justgetmesomeket Archive

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7	Isn’t nightlife 95% women sticking to their groups? I’m from Germany. I live in Stuttgart, it’s in the south of Germany. Traveled to a lot of different cities around europe for music events/festivals and like to also combine it with some kind of vacation. But most of the time in Germany i travel to Berlin or NRW (North-Rhine-Westphalia). Got a lot of good friends in Berlin. For nightlife i like it there the most :)	/r/seduction	03/05/26 01:45 PM
33	Isn’t nightlife 95% women sticking to their groups? Depends on the nightclubs. There is nightlife (especially in europe) where people and are all engaging with each other and some of them even have sex in the club or after that. Mostly something like Techno, House and electronic music overall. These communities are really open and such things happen on the regular. Where this doesn’t always happen so naturally are events, which are really commercial and are more about being seen (the ego) and not about experiencing one another. Where you pop bott…	/r/seduction	03/05/26 02:31 AM
1	I can’t get women no matter what i do. It seems impossible I know how you feel dude. I also had a lot of pain and anger. But believe me there is no shortcut to that. You have to go through the painful process, but what comes at the other side can be beautiful. Your life will never be complete in every sense or perfect, but it will be really good after such a process, because you start to appreciate life. And then good things happen, believe me. But now, nobody can like you if you don’t like yourself first. I’m sorry, but that’s the truth. But from your …	/r/seduction	11/04/26 11:02 PM
1	I can’t get women no matter what i do. It seems impossible Like someone already mentioned, you are insecure and have an empathy problem. You want it so bad and you only think about yourself. But i was also like that when i was your age. I was in the same shoes. I’m now 24 and i can say you that your problems with women will go away, if you: Stop making your happiness and worth dependent on external factors like women. You give yourself worth and that gives yourself confidence because you don’t make it dependent on others. You are desperate for validatio…	/r/seduction	11/04/26 10:46 PM
14	Did I end things too early with a girl because of lack of physical attraction? I understand your decision and think it was right to break it off the way you did. Because in my opinion you can have what you want. I think we are quite the same because, i’m looking for a partner that: is physically attractive to me im sexually aroused by communication works good and naturally has desire for me is independent and emotionally stable very sweet, caring and thoughtful able to compromise is honest and direct I have these standards because i myself also work that way and give the s…	/r/seduction	04/04/26 03:20 AM
1	Most of you don’t realize what you’re doing wrong with women But the problem of finding a date is not that you’re not extroverted enough or that your parents didn’t expose you enough to social settings. Sure it’s helps, but it’s really just inner self work which impacts your energy that you radiate. It’s your feeling of self worth. Because there are lots of people that are more on the introverted side but still have no problem with finding dates or friends. Because they are internally fulfilled and don’t seem desperate or needy. Do you understand what i’m…	/r/seduction	03/04/26 06:00 PM
1	Most of you don’t realize what you’re doing wrong with women Your framing it in a way that’s suggests that there are exterior factors (parents, siblings, social exposure) and the exposure in early childhood or teenage years, make it seem easy to socialize for people with your said conditions. But it really is down to the person itself and just because someone has more exposure it doesn’t mean they have it way easier. It’s just inner self work that makes people stand out, not their circumstances or upbringing. It’s if you accept yourself and work on improv…	/r/seduction	03/04/26 01:35 AM
3	Most of you don’t realize what you’re doing wrong with women That’s just bullshit. I was the weird kid, my whole childhood and teenage years. I only started to get better at socializing and talking to girls in my twenties. I didn’t go to collage, i was a just a young guy that was working some part time jobs and enjoying dibbling in drugs and my local party scene. At first i was just enjoying the music, but didn’t feel confident talking to other people or even girls and was just really bad at it. ( I didn’t have a filter what to say and was in my head a lo…	/r/seduction	02/04/26 08:24 PM
11	This is WAY too easy now! That’s how it goes man! Just talk to them and most of the time, if you just don’t sweat it and have a playful conversation where you also have fun, you realize that it’s actually pretty easy if you talk to them like a normal person and don’t stress about the outcome of the conversation. Just like with people that are close to you and you like to talk too. If you establish this carefree and familiar dynamic between you and the person you talk to, then people are much more comfortable with you fro…	/r/seduction	19/03/26 07:01 PM
0	I hate him, but am I wrong for wanting some of the kind of attention that Clavicular is getting? Is this the way you want to get that attention and desire you should ask yourself? because there are different ways and different kinds of affection that women will give you. I don’t for myself would not want to have that type of attention, because social skills, looks, charisma are better traits for me to max out than wealth or fame, because they attract different types of people. I am interested in real interest in me and my vibe and not my providing properties or social status. Because usuall…	/r/seduction	14/03/26 11:22 PM
1	How I went from weird, socially awkward, and no social circle to minimum of 2 dates a week in about a year. Maybe a myth for some, but definitely not for me. Exposure has to be on a regular basis. For me it is my hometown club. The more i started getting with girls there, walking around, making out etc. The more other girls and friends saw it, the more i got hit on and even friends that found me uninteresting before, started to hit me up. It’s needs to be constant display over longer periods of time in the same places. Only then it works.	/r/seduction	07/03/26 01:17 AM
3	How I went from weird, socially awkward, and no social circle to minimum of 2 dates a week in about a year. it’s preselection. women want men that are wanted by other women. Or even people in general. just psychology basically. and yes it works well in your favor.	/r/seduction	06/03/26 05:24 PM
1	Socializing with women is a skill. Master it. Weak social skills CAN OVERRIDE GOOD LOOKS AT TIMES.. Thanks for the explanation. i get what you mean, but if somebody is in the first group, no script will help. They gotta try to get socially calibrated by brute force. Trial and error. It is hard, but everything that’s nice has to be worked for. The only way is the uncomfortable one. Nice exchange of opinions though, have a great day mate.	/r/seduction	05/03/26 06:45 PM
1	Socializing with women is a skill. Master it. Weak social skills CAN OVERRIDE GOOD LOOKS AT TIMES.. Dude, i don’t even fucking know what the fuck you’re rambling about. What the fuck is RSD? Ich don’t use openers, i don’t call approaching women sets or any other BS PickUp lingo. And also i never bought anything from anybody. Believe me, i’ve been there. Didn’t know how to move, what to say, how to act etc. It really is just going out there and getting comfortable in your own skin and approaching people. Not only girls also guys. Just tryna get social. Nobody knows beforehand what to say. Becau…	/r/seduction	05/03/26 06:02 PM
2	Socializing with women is a skill. Master it. Weak social skills CAN OVERRIDE GOOD LOOKS AT TIMES.. It’s not about what you say, but how you say it. Most of communication with women is non-verbal. Things like eye contact, body language etc. What to do you ask? Just have fun what you’re doing and enjoy your time. For the meet up you should do an activity that you like and that you would also enjoy doing with your friends. So just do the thing together. The silence? Embrace it. When you’re not eager about killing the silence but are confident in just letting it be there without trying to fill it…	/r/seduction	05/03/26 03:12 PM
5	Socializing with women is a skill. Master it. Weak social skills CAN OVERRIDE GOOD LOOKS AT TIMES.. No, it really is that simple. You really just gotta talk to them. About what? About anything you like basically. What are you talking about with your friends? The things that interest you. The things that interest them. Die you need to train beforehand, before you started talking to other people? No, you just started talking about things that interest you. You just have to be truly yourself and not try to put up a show to impress her. I wasted 7 years trying to be someone i am not and i could at…	/r/seduction	05/03/26 01:15 PM
1	Approach to girls who say they don't kiss on the first date if two people match energetically, there will be no question if and when your gonna kiss somebody. no rule like only after the second date. kissing will just happen naturally if your in close proximity and if the vibe is right. but maybe that’s just my opinion because i only kiss with people that feel the same way about intimacy and don’t find kissing somebody you like, something that has to be gatekept until i tested, if mutual interest in the other person is there. i will already feel it the m…	/r/seduction	28/02/26 10:35 PM
1	Approach to girls who say they don't kiss on the first date because every woman wants to be kissed from a man she truly desires	/r/seduction	28/02/26 10:54 AM