justsippingteahere Archive

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1	Thoughts on Australian mass stabbing ? I’m not sure if you were responding to my comment or in general- cause I never indicated that I thought he was “a functional schizophrenic.” Again you might have been making a general statement. I definitely agree with you that there are way too many people ready to lump this guy with other incel mass murders and completely discounting the potential impact of untreated paranoid schizophrenia on his behavior. However, lunging at a police officer could be rational for people who are seeking suicid…	/r/MensRights	17/04/24 06:57 AM
2	Thoughts on Australian mass stabbing ? I’ve spent today as a feminist arguing with other feminists about the importance of being objective and considering that this man’s actions might have been the result of psychosis due to him refusing medication for his schizophrenia for the past 5 years. But here’s the thing, we don’t know if psychosis was the primary motivator for his actions. His Dad noted that his difficulty finding a girlfriend had led him to feel extremely resentful. The truth is simply we don’t know. There are a scary numb…	/r/MensRights	17/04/24 03:51 AM
51	How did you help yourself to mentally get over your LVX/NVX cheating? It took several months to get over the heartbreak. But I had supportive friends and worked hard to get back into the dating scene. Learned a lot about what I wouldn’t put up with for future bfs.Hard to believe that it has been over twenty years since that time. I never regretted the break up and I thought about him less and less through the years. Been happily married for over 15 years to an awesome man. His cheating was a gift to me- he didn’t deserve me before he cheated. It took the cheating …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 02:20 AM
5	My HV dad uses an FDS like approach at work I loved this post! Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/21 04:46 PM
8	Sex work is not empowering I was for the legalization of prostitution up until your post forced me to do some research. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0305750X12001453 https://www.google.com/amp/s/thehill.com/opinion/criminal-justice/434272-legalizing-prostitution-could-end-sex-trafficking-investigations%3famp https://www.wbur.org/cognoscenti/2019/03/26/nordic-model-robert-kraft-rich-barlow https://scholar.google.com/scholar?q=the+effects+of+legalizing+prostitution&hl=en&as_sdt=0&as_vis=1&oi=scholart#d…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/21 06:53 PM
3	“If they have no bread, then Let Them Eat Dick” I know I’m going against the trend here but I think sex work should be legalized (not decriminalized). The issue I have is that you can be against sex work all you want but you’re not going to stop it. But you can make it safer- focus on stopping sexual slavery. Make it easier to prosecute Men who abuse sex workers. By keeping it illegal- it makes it illicit- prostitutes remain “dirty whores” and it makes it easier to exploit them. It doesn’t mean that it will prevent exploitation but it can dec…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/21 02:46 PM
45	Care to share examples of HV behaviour from the men in your life? I’ve been married for over 15 years. I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer a year ago. Our marriage was good before that- ups and downs. When he found out- he cried so intensely and then he just became my rock. He took care of me throughout the chemo, the surgery, the radiation, now the oral chemo. For me the most intense thing was when he cleaned the drains from my surgery. It was twice a day for nearly three weeks. It was gross and he was always nervous about hurting me but he was all in. I will …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/21 06:24 PM
90	You should NEVER give ugly men a chance People are people- misogynists come in every shape and level of attractiveness. But so do decent men. Misogyny in ugly men definitely plays out a lot like you wrote but I’ve found that misogyny is higher in general with socially awkward guys - there are plenty of incels, mra activists that physically are fine but don’t know how to interact with women and instead of tackling their social skill deficit blame women. No one can help how they look- don’t make assumptions based on looks- base it on be…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/21 08:15 PM
49	1.2 million likes. Countless comments from men & boys. The new generation are no more compassionate toward women & girls as we’d like to hope. Many are still raised to be disgusting, emotionless burdens on women. I at least hope the girls are being raised to not accept this behavior. I’m an older generation- I think that you are right in that we don’t have the same knowledge of the ways that violent porn has impacted the younger male generation. But I think there may be a similar knowledge gap of how bad male attitudes and behaviors were in the past. Date rape was just beginning to be acknowledged when I was your age. I had an older sister who really believed that if you went over to a guys room then you implicitly consented to sex. Sadly it was really clear that she had “co…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 08:25 PM
112	I'm thinking I didn't miss much.... This actually sounds like text book “negging” done by guys who subscribe to the Pick Up Artist belief system that the best way to pick up women is to play off a woman’s insecurities. By subtly or in this case not so subtly insulting a woman often when giving a backhanded compliment or in this case trying to sell his “amazing” qualities- is known as Negging. Women are supposed to be intrigued that the guy is not that into them and then will work to “earn” him. Guys like this are the worst and sup…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/20 12:39 AM
2	Men will lie and gaslight you even with video evidence. Trust your gut. If you feel you have to ask, leave. Thanks	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/20 01:42 PM
20	Is this behavior common in the vetting process? I am at a loss here. No- this is a red flag. Decent guys go slow and pick up on your comfort level. Also a lot of guys would find this approach gross in a friend- not enough unfortunately. He is being way too sexually aggressive. It indicates that he has a problem with boundaries and he is already pushing you to engage in verbal sexual behavior before you are comfortable, odds or he’ll try to do that in terms of physical contact in person. You deserve better	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/20 04:02 AM
7	Nina got it. Beautiful!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 05:55 AM