| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 249 | A small one, but a red flag nonetheless | RED FLAG 🚨 | justnoanony | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:10 PM |
| 222 | The invisible labour of women and why you should pay attention to how he lives | LESSON LEARNED | justnoanony | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:35 PM |
| 154 | Don’t ever doubt your inner voice | REMINDER 👑 | justnoanony | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:18 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 60 | Woman fully supports boyfriend for two years, paying all his bills, including his schooling, all so he can cheat on her with a classmate in the car his girlfriend gave him. Wait until you hear what he says at the end.“Wahh wahh wahh not my fault wahh wahh you should be grateful you can support me cos I’ll be making lots of money like at LEAST $11 an hour and mom says I can stay in her basement as long as I like” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:29 PM |
| 13 | 🤔So much this. I’ve been involved in the feminist movement since the 80s (in varying degrees subject to personal commitments). Back then, we were so concerned about carving out spaces for women, we didn’t stop to ask whether we were including ALL women. We didn’t address the different needs of women of colour. We didn’t include them in the way we should have. I was very young then, so I didn’t see it or understand it. But then time passed and I kept seeing this same concern - and justifiable ange… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:29 PM |
| 34 | One of the three jewellery pieces I bought myself for Christmas. I am also selling the gifts my NV ex bought me so I can put the money towards something I actually like. I will put my comment in the thread belowThat looks so pretty on you. Love that style. I’m the same, I don’t wear much jewellery but what I do have is good quality. No way I’m wearing something that will turn my skin green to seem “grateful” for the thought, just as no man who likes a good watch is going to wear a cheap plastic gum ball one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:31 PM |
| 66 | Some advice I didn't appreciate until nowUgh being an angry cryer is the worst. They think you’re being sad and emotional over them when really it’s a “you’re a fucking douchebag” response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 12:30 PM |
| 17 | Where do they get any of this from?If any mods want to groom me into hating men, I like chocolate covered raisins and cheese straws. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 06:49 PM |
| 94 | My ex telling me I "have" to talk to him. I only reply if its about our son.He sounds like Joey from Friends using a thesaurus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:36 PM |
| 26 | Merry Ex-masAre you sure you’re even a woman? I mean, he was going to give you a RING! Isn’t that what you’ve been pining for all these years? Just kidding. Well done for moving on, suggest you tell him to sell the ring to fund his beachside banana stand or whatever it is he’s doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 47 | Why is financial independence frowned upon?Have you ever read The Women’s Room? One of its strongest messages is - don’t ever be financially dependant on a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 45 | This degenerate is mad at women who change their mind right before sex. Please watch his little "woke" explanation...For the avoidance of doubt to any woman reading this who has been in this position - if he ignored you or pressured you to carry on, and you felt you had to because he “couldn’t stop” - if his mother had suddenly walked into the room he would have leapt off you. He can ALWAYS stop, he chose not to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 08:26 PM |
| 77 | The comments from pickmes saying no one can judge this girl’s relationship hurt me. Never give the benefit of the doubt because men are opportunistic. Having no boundaries doesn’t mean you’re not insecure.Things like this are worded incorrectly. It’s not a case of “would you LET”, but rather “would you choose to be with someone who...”. When issues like this come up in a relationship, it’s not a case of allowing or disallowing something, but making your boundaries clear and letting them know that while they are free to make these choices, you have choices too. Phrasing it as “would you let” perpetuates the idea that to disagree is to be controlling, rather than being true to your boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:46 AM |
| 213 | Teenage girl groomed by her employer since she was 15. Boss wants a relationship now that she turned 18. Hopes his daughter grows up to look like her. This is very troubling.He doesn’t MIND the age gap? He doesn’t MIND? What an absolute saint of a man. I hope she makes note of that so she can tell her future children (where any daughter will obviously look like her) how much of a selfless man their father is. “Kids he could have gone after a woman his own age, but he took pity on me and sacrificed himself even though I was barely 18. Tiffany, don’t wear that short PJ set please, you know how it distracts him” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:57 PM |
| 31 | Single dads are not more attractiveI married quite late in life (40s), by which point I’d raised two children as a single parent and they were young adults. I was quite sure that I didn’t want to then take on another young family. You should have seen the absolute shock some of these men had that I wouldn’t consider dating them if they had young children - they absolutely saw it as a selling point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:28 AM |
| 18 | It does make sense when it involves sexually arousing other people with your body and genitals, which doesn't happen in ANY form of work. END OF STORY.Not following the logic. I don’t mind if my husband uses his body to put up some shelves for my friend. I’d rather he didn’t use it to fuck her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:24 PM |
| 10 | Scrotes be like:Men like this cannot conceive of a feminism that doesn’t centre them. This is what liberal feminism has done - made them think that we have to consider the male perspective. MEN can consider the male perspective. They can look out for themselves, they’ve always managed that just fine in the past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 07:09 PM |
| 348 | Stop over explaining yourself. LVM don’t care about your feelings, and nothing you can say will change that.If you’re tempted to do this - think about someone you know, or in your past. Someone who you dated that you can’t believe you ever had feelings for. Now imagine that that paragraph you’ve written is from that person to you. Does it make you feel all warm and fuzzy towards him, or does it make you cringe and feel embarrassed for him. Silence says everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 29 | The entitlement when men want to decide what to do to a pregnant woman’s body and unborn child when it doesn’t benefit themIs it “fair” that men have no say from the point of conception? I can understand why some think not. But that doesn’t change anything. It’s not “fair” that women carry a pregnancy. It’s not “fair” that a woman gives birth. It’s not “fair” that child rearing takes a hit to a woman’s earning potential. So for the sake of argument let’s agree that’s it’s not “fair” men are on the hook - they need to understand that and accept that their only way out of years of responsibility is either get a vasect… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:01 PM |
| 11 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!I got this too, and another similar one a few days ago. Dunno about “needing a man”, my husband might have something to say about that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:21 PM |
| 8 | One of the creepiest posts ever submitted on 2XC. My response in second. No, we don’t like it when a male stranger compliments our body in line at the grocery store. ffs.“She” needs to put down the Jane Austen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 08:21 PM |
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