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| 1 | In this day and age, women have to be strategically bitchy to their men in order to get the best resultsMeth heads at the gas station are pretty bitchy too. You enjoy yourself though, but I'm either having toxic free relationships or no relationship at all, and lucky for me, I have a toxic free relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 01:44 PM |
| 6 | The internet has enabled men to listen in on female spaces, and men don't like what they hearWhile I don't think what you're saying is entirely false, I feel like we're not examining social media, phones, and cultural movements that have reduced the amount of men and women intermingling in spaces where they can meet. Think about it, if you're a fella and the only way to have some fun is to go down to the local bar and shoot some pool, you're a lot more likely to meet and talk to a cutie there and form a relationship. Now too many people, myself included, socialize entirely too much on c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 06:47 PM |
| 1 | In this day and age, women have to be strategically bitchy to their men in order to get the best resultsWhatever you say, you talk about relationships like someone who has never had one. I was making fun of your deranged outlook on life anyway, not talking to you anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 06:38 PM |
| 1 | In this day and age, women have to be strategically bitchy to their men in order to get the best resultsComplains about fantasy novel perceptions of relationships and sex. Goes on to explain relationships and sex like a fetish Omega-verse mpreg universe. Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Blue pillers, you are here to wage a spiritual war against purple/red pillersSee this is what I'm talking about. People whine and bitch that blue pillers are so mean and snide. But this is fine, no one calls this kind of behavior out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 04:40 PM |
| 7 | Blue pillers, you are here to wage a spiritual war against purple/red pillersBecause that's literally the point of the sub. To argue. Duh. This is such a strange thing people use against progressives, blue-pillers, or whatever. "You guys believe strongly that you are correct (just like everyone else), you can be snide (just like everyone else)." Like what do you genuinely expect from us? To be weak limp-wristed people who just apologize all the time? I don't get it, with all due respect. I think red-pill ideology/religion is funny and sorta worth mockery, mostly because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 04:34 PM |
| 1 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.Sure whatever you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:12 PM |
| 1 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.Oh I see. I thought the point was the jokes people have been making about the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:07 PM |
| 0 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.You should avoid using the phrase "snapped" because that's not really a thing. It's a deliberate decision. Male abusers use this excuse all the time. I "Snapped" or "I blacked out". It sounds better than "I decided I was going to torture my spouse because I was angry." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:02 PM |
| 1 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.That's a strange goalpost to have as far as pointing out an overly lenient punishment for a heinous crime. But okay? Seems like pointing out lenient punishments is better than mocking a horrific torture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.I kind of don't see a reason why you shouldn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do some guys get so hostile if other guys admit to using escorts ?I just find it weird and off putting that you (or whoever we're talking about) use women (or men) for sex who wouldn't want to have sex with you if it wasn't for them having to make rent. If they wanted to have sex with you, you wouldn't have to pay them. I guess my question is, you don't feel weird having sex with someone who doesn't really want to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:24 PM |
| 4 | Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for womenWhat does that even look like in practical terms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 03:11 PM |
| 7 | Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for womenNo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 03:09 PM |
| 11 | Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for womenThat's right women you better start dating greaseballs or you're going to get cheated on by chad! this sub sometimes is a fucking riot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons?Oh I agree, this point of view is stupid as all hell. Just saying that it exists and people have it. You may be right that some men's attitudes are changing, but take a gander at the Bible or the Koran. Virginity was extremely valued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 06:58 PM |
| 8 | Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons?It's the idea that being penetrated by a penis is a tainting act. That you are less than for it. That's why virgin women are so 'highly valued' and women who have had lots of penetrative sex are called things like "dirty" and "sluts". As for why it's not called misandry? Because even merely muttering the word "misandry" causes people to have conniptions and crash the fuck out for some stupid reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 06:50 PM |
| 9 | Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons?This is exactly why I have a strong preference for dating bisexuals just in general. Genuinely less judgmental, uptight, and insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 06:47 PM |
| 0 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosI genuinely do not give a single fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you seen 'Adolescence,' yet? What were your thoughts on it?It takes average intelligence to understand that you cannot accurately judge anything without at least first observing it. Sum of its parts? Brother you haven't even LOOKED at it, much less 'parts' of it. You can't even point to any episode or scene to defend yourself. This is the level of thought. Embarrassing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you seen 'Adolescence,' yet? What were your thoughts on it?You can't understand the basics of anything without first at least observing the thing you're trying to understand. You haven't even looked at the thing in question and yet you've already formed a fervent opinion about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you seen 'Adolescence,' yet? What were your thoughts on it?lmao how the fuck do you """""""""""""""analyze """""""""""""""" something without even so much as fucking observing the material in question lmaaaooooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 03:36 PM |
| – | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areI mean yeah there are conditions arriving at that. Glad you didn't let Tate off the hook though. Blaming feminists for this is entirely irrational in my opinion. Covid completely interrupted their lives and damaged the economy. Right when they should be socializing the most they were trapped at home, being brain rotted by social media designed to farm their engagement, perverting their socialization leading to a great many of them feeling like outcasts and misfits with little hope. And what do y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 01:15 AM |
| – | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areYou didn't show us how Tate isn't radicalizing his audience. Explain to me how one can show woman hate over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again and it not radicalize the audience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 07:09 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyBe a political movement, not a group therapy session. Even among women, people who have suffered from rape and sexual assault are a minority of the population. By centering the needs and wants of these people, however noble your intentions, you have alienated the majority of the population. This is stupid. Ending sexual violence is one of the central planks of feminism. If you aren't going to center your own platform planks, then what are you even doing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | When Will Start Recognizing Womens Sexual AbuseI didn't accuse you or anyone of critiquing boys for being molested. I'm just saying that boys really aren't "worshiped" for being molested by teachers or women in general. Just not a thing that happens. At least never happened to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | When Will Start Recognizing Womens Sexual AbuseI'm a little more aware of what it's like to be a victimized little boy than you are, no offense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 02:34 PM |
| 1 | When Will Start Recognizing Womens Sexual AbuseYou can do both! You can talk about male violence and oppression of women AND talk about female sex offenders. It advocate for boy survivors of women, AND I financially support women's shelters and I support anti-rape initiatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | When Will Start Recognizing Womens Sexual AbuseHow many high fives do guys give each other when they hear about some predator teacher raping her underage student. This doesn't happen. Boys that are molested by teachers are typically bullied by their students, not congradulated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Conservative women are MUCH better to date than progressive women, and all men should avoid dating progressive women entirely.Blue Pill means you're anti-red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 03:37 PM |
| 2 | If in today's society, sex is not expected in a relationship, then faithfulness should not be expectedYall need to grow TF and talk with your spouses, partners, boyfriends and girlfriends about what you want out of a relationship lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 05:01 PM |
| -1 | the abolishment of men's gender roles.Just throwing this out there, I'm pro-feminism, but I absolutely have to change how I talk about sexual trauma when I'm around feminists. For example. I can say "People don't take male sexual trauma that seriously." here. But I couldn't say that same sentence around a feminist. (It implies that some women might not take this issue seriously, which is misogynistic slander) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/11/24 10:31 PM |
| 5 | Opinion: Biggest benefit of dating men over womenMan if you actually talk to and date real life women in the 3d meat space, you'll quickly realize how stupid and untrue this all is. Some women apologize too much, some will never admit fault. They're as fucking different as you are from the next guy. anyway, I like men cause they have nice fat cocks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.Uh huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.lol congrats on your internet argument, goober lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 11:32 PM |
| 0 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.When someone puts an "S" at the end of the word, what does that imply to you? (I'm talking about the overall incumbent failure in the US AND Europe) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.Hey, I hate Trump viciously. But I will co-sign on fuck Bill Clinton that man is the devil. Both of them were Epstein's good friends btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 11:22 PM |
| 0 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.Has the previous elections not dispelled this illusion that Reddit is the world for you yet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 11:20 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menBy intentionally not solving an issue now so that you may campaign on it later. Republicans killing their own bill so that Trump can campaign on the border is a great example of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:22 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menokay (though I don't think women's rights should be a political tool either) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:41 PM |
| – | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menYour theory would hold more water if not for the fact that many of the most animated voters for women's rights went and passed state level abortion protection. We literally solved our biggest campaign issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:25 PM |
| – | Would you rape a woman if it was guaranteed you’d get away with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feminist"The rates of feminism" lmao Look man, you should help people because it's the right thing to do you sociopathic weirdo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?Yeah, obviously and sadly. It's really frustrating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?whatever you say homie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?Yourself you goobers. Yourself. Get off your ass. You don't have to build something yourself fellas, you can support something that already exists, and there's a few things you can support if you really want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?My life got 10x better when I dropped the Red Pill lmao. Once you realize that people, human beings, are more complicated than any Red Piller can understand, man the world really opens up. You realize you can just find different kinds of women that behave in the way that you like haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 07:42 PM |
| 0 | Social skills/friendships platonically leading to increased sexual activity is a lie and bad adviceWomen generally like having sex with men that can socialize with them. Being friends with women passively trains you to socialize with women. It's not anymore complicated than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.This is basically the modern traditional wife tract and what traditional women actually do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.Stays a virgin until marriage, gets married young, spends her twenties and thirties having multiple children back to back, and lives to serve her husband (3 home cooked meals a day, laundry, cleaning, childcare daily etc). No degree, no career. Complete financial dependance of her partner, submissive to all his wants and needs (even if you don’t agree), obedient. This reads a little like a fetish, doesn't it? I think I would be a modern woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 07:51 PM |
| 5 | The most common argument against financial abortion is easily refuted. What remains is mostly misandryThis is why I think child support should be given to all single parents by the government. Ignoring how helpful it is to children and their parents that child support arrives every month without a fight, think of all the money and effort we could save not hiring a billion lawyers, police officers, judges just to force a dead beat dad to pay up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 06:46 PM |
| 6 | Society’s okay with people insulting women…as long as its not misogyny.This is what almost anyone who ever complains this way is really talking about. Men women, blue red. It's almost always people wanting to sling piss and stay dry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 09:10 PM |
| 6 | Do you think most men would forgive a cheating girlfriend if she was a good girlfriend ?There's no such thing as a good girlfriend that cheats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Women having thicker skin is a factor in the “women hate men being vulnerable” topic.I'll let you believe that <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Women having thicker skin is a factor in the “women hate men being vulnerable” topic.Woosh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 03:18 PM |
| 7 | Women SHOULD only aim to reproduce with the top 20% of menI'm agreeing with you but you're being dense. Thinking with eugenics and evolution will literally dehumanize us and that's wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:04 PM |
| 9 | Women SHOULD only aim to reproduce with the top 20% of menNo one cares about what women want. We're talking about what's best from a species genes point of view, and that's maximum reproduction. I'm illustrating why this kind of thinking is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Women SHOULD only aim to reproduce with the top 20% of menMan, I'm glad I'm only concerned with having a soft squeeze. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:06 PM |
| 4 | Women SHOULD only aim to reproduce with the top 20% of menName one? Hint: this is why creatures split into species | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:43 PM |
| 10 | Women SHOULD only aim to reproduce with the top 20% of menWell I mean, your biggest problem is that evolution absolutely doesn't work like this. it's way way way better for the species that as much reproduction as possible happens. The more gene combinations a species has, the better. So mediocre women should find whatever mate that interests them and they themselves can land. also this is ignoring the fact that we're sentient creatures that may desire something beyond our species proliferation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Redpill's agenda is all about rewiring nice guys to stop being the safety net for womenImagine being literally inside your partner and thinking "omg I'm just the safe option" like bruh. That's how you know they haven't yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 11:01 PM |
| 6 | Redpill's agenda is all about rewiring nice guys to stop being the safety net for womenThe amount of RPers complaining that they can't get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itFalse rape accusations are bad. There? Have I solved this conundrum? Also you can check my account. I almost exclusively talk about boys being molested by girls. That's my target. I just recognize that these 'false accusation' discussions aim seems to be to discredit sexual violence claims. Also false accusations are used against male victims too. That's why I'm really against this conversation because it only serves to shut up victims truly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:04 PM |
| -1 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itFalse rape accusations, if you notice, are an entirely different class of crime that take place for entirely different reasons. It's like insisting we talk about robberies too while trying to talk about sexual crimes. they are totally unrelated issues. It's dishonest to insist that both be talked about at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itMetoo wasn't an injustice and "false accusations" is just hysterics. The problem of rape is actually several times bigger and more important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 07:43 PM |
| 7 | Men should have a go bag or escape fund for emotional abusealmost all female offending is against children anyway and I will continue to repeat this until it gets through people's skulls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 01:44 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI mean yeah sure, I was hoping that we do not tolerate adults sleeping with teenagers yeah. (I'm not uniquely mad at female offenders) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 03:24 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIgnoring how annyoing it is to spam. They shouldn't be placed with a child molesting mother, but unfortunately, the trauma caused by such crimes is not believed. That's what we mean when we say we aren't believed. They believe it 'happened', they just don't believe it 'matters'. That's why you don't hear boys being accused of making it up like girls are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 03:14 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadySorry, I struggle with the black and white thinking that goes on in this sub, even if I myself use the same kind of thinking myself. Nothing social is a silver bullet. But being nice absolutely does matter. People like kind nice people, and being well liked will absolutely make your life better and more successful. You still have to have the other traits to be successful, but being nice will absolutely help you in every part of your life. Being nice is good, and men should strive to be good, eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - Why is there hesistancy to acknowledge how good you currently have it?Edit: I cannot be reasonable on the topics of suicide. Sorry lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 06:37 PM |
| -1 | Q4W - Why is there hesistancy to acknowledge how good you currently have it?Suicide rates are caused by a combination of factors: most suicide differences are caused by a difference risk-taking behaviour, a lack of respect for or interest in seeking care for mental health (I will get back to this), avoidance of consequences (ex. Men are more likely to be caught for pedophilia, and pedophiles are more likely to kill themselves to get out of prison time), and suicide method. Oh fucking God here we go again with "men who kill themselves are evil" bullshit again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyOP do you have friends? Like no offense, but is the concept of being a nice fella being a good thing, even if it doesn't get you free pussy really that hard to grasp? Like honestly. No offense but I'm convinced some of you guys misunderstand on purpose just so you can keep coping that none of this is your fault and you have no power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.That is true, however, the profile of a attacker depends on the demographic of the victim. For example just for males, men report female attackers rarely (relatively speaking), but young boys report female attackers very often (relatively speaking again). Overall, female offending is very rare. For certain specific demographics, female offending is relatively common. I think this causes a mental disconnect between the two sides. Not to mention the problem of COCSA. I feel like most people aren't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Would you date an absolutely mediocre person?I think you've described a boring person though. This sounds boring. With all due respect this is a hard circumstance to consider. Even women that are losers with nothing going for them have at least something interesting about them. Maybe they hyper-fixate on a hobby or topic ya know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | What does finding some attractive feel like?Honestly when I'm profoundly attracted to a woman, I imagine how we could like, homestead survive in the wildness for some reason. Like we'll find copper nuggets and make metal tools and start to thrive in our jungle hut with our little farm. I think there's something very ancient in my brain stem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Would you date an absolutely mediocre person?I would not have a committed relationship with a completely boring woman. I personally must be somewhat excited by my partner to want to commit to her. Like I need to think about her often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | If men are against OnlyFans why are they consuming it?I'm against people using drugs. Why are people still using Drugs? Clearly, I must be a hypocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 09:04 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menI cannot recall the last time I've heard a real life man actually say and mean 'gold digger'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 10:44 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menImagine men outbreeding women. imagine it becomes a culture-war talking point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Obsession with “visceral attraction” is self-sabotage and not consistent with how people really behaveThere's lots of different reasons. Some of their motivations nearly mirrors men, that is, they derive sexual delight from sexually abusing someone who is helpless against them. A few women will experience genuine pedophilia and will act on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 12:53 AM |
| 0 | Obsession with “visceral attraction” is self-sabotage and not consistent with how people really behaveThey exist, but almost all of them are child molesters. Obviously there's a whole lot less of them than male offenders. I don't get why everyone tries to imagine a woman violently attacking a grown healthy man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Truth being friends with lots of girls may also be a negative. Especially if none of them are attracted to you.They're relaxed around him because they assume he knows his place and wont try anything. He's most likely there because he's married lets get real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Obsession with “visceral attraction” is self-sabotage and not consistent with how people really behaveMost definitely. My first girlfriend wasn't super attractive when we first met, but the more time we spent together, she became more and more irresistibly attractive. I can accept that a woman may experience the same thing with me, and i'm fine with that personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 04:12 PM |
| -6 | Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual historyI personally think being super anxious about being a virgin is more unattractive than the mere fact one is a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 05:48 PM |
| -1 | Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual historyfacing a man's feelings of inadequacy. I honestly think this is a bigger problem than the actual reality of being a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 04:28 PM |
| -3 | Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual historyThis is just going to make you seem like a bad fuck with a hair trigger dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsOkay? never said so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsshrug, enjoy your life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsNot many times, just enough to know the effort really is worth it, if you care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsGuessing you've never been in love before, sport. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsBecause I like doing the courting? It's fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with!I honestly feel bad that women have to deal with so much bullying on account that they're smaller. It happens a ton. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 09:13 PM |
| – | I don't understand what the blue pill is even supposed to be aboutBlue Pill isn't a real ideology, it's just something we call people who reject the Red Pill outright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Women are lazier when it comes to relationshipsWhile I'm not going to complain about women wholesale, I do wish women would engage in courtship more. Not all the time, not 'equally', but a selfless show of romance means a lot to me every once in a while. It makes me feel more like a loved person than a useful product. In that regard, I have noticed more laziness, which sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillmentIt actually kinda sucks lol. Maybe it was just because we were very young adults, but man, it was very dramatic if I said I wasn't feeling it atm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Men of reddit would you have a problem if your girlfriend was a Cuckquean?Absolutely. I'm not explicitly monogamous, but I do not play any of this 'open relationship' mess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 09:27 PM |
| 1 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menI'm actually normal, most people can do this no problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 06:00 PM |
| 6 | No one, not even women, can actually read the room properlyI think the blue pill needs to take off the kid gloves and just be a lot more honest. Skill issue. You suck at socializing and this is going to fuck over all your attempts at love. Fix your socializing skills. This is something everyone can do, including autistic men. I am on the spectrum, so I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Telling men and women to "not take rejection personally" is usually poor advice"Don't take it personally" means "Don't hate the person who rejected you". I think you may have misunderstood what it means to not take rejection personally. It doesn't mean you don't think about it, don't consider what happened, and how you can fix any of that. Taking rejection on the chin with a smile shows confidence. It shows a "Your loss" type mentality. A little poise. It's a much better look than throwing a tantrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:22 PM |
| 2 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menI disagree. I think it was a perfectly normal reaction to an open secret we all had about work culture. Maybe I just have this unique ability to not creep out ladies, but I never had a problem with this 'moral panic'. But I mostly appreciate the fact that metoo elevated the discourse about sexual violence to the public sphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:18 PM |
| -2 | Most people who say this would prefer the issue of male SA victims to never come up at allclaims to be leftist, dying on the hill of anti-leftism. Dude's going to vote fascist because progressives are annoying sometimes. Amazing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/09/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Your son is unsuccessful with women, would you get him an escort for his birthday?Ah sorry, I thought you were talking about prostitution outright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Your son is unsuccessful with women, would you get him an escort for his birthday?You've left the topic that we were on. Giving a woman money specifically so she'll have sex with you is the topic. Me paying for a woman's dinner so we can enjoy one another's company is not me paying for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Your son is unsuccessful with women, would you get him an escort for his birthday?Well yeah, traditionally the man always picked up the check, but that was during a time when women weren't allowed to gain gainful employment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Your son is unsuccessful with women, would you get him an escort for his birthday?Yes. Because the expectation is that you, as a male specimen, should be able to attract through your own virtues, persuasion, and presence. I know male ego's are shit on a little, but I like to feel a little smug when my partner desires me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Your son is unsuccessful with women, would you get him an escort for his birthday?Bad idea. My dad tried to do this for me. I didn't want to have sex with some random girl. It wasn't a good day and he was all pissy asking if I was gay the whole day lmao. What a fucking doofus. Plus I'm sure what he was trying to arrange was a felony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 02:47 PM |
| 1 | If most men followed the "look for implicit attraction signals / read the room / make sure there is some interest" advice that is given, most men would have minimal opportunitiesThis is the most solid advice in the comments so far. Chatting like this makes you a better conversationalist for sure, and besides, you might meet someone important besides a lover. A better boss maybe never know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What is the best way for autistic men to apply the red pill without falling into its overwhelming toxicity and mentally damaging themselves???Sounds like you're letting internet strangers talk you into depression. I don't get it, but good luck with all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 03:12 AM |
| -1 | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?I think "being mad" at a gender, just as a concept, is highly regarded. But you're free to do whatever you want. It's when people whine about how much they hate [x] gender, and then display resentment when they cannot find love with [x] gender that grinds my gears to dust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 07:45 PM |
| -1 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.I guess we just disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:25 PM |
| 1 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.It is secondary to this. You merely need minimal attractiveness to be considered, but it's personality that will seal the deal long term. You also need at minimum, some kind of job for a relationship, but that doesn't mean that what job you have is the most important thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:20 PM |
| -1 | Men afraid of approaching women need to get over themselvesFair enough, but I think you can get a little closer without worrying too much homie. It's worth it, for the right one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:03 PM |
| 0 | Men afraid of approaching women need to get over themselvesSo you haven't ever been accused of molestation or rape either? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 01:46 PM |
| 1 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.Indeed. You just have to be physically attractive enough, it's the behavior that will make or break you long term. But you do need that minimum required attractiveness, which the vast majority of us can reach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way for autistic men to apply the red pill without falling into its overwhelming toxicity and mentally damaging themselves???I dunno man, seems like the RP is only breeding misery, anxiety, and self-doubt. Plus, I don't want to resent the people I would like to make love with lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 01:37 PM |
| -3 | Men afraid of approaching women need to get over themselvesBrother I have never been accused by a single woman in my life ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 01:15 PM |
| -1 | Men afraid of approaching women need to get over themselvesYeah but you can learn this skill from just having cold conversations period. It takes practice, but I can strike up a conversation with a man I've never met before now. Chatting up a lady is basically the same thing imo. It's really not hard at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 01:15 PM |
| 0 | Men afraid of approaching women need to get over themselvesMolestation literally means putting your hands on someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive menOlder women with money have been chasing young men for centuries. There's just more of them now. "older" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"?I was tricked and groomed into being someone's 'little brother' and then was sexually abused afterwards until I started going to kindergarten. Not really a 'grievance' I hold against women anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Men are not obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted, but it does seem that women are more likely to stop and ask the hurt person if they're okay, offer comfort, and provide help/call for help.Hey seriously that story sounds super familiar! I get that too, friendly extroverts are lovely. Are yall still friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Men are not obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted, but it does seem that women are more likely to stop and ask the hurt person if they're okay, offer comfort, and provide help/call for help.well I gotta give credit to my sister, she is a very sunny outgoing person. And a doctor now geez. I wouldn't blame it all on socialization. Ever notice how men's idea of a perfect day is sitting all alone in nature or something like that? I think women are more extroverted than men. I think introverted children are assumed to be doing 'fine' when they really aren't, and it takes someone engaging with them to figure out those issues, girls included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Men are not obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted, but it does seem that women are more likely to stop and ask the hurt person if they're okay, offer comfort, and provide help/call for help.I think a lot of us correctly assume that the comfort of a woman is the most desired by the victim, most of the time. But I'll cop to the fact that while I have offered comfort to people in my life, it's always draining and very difficult. I know that's true for everyone but, I feel completely unprepared. When I was a boy, I noticed my mom and my sister would have long emotional talks about this and that when my sister was upset. I didn't get it then, but now I really wish I would have had those… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathicYou already did care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 07:32 PM |
| -2 | What is supposed to be "fair" about dating?This complaint is not gendered at all lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathicIf you're willing to become a sociopath just for some pussy, I suggest that you may already be one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 06:33 PM |
| 9 | Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spikingThis is an evolved form of 'Where's my hug?'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 11:13 PM |
| 5 | Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spikingWhat about this situation bothers you? Like you have to understand, if women were using date rape drugs against other women like men do, they would guard their drinks against other women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 11:10 PM |
| 6 | Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spikingThe government has the duty to be fair and equal to the citizens. The constitution doesn't say that a woman absolutely must let you talk to her and let you hang out around her drink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 11:06 PM |
| 28 | Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spiking"A study of patients presenting to an emergency department having had a “spiked drink”" Isn't the point of a date rape drug is that the victim isn't aware enough to seek emergency services? Seems like a poor population to study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest?I'm trying to live better in my thirties because I'm the one that has to deal with my stupid life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Yes, Female Traffickers ApprehendedOkay and? I was molested by a woman when I was a little boy. Since anti-rape campaigns absolutely refuse to touch this topic with a ten foot pole, I'm happy at least someone is willing to talk about this issue at all. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/08/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are concerned about being 'Beta-Buxxed', shouldn't complain about being 'Friendzoned'"The friendzone" wasn't supposed to be a complaint levied at individuals, it was supposed to be about men lamenting that no matter who they ask out, everyone just wants to be friends. No idea why 'friendzoned' evolved into something different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Why I'm here:(I wouldn't actually want this) Imagine making other survivors describe their attack using this kind of language. "Made to Filate" sounds a lot less serious than "Raped". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/24 06:52 PM |
| 11 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsWhen you're talking about martial rape, who gives a fuck about some godman dowry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsThey also complained. A lot. Like incessantly. They also specifically complained that other people (men) should help them. People love to forget that complaining is part of the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 03:13 PM |
| – | A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objectiveI agree, there are tons of open contempt for women that it's strange to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Is RP No Longer "I Am The Prize, DGAF, Spin-Plates"?Honestly those are some really decent principles to live by. Some of them seem a little blue-pilled, like the whole Nexting thing is basically another way of saying "Respect her wishes and yourself by not chasing what doesn't want to be caught." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 08:08 PM |
| 40 | It's not that we don't acknowledge male rape victims. We just don't acknowledge female perpetratorsI have been noticing a very real bias against female perpetrators. It's pretty clear talking to some people that they do not take your trauma seriously only because of your attacker's gender. Hell some people will come right on out and say exactly that. Not only that, but survivors with female attackers are tone policed. All. The. Damn. Time. Honestly, I have been chastised for taking this situation "too seriously". "if you actually cared, you would be worried about REAL victims" Is something I'… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/06/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | A 90% women and 10% men world would be betterShrug. If we had all the answers we would have solved violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | A 90% women and 10% men world would be betterNeither female or males are made violent by experiencing abuse. Boys become violent witnessing violence happening to other people. Principally, his father's violence against his mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Is "desperate guys don't get girlfriends" complete bullshit?A coomer is anyone who's so horny that it becomes their personality. Like a stoner who puts up neon weed lights on their walls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOnly for the first four hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's really not that difficult to understand. She wouldn't personally have an abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's a perk of having the entire world prance around our whims and desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Defeatism and misplaced priorities on one’s preferences is why many of the men on here struggle"Old used up single mom" No wonder you're so lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Defeatism and misplaced priorities on one’s preferences is why many of the men on here struggleI'm 5'5" lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 03:11 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Luck is everything. Some men are just by default undesirable and there is no underlyting reason whyI found someone because I'm a bit of a catch homie. Don't be a crab in the bucket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 01:49 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Luck is everything. Some men are just by default undesirable and there is no underlyting reason whyConsidering I'm thirty myself and date women my own age, sure I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 12:53 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Luck is everything. Some men are just by default undesirable and there is no underlyting reason whyYou may be onto something. Even when I was super black-pilled, I internalized everything and didn't blame others. In that regard, it could be hopeless like you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 12:50 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Luck is everything. Some men are just by default undesirable and there is no underlyting reason whyI was single for fifteen years. I decided I was single because I wasn't good enough. I worked hard and made myself good enough. Now I have a girlfriend. I'm not sure what else to say. How could I have been doomed to failure and now not? Maybe God is grading on a curve? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 03:16 AM |
| 2 | I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicityNot saying that women 'rape as much as men' that's silly. But seriously, ask some men when their first sexual interaction with an adult woman was. You'll sometimes get some very low numbers. Mine was five. On of my friends as 13. Neither of us reported nor recorded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone else develop a complex about how "scary" they were to women?You can get people to bash baby's heads in if you teach them that's right to do so. Also no all rape is done by a monster who specifically wants to do a horrific crime. It's also selfish entitled boyfriends who think "it's not a big deal bro chill lmao". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/01/24 02:18 PM |
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