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Our goal is to teach him to be his best self in general. What I meant by focusing on being a good person refers to this and maybe a reminder that we can’t change others- only ourselves. I only hope the example he has seen in our marriage will speak for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:10 PM
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That makes so much sense. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:38 PM
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Not at all- I know he is an amazing person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:38 PM
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I would tell him that the best way to find a partner is to first focus on being a good person. Treat others how you want to be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:29 PM
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Of course, I was married to one for 7 years. How much he earned was not a factor in the divorce at all. I gave him everything I couldn’t fit in an army duffel sack and left with my freedom and self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:21 PM
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They would spend more time to access personality and not looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:15 PM
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This was tough because I just don’t think like that. Hard to judge on appearance alone. Height has never been a factor but I suppose ideal would be 5’5 or above since that is my height. Personal preferences Huge muscles are a turn off Longer hair is a turn on 6 7 1 3 5 4 2 8 9
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:12 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:55 PM
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Well one is a crime, so…..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:54 PM
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I guess I would be considered average. It is hard to say objectively. I have a pretty face but rarely wear makeup. I am about 10 pounds overweight and dress for comfort. What I noticed was that once I was comfortable in my own skin I was most attractive to others. Early relationships (2) and my first marriage all started as friendships. I left Ex after 10 years (he got another woman pregnant) and all of a sudden found myself being approached by men. I dated for about 6 months but never wanted a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:49 PM
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ADHD surge of Serotonin from learning? Is this a thing, if so, it explains SO much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:28 PM
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That has not been my experience at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:10 PM
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I would observe and listen to find common interests and then initiate a conversation about those interests. Once conversation is initiated, I would shift focus to listening ad then ask clarifying questions to learn more while showing interest. I would try to find an event and or experience related to this interest and then ask them to join me. 20 years ago, I had been talking to other guys where the attraction was purely physical but it was J’s ability to listen and the way that he treated other…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:54 PM
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