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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-7	Wellness check: how're you coping with the fallout? That is the most clown shit I have heard all day, to the point that I have to assume you aren't serious. Obviously he is talking about Trump, and obviously he is optimistic about the future because of Trump. What do you think this check-in post is even about? Do you think it is coincidental that the election happened this week?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/11/24 02:28 AM
-11	Wellness check: how're you coping with the fallout? No, I am not a bot. But the fact that you immediately assume I am is indicative of the problem. To be able to feel "optimistic" about Donald Trump, you have had to ignore a billion red flags from the man's actions, words, and history. You have had to ignore the majority of historians, economists, and climate scientists, all of whom have been telling us that Trump's policies are dangerous, stupid, and unfeasible. You have been blinding yourself to any information that doesn't already conform to y…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/11/24 02:25 AM
14	Wellness check: how're you coping with the fallout? You have put your faith in a charlatan. He is lying to you and is going to betray your trust, just like he does with everybody. There is plenty to be said about the us vs. them narratives in feminism. But these guys don't give a shit about you, me, or anybody else but their billionaire buddies. With time, I hope you come to understand just how hard you have been scammed. Because hopefully, that will allow you to come away from the experience as a kinder, more humble person.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/11/24 02:04 AM
1	What is the real reason some men are able to have success with love and some aren’t? There are a million reasons that a woman will reject a guy, and a handful of reasons that they will accept him. Even if you make no mistakes, you can still fail. A lot of this stuff comes down to being in the right place at the right time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 08:20 PM
8	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move Point out anything I said that is incorrect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 02:57 PM
2	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move Sure, use all of them. They are interchangable. What I am saying is that none of them are actually insulting. Somebody just decided that "male" and "female" are insulting like 5 minutes ago, and it is just another dumb exercise in language-policing without actually trying to accomplish anything meaningful. The purpose is to find something new to complain about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 02:51 PM
6	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move Yes, it is women's fault for engaging in the behavior that they choose to engage in. And here is a good way to drop a hint: "hey, you're kinda cute. Tell me more about yourself." It's not fucking rocket science.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 02:42 PM
3	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move Dude, shut up. The concept that "male" and "female" are suddenly problematic terms has only been a thing for like the last 6 months. It's almost entirely just feminists looking for an excuse to be offended by yet another innocuous thing. Just one more thing to add to the infinitely growing list.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 02:37 PM
7	CMV: Males should continue to make the first move Everything you are saying is true, even if it is a stupid reality. The hints that women use to signal interest are as dumb and indirect as they are cowardly. And then men get blamed when they "miss their opportunity," like it is somehow the man's fault for not making assumptions. "Hey moron, didn't you notice that that girl was kind of nice to you for a while and had prolonged eye contact? You should feel like an idiot for not being telepathic." It's all bullshit and the problem wouldn't happen …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 02:33 PM
4	'That Audio and Video Saved Your Life': Black Man Accused of Raping White Neighbor Used Home Surveillance Cam to Beat Charges, Is Now Suing Her and Police for False Arrest I agree that well-meaning people need to be able to consider the viewpoints other of well-meaning people and be able to join together to move forward in a progressive direction. But the discourse around rape has pretty much been covered at this point. People generally consider rape to be a worse crime than even murder. Nobody, outside of the worst people on the planet, approves of rape. Nobody, outside of the worst people on the planet, commits rape. There are many policies in existence to inves…	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/08/24 11:44 PM
20	'That Audio and Video Saved Your Life': Black Man Accused of Raping White Neighbor Used Home Surveillance Cam to Beat Charges, Is Now Suing Her and Police for False Arrest Actually, you may surprised to learn that pretty much everybody, including men, hates rape and is disgusted when rape occurs. With the exception of the total douchebags (whose opinions are psychotic and should be discounted), everybody hates rapists.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/08/24 09:37 PM
38	'That Audio and Video Saved Your Life': Black Man Accused of Raping White Neighbor Used Home Surveillance Cam to Beat Charges, Is Now Suing Her and Police for False Arrest Buh buh buh but wait a minute, false rape accusations are so crazy bonkers unfathomably rare! It is more likely for someone to be struck by lightning 50,000 times in a row while winning 5 Powerball drawings than for a woman to make a false rape accusation! I don't understand, this should be so impossible!	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/08/24 08:52 PM
17	CMV: The women on Bear Grylls' The Island would have created a better place to live than the males' island Yeah but women good men bad tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 10:43 PM
10	Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinity Do gang members and drug dealers have a difficult time getting laid? It's weird that the sort of people who embody traits that women claim they are not interested in, also get a shitload of positive attention from women. Kinda makes you wonder......	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 07:06 PM
3	Would you date someone who is bisexual? Well shit, you sure convinced me. What a persuasive argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 07:51 PM
–	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. This is correct advice, but not necessarily helpful advice. You are basically telling people "be popular."	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 11:58 AM
0	Would you date someone who is bisexual? Women like gay men because they are feminine and not a threat. Also, go get your dick sucked by a guy and then tell me that women do it better. And I don't recall ever saying that women "wanted" to be labeled anything, homophobic or otherwise. They just behave homophobically sometimes. Seriously dude, are you having a stroke right now? Do you need to call an ambulance? Or is English your second language or something? I am genuinely confused about your reading comprehension.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 03:13 AM
3	Would you date someone who is bisexual? They are virtue signaling.......by being homophobic? Are you having a stroke or something? I can understand a woman not wanting to be with a feminine man, but most bisexual men are not feminine. A lot of the time, women don't even realize that these guys are attracted to men until they expressly tell them so. And then women get weird about it afterwards. Lots of gay men are pretty feminine, but it's not as common for bisexual men to be feminine. A lot of women's power over men comes from the kno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 03:02 AM
-3	Would you date someone who is bisexual? Their fear is just a projection of their own insecurities. Transphobes hate transgender women because they are afraid of accidentally being attracted to and having sex with someone who they consider to be a guy, which would then make themselves "gay." Similarly (although not exactly the same), heterosexual women hate bisexual men because they are afraid that the guys that man could get with could provide him with better sex than they could.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 11:18 PM
45	K Harris perpetuates the '80 cents on the dollar' hoax It has been debunked. But also, I feel that OP is posting in bad faith. Harris made this claim in 2019, not recently. OP fails to mention that, and instead implies that she did this during the current campaign. And, the Fact Checking article expressly says that her campaign even during 2019 admitted that she misspoke. OP is apparently farming for controversy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/08/24 08:13 PM
-8	Body shaming is ok when it’s against men I dislike!! Exactly. Much like I don't give a shit that people are calling JD Vance a couch fucker, I don't give a shit that people are pointing out how small Andrew Tate's dick is. The time of "they go low, we go high" is done. That shit doesn't work, it just allows assholes like these guys to gain momentum. Manners exist for the people who deserve them.	/r/EverydayMisandry	10/08/24 12:36 PM
3	The misandry some women believe protects them actually makes them easier targets. I am sorry that you were assaulted and that your brain has a fight-or-flight response when you interact with men now. That is PTSD and I hope that with time and therapy you are able to overcome it. However, a blanket refusal to be alone with any man is problematic, and it is not just because a man could "get his feelings hurt." It is bad because you are harming yourself too. For example, one of the unintended consequences of the metoo movement was that male supervisors began distancing themselve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 02:48 PM
4	The misandry some women believe protects them actually makes them easier targets. Based on your response, my understanding is that you yourself do not assume that all men are abusers until proven otherwise. That is good. The reply I would have to your response is that this theoretical crazy woman who is so off-the-charts misandrist would either (1) never interact with a man at all, meaning she would have access to extremely limited resources and services and would live a barebones, cowardly, pathetic life, or (2) end up excessively trusting ANY man who somehow "proves" himsel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 02:02 PM
7	The misandry some women believe protects them actually makes them easier targets. If you assume every man is an abuser, then why interact with men at all? Or are you just being hyperbolic to score internet points?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 01:47 PM
15	The male sexuality catch 22 "Women are not a monolith" is such a bad faith answer, because the very same people who say it will also make blanket statements about men as a whole. Yeah, obviously individual people have their own individual preferences. No shit. But it is also true that there are qualities that women, in general, are attracted to. Being tall is an example of something that women are, in general, attracted to. OP is highlighting something that women also, in general, seem to abide by.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 02:30 AM
1	There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor. The reason you have dreams and ambition is because you are afraid of dying without having lived a life with purpose. Thanatos. The reason you want to fall in love and have a family is because having offspring is one of the only ways that people can persist even after dying. Eros. This isn't complicated stuff, and you don't have to be a philosopher to comprehend it. You do have to not be a dense moron though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 06:12 PM
1	There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor. Eros and thanatos are the only reason that anybody does anything, when you get down to the core of it all. The other guy is correct; you are not a special exception to any of this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 06:01 PM
–	Do you find overly political women (particularly super left leaning) a turn off? I think that extreme right-wing ideology is far more damaging for society as a whole than extreme left-wing ideology. Having said that, I tend to hold left-leaning people to a higher standard of behavior because they tend to be more educated, more well-read, etc. Besides the super rich, super powerful right-wingers (senators, billionaires, lobbyists, etc.), most right-wing people are victims of their own indoctrination. They are hurting other people with their behaviors, but they are also hurtin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/24 04:49 PM
1	Wow, misandry AND racism. I don't know this person, so I might be wrong about this, but I am giving him the benefit of the doubt and assuming he is being hyperbolic for the purposes of demonstrating how unfair and irrational the "bear or man" narrative is. He is taking the irrational idea and following it to its logical conclusion: If men are actually more savage than wild animals, then they cannot be held accountable for their behaviors. We don't hold wild animals accountable for their behaviors because it is hardwired …	/r/EverydayMisandry	15/05/24 04:09 PM
71	CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause. The most obnoxious thing about it is when you say anything to argue against them, no matter what, they always, ALWAYS say, "see, you are just proving why we should pick the bear." Well gee, isn't that convenient! They are apparently proven right both by people agreeing with them or by people disagreeing with them! How amazing it must be to be automatically right, no matter what facts, logic, reasoning, or pathos someone brings against your argument!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 06:58 PM
-2	It has never been easier to approach women Buddy, I mean this as a human reaching out to another human with genuine concern. That is not a healthy mindset and the only person getting hurt is you. And you getting hurt like this is something avoidable. I understand the feeling you are describing. But don't cement yourself in this image that you have for yourself. Ignore the women thing, because you are right, you have no control over what other people choose to do. But you can develop yourself more and more and enjoy yourself more and more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 03:40 PM
-1	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? What, so you actually want me to conclude that brown men and white women are generally dangerous just because two people I encountered were like that and also were douchebags? Who hurt you, pumpkin?	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 01:49 AM
0	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? One factor is that they are constantly consuming content designed to make them afraid of men. True crime podcasts, dateline, etc. It creates an artificial perception that most men are dangerous, and they don't stop and think about how they are just watching isolated selections about the worst men in existence. If I went out of my way to watch hours each day of robbery footage with black people robbing convenience stores, I would have an inaccurate, skewed perception of black people being dangero…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 05:41 PM
-1	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? But by necessity, that is what the implication is. Nobody is adding any qualifiers to it. A man is a man. The question is not "a dangerous bear or a dangerous man." It's "a bear or a man." It reminds me of the scene in Zootopia where the bunny finishes giving a press conference, saying that carnivores are biologically dangerous. The fox gets offended and rightfully so, because she is implying that the carnivores are dangerous by default. When she says she wasn't talking about him, he says, "oh, …	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 05:25 PM
-4	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? No that is just straight up not true, and it is frustrating that so many women have this incorrect perception of men. It is true that most violent crime is committed by a man. However, it is also true that only an extremely small outlier of men commit violent crimes at all. The overwhelming majority of men are just normal people going about their lives. Can you imagine what it feels like to have people automatically assume you are a bad person, just because like 0.05 percent of people who happen…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 04:24 PM
-12	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? Quite the opposite. Women keep discussing how often sexual assault occurs, but that isn't what this matter is about. "A bear or a man" is about whether a random bear or a random man would hurt a woman. An extremely small outlier of men are dangerous. That means that the overwhelming majority of men are not. So no, a random man is not likely to hurt a woman.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 03:49 PM
-11	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? I have been physically attacked twice in my life, once by a brown man and once by a white woman. Should I conclude that brown men and white women are generally dangerous? Or should I recognize them as the outliers that they are?	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 03:27 PM
-19	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? https://www.reddit.com/r/NewsOfTheStupid/s/L2brbWSBSX Here's a woman who stumbled across a bear. It didn't go well, go figure. Wild animals are not predictable and not logical. That is why they are wild animals. The absolute overwhelming majority of men have no interest in hurting women. And again, this is not " a bear or an armed, dangerous, sex-crazed man with a black belt in karate." This is "a bear or a man." It is irrational and unfair to assume that someone is evil solely because that pers…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 03:23 PM
1	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? I think that it is extremely significant that when presented with a choice as vague and open-ended as "a bear or a man," women keep imagining that it is the best possible bear (cowardly, predicable, not hungry, won't bother you if you don't bother it, will run away if you make noise) and the worst possible man (huge, dangerous, psychotic, armed, wants to rape the first human he stumbles across).	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 02:54 PM
7	"Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in dating This reminds me of when JonTron said during a debate he was streaming that "wealthy black people commit more crimes than poor white people." Everybody on the left tore him to shreds for saying something that stupid, and they were correct to do so. Now his audience is pretty much exclusively conservatives. I don't think any liberal or progressive, including the shrillest pink-haired feminists imaginable, would ever actually believe or argue that wealthy black people have less privilege than poor …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 05:58 PM
1	Does demonization of sexuality affect you? That's such a cowardly answer, and it is hilarious that it gets used by women so much. "All women are special unique snowflakes who each have their own specialized, completely unique quirks and preferences. But men are dogs."	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 10:19 PM
25	So Tired Of Hearing About The "Patriarchy" I essentially agree. I think it would be unreasonable to suggest that a patriarchy doesn't exist in countries where being a woman specifically prevents you from having certain rights and privileges from a legal standpoint. As an example, Saudi Arabia did not legally allow women to drive a car until 2018. That is psychotic, oppressive, and undeniably sexist. However, that is a huge difference from basically any non-shitty country in the world, most of which are in the West with a mostly secular g…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/12/23 02:44 PM
2	Do men actually want love? Are you serious, or is this just trolling? Are you actually, genuinely uncertain whether men want love? Do you think that men are Lord of the Rings orcs or something? So many women trivialize the degree to which men are demonized for simply existing. And here I am, stumbling across one of them asking whether men want love, as if men are literal demons. Insane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 03:09 PM
–	Why do men think they have low standards? I have read so many comments (presumably from women) in this post that genuinely don't seem to understand how lonely men are right now. Hell, it's the reason why con artists like Andrew Tate have a career. "Look at how flashy I am. Aren't you impressed? Give me money and listen to me, and I will teach you to be the kind of man who can obtain the things he wants in life, just like me." Women just can't seem to comprehend the feeling of knowing that truly nobody, besides maybe immediate family, gi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 11:42 AM