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Conversationjustafreewoman/r/seduction05/10/20 02:27 PM
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So true. I think if you didn't have a good long term relationship, you don't know how to have sex.
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:23 AM
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The securicurty system notifies: Toxic immature man alert, please stay away from him as much as possible for your own safety.
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:53 PM
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Maybe the fact that you don't look american is not the problem, many women get attracted by foreigners but probably there is something else. Do you have a really close girl friend that you could ask her to be brutally honest and judge your profile and give her opinion of how she thinks a woman would see you? That probably would help you alot to see if this is a pre conception or not. If you don't have someone to do that, text me in the chat, I promess I will be very honest.
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:08 PM
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So a decent guy who loves his girl and don't sound like a toxic guy sounds like a girl for other guys. I see that explains alot, that's why we love guys like him, rare treasures. One advice, if you partner is not talking about you like he is talking about his girl, something is really wrong in the relationship, I would never accept less that that.
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:48 PM
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I think it's funny someone gave you an downvote, just because you said you found a girl and that you are happy with your girl, incel guys are really affected by other people's happiness 😂😂😂😂. My experience with dating apps: I used for 1 day and a half, I had 12 matches so stopped scrolling to focus on the people I was talking to, in a week I new that I have found the right guy so I stopped talking to everybody else. It's been 5 years since and we are completly happy so yeah, dating apps can work…
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:15 PM
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What way off means? Sorry english is not my first language. I tried to say that it's not a test, people tend to complicate simple things, but normaly we don't talk about other guys and how we think they are attractive with a guy we like, we do it with friends, I think it's the same for men and women.
/r/seduction09/06/21 10:37 AM
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She wants to know what do you think about the guy, it's not a test, but normaly it is the same for men and women, what would it mean if you asked a girl about another woman?
/r/seduction09/06/21 01:10 AM
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Yes you should
/r/seduction30/01/21 11:45 AM
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" Women admire and are very attracted to a man who is so comfortable in his own skin that he is willing to be vulnerable" this is so true! I think this is the first time that I read something that is really true about women in this sub
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:16 PM
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Exactly! if you are an attractive girl you really get approached many times, but quantity doesen't mean anything, most of the time you have guys that are sending the same text to many girls to see if they can get laid no matter how, or we have to deal with freaks and sexual harrassment, that is the most common option. I wish reddit could allow to put images in the comment and I could take many prints to show to you.
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:51 AM
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If I was the truth I would just vote up and move on, but it's not. For you to say that dating it's that easy for women you must have had 0 contact with any woman in your life. We are not magic or magnetic, we won't sit and out of nowhere many perfect gentlemens will come to us and then we just need to pick one, if this was the case you wouldn't see many unhappy women talking about relationships and dates. Just try to remember when you was at school, you are a guy and you didn't felt attracted to…
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:14 AM
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For men : don't be this guy. It's one of the fast ways to make a woman think " probably a jerk". A guy who thinks that women have the world in their hands just because he is frustrated because he can't get a woman shows that he is at least naive.
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:23 PM
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Yeah I agree, and in my opinion, nothing turns me off more than a guy who seems uninterested, I'm not a masochist, I want a man that likes me and that shows that to me.
/r/seduction31/10/20 12:59 PM
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Nah, this is playing games. You should like someone and express your feeling everyday, she sould do the same because you deserve it. People should just love intensely, be honest and stop trying to be on top, it's not a competition, it should be a partnership, mutual, no one is better, no one likes the other more. People are so afraid of being hurted that they are not able to be vulnerable anymore, but you need to be to have a strong relarionship with someone you like.
/r/seduction31/10/20 12:56 PM
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I feel your pain sis.
/r/seduction26/10/20 10:39 PM
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I see, the point was to get laid. I see, but she don't need to pay your attention with something, i know it needs to be mutual, but you should gave your attention because you want to, because you like her not to get laid. Anyway, I hope you will find someone better
/r/seduction10/10/20 08:46 AM
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That's okey, but aren't you happy that you discovered that she is that way now that later? I mean, she ghosted you when you showed her interest, she would do the same later, no matter if you didn't showed it now. So do you regret of showing her that you care about her? What is the point of keeping a girl that do that?
/r/seduction08/10/20 08:41 PM
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Yeah, I agree with you, it's so more simple when he say it in a very clear and direct way.
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:25 PM
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I was about to say that another guy posted something very simillar another day but it's you lol. So the problem is that you are seeing it as a job that a specific gender should do, and there is no such thing, girls can apprroach, guys can too, both can chase each other, it's not the man job to provide money, to do the first move.... and things need to be mutual always. If I or you did the first move, if we had a nice date and out of nowhere you just vanish, I would move on and try to find a guy …
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:21 PM
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You are a man, you don't a have a "job" you can do whatever you want, you can aporoach a girl, you can be the one that is being taking to a dinner, you can play soccer or you can take care of the children, you can do whatever you want man. You respect more and admire a girl when she don't even seems to care enough about you to chase you it's a turn on to be treated badly... this is toxic, the type of thing that lead people to a psychologist or psychiatrist. I can understand that she tease you wh…
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:45 PM
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Well, probably the right girl for you if thinking the same way as you, eveeybody will keep just expecting the other one to do the first move, how she will "likes you for you" if you will not be genuin until there? But I understand, have a nice day, wish you the best and I hope that you will find a girl that will do the first move so.
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:19 PM
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Yeaah, this is exactly the problem, the exact same thing happens with us woman, when we start to act nice and to talk about real feeling we scare the men and they go away, most of the people are doing the toxic things and making people that don't to lose their hopes. But please don't quit, pleas follow what you were told and keep being a nice guy, what is the point of starting to act like them? Just to a have a horrible person that dosen't match with you by your side, thinking that it's what soc…
/r/seduction06/10/20 03:56 PM
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All it takes to change a mind it's a bunch of unpredictable factors.It's not about me exactly, but it's based on my perception of course, the post it's mine lol but it isen't useless because if a guy want a deep relationship, he won't find if he keep following toxic masculinity behaviours, it's the same for girls, we won't find while we are following our toxic female behaviours, so the post it's about breaking this cycle, and it's directionated to streight guys, so then the guy can find what he …
/r/seduction06/10/20 03:47 PM
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We really like what we like, we feel attracted to what are we are looking for. This are not tips of how to seduct a girl in general, it's how to attract someone for a relationship or to at least how to have a respectful and honest interaction. Some guys think that they need to be toxic because they need to conquer the girl " yeah you need to make her chase you man, to keep the tension"... very useful for making the girl chasing you for pride and ego, it's a manipulative way and this are the type…
/r/seduction06/10/20 03:20 PM
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I can understand what you say, but i think is that we need to remember than women and men are human , we change our mind and we adapt to the circunstances. We do know what we want and this is what we really want. If a girl say that she don't want hook up she is not looking for it, but then you met the guy, you can feel a connecting or just horny and it can happens, but was not looking for it. I didn't tried to talk about conquer, I tried to talk about finding someone special and about maintainin…
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:27 PM
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That's the thing, I'm not saying what guys should do, I'm talking about what I saw with my friends and what we discusses about it and what me and my female friends would like them to do it, because this is what we want. I'm not saying what guys should do, I am saying what we like from a female perspective. I know that everybody it's differente and I am not speaking for all women to let it very clear, but nothing better than a woman to say what we want. Durring this post many guys said that they …
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:06 PM
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No okey, I do rsspect your point, I just want to unerstand wich part is harmful for them because they are just really basic things about respecting the other person and being honest. Can we analyze together each part? So then you can say to me why they are harmfull, let's start with the 0.0 , what do you think about it? ( and when did I say that it's related with the fact that you are a woman? It doesen't matter, you were the one revieling your gender, for what we are discussing here until now y…
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:58 PM
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It isen't , i think that 30min it's 100% ok too, but when you notice that he always waits a certain amount of time to reply, always the same, it's a clear sign for gaming, it's very difficult to just be free exactly each 30 min for exemple, can you understand?
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:55 PM
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No, you don't to read everything, when I wrote the post I didn't think that someone would interpretate that way, that's why when the first person said something simillar, in the first comments, I did the edit 1. And about playing games I just commented about one of the tips that I gave, this was the mosf discussed until now, that why I chose this one. As I said, never said that you should follow the tips in a order, I never said that everybody need it or that it's guaratee what you want, when a …
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:52 PM
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I guess you didn't read the other comments, some people already talked about it, ai think because I put it on a list people are thinking that this are steps to follow, as I said in the edit 1 is just some personal tips about things that I notice with my friends, of both genders.As I talked with other guy when Isaid about texting I didn't say that you should text, I say that you shouldn't text just with the intention of marking the next date, without even tried to communicate more, the goal it's …
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:04 PM
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No, I think you understood it wrong, what I wanted to sag is that some guys ask their friend to go out, but thw don't let it clear that it's a date and it can be very bad, it can give him hopes becaude he thought that the girl said yes to go on a date, but she don't even think in the guy in a romantic way so she thinks tha it a friendly going out. This can hurt the guy and the girl, so it's better to not give space for this kind of thing. But why did you said about white tall guys? Why this is r…
/r/seduction06/10/20 12:08 PM
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Right, it's the same that saying " basic tip for your life, if you are polite, the chances that people will like you will increase" this is a very basic thing and it helps a lot, this is the level of the things that I tried to post. It may seems too logical, anyone could guess that, but many don't.
/r/seduction06/10/20 12:05 PM
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Read the edit 1 please
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:54 AM
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DId you read 0.0? And the rest of the topics too, if the girl is not attracted to you, if you do an indirect approach you will just make to get longer until she understand what you really want and reject you " ohh, sorry, I thought we was just friends..." the rejection it's not a problem, it's a way to cut this person out of your lists,now you are free to find someone else that won't reject you. I never said that you need to do a direct approach in a vold aprroach, you can be her friend first, b…
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:35 AM
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Did you read the edit 1?
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:28 AM
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The post it's exactly about it, being honest and vulnerable,to open your feeling and at the same time value yourself, none of this points are useless, probrably you didn't reD the post until the end, they are not 8 steps to conquer a girl, they are just 8 tips about things that I saw my friend( male and female) failing on it and they are very basic things, I did all of that in the past too, they are basic but you just learn with time.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:22 AM
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Poor little baby, momy didn't treated you right hun? Sorry for that
/r/seduction06/10/20 10:05 AM
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No, you probably already was in this situation. Do you know when you are trying to talk and you say " hi, how was your day?" And the other person say " good" and that's it? It's difficult to keep a conversation if just one person is trying. When I say to ask questions if the other person ask about your day, talk a little big more, with details and then ask something to the other person too, give them " material" to keep the conversation and them it will flow naturally.
/r/seduction06/10/20 10:01 AM
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I identify so much with your problem, man, it's difficult because every single rare time that she says "thank you for that" or opens herself a little bit you have hopes again, but it's a very hard work! Keep going just a little bit more to evaluate the situation better, and good luck for you guys, I hope she can talk with you soon.
/r/seduction06/10/20 03:32 AM
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No, what society ask for us is to always have good manner, beautiful with all the beauty cares that can take us days, to be a lady but at the same time we need to be sexy to keep the guy intrested on you, but not too sexy, otherwise you are a slut, but we need to be a slut in the badroom. we need to be inteligent and independent, but not too much or we are a arrogant. We can't do pretty much whatever you want to keep a guy intrested, try to be honest with a guy and say that you like and care abo…
/r/seduction06/10/20 03:26 AM
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Hum, this is complicated, if this are complicated topics for us woman it's as difficult for men to deal with that. I would say to you to take it easy with her and try to build an intimacy, to see if it helps her to feel more comfotable,maybe she is just shy, suspicious or insecure about this type of thing. If even tho she can't talk about it, it's a red flag, maybe she don't want this type of thing with you, or she don't even tend to think, have or like to have this type of connection with her p…
/r/seduction06/10/20 03:14 AM
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Well firts of all this view tha women have an irresistible attraction and we all have men in our hand it's so childish, I really think that it's an excuse for guys who can pick up girls. I can understand that we are approached more and that men need to deal more with rejection as I already said before, but try to think when you were at school in your university or job. Do you really think that all that girls can attract guys like this, did you feel attraction for all of them? We are not all perf…
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:59 AM
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I believe that it's a cycle, the girl do, than the guy will do in reaction to it, the guy will start doing it with other girl...we can't know who started, but if you don't like games, you can be the one breaking the cycle, why to keep doing it to be with a person that play games? As I said a game needs at least two people to work,but if you like it just have fun, you will find what you are looking form
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:18 AM
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It seems that I can't have a link of a specif post so just follow my converaation with zigzag, I posted 3 hours ago.
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:14 AM
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Actually I already said something about it here with other person some hous ago, let me see if I can find it for you
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:59 AM
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Now we have someone that can speak better than me about it, thanks girl
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:50 AM
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you said that seduction techniques only works on insecure woman, ao basically that just insecure woman are seduced, when did I said anything about it?
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:25 AM
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Thank you! ❤
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:06 AM
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True lol
/r/seduction06/10/20 12:13 AM
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When did I said that just insecure woman are seducted??
/r/seduction06/10/20 12:13 AM
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My nick it's just a free woman, I asked the girls to comment in the post too, and in many post I said that I am a woman,you said listen to not girls advices so I doubt that
/r/seduction05/10/20 11:52 PM
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The post it's exactly about it.... if I had a penis between my legs you would be saying" yeah maan"
/r/seduction05/10/20 11:15 PM
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So if it's basic and just people under 16 wouldn't know that in your on opinion, let the 15 year old guys think about it, let the guys that never had a date know about it, let the woman read about it and think too, for you and in your culture can be basic, but you can't assume that it's not necessary for other people. I don't need to download tinder for that , when I used to use it all the guys that I chose I had a match, I stoped using the app after two days because I wanted to focus on choosin…
/r/seduction05/10/20 10:54 PM
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Ah nah, every woman is insecure? Oh lord please help this male chauvinist to at least be inteligent enough to know that this is impossible, it's the same as saing that every man it's insecure.... I don't have patience to deal with that, where are all the people that is liking this post to help me to deal with this little boy.
/r/seduction05/10/20 10:26 PM
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Ah man, I think you are in a point where you don't even know why you are discussing anymore, you just felt ofended at some point and it's trying to defend yourself, I'm not here to attack you. when did I said that I have all figured it out, did you read the post? All of it, it's just very basic things, not something difficult to do, of course men a not idiots, I have been saying that both genders need to listen to each other the whole day and that's all, woman are not a puzzle, men are not a puz…
/r/seduction05/10/20 10:21 PM
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If she loves herself it won't be like this for too long, normally we tey and try, if it's not working, you just end the relationship.
/r/seduction05/10/20 10:06 PM
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That's why I said that many nice guys lost their hopes,I really really know that I am not even close to the majority in this point and probably many people will comment bulshit after that, but I never felt physically attracted to my ex boyfriends, they were my friends and then I just started to feel trully passionated, I just felt in love with them and my mom just used to say " I hope your children will look like you daughter, what a taste you have"lol. But I loved them intensely and the relatio…
/r/seduction05/10/20 10:02 PM
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But this is a very good thing! The post don't say that you need someone, the post is about respecting the other person and yourself, tips if you need them, always think about yourself too, that's why I said too that the girl need to make the guy feel special, everything need to be mutual and in balance.
/r/seduction05/10/20 09:26 PM
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❤
/r/seduction05/10/20 09:08 PM
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Could you just point the contradictions? I read it again and I tried to find what you were talking about but I couldn't find it, i am really asking you to show me, I'm a bit confuse with this argument.
/r/seduction05/10/20 09:06 PM
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I think it's fair to say that I am young, I do respect the wisdom of the elder people and what I learned with life is that she is a constant learning. But I don't think that my life experience can be ignored too, it has a value, and no one know better then me what I lived and I do believe that some old people had a very bad distorced point of view and rhey can be contested too.
/r/seduction05/10/20 08:56 PM
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I do belong here, there isen't a rule saying that woman can't post about relationships and tips for men here. And Yes I did, I have the right to vote and to judge here too, I'm not being a dating guru, I gave tips like friend would do to you, you are just an unpolite person and I do believe that the fact that I am a woman doesen't affect the credibility of my arguments, just because of my sex. I do believe that man and woman have to listen and to observe both genders to understand other people a…
/r/seduction05/10/20 08:51 PM
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I don't know if I understood the phrase " she will be more often then not change who she is to be with him", the english didn't make sense for be but woman don't know what they want under 40? Guys LEADING the relationship because he is the one with a solid base? Woman just copying the males taste for things? Oh God,no, this one I can't, plese someone take the discussion on this topic with him.Maybe later I can talk but this would be a big discussion. The only thing that I need to say it's I'm so…
/r/seduction05/10/20 08:41 PM
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Yeah you said, to play game it's to play with their feelings, you are getting in a point in your arguments that you want me to expose my own life, no thanks. But one think that I do agree if that woman have more people approaching then guys, yes we do, and this doesen't make our life easier, because the guys that dm us are talking to more 6, 7 girls, they don't even care about you most of the time, if you are slightly attractive to them, they send you a message they copy and paste, they don't ev…
/r/seduction05/10/20 08:15 PM
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To be honest, I have so many dead lines today, jesus I need to turn my phone off, but it's being a really great at least, thanks for asking, have a nice day.
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:49 PM
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I do agree with everything that you said, people are different and we feel attraction in different ways, but if someone what someone that it's hurting them, you need to agree with me that this is not a healthy behavior, and we shouldn't support it. I have a friends that just like the chasing part and they feel a certain type of pleasure being treated like shit, but this is not okey, they need help, this is the type of attraction that as we say in my country " freud can explain"
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:46 PM
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Nope, first of all, im not available, in second place, why would I talk with more than one guy? I'm not desperate, I can talk to someone and see if this go well, if it don't, thank you, next, and this is not even my current situation. I can assure that if I am thinking about an "unavailable guy", I'm not thinking good things about him. Woman are not like in a teenager movie, that the girl hurt her best male friend that likes her to be with a jerk, Im sure that this happens with both genders but …
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:41 PM
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I respect your opinion, even tho maybe the single guys are single because of that, as I said we are the ones that knows what we want, you can learn with experiments and observations of course , but it's easier and more accurate to ask us what we want, animals can't speak or explain, they just can show you by actions, but we don't need that, that's why men should listen women too, even durring a relationship, we have things to say and they are not being listened, have you ever hear a female frien…
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:26 PM
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I will watch in in some hours, thatnks for sharing it, but I do believe that text it's not the point, you just need to keep a good way to have a constant comunication that both would like. I just talked about text because some guys just text us at 11pm asking" heey what are you up to today?" And you know what he wants when he do that ... or sometimes he don't even seems to want to know us more.
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:01 PM
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So if this is the case you wouldn't be able to devide your experience and give advices to your male friends about girls too, and I'm sure you did it at least once in your life. Who would be the best person to say what I fish wants them the fish itself? The fishman just know how to fish because the fish showed to him what he likes.
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:57 PM
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None, I'm streight, but as a woman I know how it works for us, what we search in a man and I talk about my male friend about their experiences and their point of view too. I don't need to date a girl to know how we behave, as you don't need to date a man to know how a man normally behave with a woman.
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:54 PM
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I would agree with you if you were talking about other guys, if you are seeing it from a biological perspective you are not competing with the female, you are competing with other guys for her , to reproduce with her it's the final goal, she just act as a selective part. But we are not just about biological interaction, we are rational too and the female don't have all the power, the guys select too, the final goal in a relationship can be to not have children. So when you are in a relationship,…
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:28 PM
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Yes I am (21f)
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:59 PM
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Yeah I do, but the thing is, why would you need to show that you are better then them?? It's not a competition, that's exactly the type of behavior that am trying to desmotivate with this post, if you are trying to have a relationship, to show that you are a very nice person, it should be a partnership. If one part don't want to play, there is no game, so if you don't want to play these games, don't keep playing it, say goodbye and try to find a woman that don't want too and please don't say tha…
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:58 PM
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Sorry I posted something before but I read it wrong, my english it's not perfect lol. We really do want someone that can show us, but we need someone who can verbalize it too, both things are important and this are very basic tips, we could spend a lot of tyme discussing, case by case and share many advices, about many different topic that a relationship can have, we could talk about manners, hygiene, sexual life,comunitation, but I decided to give this specific ones because every day I see my f…
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:42 PM
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It depends on what you are thanking i guess, if she is saying " i think you are very handsome" to show that she likes you wouldn't be awkward to say thank you very much
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:21 PM
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This can be a very good idea, I am probably not from your country, so I don't know how your university works, I don't know if you guys will be at the same lecture, but even if you are not together or if she is from another course, ask her to go for a luch a coffe after that and talk about the lectures and about life, what a good way to say " I am really intrested on you" than to ask someone to go out on a monday in the afternoon lol, good luck! ( and please send me message in private or here tel…
/r/seduction05/10/20 03:37 PM
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Yes I am a female, but I do understand your point, you have your things to do, many guys just don't like to text( and this is something difficult for us to accept and to differentiate, we never know if he just don't like or if he doesen't like to text with us, even when he say with all the words" I don't like to text too much" we don't know if this is just an excuse). I don't know if this is what you are searching for but we don't text every day just with our friends, normally the person that yo…
/r/seduction05/10/20 03:29 PM
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Are you missing her now? Or if you want to just talk with her to know her better, do it today, even if you don't feel that you would have too many things to talk with her maybe the conversation can be good in a point that you can invite her to go out this next saturday. If you wait until thursday, friday, maybe she will already have plans. I would help you to think in a inteligent way to start the conversation in a way that it can flows naturally, but I have no idea right now lol try to think ab…
/r/seduction05/10/20 03:18 PM
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Well she said that the other guy just text her at night for sex and she doesen't like it, you just make out with her once then asked her to go to your room at night..... you should have invited her to a date, I wouldnt go to a " almost stranger" guy room that I met in a party, to start the conversation it wouldn't even be safe for girl to do that. I think she didn't understood your intentions( or maybe that was your intention, not so sure) The red flag for me would be the fact that she talked wi…
/r/seduction05/10/20 02:52 PM
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Try to understand first that our partners are our friends too, just have a normal conversation like you would have with your friend and try to find things that both of you could talk, it can be very difficult to keep a conversation with a girl if you are talking about soccer or videogames and she don't know anything about it , try to find a good topic, something in common and just treat her like a friend and let it clear that you like her more that just a friend add some flirting, or just a comm…
/r/seduction05/10/20 02:44 PM
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Man, this is a very good thing, don't you feel flattered? So, the other person would feel the same way if you let them know that you feel the same( if this is the case, always be honest ok?) , so the only thing you need to do it's to value them, say thank you and say what you feel for them too.
/r/seduction05/10/20 02:38 PM
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Noooo, it's the best signal EVER, be very happy and proud of yourself, she is not seing you as just a random guy, she thinks you are special and it's attracted to you. The only case that it could be bad it would be if she was a manipulative bitch, but it's not so common, so just be happy man, very happy
/r/seduction05/10/20 02:35 PM
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The only situation that I can see this working is when you just want a hook up, and not a real relationship with the girl, texting, talking, helps to build intimacy.
/r/seduction05/10/20 01:54 PM
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Nah, if the girl it's not the type that likes to play games, if she is mature enough, you will look like a dumb tenager and it will turn her off or make her a little angry. I respect all the good guys that replies fast and when they can, in the most natural way, you won't look needy if you reply fast, the way that you act + what you say can tell if you are needy. But why people think that being unavailable, distant and busy it's attractive to woman?? That is something very wrong there, you will …
/r/seduction05/10/20 01:47 PM
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Talk to her, we don't want all this mystery all the time, the tension of the first time won't last forever. Maybe she don't want to play games and don't have patience for that, she just want a real connection and respect, it's tiring to be a ghost hunter. Nothing can turn off a woman more than a guy who doesen't show that he is intrested on her. We understand when guys are busy, we have a busy life too, but can you see the difference when he just desapear and she need to ask if he is still there…
/r/seduction05/10/20 01:34 PM
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Just text and talk like you would do if you were in person with her, I don't know guys think that texting can turn the girl off, I never met a girl who said that to me before, all my friends like to talk with their guys, the only problem it's to maintain the conversation intresting, some guys tend to flirt too much, and if the girl wants a real connection she don't want a "😏😌" all the time, we just want to know how was your day and to see if you care about us too. If the girl it's not responding…
/r/seduction05/10/20 01:27 PM
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