justayounglady Archive

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0	Should you ask for consent before having sex? Does that turn chicks off? Yuck... ok, OP Don’t listen to this. PLEASE ask for consent. I’ve had a guy ask “Can I kiss you?” I found it sexy and confident. It made it clear he was interested and that he cared what I felt about it and that I’d want it to. He got an immediate “yes” from me. I’ve also had a guy ask me “would you like a cup of tea” before having sex (referring to a video we had both seen using a cup of tea to explain consent). It got us both laughing and we had a great “cup of tea!” It’s easy to ask and check…	/r/seduction	15/08/21 05:24 AM
0	Should you ask for consent before having sex? Does that turn chicks off? As a woman, I COMPLETELY disagree with you. Asking to kiss is sexy as hell. Asking for consent is super important. I don’t want a guy just kissing me out of no where if we haven’t established anything yet. Asking first shows that you care about my feelings and want to make sure I’m comfortable and have mutual feelings. All you have to say is “Can I kiss you?” It’s easy, and as a woman, I find it incredibly sexy and confident.	/r/seduction	15/08/21 04:57 AM
21	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? I mean... I treat my friends like people...human beings. Whether they’re male or female. Has absolutely nothing to do with masculinity. Just because I don’t share a mutual sexual interest, doesn’t mean I think they’re not masculine. I can’t help my feelings, that’s all it is.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 03:09 AM
24	losing virginity to a random girl I found on tinder .....You worried about wearing a condom for your fingers, but not your mouth directly on her?	/r/seduction	12/08/20 03:40 AM
4	Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance. You never know until you’re actually in the situation. I don’t want to have to tell guys “I have a boyfriend,” because I don’t, and I don’t belong to a man anyways. Why do I have to be with a man to be listened to?! It’s bullshit. My “no” should be enough for them to drop it. Some women go so far as to wear a fake wedding ring, and that still doesn’t stop some men from hitting on them and pushing it. Some men will still push it no matter what you say. Even if you tell them you’re a lesbian. I ha…	/r/seduction	09/08/20 03:08 PM
5	Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance. I had I guy ask me why I wasn’t interested and I tried my best to explain. Yet he still proceeded to tell me that I was just scared to admit that I could be attracted to him and would be interested. That I was afraid to let anyone in.... I guess I knew nothing about myself. 🙄	/r/seduction	09/08/20 05:34 AM
9	Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance. The only problem with that is they may still think you would be up for it otherwise and will likely ask again for when you’re available. I try to avoid doing this if I’m definitely not interested.	/r/seduction	09/08/20 05:23 AM
17	Best cologne helps seduction, girls love it on men? Same here. I rather a guy just have a good smelling body wash that won’t be overpowering and can only really be smelled if very near. I can’t stand strong colognes that linger on everything for a long time. If they use any, keep it light. A friend of mine uses Old Spice Pure Sport body wash if I remember correctly... I asked him once because it smelled so good fresh from the shower, but it doesn’t really linger the same type of way like a cologne...if that makes sense.	/r/seduction	29/07/20 07:44 PM
1	How do i[M] escalate to a kiss on a first date? Not sure in what way my username “checks out” but ok... lol I mean, I’m just saying as a woman, who has been asked first in some way by every man who’s attempted to kiss me, it never killed any mood, anticipation, or “butterflies.” If anything, it intensified it because I knew for sure what he wanted and what was about to actually happen. And I’ve just never heard any of my friends that are women, or other women, say anything about such a thing being a turn off for the very first time you ever k…	/r/seduction	27/06/20 09:49 PM
2	How do i[M] escalate to a kiss on a first date? Ok sure, but consent is important. And since MOST women would like to be asked for consent, best bet is to probably do so with every woman, since most would probably prefer it. I just don’t see how asking “can I kiss you” would kill any kind of “mood.” It tells her that you’re interested enough to want to kiss her, and that you care how she feels about it too. That’s awesome to know! After that initial kiss, it wouldn’t really be needed anymore if the feelings are mutual and continue to be. I ha…	/r/seduction	27/06/20 09:07 PM
9	How do i[M] escalate to a kiss on a first date? No....seeking consent is definitely a really good sign and much appreciated. Would not kill the mood at all for me ever.	/r/seduction	27/06/20 07:30 PM
10	Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zone This. I actually kind of laughed at the mention of “tribal times.” No, we’re dealing with it right now in these times and we’re trying to stay safe. There’s really no sure way to tell if a man might be dangerous at first.. Predators are likely going to try to make themselves seem safe and trustworthy too... I also agree on giving more of a way out. Saying “let’s do this” instead of “do you want to do this,” kind of makes me feel like you’ve already made the decision for me, without my thoughts/c…	/r/seduction	26/06/20 11:36 PM
5	Cold approach from a girl's perspective Approach her like....a decent, friendly person? If you want to find a partner, you should probably also be able to have just regular easy conversations with them and even be friends too. If she is not interested in you in a romantic/sexual way, then you might just make a great friend. That’s not a bad thing. You’ll have to be an adult and move past her lack of mutual sexual interest (it’s not like it’s something she can really control), or leave her alone to find people who actually want to be h…	/r/seduction	26/06/20 02:50 AM
1	Here’s the truth about looks and personality Yep... Mutual attraction/desire is important to me. I think it’s definitely the first thing that’s going to get your attention. I’ve had a couple great men interested in me and at least two of those guys I had mostly had text conversations with initially... and I did try...but it ended up that I was just not sexually attracted to them. I even tried kissing them when they wanted, but I just couldn’t get into it. The mutual attraction wasn’t there for me and I need that. Otherwise I can’t get into…	/r/seduction	14/05/20 05:38 AM
2	How do I close the date with the kiss? Ask. Personally, I find seeking consent sexy. It lets me know that the guy cares how I would feel about it (and that he wants to kiss me obviously). Sometimes if the chemistry is really there, it just kind of flows and happens naturally... But of course sometimes people are just shy and don’t know how to approach it, even when they really want to, or are unsure if they should. Best thing to do is ask for consent. I had it happen a couple months ago actually, and I found it very sweet. We went to…	/r/seduction	12/05/20 10:05 PM
2	Are there any practical good/real sex education videos for demo and that's not porn? There’s also a website called OMGYes.com. It’s basically for women to learn how to pleasure themselves and eventually tying that into pleasure with a partner... but I don’t see why a man couldn’t benefit from it in some way too. It does cost money per “season.” It’s got two seasons so far. I bought the first one last year. It has real, normal women of different ages on camera talking/explaining the different ways they pleasure themselves and show how on camera. It is very educational and not lik…	/r/seduction	08/05/20 03:26 PM
3	Are there any practical good/real sex education videos for demo and that's not porn? I’ve heard some good things about a book called She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide To Pleasuring A Woman by Ian Kerner. I actually saw someone post that it was free on Audible right now.	/r/seduction	08/05/20 03:08 PM
1	How to Start A Conversation with Women on Social Media You could have asked her within the first few messages... lol or, probably read her Facebook profile. Most at least have their cities listed, but maybe she didn’t.	/r/seduction	05/05/20 02:57 PM
3	How to Start A Conversation with Women on Social Media That’s pretty good! Hahaha (but I’m not giving you my number) LOL ;)	/r/seduction	05/05/20 04:23 AM
3	How to Start A Conversation with Women on Social Media I’m not trying to keep track of two different phones and numbers! Hahaha And I’m definitely not into just random hookups or “ass slinging” or whatever. LOL! But, not all that bad of an idea for those that are. Sleep well there!	/r/seduction	05/05/20 04:20 AM
4	How to Start A Conversation with Women on Social Media I haven’t been through anything. I just don’t randomly give out my number to just anyone. I want to know the person well or feel comfortable with them first. And if I guy made it seem like it was a chore/bore/annoyance to get to know me a bit better and build trust before getting my phone number, that’d lose me real quick. Or make me think he’s just interested in a hook up. Not my thing. I personally don’t know many women at all very invested in zodiac signs. Maybe just sharing memes/pictures an…	/r/seduction	05/05/20 04:16 AM
13	How to Start A Conversation with Women on Social Media Not this woman... lol Basically nonsense to me. Wouldn’t be a good opener for me, but everyone is different I guess. I’d probably be trying to figure out what kind of judgement he was apparently making about me... haha! I’m definitely not that quick to ever hand out my phone number to anyone, especially after just a few short sentences about zodiac signs. I’d have to know them a lot better first. However, if a guy offered his number to me and said something like “here’s my number if you ever wan…	/r/seduction	05/05/20 03:48 AM