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| 1 | Is it possible to live a happy life without a girlfriend in the long term?Mate, I’m just slightly taller than you and doesn’t have much problem with women. You gonna work on your self confidence and personality more. Be fun, have good vibes and a good sense humour will bring u further in life. While it’s true that most women will prefer taller dudes but some are willing to accept short king if they liked you enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/25 01:42 AM |
| -1 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?Just bring some alcohol and make Sure it is enough for both of u to get high. You have ald done it with her so there is no point to please her again by bringing flowers or whatever bs. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | I need help breaking through the friend barrier with women.Basically you have talked to women too much that they see you as a best friend instead of a potential mate. I would suggest to keep some mystery and play some hot and cold towards the women you wanna attract. Drop some chessy lines or jokes and make sure your intent is obvious to them (im not here for friends, im here to bang) | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 05:57 AM |
| 1 | I think i was way to harshDon't give up on her yet and don't apologize. Instead, start being mysterious and distant. 5 to 10 mins reply is way too fast and soon you will run out of things to talk. You are giving a despo vibe to her and trust me, women can feel it. She's jus trying to play hard to get for now. And also, start approaching other girls and text with all of them. When you are at the party, talk to other girls and make sure she sees it. When a girl knows that you have other girls on hand and there is a pos… | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Texting adviceSimple. Text her lesser or reply her slower/lesser, ask her out for a drink (spice things up) so she can vent and you could bang | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Overweight hermit bro is even datingTHere is something called luck and it's random. I would give it 30% to a success in gaming. Continue working on yourself more and you would not be too bothered about anything else | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 08:11 AM |
| 1 | working full time as a club promoter and gaming all day every day for 10 years. zero success and nothing close to any achievements.one thing is u need to look fresher, so ditch that beard and get a new haircut Ten years gaming and no achievement, i believe u gonna do something about your game bro. It's not about approaching girls, it's about closing the deal. ATM we are not sure how you close the deal with women.. | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 08:56 AM |
| 3 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedTLDR sorry. But just to add on to TS, I'm asian and i'm kinda short as well. But I have no lack of girls. Work on your game and confidence level and it will definitely help Don't use your culture or race as an excuse for failing in game. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Are girls just as sexual as us but just hide it? Is there just a switch you gotta hit? How do i hit that switch?yes they are and they are probably more sexual. They are just good at hiding it due to social norms. The switch is to never talk about it like"hey wanna bang?" and just flirting with them like what u did. | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 08:04 AM |
| 4 | Two negative keystone habits that are destroying your gameThe porn thing i have to agree. It destroys your game after you fap. You don feel desire to go out hunting for girls after you are satisfied. I have done an experiment and realised i have better game when I didnt fap the day before. | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | WHY LOOKS MATTER SO MUCHYou gonna know it does matter. I have seen guys with no game at all but getting random girls thrown at them just because they are tall and good looking. Whereby on the other hand, short guys and average looking dude like me gonna work extra harder abit just to get more girls. Summarised: Tall and good looking guys with no game have girls easier and its more of quality vs quantity Average looking guys have more quantity and less quality girls but need to work extra hard for it. | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | If you have a sense of humour, that’s great, but you also gotta know when to shut the fuck up and limit your textingYes i concur. Limit your texting if not when you date her out, you have no more jokes/content to talk about. And of course once you get that feel of her, ask her out immediately. A girl's interest die off very fast and easily. | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 08:48 AM |
| 4 | Do you guys follow a routine when getting girls?No bro.. and don't. Every girl is different and picking up girls should be flexible and not going by the book. Being flexible makes you agile to all type of situation presented to you. | /r/seduction | 02/04/19 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Soon 30 years. First dates ever, don't know if she's interested or not.Just keep dating more girls and eventually u wont care which bitch didnt reply or whatsoever. Most importantly, don stop and keep doing it more. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 06:50 AM |
| 1 | OopsZinc and bolxrex and do have a point so take note. Don't ever try to explain or talk to her about it in future, just pretend nothing happened and move on. You don't wanna remind her of how creepy you were. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 02:06 AM |
| 1 | OopsI'm gonna highlight your mistakes here: You flipped her over to be on the top - don't do this, but instead dominate her by being on top of her. asking a stupid question about how much is it gonna take - your response to her should be, why whats so out of hand? or u could say shh just enjoy or you could say why not? it feels good. and don talk too much bs after that and just let ur hands do the thingy | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 07:13 AM |
| 1 | When does approaching ever workBecause you do not understand women that they like attention. They might be telling their friends how they got approached and bla bla but deep inside it makes them feel validated and they are damn right proud of it. Keyword here: Attention and getting validated | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 07:09 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?yup no matter friends or potential partner, it is always better to find out more about that person isnt it? | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Didn't kiss on the first "real" date, what should I do?When you hug her it's already the best time to kiss her. Next time just hug her closely, and your head close to hers and then slowly go in for the kill | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Male 26. No job, no car, no degree, still living with my parents. My entire life I have never had a date, hoping to get a job would change it. I feel unemployable and undateable.Let me tell you a real story of my life: Bumming around after my conscription (was doing this until i was 24), working in some part time job paying lousy money Had no plans to work hard in life or study degree or have a good career Bumped into this girl online and instantly fell in love with her She despised me for being poor and jobless, although she liked me but she was playing games with me and even had intimate action (didnt have sex) with some dude who drives a BMW later was devastated de… | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Good examples of flirting?I will give you some examples mate: INstead of hot or pretty, say hey you look kinda cute (let her guess what u meant) (in a club) hey where's your bf? (if she says no bf), want a new bf tonight? What's your type of guys? And whatever her reply is, reply her with "that sounds like me, wanna get together/married?" | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 03:36 AM |
| 2 | I need a funny witty Comeback for this1.I'm your future bf/husband For you to find out in the future (insert smirk) Someone you gonna married in the future | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 03:20 AM |
| 7 | What to do when you “fall in love” with a girl, but you know you can date more and maybe better women?40? cmon man. Dont follow a rule on this thing and instead just decide on yourself. I'm reaching 30 soon and I have had many girls/flings before and just like you, recently I met this girl and she's amazing and everything (no slutty business or gold digging). Facing a dilemma of sticking with her or continue fooling around, I chose the former. Reason being I have seen alot of trashy girls in my life as a PUA and the right girl is very very rare to come by. If you found someone amazing, don't l… | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | idk wtf is going on. talking to a girl the day after?Girls will only get attached to u and have connection after u bang her. And also, girls are fickle minded so don't bother too much. The best advice i would give u is to move on and seek other girls.Don't waste too much time and effort on one bitch | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 04:21 AM |
| 10 | Tinder Scam: Watch OutEncountered something similar back then where there was no Tinder or social app. Met this girl online and went on a while for a few weeks. one day she said she wanna video call but wanted both of us to be in undies. So we started the video call without showing my face and only my shorts (lied to her it was a boxer). She didn't believe and wasnt showing her face either, so she told me to show my face. So guess what i did? I showed my face but with shades on (lol). THen she got abit mad and said… | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 08:51 AM |
| 1 | What can I say to this? She just has Aeronautical engineering in her bioLet me help u with this with a witty line: Sure, check out my COCKpit. (insert smirk emoticon) | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 06:58 AM |
| 1 | The bar lifeShould have escalate it up when you met her at the bar (alcohol helps). I guess u missed the boat, so till next time when u bump into her again. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Finally got a second date (assuming she doesn't bail) how do I escalate physical activityBring her out for a drink date but don't order too much drink. Just enough to make her high and semi drunk. Then tell her that the drink is no more and if she wanna head to your house for more drink (make sure u stockpile all those booze bro). Then u should know what to do once she is in your house. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Advice on how to handle a crush at workJust be funny and witty. Example: Ask her whats her type of guy. whatever her reply is, comment something like oh that sounds like me.. are u referring to me (insert smirk smiley)? Or ask about her horoscope, then tell her that her horoscope and yours is a perfect match, so do u wanna get together/married? (use the smirk smiley again) Always end it off with "just joking" so that it won't creep her out and at the same time keeping it mysterious about your feelings to her to keep her guessing (gir… | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 02:36 AM |
| 2 | should I reply? and if so after how long?I would just suggest you to grab more girls on your hand so that you won't worry about her replying you late or not. Because you would be so busy with girls that you have no time. | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 07:20 AM |
| 1 | How to use Instagram to optimize pre selection.This is correct but take note it's a double edged sword. Girls will either find you high social value or thinks that you are a player. I have been doing this for years and I got a mixed of girls thinking i'm playing around and left and the girls who thinks im cool and like to hang out. It doesn't matter anyway because you won't be wasting time on the girls who left (auto filter out those who gonna waste your time) Either way, it's advertising yourself with you being the product. | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Don't know how to approach this girlGo forward and introduce yourself (not in a creepy way), then ask if she's always gymming alone. If yes, then take this chance to tell her u are alone too and maybe next time we can sync up and gym together (building rapport, then escalating it once u got comfortable) | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 04:49 AM |
| 5 | Advice on how to handle a crush at workTread carefully about workplace relationship my friend. Start by flirt text/talking to test her feelings for you. If she flirts back, good. If she don't, then its either she's not into you or she's bad at the game (most girls know how the games work). In the meanwhile, keep some girls on hands. Don't focus on just one girl. If you have social media like instagram or anything, add your crush too. Let her know you are hanging out with other girls as well (nothing flirty or sexual or it might cha… | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 04:01 AM |
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