justanotherfelo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	If your wife cheated and no one understands the pain — read this	Dealing with the Ex / STBX	justanotherfelo	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/25 11:19 AM
6	Freedom Made Easy	Rant	justanotherfelo	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/25 08:23 AM
4	I had no money, no therapist, no peace, this is how I survived it	Dealing with the Ex / STBX	justanotherfelo	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/25 12:27 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Freedom Made Easy Just spend two weeks giving daily TED Talks on why jobs are for NPCs -> she’ll be gone before the third lecture.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/25 02:47 PM
2	Freedom Made Easy Man, you’re fighting her in her cage -> that’s where she’s strongest. There’s another way out, but it’s not PG-13 and I can’t drop it here (group rules). DM me if you want the Freedom Made Easy version.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/25 09:38 AM
1	If your wife cheated and no one understands the pain — read this amen for that, they’re not breaking us, they’re contaminating themselves from the inside out	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/25 11:13 PM
1	If your wife cheated and no one understands the pain — read this bro she was just using you for attention not love just supply hope you got no contact with her now	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/25 11:09 PM
1	If your wife cheated and no one understands the pain — read this exactly. that’s how they avoid the pain of blaming themselves. they flip the story so they can stay the victim. it’s survival for them but hell for us.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/25 11:02 PM
1	If your wife cheated and no one understands the pain — read this hey man, i get you. for me it wasn’t even the cheating. it was how she made me feel like i mattered while slowly erasing me. the book is on my profile. it’s free the next few days. if you want just dm me and i’ll send you a pdf copy.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/25 10:58 PM
3	If your wife cheated and no one understands the pain — read this yeah bro, that shit hits different, nothing else even comes close.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/25 05:21 PM
2	If your wife cheated and no one understands the pain — read this yeah 100%. but most guys don’t get to that place. they still carry the sting like it’s their fault. she cheated, but they feel contaminated. like it carved something inside. clear conscience is one thing, but when the sting is gone too, that’s when you really start breathing again.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/25 05:18 PM
3	How do you get your confidence back? Dude, the whole idea of validation is still sitting on your back and running your life. You’re either free or you’re not, and if you’re becoming free, then stop looking to anyone to validate you. Not your girl, not your boss, not your family, and definitely not your ex-wife. The entire idea of “performing” ,in bed, in life, whatever - is a lie. Get it out of your system. You’re not here to perform. You’re here to live from truth. Also, be careful. Some therapists, especially ones who don’t under…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/06/25 07:57 PM
5	The anxiety is really getting bad Dude, I was reading your post and had tears in my eyes, but not because I’m sad. Because I’m happy I survived this shit. Only a year ago, I was speaking exactly like you. When everybody kept telling me “time will heal,” “it’s only in your head,” I didn’t know what the hell they were talking about. I was down the drain, in a living hell. My first assignment was to fix myself. The hell with money. The hell with women. And the kids? I only knew that I needed to stay alive for them. So it’s still my…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/25 09:55 AM