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Will do brother. Thank you. I am not picky here ;i am describing sexy zoomers in bikinis that couldn't find the nasdaq on a map. (just guessing, maybe they are talented investors)
/r/askTRP24/05/21 10:29 PM
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Thanks. I appreciate that. I'm not a pussy;just wondering if anyone had a better method to what i am proposing. It's also a beach near my place and i don't want to "eat where i shit" so i am a bit concerned about playing the same routine on girls that live a walking distance from me.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 10:04 PM
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Sounds good but a couple of caveats. There are no bars around. It's really just a beach on a river side. Also, i don't do social media. I'm not sure i could even lie about Instagram competently as i know nothing about it. I chose bumble because its more 'romantic'. I could easily throw in a story about mom asking me when Im going to settle down and get married.(not a lie at all), how could someone hate a guy that wants to make his mother happy?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 09:55 PM
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Sounds good. Thanks mate. I'm intentionally setting the bar low to begin with, i.e. Being able to approach a group of hot girls confidently and have a nice conversation. They are all zoomers here seemingly, 10 years my junior and clad in thong bikinis. (When did that even become a thing?) I don't do social media unfortunately, it's just not for me. I used to have it but I'm happier without it. I know how to defuse questions regarding my lack of social media in a positive manner though so it's no…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 09:49 PM
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Solid response. Thanks mate. I'll look into your suggestions.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:44 PM
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Solid contribution m8. Mining for Reddit karma?
/r/askTRP15/05/21 09:13 PM
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Hey man, so i downloaded the pdf of the book you recommended and it's pretty solid. My original post may suggest i am totally autistic but in reality i am not. Just low confidence to the point that i seem incongruent in what i say and what i do. How do you suggest bridging this gap? Like others have said being confident comes from knowing your value and worth which is something i struggle with women. I tend to think 'why wouldnt she just go on bumble/tinder and meet a cooler guy?'. Even when the…
/r/askTRP15/05/21 07:29 PM
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I don't have a favorite article like that. I've just spent years reading TRP, pick up books, books on how to game girls, etc. But at a certain point it gets to the point where you have to take action. It's like reading a book on reading a bike. The best way to really learn is to get out and risk getting hurt. I have so few interactions with women that i should just work on that first. I admit i do watch femdom porn and i really need to cut that out.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 05:04 PM
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I am pissed off at myself man. What i need is sustained effort over a period of time. Feeling rage and lifting weights like a maniac for 2 weeks is not the answer. Trust me i am upset with myself. A lot of people would have taken what i have been given in life and ran with it and built a phenomenonal life. I on the other hand have done the bare minimum for years and am paying the price for it
/r/askTRP15/05/21 04:31 PM
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I know what you are saying and you have a solid point. Build my life apart from women and then women will come as a consequence. I think this is true. It's also true outside of work, my house and my few friends i really have no life.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 04:28 PM
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This is good advice, journaling is something i have thought would benefit from me. Its inner work i need. I sometimes meet women who think i am a catch, they spoil me but there is something wrong even if they can't put their finger on it. It's self hatred, it's substance abuse, it's self abuse, it's nihilism, it's the lack of anything to look forward to in life, it's an inability to do the things i know i need for myself. Spinning plates would be great, sounds like a dream but I've never accompl…
/r/askTRP15/05/21 04:23 PM
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I totally understand why i should work out fren. It keeps me grounded, it let's me see progress in life, it gives me endorphins, makes me eat and sleep better. Makes me feel better about myself. I am not actually stupid, i just ignore the voice that tells me what is right and proper and do the opposite knowing it will fuck me over today, tomorrow and years from now
/r/askTRP15/05/21 04:16 PM
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Im saying when i was working out at my best i could do 5 sets of 5 reps of 205lb. I have a lot of knowledge about TRP but zero ability to actually apply what i read. This works in many ways in my life, full of knowledge but live a stupid life knowing how dumb i am being the entire time. Your TLDR is right, i know what i have to do, i just end up not doing it. As the years pass the pain of passivity becomes too much but some doors are closed forever.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 04:04 PM
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I have been working on it. The gyms are closed in my area due to covid. I bought a barbell, getting bumper plates and a power cage soon. Thanks, i know how much the lifting helps, if anything just for the confidence it gives me
/r/askTRP15/05/21 03:55 PM
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I am not physically strong. At my best, at 150lb, i could 5*5 of 205 for squat
/r/askTRP15/05/21 03:52 PM
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The silly thing is i have a lot of the trappings of a good life. I have a beautiful condo, i own land, i have savings /stocks, i have a career, i have multiple STEM degrees, i have nice clothes and good fashion sense. I have solid guy friends as well but they are increasingly dispersed over the country. I don't particularly like my job but it's not the kind of work people quit. My main problem is that i met maybe one woman a year. I get over invested because who knows when the next one will show…
/r/askTRP15/05/21 03:51 PM
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I don't get this answer. I mean you aren't wrong. I am liable to fall in love with any girl that gives me the time of the day. But this feels a lot like, "you're poor, get money"
/r/askTRP15/05/21 03:42 PM
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I don't know about the currency part. I have a net worth of 250k - 300k but exactly does one leverage this? Am i supposed to send the girl copies of investment accounts, the deeds to my house or land? I think money matters a lot less than a lot of people think
/r/askTRP15/05/21 02:18 PM
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Not going to try to justify anything to you. I am not a virgin, maybe you are unable to concieve a life outside of TRP but blue pill guys (which i was) can still get get girls too. Most normies do have relationships after all. I had a few LTRs, casual sex in between, etc. It's easier when you are younger because you have a ready made social circle ;parties, school /college, etc. Im at a stage where i have to actually work to meet men and women alike instead of them falling in your lap. Not going…
/r/askTRP15/05/21 02:16 PM
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Yeah that one pull was just pure confidence. Liquid courage.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 04:56 AM
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Do you mean cold approaching women walking out and about? I live in the suburbs but only a 15 minute drive from the heart of the city.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:09 PM
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Same here. In the past my leads were at work. Wfh eliminated that. I don't like the idea of dating or having sex with coworkers anyway
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:07 PM
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That they do. They work for many people. My mates all meet girlfriends on it and they are confused why it wouldn't work for me because from the outside at least it looks like i have it pretty good.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:11 PM
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I work from home. Never bus but i can start riding around our dilapidated public transport system i suppose.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:07 PM
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Yes it's a myth. Attractive women can remain attractive well in to their 30s, 40s and 50s. Lots of men, even young quality men will gladly fuck them and move on. Women at any age, even ugly ones, will always be able to get sex. I honestly think the west is going through a paradigm shift. Everything is changing very rapidly and even normies can sense it. Don't get blackpilled. There are cool women out there, i really mean it. I don't care if she is a couple of years older, not as hot as she once …
/r/askTRP24/04/21 05:03 AM
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Yeah. It feels like a long uphill struggle. I've been here before
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:25 PM
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What do I do on it though? I never really understood Instagram. I know its a way to showoff your life and all but I don't really want to post random pictures of my life online and I'm not really interested in seeing other peoples pictures either. Even if I did get it IG what kind of pictures should I post on it? So many people just seem to have pictures of food, cats, etc. I really don't get it
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 01:23 PM
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Any suggestions for somebody who doesn't have any social media?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 04:19 AM
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Would still look better with hair. Almost everyone does.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 06:49 PM
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I agree with you. Most people will see me like a man and I can play the role. But as a human being trying to find some meaning and purpose against a backdrop of existentialism I feel very small.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 02:51 PM
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I still feel like a manchild to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 09:48 PM
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Boron is often overlooked; its a mineral increases testosterone quite significantly. ""After 7 days of supplementation, the increase in free testosterone (28.3%) reached significance yet the SHBG decrease was not."" Reference Naghii MR, et al. Comparative effects of daily and weekly boron supplementation on plasma steroid hormones and proinflammatory cytokines. J Trace Elem Med Biol. (2011)
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 03:32 AM
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I appreciate your contribution.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 03:15 PM
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Too stupid to waste my time with a real response.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 03:12 PM
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I would agree with you. Ukraine is a pretty decent country and they have beautiful women. Being grateful will not only make you happier and more positive, it will attract those kinds of people to you as well which a nice, positive cycle. People are rarely enamored by those who are continually whining, even more so when its about trivial stuff.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 04:31 AM
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"Are you a troubled teen with no direction?" If you have even the slightest aptitude for it (enjoy/capable of solving logic and math problems) then learn computer science. No need to go pay a fortune for it. All you need is the computer you are currently reading this message on. Coursera offers free programming courses from elite universities for free. One of the most promising professions of our time is free to learn and practice. It opens so many doors and pays really well. It will be much eas…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 07:05 AM
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The thing is the that what you wrote is not what a nice guy is. Being fake, needy, desperate,doormat, pushing for LTR, etc is not nice. You can be nice without being pathetic. I knew a great Mormon guy once upon a time who was probably one of the nicest people I've ever met. He was observant (in a place where people mocked religious people, didn't have premarital sex (married now with kids),didn't drink,smoke, swear, gamble and taught Bible to younger kids. I promise you girls still wanted him a…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 06:06 AM
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"If you have some serious deformity, you need something, somewhere. Height, status, dark traits (being a criminal scumbag etc)" Man, this is sad. Being a criminal or a scumbag should not be an attractive trait.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 05:49 AM
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I am also on the shorter side but no where nearly as built as you. Heightism is real no doubt but dont let it get to your head too much. That diminished self-confidence is probably more detrimental than the height itself. I would still keep trying though because the more you try the more likely it is that it works out. Maybe the first few lays will open the floodgates. And even if you don't end up an 'alpha fucks' or whatever you can still get women. I have a low n count but I have had relations…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 05:37 AM
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I'm glad I study computer science. Knowing my education is valuable is immensely motivating
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 10:40 PM
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What if your lack of confidence stems from your lack of success with women?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:26 PM
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Thanks for your advice, I really appreciate it man. I am 25 years old. When I was younger (in high school, college, uni) i had a ton of friends, girlfriends, and even had threesomes. I partied a lot and had a great social life. I know that peoples social lives typically get worse as they get older but mine fell apart spectacularly. In a way its weird because now I am sober, fit, have money, a car and my own place whereas I had none of those things before when I did have a great social life. One …
/r/askTRP08/12/17 01:28 PM
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That probably would be a good confidence boost. I've ended up in a pretty bad place mentally so some positive feedback would be good.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 08:47 PM
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I've used my full quota of free swipes every day for months now. I've gotten a 3 matches but no one responded to my initial message after matching. The only thing Tindr made me realize was that I nowhere nearly attractive enough to get girls based on appearance.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:58 PM
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I am fit, have a good career, money, car, dress nicely and have a nice place. I just have no friends, no social life or any confidence in myself at all.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:48 PM
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I make myself cringe too. I am trying in some ways (working out, meditating, bettering myself) but I live an extremely isolated life so its not like anyone will notice or that my progress will inspire me to ask out that girl I've been hesitating about.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:45 PM
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I am actually very much in shape so not fat or skinny. I have often been told I am handsome or whatever. I am a bit short (5'8) and can definitely be shy
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:21 PM
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Tinder doesn't work for me ( I am brown)
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:13 PM
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I do see them everywhere. I work in a massive organization (thousands of employees) so there many beautiful women. But even then its a professional environment so I don't bother them. But at school, in stores,on the bus what should I do? Walk up to some woman I find attractive and ask her out? I guess its just that I imagine that would result in rejection 100% of the time. I'm just trying to figure all this stuff out. I have no friends anymore (male or female) so that makes it harder to meet oth…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:00 PM
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Yeah I really gotta stop making excuses and do this. I'm pretty busy but I can make time
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 02:37 PM
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I did not consume a drop of alcohol and plan on continuing for at least 6 months (alcohol has been a problem for me )
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 02:32 PM
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"Your prime years haven't even started. For men they begin at 30." That is very encouraging, thanks
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 02:31 PM
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But even when I do talk to women it doesn`t go anywhere. Its not like I see them outside of school or work. It just becomes a friendly acquittance if that even
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 02:02 PM
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I don't drink anymore but even when I went to bars with friends we would just end up all hanging out and talking about stuff. At no point did it lead to us meeting women
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 01:29 PM
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