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I have a 35 lb kettlebell I got off Amazon for 45 bucks and a workout video (5 dollar digital download from Onnit.com) that is turning me into a beast of a man. Getting a second bell soon. Fuck the gym. I also do bodyweight stuff, ride a bike and run.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:35 AM
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I married one of these women. I started coming here to build the skills and personality to keep her, and to go forth and do good man shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 06:02 AM
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I smoke to help actually do things. It's exceptionally good for working out and making any sort of arts or crafts. Anything that requires more finesse than procedure. I think if weed makes you lazy, then you're probably lazy without it. Then again, there's a difference between the couch lock effect of some indicas and the cleaner brain boost of many sativas. I stick to sativas. It's worth it to experiment with strains. I've had some White Widow where I was high as fuck, but couldn't feel it at a…
/r/MGTOW10/03/15 01:21 AM
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I think a lot of people didn't realize the real, tangible good "patriarchal" structures did. I think that the modern feminist argument against patriarchy is largely straw man anyway. The emphasis, as most of us here know, shouldn't be on taking that away, but on instructing men on how best to assume that role.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 03:11 PM
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My problem with feminists is that they identify as feminists, rather than humanists. Don't expect me as a man to get on board with you when your main agenda, by definition, doesn't include me.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 09:42 PM
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I don't know if I want to fuck my wife or eat her. This is the best feeling.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 05:45 PM
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Part of my own journey to personal improvement has involved lots and lots of nature. Even if I can't get out and camp all the time, I try to do 2 to 3 outings a month where I day hike around 14 miles with my full overnight pack. Exercise pays some dividends anyway. Doing it out in the wild maxes that out. After enough of this, the volume just gets turned way way down on everything else in my life.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:01 PM
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Check out /r/malefashionadvice for some good advice, or at least some decent jumping off points.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:57 PM
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I've faced plenty of temptation. At this point I'm a brick wall when it comes to stuff like that. More importantly, I don't shit where I eat.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 03:54 PM
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Among other things, world travel taught me how to be seriously organized and more importantly, how to properly say yes to everything that comes my way. Carpe diem, etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 10:53 PM
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I'm in a similar position, where I'm almost disgusted to be interacting with members of my current friend group, because it feels like I'm trapped in a room full of fucking losers. I'm starting to notice that my male friend's women are responding to me far more positively than before. I'm walking around at places where we gather and find their girlfriends and wives following me around. I'd never cross the line there, but it's fun nonetheless. On some level, I'm acting deliberately, but mostly, I…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:14 PM
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I think about how easily I would have lost my shit or tried to avoid confrontation before and cringe. It's actually so much easier (or perhaps just simpler) to embrace my masculinity and take what comes, do the work, be honest with who I am and what I want.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:02 PM
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I'm noticing this in all my social circles and at work. Most men are a mix of A and B traits, but I'm really seeing that most of these guys are closer to the beta side than anything. I'm still a good bit away from fully formed myself, however, wow, just knowing how I'm supposed to be and why changes everything. I wonder what my wife is thinking right now, as I hold frame perpetually, take no shit, lock my eyes on hers and everyone else's when speaking or listening, generally acting like nothing …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:58 PM
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So many men here are in denial that they are still BP at heart. At a 12-step meeting, everyone's an addict, with some being less or more so than others.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 08:25 PM
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Intelligence in a woman now is something I look for and can never seem to find. I find a lot of average intelligence women who think they are smart which is a deal breaker for me. I completely lose interest. With me, intelligent women naturally bring out the "amused mastery", teasing and playful back and forth far more than some dunce who might actually be an easier conquest. I met a hot little 8+ in a bar one night and she was launching all kinds of shit my way, and I was grinning and launching…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 07:04 PM
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Great timing. I just started listening to this show yesterday. Patrice is the patron saint of Red Pill. He started out just like many of us, and had to grow into what he became.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 06:40 PM
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don’t become complacent or forget how fucking awesome it is to be a man in a sea of feminized bitches. Yes, so much yes!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/15 07:42 PM
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This could be the overarching motto for men. We can always be better, can always improve our attractiveness and skills, nearly fully separate from how we actually look.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 10:11 PM
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I've banged 9's who weren't nearly as good as some 6's or 7's. I mean, eye candy is eye candy of course.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 10:09 PM
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The airplane oxygen mask analogy is always dead on. You can do little for others if you're barely hanging on yourself. Hell, that's straight Maslow's Hierarchy stuff.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 09:19 PM
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Shame is something we need far more of in this culture.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 09:15 PM
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It's really not that hard at all. Buy as little prepackaged stuff as you can with the majority being meat and vegetables. Maybe most importantly, learn not just how to cook, but how to cook very well. If anything, it's a relaxing activity and a form of craft. Being intentional about selecting and preparing food has only enriched my life. Another guy mentioned cutting carbs. Absolutely this. I went hardcore and got on the keto diet for a few months. I felt amazing and lost 10 lbs like it was noth…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 09:14 PM
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It's stronger to not feel the need to even explain yourself to such a person. Hell, you're only 21 though...you're starting from a much better place than I did when I was your age and I think you did well here.
/r/MGTOW23/02/15 11:15 PM
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fedora lard asses on reddit So many interchangeable terms in one phrase.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 07:36 PM
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Well timed post, from my perspective. I've been slowly (too slowly) getting myself back in shape after too long away. I've been slow to get my upper body going, but I use a fitbit to track my daily steps, so I try to get out during lunchtime and walk 3 or 4 miles, just about every day, with a 10 or so mile day hike once a week. The benefits to attitude and apparent charisma with other people are very noticeable. So yep, time to get some pushups going to start off with. I plan to join the gym at …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 09:56 PM
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Indeed. If you made it out of childhood, chances were decent that you could live to old age.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:04 PM
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My wife and I went into our wedding with zero debt and paid cash for that as well as our honeymoon in Switzerland. Bought a house a few months later, have been aggressively decorating, landscaping, fixing things, etc, all for cash. A year before our wedding last May we were collectively in about $15,000 worth of debt. A year after, and we are currently up by $10,000 and rising quickly. Though we have a nice house in a desirable area and live pretty well, we still operate well beneath our means, …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/15 11:06 PM
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Interestingly, if she said (and meant) something like "why are you such a sexy example of manly badassery?" you give the same response.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/15 10:31 PM
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Innocent aloofness is always my default during these little nudges.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/15 08:32 PM
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I think Dave operates under the assumption that if you follow his Baby Steps, you won't even need a credit score anymore. And I agree...credit score is just continuing to play a game I've decided to leave. However, in practice, I feel like that puts a person at a potential disadvantage in this culture and so I make some use of my remaining cards and so in combination with my mortgage, I have a very high score.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/15 07:04 PM
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We went from being about $12000 bucks in debt one year, to having that much in savings a year and a half later, and putting away 2000 to 2800 bucks a month in savings and retirement. I wish I'd taken that class when I was 17, instead of 37.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/15 09:07 PM
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Lots of great (un)common sense insight here. You can test this by checking on the "good" examples in film and television. The rugged, outdoorsy man seems universally accepted as more viscerally attractive than the guy sitting in an office or shopping in a mall. I get out and do a bit of backcountry hiking whenever possible. Even decently remote day hikes if time is short. I'm hiking Georgia's section of the Appalachian Trail this summer. I also spend a bit of time detached from the house in my w…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/15 07:46 PM
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I recommend you both look into taking Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University class. It's 90 bucks for an 8-week class that meets once a week. It's guided by an FPU-certified instructor but mainly you just watch a video together with some light exercises in a workbook. It's primarily aimed at people wanting to get out of debt, and my wife and I used it for that purpose. But what it really did was give us a financial vocabulary and common sense approach to budgeting that allowed us to communicat…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/15 05:56 PM
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Now, however, I'm 30 years old, am a husband, a father, a homeowner, a professional...I've earned the right to call myself a man and I am selling myself short if I do anything less. I want her to see me, and refer to me, as a man. Bam.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 08:32 PM
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Too right. I hunted and camped with my Dad as a kid. I can't say it was the definitive rite of passage for me, but it has informed a lot of what I know about how to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 05:49 PM
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And it's so prevalent now for males to self-identify as a "guy" or "dude" or whatever else...anything other than "man". I wonder if this is something that has come about with the rise of feminism. We also don't have anything overarching in our culture that serves as a rite of passage from boy to man so they have that title definitely bestowed upon them.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 04:43 PM
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As others say, start working out. Being in good physical shape is like a hack for your life. It will improve many areas you aren't even considering right now. That alone may make headway in a lot of the areas where you aren't confident right now. Also, assess your goals and where you are in relation to them. Along with overcoming physical difficulty (working out) you should be overcoming mental/emotional strife as well. In other words, go forth and be tested. Go ahead and fail, but get up again …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 10:13 PM
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Hell, I screen girls nowadays more than the girls screen me. Absolutely the correct place to launch from anyway.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 09:57 PM
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My wife is smart and accomplished, a tough cookie. If you asked her if she's a feminist, she'd certainly say yes. But RP tactics absolutely work with her. I'd say our better and happier interactions take place when she is in my frame and I am drawing on what I've learned here.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 09:56 PM
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A strong, independent ball-buster of a woman who’s constantly challenging you, thinks she’s too smart for you, and pisses all over anything masculine? That’s an annoying bitch, not a superior woman. Not always. Often that is a woman who is begging, crying, sobbing almost hysterically, to be dominated by a strong man. I always say that if you want to really clean up, move to some uber hipster enclave like Portland. It'll be full of super lefty feminist types. However, they've never encountered a …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 09:50 PM
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I am saying that I am not going to fake an email that never existed in the first place.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 01:51 PM
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See, this I understand. Maximizing what's at hand. However, i'll not fabricate some email.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 03:15 AM
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That suggestion is insane.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 02:02 AM
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Searching the comments some more. This guy right here just fucking nails it (long post): RustyLH Evan…DUDE…try listening to him. He is saying that there was a time when men did want women for more than sex. He is saying that today, women are just too much of a liability. I spent 20 years in the Navy and I can assure you of one thing…there is a huge difference between American women and women from other countries. We American men have taken not of that. Expect to see more marriages with foreign b…
/r/MGTOW29/01/15 10:22 PM
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This comment from "Kate" Your article insinuates that men don’t feel the need to have relationships, nor value them since they get the majority of what they need elsewhere. So then why do men get in relationships at all? You spend a great deal of time telling women what they’re doing wrong when it comes to dealing with men so enlighten us as to how we’re supposed to make men value us more when apparently they don’t need us anyway. And the gold response from Evan: You don’t “make” men value you. …
/r/MGTOW29/01/15 08:24 PM
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I stumbled across TRP over a year ago but rejected the community because a lot of guys seemed to either take it too far or came off as weird creeps. Getting into it now with a more open mind, I'm sure that's just a vocal minority. Still, MRP is a whole other animal and seems like there is much more realistic and measured usage of these principles going on here. It's a surprisingly satisfying thing to use PUA tactics and such on the woman I'm spending my life with. I love games and game theory, a…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 07:25 PM
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Do not be afraid to make her jealous Indeed. I came home last night and wanted to remark to my wife that in the two years I've been at my job, it seems like more than half the staff has changed out and in a couple more years it might just be a handful of the original core employees left. An innocuous, "how was your day" kind of statement. But I prefaced it with "I met the new woman who just joined our team today and it got me thinking about...blah blah blah" I spent another minute just talking a…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 06:32 PM
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I find that anytime people try to "challenge our definitions of beauty" my inclination to ignore them entirely is strong. Nobody who is actually attractive feels the need to do this.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 08:40 PM
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I like that analogy. I'd add that if he didn't have that soft place to land, he'll keep a holding pattern for a while, but eventually that plane is gonna run out of fuel and land somewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/15 05:34 PM
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Just take what you find valuable and disregard the rest. Not everyone you run into who subscribes to a particular movement will do it "correctly" anyway.
/r/MGTOW06/01/15 05:59 PM
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What a mess.
/r/MGTOW06/01/15 05:49 PM
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I think some are more sensitive to this than others. I have vegan and vegetarian friends who seem active and healthy and do fine. If I go without animal fat and protein for a relatively short span of time, I feel lousy, not to mention I will salivate just seeing a cow or a deer or chicken walking around.
/r/MGTOW06/01/15 05:35 PM
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The acquisition and employment of real, usable skills should be at the heart of any MGTOW guy's life. Best way to go your own way is to have as wide open a path as possible. It's odd that so many men shy away from cooking when everything about it is congruent with some of our best inclinations to make and do and invent.
/r/MGTOW06/01/15 05:30 PM
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Shouldn't she be calling for all women to come to her defense also? Hit the nail on the head.
/r/MGTOW06/01/15 05:08 PM
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I'd say that both extremes illustrate just two boundaries of manly potential.
/r/MensRights31/01/14 05:11 PM
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