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Lol no they don't, one struggles to find partners, other struggles to have their partners pull their weight- at least when men get partners, you never see them complaining about women not pulling their weight, because well, we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:46 PM
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It's assuming she's formed a dependency on the man for his money i.e. didn't go to college or otherwise get a job and work up, which is often the case in those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:53 PM
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If men are gonna play the "vet better" bullshit, stop moaning when women play the "just get good" bullshit because quite frankly it's the same argument- your personal failures in the dating market are your own. So stop bitching about how oh poor you can't manage to get a woman to let you go raw into her- that's your own personal struggle you aren't willing to take blame for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:49 PM
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woman gets screwed over by man- "haha dumb bitch, should've let me slip my penis in you instead of being with chad, vet better!" man gets screwed over by woman- "eveeul whores, all women are the same, women are are lying witches!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:41 PM
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I have never once heard of someone's lover or even wife gaining a professional network from their husband/lover or career opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:37 PM
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I didn't see any specific posts on your page about this, can you provide a link? I imagine it varies across time periods and cultures. I'm referring though to the stereotype that parents (fathers) will cheer on their son for "scoring" while they threaten their daughters boyfriends with violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:28 AM
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The problem is for the longest time daughters wore chastity belts while sons got to shoot out their underaged seed willy nilly. We should've put the chastity belt on sons too, not let daughters open wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:02 PM
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I wish it were women unable to care for dependents, so far however it seems to be men struggling in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:18 PM
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Not sure about sexbots, but aren't a lot of women also in favor of safe escort and prostitution? Look at onlyfans, it's the "safest" form of porn out there for a woman to participate in, yet men hate it by and large more than any women would.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:12 PM
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Lol, nothing more lovely than men throwing out the old cat lady stereotype at any women who dare question them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:08 PM
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Again, you are making the assumption that every man who abandons his kid is outwardly bad, which is a stupid assumption to make. I don't think any women is thinking to themselves that they WANT someone to abandon them and their kid. Well yea, men CHOOSE to refuse to use condoms, men CHOOSE to abandon their kid, why are women somehow responsible for mens morally bad choices? Whether or not you chalk it up to "well those are bad men!!!", its men making those stupid choices irregardless. I'm not su…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:06 PM
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No we don't, we have 0 legal recourse if we want to keep the fetus and you don't or vice versa. This is basic common sense. that isn't what I was arguing. Because men who work hard, has 'middle class values' (aka understands what 'delayed gratification is') is unlikely to abandon a child. It's not our fault that women are fucking retarded and pick the worst possible men. lol, lot of pretty goddamn strong assumptions here, I dont consider assumptions an argument. Also, it's weird that you put the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:48 PM
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Wait until you realize, shocker shocker, women figured out a long ass time ago men who are average or "ugly"/low income, whatever, aren't any more likely to treat you better than a "chad" or someone presumably out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:43 PM
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"My body, my choice". A man has 0 say in whether or not the fetus lives A man has all the choice in whether a fetus is conceived in the first place. Condoms are the cheapest, most accessible form of birth control around, with no side effects- oh except boohoo you can't feel anything, poor you. Abortions aren't accessible everywhere, and there's men who are on board with the pregnancy and then bail once the child is born. Why do you assume every man who abandons his child is outwardly a bad man? …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:37 PM
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You realize it takes a man too to create life right, why are you blaming women for being the parent that stays? Sperm donor single mothers are a very tiny minority, so don't bother with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:54 PM
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What people say isn't how they act, most of the guys on here say "just anybody who isn't fat!" then elsewhere describe a virgin bangmaid....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:53 PM
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I wouldn't date a guy who's had fwb or hookups, period. But if he was constantly bringing up wanting to date a type different from myself that would be my sign to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:52 AM
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I wonder what the percentage is for men who a woman being taller than them is a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:44 AM
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I've never heard any woman use that defense personally. Imo what makes it equal is women get a lot more "dolled up" for dates, with jewelry, makeup, etc., shit that costs money that men don't do. And before you say "well men don't care about that!" sit down, yes you do, I know damn well yall would likely walk out on a woman if she showed up bare faced unshaven yadda yadda. Oh yea, also, if you're asking someone out you're implying you're treating them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 11:07 PM
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That's just a strawman? My point is you shouldn't be relying on your partner to take birth control when your own personal birth control is so much easier to access and use.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:59 AM
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It's stupid to assume this given one, abortion isn't as readily available as it should be, two, many fathers promise to be good baby daddies diss out as soon as the child is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:02 AM
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Secondly, men also can’t readily confirm partners are on birth control, and even though it’s technically rape, women lie about being on birth control and consequences are usually non-existent Use condoms and pull out. Far more accessible and no side effects as compared to birth control, unless "boohoo I can't feel anything :(" counts as a side effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:59 AM
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Where did you get that I'm 35 lol? Generally when men give advice on how to be selectable they're describing a bangmaid, speaking from personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:56 AM
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That's your own mental bias, "prove my mental predisposition wrong because my brain is already wired men good women bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:28 AM
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"cock carousel" "the wall" "slut" you get the idea.... fds is tame compared to the lingo that's thrown around in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:25 AM
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Yea it is interesting to see, I would imagine there's similar correlations on this sub as well. Acting like normal, well rounded happy people browse things related to gender issues just seems in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:47 AM
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Mental illness =/ bad. Don't most RP users sob over poor lost mgtow mass shooters and how they're just mentally unwell? At least FDS has (yet) to produce a person like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:42 AM
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As a younger woman I find it an incredibly useful subreddit, it's a good way of protecting yourself from damage. I enjoy learning from older women because even admittedly still have some boy-crazy and it reminds me it aint worth shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:39 AM
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This isn't remotely surprising as an FDS user, I imagine MGTOW and rp subreddits are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:37 AM
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So if I make more money than my husband, it would be appropriate to dump him if he starts balding or gains weight? Lol, gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:19 PM
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Why do so many men like you have an obsession with fat women? Absolutely nobody cares if you aren't attracted to them, get a life outside of spewing out what you find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:16 PM
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How is this remotely equivalent? The equivalent would be more like a woman cutting back on 50% of her household/childcare duties. It's a bit terrifying this stupid of a take is getting upvoted, I feel like "fat women bad" is just a circlejerk at this point of the men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:11 PM
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The fact that men in these communities circlejerk around terms like "cock carousel" proves to me they're more obsessed with other men's penises than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:25 PM
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Society isn't in survival mode anymore, it's a lot more valuable to be active and alive to raise children than it is to simply conceive them. In those respects, both genders crash at around the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:18 PM
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I would argue women date "up" financially, men date "up" in terms of social skills and attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:58 AM
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Could just simply be evolutionary. Sexual drive goes way up after times of mass devastation, look at the baby boom after two world wars, only makes sex as a whole people aren't interested in babymaking when the population is well in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:04 AM
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I dont see it as bad by itself, but the people who are using that description only ever use it to say eveeul womenz are the sole reasons they can't get their penises wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:50 AM
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After being used How do men live with themselves quite literally referring to sex as "being used"? Thanks for lowering my libido more than it was already low.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:44 AM
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Prepare yourself OP, a storms a-coming, you will be shellshocked by just how little empathy some people can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:38 PM
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Nobody is telling men your opinions don't matter, they're telling men to stop speaking over women's experiences about our own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:36 PM
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If that was actually the case, it would be a good cause, yet the vast majority of the discourse among those communities is "women bad" which goes against taking focus off women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:06 PM
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I think you're missing the part where the entirety of male bitterness is based off sexlessness?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:01 PM
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Lol, literally what success has mgtow or trp brought anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:56 PM
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I dream of being an old hag and no longer appealing to men, most "old hags" I know aren't necessarily bitter that old limp dicked men aren't harassing them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:54 PM
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About 15.9% of people in the U.S. make six figures, it's considered upper middle class. If you live in a city and choose a STEM related career, there's a good chance you'll make six figures, cities have higher wages obviously because of higher cost of living. I'm not saying a majority of men have to live up to it, but the question is if I were a short man, I've done quite well with my education, in a short man's position I dont think I'd be bad off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:40 PM
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Worker fucks up he/she gets fired and suddenly the entire household is in financial jeopardies. Have you ever worked a job? You severely underestimate how inefficient some jobs can be and how much fucking around goes on during the work day. Ask the average office worker if he/she can just take a nap during the middle of the day for two hours cuz “ SAHM who are napping during the day are probably doing so because they're getting up in the middle of the night to take care of a kid SAHM complain al…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:29 AM
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You don't know if a dude you are talking to is intelligent? I can know they're not completely stupid. People with average iqs can use big words and sound "smart" though, and there's very intelligent people who sound simplistic. You can even be slightly stupid but also very charismatic. The article you showed is among adolescents and young adults. I think that has more to do with teens involved in school aren't having sex because they're preoccupied with other things, not that intelligence ruins …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:40 AM
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High school and nerds vs jocks isn't like in the movies, at least not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:34 AM
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It really does though. No, people prove intelligence by displaying intelligence Displaying intelligence is really vague. Although IQ tests exist scoring well on one will get you nowhere in life, because intelligence is complicated and can't really be properly measured. There are studies on this. Being intelligent decreases your sexual success. Being of average intelligence is better. Because intelligence isn't attractive. Can you link one of these studies? A quick google search, I saw the opposi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:51 PM
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Yea, generally people prove intelligence by being successful, hence mentioning right together. You can be really smart but if you just ramble on about theorems but never went to college that doesn't mean much. I wouldn't say intelligence ISN'T attractive. Someone who is well rounded on different subjects and interesting to talk to and has a decent career is a lot more attractive than someone who maybe just got lucky in the stock market and is rich from that imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:16 PM
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Lol, you're suggesting these two things conflict each other? Me saying body type matters doesn't discount that face matters a lot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:09 PM
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As a 5'5 woman, the most attractive man I've ever been with was a 5'5 man with an average face. I would definitely work out to get a nice frame. Imo huge muscles aren't ideal and I think most women would agree, but a toned body is nice. Intelligence is super attractive. Get educated, don't have to be a billionaire but set on a career path to make 6 figures. Having friends and being engaged is good. Just generally being social and going out is the best way you can look for a partner IRL. I've nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:39 PM
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I wish there was a rule here that "women BAD men GUD" comments and vice versa were banned
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:55 AM
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But the older successful men who get hot young girls are labeled pedos or creeps like Leonardo DiCaprio, because it makes women insecure and they don’t like that. Because it is creepy and pedophilic, wasn't one of leos trophy dolls someone he had a relationship with when she was underaged? Grooming 101. What's there to be insecure about, that I won't be "good enough" for a man who thinks women with developed brains are worthless? Yea, hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:52 AM
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Not like it's rare but the amount of people who think of relationships as disposable for the next best thing that comes along are very few compared to the ones who like commitment and comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:45 AM
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The difference is the younger woman isn't leaving a committed relationship that probably has other innocent victims involved (aka children). Yea you could argue the younger woman is rejecting younger men, the "victim" in that scenario, but age gap relationships are still the exception to the norm, and rejecting someone isn't nearly as traumatic as the divorce of a decades long relationship. Also cheating is wrong irregardless, I dont need to explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:37 AM
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Criminal courts aren't really relevant here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:36 AM
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There was a recent post debunking this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:28 AM
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All of which have horrendous side effects and generally require a prescription, versus an extremely cheap and free form of bc available at gas stations where the only side effect is "boohoo but i cant feel anything :("
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:18 AM
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Yea, its as simple as cumming out your baby batter into a random.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:13 AM
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Except a lot of fathers will play the part of being excited for the kid, then completely diss out once the child is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:53 AM
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Lol what kind of statement is this? It's impressive if a man doesn't abandon his child, that's how wildly low the bar is for fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:52 AM
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Isn't the whole "courts are biased for women in custody" a big fat myth? There was a recent post about it, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:49 AM
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Serious question, what are these things that make life harder for hetero men that you've seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:03 PM
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I've done that for most of my life (well, besides the chubby part) and got zero male attention, lol. I was probably even more boy obsessed during those times, just for whatever reason didn't connect the dots that I should probably try to up my social status/physical appearance game if I want anything to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:11 PM
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Dunno. If I were to go around bare faced, tomboyish sense of style, unshaved, a bit on the overweight side, I think I'd probably have a hard time. There definitely are ugly women who are able to get options, but most these women I see are really upping their feminine side with lots of makeup, revealing clothes, etc. etc. I think the act of trying to be more attractive is a lot of looking for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:05 PM
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I dont post my face or actively seek attention much. The times I've had, I've gotten compliments from guys, also had ones stop talking to me (ironically, its usually the ugly guys who do that lol). Also had one compliment me then block me shortly after? Dunno. Irl, I was invisible to guys for most of my life. Wasn't and still have never been catcalled, guys basically never talked to me, yadda yadda didn't bother me much, I dont think about my appearance often. Once I reached a point in my life t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:33 PM
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looking it up, they're not that old of studies. There's ones varying from 2009 to 2015. I couldn't find anything on what you're including from a brief google search.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:03 PM
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Depends why and the reason for it. If it's something out of his control, health issues etc., I dont mind being the breadwinner. I wouldn't mind being the sole financial provider anyways, given they carry out the roles at home. If they have a shitty attitude or anything though, say they lost a job and are just completely unwilling to get back on their feet, that's his own battle to face, I would leave. I would also like to add men are MUCH less supportive of their wives, and are a lot more likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:04 PM
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Ugly men arent any kinder than attractive men on average, so if you're wanting a partner you might as well take the superficial bonuses. Many men hold this logic as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:24 AM
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Most- 2 Least- 0 Coming from a woman. Experience doesn't matter, a genuine desire that your partner enjoys themself does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:59 PM
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If you want MORE dates, looksmaxxing is the way to go. Also, speaking from personal experience, putting more effort into my looks I actually saw a more dramatic change in that other women treated me better than men did. I got more male attention, but outside of that men didn't treat me much differently. If you want a GOOD relationship though, becoming more self assured, confident, and "whole" as a person is the way to go. This can include putting effort into your looks for confidence but its one…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:17 AM
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No. If I was given an odd opportunity to be with a wealthy man in extremely poor health, maybe. Call that shallow or what have you but who wouldn't. But I'm not at all eyeing old geezers as sexual or romantic partners, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:52 AM
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He doesn't need to address it because it isn't an argument. It is a stupid deflection. You say "men aren't killed because of their sex", he gives you information on how they actually are and your response is to say "muh, what about China". This is such a non-related point that it deserves no response whatsoever. Its not a "deflection", he told me to give one example of femicide, I told him something right in front of everyone's face. It's completely relevant when one of the most powerful countri…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:44 AM
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Generally what I hear from older women is the premise that when you're young you assume that the nerdier skinny guys will make up in personality and be nicer, treat you better, etc. But they soon discover guys as such aren't any nicer and generally just as (if not more) shitty, so if you're choosing amongst a bunch of people with an equal chance of treating you like shit, might as well have a partner with more superficial values. Not my own thoughts, I'm still pretty young myself and have yet to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:34 AM
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You didn't even address the China situation. That's classic femicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:15 AM
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The country of China and their one child policy. General trends throughout history that baby girls are useless, as they don't carry on the family name, so the phenomenon in China is just an extreme of that. Generally when women are kept alive in terms of a genocide or war it's to be raped, as that's the single value women have over a man throughout history. Not much of a one-up if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:32 AM
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"haha feminism BAD, women bad men good"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:11 PM
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I've genuinely never seen this happen? I've only ever seen women insult men for "male" hobbies if its something weirdly specific, say the old "men who have big trucks are compensating for something", and I've seen men use that cliche too. I've also seen women get on men hooked on video games, but only in the context of a relationship. There is the neckbeard trope but yet again, other men push that cliche too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:06 PM
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Those people didn't hate men, otherwise they would only be killing men, they hated people either generally or for racial reasons or otherwise. If you want to talk about femicide though, thats a very real phenomenon. But men don't get killed on the basis of sex alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:02 PM
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At least from what I've seen, men who hate men don't only hate men, I think they hate people in general. And obviously men who exclusively hate women exist. Never seen a man who exclusively hates men. Meanwhile, for women, I think a women who hates people in general is rare. But there are women who hate exclusively women (extreme side of pickmes) and women who hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:02 AM
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I think the amount of men and women without major problems is about the same, I don't have any evidence to believe otherwise. Couldnt have worded it any better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:27 PM
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I say it all the damn time, only can expect of your partner what you expect of yourself, lot of the times people don't like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:25 PM
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Well yea, countless men are already touting stuff off like this for years, only a matter of time before you see women saying so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:23 PM
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Uh no? In both the cases I presented its definitely legal, just majorly frowned upon hence why they're job violations. Nobody is going around forbidding people from those relationships, but it definitely deserves to be frowned upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:50 PM
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Doctors shouldn't accept advances from patients, bosses shouldn't accept advances from employees, both of those things are major job violations despite being "consenting adults". It's about power dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:47 PM
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I dont doubt that its underreported, but anyone who parades around shit like that on a regular basis is just the type to dismiss statistics whenever it suits them. Something I do see from time to time that I consider sexual harassment is women who "flirt" with men by touching them, it's creepy to touch people unprompted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:24 PM
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Doesn't matter if the younger one pursued the older. Not even considering gender, older person shouldn't accept their advances. I've been pursued by younger men, I felt extremely gross when it's happened even though I wasn't the the one initiating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:17 PM
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Well yea I agree, but by extension men shouldnt be having hookups either, assuming hetero sex. And before I get bombarded with 80/20 bullshit, screw off, I mean THOSE men shouldn't be engaging in hookups either. Because a hookup by definition requires 2 people at least. All that said, this post would be the same as telling a bunch of heroine addicts "just don't, its bad for you".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:41 PM
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They wouldn't necessarily know more about dating though, if it were just hookups? This isn't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:31 PM
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Remind me to never give men blowiobs because "its not our fault men get pleasure from what isn't really sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:23 AM
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Couldn't have said it better myself. I tend to think the people on here don't even want relationships (I say this because I myself am a bitter ol chap not really looking), nobody who wants an opposite sex partner goes out of their way to find everything wrong pertaining to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:12 AM
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Yea you're right, gonna delete
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:29 AM
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If you think 49% of the population is neurotic and nonstimulating, why not ask yourself if maybe you're the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:12 AM
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Misandry is as bad as misoginy. But fascists don't accept that fact, yes. Can you find any stats or anything for any of your claims? About all this violence women perpetuate against men? Your inability to come back with anything tangible, worthwhile, is starting to show. I'll just file your reply under typical delusional grandiose narcissist misandry. Do you agree with my course of action? I have to say this so many times on this sub because the male ego is astounding- fluffing your feathers and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:29 AM
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Your 1st point is fair. 2nd point gets iffy towards the end with the general "women evil, no empathy" but whatever, its what I expect at this point. In other words, you wouldn't lift a finger for men, but don't bitch when men returns the favor. Oddly enough, I don't WANT men to lift fingers for me, I don't even necessarily expect empathy from them. I want men to stop abusing women as a whole so I wouldnt NEED their empathy or protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:21 AM
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Yes, indeed, "Uh oh, your misandry!". You seem to have internalized it. Might be a coping mechanism for that pesky idea about standards, accountability and responsibility. Do you have any ability to respond to my speculation? Meh, lets talk about misandry. Despite mgtow treating it as like a new nazi ism or some shit, at the end of the day even the most extreme of misandrist arent as dangerous as your typical misogynist. You don't see women misandrists raping men, shooting up buildings, or whate…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:15 AM
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Visit your doctor. Tell him you imagine what other people do when they're typing, just by imagining them as you read comments online. Surely there's some lithium-based pill the doc has for you. lol So did I. Men are all rapists and pedos, they just want to abuse women, the world would be better off without them. If we're gonna play a game of anything out of my mouth is facts, I guess I can play too and just spew utter bs right? Your misandry is starting to show, dear. Contain yourself. Would you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:32 PM
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I have literally not once seen a man tell another man "vet better" when he talks about having shitty partners. Of course if you tell a guy its his fault he's paying out the ass for of he's a poor goddamn victim, talk about victim mentality among men. If men wanna bitch and moan about sexlessness, just try harder, dont expect any empathy on my behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:25 PM
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I could feel the spit coming out of your mouth with "females". OP laid out a bunch of well meaning facts here. Your "argument" back? Females eveeul, women bad, men gud! If your mind is clearly already made up about women, why even be on this sub, for the love of god can you men who hate women put your money where your mouth is and screw off and bang your homies or some shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:17 PM
9

Why even be on this sub then? Go get an escort if all you think women offer is sexual pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:46 PM
9

If you ask me the world needs a lot more warm and kind people given the state of affairs than we need more "tall and strong".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:44 PM
1

So, you want to invest in a relationship, but if women accept these investments they're entitled. Good luck out there buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:11 PM
0

Then don't give them your money and belongings? If you have massive generalizations about women like they're all entitled, even ones who earn their way to make good money, kind of says more about you than about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:08 PM
0

What guarantee do I have that they're not with me just for my money? Date someone who has similar income to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:43 PM
4

Putting effort into your appearance is a lot more influential than natural attractiveness. If somebody knows how to work their features I think being naturally ugly becomes irrelevant. Most college dudes I know - all fit, all play football or valleyball, and still most have fat chicks who only eat ice cream and watch Netflix all day. Anecdotal, who cares. Men build bridges, fix cars and protect the country instead of that, if they stopped doing this and started acting like women, we would have b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:42 PM
1

I wouldn't say 100%. But like 80%, yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:11 AM
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God, can you people shut up about the wall? Nothing screams male ego more than complaining about how women look over a potbelly stomach, receding hairline, nose and ear hairs, and a limp penis with 2 sperms per smelly mucus like load. Wanna know fertility trends? Men's sperm count has decreased drastically in recent decades. Theyre getting ed in their twenties, as you mentioned. Meanwhile, women are having children later and later. Who's really becoming irrelevant here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:03 AM
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not really asking you to date women with high n counts just more so asking you give basic respect to women with high n counts if you actively benefit from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:21 AM
1

There's probably like a 99% chance you and the other person saying eww jerk off to porn on a regular basis lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:46 AM
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dammit, fell for a bot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:01 AM
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Im not about to argue the saying "cant compare apples to oranges", thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:00 AM
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Nobody here (except you) said that self-esteem is the ONLY thing needed to make adult decisions. Absolutely what part of my comment even suggests this? My point is somehow he got the idea that self esteem is the equivalent to being feeble and unable to make your own decisions. It's comparing apples to oranges. And, uh, no, poor self esteem shouldnt have anything to do with rights, otherwise I guess every insecure bloke (aka including men) shouldnt have rights either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:59 AM
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The fact that the men here are reaching the conclusion of "well maybe women shouldnt have rights then" from this post makes me want to go colonize an abandoned island far away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:19 AM
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Submissive women are the best, yet they seem to be coming in shorter and shorter supply year after year. I can't imagine how much worse society will get once "strong women" become the norm. Let me go puke in a trashcan real quick. I guess my solace is strong women are in fact becoming the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:05 AM
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If women are as feeble, incapable to make their own decisions, and have no agency over their lives, None of these things are equal to self esteem. Children can have great self esteem, but the above would still apply to them. Loners with poor self esteem wouldn't necessarily apply to the above on the opposite end. Classic Strawman. Eta, also wtf, why is your response to women struggle with confidence immediately "well maybe women shouldnt have rights"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:00 AM
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Isn't self esteem quite literally just self perception? Like you can be the shittiest person alive and have great self esteem, self reporting is the best possible way to measure self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:50 AM
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Hmmm... someone a part of mgtow telling me ideologies that hate women are "magnitudes lesser" than what I describe.... would be like an alcoholic telling you drunk driving isn't as a big an issue lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:45 AM
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Wait, you mean inceldom and rape and domestic violence are hallucinations? Praise be to God, should I see a doc for medicine for these hallucinations?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:38 AM
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What the hell are you even referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:36 AM
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Barely any difference as long as theyre not an extreme, basketball player or height I was in middle school is what I consider the extremes I'm 5'5. 5'4 on the short end, 6'4 on the tall end. I still don't think I'd reject a guy for being out the limit so it's not a hard cutoff but I'm not approaching guys 5 ft tall either. 5'7-5'10ish 5'5 6'3 5'5 guy I was most physically attracted to, personality wise too I honestly don't really think about height much given I do prefer guys to at least be my h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:12 AM
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If people stormed medical schools and assaulted the admissions officers and there was entire ideologies dedicated to hating on med schools for not accepting students then phrases like you're not entitled to med school would be swung around. But there are ideologies dedicated to hating women, women do get assaulted and raped for rejecting mens advances to sex. That's why that phrase is prevalent. Neither should need to be said because it's human decency but human decency is hard to come by I gues…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:05 AM
1

That age decision tree gave me a good chuckle, its pretty spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:22 AM
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Haven't men been upset about the same thing though? It doesn't happen as often simply because women don't approach men as much, but I've seen guys be disgusted that overweight or otherwise unattractive women showed interest in them. Yea it fucking sucks and people suck but shallowness isn't exclusive to either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:45 AM
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Huh I actually never thought about this. It's a good fresh perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:41 AM
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I havent really noticed any personal stories on this sub specifically but I haven't been here long. Relationship advice subs though? It's like there isn't a single decent person on Earth. I do think most people are a bit crazy though when you get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:50 PM
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Oh yea, of course. I will say it isn't just this sub I've seen it on reddit and other social media in general. I have yet to leave the dating scene or anything altogether, just something I've recognized as a safe life plan, but I have become a lot more cautious in my interactions. Also have become completely uncaring about wanting male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:45 PM
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Ugh you edited your comment. Did you not see the comment you replied to? Guy says why are you surprised guys want intimacy, you say yadda yadda women bad and can't possibly understand utterly complex men, but the thing is who would draw the assumption men are mostly upset about intimacy when the top complaints you see here (by men) are sexlessness?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:41 PM
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I'm not a good look for you? Uh oh. What an insult, I definitely care about what you think about me :(. No comment on the sexlessness thing huh? I know those echochamber walls are pretty hard to crush, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:37 PM
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Oh no, aldabruzzo says I haven't made a valid argument! Guess he's right, I'll go sulk now, I'm just a silly women after all, unlike the rational sex. Did you miss the first sentence of my reply? Some of the top recent posts are about male sexlessness. Not male lack of intimacy-ness, sexlessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:34 PM
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You don't just do it too, you do it more so than women lol. My dearest apologies for using the same argumentative strategies men jerk themselves off to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:23 PM
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Honestly my opinions of men have only worsened from this sub. I generally respect the men in my life but the shit men on here say about women, in particular the massive generalizations that get circlejerked back and forth and then heavily upvoted, really makes me shy away from the opposite sex, I'm convinced the majority of men simply don't see women as people. Women can suck too so maybe I'll just become a nun and adopt children to fulfill my interpersonal needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:20 PM
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The top posts on here complain about sexlessness, not lack of relationships. And it goes both ways, men bitch and moan because they don't have women thirsting for them the way women have men doing so, and yea for a man that would be great, but we don't necessarily want that which y'all can't understand. Generalizations of course but the massive generalizations I've seen about women on here are astounding, in a recent heavily upvoted post the guy said everything that comes out a women's mouth is …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:16 PM
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I started doing a lot better in the dating world when I had a good look at myself and realized I wouldn't find a loner unbothered by their appearance attractive, I should lower my standards or work on myself and did the latter. Surprise surprise, no longer bitter about my romantic luck and oddly enough stopped caring because finding new hobbies and friends helped fill the hole a partner would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:06 AM
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You're bitching about how women in their 20s make more than their male counterparts, now you're talking about an 80/20 split of bills. Which is it you choose to apply your agenda to, whatever you can say to justify le evil womenz narrative right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:48 PM
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Have you ever had to clean up after someone else? If you don't know how infuriating that is you were probably the one getting coddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:17 AM
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Also, can you please address the massive generalizations you're making in your post? Everything that comes out of a womens mouth is a falsehood? If I made generalizations so blatantly up my ass like that about men I'd get death threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:10 AM
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I think most women these days don't like the idea of their partner essentially being their employer then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:08 AM
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Meh, the average is still greater for women. I think the unpaid hours indicate a real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:59 AM
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The numbers you should be looking at are unpaid work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:52 AM
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Your entire post is just anecdotal and an opinion to refute an entirely true phenomenon that's been actually studied and proven. Facts don't care about your feelings. https://stats.oecd.org/index.aspx?queryid=54757
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:18 AM
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Fair enough. I'm not trying to attack you in particular btw, but you tend to see fat women and single moms brought up a LOT in mgtow type groups and this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:08 PM
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Wtf is it with redpillers and fat women/single mothers? Smokers is new but I swear you let those two groups live in your head rent free. And there's definitely far worse of categories of women who exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:39 PM
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Why are misandrists always compared to misogynists? Yea, if the world were sane, they would be two sides of the same coin. But end of the day people on FDS or feminism has yet to lead to physical violence against men, but theres plenty and plenty of that among misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:44 PM
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Uhhh no. It could be the hottest guy on earth but I wouldn't want to sleep with him if I don't know him for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:35 AM
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I feel like this is exactly what men think yet somehow you pushed that thinking onto women and are being salty about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:37 AM
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The more I learn about how men think, the happier I am to not fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:34 AM
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Meh, a lot of men nowadays want to split bills 50/50 and bitch and moan about how they have to do all the approaching women, yet show no intention in wanting to step up to feminine roles such as housework, childcare, and hygiene. But yes, if you spend all your time on a male dominated site like reddit then you'll always assume its women who are the only problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:21 PM
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I'm saying you should prefer what you offer, in terms that you offer equally and are in firm agreement of that. I don't like the idea of gender roles but if you happen to prefer someone meet that standard you should ask yourself if you're offering the same in those terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:16 PM
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did you bother reading the rest of my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:11 PM
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Are people only permitted to prefer that which they offer? How about women who prefer wealthier men? Yes. I think people should go by those ethics. If it's something you don't meet the standard of, there should be a consensual agreement of sorts of what each person offers. If that happens to be typical gender roles of housemaker and breadwinner so be it, as long as they're in agreement and don't bitch that their role is somehow more valuable or what have you. You don't have to commit to trauma. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:07 PM
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It SHOULD be common sense but judge or not judge someone for their past, don't be a hypocrite or bigot about it. I don't like sleeping around. I don't want a used up man either. But I'm also not going around shaming men who sleep around, I just don't want anything to do with them romantically or sexually. In a world of supposed adults why are we even talking about this anymore? ETA- besides being a hypocrite I also think it's massively immoral if you judge someone for their sexual past if they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:52 PM
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If a women isn't interested in you she probably won't show up for a date, period. It'll make a women who's interested in you even more interested though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:13 PM
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If the men on this sub spent half the time they do speculating about women like we're a different species to instead work on themselves and just empathize with women maybe they'd have better luck in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:07 PM
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Male privilege is thinking easy mode life is being able to obtain sex easier than men because men are sluttier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:59 PM
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So men like varieties of women that are fuckable to them? How is that any more meaningful?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:57 PM
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What looks fertile tho has varied. For a long time being plump and pale was desirable. Now the trends are tan and thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:09 PM
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I dont think that biological though. Being attracted to taller more muscular men, sure. But I'm pretty sure the financial shit is socialized and not biological. Even then I think vast majority of physical attraction is socialized.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:23 PM
2

Aren't monks some of the most peaceful people on the planet? And obvious celibates. Sexlessness isn't a big deal if society doesn't make it a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:52 PM
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Abolishing gender roles for whatever reason seems like a hated opinion on this sub. I can be feminine but if I'm good at bringing home the bank why would I throw those skills away for a man who would be probably mediocre at such things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:49 PM
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How does not being a virgin make you a golddigger? Is a man not fulfilling his trad role if he's terrible at sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:44 PM
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This is why I abandoned liberal feminism. Promiscuity should be morally neutral and without double standards, but it grinds my gears its been rebranded as empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:48 AM
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Men don't necessarily get richer or more interesting with age though. As a young woman, I can tell who's probably going to make bank when they're older and who won't. Guys who are interesting at 30 were generally interesting at 22 too, guys uninteresting at 22 probably won't get much more interesting when they're 30. I'm not sure how much experience really means-IMO having too many relationships is bad, none at all is also bad, there's a sweet spot of having maybe 2 or 3 before settling down. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:30 PM
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The people who have the most contempt for masculine roles are men. Most women aren't single mothers by choice, they're abandoned. If men think their fathers roles are valuable they'd actually step up and be fathers. Clearly they don't think their roles are valuable because they don't do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:48 PM
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Women aren't complaining about it to nearly the extent men are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:09 PM
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Yup. I'm already planning on it. Ideally I will get married and travel the world with someone n shit, but if I suit myself up for marriage and it doesn't work out I'm a lot more fucked than if I work on myself and end up getting married anyway. I'm not bitter or anything about it. I don't have the sex drive of a man, thank God, so I'm not going to get violent or anything from lack of sex. I've been alone most my life, I'm pretty happy with it, I'll be just fine being alone in the future. As for …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:08 PM
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Besides blatant misogyny, I don't like analogy of a lock. I don't want a man who thinks of having sex with a woman as a prize to be won, that he somehow "unlocked" me through some special means. I want sex to be an intimate moment shared with someone else, not a man domineering me for his prize. The amount of men who see sex the same way I do seems shockingly low however.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:50 PM
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All women hate this rhetoric. I've never slept around, I wouldn't want a man who's slept around either, but I still don't like this attitude because it's straight up misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:46 PM
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meh, for now things like surrogacy and sperm banks are options. Look at how much cheaper and accessible sperm banks are. Do you really think women are the ones whose anatomy would be replaced?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:21 PM
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where's your mountains of evidence then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:14 PM
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lol some people would just rather live in a delusion if it keeps their "victim" status I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:10 PM
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FDS promotes celibacy as fwbs or hookups or whathaveyou generally benefits men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:06 PM
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As a woman I can say that's the most accurate depiction of how we view sex I've ever seen from a guy. Of course, people vary, some women can simply enjoy the physical aspect of it. I'm definitely not one of those women. Bit of a ramble here, but I took essentially a college sex ed course not too long ago. Learned about how a medicine that was deemed to be essentially a female viagra was introduced, but had fucked mental side effects and thus never released. While we all know how male viagra work…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:00 AM
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I find both preferences very weird, but being obsessed with someone's sexual history is a bit more complex than the height thing. Thousands of years of history behind that and Madonna-whore complex abound. I know this sub doesn't like this opinion but I think the world would be a lot happier if we simply expect out of partners what we expect of ourselves, and do away with women should be men should be bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:25 AM
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My life has been objectively shit but I've actually been in a pretty good place for a few years. I've begun to love life a lot. Even though I haven't had the best of luck with men I haven't necessarily had personal terrible experiences with men either (besides online) so I'm not nearly as angry as I come off on this sub. Once my life is "normal" again post covid and I'm too preoccupied with life to be online a lot I'll prob head the hell out of this hateful side of the internet lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:52 AM
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Literally how? Because the circlejerk of men on reddit say so all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:41 AM
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I'm not saying that women only date men with good hygiene. But if you have good hygiene, yes, that will greatly increase chances with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:55 PM
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Me telling you hygiene is attractive isn't the same as telling you hygiene will make you a model. Go onto any relationship advice forum and there are hundreds of posts every week of women baffled by their boyfriend's lack of hygiene/unable to clean up after themselves. Women are impressed if you do even 20% of the hygiene she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:49 PM
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Sometimes when I read these comments I swear they're living in an alternate reality or something, but I guess bitterness does that to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:44 PM
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How am I blaming men for anything? Do you need a mommy to remind you of basic hygiene?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:37 PM
0

Your average woman will probably wear at least light makeup, think out their outfits for different events, do skin care, shower, use hair treatments and occasionally style, shave our entire bodies head to toe, wear some jewelry, probably owns some nail polish and fragrances, and sometimes but not always consciously eat. I don't think there's a big discrepancy in how many men vs women work out but I'm not sure. Your average man doesn't even wash his hands after shitting. You're spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:43 PM
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SAHW is an exception, and pretty rare to my knowledge, but SAHM IS work. And quite frankly, many households these days the mom works a job anyways yet still does the majority of the work at home. Who's really getting the short end of the stick here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:03 PM
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Do you know why incest (besides inbreeding) is considered wrong? Why a doctor can't screw a patient, even if they're the same age? Or a manager with an employee? It's because of power dynamic. Even if they're both intelligent developed adults, bringing sex/relationships to a power dynamic is generally consider wrong. Also, there's a general misogyny/predatory to older men exclusively wanting younger women. The idea that women hit a "wall" yet their balding heads and ed are somehow the epitome of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:38 PM
0

It's the opposite of selfish reasons? Many were mistreated by older men when they were young, older women warn younger women of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:28 PM
1

Ugh yes. Shoulders and backs are so weirdly attractive for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:29 AM
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Yeah can seriously all women start doing this. Why don't all women fucking do this already? Are women fucking mentally retarded? Mentally ill? Both? Why do men automatically expect sex when they're alone with a woman? Are they fucking mentally retarded? Mentally ill? Both?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:23 AM
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Um, I think you're the only one who drew the conclusion that I'm physically attracted to my little brother. Those are two seperate comments. I am attracted to the male form. Certain men in my life also make me happy- like my little brother or guy friends. Doesn't mean I'm thinking about their bodies, ew. Why you decided to tie my two points together I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:05 PM
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What specifically though are they being taken advantage of? In the case of like, onlyfans, its a service where you pay a fee, women will be sexual on cam for you and maybe take requests to do specific sexual acts on camera. Maybe theres other shit too, I dont know. But it's pretty well expected that thats all the service is- if you think you're going to get a relationship or sex out of that, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:07 AM
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How are they being exploited? They pay money, they get a product. That's not exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:43 AM
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If thirst is simply loneliness and desperation, why are they seeking help from women they want to bang instead of, I don't know, friends? Therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:30 AM
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Yea it's all just very strange. A lot of the girls I've seen who push "ew men" also oddly tend to very much enjoy hookups/promiscuity, something I don't, so I think it's more of a circlejerk to feel cool more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:46 AM
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I'm not saying this to be shallow but I very much physically like the way men look. I'm (older) gen z and there's a weird trend of girls going "ew men and the way their balls hang and girls are prettier", etc. etc. Like I just physically enjoy their broad shoulders and more raunchy things, dad bods skinny or muscular I appreciate it all. I also feel happy thinking about my little brother or guy friends, just people who make me smile and/or make me feel confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:19 AM
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I tend to like hairy guys myself because then they can't talk shit lol. I also just find it attractive anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:46 PM
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I've been alone most of my life and think I'll be pretty okay if I do end up alone, but I still do want a partner. Its just that somehow as adults we forget that we're whole people and by no means a missing half, having a partner is a bonus more than a necessity these days. Also, at least for me, some of my "standards" have to do with a man accepting ME. I hate shaving and my skin can't tolerate it, I'd literally rather just be alone than be with a man who expects me to be hairless head to toe. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:31 AM
2

If there was a reverse man bangmaid (bangbutler?) equivalent of that, I would be on board.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:22 AM
2

My surprise? None.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:17 AM
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Lol, yup. I wonder how often it's actually happened that they manage to get a woman somewhere even close to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:33 AM
2

Well, yea. But it's pretty insulting to suggest to a random woman (and making the assumption of women in general) that we're all getting "used up" by chad or tyrone when we express our dating standards. Reap what you sow type business.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:46 AM
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There was a post on here recently how men make generalizations because that's their logical way of figuring things out. I'm only doing what a man does bro, generalizing from what I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:04 AM
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Welcome to being massively generalized, as a woman I'm pretty used to that here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:50 AM
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There's such a trend on reddit and this sub of you men telling me what I think. I don't even think about my value in the SM period, I absolutely do not care about what most men would think of me, I think about I would best go about getting the kind of man I would value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:49 AM
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What is it with y'alls obsession with fat/thin women. At least some of you have to be massivr hypocrites because obesity rates arent variable between sex, not that I know of.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:42 AM
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The type of person who uses "chad" and "tyrone" is the same type of person to whine about how women won't suck their cock. If you aren't getting women maybe you just aren't the catch you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:35 AM
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Why do men assume you know women better than actual fucking women? Yea, okay, fine, while we're at it all men want tiny waisted big breasted virgin blonde woman who also happen to love sex, and will bow down to their every demand and do 100% of the childcare and cleaning while serving them while they play video games. Whats that, your standards are much different than that? Oh, well we all know that what men say they want and what they actually want are very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:30 AM
1

Plenty of men do the exact same thing. Yknow, the "nOt aLl mEn" shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:28 PM
2

If your experiences in the past with men are that they don't care about getting you off, why would you continue sleeping with them when silicone does a better job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:15 PM
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I mean, big question for you, and quite frankly for everyone, why is it always asked of women to choose between career or family when men don't have to worry about that choice? I'm 20F. I'd like to have a husband and biological children, but if I don't find a good partner I'd rather adopt kids than have an additional grown child to take care of. I'm not too worried about my fertility wearing out. My mother had children as late as 44, aunt as late as 47. Will give me plenty of time to travel and …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:06 AM
2

Lol wut? What does pink collar jobs have to do anything? And no, I assure you wives aren't taking over childcare because they think their own husbands are gonna prey on their children lmao. Men just don't do equal effort in taking care of their children because god knows why, I'm not a deadbeat father, but probably because fatherhood expectations are below the floor. A guy is considered a "good dad" if he doesn't leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:48 AM
2

But its literally the opposite. Women are entering men's spaces, but still dominate childcare roles. Men have yet to prove themselves in the family sector.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:27 AM
3

Why is he only saying this of women though? Shouldn't the same apply to men, that they should love family more than their job?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:21 AM
2

yea I agree, even perfect parents will produce imperfect children- can't control how other kids or other adults will treat your children, or society in general. But a whooooole lotta people's issues I've seen can be traced back to their parents. It's baffling what people get away with telling their own children that no one would ever get away with outside of a family setting. I think there's a saying that often your parents are your first bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:52 AM
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Thanks for your input AidsVictim, apparently having passion now is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:54 PM
2

I think most of the youth depression has to do mostly with diagnosis that other countries aren't doing. Places in Asia are starting to beat us education/financial wise but look at their suicide rates. Yea, in ye olden days where we left babies alone to "develop critical thinking" they often died before age 2. Also, locking up children and depriving them of human touch is a surefire way to create a tiny sociopath- it's literally proven they need human touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:15 PM
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A lot of the bitching on this sub is about how unreasonable it is that women expect men to make good money, when they presumably aren't doing the same themselves. Apparently we "use" men for meals. I agree to an extent about the hypocrisy of that which is why I intend to build a career. But now apparently that isn't what we're supposed to do either?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:10 PM
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what do you mean by better results that the rest of the world is doing? last I checked, U.S. is still one of the most successful countries in the world. Not like we're perfect, but we definitely aren't failing either. Also, yea, if you can't raise a child well you shouldn't have children. We don't need to have children out of necessity to work the farm anymore. Outside the U.S. there's still many people who live in survival mode in which case it's more understandable (or lack of sex ed/birth con…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:04 PM
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So, when a woman wants a career man when she doesn't have one herself, she's a gold digging shallow whore. But when a woman builds a career because that's what they too desire in a man, she's making the wrong assumption because men want pleasantness and submissiveness instead. What exactly are we supposed to be doing here then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:52 PM
2

yea, again, please don't ever procreate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:46 PM
2

Please don't ever have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:39 PM
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Most anyone can raise a child. But people who actually raise children well are extremely rare. Otherwise we wouldn't have so many fucked up adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:39 PM
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Maybe it's cheesy advice but I wouldn't overthink it. As long as you're able to find SOMEONE who works who cares. Sometimes the happiest damn couples are two ugly motherfuckers who have no real valuable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:12 PM
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I dont get what your point is. You're saying a woman's career is less impressive than a man's even if she's doing the exact same thing.... just because she's a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:08 PM
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Dunno, I'm not a less physically developed boy. But I can say something similar yet opposite exists for early developed girls. Girls as young as 10 can get catcalled nowadays, some have boobs develop early and are tormented by males about it- I say male because it's both young boys and grown men giving them harassment. A lot of these girls I knew personally were extremely modest throughout pubescence to try to mitigate the harassment. Then as they entered high school/late teens when it's praised…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:54 AM
2

Intelligent enough that he's interesting to talk to. It's less intelligence and more so nerdiness, but I love talking over academics and different things I learn online with a partner. My ideal in a partner is someone who studies a different field so we can learn from each other. A passion for knowledge and learning is extremely attractive. "Intelligence" though is so subjective, I'm never going to think about whether they're this much smarter than me or this much dumber- but I have yet to branc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:34 AM
1

Imagine typing out paragraphs of bullshit about "female nature" and how we act and think when you aren't even a fucking woman. There's something beautiful about the mgtow/incel ego when their entire bitterness about their existence is that they don't get the chance to be around women or avoid doing so, but yet their delusions are entirely centered around us and they claim to know all these damn secrets or some shit. All the time you've wasted creating your own delusional world centered around "C…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:52 AM
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No, it's a good thing. We're taking the time to properly mature. People who have kids later in life tend to be more successful and financially stable. People who have kids young tend to never fully blossom. We aren't in survival mode anymore as a society and need to reproduce before dying off, let's focus on becoming whole people first please.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:57 AM
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Unfortunately there's always been a prevalence that women somehow decrease in value in they age, and men don't. Look at how in misogynistic cultures girls marry when they're prepubescent. Yadda yadda, commentary on how men are intimidated by maturity? But yea, I agree, especially with how every young girl nowadays has a skincare routine and the sunscreen craze people think they'll look 20 forever. I'm twenty myself and think that's crazy. All that said, I do think even besides wanting to look yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:49 AM
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Lol, yea, you explain things toddler level because like a toddler you don't think anything deep level and the echochambers of reddit help reinforce your extremely male centered view is somehow reality. When you say we have a wide berth of men to choose from, you're not completely wrong, we have a wide range of men willing to fuck us because men are whores wanting to spead their smelly semen anywhere they can. Not like those men willing to fuck us would get us off, of course. A man would absolute…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:50 AM
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But you say not fat and not crazy is too much of an ask, yknow typical "omg all womenz r the same" banter you people love. I'm not saying your ask is crazy, I'm telling you millions of people who met your supposed criteria of slender and not crazy exist- but obviously not your only criteria, as you now state. God, I'm sick of telling men how their own logic works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:04 AM
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Yea, few words in and I don't think I want to read whatever delusion you're typing out. So, basically, you're standards are more than just that right? Yea, fucking figured. Good luck finding your dream gal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:40 PM
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Did you just write out an entire paragraph to make out that men who want slim women are suddenly oppressed? What, is the government throwing out a weekly mandate to suck on an overweight woman's clit each week? Yea, whatever fucking world you live in, you'd probably need meds to get out of. Overweight women aren't hurting you by existing and dating slim men- if they even are, never noticed that shit myself. But I'm just a silly woman unlike ever so rational men. I think you'd benefit from a nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:36 PM
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"women bad" isnt a fucking argument lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:42 PM
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Isn't the entire foundation of inceldom "boo hoo women are shallow whores who won't suck my cock"? Negative outcome they aren't able to find women who meet their fetishes, they blame women and "chad" instead of self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:40 PM
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The ideal? Dunno, I dont know height weight specifics. I would say broad shoulders, nice muscles, but too muscular looks very creepy and I think most women think that. Personally? I don't really care as long as theyre not at an extreme. Not a complete stick, not jiggly either, and not on steroids. I don't care about height (im 5'5) as long as I'm not looking down on them and I don't feel like a small child standing next to them either. I will admit, mens body fat and how it affects their attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:38 PM
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Lol, poor you, forbidden to refuse fat women. Tuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:28 PM
4

And fat men don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:26 PM
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Reading this comment makes me want to be fat if it means people like you never touching me lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:16 PM
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Yea, and women are also sex trafficked even as pre pubescents in those countriws. Why do the men on here act like they're so pure and women are shallow whores for wanting men with money when they promote finding women in countries where they're treated like shit. Lmao, last I checked I dont think obesity rates for women are higher than men anyways? So, there's got to be a massive amount of you that are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:13 PM
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me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:06 PM
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what you obtain out of making a presumably satire "chad" account online i will never understand
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:52 PM
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I see posts every week on reddit with a girlfriend complaining their boyfriend leaves skid marks on his underwear, piss on the floor, or what have you. Why these women stay with them I don't know, but these men somehow manage to get gfs anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:35 PM
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Find a woman you think is attractive, and find her morning routine, there's thousands upon thousands of morning routine/day routine videos online. Try it yourself for a week and then tell me it isn't effort. Us women aren't gonna take shit about how our hygiene is easy from a gender who has skid marks and cant even wash their damn hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:31 PM
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So you're telling me a woman with a fucked face, who has full grown out body hair, dresses poorly/unstylish, doesn't shower, other bad hygiene habits like not brushing teeth/washing hands, skid marks, has bad skin, poor conversationalist, no hobbies or passions, won't cook or clean, starfish in bed, yadda yadda... BUT is a healthy weight, has endless options for sex and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:43 AM
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So you would be okay with a completely unshaved woman who wears no makeup, has unstyled hair, dressed masculine/unstylish, won't cater to your fetishes in bed, won't clean for you, won't cook for you, expects you to do childcare, and no real passions/hobbies- but at the very least, is easygoing, and not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:35 AM
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Being fat is just the only physical trait they seem capable of recognizing. Most men I've seen in addition simp after exclusively women with clear skin, moderate makeup, body hairless, well done hair, painted nails/good fashion, yadda yadda. They recognize these women are attractive without recognizing the specific details that make them attractive. Also, at least in the case of this sub, I think the men on here are trying to push the notion that standards for women are low which LOL. It's just …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:28 AM
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Huh, wasn't even aware. Personally, would never sleep with a man who refuses to wear a condom. Women's birth control is such a pain in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:30 AM
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So, men as a whole both assault people and protect them, a positive and a negative. Women generally as a whole don't assault nor protect other people, a neutral. Even then, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:07 AM
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lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:04 AM
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when he doesn't understand sarcasm😍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:03 AM
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Try it yourself. Catfish as a woman on tinder or some shit. See how many men seem to want a relationship with you, and not just a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:02 AM
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Yup, I absolutely love "chads" juicy cock. I love when he treats me like shit. I can't possibly convince you otherwise as a woman so why bother lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:59 AM
1

Huh, didn't know. I've heard conflicting things, I'll have you take the w though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:56 AM
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Yea, sure, there's women who like male attention. I mean, like men don't when it comes to women? We're still (generally) much more interested in a partner than just somebody to fuck, more so than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:52 AM
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Yea, sure, you know better than me, an actual woman, what we want lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:50 AM
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You're telling me the cost to hire a crew to renovate a house is equivalent to decades of a live in maid, and depending on how many children, say about 20 years of a nanny? Dunno, I'd have to do some math on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:29 AM
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I think you're projecting your bitterness. It's just statistical fact men project violence against women far more than women against men. Men also project violence against other men more so than women against men. So not only do other men probably not protect you, they'll HURT you also. Can I ask if you would ever protect another man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:22 AM
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I said I don't want to be protected from assault, I want to not be assaulted in the first place. "you reap what you sow" implies women are reaping to be assaulted in the first place. thats how i took your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:14 AM
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Men rape and beat women. Doesn't mean I'll never do a good thing for a man ever lmao. Oh right, people like you don't view women as people, I forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:00 AM
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Lol wut? Do you have this same attitude with male rape and domestic violence victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:59 AM
2

Id rather have a 5 ft tall man with a micropenis than anyone who ever says "chads cock" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:57 AM
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lol@thinking people these days can even afford houses. Dunno, even in this situation, is the year it would take to fix a house comparable to decades of housework/childcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:55 AM
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Honestly, we don't want your protection from being beaten, killed, or raped. We want you to to stop beating, killing, and raping us in the first place, and shun men who do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:39 AM
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Not surprised this is the common answer. Just look at violence of men against women. Quite frankly I don't want to be protected by men, I want to not feel like I have to be protected from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:35 AM
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I mean, I already assumed most men don't have this instinct because well, just look at the violence men perpetuate against women. Lol though. "Babies/puppies/whatever vunerable thing wouldn't look twice to do me a favor, let alone protect me from anything. Why risk my life for someone who wouldn't do the same for me?". Figures you won't do anything for somebody unless you get something back. Love humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:31 AM
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You're missing something big here. Women can easily open an app and find hundreds of guys willing to FUCK her, not date her. And while there's women who do love to fuck, by and large we're more interested in relationships than just fucking. And all those hundreds of guys willing to fuck you, maybe 5 will actually be interested in your pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:22 AM
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Your problem here is you think us women think like men. I can't speak for all women, but we definitely don't think of men in terms of (x/10). And we don't just care about "getting some fuck" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:11 AM
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There's more nuance to it than that. Is it the standards just to fuck or the standards to have a relationship? Yea, men's barriers to fuck are pretty low, lower than women's for a hookup. There's a reason tinder is filled with men. Most women spend many more hours in a lifetime on looks than a man does. If a woman spent the amount of time grooming that a man does, she'd probably be considered unfuckable by most men. Men are expected to make more money than women. That I don't agree with, quite f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:06 AM
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I see it in my siblings, friends sibling, mens roommates, and men talk about it online. How would I know if they won't share their passions anyway lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:51 AM
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If two people choose to do something on specific terms, and one person doesnt carry out their terms, the one not carrying them out is the problem. Not the one complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:34 AM
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if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:28 AM
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How it works is, I dont know, a bit important. It isn't anywhere near 100% effective. God, this is what no sex ed does to a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:25 AM
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But the choice is still equal. Men choose to impregnate women, women choose to be impregnated. 50/50 choice ultimately, although there is nuance. Also, uh, are you missing the entire point of this convo? The reason men arent complaining is because they don't do anything lol. Let's say you choose a group for a project. You set in this is your group. Said partner says they want to do the project, and will pull their weight. They don't and become a leech, so the other person ends up having to do al…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:23 AM
1

Not nearly as available as condoms. Also, do you even know how plan b works? There's a reason it's called Plan B.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:18 AM
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Debatable. Even then however, you'd be surprised how many men want children and even pressure their partners to have children, then don't pull their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:17 AM
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Commented this elsewhere- would make sense if abortions were easily accessible everywhere. But they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:06 AM
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Dunno. There's a lot of gen z dudes who sleep through school, and their free time is composed of jacking it to porn and playing games- I do consider games a passion/hobby, but in the sense that they do it mindlessly for the next dopamine hit and to pass time. And your hobbies don't really mean anything to me if you try to shun them away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:03 AM
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That would make sense if abortion was easily accessible everywhere, but it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:55 PM
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I'm pretty sure women don't want to be the one doing 80% of childcare when they have full time jobs like their partner does. Its just men diss on their responsibilities so theyre forced to, out of the goodwill for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:52 PM
2

So you mean men are choosing to have children, and choosing not to carry their weight for the child they conceived?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:50 PM
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Fun fact! Did you know it takes both a man and a woman to create a child? So men are in fact responsible for their own children also!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:46 PM
1

The standards I set for myself are that I essentially try to take on the traits I'd want in a man and expect nothing more. I think other woman should do the same. I'd want someone who's decently outgoing, I used to be extremely shy, worked on myself, became more outgoing. I started wearing makeup because even though I think the standards for well groomed men vs women are uneven, I can't really change that, should become more of a well groomed woman if I want a well groomed man. I'm set to make d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:38 PM
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There's an endless amount of bad personality traits someone can have. People cam be really fucking awful when you get to know them or live with them. Personally, while I wouldn't say its insufferable or harmful or anything, something really common I find among young men (am a young woman myself) is lack of passion for anything. Or, if their passion is say video games or something, they won't share their passion with you and even gatekeep you from it. Dunno, I want someone who enjoys things. I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:24 PM
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If you're a man that has had kids I would imagine a single mother is somebody you can relate to more than a random young woman. Also, if you act as a good father, generally guaranteed loyalty. Young childless women also have endless options, so, chances of choosing you lessen. Edit- apparently you're a single dad. dude, where's your self awareness? what on earth makes you think young women want you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:11 PM
1

fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:38 PM
1

I'm not really sure what you're trying bring by saying this. All I'm saying is dick ages too, even faster now than ever before as men bring their own demise by choking their penises to god knows what.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:37 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:31 PM
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Yea, and women get sick of limp sad dicks with decreasing sperm count. Men get ed now in their twenties because of porn. Your logic goes both ways.
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