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It's a complete fabrication. Is it? I can go on twitter right now and see #smalldickenergy or #smalldick as a autocomplete hash tag. I am not a twitter expert, but I could not find a similar body shaming hash tag that would be equivalent. The closest I could find is #LooseHole but that showed zero results. Is it blown out of proportion? Maybe. It can't be a complete fabrication when there are examples, can it? Isn't this what this sub is exactly about? Treating behavior that would be unacceptabl…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/07/20 08:02 PM
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Could you elaborate on how that is exclusive to women? Can you point to anywhere in my response where I claimed it was? I was responding to when does anyone unironically say anything like that? However in regards to: I agree, but I don't see how this is an issue that has anything to do with a "pussy pass". There is a perceived double standard that it is funny/acceptable to body shame men, but not women. Billie Eilish, a champion against body shaming, had that 'small dick energy' quote in an inte…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/07/20 05:31 PM
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Abusive people. Abusive people say that. I am glad you have never been around someone like that, it can hurt when it is said to you by someone you trust and love. It can ruin your confidence and compound the problem with ED which will just add another insult to the shotgun blast intended to remove any sense of self worth.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/07/20 12:39 PM
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Came in here to question just that. I mean I know that boys/men do suffer from violence much more often, but to think that women are so protected from violence that only 1 in 3 women will suffer from it EVER while highly doubt boys/men experience it much less then 1 in 1. Wow.
/r/MensRights14/01/16 03:00 PM
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Somebody stop this planet, I'm getting off.
/r/MensRights20/01/15 06:19 AM
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My thoughts exactly. But at least she is starting to realize that making someone feel like a waste of space for getting the wrong hamburger meat does make you a worse person.
/r/MensRights20/01/15 05:50 AM
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:sigh: well kinda. Women worked those factory jobs when all those men were shipped over seas to shoot at other men and get shot at. And I remember in history class there was a somewhat famous fire in a textile building that killed a bunch of women workers. After which a few safety regulations were set to prevent that. It was in middle school that I learned this from a feminist inclined teacher. I can't believe I bought into that this was proof of how no one cared about women. So when men were wo…
/r/MensRights17/08/14 02:05 PM
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Women are plenty welcome here too.
/r/MensRights27/07/14 06:36 AM
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Why? Soldiers are meant to be super regemented. Should they be having sex with each other during deployment? I would agree to both parties being held liable.
/r/MensRights26/07/14 04:16 AM
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No BanBossy wants to not allow you to call tyrants and assholes bossy.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 05:11 AM
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2 wasn't that bad except for the feminist spin on it, 14 killed me. Jesus indoctrination much?
/r/MensRights13/06/14 05:14 AM
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Holy shit this is MY SCHOOL! I must find out if I have any comrades in arms.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 05:01 AM
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hes been good, meaning that he hasn't been good in the past. From the way they talk about it its a reoccurring problem.
/r/MensRights12/05/14 05:36 AM
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Ehh the Michael does seem to pick up whores. He tells his psychologist about it.
/r/MensRights10/05/14 12:58 PM
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but but but.... they might have to marry someone they don't really like... (an argument I had over the Disney movie Mulan)
/r/MensRights09/05/14 11:42 PM
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after my facebook got bombarded by that sentiment (but without the sarcasm) its nice to see people fighting for the weakest among us.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 11:27 PM
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I wasn't trying to insult code monkeys, because that is exactly what i want to be. I hate the theory shit within CS, for fucks sake I'm a senior and they haven't taught me any GUI implementation I've had to learn it myself. I was just mad at coding horrors insults lobbed at programmers and CS majors specifically. Comparing our work with that of a plumber on the education level. Saying that the CS degree, which among a lot of majors is one of the more difficult, is equivalent to a high school deg…
/r/MensRights28/04/14 12:10 PM
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apparently this is the guy that founded stackoverflow... I am so god damn confused right now. He talks about programmers like they are beneath him, but reading about him hes a bit of an old school programmer. Maybe he a self taught code monkey that just got in when degrees were low but had experience? I feel like I'm insulting my better now, but they way he puts things makes me think hes an engineer.
/r/MensRights26/04/14 03:42 AM
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I had a bit of a hard time reading this being a comp sci major myself. Him saying that we are as highly educated as plumbers made me want to put my sleep deprived foot up his ass. I know this is not a men's rights bit but fuck him. I don't know what exactly he is, seems to be a coder him self, and then I read more of his blog and he has apparently come across comp sci graduates that can't program a loop with a few if statements in there. Which I highly doubt, I am junior i have 2 semesters left …
/r/MensRights26/04/14 03:35 AM
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What?
/r/MensRights26/04/14 02:55 AM
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OMG that's genius, I have a feminist friend that claimed just that. I need to start making one of those folders.
/r/MensRights21/04/14 01:03 AM
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Legal spousal abuse is subjective. Yes back then it was legal to slap your wife, but it was also legal to slap your husband. One of those is still legal. While it may have been less of a crime back then (or at least prosecuted less feverently) but it was still a crime to beat (read: injure) your wife.
/r/MensRights19/04/14 02:07 PM
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All this stuff coming out of India is crazy. I thought our misandry was blatant. But my Facebook has been plagued with "upworthy" Indian commercials that demonize men for the act of looking at a woman. Then there is that movie about the purple clad mob that beat suspected wife abusers up with sticks.
/r/MensRights19/04/14 11:57 AM
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I think my comment was directed at the wrong person, because my reply does not match yours at all, sorry for the confusion.
/r/MensRights14/04/14 10:31 AM
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Sorry to say but I actually think her voice would matter MORE. Because there is obviously no personal benefit for her to fight for men's rights. Not for her and not for her current or any potential significant other. Alot of criticisms boil down to this. She is not doing this to win over men.
/r/MensRights13/04/14 03:35 PM
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I agree and disagree. I don't think we should do the feminist thing of automatically labeling people as part of our cause without them agreeing with that label. But I do detest the "ally" label, unlike them your status in this movement is not determined by anything but you and your opinions.
/r/MensRights13/04/14 03:27 PM
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Two for me NONE FOR YOU!
/r/MensRights10/04/14 07:19 PM
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Intact men will use condoms because we are sensitive enough to still feel things through them. My mutilated friends often complain about how they don't feel anything with one on, very much not the case with me.
/r/MensRights08/04/14 03:12 AM
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This is kkk, nazi level shite right here. Wow. The hatred is just so blatant. I'm used to the more hatred by ignoring issues My favorite thus far is a feminists confusion about a case of a woman's statutory rape of a 8 year old boy, the feminist didn't understand how it was statutory if the since the woman was of age. But this... this is dworkin solanis level shit.
/r/MensRights03/04/14 02:03 AM
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Pua and mgtow but I'm not sure about pua
/r/MensRights02/04/14 12:15 PM
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I was kinda expecting to come here and read one of the middle road feminists. Expectations dashed when it was a classic talking points feminists that thinks we don't like feminists because we don't understand them. Sorry honey we understand feminism just fine, we have read all the statistics, all the reports, every lie and half truth that pops it's ugly head up. And we have found them wanting.
/r/MensRights30/03/14 02:59 PM
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What exactly do you wish to clear up?
/r/MensRights30/03/14 02:52 PM
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http://www.cdc.gov/ViolencePrevention/pdf/NISVS_Report2010-a.pdf Page 27 and 28 under 12 month period. 1.2m women attempted or completed rape. 1.2m men made to penetrate. The second is not considered rape. Something we are fighting for. Also it's preferable to link actual statistical sources not opinion pieces that interpret statistics. Posting huffpo as a "source" is equivalent to me linking avfm to you.
/r/MensRights30/03/14 02:37 PM
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Like the article but found it funny that she was complaining about people saying "you are doing feminism wrong" while telling other feminists how they are "doing feminism wrong"
/r/MensRights27/03/14 02:55 PM
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lol there was one post that said that feminism is the radical idea that men are adults. The temptation to comment "And that women are children?" is almost to much to bare.
/r/MensRights25/03/14 05:44 PM
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Sorry I am made of grammar fail.
/r/MensRights22/03/14 08:22 PM
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Yep that's exactly what was in my domestic violence class.
/r/MensRights21/03/14 11:05 PM
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No that was the most beautiful statement there. The amount that she DID NOT GET IT was priceless. When she heard it might be statutory rape her mind went to "how could it be the woman was of age". She completely does not see the woman as a perpetrator, so it wasn't "not statutory IF the woman is the perpetrator" the woman wasn't even a perpetrator. I personally find that level of ignorance beautiful, you just have to stand back and be in AWE of it. Scratching your head in preponderance on how th…
/r/MensRights21/03/14 11:01 PM
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This is amazing. Wow such a step forward.
/r/MensRights18/03/14 07:26 PM
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Heh I guess never seemed scary to me. Just bigoted.
/r/MensRights18/03/14 06:31 PM
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What....?
/r/MensRights18/03/14 12:37 PM
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Well me and my ex have noticed that alot of less fortunate people go in there (entrance is free) and then have their kids beg strangers for coins, or in one case try to pull the balls out of a machine and...get stuck in there. Yeah that just happened to me, pull a little crying girl out of this football throwing machine after she tried to get out her self and got stuck and was hanging from her neck. Couldn't find the parents.
/r/MensRights17/03/14 06:56 PM
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oh of course but I've never considered myself to be that intimidating personality wise. Im actually quite shy and and have bad social anxiety.
/r/MensRights16/03/14 09:28 PM
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The word dominated is what gets me hung up. I think the best way to describe it is that there is a ton more sympathy for women then for men. From everyone. And this just leads to certain benefits. And their are definite benefits to being a man, I am WAY more intimidating then most women, physically speaking that is. I have two anecdotes for this, I was at chuck e cheese with my daughter and someone tried to steal my daughter's tickets. I just said "HEY" and she looked up at me dropped the ticket…
/r/MensRights16/03/14 08:15 PM
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WTF who baned everything is rape? He/she is my favorite.
/r/MensRights16/03/14 07:41 PM
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That's what I figured.
/r/MensRights13/03/14 12:52 AM
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I read it as Women that are so unfit, not Women are so unfit.
/r/MensRights12/03/14 03:20 AM
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I am much more afraid of being accused of rape then being raped. Multiple times more afraid. Being raped is something I could get over, It could be healed. As someone who has gone through the legal system I'm sorry but having your life ruined completely and utterly is a far worse scenario. I get raped I personally would have to deal with the pain and emotional turmoil of it, would it mandatorily affect the rest of my life? No. I get accused of rape, and somehow its falsely proven. I go to jail f…
/r/MensRights11/03/14 02:56 PM
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I can agree but I don't believe men are more intelligent. Men think more quantitively and woman qualitively. On average. And quantitive thinking is what the test for iq
/r/MensRights05/03/14 01:43 AM
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Victim complex that is cultivated by feminism. What could be considered human have existed for around 500k years as far as I understand. We have had what we would consider even the barest bones of a society for probably 15k if that. So that is 485k years of true survival of the fittest environment. Through the study of mitochondrial DNA we come from twice the amount of women as we do men. In other words the biggest strongest man was able to reproduce alot yet a much larger percentage of women we…
/r/MensRights04/03/14 07:07 PM
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I completely support equality for women, and I define myself as a MRA, but I hate feminism. While I will agree that most feminists don't "hate" men alot of prominent feminists spout very hateful rhetoric about men and the majority of feminists (and even non feminists) subscribe to these messages. The reason I personally have come to hate feminism is because of these ridiculously false messages. The 78% wage gap, the 1 in 4 rape statistic, the duluth model, "the patriarchy", just to name a few. A…
/r/MensRights04/03/14 06:57 PM
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This this a thousand times this
/r/MensRights20/02/14 04:14 PM
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See this actually had the complete opposite effect on me. After watching the video I thought DAMN I wish I lived in that world. So your telling me that as an overweight man the gender I am interested in will be constantly hitting on me? Sweet. But my major bone to pick is the rape scene. I think the reason it just did not phase me when he was raped is because I really thought he was, for a complete lack of a better phrase, "asking for it". I am a 6'2'' 250lb man, but if I was around a group of w…
/r/MensRights11/02/14 04:04 AM
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Actually I have and do, best friend since elementary school, been to gay bars with him(I'm not), alot of my coworkers have been, two of my gaming group members are. Bunch of social group in highschool were, I was dating someone in drama club. And yes 2 of those in high school were the typical catty "I'm gonna tell you how bad you look because I'm god damn fabulous" but the girls in my social group ate that up so :shrug:, and yes one of them drove me nuts. Okay I guess this is the thing to me now…
/r/MensRights01/02/14 12:16 AM
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TL:DR (It is very long) A "brown" gay man is going on and on about how "privileged" gay men are. I haven't finished reading it as it was quite painful. But his main points are 1: that women aren't 'welcome' in gay bars. And that 2: there are a considerable amount of extremely catty gay men on our tv's that are overly critical of how female celebrities look. And that 3: gay men think they can get away with sexually harassing women. 1: Why do they want to be there in the first place? Because they …
/r/MensRights31/01/14 09:48 PM
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I agree, but from what I have seen there are only "complaints" about benevolent sexism. Most feminists are aware of benevolent sexism, but it is an advantage so people are unlikely to fight AGAINST their advantages. It would be awesome, but its just very very unlikely.
/r/MensRights14/01/14 07:14 PM
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I read that as sarcastic. But that is just me and why I upvoted it.
/r/MensRights08/01/14 11:11 PM
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Exactly.
/r/MensRights07/01/14 01:51 AM
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well as someone who got out of an abusive relationship. 1 yes the sex usually is pretty amazing but more importantly 2. when violence happens to a woman in a relationship NO MATTER WHAT it is never her fault, you hear this everywhere. While on the other hand when violence happens to a man it is his fault especially when it violence done by a woman. I went through a DV (with me as the "perpetrator") class and they listed how it usually works, and one of the most common things for abusers to do is…
/r/MensRights06/01/14 08:54 PM
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For the recruitment methods my first step was researching something my feminist ex told me that didnt make sense. Then I found the truth of the wage gap (median imcome accross board: which means nothing) then girlwriteswhat was a thing on my youtube recommended and that was that. But I feel I was recruited in distancing myself from feminism by feminist facts. I think most of us are like thay feminism didnt make sense and then we stumbled on this.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 03:41 AM
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I havent posted on there yet, but I feel like a failed MRA for not having this account banned.
/r/MensRights17/12/13 04:23 AM
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I believe that we would, actually immensely, but i feel that is a lost cause. The whole ideology is built upon the "systemic oppression of women", the idea that they are the most oppressed class of people across the globe is tantamount to their beliefs. While MRM (can't speak for everyone) rejects that idea. I would even go as far to say that alot of MRA's do not believe men are "oppressed" either. There are alot of double standards that I am trying to fight against but I do not believe we are o…
/r/MensRights17/12/13 04:21 AM
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Yep, most of the page about MRM is a passing note to our "claims" and then how we are wrong. In the same discussion page they were talking about how wikipedia should remove a statement that claims there is evidence proving that our claim is false, when the source is just saying they haven't found anything to prove it true. Of course they were shot down. EDIT: Holy shit. First paragraph of MRM wikipedia page openly calls us misogynists, using that exact word. No mention of racism in first paragra…
/r/MensRights14/12/13 06:17 AM
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Hey we are are at least realizing that circumcision is an entirley elective procedure and have decided to no longer fund it with the states money. Its a step in the right direction. Maybe soon they will also realize it is a human rights violation to do it to babies. Heres hoping. Edit: in cass no one realized he was bieng sarcastic
/r/MensRights12/12/13 01:53 PM
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Well when you are the valuable one in the sexual market you get to make demands, why should they have to work at it at all(teaching ssomene inexpedienced how to pleasure them)
/r/MensRights12/12/13 04:57 AM
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But of course "mgm and fgm cannot be compared" because reasons and shut up. edit: just to clarify there was at leas one coment there that tried to derail by saying mgm and fgm cannot be compared
/r/MensRights12/12/13 04:07 AM
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I love/(get furiously angry with) the statement "they just fall asleep afterwards". "No they pass out from the pain and they hyperventilating screaming tears". The cognitive dissonance and insensitivity of these people sicken me. /rant
/r/MensRights12/12/13 04:04 AM
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Ikr? Finally something to be proud of my state for.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 03:58 AM
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Ok scratch my gender queer rant I was wrong. Apparently its an identity as multiple genders?
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:15 AM
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Oh ok. So the social construct part is more things that society has inferred from gender. Not that gender in of itself is a social construct. That makes alot more sense and is almost to the point of duh. The way I have had it described to me before has been that gender is of itself a social construct. Hopefully you are willing to answer another question. What is the 3rd(or beyond) genders then. Also I have a bit of a personal issue with the term gender queer just because, the very term is enforc…
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:13 AM
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Specifically I am talking about transgender. Transexual, imo ARE the sex they have become minus reproductive capabilities. Also not transvestite, since they (as far as i know) do not "identify" as the opposite gender.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:02 AM
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Thank you, this gives me alot more to consider.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:00 AM
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lol right... Because a jokingly stated tldr that states that "gender is a social construct" flies (to me) directly in the face of the entire concept of trans, when it seemed to be created in support of them, TOTES means that I or better yet MRM as a whole is decidedly against Trans* peple.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 01:59 AM
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Cause we are constantly being bombarded by the dumbest things people can say.(not necessarily on the sub) We get plenty of ammo. I love it.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 09:38 PM
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I thought of something even more crazy couple weeks ago. Okay hear me out. Anakin was supposed to be the chosen one of prophecy to bring "balance to the force". In the prequel trilogy, the jedi have won, they feel that they won so completely that when Qui-gon and Obiwon claim to have seen a sith the jedi council doesn't believe them. The darkside of the force or its users barely exist at this point in the universe. There seems to be barely a trace of the dark side. So when jedi read that someone…
/r/MensRights06/12/13 07:32 PM
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Can any mods out there delete this post it is campaiging for something illegal and unethical
/r/MensRights21/11/13 01:04 AM
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Almost spat my drink when I read that seriously et
/r/MensRights21/11/13 01:02 AM
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Just read his comments, so let me get this straight. A feminist is arguing that a large disparity in results depending on the gender of the individual is NOT a sign of some bias? The whole ideology is founded on manipulating numbers to make as large of a disparity between groups as possible and then claiming that it is due to bias. But an 80-20% difference, no bias. Got it.
/r/MensRights03/11/13 02:58 AM
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Who, I must know. What characters did they make gay/bi, and what companies decided that air head gets to be a contributor to character design. I swear to god she is the most successful troll in the world.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 10:14 PM
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OMG I hate a misandrist statistics teacher that brought that up. It was on our TEST, as well as how many men lie about their height on ok cupid, and statistics on D.V.. These were all on the final. But back to that article I "love"/s that graph showing the difference between 26k and change and 30k and change looks like a HUGE difference like 4 times the amount. For someone scanning and not really a number person it is really trying to lead them on to thing the difference is larger then it is. Go…
/r/MensRights17/10/13 09:53 PM
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Wait...what? I probably did not come off clear enough I think I posted that with my phone. I was just stating the large difference between saying there is no perfect person of type x. and saying that all people of type y are the same, that is a bad thing, and you want some one of type y that isn't like the rest of type y. The no one is perfect is a common statement so you can apply that to everyone or a select group "I want to find the perfect man" has very few negative connotations other then a…
/r/MensRights17/10/13 03:23 PM
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Difference being one is saying all of group a are the same, the other saying there is no such thing as a perfect woman. No one is perfect. Maybe he should have said exavtly that "no one is perfect" but I still don't see that as sexist.
/r/MensRights12/10/13 03:20 AM
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20% of ALL women are believed to have been a victim of rape or "sexual assault". somewhere around 20-43% of men rape. Ok there are either alot of gang rapes going on or there are some women out there who just can't catch a break. And again when you include "sexual assault" to inflate your !rape! percentage it devalues the number, since it can be as simple as touching someones butt. And ok alot of this article was how "patriarchy" hurts men because they have to be masculine, and not complain. The…
/r/MensRights08/10/13 10:02 PM
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yeah she definitely has a seductive pose, but not one that conveys that she is of little intelligence like the male ones. Again It is not really a complaint as much as an observation, it is a great info graphic to raise awareness of a huge problem. Just wondering why they would use images that have tropes of non intelligence, and then why they would not use them uniformly.
/r/MensRights08/10/13 09:10 PM
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Is it the "dude or dudette"? getting downvoted..
/r/MensRights08/10/13 04:39 PM
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It is further compounded that men are more likely to lay down their lives and their personal safety for something they believe in. This dude got so angry in a previous debate he got red in the head and threatened to "kick my ass", this second one was after he calmed down some. He at-least isn't AS women are the perpetual victim of society as another couple that is a mutual "friend" with the same guy. I mean after reading some sjw stuff and pretty much any typical self identified feminist some of…
/r/MensRights08/10/13 03:46 PM
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Where are you /u/Everything_Is_Rape after reading something so traumatic I need a laugh.
/r/MensRights08/10/13 03:38 PM
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Researchers have found water to be wet.
/r/MensRights08/10/13 03:28 PM
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HAH! I personally know one. I got into a debate with a male feminist (before I found /acknowledged MRA) when i was scared that my daughters mother was going to take her from me. He was claiming that divorce better serves men, that within ten years the husbands quality of living will be higher. This is easily explained away as since he doesn't have the kid, his schedule to do overtime and things of the like go up. He has no responsibilities now other than to make money so what is he gonna do? But…
/r/MensRights08/10/13 03:22 PM
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all net dude or dudette, all net.
/r/MensRights08/10/13 03:06 PM
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Very small complaint, in the comparative IQ portion, when the male is behind the female IQ in certain age groups the child running looks like he has a mental disability (hunched over looks like he is going to fall on his face) the second one the male is scratching his head. These are both depictions to convey that the person is less intelligent, which is what i guess they were just trying to do. My issue just was when males outperform females the female graphic isn't using the same model, i.e. t…
/r/MensRights08/10/13 03:01 PM
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I never thought I would see a true blue I am Silly WARNING ENCYCLOPEDIA DRAMATICA
/r/MensRights03/10/13 02:04 PM
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The fact that you actually think they bought him a car and it wasn't just another lie to get him out of his fathers car and into the house, proves my point.
/r/MensRights01/10/13 03:21 PM
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1) I would just say because he thought he was legally not allowed to do that which would solve nothing by him being arrested and the child being taken back. 2) the child mentions this to the mother why would the child attempt to lie to the mother about her own actions. Alot of people clam up with police around. 3) i very much did see him flinch when she raised her hand to grab the door, he flinched and pulled away when she tried to caress his arm. I mean that was a big fight between them "don't …
/r/MensRights01/10/13 03:20 PM
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Wow a 14 year old, who is allegedly being abused, can have no opinion in the matter? A child cannot decide which parent they wish to live with, and that decision not have any meaning? REALLY? I'm sorry but no.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 06:28 AM
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He was meticulous because he could preplan this, he was just covering himself since he had to prove that he did bring the child back on time the child was choosing not to go. He seems to get the child every other weekend, and a bruise does not take 2 weeks to heal so he probably didn't have proof. Plus how could he prove that those bruises did come from the mother and not, lets say, him. The mother is extremely manipulative and from personal experience those kind of people tend to be abusive. It…
/r/MensRights30/09/13 06:26 AM
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:in my most southern accent: you aint from 'round here are ya. Yeah happens pretty often.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 06:16 AM
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I know that it is hard to find credible sourced of things such as this. But again it seems to view masculinity as a problem. I also tried to skim over some of the references to where it claims feminism is concerned about male issues. They are very much all how they could or do negatively effect women. The first two (they are very heavy legal papers) i read [199][200] and they are about joint custody. (I know right?) The first one is about how women obviously share the majority of the early years…
/r/MensRights26/09/13 08:43 PM
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I have heard that a few times but have never gotten a definitive answer. Maybe you can help. What academic feminism/feminist promotes men's liberation? Could you give me an example.
/r/MensRights26/09/13 07:42 PM
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I think the issue that mra (including myself) have with feminism is this. We can agree that N.O.W. is not only a feminist organization but a very large and powerful and significant feminist organization. One that at least partially represents what feminism IS. If I am uncorrect in this assumption this argument has no meaning so you may stop reading. If N.O.W. is a feminist organization and they publish things such as this. I haven't even read over the full article but I can see alot of hate in i…
/r/MensRights26/09/13 07:21 PM
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Alot of reasons. Being tried as a domestic abuser when trying to defend myself, because of that I was lumped up with the image of someone who savagely beats their significant other. /u/girlwriteswhat (I know this is sappy as hell) helping me understand something I was feeling with something she said (paraphrasing sorry if I'm mincing your words /u/girlwriteswhat) "men define themselves with what they do....so when a man divorces he is not just loosing his significant other his children and a siz…
/r/MensRights26/09/13 05:37 PM
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"Kill all men!" is "sarcastic".
/r/MensRights25/09/13 04:31 PM
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The first one I would call less misogyny but a little more misandry since the victim was male and it is lacking in empathy for him (even tho in the context he would have done that as soon as we woke up from feinting if he knew what was going on) The second one, I ... guess. I mean that's subjective, they were lusting after Gary but did that make them single minded? :shrug: But on the same token that would be like watching someone eat an apple and a response to that being "all he/she wants are ap…
/r/MensRights24/09/13 10:02 PM
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Further reply, hey it might be misogyny since the female characters of MA3 have character flaws, MASSIVE ONES and sinfest forum posters aren't used to that. I mean so do the male characters but lets not get crazy now and say its fair handed.
/r/MensRights24/09/13 09:48 PM
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Oh god you are right. But at the same time he seems to try to deny it's existence. Ok my mind is starting to hurt wrapping itself around something so hypocritical and contradictory. Oh and the forums were beautiful in them trying to explain how "why shouldn't I hate my oppressors?" didn't actually mean that she hated men. but at the same time men ARE oppressing women, but she didn't explicitly say she hated MEN or that she even does hate her oppressors just... yeah it gets kinda circular.
/r/MensRights24/09/13 09:47 PM
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Neither of those even seem to have the faintest smell of misogyny to me. /u/Everything_Is_Rape could probably relate these to rape...well the second one kinda was. (I do have to say Amber must have been FRESH for him not to notice the difference)
/r/MensRights24/09/13 09:42 PM
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Heh true, I should have said made many many many comics making fun of the concept of misandry. From reading the forums alot of them are in response to forum posters claiming he was being misandric. And how misandric these comics actually are, classifying feelings of men as "Man Feels" and then making sure they are known to be insignificant (again while misogyny is anything that can hurt a women's feelings). A women "objectifying" a man walking down the street, when slick does the same thing he i…
/r/MensRights24/09/13 05:45 PM
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You have no idea...
/r/MensRights24/09/13 05:35 PM
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not sure if it would still work out that way. Especially since you are in possession of a penis thus can't be allowed unsupervised around kids. But yeah have my upvote for making me laugh.
/r/MensRights24/09/13 04:42 AM
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Agreed. I first discovered sinfest in my earlier mra days, finding it threw a link from skepchic(can't remember how i got there). I kept reading thinking this must be a joke, this must be satire. But the more I read, the more I the forums on some of the worse comics (oh sweet merciful jesus the forums) I began to understand that this was what he believed. I haven't read it all but I am quite curious if anyone can find a single time where a female character does something bad, and bad from the wr…
/r/MensRights24/09/13 04:32 AM
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To easy.
/r/MensRights17/09/13 11:45 AM
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I miss snakepliskinist, he had some really funny videos up. I don't think I ever got to see the one you are talking about, would that happen to be one that was mirrored?
/r/MensRights15/09/13 03:33 AM
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Actually it could be C. Intelligent and mentally stable but morally bankrupt pushing a selfish agenda
/r/MensRights06/09/13 03:09 AM
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apparently you haven't been reading sinfest we ARE! I read it for laughs just about how blatantly misandric it is, I'm still trying to find one female "villain" or Christ sake is ever wrong. I mean I alot of time's read it as the devil is the hero of the story(for sanity), but I'm trying to find a point in which the writer wrote in a non morally/intellectually superior female.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 02:57 PM
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As someone who has been in a Female to male abusive relationship, this alone is anything but. I mean if there is stuff going on behind this, and this was just a giant public insult to her husband maybe. I mean she put "put the toilet seat down" and the reward was "no nagging for a week" abusers won't admit to their abuse this was very light hearted.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 02:44 PM
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Yeah more eye rolling then anything
/r/MensRights27/08/13 06:03 PM
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it was arguing that the reason why people were trying to limit abortions was that. not that was the argument for limiting abortions, it was the argument for pro choice saying that that was the reason behind the pro-life mindset
/r/MensRights27/08/13 05:25 PM
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This comes from the same mindset of people that think by a female becoming a trans man she is GAINING privilege. So yeah wtfs all around.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 05:03 PM
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Ok so would it then be perfectly acceptable for me to post IN A MUSEUM, naked pictures of my ex's that they have sent to me or I have taken myself WITHOUT THEIR PERMISSION? I am a heterosexual male so my exes are female if that helps clarify the situation. If these dick pics that are being displayed were willingly given to be displayed in a museum than this would not be an issue. I mean I would even concede that if these were unsolicited dick pics given to these women the morality of this would …
/r/MensRights27/08/13 03:31 PM
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Yeah, I read it and I couldn't help but laugh. I mean COMMON! really? REALLY? You are going to be that BLATANTLY misandric that killing a adult woman is worse then killing an adult man? I heard an argument the other day that people are trying to limit abortions because the unborn child is more valuable then the mother because it has the potential to be male. I almost kinda wish this law could be passed in America (where that argument was taking place) just so I could be like STFU!
/r/MensRights27/08/13 03:15 PM
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It is not a problem that the "artist" requested a private picture and is now displaying that in a museum? Reverse the genders. Ask yourself if that would be a problem. And you shouldnt have to reverse the genders to see if something is bad.
/r/MensRights20/08/13 04:43 PM
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Heh its like I didn't even call myself out on it right? Or that I (on a bad day) represent the mrm as a whole, and that I'm not a complete nobody that rants on this sub every once and a while. Oh wait those are both true, go figure right?
/r/MensRights19/08/13 12:27 PM
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I agree that there is a slippery slope when it comes to this. Both sides (feminism/mra) demonize each other. And... I really have no answer to that. Fuck. Um, yeah thats something I have questioned myself about lately, but at the same time I am living with the problems of being male. I don't feel that there are 'countless' biases against me, but once you see them the biases are VERY apparent :what you have probably already read, child custody, divorce, criminal sentencing, we cannot legally be r…
/r/MensRights19/08/13 03:54 AM
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why are you being downvoted? maybe because you didn't complete the quote I don't want to live on this planet anymore!
/r/MensRights19/08/13 03:39 AM
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Best friend did (homo male), so I actually might purchase these for him. He is very active, and from what I gather attractive, so for nothing else then a better piece of mind.
/r/MensRights19/08/13 03:31 AM
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First thought that came to mind. When men have a problem they fix the problem instead of bitching about it and waiting for someone else to. And then I realized how dumb that is on all fronts, that this just started happening to men, and it is kinda misogynistic.
/r/MensRights19/08/13 03:29 AM
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No this is sick A guy who was curbstomped by half the crew of a game show for slapping a woman who slapped him It's not that I would never get help if I'm being hurt by a woman, its that if I defend myself I will be in trouble. I guess patriarchy hurts men too/s
/r/MensRights19/08/13 03:22 AM
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EXACTLY you're getting it. /eyeroll
/r/MensRights15/08/13 06:48 AM
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Why not both?
/r/MensRights13/08/13 07:16 AM
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Ok it's official, GWW is the gateway drug of the mrm. Most people I have talked to have stated that GWW was the one that opened their eyes to this. Myself included and so was she apparently.
/r/MensRights12/08/13 06:13 AM
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ehh, I've used the term red pill to discuss my awakening as an mra.
/r/MensRights12/08/13 06:11 AM
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Hint: that's typhonblue it was meant to be sarcasm/a joke.
/r/MensRights09/08/13 01:24 AM
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Yes this definitely needs more upvotes. That is a positive OWNED moment.
/r/MensRights05/08/13 04:43 AM
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That is not a feminist thats someone from manhood academy. A place to teach men how to "put women in their place". If you read any of their stuff it reads like it has been written by a 13 year old. I don't get them they seem to claim that we are their adversaries or the opposition to their ideology. Meh, mainly I see posts like the above spammed around from time to time which is one of the VERY few things the mods of this sub deletes, because its just that spam. Funnily enough the person links t…
/r/MensRights03/08/13 11:11 PM
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You too?
/r/MensRights02/08/13 03:05 AM
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Because other people understand what covert power is? Because what was said is the inversion of what feminist claim? Because there is some truth in what was said? I mean "men never held power" is false, because even some have held absolute power(very rare). "Behind every great man is a great woman", males have evolved to be physically stronger in most sexually dimorphic species(not a bioligist let me know if I'm wrong) in most cases to fight other males of the same species in order to be able to…
/r/MensRights28/07/13 02:41 AM
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I really did not need to read that... I need a drink. One of my exes (fiance) wanted me to do that once with best friend, holy shit am I glad I declined. Still cheated on me, but at least I wasn't there.
/r/MensRights28/07/13 01:08 AM
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The sentence makes no sense. Male victims find them selves in the same position everyone was 30 years ago. Or Male victims still find them selves in the same position women escaped 30 years ago. Because I doubt male victims were given MORE care even 30 years ago.
/r/MensRights23/07/13 09:34 PM
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Even if he is an underage minor(and she is not).
/r/MensRights23/07/13 04:52 PM
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But The Patriarchy oppresses women for mens benefit./s
/r/MensRights23/07/13 04:50 PM
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Sorry I'm not a history buff. It was just a thing I thought to myself one late night smoking. But really the roman empire had Greek slaves as their teachers? Like on a wide academic level? Was there any reasoning behind this. (no sarcasm I find that fascinating) But a slight refute on the point of the nannies. A nanny who is a slave is still under your watch and a piece of property. If he/she is teaching your children something you do not like you had the ability to punish the slave horrifically…
/r/MensRights15/07/13 05:58 AM
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I think its simpler then that. Men have less encouragement through tangible gains to complete college. Most fellow male students I know aren't in college because they want to be, they are there because they feel like they have to be. They still feel obligated to perform the old gender role of the worker bee wage slave providing for their family. On the other hand my women classmates see this as a privilege instead of an obligation. They don't feel like they HAVE to get a career, because hey if s…
/r/MensRights15/07/13 05:43 AM
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I was in a relation ship for 6 years with a person with BPD, and I don't think "their all crazy bitches". I think the difference between BPD and antisocial personality disorder (hey isn't it crazy that 3x as many of the opposite gender have the opposite mental disorder) are analogs of each other. Both are complete lacks of empathy, seeing oneself as all important. People with BPD seem to see themselves as victims and everyone in the world is out to get them, while antisocial is the opposite don'…
/r/MensRights15/07/13 05:27 AM
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Yep, I can attest to a similar view point. My ex never was diagnosed with BPD, but when (completely by chance) I read an article about it (relationship with someone who has BPD) I was pretty sure they had followed me. One of the most agonizing and psychologically disabling (for me) parts of it was that all of the verbal/physical abuse I suffered from her was her acting "in self defense" that she was defending herself as I am there sitting on the couch not saying a word being called every slur un…
/r/MensRights15/07/13 05:06 AM
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Actually what makes the idea of women currently being oppressed even harder to believe (in the US) is what is the ONE job you would want to keep the oppressed from performing? Teaching. A teacher molds the minds of their young students. If the oppressed class is able to inform the oppressive class about their oppression it would end the oppression. The next generation would be wildly sympathetic to the oppressed class (the ones that the oppressed class were able to teach) and laws would be codif…
/r/MensRights14/07/13 04:06 AM
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Texas is very pro guns, and it wasn't just tampons being confiscated, sugar packets and condoms were as well. Because people were throwing them at the legislators. And again I don't see why the gender of the elected official is of any concern when it comes to state laws. And apparently for the past 3 decades women have been voting more then men. I'm sorry I kind of tire of that argument that no male elected official is able to vote/discuss women's issues. And can you tell me what commercial it w…
/r/MensRights13/07/13 04:56 AM
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I am a horrible person...
/r/MensRights12/07/13 05:29 AM
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6'2'' ehh I'm sure I'll make ends meet.
/r/MensRights12/07/13 03:55 AM
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No problem, all we want here is fair treatment.
/r/MensRights12/07/13 03:54 AM
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I just...Wha...nooooo...
/r/MensRights10/07/13 05:59 AM
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Ha I saw this the other day and did not realize it was you.
/r/MensRights10/07/13 04:57 AM
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They have to earn their positive social identity through work. She made a universal statement: true If you can provide a counter example it makes her universal statement false: true You provided a counter example to her universal statement:false I had to read your post a few times because I felt I had to have missed something. The thing you seem to be countering is her statement that there are slaves that have positions of power. Which was not her universal statement. Her universal statement was…
/r/MensRights05/07/13 05:22 AM
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Define, and prove, how they were treated as chattel. Otherwise you might be interested in the teapot orbiting Jupiter.
/r/MensRights05/07/13 05:11 AM
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And its not necessarily covered. I had to take it and I had to pay for it out of pocket when I was on insurance. Plus it is not cheap, I got the cheaper brand cialis which was $25 american per pill. PER PILL. I did some research, back when that one person was trying to get her catholic school to pay for her birth control, and said she spends upwards of 1000$ (somewhere around there maybe higher) for it a year, and apparently you can get a months supply from walmart for like 15 bucks. Was she get…
/r/MensRights04/07/13 05:22 AM
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This issue I have with this analysis is just that. Women are settling for someone who they think is not as attractive as what they deserve. If someone who should be above average is considered below average the person who is dating them (with this thought in mind) is dating someone below their league. That person that they are dating will be unappreciated while they will expect that person to appreciate them because they are dating someone below their attractiveness level. In essence fueling fem…
/r/MensRights01/07/13 07:29 PM
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http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/ I think this is what you were talking about, its relative if not. 80% of men are below average rated by women. Men rating women near perfect bell curve. But no, its over sexualized advertisements that are ruining OUR view of what an average women should look like./s Oh best part, showed this to a feminist friend of mine exact quote "well yeah but women have it worse, they are judged far more on their looks". Here is a beehive it has…
/r/MensRights01/07/13 05:15 AM
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UGH! I know right, I'm always in argument with my mother on how I'm raising my child. Sometimes I'm tempted to say "this one is mine, don't you think you messed me up enough?"
/r/MensRights28/06/13 11:15 PM
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I'm straight and that was near perfect, "downsides of your feminism brainwashed women children".
/r/MensRights28/06/13 11:08 PM
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Yeah those are awesome, especially since I as a single dad have a daughter. Either I'm bringing a girl into a mens room so getting weird looks, or I'm going into women's restroom and getting arrested lol.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 08:58 PM
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Agreed, but I think one of the issues is that boys are taught that girls are perfect and some people are pissed off that they were lied to. I also feel that feminism has "corrupted?" western women(that buy into it), you will so no greater hive of self absorbed hogwash then feminists forums. Look at all the "friendzone" hate. Absolute spite at the thought of someone thinking that they should not be taken advantage of. Essentially "Why shouldn't I get all this extra attention, gifts, favors, etc? …
/r/MensRights26/06/13 05:49 AM
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Yes? <-Single Dad Been in a few places where the only changing table was in the women's bathroom.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 07:19 AM
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I have to agree with the other comments I think the word "can't" and "don't" need to be switched. They CAN assuredly change, but why? When you are a victim you are just "defending yourself". All your friends are proud of you for standing up to your oppressor. Family therapists don't (righteously) believe your oppressor when that person tries to claim you are being abusive. These are all things I personally went through in my abusive relationship. Thank fully she has changed, and I feel at great …
/r/MensRights22/06/13 06:54 AM
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Anecdotal but yeah, I have always loved children and when my mother was working in the aftercare in the elementary school across from my middle school I would go over there and play with the young kids. I at the age of 12-13 was accused of being a pedophile by a teacher because i was playing with 7-10 year old children. You know that thing where you blow on a window and your mouth gets really big that's what i was doing and the kids were cracking up. I was younger then ten at the time and my mot…
/r/MensRights26/05/13 05:56 PM
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I doubt that can happen, but I will admit to having a certain paranoia of that. Not their fault but mine. Which is why I sometimes need a bit of reassurance.
/r/MensRights26/05/13 05:44 PM
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I still leave the house and take my daughter out. The strange looks and comments can get a bit daunting, but I wont let that ruin my relationship with my daughter.
/r/MensRights26/05/13 05:43 PM
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Love it thank you. Sometimes I need some reassurance.
/r/MensRights24/05/13 05:38 PM
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I don't know why you have negative karma, but have my upvote.
/r/MensRights24/05/13 05:33 PM
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Sorry for the mental image, but I think it fits. It has been a very "holy shit all these things I've been led to believe were lies?" awakening for me.
/r/MensRights14/05/13 06:44 AM
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It is completely true, I grew up believing in alot of the feminist dogma. Gender wage gap, "rule of thumb", male only rapists/pedophiles. It wasn't untill I had a girlfriend tell me some of the worse numbers that i started looking them up. That's when I saw they were inflated numbers that were misrepresented from biased studies, in other words exponentially compounding bs. I grew up viewing women as the oppressed gender, that they were like NEVER allowed to do ANYTHING, like EVER in the history …
/r/MensRights30/04/13 06:36 AM
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The "fact" that the "majority" of feminists don't believe in gender supremacy has exactly what to do with OThomson's statement? I am an MRA I have firmly believe that misogyny exists and is common. If there is a Women's rights movement it has my support. I have prioritized Men's Rights because I feel the major issues in women's rights are actively being taken care of while men's rights are being ignored.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 06:25 AM
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I personally was in an abusive relation ship, I had a one year old daughter. The mother of the child threatened my daughter with something quite horrible in order to hurt me (she knew that would hurt the most). I took the child and ran away called the police and tried to go to a DV shelter. I with my daughter was turned away and was told to drive out of city to the nearest homeless shelter. I did not want to take a one year old to that place. I went home and the police were still there. The poli…
/r/MensRights30/04/13 03:51 AM
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/r/MensRights is what got me browsing reddit. Well GWW.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 03:24 AM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 03:24 AM
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"she is happy that women were able to break free from gender roles, but is upset that men are also doing the same !" EXACTLY! (I don't how to do that quoting thing I'm fairly new to reddit.
/r/MensRights23/04/13 06:46 PM
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Very good points, and yes Enthusiastic Consent(tm) does seem to require that scenario.
/r/MensRights22/04/13 07:49 PM
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I realize, and I have not read the book. I was just trying to bring up that those quotes could pretty easily be MIS-interpreted in this fashion. Just playing devils advocate saying that someone with a -certain- mindset could read that in a negative light. I realize what he was saying and trying to say and I agree. Yet with the current atmosphere it is much safer to NOT try to interpret body language, even in the most ridiculous of scenarios, because if he/she said no "but he/she ACTED like they …
/r/MensRights22/04/13 07:47 PM
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I am more talking about first time encounters, not someone I have developed a relation ship with. But yes safe words are very necessary, especially since EVERY woman I have been with has that as one of their primary fantasies. Rationality behind it is typically "You want me so bad that regardless of how I feel you're just going to take me" from their perspective.
/r/MensRights22/04/13 07:38 PM
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That makes them claiming that he is a "rape apologist" even more silly. I have not read the book, I am a recent MRA (bout a year)and still learning how deep the rabbit hole goes. But thank you again for the extra insight on this ass backwards issue.
/r/MensRights22/04/13 07:36 PM
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Thank you, I have been wondering this myself. Have my upvote, but I can play a slight devils advocate to the sentiment. What he is saying is bordering a fine line between consensual and not. How can the person know that their partners body language is indeed saying yes. Farrell does use scenarios that are clear, but what I feel feminism has a problem with (other then silencing differing opinions) is that a person could use the excuse of "she/he said no but she really wanted it" when in fact he/s…
/r/MensRights21/04/13 06:44 PM
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Re-read the article, he is seeking it. If you search for further cases he was jailed and denied visitation rights. So no, it IS a gender issue, male rapists (rightly so) do not get parental rights towards the child that came from the crime committed, female rapists do AND are able to force their victim to pay them support for said child.
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