justaregularguyearth Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	The best situations happen when they choose you	Discussion	justaregularguyearth	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 06:37 AM
7	What even is the purpose of telling someone they’re “kinda cute”	Discussion	justaregularguyearth	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 01:30 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why do women get surprised/offended when men want sex? Confusing as ever	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/26 01:49 AM
0	Tall 31-year-old Black guy in Toronto — fear of approaching women has contributed to a crippling addiction to escorts and it's destroying my life and confidence Your problem isn’t you. It’s Toronto. Get out of there. Black men have way more success in major US cities like NY, Miami, LA. Canada doesn’t have a large enough black population. You have to go where you are celebrated. Canadian girls want white men.	/r/seduction	03/08/26 08:05 PM
1	When I look at these dating coaches I see typical white or black guys Have you ever been to any major city like LA, NY, etc? Lol	/r/seduction	02/08/26 03:46 AM
2	How do I not fumble this 10/10 You need to stop being a nice polite gentleman and start being a man around her. If you feel the vibe go in for a kiss or get sexually playful with her. Girls get the ick when you are too nice and don’t do anything. I’m saying this though not in a forceful way but when the timing is right, obviously don’t force it on her or be a creep but you have to escalate sooner than later or it’s over.	/r/seduction	01/08/26 12:53 AM
2	When I look at these dating coaches I see typical white or black guys You have a good point. White guys are universally accepted by women so they don’t even need game or anything and automatically pull hot asian girls always by default even more. Black guys automatically get latin women who are thick just by being black or white women that like black guys.	/r/seduction	31/07/26 04:35 AM
–	Women handle rejection worse then men Well yeah because they rarely ever get rejected	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 07:30 PM
1	How to make women feel the "spark" for you? Nothing matters until she has attraction towards you. If shes attracted to you already, everything falls easily into place.	/r/seduction	23/07/26 10:44 PM
1	Do girls care if you have tons of followers? No, they only care if you are attractive.	/r/seduction	21/07/26 06:43 AM
–	Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating market We have to be completely honest here. If he was white he would have had tons of luck. Women lie online and say race doesn’t matter but it immensely does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 01:14 AM
25	What are we even doing here anymore? I blame social media and dating apps. It brought out the worst in both men and women and here we are.	/r/seduction	02/07/26 12:25 AM
3	More men struggle with women because more men are boring But if you’re extremely handsome and their phenotype does it even matter at the end of the day? Girls will bend over backwards to be around men they find attractive no matter how boring they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 05:10 AM
2	Bumble - what are your experiences with the algorithm after purchasing Premium? They messed it up. When I do travel mode it starts lagging and freezing and I can barely even check profiles or match with people just because of the screen loading. Also, matches you swipe left on keep re-appearing which is very annoying.	/r/seduction	16/03/26 10:51 PM
63	The most important alpha male attribute women are looking for None of this matters at all if you aren’t attractive to her. Absolutely none.	/r/seduction	02/02/26 11:14 PM
2	Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed. Because of the sheer number of them in the population size	/r/seduction	01/02/26 09:32 PM
-3	Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed. It most likely because you aren’t white brother. White men have it on easy mode while other ethnicities have to work 10x as hard.	/r/seduction	31/01/26 11:05 PM
3	I noticed a frightening pattern after archiving my conversations. Asian men, what are your thoughts? No way! Lol every single asian woman I see in the wild is with a white guy. Or asian. Never anything else I swear.	/r/seduction	31/01/26 01:32 AM
3	I noticed a frightening pattern after archiving my conversations. Asian men, what are your thoughts? Im of mixed race descent and can’t get any Asian women. They seem to only date white or asian. What can I do in that situation? Race just isn’t fair.	/r/seduction	31/01/26 01:00 AM
0	Date was going very well until I said one sentence You did nothing wrong brother she just has a weird trigger. Every girl has some weird trigger from their past and its not your fault. Keep doing you man.	/r/seduction	28/01/26 03:24 AM
2	Asking women out is a brutal process 7/10 isn’t even enough anymore these days	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 02:47 AM
1	How does being less fixated on dating/women and focusing on your own grind make you more attractive towards women? Ok I get this but if you never even have the chance to interact with women	/r/seduction	12/01/26 08:32 AM
1	How does being less fixated on dating/women and focusing on your own grind make you more attractive towards women? But what if being on your purpose is lonely, isolating and anti-social? How does that work?	/r/seduction	11/01/26 12:36 PM
2	I analyzed 100+ interactions and found a psychological pattern that creates instant attraction. Here is the breakdown. None of this matters if a girl isn’t attracted to you	/r/seduction	10/01/26 01:52 PM
8	Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops. It also could be that a vast majority of the men just can’t afford it often. Maybe if they could it would have more of an effect on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 07:59 AM
16	Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validation Right, I’m really trying to understand the DJ phenomenon. You could be so much more successful and make more money in other careers yet the girls go wild if you just DJ.	/r/seduction	30/11/25 01:19 AM
131	Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validation Makes sense when you think about it. Tons of beautiful women are always talking about how they’re going to see some DJ this weekend. The DJ has such a high perceived level of ‘status’ and social validation that they all flock to them. Now, if you can achieve this on a smaller scale you probably will get a ton of interest in women really in any field.	/r/seduction	29/11/25 09:34 PM
7	These 4 things determine 80-90% of attraction Literally only 1 & 2 matter	/r/seduction	23/11/25 11:02 AM
–	Too many men make normal bad experiences their whole personality, and allows it to stunt their growth. So many men are completely invisible to women already, and to top it off women on social media talking shit about men so much. I think that may also play a factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 12:43 AM
2	Women are more attracted to social status than social skills. That’s not true. What about chubby unattractive comedians on Tiktok & instagram that have millions of followers and tons of charisma? Do you really think their status really pulls women even though they aren’t good looking at all and are completely out of shape?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 12:26 AM
3	How can you get really hot girls? No I’m not indian if that’s what you were thinking, just was saying in general though for some it still can be an issue for women depending on their type	/r/seduction	12/11/25 09:33 AM
5	How can you get really hot girls? I want to play devils advocate here but does status really matter if you are a balding, fat old ugly man of an undesirable race? I think even with that girls still have their underlying preference that they won’t budge on.	/r/seduction	12/11/25 08:31 AM
4	How can you get really hot girls? You have to be a handsome guy to them. Thats literally it. Theres no forcing it, if they are attracted to you then you will know.	/r/seduction	12/11/25 03:30 AM
7	If she’s not showing enthusiasm…NEXT But what if no woman is ever obsessed with you then what?	/r/seduction	11/11/25 08:39 AM
1	I don't think race that matters when it comes to seduction It absolutely matters, and big time. Girls will literally not talk to you if you aren’t a particular race.	/r/seduction	22/10/25 01:22 AM
14	10 tips to get women from women None of this matters if the woman is highly attracted to you	/r/seduction	11/06/25 06:34 AM
11	What I've learnt from fking attractive women Thank you for this post brother, I’ve sometimes lost myself in the pursuit of a gorgeous woman and or have been destroyed because they don’t like me or even acknowledge my existence. Needed to read this post today.	/r/seduction	31/05/25 10:47 PM
1	I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My Game Honestly the last one is the only one that matters. You said you’re an asian guy, so by default you have access to beautiful asian women. Girls will not tell you the complete truth. Looks and race matter by far. That is pretty much THE #1 deciding factor in how your success rate will be. Height being the second part but not as big of a factor as race. For instance, you won’t even begin to have a chance if the race you are isn’t on their attraction radar.	/r/seduction	05/02/25 11:21 PM
2	Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules? If you are an attractive guy none of the rules apply	/r/seduction	25/07/22 03:49 AM
2	Q4M How would you prefer a woman to reject you? Agreed. It’s much better than completely ignoring us and giving us a look like we’re scum to the earth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/21 09:06 AM
1	What are traits that make a man sexually attractive to women? It’s kind of crazy how so many answers are dancing around the truth: 1) be specific race preference 2) be tall 3) be attractive. Anything else (confidence, grooming, etc) comes after usually those have been scanned. Notice how so many answers all say “grooming”, but don’t take in account the balding men or men that can’t grow full beards, etc. Being good looking & the race of a woman’s preference is #1 above all UNLESS there has been some type of relationship built through activities/hobbies for…	/r/seduction	14/10/21 02:12 PM
0	[deleted by user] I agree. You are at the mercy of the dating apps algorithm, it’s not even fair. They boost you so that you pay for the membership and then they stop the boost until you actually buy one. Dating apps would be better if they didn’t suppress profiles based on “attractiveness” because ultimately it’s in the eye of the beholder, but if the beholder can’t even see your profile what’s the point?	/r/seduction	13/10/21 05:17 AM
3	The rise in male sexlessness is cause by a combination of factors I think more than ever now, for the average male it is getting increasingly harder (at least in bigger cities) to get to the point of having sex with a woman. From mine and a few friends experience here in a big city, women have had men go through much more to even get even anything physical going on. I’m talking tons of phone calls, facetiming, dinner dates, multiple bar nights out, activities etc. While us men enjoy all of these things, sometimes going through all that over and over again with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/21 08:27 AM
6	The best situations happen when they choose you This. I always felt the ones that had a very low interest in me, and I’ve tried to take out just never work anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 06:50 AM