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Discussionjusthanging92/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 07:36 AM
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Question for RedPilljusthanging92/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 06:53 AM
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Discussionjusthanging92/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 04:17 AM
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Question for Womenjusthanging92/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 10:05 AM
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justhanging92/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 06:08 AM
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I would have to see an actual study regarding how lack of conscious control of your thoughts have anything to do with how effective your brain is in handling the rest of your body. You make it sound that the brain being aware of why it gets aroused it makes it less effective at controlling the body’s organs. And agin, I wouldn’t say women find these taboo subjects sexy, more like it became important for survival for the genitals to react even with unwanted sexual stimuli.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 11:42 AM
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This frees up the limited resources available to the conscious portion of the brain for other tasks. What do you mean by this? What does the brain have to loose with being aware about what turns them on? What you are talking about is arousal non concordance and people suggested this happens more often with women because of the risk rape posed to them. If their genitals did not react they risk injury by the forceful penetration. It’s not really something they truly want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 10:53 AM
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If men get rewarded with sex when they do something, I’m pretty sure they will continue to do it because it’s something they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 10:46 AM
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The fact that "low-promiscuity" is valuable to both sexes, means it's attractive as a trait per se in both sexes. This is interesting because a common idea I hear in the red pill is women like knowing a man can cheat, some people go so far as to say the idea of a man cheating would turn on a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:02 PM
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They are though, taking care of children and keeping them clean and fed is time consuming
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 10:33 AM
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early 20th century would be before the world wars, the videos and articles talking about the sex recession seem to only compare millennials with gen x
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 12:33 PM
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Now that I think about, could the drop of sex be because gen x was part of the sexual revolution? Jimmy Kimmel only compared millenials to one generation, what’s to say they are dropping to normal levels now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 12:15 PM
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What’s interesting though is that the rate of STDs have increased despite the sex recession https://www.cdc.gov/media/releases/2018/p0828-increases-in-stds.html
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 10:31 AM
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With what you quoted from the op, I really don’t know what you are talking about. This sounds like the guy was fully aware of her condition but wasn’t concerned about it and kept doing his thing. If she was feeling fine it and didn’t have any pressing matters, then yeah it can be an exxageration
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 10:10 AM
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I’m saying how it is in my experience, no excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 10:00 AM
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It’s possible she is projecting, she doesn’t feel attraction to this guy so why would he? I had female friends buy me thingg or get me things when I haven’t done anything besides be a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 09:57 AM
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30% is not the majority of women though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:13 AM
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that all of these are the rule and not the exception. Which is exactly the problem I am talking about here. Well I can’t say for sure that they are the exception and not the rule, but I personally haven’t seen women being actively malicious with their friendships, just clueless. Keep in mind though I’m talking younger women though So when they get into a situation where a guy with whom is nothing wrong except that he is. well, not hot (possibly effeminate) and kind of a doormat, all in all not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 12:37 AM
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Speaking from experience, they are that clueless, but it’s mostly with younger women who are just coming out of their teen years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:07 PM
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It’s not that the attractions is reprogrammed, more like reality wasn’t as sexy as you thought it would be, or the impression was too negative that you no longer associate arousal to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:06 PM
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How are men being victimized though? The friend zone is self-inflicted and the women I mentioned are clueless to what’s going on. The men are not being direct to their intentions, when they are finally direct, they respond with agressivness over a problem the women weren’t even aware was a problem. Every single time I seen women complain about a nice guy has been about the guy saying he is so nice and then turning around and calling her a bitch when he isn’t give what he wants, or cutting all ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 01:51 PM
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The confusion guys have over “nice guys” has confused me lol every time I seen a woman complain about a “nice guy”, it’s always followed by a screenshot with a guy saying “I’m so nice” followed by “you’re a bitch”. It’s like if somebody came up to you after almost being mugged and them saying “I saved you from a mugging now I expect repayment, give me a percentage of the money the would have been stolen. If you don’t, you are selfish scum”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 01:03 PM
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As a person who used to be really into feminism, I think you are over complicating things and reaching the wrong conclusions. It’s thanks to feminism that the blank slate ideology became so popular, and feminist whole heartedly believe in it so they aren’t looking at male-female relationships in a sexual manner. Many feminists truly believe a platonic friendship between men and women is entirely possible and they are more than happy to have male friendships to prove how gender stereotypes aren’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 12:50 PM
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What happened the morning after?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 12:01 PM
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Yes, they are intristically alluring because these bad boys have a masculine edge but it comes at an emotional cost. I honestly think women do get sick of the emotional strain and don’t think the change is merely because of a lack of opportunity to attract alphas
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 11:38 AM
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A woman might think that her attraction is a matter of fashion choice but that's just her making shit up because she doesn't know why some guys get her wet, and it's a nice bullshit answer that can make her feel like she's sophisticated and not being ruled by her base instincts. The woman saying she wants to wear high heels around a guy is admitting she is turned on by tall men, that’s it. Nothing about being sophisticated, she wants to be around a tall guy at all times that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 11:26 AM
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I would call a red flag on anyone who's like "I used to like bad boys but realised that I don't", it's just self talk. Why though? I would think women like the idea of a bad boy, but reality was very different from fantasy and they would recontextualize their attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 11:11 AM
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Red pill states is because women have less options as they get older and they conveniently self reflect during this time and claim they changed and matured when in fact they can’t pull attention anymore and so get the duitiful beta they aren’t into so as to not become a spinster. If they still had their youth, they would never change. Idk but it doesn’t sound completely right to me, older women and more experienced women actively tell younger inexperienced women to not date the “fuckboys” cause …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 11:05 AM
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Even if it includes making her life miserable? Or that she wished things worked out differently? Because /u/sadomasochrist has mentioned having a red pill relationship, which includes spinning plates, despite being married and mentioning how his wife wished things were different, that sounds like an unhealthy relationship. If a woman says she “hates” you or talks shit about you, how is that fully accepting your presence as her ideal mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 08:09 PM
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I don’t see how saying she is attracted to men because of shoes is better for self image than admitting they turn her on, the sounds stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 08:01 PM
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That seems like the answer will change depending on what I say and that shouldn’t be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 04:02 AM
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The explanation I heard about assholes is that they are assholes to other men and not necessarily to their women. I see women happy in relationships and not say they hate the guy. When it comes down to it, to me this sounds like just because it works they must secretly like it or it’s an ideal method to do things. Blackmailing and gaslighting can work but you don’t question that people don’t like to be in this situation. People may hate their jobs but they don’t hate the money they receive, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 03:57 AM
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That she’s talking indirectly but it isnt ultimately a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 03:29 AM
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Yeah, and the woman you talked too didn’t deny she liked tall guys so what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 03:24 AM
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That doesn’t make sense either, the only ones who say that’s a compliment seem to be pick up artists from what I seen, because it shows you aren’t falling for the trap that is LTR’s. Why would in a good relationship a woman will “hate you”? If she truly likes the relationship I wouldn’t think this would even come up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 03:22 AM
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This is why we can still grow until we die. Hardships take some of women's life energy away, little by little, but hardships make men stronger, bigger. We're built to endure and to grow. This sounds like a lie, how does one half of the population stop growing, you still gain wisdom trough experience. It also sounds like a lie since I see many men never move past their sutations and always having the same problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 03:16 AM
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You can either give her "what she wants" and she'll divorce you or you can give her what she wants and she'll "hate you." This doesn’t make sense at all, I guess I have to see it to believe it. It doesn’t seem that you are in a good situation at all if “she hates you”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 03:11 AM
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But won’t it sometimes feel like your lying to your man though? If you had to negotiate desire and making youserlf get turn on for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 02:33 AM
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Getting an illness is not the same as not being able to have sex, one is potentially life threatening and in another you just get annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 02:20 AM
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So just be in denial when women tell you otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 01:48 AM
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I don't understand why you think it's a lie lol. How exactly you are supposed to explain why gender differences attract people? "I like guys of a certain height because evolutionary phycology deemed it relevant to my interest for the sake of survival. High heels confuses the primitive lizard brain and thus any height advantage he naturally had is irrelevant"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 07:14 PM
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Apply the low libido rationalization to any other facet of life and you look like the lazy ass that just doesn’t feel like it. I don’t say that I have a low job drive or a low gym desire or a low chore urge. This sounds so weird to me, growing up, I thought love came before sex and sex isn't important and shouldn't matter at all, that its a shallow way to measure love, which is why I thought friendships were superior to romances. Also, growing up, I been thought that working and exercising is ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 07:03 PM
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I understand the importance of actively maintaining your marriage with sex and the need to understand how men feel love, but doesn't red pill say " you can't negotiate genuine desire". I'm seeing comments here saying to essentially "fake it to you make it" isn't it too late by then? If she has to dig deeper, doesn't that mean she is negotiating with her own desire and anything she comes up with will be subpar and it's a disservice to both the husband and her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 06:50 PM
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A wife getting ill sounds more pertinent than a guy getting blue balled though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 06:35 PM
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How can there be a negative correlation when if a woman is unsatisfied she could either stay out leave though? That sounds to me like there wouldn't be a correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 06:21 PM
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Of course women aren't attracted to taller men because of shoes, she just inderectly told you that guys who are shorter than her dont turn her on, so no lie was told
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 06:13 PM
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Still doesn't sound like a lie to me, as I said, wearing heels can ruin the image of a man for her if all of a sudden she is taller than him. It's just a very round about way of saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 07:27 AM
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To me it sounded like it can go either or for women, either they are unsatisfied and leave, or are unsatisfied and don’t leave but there isn’t enough of a pattern to realibly predict anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 07:17 AM
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Statistic only shows who initiate divorces more on paper, does it go in depth as to why and whether it’s all based on a technicality? It’s not so much as shifting accountability but maybe realizing the information might be incomplete
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 07:06 AM
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When a woman has power over a man, such as the power to emotionally crush him, take the kids, house, and bank account, and get a check every month from him, while the man has no power - not even the power to leave - he starts to seem a lot less attractive to her, even if he's doing the exact same things he did before she married him. She stops wanting to have sex with him, but thinks it's just normal and natural in a marriage for sex lives to cool off. Is this really something that happens? You …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 06:43 AM
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I asked her why she likes taller men and she said “because I want to wear heels.” I left it at that but it’s like damn lady I have no skin in this game. You don’t have to lie to me about why you have your sexual preferences. Wait are you saying she was lying to you as to why she likes taller men? Because if so, she didn’t lie to you, she indirectly told you that high heels ruin the image of a guy if he is not tall enough. She wants to be next to a tall man but she also wears high heels a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 06:02 AM
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What do you do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 12:48 AM
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No one argued against the EC post though, so this type of behavior is definitely not being discouraged in the reddit community at least
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 11:52 AM
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I had a conversation with an older female family member and, among many things, one of the interesting things she said was that being a stay at home mom is harder work than going out and working at a job to pay for the bills, this coming from someone who worked full time at a grocery store for over 2 decades. Her logic was that with work there is a clear end of the day, once the day is home you go home and relax. Work around the house is never done, you have to make sure the house stays clean, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 11:31 AM
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Well what about people like Rollo or the family alpha who write for refill and have lasting marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 05:36 AM
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I’m thinking 11 months is too soon to tell if a relationship dynamic can last, I think going trough difficult times or adding children to the mix really reveals what can or can’t work. But then again, you are bisexual with a bisexual man so it doesn’t describe most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 09:11 AM
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Well, idk if I would ever be attracted enough to an overweight guy to start a relationship in the first place, but to answer your questions 1) if the relationship truly stays the same, then I will feel I have nothing to worry, if other women are very persistent though, I might get aggressive toward those women. 2)I think I would get a sense of superiority if I have such a coveted man, idk about him being suddenly sexier though. 3) I don’t see how, if things are truly the same then why would I ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 08:44 AM
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When it comes to these types of things my brother is open with me with what he has done, he has cheated on his gf and doesn’t mind telling me. But he has also told me that men are disgusting pigs and that I shouldn’t be taking shit from some guy, just concentrate on me and my studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 08:21 AM
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I was always under the impression that men are incapable of empathizing with women when I was younger. If they truly cared then they wouldn’t rape or joke about it, or abandon their families and leave women to fend for themselves, they would listen to the concerns of their woman and not take it as a personal attack to their sensitive egos, and they only care if you are kissing their ass even if it goes against your own interest, but if speak up they would try to gas light you and try to discredi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 11:28 AM
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I’m thinking Henry Cavill is very generically attractive even ignoring his status.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 02:37 PM
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But isn’t the problem that you can’t advance in your career to begin with because the men who control the industry require you to sleep with them and could blacklist you or something? This is a wall men don’t have to face so you are putting extra pressure on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 05:16 AM
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Is it’s really feminine behavior or are we just thinking that behaviours exhibited by top tier men is what normal looks like? Like expecting UMC people to act like billionaires but if they don’t is because they are acting like poor people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 05:08 AM
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This is a thing that confuses me, a lot of women here are saying the they are hard wired for monogamy and that all other men become sexually invisible, and Rollo in one of his tweets mentions women can’t compatmentalize their arousal like men, and yeah I have felt that where I can’t start liking another guy when I already like one but idk about not being able to find other guys sexy, do fictional men count? Because while I don’t develop crushes for irl guys I definetley consume media featuring f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 04:04 AM
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Where you’d get that quote from? Also no I haven’t left, it’s been 6 years since we got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:30 AM
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That’s what happened to me. He wasn’t ugly but he wasn’t that great either but I still ended up falling for him eventually. I guess it’s weird because he was what RP would call a beta orbiter but it actually worked out for him lol. He was always there for me and I actually caught feelings for him eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:09 AM
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But see, a lot of these stories have guys with oneitis and up the beta throughout the story. It’s what women are consuming for their private enjoyment so it can’t exactly be a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:03 AM
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Women who had had partners that exhibited some of the behaviours depicted were more likely to not finish reading the series showing that when they have a real life experience to contextualise it, that it isn't that appealing after all. I had this happen to me with other stories. I had no experience with what is being told it makes for good drama, but if I did have experience with what’s been told it stops being enjoyable and a bit too real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:59 AM
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But If a woman is very inexperienced with men, she won’t look for what arouses her and automatically go for the beta bux. At least more experienced women understand what turns them on and select for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 12:16 AM
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Because it’s using your same logic, if they weren’t interested in sex before to remain a virgin until marriage, why would they be excited about sex now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 12:12 AM
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It's more a description of the guy as stable, responsible, predictable, sturdy, and reliable. which is what most women have no choice but to settle I’m mostly amazed that getting a guy like this is considered settling. Other than the predictable, that sounds like a man in control of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 12:33 PM
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I’m just wondering why is it so hard to believe that humans have a large part in building co2 levels, there are billions of us and many of us have vehicles and we expel the stuff like never before. But ignoring that, even if climate change proves to be an overreaction, what exactly is the issue in addressing our energy consumption? Solar energy does cut costs for households so what’s the harm there, and petroleum is a finite resource so better to address it now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 11:58 AM
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From what I gather after reading all these comments, is that the male hierarchy is more solid and structured while for women it’s more loose with more ambiguity. Men were the ones who essentially built society so they have to be more rigid with how they interact but it doesn’t mean they are deeper bonds, female heirarchy isn’t as strict but it doesn’t mean they have weaker bonds at an individual level. With this in mind I would like to add that there have been studies that show women have a high…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 06:53 AM
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I wouldn’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 05:23 AM
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Why would I know something so specific as the name of a cologne?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 05:13 AM
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That’s why my father stayed loyal to my mother, oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 06:17 AM
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Women mock nice guys because they're desperately searching for reasons to reject a man whom a "civilized and virtous" women ought to love. The indifference or disgust women feel towards these men must be rationalized This sounds off, I think it’s more like womenarent thinking about sex as much as men, then a guy attempts to bring sexual energy when it’s not wanted and women are bothered by that. Essentially women don’t understand how important sex is to men nor they understand how the game might…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 06:12 AM
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Well, being ignored just makes me feel isolated, I experienced it and I have no one else to turn to that’s the problem. My problems don’t go away, I guess my proble is that I always wanted my romantic partner to be my closest friend so saying this advice works for all women just sounds detrimental
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 06:04 AM
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I’m saying this as a woman and I am in a relationship. Being ignored when I have problems hasn’t really solved anything and just kinda makes things worst so I’m just wondering how this even works. If the relationships ever fail I would think that’s the one thing that’s going to really stick out and going to be used against you. It’s not really solving a problem, but hot to most effectively avoid or ignore it by compensating somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 04:22 AM
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I’m just thinking, if she hates it does she really need it? Because I understand needing a rock but it seems you could deal with that differently. Personally, I seen myself grow resentful towards apathetic behavior and it just builds up the longer it goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:44 AM
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I really don’t believe that, men love an ideal not reality, a woman acts too masculine or aggressive then men would loose interest in her, if she isn’t agreeable enough than men don’t want anything to do with that, the trick is she has to act more servile towards her man to feed his ego, if her personality isn’t submissive enough and you loose interest in her, that not loving her for who she is. Stats show a man is more likely to leave if she gets sick than vice versa, is she is too old well who…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:40 AM
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Played it a bit, now phone doesn’t have enough memory to update.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:10 AM
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It supposed to be a buffer against human sexual nature, it’s supposed to guarantee parental investment from the father for example, makes it much harder for him to just leave. Laws are there because you can’t really trust people to do the right thing all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 07:51 AM
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essentiaillay, their argument would boil down to “they are women! And you should treat them as such!” And that’s it. It’s people whose mind don’t match their body and they want the rest of the world to see them the way they see themselves and not have trans people feel inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 07:41 AM
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Can you go a bit more in depth about ignoring what she wants? How does that work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 06:47 AM
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En don’t seem very capable of doing this either though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 06:39 AM
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I’m thinking 5that main appeal of marriage is security, the problem is that if you wait too long you might not get another chance and many women know this, and sometimes you got to make a choice even when all the men around you are kinda shitty. Children is also something really important for many women, so you really need someone to provide and can’t just wait around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 06:26 AM
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How so? What you are affecting is a shitty ultimatum for women, you are saying to ignore the woman and her problems that might actually be reasonable, and just make the relationship solely on the male needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 05:41 AM
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They've all been through this. It wasn't the dishes, they weren't important. When they say "maybe I need to clean better or be a more helpful partner" we tell them to get out of her frame, work on being more attractive and mostly ignore her. Push through LMR and again, focus on attraction. There's plenty of posts about guys who stop helping and start cheating on their wives. Most of their wives start fucking them again. I think what’s going on here is that maybe the guys are taking a certain cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 06:53 AM
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More choice doesn’t equal more happiness though, isn’t this a thing for both genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 06:21 AM
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I think you are putting to much overemphasis on attraction and sex when it comes to relationships when that’s not the only thing that makes one, is it not true that women have a lower sexual drive than men? A woman’s imperative is not to have as much sex as possible, why is it so hard to believe being overburden would hamper her drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 06:18 AM
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I was thinking acceptance included people who accepted the reality of male predatory nature and worked with it rateher than be enticed by it, kinda like accepting hypergamy is a thing with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 10:53 PM
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For a young person2 years sounds like a good time to decide whether to end a relationship or keep it going until marriage, it’s not that long when deciding for a life partner
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 01:55 AM
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With only 2 guys as LTRs, it didn't sound like much experience or poor taste. Having bad taste is not the same as being unable to find a man who wants a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 11:06 PM
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You don't want to be with someone who you don't want to have sex with either, it's why you have so many guys in the red pill unhappy with their marriages. Even ignoring the issue with attraction, my logic has always been that if you marry someone much older than you at such a young age, he is going to become old and useless much faster than you, and there goes your protector.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 08:21 PM
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It does sound like big difference to me, 35 already sound to close to 40 to me, not every guy is going to be good looking at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 11:07 AM
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I was also thinking, considering your age, you were going for the safe route with your partner, but if it’s actually rocky it might be because of a few thing -your partner shows resentment about something, maybe him having to depend so much on you -maybe al he does is lay around doing the bare minimum and shows no drive, so now you are starting to second guess your relationship despite your efforts on being the supportive partner. -maybe you feel he is only really using you for his money
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 10:32 AM
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A 30something year old just doesn’t sound as attractive. It really sounds like getting with a lower energy old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 10:12 AM
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Most marriages are with people of similar age. Very few older men are actually attractive to younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 10:02 AM
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Why poor taste? 2nd guy didn’t sound that bad until it became obvious he wasn’t into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:58 AM
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I wonder if RP is a bit to quick on dismissing these women as pretending to change out of pure necessity. It takes time for things to catch up to you but people will eventually realize they did wrong and really do want to change
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:34 AM
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I think we raise our kids with aspirational lies because we are teaching them about how an ideal world would work if everybody followed the rules. It’s like how we teach kids not to lie and to share their toys because it’s the right thing, while not telling them that in the real world you have to sometimes be jerk so you can gain power or not get walked over. A power hungry asshole is more of threat to society then a nice coward who only hurts himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:25 AM
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My brother has kinda done D, no go so far as leave the dude unconscious but just enough to make him fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 08:27 AM
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Now I’m wondering, how would a guy who is obviously physically outclassed going to deal with it? Should he still go for the fight?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 08:15 AM
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Feminism, rather than helping young ladies learn to invest their fortune (fertility) wisely, simply demands that women recklessly spend it all in their youth rather than letting those "misogynistic men" have a piece. You know, despite what the manosphere says about feminism making women act promiscuous and such, when I was very deep into feminism ideology I was never thought to fuck around, ore like if I want to do that go ahead and don’t let your gender be what restricts you to do things becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 07:56 AM
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My dad was also good looking and a quiet, studious engineering student when they first met. He graduated from college 2nd in his class in electrical engineering. He was well behaved and didn't drink regularly or smoke, which according to my mom was a rarity in those days. My mother said is the harmless looking men who are the most dangerous and potentially abusive. Idk but I get the impression that my dad also looked like a really nice quiet man and yet he was absuive to my mom, though not as mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 09:03 AM
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It mostly sounds like the beatings were making things worse, her husband treats her like shit and then she treats her children like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:57 AM
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More like this is reality and just saying that tradcon marriages are the best and women should not seek an education or career ignores this part of reality In an attempt of viewing things with rose tinted glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:40 AM
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My hobbies are reading gay fan fiction and japanese erotic gay comic books, been into it since middle school. I also really enjoy hiking and I play video games on and off again. Recently I been getting an interest in gardening , allmost all of my flowers grow big a beautiful, currently attempting to grow strawberries. I would really like to get into more outdoor hobbies, like mountain climbing or biking or just pick up a sport. I would also like to get into writing my own gay fan fiction and dra…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:25 AM
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I never really liked the rp advice of “ never ask her what she wants, always makes the decisions without her input and try to do what you want.” In a way, it makes me feel claustrophobic, I had to deal with this with my parents and I have to deal with it again with a boyfriend now that I’m an adult? Even then my parents would still ask me what I would want on many occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:10 AM
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Reading the tweets here and I’m just wondering why men find this so shocking? Then turn around and say “females are so disgusting and don’t know what loyalty is!”. Oh no, the shock, humans aren’t a completely monogamous species. I have a family history of men leaving or having multiple families and it’s business as usual, now women aren’t doing it in greater numbers and you see men loosing their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:42 AM
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That’s why they keep making a lot of money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 05:04 AM
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How common do you think it is? I’m thinking momentary arousal is different to the long term attraction of your partner and who you actually want to have sex with irl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:29 AM
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So do you think women can’t compartmentalize sexual arousal to other men, fictional or real, vs attraction to their own man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:22 AM
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I thought it was only a problem after childbirth? Particularly if they had children in their 30’s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:32 PM
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Supposedly because men are polygamous and are able to care about multiple women but women are only able to care about one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:27 AM
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Why “sort of”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:26 AM
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This seems more of a case where you actively stop yourself from ever being in this situation to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:23 AM
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I’m just wondering how far this is supposed to go, do you really not get even a minimal attraction to others that you soon forgot or don’t really think about? I myself noticed with my crushes on school once I get interested in someone I loose interest in others, I’m thinking of their being a time where I thought “if I didn’t like this boy, I would totally be crushing on this other one” and later that’s exactly what happened. But this was when I was still a kid with short term crushes, idk if thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:15 AM
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The SMV chart showing the value of the genders seem largely hypothetical, at least for the male side that is. I look around and see a lot of older mediocre men with mediocre women (who at least make some attempt to look good) or just average guys who don’t reach this supposed peak and just remain average. Yeah it makes sense men have more room to grow but the male chart is not accurate at all on how real life works out, it’s like saying the wall is not real for women because there a lot of them …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 10:30 AM
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There are cultural differences but we are all arguing about the nature of sexual relationships and that shouldn’t be dramatically different
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 10:04 AM
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I meantion my dad because these things follow the same line of reasoning, if you did x then it’s your fault y happened, regardless of how extreme it sounds. You are saying a woman being nice to a man or seeing how they are dressed is making them responsible, and I’m thinking that’s already taking it a bit too far. People go very far to remove any personal responsibility from themselves, especially women (themselves and people who don't want women to have personal responsibility, which goes for e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 09:48 AM
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Eww the hair, it’s always the curly hair I find unappealing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:26 AM
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I liked Chris Evans as he appears in the Captain America movies, Chris Hemsworth as he appeared in the most recent avengers movies, and Henry Cavill as he appears in the Superman movies. (I just realized all of these actors are playing superheroes lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:19 AM
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Yup I enjoyed it alright, the battle was especially cool lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:01 AM
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With the rape examples, it sounds more like men have no agency, being nice to a dude or dressing a certain way seems like the dumbest reasons to blame someone for their own rape. Very much reminds me of the time my dad blames a girl for her own murder by an ex by saying “she shouldn’t have been playing around with guys” even though she was in high school and break ups are a normal part of life. The problem, I think, is people exaggerate how far personal responsibilities goes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 07:58 AM
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You informed nothing and went on a random rant, now you responded to something more related good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:32 PM
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Like I said, he can still have a second chance and in the long run, there is no long lasting effect when someone leaves you when you are boring. You can't compare the same situation, one is more grave than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:28 PM
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That had nothing to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:35 PM
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I saw the new avenger movies today, the ending surprised me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 10:10 AM
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Women leaving cause she is bored is not comparable to this situation, he burned her and left her permanently disfigured, at least the boring dude can move up and improve himself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:11 AM
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In general, I would think it’s a bad idea to be with a single parent with young kids when you yourself aren’t one. This would be a case of people having very different experience and priorities, a parent is supposed to take of their child first so you are already not getting their full attention. I think even if both parents have children form different marriages it might be a problem, I think I remember of 2 situations where a woman dislikes their current man spending more time with their own c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:34 AM
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See, I would think a man would also abuse his power and I never thought a woman should compromise herself for a man because of that. But then again, what if she wants a family and he initially didn’t? Later he comes around and has children is she going to loose attraction to him? Or if he stops being an alcoholic for her sake, is that going to make her loose attraction because he did something she wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:10 AM
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Different source but same thing I guess. We can blame technology and remove it, but the problem is going to come back anyways if it has already happened in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:06 AM
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That’s why northern states have been largely conservative right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:46 AM
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I don't think I've ever seen a Latino with an American flag in their yard or on their vehicle This just proves you don’t know what the hell you are talking about, I’ve seen a lot of patriotic Mexican Americans, hell I can take a picture right now of a house with the American flag flying over the Mexican flag. And yes we do enjoy the same music, American music was popular in Latin countries as American pop culture influence is huge, I was surprised on how many old 80s songs my mom felt nostalgic …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:41 AM
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This is the stupidest shit you terpers say, calling every concern a woman has a shit test and then saying nonsense like “they want Muslim men to dominate them”. The reason why feminist are not opposed to Muslim immigration is because they are another minority group, seemingly powerless against white male privilege, so basically they are in the same side against white supremacy/patriarchy (they are basically interchange at this point really). I would also think women don’t have the same territori…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:25 AM
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Idk if it’s technology, I believe the ancient romans had a bachelor tax because not enough men were marrying to begin with, it’s just the wealth of the country I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:13 AM
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Because women initiate most of the divorces, their more erratic emotions, because of the welfare that facilitates single motherhood, and becaus the rise of single motherhood coincides with the rise of feminism and the destruction of the family, the manosphere starts coming to the conclusion that women are the ones at fault here while largely ignoring the possibility of a shitty father. Their claims may be more stronger if they actually have data about how many unwed mothers left their partners, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:04 AM
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The irony here is that the gf’s behavior is very similar to what you see in the manophere, but nah feminism is cancer, it’s only bad when women do it cause they are not the builders of civilization so their concerns can be largely ignored cause who cares. When it comes to your questions, many feminist realize that how can they preach equality while wanting to demean men? Many feminist seem to believe this and it sounds just so of course they will say that. Whether that’s the reality is another s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:31 AM
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Why not have a guy adopt to hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:24 AM
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That sounds too complicated to be real
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:20 AM
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I think that would more than just Alpha widowed, that sounds like falling victim to deceit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:18 AM
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I think you are putting to much expectations on women you barely know, why would women who you aren’t even in a relationship with stick around?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:43 AM
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Maybe next time don’t mention what you work as, also don’t act as a boyfriend if you just want a casual relationship or she will catch feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:35 AM
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What if that reason is that they are the only one that gives you company, you can’t chose another one else to begin with because of reasons so realistically they are the only option? With relationships there is always some utilitarian reason no matter what we tell ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:45 AM
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I don’t know about many couples, but my godmother’s daughter got married to this guy’s a few years back and I was really surprised when I met him. Literally the impression he gave me was that he was gay, he had an almost gay lisp and the look too., but now they have a new born child so we'll see how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:46 PM
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Funny how you brought up turn based JRPGs, that’s the one genre I’ve been complaining to my bf I can’t get into lol. It’s so boring, the only exceptions being Disgea, yet I have a huge library of them that I only played for like 20 minutes and then forgot about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:42 PM
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That’s true too, me and my bf were into anime when we met and that was the conversation starter that started it all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:37 PM
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That's just so weird lol, no matter how much I try, I can't make myself like FPSs or MOBAs for my boyfriend's sake lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:02 AM
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Hasn’t there been a rise of unwed, cohabitating couples though? What about older women who had their eggs frozen and had artificial insemination? In these two cases it was most likely deliberate, and teen pregnancy rates have been decreasing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:18 PM
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I noticed Peterson kinda sounds like Kermit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 07:08 AM
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I didn’t think I’d need any evidence that women think like children. Actually yes, I would also like more information on this honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 06:55 AM
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To be fair though, you don’t go to a AA meting expecting well adjusted sober people. If these men weren’t having problems why would they even be there?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 05:24 AM
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You said this why women shouldn’t be allowed into politics or debate, yet it was a male mod that removed your post. They also told you to reword your post so why didn’t you?
/r/MGTOW14/04/18 01:28 AM
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Tumblr I would think
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 07:18 AM
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Rp people complain about the same thing with the mods, if you really want to get your point across there are things you must tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 06:35 AM
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On intelligence, I wonder if this is an attitude that has changed in between generations, because I’m seeing contradicting information on this and I’m not sure what’s what. Being more competent than men in something I hear always gets a negative reaction from them, it’s undesrtandable why they would act defensive, but I look at this tweet for example and I start to wonder. From that article I believe the woman who had trouble from men feeling emasculated simply for her intelligence, but the twee…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 11:34 PM
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He looks deranged though, like he is going to bite somone’s face off lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 07:37 PM
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I never thought loudness was masculine, it seems like a very common way for women to act when with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 07:35 PM
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This is really strange, I never thought loudness to be masculine as other people are commenting, women are supposed to be chatty and this is how they communicate normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 07:32 PM
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How many men find loud women to be unattractive? And if you do why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 09:22 AM
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I would only think tattoos give a dangerous vibe if they are tattooed on their face, only gang members do that. Now a days tattoos really don’t feel like taboo and seem more like another fashion statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 09:08 AM
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Female, and man 1 I think looks the best. Edit: I wanted to specify, guy 2 looked too old compared to the others and has a weird face, guy 3 has an even weirder face. Guy one is the one with the most beautiful and friendly face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 09:02 AM
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Why bring agency into this? A romantic relationship leaves everybody vulnerable, the large amount of men in rp who had to deal with a bpd woman and still stay is a good example
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 08:59 AM
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Aren’t you conflating admiration with deferring though? I don’t see why anyone would hate to be admired for something they are good at.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 08:37 AM
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Have you actually seen this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 08:32 AM
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People can easily say that your logic is projection on how women feel love.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 08:31 AM
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This graphs you provided, only one of them compared men and women, one didn’t specify gender and 5e other was only on women. So far it’s only one single study that says that men can play the field with no negative consequences. Also fantasizing about being a virgin, that’s the first I hear of that lol. I really don’t believe you saying women fantazies female virginity more than men when that’s literally what men are predominately I see about online.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:56 AM
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s that really what most people see as ideal? I can't remember the last time I saw a guy that tall, but I doubt I thought he was super hot. I was thinking the same thing lol, why are people so into giants?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 04:15 PM
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Yeah that’s why men don’t need the guidance of rp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 09:15 AM
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It doesn’t really sound like delusion to me, more like lack of experience or not the right guidance and that’s something that can happen to anyone, not somethingnunique to gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:34 AM
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I don’t really question that there are plenty of men that start looking better as they age (biggest example for me was Ben Affleck who looked like an idiot when he was younger but now looks better), but I’m starting to doubt the idea that women don’t age well. A lot of examples people use to prove that men start looking better as they age are the top 20%, that leaves 80% of men who age like crap and that’s obviously the majority of them. It really sounds like the apex fallacy, might as well say …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:27 AM
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I don’t have a social group I hanged out with, but I also thought the idea of dating older men sounded unappealing. No matter how hot Ben Affleck looked in the BvS movie, I much preferred Henry Cavill because he is younger, Ben Affleck makes me think more of a father figure than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:13 AM
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The college thing sounds something even men would do. The promising life College is supposed to give has fooled everyone. And with relationships, I get a strong impression men do this too, rationalizing why a relationship failed and blaming the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:50 AM
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The light switch effect largely sounds like bs though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:39 AM
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Can you give an example on what women delude themselves with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:37 AM
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Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:17 AM
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But this is essentially what’s going on, otherwise why would a random man tell a woman they don’t know to smile more other than to please him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:16 AM
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I don’t think you are talking about the same group of people though, just things that bleed trough mainstream acceptance with the effort of separate groups. Why would people who like something shit on other people who also like the same thing? I guess you also have to understand that women don’t generally have the same need for sex as men, so there is lack of understanding there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 05:57 AM
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Worst personality how?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 03:46 AM
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I know I’m being biased as a 5’1 Hispanic woman, the second tallest woman in my family in fact, but how the heck is a 5’7 man considered short?? I figured that would be a good average size for a guy and the cutoff for being short would be anything below 5’5 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 06:00 AM
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Blowjobs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 04:51 AM
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Sure, kids like to emulate the adults, but from a young age there is difference between how the genders act even without the influence of society. Women always want to look pretty for one another and male attention doesn’t always factor into that. You say it’s individual cases of women saying this but it’s a whole group of them who you don’t believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 03:37 AM
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Using evolutionary psychology in order to justify not liking women with high n count sounds like hamestering to me. Male primates use mate guarding to defend their CURRENT mates, not wonder if she is a suitable mate because of her sexual history, their whole system is made up of the dominant male constantly winning the rights to the harem so why use it as an example? I’m also wondering about the validity of the evo psyc claim when what I seen is high n count men pair up with high n count women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 02:09 AM
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Lol you’re delusional if you think women will stop wearing make up. Girls from a young age show interest in make up and I really doubt it’s because they want to increase sex appeal to the boys their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 02:51 AM
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Yeah but in this case, she only felt unsatisfied once she found out his age, it’s not like he was acting any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 02:46 AM
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Who knows how often that happens, maybe not so much in the West with white people, but that’s literally what happened with my own family and it permanently scared me from ever wanting a traditional household or teaching my future daughters to ever be in such a vulnerable position.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 04:15 AM
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A 19 year old seeking out older men honestly sounds trashy, it might be technically ideal but it does sound trashy, as if she is a sugar baby in the making. Really young women aren’t thinking so far ahead for marriage or are attracted to older men (I know I largely preferred age mates for example)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 04:11 AM
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Hypergamy sounds like it’s influenced by nurture rather than nature then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 03:51 AM
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To be fair about the “I hate nerds” thing, go online and read how they talk about women and stuff, they have made a reputation of themselves of being really hateful and emotional while not offering anything of substance themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 08:02 PM
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Why didn’t it work out though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:57 PM
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No shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 05:45 PM
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So China becomes the next world power so what? When the Soviet Union fell no major country invaded them, their ills were largely self inflicted, and now over 2 decades later they do whatever the heck they went despite the other western nations telling them to stop. The US will still have its huge military and nuclear arsenal so what exactly do we expect China to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 10:18 AM
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Can this not just be attributed to your social circle? Like a guy who likes to target adulterers is going to think all women are cheaters or at least have an exaggerated view on prevalent it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:54 AM
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As far as I can see, no matter what lip service individual men give to the wonders of femininity, it will never truly be respected and a lot of women notice this and see that the only solution is to become like men instead. Go back far enough and you can easily find a lot of texts from male thinkers seeing women as less than them, if it weren’t for women pushing to get an education we would still be underestimating the capabilities of what women can do. A woman enters the workforce and is called…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:40 AM
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I think I heard something similar to beta men from u/pinkgoldrose and how being with a woman gets to their head. My mother told me the same thing to not get too obviously attached to a guy and make the first move otherwise they would want to treat however they like cause they know how much power they have over you. But outside of them being neutral at everything, being inexperienced at sex and their comfort zone, my boyfriend was never this passive aggressive emotional misogynist, like man, thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 06:54 AM
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super attractive guys are serial monogamists. Really? I mean, define super attractive guys because I would see guys that are not ugly at all prefer to have multiple partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 06:26 AM
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When it comes to this, I think it makes sense. If she looks flaky when you are already in the process of getting laid, something is up that’s blocking genuine desire. It also seems the best way to avoide sexual assault charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 07:42 AM
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So this is trying to prove that women working is bad in general but all I see is how kids act at the individual level. This goes against what some right wingers are saying that it’s because of women we have a welfare state or it’s women that are welcoming refugees. Which is it then? Are women too stupidly genrous or to stupidly selfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 07:37 AM
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I took the Myers brigs test on two different websites and it says I am istp, what would this mean for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 07:31 PM
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I really wonder about this, I understand why a guy would think this might be lack of attraction but this could be a guy being to domineering and always getting his way and the woman lacked a spine to say no because of immaturity. If a woman had an abusive boyfriend but now doesn’t let her current boyfriend hit her, are we going to start attributing that to a lack of attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 04:45 AM
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Many right leaning red pillers go with the idea of denying freedom to women because supposedly they are shit at making their own choices, but how far are they willing to take that logic? Americans have proven themselves unworthy to be carrying guns, and it’s the only western country consistentently having problems with school shooters, a kid with a knife does less damage than a kid with a gun so ban all guns. Or let’s go with feminist logic, men are the prime instigators of violence and it comes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 11:51 PM
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Nope, just assuming lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 04:58 AM
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Someone like rollo might disagree with you, they see it it as the alpha thing to do to not push past the no because you should be of the mindset that you can get better sex from a more willing partner. If they really want to fuck you they will come around eventually. The medium is the message and women being undecissive like this shows they are still deciding if they are attracted to you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 04:23 AM
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Cause I figured a lawyer has a better way with words and appealing to people’s emotion, so they can be better at having social charm? It also come with the status doctors have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 09:11 PM
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Now you have to prove that with substantial evidence, because this scenario you posted seems much to extreme to be common
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 09:06 PM
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lmao what? Sometimes I really wonder where you guys go to find these feminists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:55 PM
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I think the problem here is the genders widely different interpretations of sex. The way I see it, it’s harder for a woman to become aroused and stay aroused, and it’s an act that is done with someone who is usually bigger, stronger, and more aggressive than them, so it’s a more dangerous thing for a woman to engage in regularly than for a man and men don’t get this at an instinctual level. What the current MeToo era is doing is making things more fair by giving the same amount of risk to men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:55 PM
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Become a lawyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 03:48 PM
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Lol sure, he is far from the only man I heard this from
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 03:43 PM
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I always thought women dress provocatively because that’s how women judge each other, since a woman’s value seems to largely depend on their beauty unlike guys who can get value through other means, the male attention might have been intentional or an unintended side effect really. Also, sometimes women’s clothings are meant to show of a woman’s body, I have quite a few shirts that can show cleavage and I put them on because it might be the only thing I have at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 05:04 AM
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Or maybe they really want to be murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 04:31 AM
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I actually seen men asking what’s the big deal, I rember my boyfriend asking about it once because he didn’t quite understand why women get phychologically damaged over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 04:27 AM
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I don't think so. As a man, I don't think men think this way, and I really have never encountered a man who enjoyed that. It seems to me more something men do because they think women enjoy it. A lot of men say this, yet when I look at porn directed to a male audience I see a different story. I seen a lot of porn of men forcing themselves on women or extreme degradation hentai that is very obviously meant for a male audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 04:19 AM
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You know, when it comes to my usual porn I don’t go to pornhub at all, I tend to read erotica or look at the fanart the fandom I lurk in produce. I got to porn websites when I’m hirnier than usual and need a quick fix when erotica takes to long to build up to or I already read all the good ones. The more extremes type of porns get a reaction out of me faster but if it goes to far than it sorta ruins the whole experience for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 04:07 AM
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And then she started crying, because most people do that after having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 03:28 PM
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what I really have issue with is how the terps and are interpreting this scenario. You have vanilla sex you agreed to the sex despite not liking it after, what happened here is that she agreed to the sex but nowhere did we get an indication that she agreed to aggressive sex and terps are thinking she secretly wanted it even when she was showing negative emotion, it even seems he escalated aggressiveness more than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:26 PM
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So are we comparing vanilla sex with choking, slapping and hair pulling, things that honestly signal aggression. There’s a huge difference between the two
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:08 PM
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The problem here really isn’t what happened at the end, but that he decided to have rough sex without her consent and the comments of other terpers saying that women secretly want this because she still had an orgasm even if she ended up crying. This is sounding dangerously close to justifying rape and men hamstering why it’s okay to act like an idiot and go Rambo during sex as long as you hold frame. Of course women love dominance but this is starting to cross the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:55 PM
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I think the main issue is that he initiated rough sex out of the blue and despite her crying, terpers are rationalizing that this is what women truly want when in actuality it was the comfort game that had her be okay with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:38 PM
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He never indicated he got consent for the rough sex before the fact, and he went rougher than usual so it doesn’t seem like sex positivity to me when sex positive feminists always make it a point to mention consent in every other sentence they use, always saying things like “consent is sexy”. What he did was damage control so as not to have this blow up in his face later since women respond well to confort after dealing with negative emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:25 PM
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That trp post isn’t even normal sex, he went too rough on her on the first night, why are we all ignoring the disassociation and the tears? How is this considered normal in a casual sexual encounter? Feeling like shit after sex is not something I would want to deal in a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:07 PM
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Not really a strwaman when the comments are right there. Instead of thinking he fucked up by going too fast, these people are saying women love rough sex from a dominant guy and if she is crying is because feminism brainwashed her into thinking its a bad thing. If anything, I haven’t actually seen feminist say regret=rape
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:49 PM
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I’m not sure if dismimisng here reaction as simple insecurity, I get the impression she never had rough sex and he went overboard but he generated enough comfort before and after for her not to feel completely like shit despite the fact that she dissociated during the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:43 PM
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Funnily enough, I have actually seen some sjw women criticize white feminism exactly because of this, instead of making an effort to have femininity and women’s value respected, we are having women assimilating the worst aspects of masculinity, like Hillary Clinton and her pro war ways. In the end though, I rarely see womanhood respected in history and men don’t give a shit unless they are involved in some ways. Look at the Asian conuntries and how many abort female babies because a male would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:26 PM
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He went rougher than usual and she entered a dissociative state, how is this enjoyment? The thing that saved him was the comfort game.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 09:38 AM
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I can’t let this go, how can you and others say feminism is to blame for the disconnect yet you admited you went rougher than usual and she went in a dissociative state and driven to tears. Of course women like dominance, does this mean the only truly good sex with them is rape because that’s the ultimate form of dominance? Have we actually been brainwashed that rape is bad because women still orgasm during rape even though many are left psychologically dammaged after the fact? The body still re…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 09:26 AM
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Pragmatically, I know why a man would ask this and it makes a lot of sense to do this, but if a woman was truly loyal to her man, this is going to feel like a slap to the face regardless. For me personally, I would wonder why he would mistrust me so despite the things I have done for his sake. I don’t think I would feel offended but more like I would start wondering if there are ulterior reasons for him asking. Does he think so little of me? If so, what does this mean for the longevity of this r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:47 AM
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With the logic the terps are giving in this thread, next we are going to hear that women want to be violently raped because that is the ultimate form of dominance and feminism brainwashed women into thinking this is a bad thing. Nothing wrong with sexual dominance but even he admits he took it too far and she entered a disassociated state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:55 AM
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Not sure if it’s exactly the same thing though, women are less likely to be repeat offenders than men for example, that could be inflating the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 07:36 PM
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It still sounds like nonsense, section 8 housing has a really long waiting list and not everyone get in, 50k sounds like an impossibility when we were still very pressed for cash and I yet to see someone who lives with security while in welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 07:15 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 04:30 AM
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I have a hard time believing this because my experience says otherwise, my mother for example, Was a good housewife but my father still left in the end. Men having affairs regardless how wifely a woman acts is such a common thing I seen, maybe he won’t exactly leave but he will look for new pussy. Men and loyalty is something I have not seen despite the women in my culture fully expecting him to be the masculine lead while they are the homemakers. The only men I ever seen take the loyal provider…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 04:21 AM
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I have no experience on this, but I have read so many stories of men getting way too attached to BPD women. rollo for example said that he was very Alpha but when he met this BPD girl he got really attached to her and did things against his interest for her sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 04:04 AM
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I always thought this to be a really fucked up situation to be in, having your sexual attraction to be so strong to the point of debasing yourself, and trp advices against this for men but at the same time support that for women and say that’s the most ideal state for a relationship to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 03:59 AM
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I’m not conflating anything, more like observing that the lack of fathers creates a certain type of women a lot of black people complain about while continuing the cycle. And which post is it? You have a few. Ownership of a woman is something that happens regardless, polygamy has men monopolizing women with little regard to their well being and is not something that really should be encouraged. Selfishness is a part of being human but not something we really want to encourage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 12:33 AM
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This type of thinking doesn’t make much sense to me, would I be an alpha widow if I want something out of a relationship that isn’t with someone with an obese guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 12:25 AM
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Personally, I think it’s bitterness rather than being an alpha widow, it sounds more like she is not receiving that type of equity she wants in a relationship. Unless you are suggesting she gets with a fat slob.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:49 PM
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It’s not working at all for the black community and I don’t see women to blame for this despite the red pill saying otherwise. If you have men refusing to be fathers and prioritize their sexual imperative, girls raised in that environment will grow up and become defensive from the start, and I believe that exacerbates hypergamy thus we have a cycle of men not trusting women and women reacting to that attitude. It’s rather sad for black women since while all other groups prefer white men, black w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:45 PM
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This sounds a lot like shifting the blame, I see a lot of men not wanting to take the provider role and that in turns create very defensive and bitter women. If all men are going to leave you anyways might as well have the hot one do it rather than settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:26 PM
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This sounds a lot like shifting the blame, I see a lot of men not wanting to take the provider role and that in turns create very defensive and bitter women. If all men are going to leave you anyways might as well have the hot one do it rather than settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:26 PM
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That’s dumb, black women are the least Sought out group for a relationship, no one looks up to black women in comparison to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:16 PM
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Why entitlement? Just asking for some bit of decency is entitlement now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 09:32 PM
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What hell, where? I had lived with food stamps before and it only just barely coveres groceries for the week, where in the world can you get 50k a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 09:12 PM
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They made that dinosaur at the beginning look like a monster from a horror movie with that setting, pretty cool lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 09:57 AM
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Idk about that, there has definitely been times when I get the urge to give a blowjob because I personally like it. This whole idea of being brainwashed to believe in something is kinda weird to me, how can someone lie to themselves that they like something? Some part of you will always be conscious that you don’t like it if you are truly pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 09:53 AM
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I believe men would call this hamstering or lying to oneself. Just look at this post and how apparently women lie to themselves, there is also a comment talking about something similar Agreed. I’m glad that you have pointed this out. I am reminded from personal experience in a LTR that being caught viewing adult images lead to an adult encounter with a consenting adult that still maintains surface revulsion to adult images. This dissociation is fascinating. She said she doesn’t want to role play…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 09:26 AM
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Your anecdote reminds me of what my mom would say about having relationships with men. Don’t show your insecurity to them or get attached to fast otherwise they will use that power over you and threat you however they want because he has you wrapped around his finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:25 AM
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I been wondering something similar too. Red pill has you believe how unfaithful women are, how easy they get over relationships and how many betas are out there believing in a romantic blue pill lie and sacrificing everything for the lie, yet that hasn’t been my experience at all. I’m from a Hispanic culture and men being loyal is so rare in my family, my father cheated, my brother cheated on his gf, there’s suspicions that my uncle cheated on his ex, my paternal grandfather also cheated and my …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 04:44 AM
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I seen enough of this attitude online to know that there are people who think like this or secretetly wished it so by hiding behind silly language. Considering this is the red pill under a post called the myth of female rationality, there would be people who would definitely agree with it in some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 05:32 PM
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A genious that makes a great impact in society is really rare, the few famous names we know don’t compare to the billions of people that have been born and died.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 07:17 AM
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Read like satire? Really? Coming from the red pill I highly doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 07:15 AM
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To be fair, it took thousands of years of human history for those people to eventually become relevant, we didn’t get genius or huge improvements in technology instantly, women’s recent equal access to education is nothing compared to the head start men had. We are comparing few decades vs a few centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 06:55 AM
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Thinking about things might be different from actually acting them out though, like thinking it be cold to be a soldier with high honors but the actual process is not glamorous at all with many people ending with PTSD, rape fantasies are without consequence and it does appeal to the most primal nature’s in people, dominance in men and submissiveness in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 06:43 AM
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This sounds way to rigid to me imo. If switching is involved I would think there would be enough Alpha to satisfy her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 06:37 AM
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The subs in a BDSM relationship basically lets the dom do things to them, a woman basically let’s herself to be lead so how is it different?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 06:33 AM
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Where do you think it came from, it came from somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 04:28 AM
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Roosh is a piece of shit but Tomassi could have been way worse, considering how far some of the people in the manosphere takes things, he is pretty mild in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 03:52 PM
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You know, how do you expect feminists not to hate men when you see comments like this online. There are entire sites that speak of the inferiorioty of women too, you really get the impression that men don’t give a shit about women unless it’s something that involves them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 03:12 PM
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In my opinion, only the West is gynocentric, I don’t see this as a common thing in other cultures or even in a lot of the tribes around the world. I sure as hell didn’t pick up on it growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 07:04 AM
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Well, that abrasive language you find in TRP is missing in things like the rational male or other rp blogs, so I think it should be possible to write something without sounding like an ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 03:14 AM
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What you write about Karen is weird, she dresses like an unkept man and there is nothing feminine about how she carries herself in her videos. According to rp, no man would find that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 02:28 AM
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Lol, I seen too many rp men say women’s hobbies are stupid or that they are not deep and only good for a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 12:10 AM
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Until it isn’t that is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 11:49 PM
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Abrasive feminist ideology Is not something I’ve seen here in ppd, the platitudes you sauce aren’t even seriously argued here or even take seriously among non feminists. Also, maybe you should convince other terps to come here then or make a good debate post without the abrasive language.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 11:46 PM
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Aren’t men supposed to be the gatekeepers of commitment though? Doesn’t that mean you could just leave? And wait, in order for the relationship to be power neutral she needs to submit? Submit how though? Knowing your post history you might be suggesting an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:32 AM
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The thing with rp is that they are increasingly polarizing behaviors as either female or male so as to be able to call women less rational when it comes to relationships. If they act unmanly, than they are soy/herb and you shouldn’t be that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 02:58 AM
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Why an equal relationship is actually a covert female primary setup. It's why explicit consent is an act of subjugation. Can you explain this? I’m mostly wondering why equal relationships supposed to benefit the female more than the male.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 10:14 AM
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I read that, and I’m left wondering why is that red pill think women are naturally more solipsistic when this guy was basically saying her ex has a miserable life now without him and that was the lame example he used. Apparently hanging out with his friends is better than her friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 10:49 AM
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A lot of these religions ultimately seem to imply that women should not question a husbands authority over here, so you are left wondering how much is too much. For some, the believe a man’s mission is of utmost importance and a woman should support, not have her own goals in life where the husband also supports.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 08:48 AM
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The irony about this though, it was feminism that made me more accepting of my femininity lol, I didn’t really know about feminism until late high school and was raised Christian in a more traditional household. It gave me the idea that I shouldn’t let what men value (or don’t) define my worth as a woman. It’s basically men’s fault why women are depicted so useless because men don’t care for the female experience and if given the chance, women are just as competent as men in anything they want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 08:39 AM
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Well in regards to the feeling of inferiority regarding gender, I kinda doubt beauty or lack of has a lot to do with it. I can kinda see it as in a girl is so ugly she seeks to find another place to belong, but what I think actually happens is a girl developing a hobby or personality trait more common among boys, and is later hit by the reality of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 07:25 AM
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I suppose I can kinda see this, but what does it have to do with feeling like you are only good for sex or feeling inferior when compared to the men in a society? From what I seen, beauty wasn’t even something many girls in my group actively thought about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:59 AM
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Reading the negative experiences some women here had with their male family members, made me realize how good I got it with my dad. He was abusive to my mom but the irony is how good a father figure he was to me and never discouraged me because of my gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:49 AM
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A lot of it builds up over the years. My parents would watch a lot of action movies and the impression I got is how useless/stupid women are in comparison to men. Women never did anything of importance, add to this that media aimed at girls didn’t interest me as much when I was a kid. This is something that isn’t mentioned a lot here but I notice how so many teenage girls goes trough a “I’m not like other girls, being girly is stupid” that was a thing among my friends and as I went online, I not…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:25 AM
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I heard something similar from rp when it comes to the stagnation of wages and letting women work, I wonder if that has any truth to it all considering the massive changes the market has had.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 08:16 AM
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Well okay, I see it with the picture you posted, but not with many of the men of the original picture, especially since they all are wearing shades.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 07:36 AM
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Are we in purge week again and I just didn’t notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:07 PM
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Which data is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 08:44 AM
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Which data is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 08:43 AM
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http://before-i-do.org What do you make of this study that the results for men weren’t as significant compared to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 08:28 AM
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Is it the smile? At least with that last picture the dude looks almost kid faced.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 08:00 AM
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I don’t even know what gayface is lol, I don’t think I would be able to tell if they were gay if the dressed up normally. I still think the one in the center seems to be the most masculine one based on body posture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:38 AM
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I really don’t know much about Star Wars, but from what little I know I think it makes sense why Luke hates the Jedi. Didn’t Yoda wanted him too keep training when his friends were in danger? The Jedi has this whole thing where they can’t be in love and whatever, and all this strict rules could be why Anakin ended up being seduced by the dark side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:29 AM
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They seem pretty manly looking to me, from the body build to the facial structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:17 AM
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Heck it’s ammazing how common this is, even rollo dated a bpd woman and got really attached to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:07 AM
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How moral is it it to prefer youth more ethical, when taken to the extreme you have men preferring teenagers because they are easier to mold and less of a challenge than an older mate with a more set personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:04 AM
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Would you say you are satisfied with your current relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 03:58 AM
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I wonder if it isn’t a sign for something else, do you think some who is sexually satisfied with their current ltr will still be having these fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 10:17 PM
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Had you ever had moments where you refuse sex or not that into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:55 PM
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Do you think those fantasies had anything to with a lack of satisfaction in the marriage? Or do they still happen normally?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:46 PM
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No, just general traffic the websites get
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:44 PM
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I think I will always be salty over fifty shades, I seen much better fanfiction with better writing yet it’s THAT one that cashed in all the money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:40 PM
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Eh can’t tell you for sure, but I rember swing in tumblr someone posting how much traffic fanfiction . net gets compared to Ao3 and Ao3 was winning by a land slide. Also, I seen plenty of fandom and almost everybody posts on Ao3, fanfiction . net has increasingly become rare to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:38 PM
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Do you think it might have something to do with you wanting something that a current relatiship is not providing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:26 PM
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Not really a community where you can blog and talk to each other, most often authors will post their work there but socialize in livejournal. What’s more that site has lost popularity lol, archiveofourown dot org is where it’s at.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:19 PM
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Honestly when you actually start describing it, you realize how fucking weird it is what with the dog sex and the butt babies lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:16 PM
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The kissing wasn’t on screen though, but it’s still very gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:10 PM
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Reason I asked this is because it makes me wonder if it’s instinct making women have these fantasies when their husband doesn’t meet all their desires, you seem to have gotten a really good husband so I wonder if that has anything to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:07 PM
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Maybe not elaborate fantasies but one off thoughts of having sex with other people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:05 PM
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Not sure if there are any, tumblr really seems like the main spot to get involved with fandom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:01 PM
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Oh man, that blew up in popularity in recent years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 08:59 PM
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Well, there is this article said that the more perceived masculinity in a guy equal more satisfaction to women in ovulation shifts. http://www.psypost.org/2017/05/wives-masculine-husbands-satisfied-peak-fertility-study-finds-48909
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 06:27 AM
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Idk, I think I’m giving a lot already if I marry someone, why do I have to give up a big part of my identity too? A name that has been with me all my life and represents my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 05:29 AM
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But is that true? Did you demand an expensive ring?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:52 PM
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Why not your mom’s maiden name?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:47 PM
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Idk, but this logic kinda reminds me of how rp would say if she doesn’t take a man’s last name of hyphenates, she doesn’t respect you enough and isn’t entirely submissive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:43 PM
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In hispanic cultures, families tend to give their children both of their last names, at least I have both my mom’s and dad’s name, but preference is still given to the father’s name, so I use my father’s name as my default last name. My dad also had both his mom’s and dad’s last names but the one he passed down to me and all of his children is his dad’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 02:54 PM
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Please state your pill. Purplish I guess Do you ever fear your boyfriend/husband? At the very beginning, yes, mostly cause I seen domestic violence in my household so I may have been more cautious than usual, not anymore though. For example, are you ever afraid of making him angry? Do you know what sets him off and avoid doing so? I mean, I worry he might get annoyed at me, that’s not a cool feeling lol, but I never see him get angry. Does he ever show dominance in a way that you defer to him? N…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 02:46 PM
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According to rollo, they are both the opposite sides of the same hypergamous coin of female sexual duality. They want the best but if you are not the best alpha widow wont apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:06 AM
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I’m a below average nerd and my n count is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:01 AM
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Were you still in love with him long after you broke up? Did you compare other men with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 05:11 PM
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Lol, but still, have you seen this play out irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 01:08 PM
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Who knows, rp only speaks of alpha widows as those women who had raw sexual desire for a man that they feel they missed out on or can’t recreate in their current partner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 01:06 PM
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This sounds too much like hypothetical thinking, how many women actually believe in the perfect man? One of the many post of rollo even pointed to a survey that women are more pragmatic in a relationship and don’t expect a single man to have both alpha and beta traits anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 12:59 PM
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The problem is that we may have a situation where she wants a good ltr but can’t lock down a good man for that or, as rp likes to point out a lot, settle on the beta and not have the same sexual attraction for him as her former lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 12:56 PM
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Where though? I tried googling it and I only get studies done on women, where did you even get your chart?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 10:49 AM
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If you want to know how the more conservative parts of red pill would answer this, I’m pretty sure they don’t care about a woman’s sexual agency. They believe that women’s sexuality damages society so they rather keep them in a place where men are in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 10:01 AM
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Idk but those two big graphs only talk about a woman’s n count, idk about the tiny one it’s very blurry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 07:01 AM
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Could it be the nice girls are socially awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 06:40 AM
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It’s probobly because we spend all our time online and not bars probably
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 10:17 AM
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They don’t look bad though, more ideal than your average guy I would figure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 10:11 AM
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I thought radical feminism basically filled that role?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 09:58 AM
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In my opinion, women shouldn’t be forced to carry a child up to a point, mostly because late term abortions open a whole other can of worms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 09:48 AM
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I think the biggest issue is how rp men would describe why women act the way they do so you have guys who would go far with how they believe asshole game is the only way to go or if too much deviation from traditional gender roles it’s supposed to always spell doom in a relationship. Also, people tend to use rp to justify some sort of white sharia law or call anything else that doesn’t fit rp as degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 09:51 PM
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All those things kill you violently though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 09:08 PM
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Problems with poverty and sexual abuse is still prevalent in wealthy nation, plus there seems a lot of people against wellfare programs or want to cut funding so people might not always get the support they need. I would think the best compromise would be the earliest a baby can survive out of the womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 09:03 PM
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Well, it’s not like the potential quality of life is something I don’t take into consideration when it comes to me being as pragmatic as possible and being pro choice, especially when the zygote isn’t a person yet. Abortion 8 months into the pregnancy sounds like an exaggeration, why the hell would you stall so long? There I would concede the ethics being much more problematic when the baby is farther along into development
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 08:04 PM
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To be fair, Superman never even met his parents or remembers his planet. Batman saw his parents murdered right in front of him when he was 8, blood splatter, screams and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 07:39 PM
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It’s not just income level, but also shitty parents who never wanted the child okay you don’t have to do anything but then we still have the original problem of kids growing in shitty situations with parents that didn’t want them with no real solution. That would be the biggest disconnect with me, I don’t see a zygote having the same weight as a person just yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 07:36 PM
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Well, that’s all from the comics
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 07:08 PM
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You say it’s worthless and I say it’s too risky. How is it intellectually dishonest though? What’s more, you can also make it a point to say it’s about bodily autonomy, will it be okay to force someone to donate their organs to save another’s person life because they have the right to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 07:06 PM
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Then later adopted Dick Grayson when his parents where killed, took in Jason when he found him in the streets, let Tim join his family after he figured out their secret, pre new52 he adopted Cassandra Cain and try to give her a better father than the one she had that trained her to be an assasing since very young, take his role as father seriously with his son Damian Wayne, and most recently became a mentor to Duke Thomas. His cousin Kate Kane has appeared as Batwoman too. There are others he be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:51 PM
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It’s not that a baby’s life is worthless, is that it’s very likely it will suffer without a good steady family. Strangers can say all they want about the right to life but are they the ones taking personal responsibility for the child once it’s born? Once it’s born there is nothing you can do except make the best of a bad situation. A fetus isn’t conscious yet so you can still do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:46 PM
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Well then, so you are saying that you don’t care if a kid will be sexually abused or abused by shitty parents because the fetus needed to fully developed and given life. Are you going to be personally responsible for all these kids? Will you you be personally responsible to help pay for their food when the mom can’t afford it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:27 PM
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I think it does matter, because my argument isn’t to kill people, but to stop the developing fetus from forming into a human before it’s to late and people are stuck with the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:18 PM
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Except black people are fully developed humans with lives, a fetus is only a potential life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:10 PM
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He has a huge family though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:59 PM
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The one with the plumeria flowers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:57 PM
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Not really actually. Batman is serious and brooding all the time, but he acts completely different when acting as Bruce Wayne, he definitely has charisma when it’s convenient for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:51 PM
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What’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:48 PM
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Being born into poverty, single parent households, or being left up to adoption is extremely damaging. Kids in foster care are more likely to be sexually abused for example, kids born to single parents have a high risk of growing maladjusted. In the most pragmatic sense. It’s costs less to get rid of a fetus that doesn’t have sentience yet, than taking care of a grown human being that already has a personality and has the ability to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:43 PM
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Context, one is an unwanted bother, the other is a wanted baby
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:40 PM
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Your face
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:36 PM
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Mexican Stacy would be Maria idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:25 PM
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My self hatred has come back and seems here to stay lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:22 PM
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Who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:20 PM
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A fetus doesn’t have a developed brain and probably doesn’t have emotions. Grown adults do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:14 PM
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Oh you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 09:44 PM
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I wonder about that, red pill has a very specific view in how relationships should look like and any thing different is bad yet there are some people who make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 10:00 AM
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Idk if getting it out of your system I should nesecary, but there does seem to be so RM readers who leave comments like “I wish I did this when I was younger” so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 05:11 AM
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Well okay, but I’ve seen one to many comments online with how men seem to really like to fuck crazy chicks for the crazy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 05:04 AM
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Well I found one study that talks about premarital sex and women, not how premarital sex affects men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 05:00 AM
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Studies show and I believe that a high n count makes it harder for a woman to have stable long term relationships (not prompted by compulsion, such as money). For men, this effect is much weaker Do you have a study that shows how a high n count in men affect marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 12:01 PM
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This very much sounds like the equivalent of what women would say when they are looking for a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 11:49 AM
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Find me a murderer that majority of men have wanted to fuck. Are you saying a majority of women want to fuck murderers?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 11:44 AM
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Well, I honestly can’t think of as many role models either, who are you referring too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 10:12 PM
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Maybe it’s not found in any doctrine, but this is very much the sentiment I see in a lot of random self proclaimed feminists in online circles
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 08:54 AM
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Like what though? When I think of the most relevant and long lasting stories that are widely known in our culture, I great majority are stories made by men with male main characters. Like the original Star Wars movies, Terminator, Indiana Jones and things with John Wayne, comic book heroes like Batman and Superman, those those have way more relevant movies and Wonder Woman just barely recently got one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 08:31 AM
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Oh no the horror, what horrible world to live in that men won’t randomly help with my luggage./sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 08:10 AM
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Didn’t really thought about it but geez, Superman is stronger than the Greek Gods lol. Kinda makes steppenwolf feel worthless in hindsight. I would hope Darkseid makes a bigger threat if they get around to making that movie lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 07:42 AM
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That's pure fantasy. Here's a good rule of thumb; you generally don't tend to get more attractive as you age. And that's true for both men and women. Youth is always a plus. I don’t know about it being pure fantasy, I look at the pictures of a young Ben Affleck and he looks like a dumbass, his current looks are much better imo, though this could be the exception to the rule. I’ve seen some women praise the salt and pepper look on guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 07:16 AM
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Sometimes I read the comments left by other women and I sometimes wonder if I’m doing something very wrong in my relationship or how I handle my love life. But anyways, objectively speaking, there are much more handsome men and who take better care of themselves than my bf and I’m fully aware of that fact. I don’t look at him all the time and instantly want to fuck, but then again I rarely even get that drive when I look at other men so idk. I do have to say though, sometimes I look at his face …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 06:55 AM
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Lol I’m 5’1 and I met men shorter than me twice, one was buff as hell though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 05:54 AM
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Reagardless if the story is fake or not, this makes me wonder the validity of alpha game and what maintaining frame means for the longevity of the relationship. Sure she was super attached to the guy but she just sounds miserable because of 5he lack of beta, it’s kinda no wonder a lot of bloops would call the red pill abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 05:30 AM
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Well absolutely everybody was extremely inferior to Superman in that movie, how Batman was dealt with by Superman looked really humiliating imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 05:10 AM
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Dude who has written 3 books and has a huge blog on the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 06:08 AM
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That's kinda already a thing though, at least with Japanese porn. It's called eroguro, basically erotic gore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 06:47 AM
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A problem is that a lot of right wing terps complain that feminism ruined the birthing rate in western culture and there's isn't enough babies available to replace the old generations. So technically the whole discrimination against singlehood has to do with how it affects society as a whole in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 06:38 AM
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So okay, rollo keeps writing in his Twitter that the feminine imperative is blurring what masculinity is to the point that modern men are confused on how it's supposed to look like and begin haing their gender, but then he retweeted something from this other terp complaining that the prince of England is leaning in towards his wife in a photo and men shouldn't do that, and that just sounded really dumb to me. Idk, how far are you supposed to LARP some golden standard masculinity? Vaguely reminds…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 06:29 AM
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Alright sure, I'm sure I be glad to accept a man's rapey/violent nature cause we are humans and embrace it so I can be happy~ it's not like the whole purpose of religions was always to suppress the worst aspects of human nature in order to have a sustainable society. Having it made clear that having a strong, masculine man is important for their safety, will make human sexuality less confusing. This will lead to more overall happiness. And that's why feminism and women discontent with their lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:31 PM
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That's lame, in order to have a better mate selection basically drive women to a corner so they have little choice in the matter, thus we see the fine example of males being the true romantics lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:04 PM
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We took vows to each other to be faithful to each other, vows I have stood by for 15 years, why does he not have to stand by them and why am I selfish for holding him to them? I really feel that a red pill man could very easily say that you are not submissive enough and don't desire your man all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:28 AM
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Really thinking about it, no, there is a high chance I would hate hate it. Not being the favorite wife could very likely have an emotional toll on me and I'm horrible at participating in the female hierarchy or however you call it. If children are involved, I think it's very likely the man will favor the favorite's wife children over the others, so not really optimal sexual strategy for women there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:04 AM
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This doesn't sound like a very alpha thing to do though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 06:22 AM
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Read for example, fifty shades of red, maxim 165 I think really seems to show this belief. There is also a whoe bunch of tweets I can't be bothered to look for again that give this impression. These men would say "make your mission your purpose in life, not your woman" but think a woman's best course of action is to find a husband and submit to him. Illimitable men made a reddit rant saying that the bible had some sense when it says that a woman should worship a man same way man worships God. Co…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 06:10 AM
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Genetic engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 08:13 AM
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Imma sound like such a looser, but my back up guy would be Batman and Superman, or whatever guy from whatever fandom I'm into at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 08:09 AM
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This is mostly what I gather from illimitable men blog posts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 07:59 AM
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pathological need for control. For everything around them to be controlled and managed in the minutia. I wonder about this, all I can do is rely on your word for this because I'm not so sure that I've seen this myself. They want a man who leads and manages most of that control so they can relax and only bother with the things they want to deal with. Happy in the feeling that everything is under control and they don't have to worry about it. Well that's all fine and good I suppose, but how trp me…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:43 AM
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Is it really for the guy to lead or for him to take more personal responsibility? Like, have him take more charge in his life but without being the final decider in all things regarding the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 10:30 AM
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They submit to women as much as women submit to a man (ideally) by taking care of her and family, providing security yada yada and other stuff I am tired to mention. See, I always thought this should be how it ideally works but trp is absolutely convinced that submission only goes one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 10:22 AM
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I think tat the issues I have with trp is how to say a marriage SHOULD look like in regards to a man always being alpha and making all the final decisions and keeping frame. The wifely submission just rubs me the wrong way and I get the impression that they think just making a cup of cofee for your wife is going in to her frame and a bad thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 09:50 AM
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"i don't understand male sexuality therefore it is bad" That's basically how rp treats female sexuality, God forbid a woman rather have a beta husbands who lets her decide on some things every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 12:53 PM
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Now I'm wondering, is this really an issue? Are guys really being disrespected for asking her what she wants and not keeping frame? Like what? Keeping her wet only because you decided you want burgers without asking her??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:11 AM
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Well, you mention being a fag hag, then somewhere else I think you mention something about skin heads and not caring what other people think. Sounds like you been around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 05:46 AM
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Definitely, I think, though it seems like your garden variety social anxiety and inferiority complex, nothing major that need to be medicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 05:43 AM
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Man, it's like your history is all over the place lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 11:00 AM
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I actually have been thinking about this when rollo goes a link his False Equivalences post. It could be that not everything works exactly the same, like how the consensus seems that it takes more effort to be high n count man than a high n count woman, but your examples do sound pretty equivalent. Idk, do we we say "it's not the same" when we are comparing how a bicycle wheel and a car wheel are essentially the same in regards of how they work and general shape only because one belongs to a mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 10:38 AM
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https://mobile.twitter.com/TheFamilyAlpha/status/939305667252408322 This is just so weird, and this is over picking where to go out to eat. Didn't realize I was supposed to loose attraction or start disrespecting him when a guy asks me what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 10:27 AM
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I want to say, autistic, though it's mostly me choosing against the sexist. Maybe single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 09:12 AM
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Well, if they are rad fems that shit on men, no not that different and pretty unhelpful. Still, bp wants freedom from the mold and trp doesn't believe anybody can be free or else there is something wrong with them that goes against nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 10:16 AM
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Weeeell, I know of this woman in tumblr who says she is asexual and in a relationship with a trans man, and I seen her write the most degenerate out of this world erotica yet she doesn't want to have sex irl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 10:04 AM
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I thought it was freaking awesome, could do whatever I want and no one would yell at me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:52 AM
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What I find interesting is that you broke up with your BF because of a fetish rp disdains. You didn't have a problem with it before?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:40 AM
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How long has the relationship been going?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 11:19 PM
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Maybe it's more on how trp is rigid on how things should work regardless what an individual person wants? Trp has a tendency to call women mentally inferior so that is why they shouldn't make decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 11:14 PM
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Well, I guess there is no problem, problem is that RP argues this is the only way as nature intended it. Anything else is degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 10:54 PM
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Wait, wth are you talking about? This went from talking about her personal experience with her husband to you talking about unrelated points and somehow she was talking about magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 10:51 PM
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Why is it spite when it's part of her personality? I had rpw tell me not to ask for things directly to a husband cause he might take it as an order and won't do it and that just sounds petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 10:47 PM
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The thing with sexual harassment, is that it's not something you can have hard evidence for unless there is cameras in the workplace. So it's not like a woman can take hard action without evidence, all she can do is warn other people about the dude. Does it matter if it's fair or not? If you know what happened to you is a fact, it might be on your conscious for not warning other women only cause you had to be polite
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 12:59 PM
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Well sure, it works a certain way but how do you go about enacting it? There is being an assertive man but how you choose to play it in your relationship? Do you have to take all leadership, or have a more egalitarian style marriage while still keeping key points in your masculinity. Just how uniform are women supposed to be? What is nature and what is nurture? As what one culture choose to present masculinity might be different in another and hypergamy adapts accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 12:31 PM
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The problem is t complete independence, but the complete dependence that is talked about in the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 12:26 PM
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I'm not so sure anymore. I would think humans are paradoxical or because they desire a certain aspect in one thing, it doesn't mean they want it repeated in everything else. Like a person might be more comfortable with friends taking jabs at eachother than with random strangers, or you enjoy play fighting or fighting with in limits with out the consequences of death or serious permanent injury. But when it comes to relationships it seems men think it illogical to desire sexual dominance in lover…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 12:25 PM
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Just out of curiosity, why does u/Atlas_B_Shruggin believe that sexual harassment laws be abolished?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 10:16 PM
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You know, feminists would take issue with how forgiving she was even if you were drunk. I think this odd why feminist make an effort to be really aggressive since it seems women care more for other people's feelings to stay in good graces
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 10:11 PM
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I'm curious to hear why YOU think these would be... or why not. You're asking - I know, which means you're not sure. What's the confusing part? "Women think they want to lead but hate when they have to, they fear being powerless but cannot handle power. Women are man’s burden, a constant storm that needs grounding. Her infantile narcissistic need to be treated with the respect of a man, yet simultaneous need to be led means she’s conflicted in “what she wants”, this swirling chaos of self-centre…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 10:22 AM
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How is it preferential treatment though? Have you seen how many men in the alt right speak about the inferiority of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 04:09 AM
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Wait, if it wasn't tested how do we know for sure then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 03:55 AM
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what I'm taking issue with how rp men are reacting over this is how they all seem to take it as an attack to male sexuality and women trying to make betas scared so as not to waste their time, yet a lot of these cases seem to genuinely be about a guy acting weird or out of the norm. How difficult is to just accept as work being a non sexualized zone? It's like they are ignoring the content and take it all as an example of people not respecting men enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 03:19 AM
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Why is it expected that men put up with being emasculated as proof their masculinity is strong and intact? The way I see it, how masculinity is expressed in a society seems very variable and dependent on tradition. The Aka pygmy men are more involved with their children that what is usual, the Wodaabe men paint their faces and put on a show to seduce women, and the Sateré-Mawé boys don't become men until they put their hands into gloves filled with bullet ants and get constantly stung. I think w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 09:48 AM
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I think the high divorce rates with a female breadwinner seem to also have to do with the men's attitude. Instead of taking charge of the household or having a strong personality, they are uninspired to do anything. It seems they weren't ideally masculine to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 06:23 AM
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Just look at what BiggerDthanyou wrote about taking it up the ass and tell me it doesn't sound like nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 05:52 AM
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I think it's fucked too. If I didn't have issues with marriage before, the rational male blog definitely made me distrustful of men and what maintaining a relationship with one entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 10:48 PM
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Lol what? Is the first example serious? Cause a politician fucking you over is the same as receiving sexual pleasure with someone you chose to be intimate with? Seriously though, I can like a dominant partner in bed but I would abhor that if it bleeds into my daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 10:43 PM
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How does this make any sense? How does your tastes in the bed reflect on your non sexual life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 10:25 PM
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When I think of submission and dominance from a red pill perspective, I think it means that it's the man that always gets his way and the wife has no choice but to follow. If you are alpha enough she will have to follow. Because I think of the advice Rollo gives and he says to make decisions go your way even against your wife's wishes, even if it's the most irrelevant thing, you have to constantly be exerting that power. I see it in the comment of that blog too, if she doesn't accept anal she is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 09:11 PM
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This is the thing I just can't fully understand. I figured that in a marriage, both spouses would submit to what the other wants to make a good partnership. If he is more knowledgable at something he makes the decision and if she is than she makes the decision, but not be a useless waste of space that doesn't take care of the needs of the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 08:52 PM
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The audiences for those movies would be people like me. I love the female action hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 07:44 AM
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Yeah, these are issues I always had with traditional marriages. I think it should be important to have self actualization outside of your spouse and have a say in major decisions in your life, not have it all depend on the whims of your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 10:19 PM
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How does that look like though? If a wife asked something from her husband and he does it, can't you frame that as him submitting to her needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:40 AM
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Maybe it can be wasted time, but this is exactly how my relationship started. I suppose the issue is entering a friendship with the expectation that it would evolve into romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 02:55 AM
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what exactly is it in their leadership that makes them different from male leaders making choices that rather benefit the companie's goals over the user base? And with Ellen Pao, I mostly read her trying to ban the most shit trolls from reddit and banning some shitty subreddit.mwhat exactly was shitty in her leadership?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 08:33 AM
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Where does the idea that men are better decision makers come from? I just read an article from roosh clamming women are bad at making rational decisions and thus should have a man always watching over her. When it comes to numbers and spatial intelligence, men do seem to have the advantage and I wonder if this is the logic men are better at, because I see a lack of common sense prevalent among everybody. To add insult to injury, the writers from ROK claim to love women and want what's best for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:08 PM
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I feel so young reading this thread, what I aspired to be growing up was to be like Batman or Vegeta from Dragon Ball Z lol. Being wifely sounds so boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:39 AM
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I'm just going to say, growing up in close proximity to poor neighborhoods, men thinking things through in a logical way is not something I see as a default setting on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:58 AM
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Why did she leave?? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 05:07 AM
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I don't think taking charge and dominating are the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 01:11 AM
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No, not always, but I think it's useful to take charge when it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 05:02 AM
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Now it sounds like unless a woman is praising a man 24/7, she is being disrespectful and she must makes sure to keep quiet otherwise. Everything has to be a power struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:36 PM
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Sure not being a bitch is good, but then just playing around is considered being bitchy apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:23 PM
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That sounds boring, it honestly feels like a woman has to walk on eggshells to keep a man happy, can't see how I'm supposed to respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:10 PM
2

If you try to make a plan or ‘plan together’, he’s not going to stick to it. This gives me the impression that men naturally have ADD or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 08:22 AM
2

Well I guess it can be, what I have in mind though is with someone you are still vetting to get into a relationship with, not in an official relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 07:52 AM
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Eeeeh, this sounds weird. A thing I hear a lot is that not being direct tends to fly over men's head and won't do something unless you tell them outright. This is a thing I can't really agree on, as long as I'm being nice and not doing unreasonable demands. Plus, of all those things you listed, the only one that seems like it shouldn't be up for argument cause of necessity is the grocery one. Now I have the image in my head where I have a medical emergency and need a drive to the hospital and I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 07:49 AM
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Withholding sex seems wise when you don't even know the guy. I don't know but. I'm not into casual relationships and this diminishes the risk of being pumped and dumped. The rest, I'm not exactly sure what you have in mind and taken to the extreme yeah it might be bitchy, but I think it goes back to not having a guy pump and dump you. See how much he actually cares and isn't just trying to seduce you with pretty words and then leave you once you gotten really attached to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:32 AM
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I don't quite see it either, this whole idea of "women want men that other women want" sounds weird. That seems like reaching the wrong conclusion because he is successful and knows how to game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:25 AM
1

Wait, what exactly is acting bitchy here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:12 AM
2

Just because something doesn't go the way you wanted it to go, doesn't mean it's wrong or that a disaster is going to happen or anything like that. It just means you didn't get your way is all. The situations I'm thinking off are more serious than a camping trip. I was thinking more when money is on the line or when you need to make sure important documents aren't going to get lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:03 AM
1

So is something like "can you do this for me please?" Not something you should say?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:00 AM
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I don't know, having him make his own mistakes is good and all but why should I drop the ball when those mistakes are going to affect me or other people. There has to be a point where I should also do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 08:10 PM
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What? You are not supposed to ask men to do things then? Even when you are not being a bitch about? That sounds like a shitty person if asking for things is taken the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 08:02 PM
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Isn't this a problem where a woman knows exactly what she wants except real life doesn't play out how she wanted though? What she wants is highly specific and that's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 06:30 AM
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I think in this particular situation, the woman has in her mind what she ideally wants her man to do, but he doesn't do it so it annoys her and it annoys her to have to say things and not living up to her ideal. I think for example how she would expect him to take out the trash but he never does without being told.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 06:05 AM
1

But is goatismycopilot wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 04:32 AM
2

That sounds like nonsense to me. If a shit test is not concious then it isn't actually a shit test and it would be a useless one at that. It sounds more like it only retroactively become of shit test if he does something stupid. Like if I ask something normal like "what time is it?" and he responds with "check for yourself bitch". To me it sounded like red pill thinks that basically everything a woman says is a potential shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 04:11 AM
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If my current relationship doesn't work out I wouldn't really bother with dating, I was never my priority and I sorta fell into my current relationship. I might remain single or see where life takes me idk. And after reading a lot of red pill comments in the rational male blog, my distaste of men has increased much more than when I would lurk around feminist circles. At least there I could rationalize that women were overreacting, it's much different when you actually hear it from the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 03:53 AM
2

Aww why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 11:02 PM
6

What seems odd with the way you debate, is that you seem very set in your views because of what you seen in your life and from what you read online, but when someone else shares an experience different, you then to always dismiss them as outliers and pretend their argument has no merit do you are still in the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 10:57 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 10:18 PM
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But we aren't CONSTANTLY doing so like women do. But how sure are you that it's even that common in relation to men to begin with? We men are constantly being evaluated, all the time, every second of every day, by everyone. Our friends, our bosses, our clients/customers, and women - we are under the microscope every waking minute of every single day we're alive. See, when I first encountered the red pill, this was one of those things I got really confused about because I didn't observe in myself…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 03:29 PM
3

Then how can you be so sure on what is going on in a woman's mind outside of observations done from a male perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 01:25 PM
2

So are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 12:45 PM
5

But what I'm talking about here is a very specific aspect of hypergamy according to Rollo. Not the tendency for women to date up their own SMV, but about reevaluating their decisions and calling that hypergamy. Is that not something men would do in a relationship? They never wonder if they could do better?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 10:40 AM
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What DemonConsulting says makes sense though. It doesn't necessarily mean it's hypergamy to blame, but people trying to rationalize their decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 10:34 AM
1

This seems to come up a lot, I asked this same thing a little while back too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 07:17 AM
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For a long term relationship, my dream was to find someone I could call my best friend, someone I can talk to freely and we both have similar hobbies so we can enjoy each other's company outside of sex, someone I could share absolutely everything with, no secrets and we can be completely open with eachother. Because I always believed that friendships are stronger and superiors than romantic relationships and sex shouldn't really be the priority. When I don't always have sexual relationships on h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 07:13 AM
1

I've done the math all the way to the end, the only orientation that is power neutral and attraction optimal is a one sided male open relationship. Rollo came to the same conclusion. Well that's an awfully convenient setup for the male imperative. It's a man's job to make you happy, just let him do his thing and even if you think he's wrong, let him prove you wrong. A man making me happy is fine, but humans are not perfect. I feel like since we live in a culture that benefits mostly the female i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 10:13 PM
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I wonder, because when people go to MRP they are trying to fix an already failing marriage. I don't think anyone who is content with what they have go looking for this subreddit and people who have a different system in place are called the exception and then ignored. Reading a little about breadwinner women, the main problem doesn't always seem that she is earning more, but that he has no drive in life. One article mentioned that bread winning women still did more house work than their husband …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 04:09 AM
5

And yet I heard that Atlas has been called a feminist before
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 10:22 PM
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I had seen one too many comments in the rational male blog talking about training their woman to be obedient as if they were dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:44 PM
1

You sound cool lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:25 PM
1

Well, you said if I had an open relationship or don't have kids non of this matters, it gave me the impression that things like status and dominance doesn't matter in a more casual LTR and you can probably disregard RP. Say for example a relationship where neither exactly has the lead, some days she wants this other days he wants this, but the give and take seems mostly equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:14 PM
2

Why is assertiveness masculine though? When the image of the shrew or the nagging wife seems very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:01 PM
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I wouldn't like it. It's either the risk that they hold mysogynistic views and/or are still in the anger phase and might never get over it, or the traditional views on gender that I'm not a big fan of. I would like some breathing room in how I act and not just because my gender predetermines how I should act.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 05:46 PM
1

So what if an LTR doesn't follow the powers dynamics stated by RP but is still going, what then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 05:34 PM
1

I guess I might have something to say about this, considering I have spent a lot of time lurking around the most depraved parts of fandoms that are absolutely dominated by women. Of course this is all just my experience and I wouldn't know of other women's experiences so take what you will. An interesting conversation I once saw between fandom women is how early childhood fears somehow play a part in what we look for in erotica, like this one person who had a fear of slimy things as a child and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 05:26 PM
2

That subtle minor difference would make all the difference honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:31 PM
1

Are you sure men don't look up this type of porn? These studies don't seem to mention what men are looking at.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:30 PM
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As far as I can tell, 50 shades wasn't straight up violent rape and there was still a lot of comfort involved in that story, so not so much rape porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:21 PM
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it be a bit hard finding men shorter than me so I wouldn't know, I am 5'1 after all. If you are an open relationship type, and aren't having kids, none of this matters. Are either of these things true? And you didn't ask me that, but anyways no this isn't an open relationship, nor are we having kids. Do you mean to say that RP only really is for marriage and there is much more leniency when it comes to more casual LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:49 AM
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My biggest issue would be the supposed ideal power structure in an RP relationship, particularly in a marriage setting. Never liked the idea of the man having final say in a household when I also live there, I lived all my life being lead by other people and it has only caused resentment in me, can't imagine why I would seek that in a relationship. Another thing with how I can't really fully agree with RP is how my first relationship started and how it looked nothing how RP says attraction works…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 04:52 AM
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I'm just wondering because I think there are some aspects of a red pill relationship I wouldn't like for mine, yet I'm not sure what a blue pill relationship is supposed to look like other than misapplying certain things and going to an extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 01:48 AM
1

I'm curious, if you could be more specific? What exactly you did wrong and how did that look like and how you changed it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 08:13 AM
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This is such a weird concept, disgust for earning less than her? That's a bit too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 06:34 AM
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as far as we know they never said yes. This seems more of a case where a guy is so spergy he ignores social norms and starts doing unusual sex acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 06:01 AM
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it's exactly how it sounds like if a guy pulls out that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 10:21 PM
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contempt for a man who demands deference just because of gender, it's reasonable to want to avoid these people. What's more she wasn't talking about he BF, she was talking about a hypothetical man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 10:20 PM
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Your BF know you think this little of him? why would you think that a woman having standards and not blindly listen to a guy for being male is hating on your SO?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 10:12 PM
1

they thought he was joking. No one normally expects a guy to masturbate in front of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 10:02 PM
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geez, what's so wrong about having a female lead action flick?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 09:56 PM
2

why is running a household where no one in particular is n charge such a difficult thing? I think ideally the relationship would like ArthurMacArthur's where both can make major decisions without steamrolling the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 09:51 PM
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The key here is whether all the parties involved where willing and the women here clearly weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 10:04 AM
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thing is, my family is not from the west, my mother for example only reached to a third grade education and ended up in a lousy marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 09:53 AM
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I think people overestimate the prevelance of the cock carousel and how many women are settling after. It's not something I have seen a majority of women do. Did you know that women lose the ability to pair bond with every sexual partner they have? This sounds like bs, in this sub at least there seems to be quite a few women with high n counts who are now happily married. It seems likely that a woman more prone to follow a promiscuous lifestyle would still not get that attached to their first pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 08:05 PM
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Can't say for sure but non of the women I have in mind hope to end their marriages. A lot of times it seems they follow the husband's lead at the expense of their own happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 08:12 AM
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Some women, meaning over half of women homicides, that's not an insignificant amount. That submissiveness is a double edged sword.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 08:07 AM
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More like don't fully depend on him financially, having a job is for security reasons in case things go bad. I seen way too many shit marriages were a woman is unhappy with her situation but can't do nothing about it because they are highly dependent on their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 07:58 AM
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I can't fully agree with you. You can never fully know a man and how things would change later down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 07:49 AM
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men are still able to work and vote, I don't see this male servitude at all in my day to day life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 03:13 AM
1

Doin order to have a more "stable" society you must limit the amount of freedom an individual woman can have? Seems like a shit deal regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 07:28 PM
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Who ever said about being a positive thing for men? It's gives equality for women relative to men, which was always the point of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 07:22 PM
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Voting rights is one I can think off, also allowing women in the workforce is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 08:01 AM
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Can you point out where it says women have more economic power than men? Also, more men voted for Trump than women so what's your point there? And it's not like the DNC is in power now anyways. And yet Hillary Clinton has more power than I do. Yeah, one woman compared to a higher amount of men in positions of power. It still doesn't change the fact the powerful men are mostly the ones in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 05:28 AM
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When feminism says they are for gender equality, I'm pretty sure they mean make women have equal opportunity to things men can do in society so both genders can be equal in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 05:16 AM
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I think the comment below your post make a good point about how having children seems to effect a woman's libido negatively. From a natural standpoint, it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 01:46 AM
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This is exactly how I felt when I went from reading stuff in feminist circles to stuff in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 08:05 AM
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If you don't mind sharing, how exactly did that look like? Can you think back and compare how different he acted before and after? Like what he did wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 05:06 AM
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I just don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 09:23 PM
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Idk, height is something I never considered for attractiveness, I always thought it was as relevant as hair or eye color. Also I'm 5'1, almost everybody is taller than me by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 07:20 AM
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So what exactly is this trying to say though? Of corse if a woman has divorced more is obvious that her n count rises too since she is no longer attached to one partner. The age is also increasing so yeah, it makes sense that an older woman be more experienced than a younger one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 06:32 AM
1

Wait, do you know of these experiments then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 02:04 AM
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You could send yourself to a feminist brainwashing camp for a decade, and when you come out, you'll still feel instinctive levels of disrespect for tearful men. This sounds like nonsense to me because I have never felt disdain when I seen men cry. Instead what happens is it makes me really worry for them. Considering how rare it is to see men crying, having one driven to tears sounds horrible and I get the urge to hug them sometimes. A while back I saw some girl post something somewhere on reddi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 05:47 PM
1

What about the dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 10:43 AM
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You know what, I have read a lot of red pill literature lately in an effort to understand these men, and I can say that now at least I have a bit more respect for men's need for sex than before, both genders prioritize different things that the other don't always always seem to understand. Here in PPD, I would say TheGreasyPole is the one that best makes me go "oh that makes sense". But man, I just finished reading a post from the rational male and its comments, and boy did it make me angry and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 07:56 AM
2

I thought trust implied trusting a man not to abuse his power over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 08:41 PM
2

But if the guys provides enough masculine energy in all other things, why is the financial support going bring the relationship down? It's one thing vs all the other things. You also did say the "provider instinct" is mostly a learned behavior, why would a woman resent something when it isn't even instinctual?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 07:07 PM
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Priorities changing could also mean that constantly chasing for the alpha sex with no promise of a relationship can get emotionally draining though. "I used to date hot guys but my priorities changed and now I am with you =)" What's interesting about this is that my brother once told me that he wants to look for a good LTR, not caring if the girl is slightly ugly, so it definetley seems like he is willing to settle on looks now that he is in his mid 30s. I've read of some guys in reddit also say…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 08:33 PM
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What I find interesting by reading the comments, is that some people here say that men get tired of the chase and priority changes, but a woman is met with mistrust when she says the same thing and is automatically assumed to be settling to get those beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 08:13 PM
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I see a beta as being passive. He doesn't seem to have ideas, doesn't suggest activities, doesn't want to do anything in his life. He's also not very successful in anything. I see an alpha as the opposite of that. He knows how to show you a good time, he's driven, he's successful. He's probably popular and charismatic. Hmm, makes sense in a way but it isn't exactly how I thought it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 10:28 AM
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It was a similar line of thinking yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 10:22 AM
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I think you're misunderstanding what TRP... or at least the more sensible TRPers (who aren't just permanently in anger-phase)... are arguing. I dunno, I don't go to the reddit page exactly because I know anyone can post any sort of bs there. What I have read is what Rational male, and some other RP blog say in the matter and the consensus seems to be that beta is bad. Not to mention a lot of people conflate the "inter-male" hierarchy with the issue of alpha/beta as TRP typically defines (there's…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 10:17 AM
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My father is an uber beta. Hardly any alpha in him at all. My parents' marriage is over 30 yrs long now and they have two successful sons who will guarantee they live the rest of their lives in splendor. AFAIK he's satisfied with his life choices. I think this is interesting to hear, when the red pill talks about a beta father they usually say it as a negative thing and that their beta dad is still plugged in to blue pill conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 06:20 AM
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A high beta in my opinion is someone who has excelled as a follower in the system. He probably makes good money and is somewhat attractive, but he doesn't have a lot of actual self-confidence and his ego is fragile. Interesting, I'm wondering what you would consider yourself then? I get the impression that a good handful of red pill would call you a beta considering your past posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 06:11 AM
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After reading a lot of rational male, I feel like Rollo likes to drive in the point that beta=bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 06:07 AM
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It's exactly this type of attitude that gave rise to feminism and keeps it in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 05:22 AM
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In my opinion, if you are married or in a really serious LTR, it be more useful to look at married red pill advice and compare from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 08:46 AM
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Yet they never caught her interest enough to even start a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 01:53 PM
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I'm saying that I'm not always excited for sex or don't look forward to it, but I always thought it was because of issues I had with sex in the past and not a lack of attraction. RP made me doubt my reasons mostly because I don't have another frame of reference and lack experience in how relationships are supposed to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 08:24 PM
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Doesn't feel that way, there is more to loose than to gain if I leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 08:09 AM
1

Can you explain what you mean by blue?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 07:34 AM
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How would you know though? You would have to do some deep digging there. Also, how can you tell if it's age or some other mental factor that is affecting the libido. Maybe she tried anal with one partner but found she wasn't a fan at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 06:45 AM
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If we were dating, I would learn you to the point you might actually wonder if I was reading your mind sometimes.. but I'm learning that's not a goal to aspire to. It's counterproductive, usually, in most cases. I would figure this would be useful to know so could best know how to manage a person? Idk what happened to you, but I wonder if it had to do that it seem like you didn't have a life of your own outside the girl and made it obvious to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 06:41 AM
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Out of curiosity, what do you mean by letting her do whatever she wants and how would it harm her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 06:27 AM
1

Somewhat, mostly when talking about men they refer to them as such or "guys", while in the same sentence they refer to women as "females"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 05:32 AM
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Men do love more idealistically, but only during their first few relationships. That's the same thing for women though, if I take into account all the dumb romance novels teenagers are into. I can't say for sure, but a young girl in her first relationship can get overly attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 08:02 PM
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See this is what I said before, that men "love" women by proxy cause of their dicks. It almost seems weird when Rollo says something like men love more idealistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 05:59 AM
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Nah I understood, it just doesn't bother me. Didn't say my preference was sensible, just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 07:41 AM
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Hey you do you, I really don't care lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 07:28 AM
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Nah, I'm pretty sure plenty of people haven't thought of it before and you just gave a very disturbing image of the man you are supposed to trust the most lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 07:25 AM
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See, things like this is why I fucking hate humanity man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 07:23 AM
2

That's a very pretty cock
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 07:21 AM
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I know the controversies around it and know why it's sad, but all the porn I seen had the foreskin out of view and watching a limp dick with foreskin just looks weird as hell to me. Also I only ever had one dick I been with intimate contact with and he was cut too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 07:01 AM
1

U a bitch. Fuk u I hate u go to hell!!11!1!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 02:30 AM
1

Does it also apply when he is also stimulating the clitoris?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 09:04 PM
3

Polypergamy? Hylygamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 08:29 PM
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Men only love women by proxy cause of their dick. Remove the thirst and they won't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 08:24 PM
1

many times sex for women just feels like sticking your finger into a hole you make with your hand. Oh crap, and here I thought there was something wrong with me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 08:17 PM
1

I was thinking more along the lines of Vietnam or Thailand or Mongolia
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:22 PM
1

So what? Nothing of that implies it's based on some cultural concept of what's acceptable when it comes to sex lol. There are other Asian countries that could hold similar views but don't compare to how much economic power Japan has.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 04:43 PM
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Based on your link, there seems to be multiple things where the U.S. Is doing better than Japan. I'm being dismissive because you're comment on free sex destroying society sounded ridiculous. Also take into account that people are wondering what the future for Japan holds when they have a declining population growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 04:29 PM
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Damn, we are doing pretty well considering free sex is supposed to be this society destroyer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 04:07 PM
2

Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 04:05 PM
1

Idk I have laughed at some of her comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 04:00 PM
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You can drop nukes on a country and it does less damage than sexual anarchy. Tell that to all the people who died of cancer years after the bomb was dropped
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 03:54 PM
7

Lol the projection
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 03:35 PM
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Lmao I'm not actually that angry bro, seem you can't stand other people having a better sex life than you. Seriously, who cares how much sex other people are having.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 03:22 PM
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The hell does feminism has to do with people being set in their ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 03:11 PM
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Can't you just rationalize the reason because Japanese men ain't as alpha as western men? Not enough men to create tingles in the first place so why even bother with the CC. People here in ppd keep saying Asian men have less testosterone than western men so there's that too. Also, the fuck you care what women decide to do? Just because you are a sexless incel doesn't meant everybody else has to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 03:02 PM
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Cause it's the worst in people that makes me hate them in the first place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 02:45 PM
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No, I have a misandry fetish instead
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 01:51 PM
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That is a god damn lie, men love their penis and women help achieve their pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 01:50 PM
3

That's a mistranslation, I know cause I read it somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 01:34 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:58 AM
1

Sorry I'm not aware, 6pm what time zone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:53 AM
1

HURL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:22 AM
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That pic is blurry as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:13 AM
1

Yes, it's true, my secret is out, I'm a shit weeb.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:53 AM
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Isn't that alpha? Cause he does shit he wants on his terms and not what women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:52 AM
1

Sure I would do it, but only because my bf has made me sandwiches, pass me some juice (I don't drink alcohol), and cuddle with me multiple times while I watch some nerd show before, is only fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:51 AM
1

Corporate sabotage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 03:22 AM
1

Hell no, I was thinking more along the lines of a giant event to get rid of everybody in one fell swoop. That was such a random suggestion lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 03:16 AM
1

Fuck Sonic! I was a slut for Shadow the hedgehog!! His edge factor gave me all the tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 03:01 AM
2

Yet Mario has more success with his games than sonic in recent times
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 03:00 AM
1

I sometimes hate men, feminism helped with that. But in reality I always hated women the most lol. Then I hate men again for my hatred of women cause most of the males I knew growing up never had anything good to say about females. And then I hate everybody and I await the day Mother Nature gets rid of us cause fuck all of you!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 02:56 AM
1

Serial killers never held appeal for, they all piss me off that's what. If I had to pick one it be Alucard from the anime Hellsing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 02:48 AM
1

It's cause women are naturally more solipsistic than men so not even they know what the heck they are talking about!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 12:51 AM
1

I still can't quite grasp this. I'd believe you if you say women tend to instinctually be more nurturing, or react to cute animals more, or less competitive/violent compared to their male peers, these are things I've observed in myself and other women, but when you say that SPECIFICALLY house cleaningness is gentically wired in women SPECIFICALLY to display status, as a woman I'm like "what the heck? This is news to me man!". Maybe if you said it was some sort of nesting behavior I believe you m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 12:43 AM
1

What the heck? That's actually a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 07:39 AM
1

Idk about cleaning a house as something an exclusive female display of status. People judge you depending how you dress and how you carry yourself , how clean is your house is just another way people judge you so I really don't see it as genetic and more like women spend more time at home and people tradionally see it as her responsibility. Also, while my mom is a neat freak, I seen one too many mothers have a disgusting house to believe it's a built in instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 05:27 AM
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Well, this is a response to the Google manifesto thing, and she is supposedly a woman in programming who took this as a personal attack from some random nobody. It might be that it isn't so much contempt to awkward betas, but contempt to guys who belittle women or think they know better when they themselves have huge flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 05:08 AM
1

How many partners did you have before him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:46 AM
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No, actually they should find a man they're sexually attracted to and ease themselves rapidly into a following role. That is the single most stupidest thing I have ever heard. This is setting up women to failure if shit doesn't go well. It's almost sounds like you are saying women should have blind faith for a man when that's exactly what got a lot of red pill guys in trouble with their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 10:09 PM
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Every time I come to this subreddit, there seems to be a certain topic of the week going lol. this week flavor is: nice guys and friendships between genders!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 09:36 PM
1

Lol no. I have no opinion one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 08:31 PM
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How is wanting an abortion even considered irrational? You have a child you are stuck with them for 18 years and there can be multiple reasons why a woman doesn't feel ready for that responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:55 PM
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It not a child yet, but a zygote. Plenty also see it as convenience, forcing a child on a woman that doesn't want to be a mother or doesn't have the resources to take care of one can be detrimental for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:39 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 06:34 PM
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Why? It's his child too. How inconsiderate and self centered can a woman be to not understand this? Because it's not his body being put at risk. The woman has to deal with all the health complications for 9 months not the man. Also, I seen men not give a fuck about women's issues either, so it's just a matter of people being assholes in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 02:50 AM
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Not saying that the majority of women won't like action like men, just saying that we might underestimate just how much. Mad Max seemed to be liked by a lot of women, or at least the women I seen lol. I'm just saying, if a little girl or boy started showing interest in something that isn't gender appropriate, the parent would most likely stop them and discourage them and the kid starts learning from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 02:41 AM
1

I don't know, maybe alpha is sexier but it seems hard to get attached to those type of men, unlike more beta men who are more agreeable to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 02:20 AM
1

Ah okay so it's not exclusive then? That must be nice then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 02:13 AM
1

If you don't mind me asking, why is it that you still stay as fwb? You known him and stayed with him for so long, what difference would it make if you guys become official?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:58 PM
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I think what they say though even if you do get with a tomboyish girl, she will instinctually still react the same to certain stimuli regardless. That they still want to fuck alpha and later settle on beta bux and would go for the masculine man in a second and start acting more feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:49 PM
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The problem might be how they word it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:24 PM
1

So what? Learning how to avoid being used by men is masculine now? That sounds like a useful skill for any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:19 PM
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Having fantasies is not the same as wanting those things to happen irl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:06 PM
1

For me, broad shoulders is a very obvious marker of a masculine body, maybe instinctually it could represent upper body strength? Idk. An example of the broad shoulders that I really loved was Chris Evans when he plays Captain America. Very very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 03:58 PM
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But a man providing for a woman one way or another is something that would make sense evolutionarily speaking. Do you think having mostly beta is detrimental to the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 03:40 PM
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Okay I get you about the respect thing. But what about deference? Won't women also need men to listen to them and take their opinions into account? RP seems to believe if that a man gives too much she will loose respect but that doesn't seem to make much sense if she truly cared for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 02:56 PM
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It's kind of a shame here that the implication here is that men can lead women to be better people but women can't do the same for men, it's a little sad. Also, it's really hilarious that the main point people are having issue with is the video game bashing lol. forget everything else! What you have against my games man!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 02:30 PM
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But according to RP, that's supposed to make women loose respect thus attraction towards their lover. This is embarrassing to say but that has given me a lot of self doubt in my relationship lol. Things that didn't bother me before I am now overthinking and I'm trying to figure out my life basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 02:21 PM
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Nah see, cooking by itself is not so much of a "people relationship" thing and more of a "thing" thing (lol). Same thing with knitting and that seems and more popular with women than men. I don't know how reliable this is, but there was a study floating around a few years back having men either braid hair or braid rope. If they braided hair they were more likely want to punch something. Seems like if something has enough of a feminine connotation in it, men are less likely to even pick up the ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 02:11 PM
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Wouldn't women also start getting worn down by a dominant man too? Is respect not something women want too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 10:10 AM
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Now that you mention it, it does make me wonder why guys like exploding hunks of metal. It's not like we had cars and huge ass explosions in cave man days lol. With the cooking show, I'm mostly thinking it's more an effect caused by society because women are expected to do the cooking rather than an innate drive to turn anything edible into a more complicated dish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 09:55 AM
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Oh man, I feel you with the Suicide Squad movie. It felt all over the place, just a very sloppy movie in my opinion. With the movies I like, I guess this is just highly personal taste, my problem was that I wasn't to into the rouges in Assault on Arkham. The movies I did really like though, was Son of Batman or others that had Damian in it because I loved seeing the father son dynamic, though admittedly it is somewhat hilarious seeing a 10 year old over power grown adults lol. The Flashpoint Par…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 09:35 AM
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That sounds really fucking hot honestly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:57 AM
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I think maybe it's the whole being taken care by a guy thing. Maybe there is a lack of sweetness out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:47 AM
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Okay I seen that movie, but I personally think there are better DC movies to watch lol. I was kinda meh on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:28 AM
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What's funny about this is that Batman is getting married and seems really attached to Catwoman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:25 AM
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it is t decreasing immigration a problem when a lot of people are trying to escape those same problematic countries? And honestly, Hillary might have not been overt about it but she would have very likely done the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:16 AM
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So what is you opinion on hypergamy for example? Do you think that for a marriage to succeed it must have the man taking the lead otherwise the woman will start feeling insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 07:34 AM
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Can you point out what is stupid in bother sides?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 07:27 AM
1

What about alpha/beta dynamics? According to MRP, the man has to be the leader and have final say in order to achieve this, or do you think a more egalitarian marriage is possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 07:26 AM
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I've not seen it personally, but I have heard of this scenario a lot. Where rowdiness is more expected in boys than in girls so when girls start acting up they are told to obey more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 07:17 AM
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The one I have the most proble with is your first point, you say most women more often than not sleep around. What happen to the fact that women have lower libido than men? I think someone even say that RPW admit to ONS being emotionally draining. Also your second point comes awfully close to sounding like solipsism, can you really assume to know what women think when you are not a woman yourself? And honest to who though? I remember reading that men say dating women in their 30's is not fun bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:33 AM
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That is an awful lot of assumptions there. It spells out a convenient story that makes sense but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 06:03 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, how did you guys get together? has there ever been a time when you doubted the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 11:16 AM
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Well with food allergies, I would have a hard time understanding how potentially dying for eating peanuts makes any sense, that potentially diminishes the things you can safely eat. Just how LittleWindowpane shared an example of how a man completely froze for a bear attack, the body didn't react ideally and I really do wonder if it's something that mostly happens to women or just the body reacting to panic. I'm thinking of a short video I saw explaining why we seemingly have a kinda useless phen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 09:51 PM
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Eh idk man, I was one of those girls that seldom got any male attention and I was fine with it. Heck what about when women complain about cat calling because they are getting unwanted male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 09:07 PM
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Most women actually end up poorer after divorce compared to men. Is this something you have seen personally or was there a study on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 08:58 PM
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Realistically though, and this comes from my experiences, putting effort early to then become a SAHM is not a good guarantee at all. A lot of what I seen is SAHM being left by their husbands and can't hire a lawyer to do crap. I have an aunt who married her first boyfriend, and years of marriage and 3 kids later, she has come to my mom and lament that she didn't date around before making the decision, she talks about wanting her own business so she could leave her husband now that all the kids a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 08:51 PM
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I can't say for sure since I'm not in my 30s yet, but are you sure it's just settling for the beta? Does the woman really keep the same libido she had when she was younger and more fertile? I know there was was one woman here that said that experimenting with sex was great when she was younger, but it soon lost its novelty and some things no longer hold the same appeal anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 08:37 PM
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How long have you been with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 02:12 PM
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To be fair, it makes sense why people react negatively when people say "rape is natural". There are many people who say this and would go on to say that this is how it should be and defend the act. It also sounds like diminishing the crime, you normalize it enough and people would stop caring, this seems especially the case since I get the impression that men really don't understand at all how women feel or are threatened by it unless they themselves have been victims of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 05:43 AM
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I don't think everything has to make evolutionary sense. Take social anxiety, PTSD, or food allergies for example. All of these is the body having an exaggerated response to something when it's inconvenient . Shit just happens sometimes, so who knows if tonic immobility is something that mostly happens with rape, mostly happens to women, or if it's just the body responding to trauma and it just so happens it might lead to the woman not getting murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 05:32 AM
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I honestly want to post something very long but I wonder if it would come out too much like a rant. I would honestly want to read what people have to say but it does has a lot of personal anecdote to show where I'm coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 11:19 AM
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I'm curious to know how exactly is it creepy and fucked up though, religion regulating women's sexuality can be more because the scholars were male and wanted to prioritize male imperative. Saying that most women want to suffer sexual degradation sounds mostly like hearsay to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 12:23 PM
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Honestly, I'm not sure if it's the abusiveness itself that attracts women, I feel like these women are attracted to the man because of certain qualities and start getting really attached, and by the time the guy starts showing their true colors it's too late and the woman is in deep. I think that's why there's lists online informing you of the warning signs of abusive relationships, the tells are either too subtle or women rationalize it away as a one time thing or think their specific man is di…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 08:52 AM
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I would think political views would be important to consider, considering how divisive the topic can be and it can be a question of morality for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 08:31 AM
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Now that's a useless vague generalization, seems men are also likely to fall victim to conforming considering the Solomon Asch experiment. Men seem likely to avoid things that call their maleness into question, like how few men seek help from therapists because it ruins the stoic, strong ideal of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 06:58 PM
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It's basically the whole point on why there are people trying to push women into STEM, at least men haven't been widely discouraged to enter in STEM fields so that's why people don't think it's just a simple matter of gender differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 06:29 PM
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I think you are overestimating human willpower. Take for example the Solomon Asch experiment, where the researcher took a group of college aged men and asked them to answer a simple question. Only one of the guys answered correctly and everybody else answered incorrectly, this lead to the one guy eventually changing his answer to match the rest. Or the Milgram experiment where people whole follow orders by an authority even if it lead to harming another person. The placebo effect seems to also b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 03:13 PM
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How the heck do you confuse a middle schooler for a grown woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 01:51 PM
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Maybe not, but I have heard of stories from other women who were actively discouraged from pursuing a certain hobby/job because it didn't fit expected gender roles. Maybe girls are more interested in playing with baby dolls but a lot of times a family member would buy a toy that they think suits the gender and the kid starts learning to adapt accordingly. It reminds me of a small documentary I saw that was talking about the gender differences in the workforce in Scandinavian countries, the host …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 07:06 AM
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now it really sounds like applying gender lines to generic emotions so to make people better fit the mold. The only real difference seems to be that men can become physically violent and that could seem as over the top, and that still seems like predominantly male aggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 03:30 AM
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I think what u/IckyStickyPoo makes sense in how people tend to follow the status quo. It reminds me how many black people push for visibility in their fields to inspire the younger generation and convince them they are more than what they are lead to believe. That's not to say that there isn't gender differences, but it seems very believable that society can exacerbate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 07:43 AM
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Late reply but, that just sounds like arbitrarily putting gender labels on behaviour, and in this case it just serves to conveniently belittle female behaviour as according to what the manosphere believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 07:26 AM
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Can't it just be a society thing though rather than an innate brain thing? People react more negatively towards men acting violent, when women start acting violently towards eachother, it's often seen as a joke and there just seems to be a lack of consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 07:22 AM
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That sounds really dumb, all the violent rage and immaturity is what I though was very stereotypical male rage, especially among younger me. It wasn't until I started hanging out here that I see people conveniently make it a female thing characteristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 06:33 AM
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Idk if it's that innate though, in high school I was vaguely aware of hypergamy when it came to selecting provider type of men but I chose to ignore that aspect because it's not the life I wanted for me. I wanted to be comfortably self sufficient so I don't have to rely on someone else for financial security.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 04:11 AM
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I once did a Google search on that, and I found one study say that outside of marriages, men are just as likely to end relationships as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 08:34 PM
1

Who knows, I think I've seen the occasional gay man around but it's so rare in these communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 05:35 AM
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For me, there was a time I would see a naked woman and instantly get sexually aroused, but seeing a naked man did nothing for me. It wasn't until I started reading gay porn that I started seeing men in a sexual way. See, I always thought it was because finding sexualized women was more easier than sexualized men, but who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 05:29 AM
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I suppose so, but reading up on the red pill, made me realize all the kinks I took for granted were way against the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 02:51 AM
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I think I felt this when I was younger too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 02:48 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 09:53 PM
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Most of the porn I consume is gay erotica, there is just something oddly arousing of a strong man getting fucked by another, twinks are hot too. Cross dressing can be sexy too. Also, really hairy men seldom do anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 09:40 PM
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Aww but I like aftercare :/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:19 AM
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No, I have actually read a lot of raunchy erotic fiction over the years that are better written than that book. I almost got the impression that women who loved this series never read porn in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 08:45 PM
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I mean, I get what you are saying but doesn't that lead to a slippery slope of falling into an abusive relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 06:27 AM
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I honestly am not understanding this? How is liking rough sex or being dominant in bed have to do with telling a guy to be more agreeable out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 05:53 AM
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You do bring an interesting point. My most earliest memories of sex on tv have been all violent and depictions of rape, and for years that was the only way I could get off from porn or erotica
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 08:47 AM
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They want to be abused, but only by someone attractive that also demonstrates caring for them and their feelings, to be simple, in which case it's like accepted abuse. That just sounds like bullcrap to me, just what exactly do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 07:46 AM
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Saying that women prefer men capable of cheating is such a weird way to put it. Maybe you want a really hot boyfriend to show off to your friends and make them jealous, but you don't want your man to actually go trough it or even consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 06:12 AM
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I mean, I'm currently dating one of those, met in high school and got together in college. Though to be fair, I feel this is mostly a thing that happens with young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 05:01 AM
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I started questioning some of the methods feminism use to shut down the opposition. I would see certain compelling arguments on the other side but no proper debate or attempts for civil conversation till the point that it no longer felt like I knew what I was talking about. I started looking up the MRA and from there I started seeing the rest of the manosphere until I eventually ended up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 06:09 AM
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But if women never bothered to speak up about these issues no one would have even given a shit. All the way back to the first wave femenism men would riducule suffragettes, have political cartoons depicting them as ugly old women who never found a husband. The issue of letting women vote has been mentioned long before first wave feminism got power and it probably would have stayed a problem if they didn't take actions for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 05:07 AM
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I think I would be comfortable taking that bet, heck I get the impression here that women aren't supposed to find hairless men sexy but that's my preference and I'm neither obese or black and still in my mid twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 04:54 AM
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It's not about reckless spending though, at least some of the things my mother would ask for is new kitchen ware things, and now that she works she can buy things for herself but she has never been irresponsible with money compared to other people I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 04:51 AM
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At least for that one, I could totally see certain women into that. I've seen some women really complimenting a man's butt and it doesn't look that ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 05:54 AM
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I think one of the rules the rational male points out is that a wife needs to be told no because they crave that authority, and then the example he used was when his wife asked for a new bed for their daughter he said no even though he had the money because he didn't want to build a new bed. That caused conflict and even though it was just a bed he still stood by his decision. That just sounded stifling to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 05:49 AM
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Yeah I understand that, I just don't see how that should mean a man should be the sole authority in evrything. Knowing when to compromise or back down doesn't automatically mean being a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 05:40 AM
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Sure the money their husband earns is theirs too, but they don't have much freedom to spend it. I had SAHW tell me to stay in school and get a job so I don't have to depend on my future husband for money if I want to spend it on things. After my father left, my mom would mention that he wouldn't buy a lot of things she would have liked and it's a freedom she enjoys more now that she works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 05:00 AM
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Yeah true, but I mean what married red pill or what the rational male website says about how marriage should look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 04:34 AM
1

Not gonna lie, that's just all types of wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 04:24 AM
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Eh, sure he is rich but he isnt attractive at all. Trump now has similar power but his wife looks disinterested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 02:50 AM
1

I find female lingerie to be more sexier then whatever this is. I can't help but feel this is a weird gag gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 02:41 AM
1

I don't quite understand what /u/theiamsamurai is trying to say here is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 08:53 AM
2

Wait, so are you saying more women kill men than men kill women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 05:31 AM
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refuse to put up with shit from her, leads the relationship, his wants, needs and mission take precedence While I agree that a lot of women want a confident man that takes the lead, his needs taking precedence seems like shitty advice. I would think this would only work if the woman has put herself in a vulnerable position that makes him nessary to stay, weather it be financially or for the children, because I have seen in marriages were the woman is basically tolerating this type of selfish beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 03:14 AM
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I don't know, there was a post here a few days ago asking just what exactly is a red pill woman and in one of their comments they said a lot of their strategy sounds like the female equivalent of telling a guy they should aim to be a beta bux for a successful marriage and that just about sums up my feelings too. I admit some of their advice makes sense but I can't agree with everything, and not to the extreme they take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:54 AM
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what exactly defines a man? is having dreams or getting a career you like a man thing? How is that imitating men and not just being human? I'm not trying to be a man, I'm trying to live my own life, I have long accepted there are some things I can not do but I don't want that to stop me from living life and work around my weaknesses. It becomes a bother when people in society tell me I'm not allowed to make certain choices because of what I am and at least feminism made it easier to make those c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:29 AM
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This is so stupid, I always hated moral relativism. Call anything truth or knowledge and people get away with justifying anything. Some society you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 06:36 AM
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Are women not allowed to have dreams and aspirations that just so happen to fall outside gender roles? I've seen studies that claim that men benefit more from marriage than women when it comes to happiness, is that a result of feminism? What exactly is womanhood? Is it only being a mother and a wife? That sounds so plain and I haven't seen it work out for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 06:32 AM
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Perharps you're just biased. Likewise And friend zone isn't a good example, being friend zoned isn't some manipulation tatic. In many cases is a woman genuinely wanting your friendship and not realizing how men work differently. Also, I take it you haven't heard of abusive relationships then, or how men will give you false promises just so they can get sex and then dump you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 05:59 AM
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This is amazing, you speak of men caring more for progress and the betterment of society and women never being happy no matter how much you give them while at the same time saying evil things like "I'm not against genocide". You don't care for people and culling people is not progress, just spreading more evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 05:27 AM
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Im not sure if it sets me free, more like it further restrains me. I come from tradcon families, from family structures these women want, and I have not seen a single happy marriage in my family. Just a lot of women with regrets and domestic violence everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:25 AM
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This has to be he biggest bs I have ever heard. In my experience, men are no more driven for morality than women and I come from tradcon families. And really? Friend zone? That's your example for the superior morality of men? That's such a useless paper thin argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 04:21 AM
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I'm not sure if I'm to keen on their advice, I have read some of their stuff and it just leaves me feeling depressed honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:21 AM
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I'm actually the chick in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 07:02 AM
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End up unhappy how though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:12 AM
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This sounds like too much "what if's" to be a good strategy all around. What if that person around the corner is a thief? What if it's just a random dude minding his own business? What if they have something else in mind? Of course don't be stupid and act blindly, but you don't have to question every single thing in your life. The situation you are describing with the third scenario sounds more like a problem with insecurity and maybe anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 07:58 AM
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I mean, I don't disagree with you that it has its disadvantages and andvantages, it's just that I seen a lot of women complain that they feel its forced on them when they don't want to participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 06:26 AM
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The thing is though, I seen some feminist spout misandry in direct response to the mysogynistic language they saw online, emulating their language and vitriol. I guess the problem is that I can't really give you a good link since these are things I seen a while back. You can say that thes satirical articles and almost equivalent to feminist ironically professing their love of misandry. On another note, MRAs seem to belive in gynocentrism, isn't that almost the same as the belief of a patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 06:21 AM
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I'm just saying, the pressure of being beautiful just seems to be more on women in general. You can see sitcoms with the less attractive husband compared to the wife, so that's why feminist are complaining. Also another issue feminists complain about is that in video games for example, they make the woman by default wear revealing clothing but the men wear more practical clothing when it's wholly unnesesary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 02:57 AM
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This is starting to sound like feminists who say "not all feminist!". As far as I know, one of the speakers who appeared in the red pill movie, Paul Elam, has gone online and wrote about "bash a violent bitch month" and written other mysogynistic sounding crap. I can actually go to YouTube and find a person that speaks about men's right have a video called "women are retarded". Maybe it's not as obvious a feminism since its comparitavley small, but the hate speech is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 02:50 AM
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I think what feminists are getting at is that if a woman wants to participate in something, say become an actor or a model, you are kinda forced to rely on your sexual beauty and become eye candy, that a woman's talent lies not in what she does but in how she looks, more so then men. Nothing wrong if an individual decides to do this or decides to become a sex worker, what's wrong is that it's the default position for women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 05:38 AM
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There's absolutely no equivalent in the MRM to a hateful gender based belief like patriarchy theory. Isn't there? I have gone to plenty of men's right videos on YouTube and the comments I see there can get very hateful towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 05:23 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 05:15 AM
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Is there anything particularly bad about getting rid of masculinity and femininity though?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 04:17 AM
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I'm scared of being a parent cause I feel like I'm a terrible person. What's more, I was never a fan of kids to begin with and i feel apprehensive of bringing more people to life so they can suffer in this horrible world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 07:38 AM
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Maybe not, but we do have entire subreddits with really pissed off men who like to call women inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 07:08 AM
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To be fair, it's hard to be syphathtic to a group of people who reduce you gender to "adult children" or go so far to say that women are inferior in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:05 AM
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Because you have really weird ideas about love, going primarily by looks sounds as shallow as you can get lol. Love at first sight? Please. Really? I thought all the girls on reddit were ugly What is this? Middle school?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 05:21 AM
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Not gonna lie, you sound really young an naive right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 08:46 PM
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You keep saying that but I'm not seeing anything of substance, women divorcing more could mean just about anything, you can just deduct that men have more to loose in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 07:04 AM
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I mean, if you only got the bike for convenience of course you will be dissatisfied with it once it stops working. If you add sentimental value to it it would be harder to get rid off. If a woman got with a man only out of convenience it was never love to begin with. I still don't see how women's love is more conditional than a man's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 06:07 AM
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Damn, must reconsider my identity as a woman then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 03:40 AM
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Not really, this Rollo person and the comments in his site always talk about women's conditional love, I didn't get that idea out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 07:07 PM
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Yeah and the red pill does this a lot, so what? I'm of the opinion that both men and women have conditional love, one is not greater than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 07:01 PM
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Women don't enjoy male strippers? What? Maybe not at the same rate as men but I must be living in a different world then. It just seems men love for very shallow reasons according to your logic, interchange any pair of tits and it's all the same
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 06:59 PM
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Yeah but another user said the same thing, and I linked a study that suggests that non-marital breakups are initiated more equally, and another person that linked a graph that showed women divorce more over abuse and alcoholism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 04:44 AM
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So what? Do you think love is more conditional when it come from women or it can't really be determined?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 03:59 AM
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Yeah, women initiate more divorce, but I found this study that suggest that non-marital breakups are initiated more equally among the genders
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 02:46 AM
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With that logic, I can go back to all the stories from family members and friends to prove that men are shallow and are the first to cheat on you given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 02:44 AM
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Okay but I haven't really seen anything that proves a woman's love is more conditional than a man's though. All I see is anecdotes from red pill guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 02:34 AM
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Okay here I thought we were talking about the op's scenario, since when are we talking about placing bets?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 08:57 PM
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Yeah but I wasn't really talking about arranged marriages, more like how a woman feeling forced to have sex to save her life in the op's situation would cause resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 08:03 AM
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Who knows but I think I would prefer a punch to the face than rape. It doesn't matter if a woman sleeps with 100 guys, what matters is if she chose to have sex or not. And fingering someone is definitely not like picking someone's nose wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:47 AM
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That sounds dumb, how does unwanted attraction make you owe a debt? the woman didn't ask for his attraction, it's something he brought without anyone else agreeing to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:33 AM
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I don't even see how a hypothetical genetic line is more important than the lives of people who are alive right now. It's also kinda dumb considering the situation, you are in a deserted island with only 4 people, what future is there for your genetic line? I would think inbreeding would become inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:23 AM
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Forced intimacy also would cause resentment in the group. Sex can be emotionally taxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:00 AM
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My dad told me that if I ever get sexual urges, to use a toy instead of sleeping around with men. Not really sexual advice but my mom told me never to be upfront with my feelings to men or place any trust in them. All of them are perverse and the moment they sense weakness in you they will take advantage of you and use you. Generally I've been told not to believe in the lie "if you love me you would sleep with me"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:04 PM
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That sounds like a shitty strategy, I would think that for a relationship to work there has to be some sort of compromise or else you are not compatible. I might be wrong, but when it comes to sex, I rarely see anyone differing to her values, if anything sex is a default requirement for a relationship to continue for people, just how there are women who loose interest in men for not having a stable job, there are men who loose interest for having a wife that doesn't put out enough. I keep hearin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:57 PM
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I think it's a matter of different values then, I know there are people who will feel resentful to have to have sex when they don't feel like it just to appease someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 07:04 PM
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That doesn't make sense, why do people equate sex to love? Some people honestly don't want to have sex but still care deeply for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:52 PM
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I don't think it makes sense to say that women want chaos while men want order. Women are more likely to submit to authority than men are. I'm just thinking to how many supporters of Prohibition where women and wanted stricter order so men don't start drinking their money away. Also, when people think of rowdy school children they mostly think boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 11:59 AM
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You aren't proving it right either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:25 AM
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