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You mean like the one about how she still feels this "irrational" guilt over her husband's death? (Twist: she actually set out to harm him and may have contributed to it).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 05:34 PM
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She sounds like a real catch, can't imagine why it's hard for her to find a good man https://hellogiggles.com/love-sex/blamed-myself-husbands-death-widow/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 05:05 AM
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For a good lol, google image search the author of the article.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 05:02 AM
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Amazing how they never seem to realize that the "bullshit" they are "fed up with" is actually their own bullshit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 08:28 PM
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LOL "Guys are just intimidated by me because I'm successful" "Well, you know, a lot of the most eligible men are already married by this age, but maybe if you just lower your standards and give some of these guy a cha--" "SHUT THE FUCKING FUCK UP YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT!!!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 04:37 AM
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Yes, she lacks the basic maturity and insight to understand that certain traits are exclusive of other traits. It's as though she's shopping for a car and saying "I want something sporty with the cargo room of a minivan, very low to the ground but good in the snow, handles well but oversized, vintage but it needs to have a touchscreen system, red yet blue, luxury but also under $25,000."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/20 04:56 PM
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It's like a time-lapse picture where you see the action and its consequence at the same time
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/20 09:57 PM
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Narcissists believe that even their deep personal failings are special and interesting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/20 01:49 PM
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Wondering why you bothered sticking it in there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/20 03:59 AM
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That's the view of a grown child who has no idea how the world works. Sorry you're bitter your dad didn't spend enough time with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 02:53 AM
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Advice to all guys ITT: stop thinking that women are the true judges of men. They are not. Stop being their victims.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/20 03:56 PM
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Your mistake is thinking women are the true judges of men. They aren't, and don't give them that power.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/20 03:55 PM
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Also: once a week? I get my hair cut every 4 weeks and I thought I was being a fancy boy about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/20 05:52 PM
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Damn, why is it so hard for a slightly above average woman to find a .0001% man?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/20 05:50 PM
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I'd like to see a citation for this claim. I don't believe it's true. I believe the guys women go after don't want relationships with them. Because women today try to date out of their league, because they think "I hooked up with him off Tinder" = "he's in my league."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:30 PM
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More like early parenthood program
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/20 03:50 PM
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I’m better looking than my brother but a good 2 inches shorter. I’ve literally had women insist I must be taller while I am standing three feet away from him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/20 06:34 AM
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She ain't beautiful now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/19 04:30 AM
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Babysitting can double the cost of the date easily.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/19 05:23 PM
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Ever see the Louie episode where the single mom dings him because he has kids?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/19 08:44 PM
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The main reason I don't fully buy into redpill is that I think it oversimplifies evolutionary dynamics based on an overly individualistic view of human life. Human society is extraordinarily complex and stratified into many different roles, jobs, classes, etc. Redpill creates a single ideal of a "chad" that is *the* type of male that is most able to reproduce. But our society isn't organized around a single type of person with "survival traits," it actually requires many different types of peopl…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/19 04:40 PM
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They can either have a world where they are "empowered" or they can have a world where they have no accountability for their actions. They can't have both. They just don't seem to get it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/19 03:14 PM
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I'm economically left and socially relatively liberal (but not like cutting edge woke twitter liberal) with some secret redpill views that I don't share with anyone I know IRL. Although a lot of redpillers seem to blame the welfare state for teh state of modern womenz, and I'm pro-welfare state, so I guess that makes me not a true red piller. And yeah, I dislike Donald Trump. I don't think one can call him "beta," he's just unhinged and crude and gross and idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:43 PM
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This is why a lot of MGTOW and redpill philosophy doesn't completely work. In order to procreate as a non-Chad you have to play the game a bit (a different game than those guys are talking about).
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre14/12/19 05:42 PM
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Her "empowering job" is as a "fashion exec" i.e. doing shallow stuff to help other women be shallow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/19 08:13 PM
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You realized it sooner than I did, took me almost 40 and some bad shit happening in my life to realize it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/19 04:36 AM
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I mean, honestly, if you want to be J, be J. The real secret is to not give a fuck and be true to yourself and your values. But not giving a fuck means not giving a fuck. It doesn't mean adopting an attitude of not giving a fuck *so women will like me and think I'm hot." NO! You have to let go of that entirely. WOMEN'S APPROVAL IS NOT WORTH YOUR ENERGY AND TIME. IT IS NOT WORTH COMPROMISING WHO YOU ARE AND WANT TO BE TO PLEASE A WOMAN. ASPIRE TO BE YOUR BEST SELF IN YOUR OWN EYES.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/19 04:35 AM
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"I'm content with my life and don't need a partner, therefore I hop on the dating app as soon as I get a moment's peace away from my kids"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/19 04:32 AM
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They are so far gone that they've confused themselves into believing that these utterly revolting qualities they've come to possess make them "empowered" and "independent." They have multiple calcified layers of ironic detachment standing between them and any kind of empathy or true self-awareness, to the point that they actually want to announce their utter debasedness to the world in a published "sex diary."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/19 04:27 AM
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I mean imagine being such a piece of shit that the most basic human virtues and natural human wants are actually "pathetic" to you. Now imagine being such a piece of shit that you're actually PROUD of this to the point that you want to publish your "sex diary" setting forth these gutter opinions in a major magazine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/19 04:22 AM
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Even better, just realize they are not actually worth it, and then you won't care so much. Then you don't even need to think about whether you seem "overeager" or how much to text, bc you just won't. Unfortunately it takes some life experience to get to this point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/19 12:45 AM
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" He’s the kind of guy who really craves family. Again, it makes him pathetic to me. " Goddamn, what a waste of human life this woman is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/19 12:41 AM
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Well, she has a vagina
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/19 05:46 AM
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I call this the musical chairs game. For most of history, women at least realized they were playing the game, but today they just dance to the music as the chairs disappear, then complain that society hasn’t provided chairs once they get tired.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/19 02:20 AM
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For anyone who thinks all the people jumping to divorce are (hypothetically) overreacting, as someone who went through this experience I think it's probably the right answer unless you yourself have always wanted one and were just hoping they would ask. If there are no kids in the picture, I'd just go straight to divorce, because otherwise it's always going to be in the back of your mind that they'd either rather be sleeping with others or already are doing/have done so. If there are kids in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:44 PM
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That's what I would have done if not for the fact that we have kids. Don't really feel like recounting subsequent events rn, but today we are together and monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:40 PM
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EDIT: Apparently Sandberg is only once-divorced, her second husband died. She more recently had a three-year relationship with Activisions CEO that is now over. But I'm sure she'll find another equal partner any day now!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/19 03:58 PM
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No one in the US says "footballer" -- clearly UK.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/19 03:55 PM
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TBF, some of those alphas wind up in prison, and since Billy Beta never could have been an alpha anyway, he might rationally think he has about the best deal he can get.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/19 03:54 PM
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Lol, the tweeter literally has "#MeTooOnCampus" in her twitter profile. Feminism!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/19 03:51 PM
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Wow, it's almost as though actions have consequences, making choices eliminates certain other options, and you can't find every single quality on your wish list in the same person -- wait no, that can't be it, that would require me to be an accountable, responsible adult.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 04:28 PM
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Not gonna lie, something a little sad about the desperation of a once hot woman on the cusp of not being hot anymore and not quite realizing it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/19 08:55 PM
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I like women who are grounded and straightforward. I can't stand flightiness, lack of realism, fakeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:21 AM
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Fair point. I like "myself" a lot more after three years of lifting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/19 08:18 PM
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She looks like a man dressed up as the mom from arrested development.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/19 02:49 PM
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I really want to make a fake profile of a handsome successful man who is looking for a single mom aged 35-45 that is “tired of all the games.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/19 02:47 PM
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I wasn’t even consciously expecting ass out of it. I had a girlfriend at the time who was in our apartment a block away. It’s more just a man instinct (which probably indirectly relates to getting ass). It’s hard to unlearn. I was raised to be a “gentleman” and “nice guy.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/19 02:44 PM
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Idk she looks like the type that will go downhill fast. Lots of partying and drinking plus low pay sedentary office job plus 10 years is not gonna be kind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 10:27 PM
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I think this is excellent. I think there is also one additional point that should be added: all of this is actually destructive to society in a deep way. Tinder feeds delusion and addiction to the idea of endless choice and non-stop change.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre08/11/19 09:11 PM
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Grandmas used to tell their granddaughters "Your looks will fade, use them to snag a good man while you're young." By the 1960s that was dismissed as old-fashioned and silly. I'd like to think maybe now they'll learn, but women never take accountability for their mistakes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 04:41 PM
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lol, this reminded me of the time a hot girl moving in near me baited me into helping her dad move a dresser into her house -- turned out it was a heavy as fuck antique for a second floor walkup with a narrow stairway and probably could have gotten killed -- barely made it up and had a scary moment where we couldn't get it over and were stuck. Never again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 04:39 PM
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This is really the only way to live. You can't turn yourself into a Chad if you're not a Chad, and you can't browbeat young women into wanting you. If you just pursue the life you want, some women might at least find you appealing for your self-assuredness, but it won't matter either way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 04:28 PM
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Counterpoint: that's obviously a man in a wig
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 04:25 PM
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The way this gets evened out for guys is that IF you stay physically fit, dress decently, and have a decent job, you will get more and more attractive to women as you get older, as women will become less and less attractive. This idiot MIGHT snag a nice guy if she does it in the right window, but she strikes me as a dummy who will wait too long and overplay her hand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 03:35 PM
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This is true -- the leopard can't change his spots. You have to maximize whatever advantages you have in life and not waste time mourning the immutable characteristics you have.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 03:32 PM
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I’m tired of women running scared because of my six figure credit card debt. Where are all the real women who can handle a man with debt?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/19 04:35 AM
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That’s a fancy way of saying she’s a narcissist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/19 04:33 AM
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Most women just have no concept of accountability whatsoever. And that’s the relatively better ones. The woman in the OP is conflicted but can’t admit it. The truly cunning psychopaths would probably fake shame and repentance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/19 12:17 AM
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Honestly I’d be more receptive to a woman telling me this if they admitted they were ashamed of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/19 02:25 PM
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She either sucks, waited too long, or both. I had a male friend who got married for the first time at 37 to a woman who was also getting married for the first time at 37, and, as he readily admitted to me "When people are getting married for the first time at 37, there's a reason."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/19 08:50 PM
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" One dating coach says there are seven women for every man aged 40-55 " Damn, too bad I don't want to date women aged 40-55, lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/19 08:27 PM
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Def see this at work — my (otherwise good) female colleagues cannot stand criticism and are super defensive and anxious when given feedback as well as take stuff much more personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:09 AM
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I actually came in expecting to be on OP’s side but I see nothing whatsoever wrong with that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:06 AM
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Yup, they’re so brazen about it because they got used to a world where they didn’t have to try to make themselves appealing and therefore never actually gave thought to what might seem unappealing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/19 10:27 PM
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Meaningless is about all she’s worth. Bet she’s a good lay though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/19 10:21 PM
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Netflix and facefuck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/19 10:17 PM
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Would smash tbh, she looks good in the pic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/19 06:33 PM
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receptionist for a reverse mortgage bucket shop
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/19 03:10 PM
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Works in "finance" -- so, a bank teller?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/19 02:50 PM
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I'd say she's at a critical crossroads and may not realize just how critical. She will continue to get bites from guys who mostly haven't read her profile and just like her pics -- agree she's reasonably attractive although something in her face puts me off. She maybe has a 3 year window where she could realistically "settle" for a "nice" guy that's below her previous standards, if she's smart enough about it, and still have more kids with them. I've seen worse women pull it off. I remain shocke…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/19 06:56 PM
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What women actually want, as opposed to what they claim to want, is a superficially modern man with traditional attitudes. “Respect my independence” means the guy makes 2/3 or more of the money but the woman can choose to either stay home with the kids or have a vanity “career”. It rarely comes with the actual responsibility of true independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:02 AM
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Why do certain cultural norms with respect to gender exist and persist across time and cultures?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 04:39 PM
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What's his name?
/r/askMRP25/10/19 01:49 PM
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So many women seem incapable of even comprehending what might make them appealing to someone else. The idea that you should just use a dating profile to describe what you want and how high your standards are, a pattern seen over and over again, is just delusional. I guess it works at 25 when they’re hot and they just never learn to reset their mentality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/19 01:22 AM
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Jews still vote like 70% democratic. Citation needed on “the younger generation” being different.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/19 01:16 AM
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Sorry I worded it badly. I meant in most Jewish communities it would be looked down upon to be her. Not just orthodox but conservative, reform etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/19 12:03 AM
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You seem to be suggesting that the fact that some things about life as a woman are bad has anything to do with whether casual sex is good. It doesn't. Everyone's life on earth has drawbacks. Meanwhile, if casual sex is so unsatisfying, just don't have it. A lot of women do, and therefore I assume they get *something* out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 07:39 PM
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JFC, you really think that only women have serious self-esteem issues? You really can't see past the end of your nose, can you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 07:33 PM
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I never assumed it was all fun to be a young woman, I just think young women today have a very myopic view of their own "struggles" and an almost pathological need to hang on to victimhood as a status and identity. Men have struggles too, life's a bitch in general, stop whining so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 07:15 PM
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TBQH, I don't know what was in the deleted posts, but it did jump out at me that she was Jewish, as it's definitely looked down upon and unusual. Jews lean liberal, but the culture is also pretty family and stability oriented. No one would openly ostracize her I don't think but it would definitely be frowned on. Slores are slores though and ain't no religion or culture that doesn't have them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/19 07:13 PM
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Im not arguing with that. But so long as a career requires that kind of time (more likely 55-60 than 70 based on stats), it’s still the man who is far more willing to do it and far less likely to question it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:11 AM
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“Work LESS”. Well duh. If you can have the best of both worlds why not. A fake “career” without having the actual time, effort and stress of a real one. Sounds like what women want, yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 11:29 PM
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Well the women I’m talking about do. It seems like it’s having kids that changes women’s minds about just how important their career really is to them. Obviously #notallwomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 02:30 AM
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Do you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 01:03 AM
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Would prefer. So far I haven’t met one who actually does, and I know a bunch of women who are primary or sole earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 11:06 PM
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I know at least five different primary earner women/mothers, including one in my family. All are frustrated and two of them have openly admitted to me they fantasize about having a male sole breadwinner so they could stay home. Few men have that fantasy and even fewer admit it. I don’t know if that’s socialization, instinct, or both, but it seems real.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 11:04 PM
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Oh hi https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/diwh0i/everything_i_dont_like_is_incel/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/19 10:56 PM
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You don’t occupy that much space in my mind, believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:15 PM
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Hi Bridgie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 02:03 PM
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I don’t think so, but incels are an extreme manifestation of a larger cultural phenomenon that probably contributed to his victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:02 AM
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TBF: simply stating "I am feeling really attracted to you" while on a date at the right moment has been a good approach for me multiple times. But I guess that's not the same as stating your "intentions," still leaves it ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:38 PM
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There's a famous scene in the movie "Tootsie" about exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:37 PM
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Nah I spend pretty limited time doing this, the name on this account says it all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:36 PM
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Oh god, this is worse than I pictured. This complete mess. This child who has a child. https://twitter.com/BridgieCasey/status/1185221102638755841
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:35 PM
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I'd love to see a stay-home dad try to pull this shit. "ACTUALLY HONEY, I DON'T HAVE TO BE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR JOB. YOU SHOULD JUST BE GRATEFUL I'M HOME SO YOU CAN HAVE A JOB"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:30 PM
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That's high. And you don't need someone live-in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:11 PM
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What is the deal with women disproportionately thinking having a "career" is this wonderful life blessing rather than just a way of paying the bills and living comfortably? I doubt that more than 1% of men see their "careers" that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:04 PM
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no it says that in the thread on her twitter EDIT sorry in this one https://twitter.com/BridgieCasey/status/1184890294870757376
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:56 PM
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already divorced apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:53 PM
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This isn't analogous to saying "all lives matter." This is actually like saying "black lives matter and white lives don't."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:52 PM
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Divorced apparently https://twitter.com/BridgieCasey/status/1184890294870757376
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:49 PM
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You're missing the point. It would be one thing to say "Both partners support each other." I'd have no issue with that. It's another to say "Men don't support their wives, actually it's the wives who support the men."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:44 PM
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Friend posted it to fb, had the urge to comment but I can't say this shit under my name.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:42 PM
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Yes it does, the part that says "Men don't 'support' their wives who stay at home to raise their children."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:40 PM
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friend posted it to fb
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:38 PM
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Doubt she has a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:37 PM
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But apparently ONLY women deserve credit. Careers are this great adventure men do for their own fun and women "support" them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:37 PM
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Lol I guess I should have noticed the name. Anyway I just see an uptick in libs throwing the word around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:13 PM
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And "incel rhetoric" = whatever doesn't meet your wokeness standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:00 PM
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" They will never know binding and capturing rural virgin women, dragging them unwillingly back to the Capitol's Temple and coming back out wearing their skin as clothing. " TBF, doing this is a poor strategy for passing on your genes, as skinless women don't tend to bear children well. Otherwise enjoyed this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:48 PM
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This is a nice story you're telling yourself to feel better. Even if men are off by 4-5 years, the wall still cometh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:43 PM
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There are plenty of economists who do not believe that minimum wage increases necessarily lead to layoffs. It's one thing to disagree about that but it's another to call people "ignorant of economics" when that is hardly settled economic doctrine at this point. Here's an article on how studies conflict on this point and why it's hard to conclusively determine: http://qz.com/work/1415401/why-minimum-wage-research-is-full-of-conflicting-studies/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:32 PM
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honeybee96--5 points·5 days ago I’m not a gold digger. But being with someone finically secure & who wants to spoil me is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:09 PM
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Sorry, not interested. Too short for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:36 AM
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Here's the thing, and this is coming from a 5'9" guy. The myth of fairness and equality dies in the bedroom. There ain't shit you can do about it, so there's no point in being bitter. Your height is something you can't change (or at best you can wear lifts). You don't have MS or cancer, you just have one slight dating handicap, so it's better to let go and not focus on that. Some men are hideously ugly, some are stupid, some are poor, some have birth defects. There are far worse fates than being…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:55 PM
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