think you missed the point of a FR. I dealt with that quickly and smoothly Details, motherfucker. FR are meant so other people can learn, not for you to brag.
/r/seduction22/08/15 08:52 AM
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Move her head towards you by gently grabbing her chin. Has worked almost every time for me
/r/seduction17/08/15 08:53 PM
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Hey, i appreciate your input. But this isn't about what women will think of my number, it's high enough that I dont worry about that. And again, it's probably higher than most guys's I know. It's also not something that's easy to control. The feeling of envy I mean. Maybe part of it is that it feels so unfair that it is that much easier for young girls to get laid. I'm not blaming them (or you) for anything, cause I'd do exactly the same. But often it feels ridiculously hard to seduce a woman. I…
/r/seduction12/08/15 05:29 AM
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Thanks for the advice, but I had dates with two women last weekend and dates with two more coming up, one of them being a fourth date... I'm doing fine on dates, but it usually takes me 3-4 dates until sex, assuming I don't reject them after date 1 (which I assume is often mutual). It still doesn't feel enough. I need to get off Tinder and pick up some bar sluts....
/r/seduction11/08/15 03:07 PM
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True. I'm on a five week dry spell right now, must be the longest since my second partner 18 months ago, so that's probably why.
/r/seduction11/08/15 02:39 PM
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Thanks for sharing, it's good to hear that.
/r/seduction11/08/15 12:51 PM
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This is really though for me. On an intellectual level, I get it. I'm 30 and had 10 or 11 sexual partners, which is probably a little above average. But it doesn't feel that way, maybe because I had my first partner at 24 and my second at 29. I'm trying to catch up, but I feel I missed out on being a horny 16 yo with a 16 yo gf who fuck every chance the get. And then I read something like the other thread in here where a 23 yo chick has had 60 partners and orgies or at least threesomes regularly…
/r/seduction11/08/15 11:00 AM
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Of course there is hope. But only if you stop with your self-limiting beliefs. Assume it doesn't matter. This doesn't guarantee you'll get her, but it may give you a chance. If you don't believe it could work, why should she?
/r/seduction03/08/15 09:03 AM
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You may be right, but now you're presenting a completely different argument. Let's just take the other guys argument number 6. If a woman has a high partner count, that may mean she's incapable of enjoying sex. Assuming that's a valid argument, how does the same not follow for a man with a high partner count?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 10:49 AM
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I agree with you. There are plenty of reasons in here which sound plausible and all, but for me, if I'm totally honest, it's mostly envy. During my teens I got zero action. Yet there are 19 year old girls who fucked dozens of men. I wanted to fuck dozens of chicks during my teens, but what did I get? Zero. I can't shake the feeling of having missed out and want to make up for it now that I'm 30. Girls in their teens and early 20s get all the power over men when it comes to sex, and only now that…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 07:57 AM
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But the same could be said about men with a high partner count, yet the stigma only affects women.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 07:50 AM
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A sex bot sounds interesting at first, but I don't think I'd ever buy one. The biggest reason I want to have sex with a women, besides the fact that it feels good, is that I want to be wanted. I want women to be crazy about me. Everybody can get a sex bot. But that's not the point. I could also get up right now and fuck a hooker within the hour because it's legal here and every town has a brothel. But I don't. It's either a women I seduced or jack off to porn.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 12:05 PM
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I agree with you, you have to want it really bad to achieve even a small amount of success when it comes to lifting. You have to shoot for the stars and give it your all to become significantly above average.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:24 AM
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Oh come on, it's just small talk. Working takes up a big percentage of my waking time. It obviously shapes who you are and it also tells you about what kind of person you are since you made that particular choice of profession. It gives you a lot to talk about and it's a normal and good question when getting to know somebody. It doesn't have to be about money.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:53 AM
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So this whole thread is just fantasy? This is pointless without hard evidence. I thought trp was all about reality, not what you would like reality to be.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 12:53 PM
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You obviously dont know what vegan means. Vegetarian is no problem, but you can't even have cheese on a pizza if you're vegan. That already rules out almost all restaurants. And yes, every time you cook you basically have to prepare two dishes. Unless you suddenly become a huge fan of tofu abd fake cheese and abstain from everything that contains milk or eggs. Can't even eat cake.
/r/seduction20/05/15 05:22 AM
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Not sure if you're actually not joking, but in case you are. As a regular non-vegan, think of all your favorite foods. Then see how many of those are vegan. I'd be surprised if even one were left.
/r/seduction19/05/15 06:24 PM
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Being vegan is a big deal, as is eating together when you're in a relationship. Unless you're willing to change your eating habits, you'll almost never be able to enjoy the same meal. While it's not impossible to make it work, it's fighting an uphill battle from the start.
/r/seduction19/05/15 06:02 PM
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The two of you are both so pathetic. Why do you feel the need to prove what kind of amazing stallion you are to some random internet stranger? Getting all worked up about who the fuck is prettier. Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 03:58 PM
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Here is an idea. Date several girls. When one flakes I actually catch myself thinking "Phew, finally some time for myself."
/r/seduction22/04/15 07:57 PM
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Well, then same thing could be said about OPs story. You can't say it's genuine when it fits your agenda and claim it's staged when it doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:30 PM
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You must be new here.
/r/seduction04/04/15 03:11 PM
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Do you really need this sub's advice if you banged 57 chicks? Clearly you know what you're doing.
/r/seduction28/03/15 04:26 PM
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You're definitely right that age plays a big role here. And yeah, it's not like virgins can't get laid. But you don't have to disclose that information, and I stand by my point that you should not do it, regardless of age.
/r/seduction31/01/15 03:49 PM
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Everyone is someone's first. People don't operate on logic, especially if it comes to romantic relations and sex. I'd agree that most chicks are turned off by that, and it's not like they can control what turns them on or off.
/r/seduction31/01/15 03:26 PM
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Yeah she may be turned off if you don't perform well, but she also may be turned off if you tell her, as evidenced by OP and countless other stories. At least in the former case you got some pussy and some experience. I would just say "It's been a while" and that you need a few times with a new girl to warm up if you perform badly. The last part is sometimes true for me and it's never been an issue.
/r/seduction31/01/15 03:24 PM
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Sometimes they do. I sent one an awesome pickup line, she completely ignored it and gave me her number. At first I also thought she was a bot, but then we texted and we traded nudes (too far away to bang).
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 02:42 PM
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Most women do. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/iq6nx/common_shit_tests_and_how_to_defuse_them/
/r/seduction10/01/15 12:18 PM
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How else am I going to make it clear that it wasn't a serious response? It's my version of saying "That's none of your business" and it worked.
/r/seduction10/01/15 12:03 PM
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Right. Being able to admit when you don't know shows strength. In my interview, the guy gave me the task to implement some mathematical problem in a programming language of my choice. I didn't immediately understand and asked for clarification. Even then I couldn't do it and said so, but I suggested an approach that could work for at least some cases. Turned out it was a trick question which they kept intentionally vague and the task would have been impossible in that time frame. They just wante…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 11:57 AM
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Thanks Captain Obvious, I got that. But the jumps appear to be instantaneous. It jumped by three girls in one instant. How the fuck am I supposed to know what the resolution is in that graph, genius? Looks like a week or so to me, but it's unclear, so I asked. Jeez, some people.
/r/seduction09/01/15 08:36 PM
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You make a good point. Also, cool chart. So you discovered PUA and immediately landed three chicks in a week or so?
/r/seduction09/01/15 05:24 PM
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I'm gonna have to disagree with you here. I know a guy who has slept with 100+ girls but it's really because he just knows how to work the game. That's the difference between a sufficient and a necessary property. Yes, just because you slept with a lot of women doesn't mean you can give good advice, but you can't give good advice unless you have slept with a lot of women.
/r/seduction09/01/15 11:34 AM
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He's obviously right, but I agree with you in the sense that you should have accomplished something in order to give advice. I'm not suggesting to lay down any hard rules (verification is impossible anyway), but just because someone got three numbers last weekend doesn't mean he's in a position to give advice. I'd rather be interested in how often he got laid in the last year.
/r/seduction09/01/15 11:32 AM
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You can't post advice just because you're subscribed here. If you aren't sleeping with at least several women, don't give advice in /r/seduction. Quoted for truth. The same thing happens for instance in /r/fitness. Dudes who can barely squat their body weight giving form critique. I know you want to be an expert and you want to help out newbies. Well, guess what, life isn't fair, not everybody is an expert. It's something you have to earn by putting a ton of hours in it. That's why I'm mostly lu…
/r/seduction09/01/15 11:17 AM
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The more I read about seduction, the more I feel that there are two schools of thought when it comes to PUA. One is Manson's school of thought, which can be aptly described by the quote in the title. The other is the old school, like it was brought to us by Neil Strauss. I wouldn't call people who subscribe to Manson's variant "Pick up artists". They are more like regular dudes looking for a date, a gf or just to get laid. For me, a pick up artist is someone who can basically pick up anybody. As…
/r/seduction07/01/15 09:26 AM
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Just touch her gluteus maximus in return.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 02:52 PM
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Yeah I'll give it a shot, pm sent
/r/seduction04/12/14 04:34 PM
1

So what are your credentials? Do you consider yourself an exceptional lover? Why?
/r/seduction04/12/14 04:08 PM
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It's funny. Just last week I had this chick I'm banging tell me, after she felt my callouses I got from lifting, how she likes how much of a man I am. Her ex had soft hands, would fold his towels neatly, carry her clothes when shopping and cook better than her. She hated all of that. She said she liked how I just dropped my towels on the floor and don't give shit, because it makes her feel competent at something (read: housework). I thought it was funny because I'm actually kind of neat when I'm…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:58 AM
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I'm no bodybuilder, but I'm pretty built. No one has ever said anything negative about it to my face. (As far as I know neither behind my back.) If anything, I've gotten compliments from both girls and guys. Sure, I sometimes get typical comments about me being useful for moving furniture or whatnot, but that's always in jest. In my opinion, when someone says "too much muscle is gross" they're thinking of pro-bodybuilders or juiced up dudes/girls who can look outright grotesque.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 02:26 PM
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Well, consider: if you're paying for the first or any date, she is fucking you because you gave her money. I never pay for her on the first date, and I still get sex. Even later on I'd expect her to take turns in paying for both. Girls typically aren't fucking you because you bought them two cocktails. You're doing something wrong if you're spending $50 on a chick before getting a kiss.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 12:58 PM
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I wouldn't take the "statements instead of questions" advice too seriously. What is important is that you know what you want. It's still okay to phrase that as a question. For example, say: "Wanna grab some drinks tomorrow evening? I can show you a cool bar" Then: "Cool, how does 9pm sound?" After all, you're both normal persons who have a schedule. You can be firm even when you ask a question. Don't say: "Hey, wanna go out sometime?", then "Oh I dunno, wherever you want", then "I'm free wheneve…
/r/seduction26/10/14 05:01 PM
1

Do you not work? Between a full time job, hitting the gym 3 times a week, going on 1-2 dates a week, I dont really get out more than once or twice a week.
/r/seduction22/10/14 06:55 AM
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Yeah, just today my date said "I don't like wearing mini skirts". I said "That's too bad. Well, I don't like wearing them either."
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:30 PM
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A bar date is cool. You can do two things: Escalate physically (kino) or verbally. First the physical part. While you walk, walk close to her and bump into her shoulder with your shoulder. When you sit down, try to sit on a corner or something. Get close and after a while, touch her leg with your leg, such that it almost feels coincidental. But don't pull away! If she doesn't pull away either, good. When you're being funny or when you're slightly teasing her, touch her shoulder or arm. Touch her…
/r/seduction11/10/14 03:52 PM
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Got on tinder and matched with 300 girls, chatted with some and have 20 numbers. They all seem interested in me and down for something, whether it be a date or more. I have no idea what to do... Are you kidding me? You can't be that ugly if you get 20 numbers, so stop worrying. As soon as you get the number, you say "You're pretty cool, let's get coffee/drinks together". I even say that before I get the number, because it's not actually the number I want, I want a date with her. Since you're une…
/r/seduction27/09/14 10:29 AM
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Looks like there is a girl in your arm in the picture. You shouldn't cut her out, shows that you have friends. If they're female, even better. Are you tall? Write your height in your profile. It's ridiculous how well that works, especially on tall chicks.
/r/seduction21/09/14 01:59 PM
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They look like shit and everybody can tell immediately.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:00 PM
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That's exactly the point. How I felt and how I actually behaved wasn't necessarily the same. It's a symptom of the nice guy syndrome.
/r/seduction07/08/14 09:46 AM
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Haha yeah I felt really good that night. One thing where I think I was just too nice was when she needed help moving. She still had some old furniture at our place, and she even jokingly said "You know I'm only sleeping with you so you help me move my stuff?" Of course, while forgetting about not being a nice guy, it went without saying for me that I spend half a sunday to help her move her shit. It actually did end shortly after that, so maybe she was only half joking, lol. Still a good deal fo…
/r/seduction07/08/14 06:05 AM
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Set up the next date on the first date. Ideally not at the very end of it.
/r/seduction02/08/14 10:44 PM
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Well, if I take myself as an indication, then it's true. I generally don't like being spoken to by strangers.
/r/seduction27/07/14 10:16 AM
1

I think this is supposed to go to /r/askseddit.
/r/seduction29/05/14 07:55 PM
2

I never claimed they were my own invention. The first one is stolen too.
/r/seduction28/05/14 05:10 AM
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I had success with "Does that mean we're together now?" or "You're pretty, I'd hold your hand even in public"
/r/seduction27/05/14 06:26 PM
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I guess that's why they tell you to just always assume attraction
/r/seduction24/05/14 09:53 AM
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Screw it. They may say one thing, but my experience tells me something else. I got in shape during my last LTR and now I'm in the dating market again. My ex also said "I don't like bulky guys, stop going to the gym" at some point. So glad I didn't listen to her. The last three times I went out with the intention of hooking up, I got approached by a girl every time. One just flirted with me, one asked for my number (we banged on the 2nd date), and the last one wanted me to fuck her right then and…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 09:25 AM
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Doesn't sound too bad, just keep doing that. You need more practice and experience. Sounds like you can dance, that's always good. Honestly, you're doing better than me. I'm still trying to get into the game. It's not that I'm not getting chicks, it's just that they always approach me, never the other way round. I know it sounds like bragging, but it's frustrating to me because I want to (or need to) be the one who picks the girls.
/r/seduction11/05/14 01:38 PM
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What's the point of a field report then? They aren't supposed to be bragging about the fact that you interacted with a girl last night.
/r/seduction08/05/14 07:05 PM
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Because it's all online for free
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:09 PM
1

Yeah, just put yourself in their shoes. If a girl who you're really not attracted to comes up to you and asks for your number, do you feel comfortable enough to say "Sorry, you're not my type so I don't want to give you my number" or something like that, or are you temtped to just give it to her and then never answer her call?
/r/seduction30/04/14 06:48 PM
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Okay that sounds not so bad
/r/seduction21/04/14 06:50 PM
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I conclude that you got 3 numbers out of 258 matches
/r/seduction21/04/14 06:30 PM
1

Exhibit A
/r/seduction21/04/14 09:11 AM
53

Ah, so you do text them
/r/seduction20/04/14 06:35 PM
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What do you do if they don't pick up and don't get back to you? How often do you try to call again?
/r/seduction20/04/14 06:11 PM
1

You're suggesting to wear cologne every day? Even if I just go to the office and have no plans for after? I like smelling nice, but I figured that's reserved for at least somewhat special occasions (i.e. when I go out at night).
/r/seduction02/04/14 08:21 PM
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He wasn't really old enough to be that big anyway. He was still getting bigger before he died.
/r/seduction23/02/14 10:31 AM
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They're called "nice guys" because they identify as nice guys, but very often they're not very nice at all. They think by being nice they're entitled to friendship/sex/respect/whatever.
/r/seduction14/01/14 10:09 PM
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He can't be the first one to try that, at least on girls in real life. Somebody should get someone else's statistics on this.
/r/seduction07/01/14 03:49 PM
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That's easy enough, but now I grabbed her hand and she isn't retreating in disgust, now what do I do? Spinning her around gets old after the second time.
/r/seduction02/01/14 06:55 PM
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