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that doesn't sound like a monetary gain, it's survival mode You can use all of those things and not be in "survival mode". My husband's ex was far from in "survival mode" when we were paying her $4k/mo. She chose not to work, buy the kids thrift store clothes, etc while her and her unemployed, live-in boyfriend got to do whatever they liked. She spent as little of that money on the kids as possible. She wouldn't keep satellite or cable TV, internet, or anything of the sort. Not even game console…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 02:58 PM
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The truth is that it doesn't matter what statistics say a child should cost. What matters is what a shitty parent can get away with. A woman with children can get food stamps and all manner of state assistance, sure. But, there are also charities, food banks, thrift stores, toy drives at Christmas, etc. My niece's mom has 2 young boys under 6 and she feeds them junk food and ramen, basically the cheapest shit she can find. When you do that, feeding kids is cheap. What a child should cost if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 02:57 AM
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Teens and young adults are absolutely pressured to have sex, even if they know it's not good for them to be sexually active at that point in their lives. Consider the number of jokes that are made about people who don't have sex partners or are even still virgins by choice. We also have the indoctrination that people push on teenagers, such as the ideology that "teenagers are going to have sex, it's inevitable". In reality, it's not "inevitable" for teenagers to have sex. People want to act like…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 01:00 AM
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he wouldn't have had to give her all of it Even half to him would have been too much. Had she asked for something reasonable, like $3k/mo, he would've been fine with it. But the audacity of asking for ALL of it after she was the one that had already torn the family apart multiple times before, dragging the kids from one bum's house to the next, it not working out, then him taking her back? Nah, I don't blame him for shutting the whole business down. I wouldn't have given her half, either. He reb…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 12:49 AM
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specifically not in the lifestyle she's "become accustomed to". That's stupid beyond words. There should never be a profit model associated with divorcing men with money. This is what my husband's second ex-wife tried to do. He had gotten his business making 5 digits a month and she decided that her boyfriend was moving in and that he was moving out. So, he left. A couple of weeks later, he got served with papers. She wanted everything. As in, all of the business income. Not some of it, not half…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:15 PM
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Yeah, nobody just "get out of" child support. Maybe alimony, but definitely not child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 02:37 AM
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A virgin or low N count woman could easily cheat as much as the sluttiest girl in town. A woman that's had 50 sex partners is much more likely to cheat on you than someone who's had 3 or 4. That's just math, bro. But, your best indicator of whether they'll cheat on you is whether they've cheated on someone in the past. If they've done it once, there's a high likelihood they will do it again. In fact, I'll go further than that: if you hear them justify someone else cheating, there's a high likeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:33 PM
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If she is a girl that only had long term relationships, sure I'll wait! No biggie, especially if we have same hobbies and goals. That makes sense. I get a man being insulted by a chick dating them not putting out if they know for a fact she's slept with other men quick like that. If she's only had long term relationships, there's a good reason to wait, because she's looking for someone to spend a long time with, not just a quick fuck that will get her a place to stay for a few months while she l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:15 PM
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Because men who want a serious, long term relationship with a woman generally don't want to date someone who's likely to be a slut and will cheat on them. Having the attitude that a woman who won't fuck you is "fake" or "unattracted" to you is petty and shallow. A chick can be very physically attracted to you initially, think you're cute, smart, funny, etc, just like a man can be very physically attracted to a woman physically and those other things... until either the man or the woman reveals w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 02:56 PM
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It's a long story, the details of which are too long for me to get into here, but the climax to the whole thing was this: We did get full custody in 2013, but we never went to court with her for anything, not the divorce or the custody change. We never saw a courtroom. We didn't need to; she signed over full custody over to us the last time she lost her shit and her and her new man (whose house she was living in with the kids at the time) split up and it made her homeless in the process. When sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 02:08 AM
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That depends on who you're getting child support from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:47 PM
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When the support is collected by the state, I'd support putting it on a card. But, that only solves part of the problem, because then they can use their own paycheck for whatever while using child support to pay all the bills. The problem with cash is that it's flexible. It's supposed to be a supplement to her income so she can take care of her children at the same level she would have been able to had the relationship survived, but this is very often not what takes place. Money can be shuffled …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:47 PM
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Except "child support" is supposed to go to exactly that: providing for the kids, including food. Men don't get help paying that bill, even though that's exactly what the man's child support money is supposed to be helping pay for. When he can't pay, the kids get hurt. Is it really this hard to logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:32 PM
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Men get pissed when the mother takes the child support and spends it on herself and her new boyfriend, while the kids get food stamps, free lunches at school, no internet or TV in the house, and shitty thrift store clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:59 AM
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Women get food stamps, welfare, etc to make up for their end of the support and not having a job or just having an underpaid job or a part time job. Men don't get those subsidies when they don't have custody. When men don't have custody and become unemployed for whatever reason, they can go to jail. When women become unemployed and have children, the government says "WE'RE HERE TO HELP YOU UNFORTUNATE CITIZEN". Men who don't have custody don't get that help to pay their end of child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:57 AM
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Sure, but when the woman goes to collect child support if she's not married to him, the court will order him to pay for a paternity test OR state that he's the father. Believing that he's the father is one thing; him actually being the father may be a completely different case and he should be informed officially of whether that's true or false. It's "innocent until proven guilty". It shouldn't be on him to prove that he isn't the father; that burden of proof should be on the state, because of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:38 AM
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The man does the test which shows paternity and is granted paternal rights. Again, missing the second part of this: they can be used to disprove paternity in child support cases. If the state wants to collect child support from someone, it should be on them to prove that they have the right person before they do wage garnishments, suspend driver's licenses, etc. The mother's word should never be good enough to destroy someone else's life over through the legal system. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:08 AM
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I didn't "brush away" anything; I addressed it right here: Going through the birth process is not having to pay a dollar amount up front to be recognized as the mother of a child. You get the child and the recognition even if you never pay a dime of hospital bills. You obviously didn't get that. Most people do in fact pay for hospital/pre-natal/midwifery costs, which do include paying the salary of the nurse who signs the stat dec. Most people do not pay for that cost UP FRONT. That's my point. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 01:48 AM
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Childbirth is not nothing. You're like the third person I've seen online today that can't read. I will repeat this, since you're slow: I didn't say childbirth is nothing. I said the mother doesn't have to pay anything up front to be recognized as the mother of her child. Going through the birth process is not having to pay a dollar amount up front to be recognized as the mother of a child. You get the child and the recognition even if you never pay a dime of hospital bills. "Sweat equity" isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 09:57 PM
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All of this could have been avoided simply by paying for the test yourself Evidently you still don't know how to read. I already said I have the money to help her pay for it and I didn't say I wasn't going to help her pay for it. knew that it wasn't a good idea to have a child until that situation was cleared up She was on birth control, she had a well paying job at the time she got pregnant, had good health insurance, had a running vehicle, etc. Shit happens. Welcome to real fucking life. now s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 07:55 PM
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I didn't say I wasn't going to pay for it, asshole; in fact, I already pay a shitload of taxes to the federal government every year so in effect, I should already be paying for it through that. That was my point. I think that only people who actually pay taxes should have any say in what should be provided for free and I think legal paternity tests should be free because the state wastes money pursuing the wrong people and ruins the lives of the wrong people because they're given false informati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:25 PM
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I didn't say childbirth = nothing. I said that she's automatically legally noted as the child's mother when the child is born. It's part of the process of childbirth in a hospital. She's automatically recognized as the mother before she leaves the hospital with the baby and she doesn't have to pay anything up front to be recognized as such. That's the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:28 PM
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It's not automatic. It's automatic in the sense that the mother doesn't have to pay anything up front to prove that she is the mother of the child. She has her maternity assumed/proven as soon as she pops out the child. If the father isn't married to the mother, he has to pay up front to prove he's the father, usually $300-$400 to prove paternity, then file a lawsuit to get rights to the child if the mother contests it. Women get all of the initial rights when having a child and have the option …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:57 AM
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Get lost, you don't know how to type a coherent sentence, use punctuation, or capital letters properly. I've entertained you longer than I should have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 12:35 AM
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The father must sign for an adoption in most states The father must sign for an adoption in most states if the woman reveals who the father is in the first place and if someone suspects that they're the father, they have to prove paternity, which costs money that some people don't have, which is why I think paternity testing should be mandatory and provided by the state. She can always say "I don't know who the father is" when she's not in a married relationship, as well. A woman can become preg…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 12:15 AM
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Nope, but you're an incoherent troll. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 11:52 PM
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Exactly. The state will no longer be able to go after someone for child support based on the mother's word that "that's the guy". Too many lives ruined because of child support debts that simply shouldn't exist. No one should be legally responsible for a child that isn't biologically theirs unless they legally adopt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 08:27 PM
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Yes, because she's crazy. She's some kind of narcissist and has an obsession with controlling everyone around her, from her kids to her kids spouses/SO's to their exes and her grandkids. She literally has a copy of all of her kids social security numbers, their wives social security numbers, their kids social security numbers, and carries them with her in her wallet. My stepdaughter is the only one of the daughters-in-law that refused to give her hers or her son's. She and the rest of his crazy …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 08:25 PM
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why do paternity tests have to be "mandatory" because you guys don't want to pay for one? Because there are a lot of people who don't have people like me that can help them pay for it. I already explained why they should be mandatory when a child is born. Believe it or not, some people actually have trouble making all of their bills after a baby is born, forget having the money for a paternity test. Not everyone has relatives or friends with money to give out. who do you think pays for it when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 08:17 PM
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It's not a deal breaker for me at all. It's not a problem in my relationship, but if it was, that's what they make different sized dildos for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 06:04 PM
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Their divorce is in process; under LA law, you have to wait six months after separation to be able to file for the divorce to become "final". Because it wasn't final when the baby was born, it's legally his. so if they were to divorce your sister and her bf cant scrape up 400$ from ANYWHERE for a paternity test? AND they have children? It's not my sister, it's my stepdaughter. At least get the details of my story right before you try to comment on it. Yeah, she can "scrape up" the money for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 06:01 PM
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youre story is so confusing, she has a child by her NEW bf and was still married to the ex when it was conceived? is the ex trying to have rights to it? The story isn't confusing, I was clear on what I said. Under LA law, the child is his by default because they are still legally married. He doesn't have to file for custody; it's already his legally, whether he thinks he's the father or not. If you are married in the state of Louisiana, it doesn't matter if the baby was fathered by someone else;…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 04:53 PM
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lol, "just know it's better" is a shitty response to just about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 04:27 PM
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I doubt a court will accept a paternity test from a drug store or Amazon. Some of these kits specifically say that they're for personal use only and are not for legal purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:34 PM
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People that are too chatty and waste time get fired, so that's not an issue. Be adult enough to do the job or gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 04:47 AM
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I don't know how parental leave works in Europe, whether it's paid for directly by the employer and they're reimbursed by the state for it or if it's something the state pays for directly, so I can't comment on the system in place there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 02:39 AM
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I don't believe in paid maternity leave under the law. I believe they should be allowed unpaid time off by law and have their job secure for when they come back, especially if they've been employed there for over a year. Paid leave of any kind should be a perk that companies choose to give, not something mandated. It's not cheap; the maternity leave has to be paid, plus someone else has to be paid to take their place while they're gone. Employers can't afford to pay for everything that happens w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 02:31 AM
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The father should be able to walk away legally in all jurisdictions where abortion is legal and his paternity (or lack thereof) should be confirmed true or false by a paternity test that is mandatory and paid for by the state. No hiding who the father is because the woman is embarrassed, because she wants to "keep it a secret", because she wants her ex to think it's his so she can get child support, etc. My stepdaughter is in a situation right now in Louisiana where she was still legally married…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 01:54 AM
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The woman can absolve herself of any responsibility to the child through abortion, adoption, or simply abandoning the child at a "safe haven" location with no legal consequences whatsoever. The man has none of these options; to deny him the ability to walk away is extreme inequality under the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 01:53 AM
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As a woman who is also an employer, fuck this. I shouldn't be required to pay people for the time they're not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 01:43 AM
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