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| 1 | Is this enough to be top 20%, or would I need to up my income first?Respectfully, I believe that based on your most recent comment here that your understanding of RP principles is incorrect. If I was bottom 20%, I’d be legitimately invisible. I have average to good prospects fall in my lap organically without consistently approaching from gym/work/school/social circle. From my understanding of the material, it’s because my height/physique/confidence is relatively high. In terms of height, I’m 99th percentile, and strength, I’m 90th percentile. Therefore, there’s… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 02:51 AM |
| 0 | Is this enough to be top 20%, or would I need to up my income first?For arguments sake, wouldn’t that be like top 5% what you’re describing? If the individual is 6’4, jacked, and making 6 figures? I very rarely see guys that have all of that going for them. In fact, now that I think about it, I don’t think I personally know any guys like that. I know guys that are jacked, and guys that are tall, and guys that rich, sometimes combinations of the first two, but never all three. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Is this enough to be top 20%, or would I need to up my income first?I’ve done this, and top 20% of pure income is 100k, 130k for households. However I know the top 20% in RP circles factors in other things as well. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I buy the car, or invest the money?That’s slightly inaccurate, friend. The 40k is purely cash. The brokerage/retirement investments is a separate 20k. Does that change anything for you? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Should I buy the car, or invest the money?24 mate. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Hitting all-time highs in every single area, but got sidetracked by the ex-situation. Could use some advice.I tell myself that exact same thing every day. However, I get these thoughts that say (maybe irrationally) that I’ll never get a girl that attractive again. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Hitting all-time highs in every single area, but got sidetracked by the ex-situation. Could use some advice.Nothing too crazy, I just didn’t prioritize it at all and had a few injuries. Hoping to stay healthy and bring it up this year! | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Hitting all-time highs in every single area, but got sidetracked by the ex-situation. Could use some advice.To be honest, I have unfollowed months ago. When I’ve slipped up and looked the IG up, it’s from my computer, (I don’t even have the IG app). How can you force yourself to not look stuff up? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Hitting all-time highs in every single area, but got sidetracked by the ex-situation. Could use some advice.What if I offered you that the last 4-5 months, I’ve been in monk mode? (for all intents and purposes). All the other things you mentioned, I can do 100%. The 5 books in 90 days sound hard, (not too difficult to read, but to internalize is a concern). | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Hitting all-time highs in every single area, but got sidetracked by the ex-situation. Could use some advice.The reason I partially disagree is because I was on fire and completely inspired in all things, and then I fell into the trap of seeing her IG, and the other guys, memes, etc was pretty crushing. Will do. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 09:55 PM |
| 3 | How do you move on from your oneitis?Holy McFucking Crap, I cannot believe what I just read. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Response to RPChristians from a HinduIn what ways would you disagree with my explanation? I’m open to hearing other thoughts on the subject | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Response to RPChristians from a HinduI am uncertain on what the purpose is of you making this post. Nonetheless, you are mistaken in your thought that Christians are allowed to take “concubines”. What you may have heard is that certain men in the Judeo-Christian history have fallen into such sinful behaviors, perhaps most prominently by Solomon, who was the King in Jerusalem thousands of years ago. He went against Gods will in taking many concubines and was punished. The parts of the Bible that describe his actions there are what w… | /r/RPChristians | 25/04/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Good job fields to consider now?One winter break I had tons of free time. From Reddit, I saw people on programming subs saying the best way to get started was to go to FreeCodeCamp, so I did. It’s an interactive “do it as you go” type of learning. So I did. In a few weeks I had the HTML/CSS down pretty well. Then I went into JavaScript (and it nearly crushed my spirit multiple times) but I kept going, kept doing the tutorials and the practice, and it got easier and easier. Then I built their recommended projects, and got real … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 08:14 AM |
| 6 | Good job fields to consider now?Well, environmental science is a pretty useless degree, but if you have the aptitude for STEM, I see no reason you can’t teach yourself web dev and land a junior dev position after a few months of dedicated practice. I was similar in that I love STEM, it stimulates me to do complex critical thinking. But I ended up being the “Microsoft Excel” guy in the office, teaching everyone functions whilst doing Marketing Analytics. It got pretty boring and didn’t pay quite enough to justify itself. I got … | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 07:21 AM |
| 8 | For those wondering, this is how you text womenJust out of curiosity, what would be a woman’s thought process if a famous rapper sees her Instagram pictures, contacts her and flies her out. Like “maybe he just wants to get to know me..?” There’s no way anyone is that dumb. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Good job fields to consider now?What’s your experience? What are you interested in? What are your salary expectations? What is your stress tolerance? Need way more detail. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Is being extremely tidy a turn off for women?I don’t agree JP is a “clown”. He’s literally helped millions of people change their lives around including myself. I was working a minimum wage job, rotting away and two years after finding his lectures have tripled my hourly pay and entered into a hard science. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do most girls major in psychology?In my experience, when I talk to psych majors they usually mention something along the lines of wanting to “understand themselves and their trauma” which I think is a good answer. Girls, cross-culturally trend more towards career fields that involve people vs things. This is why physicians, psychologists, nurses, etc are all typically dominated by women. That doesn’t mean there aren’t exceptions, but it is a general rule. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Busting my ass in the gym but have made zero progress. What am I doing wrong?You’re not being specific at all. I bust my ass. Are you in a deficit? Are you losing weight? Are you tracking your weight loss over time? If you can’t give these basic details, idk what the point is of shitposts like this. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 09:42 AM |
| 1 | A while back i tried to escape the friend zone and ever since we haven't really been friends.Sort of. You get placed in a box, the same way you instantly put girls in the box, the binary yes I would have sex, no I wouldn’t have sex with her. So if the girl finds you attractive, and you’re “friends” a clear escalation, asking on a date can definitely still happen. Showing intent is important. If you want her, mans gotta speak up. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Let's make the most optimal and ideal daily routine for a manNo worries, if you want to make your day as optimal as possible it’s not that difficult. Open a notepad or do to list app, and think “if I had the best day I could possibly have, what would it look like?” It will look different for everyone. Then you schedule that day. And every time you do one of those things, mark them off. You’ll probably only hit it with 50-70% accuracy to start off. There’s no magic. You crush that day, and then you crush the week, and then crushing your list becomes a habi… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/20 02:42 AM |
| 4 | Let's make the most optimal and ideal daily routine for a manIf you’re meditating, exercising, working hard on a monetizeable passion, outside of your normal school/work responsibilities on a regular basis, then you’re already smashing tf out of nearly everyone. Listen to audiobooks between tasks, listen to a financial health podcast, take care of your skin, shave, take care of yourself. Don’t overcomplicate things and apply your few fucks carefully. We already have a million posts on the main sub regarding this subject. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Starting my own business next month, feeling anxious as fuck.Need way more detail. What industry? If you’re selling Popeyes chicken door to door because people are scared of the coronavirus, that’s a different strategy than running an E-commerce store and using affiliate links. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you have to be basic to get girls?More baseless claims, further lack of engagement with the subject matter. You’re proving my point for me. I made a joke of you and your post history, but still addressed each argument you presented. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Do you have to be basic to get girls?When you improve yourself you still improve yourself. OP was discussing acting “basic” to impress women. This is clearly not improving oneself but changing oneself completely. Nobody likes someone who wears the masks of others. I don’t disagree. However the solution to this problem is not to “be yourself”. If OP was at a level where he had put the work in to be who it is he wants to be, shit posts like this wouldn’t be made. I’m not surprised that a red piller can’t tell when a post was meant to… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 06:53 AM |
| 6 | Do you have to be basic to get girls?Be yourself Nonsense. If you’re not in good condition, you don’t want to “be yourself”. You want to improve and be better than yourself. It’s like, you love your children, but you don’t want them to stay 8 years old for the rest of their lives. Stop looking for advice in red-pilled subreddits. With all due respect, you’re the same person who’s looking for advice about cat fishing people on Reddit in your post history, please stop embarrassing yourself. Moreover you didn’t actually substantiate t… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 05:11 AM |
| 11 | Does the man always have to ask the girl in a date ?That’s just how shit is. Unless the girl is super desperate(not common for most higher SMV prospects), you will 99.99% of the time need to do the early work in pushing the “relationship” forward. Girls entire self-image and societal value is based on their looks. Whether that’s right or wrong is another subject, but rejection from a man they’re attracted to feels worse than death itself, so they avoid it at all costs. And why would they do the initiating and take the risk, when they’re getting a… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 12:01 AM |
| 8 | Guy called my girlfriend out on something she did with me there... should I have stepped in?If they’re close work friends, he probably teases her like that mercilessly when you’re not around. It’s completely normal, don’t overthink it. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Can I ever gain the love from the woman of my life ?Minimum 30 day ban | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Investing tipsNo problem. I read that you have a the 4K emergency fund. Before you do any more investing, get that savings high enough to cover 3-6 months of living expenses. Without it, when tragedy strikes (and it will) you will be ill prepared and forced to sell your stocks. Don’t do that, built the emergency fund fully first. Once you have that “insurance” money in place, then you can start investing like crazy and build your wealth. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Investing tipsWriting out a giant guide would be overwhelming for you so I’ll give you the basics and if you need more help, contact me and I’ll give you more information. Please don’t just listen to me or anyone else here though, and do your own research as well. Firstly, the ROTH IRA: Max it out. You get around $6000 maximum investment each year. That’s a tax free account, so $500 a month should be invested here to get everything out of it that you can. Next, with your paralegal job, do they have you on a 4… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 07:12 AM |
| 6 | Going to break up with my gf tomorrow on NYE. How do I handle the emotional loss that's going to follow?My friend, one of the impediments to enlightenment is attachment. Attachment to the world, attachment to people, attachment to possessions. If you feel this relationship is over, then every second you remain in it, you’re clinging onto dead wood that must be cut loose. You’re a Phoenix, you’re 100 years old, your feathers are messed up, it’s time to burst into flames and be reborn. But your emotions want to cling to those feathers. The solution is simple. Think of yourself as dead. You have live… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 06:55 AM |
| 20 | Got nose pierced and ltr doesn’t like itThat is gay AF and most women are going to be turned off by that. Moreover, if your LTR doesn’t like it you can dump her, or keep her. Your choice | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 06:22 PM |
| 3 | I get paid to sit around for 8 hours. I can do whatever I want. What would you do that is productive?Right, on it’s own there’s a ton of freelancers in India and Bangladesh that know HTML/CSS, my point was simply about it being an important skill for numerous jobs, not just software engineers. If you know HTML/CSS, with a Google AdWords and Google Analytics Certification and other relevant things you become more valuable than someone in Marketing who just relies on templates. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 05:53 PM |
| 9 | I get paid to sit around for 8 hours. I can do whatever I want. What would you do that is productive?Python is fantastic, it’s super diverse and you can do a million different things with it. I would still highly recommend anyone to start with HTML (and CSS with it) because it’s literally the skeleton of the the internet. It’s the most important foundational piece, and you can get through it quickly. Once that’s through, you can progress to other things. If you started with Python and really committed to it, I’m sure you will do just fine. I know tons of people that did it that way. The communi… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 07:58 AM |
| 14 | I get paid to sit around for 8 hours. I can do whatever I want. What would you do that is productive?The comparison is a bit spotty, HTML/CSS are absolutely moneymakers. There are tons of jobs even non software engineers that make use of these. People in SEO, people in content marketing, UX/UI design. Anyone that needs to manipulate web pages will be totally lost without an understanding of HTML/CSS bare minimum. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 05:43 AM |
| 68 | I get paid to sit around for 8 hours. I can do whatever I want. What would you do that is productive?FreeCodeCamp.org is where I got my start. That will take you at around 300 hours for the first certification. You’ll learn a lot, make a lot of mistakes, but it’ll be worth it. After that, I got a couple of books from Jon Duckett on the subjects of HTML/CSS and JavaScript and JQuery, and went through them forward and backward till I understood everything. A great YT channel to watch is Traversy Media. He shows you how to go from beginner to expert. If you have all that free time, you should inve… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:50 AM |
| 26 | Are women aware of the wall, do they deny it, does it catch them off guard?They absolutely know about the wall. That’s why you hear the shaming about how older men are going for younger women. One of my friends that’s a girl (she has a Masters in Psychology) mentioned whilst complaining that “women lose their societal value in their early 30’s, and it’s bullshit.” She was adamant that men have it easier because of how quickly they need to lives sorted out. The reason was simple, because women can only have children at the latest by 35, whereas men can have children unt… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 08:09 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with 'flirty with everyone' girls?You and everyone else upvoting is missing the point, and my very clear answer. I said to escalate once. Why? Because that is how you sort out the attention whores from women who are actually interested. This does not need to be complicated. If the OP had shot his shot on her, he wouldn’t need to make this silly post because he would have his answer. “Mexican stand-off”? How about just growing a pair and inviting the girl out, and seeing the response. If she’s interested, she will go, or offer an… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 12:37 AM |
| 3 | How do I be alpha without being a narcissist?There are plenty of snippets of JP across YouTube. He has many lectures that can go hours and hours, so if you want to just get started, you can find 5-6 minute clips of his talks about meaning, responsibility, time management, relations with women, dominance hierarchies, the shadow of the persona, etc you name it. He blends together psychology with mythology, and philosophy all together. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 06:03 AM |
| 29 | How do you deal with 'flirty with everyone' girls?Why are you overthinking this so much? You sound like you have oneitis over a chick you barely know. Regardless, escalate once. If she plays you for an orbiter, you act like she doesn’t exist and move on. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 01:27 AM |
| 9 | How do I be alpha without being a narcissist?I see you’ve been studying Jordan Peterson’s lectures about psychopaths. Either that or you just went straight to Carl Jung, I applaud you for that. Perfect answer | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Finally ended agonizing "best friendship" with oneitis. Need no-bullshit talk to reiterate the things that will hold me back from making a u-turn to undo itFocus on your mission and upon greatness, and no woman will be able to look you eye to eye. When you achieve great things and climb up the dominance hierarchy, you will encounter women who are better than this woman in every conceivable way. Then when you’ve observed that you’re capable of being way more than an orbiter, you’ll look back and wonder what the hell you were thinking. Maybe you’ll come back to TRP and tell some other poor guy with oneitis exactly what I’m telling you now. It gets be… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 01:54 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with a broken ego?The best fighter on the planet is not beating 8-10 guys at once. I don’t care if it’s Jon Jones on ALL the picograms, Francis Ngannou, Stipe Miocic, Daniel Cormier. None of those guys are beating 8-10 guys at once, it’s absolutely impossible. So all in all, there’s nothing you can do about it. Don’t worry about things outside of your control. Don’t carry flashy items like IPhones, AirPods, watches, anything of significant value. Even with your wallet, don’t carry more cash than necessary and kee… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 06:47 AM |
| 4 | I've realized that secular girls make horrible LTR. Conservative, religious girls with string fathers make better and more stable LTRs. Any experiences?The Bible is extremely Red Pilled. The Western Church does not resemble the Biblical narrative in the slightest. It’s a cesspool of the feminist movement that has taken hold in the liberal progressive society in the United States and Europe. Girls that are actually serious about their faith and have that conservative background with strong fathers will give you almost ZERO play sexually whatsoever without serious marriage type courtship. They need to be thoroughly vetted, because many of them ar… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Girl suddenly stopped responding.She’s clearly not that interested. If a girl you liked, texted you asking to hangout, then called, then texted you again, would you respond to one of those? The answer is duh. Move on to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Should I be ghosting someone I will probably see?I see no issue with how you handled it. My advice moving forward would be to act like nothing happened, and be completely normal and nice about it. If you want, respond to her apology with “No worries”. Let that hamster run, and game others. RP 101. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | BaldingYour level of wit is next-level. Just like your mommy issues, I think I’ll cry myself to sleep over it without bragging to some middle aged child over the internet about how much better at life I am than he is. Unfortunately, I have business to attend to instead of continuing to make a joke of you, so I’ll leave you in your self proclaimed misery. If you feel you need to get the last word to make yourself feel like a man, feel free, the tissues are on the counter to the left. Peace | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 04:17 PM |
| 6 | BaldingPost history checks out. You’re an absolute joke. “Chronically unhappy, unmotivated, dull person.” Spot on. Edit: Cocaine? Really? And you’re talking about finasteride? Oh you’re incredibly special. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 05:09 AM |
| 2 | BaldingSexual side effects only exist for a tiny % of people who use finasteride. Do your own research, don’t be a blind sheep. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 06:20 PM |
| 7 | BaldingI’m in the exact same boat. I chose to hop on finasteride, I’m in my 2nd month now (results are supposed to be noticeable after 3 if it works) and the initial shedding was annoying, but I’ve seen no other side effects. My advice, do whatever the fuck YOU want. Don’t listen to these fucks in here telling you to go bald, unless it’s what YOU want. The data is clear, men with hair are more attractive than men without hair. It’s an undeniable indicator of physical health. Of course there are some me… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 03:12 AM |
| 5 | How did you stop being a pushover/people pleaser/nice guy?Behavior therapy training is the answer. For someone who’s disagreeable as hell, therapists will get them to try to do nice things for people. Take your family out for dinner, grab some ice cream for other people, do some extra chores. This was the case for me. For the pushover, the opposite is the case. You want to get practice saying “no” and standing up for your own needs and wants before that of others. Being selfish, doings things for you. This is very hard for people, because they don’t li… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 03:04 AM |
| 3 | does going to church lower your smv?That’s the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. Where in the Bible does it say to pray to Mary or the Saints? Where did Christ teach that? Where did Peter or Paul or other authors of the NT teach that? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 08:35 PM |
| 52 | Finally left herYour “breakup text” was absolutely shit and I’m not trying to be mean to you. You don’t owe her that explanation. She treated you like shit? “Okay great” (Uncle Chael voice). SAY NOTHING. Get out of her frame, and do not contact her ever again. If you see her somewhere, be nice, play nice and make a polite excuse and GTFO. Do not engage with her nonsense. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Financial advice on how to investI have a few years of investing experience. This is my general advice, always do your own research. First things first, before you invest you need to have health insurance, an emergency fund of 3-6 months living expenses, and no debt. If you have those, then you are safe to begin investing. I’d highly recommend reading The Intelligent Investor” by Benjamin Graham, as well as Warren Buffett’s biography, as well as the Snowball effect, things like that. When you’ve read these books you’ll have a b… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 10:50 PM |
| 8 | Seeing girls being not attracted to me through TRP lenses is fucking with my head and need advice on how to move on from the rejectionsThere’s no way we can automatically see every issue just based on a short post like this, but my opinion is that it’s probably multiple factors together. You can get rejected for a million different reasons. Don’t get yourself down, you have a very small sample size and low experience. Your charisma, and your social intelligence, and your social circle, and your body, and your career will all improve in time. Focus on the day and focus on winning that day, you’ll make tons of mistakes but you’ll… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 10:06 PM |
| 3 | How do you differ between disrespect and joking?My advice is to not take anything too seriously and to put yourself out there as much as you can and you’ll learn quickly. If you want, watch some standup comedy and see the tonality of a roast, versus an insult. A joke is making fun of something the other person DOESNT take seriously, an insult is making fun of something the other person DOES take seriously. It’s like, making fun of a ballerina on her balance could be an insult, but making fun of the same ballerina about how she looks like she’… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 08:40 AM |
| 3 | I'm 5'5 please give me hopeWhat people miss here is that height is just one indicator of competence in the male dominance hierarchy. There are other important factors, muscularity, financial status, social standing, facial symmetry, etc. Human beings are complex creatures, it isn’t just like bam, you’re born 6’3 and life with women is easy AF. Believe me, I’ve been the tall guy early in life that got no play whatsoever before, it’s about your total package and developing it. Get jacked, maximize clothing, facial hair if p… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 08:27 AM |
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