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Both are extremes and are harmful. It's not a competition, both are extreme ideologies which spread hatred against the opposite sex. I personally don't see much of difference between men here complaining about women and feminists complaining about men in feminist subreddits. Both sides are normally unhappy and have hateful opinions about the opposite sex. I haven't met many women who claimed to be feminists, majority of them were not straight and the rest were very unhappy and hurt women. On men…
/r/MensRights19/09/23 10:45 PM
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A definition of a traditional (nuclear) family is: 'A traditional family is a family structure that consists of a man, woman, and one or more of their biological or adopted children.' Also traditional roles not necessarily mean for a woman to stay at home, it is more about for women to take care of 'housewife's' duties like - cleaning, cooking, washing and for men fixing stuff, protecting family etc. I agree that people in Eastern Europe are more homophobic than the western countries as had diff…
/r/MensRights03/03/22 08:26 AM
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No, your concept of being 'traditional' is different from mine. You think that 'traditional' include women staying at home and not working because that is a common thing between you americans. European women except for few countries like Britain, have most of their female population working. Britain like the US has plenty of 'housewifes'. For example persian royal Naser al-Din Shah who traveled Europe in 19th century and wrote a diary, which is now published, was shocked that german women, how h…
/r/MensRights03/03/22 07:47 AM
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I think a word 'girl' is used more widely than a 'boy' . Many people use 'girl' to refer to adult women including women themselves however a word 'boy' is normally used to refer to male kids.
/r/MensRights03/03/22 07:34 AM
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You have no idea what you are talking about. Most of families in Ukraine have a traditional family model - a masculine man and a feminine woman. Well I guess for you americans and us eastern europeans a term 'traditional' means different things. Yes all women in Eastern Europe work outside home, there is no 'housewife' culture. During communism it was mandatory to work for both genders. This might be the main reason why feminism is not popular in Eastern Europe. Women work, earn money and take c…
/r/MensRights02/03/22 10:51 PM
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Like most world leaders. This is the case in almost all countries. Nations that in present-day actively draft women into military service are Bolivia, Chad, Eritrea, Israel, Mozambique, Norway, North Korea and Sweden. The rest of the world draft only men. Ukrainians are very traditional people. Feminism and mgtow movement are almost non existing there. Most ukrainian men would mind if their women were drafted.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 08:31 PM
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Try 'man' instead of 'boy'. The result might be different.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 08:16 PM
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You shouldn't feel old. Just think about the oldest man who climbed Mount Everest - he climbed Everest when he was 70 and then again at 75 :)
/r/MensRights02/03/22 07:55 PM
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Well you still have plenty of time :)
/r/MensRights02/03/22 06:42 PM
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How can someone feel lonely even when in the company of friends and family? The answer might lie in how well a person is able to connect on a deep emotional level with others in an intimate and vulnerable way. Do you know what is causing you to feel this way? Maybe it is caused by history of trauma, rejection or poor parental attachment in your childhood? I'm not psychiatrist however we all learn how to connect and form bonds with others based on the bonds we’ve had with our caregivers. When the…
/r/MensRights02/03/22 01:25 AM
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Haha I didn't think that you were gay, otherwise you wouldn't have raised this problem. I meant that if I was a guy I would struggle dating a woman. Well you live and learn. If you think that staying single makes you happier, stay single. Building a successful relationship is a hard work which you need to do every day however it is also very rewarding when it works. I hope you will find happiness in whatever you choose. I guess you are still young and have plenty of time to realise what you want…
/r/MensRights02/03/22 12:38 AM
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I agree. Most people maintain relationships with abusive people because of low self-esteem. I believe that most of us are abusers and abused ones from time to time in all relationships. Of course if it is an everyday thing there is a problem. I don't blame you guys for staying away from us women as we are difficult to handle :) if I was a guy I would definitely be gay :))
/r/MensRights01/03/22 11:57 PM
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Haha thanks for clarifying. I'm only curious why a man who has chosen to go his own way would care about most of things you have stated? If you decide not to date, why would you care what some random woman say on tinder? If you have female friends and they are abusive and their behaviour makes you uncomfortable, you just stop being friends. Easy busy :)
/r/MensRights01/03/22 11:41 PM
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If loneliness makes you very unhappy then running away from it would solve the problem. However I agree with you that we need to learn how to deal with it. We all need to learn how to deal with it as many people face loneliness at the old age.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 11:07 PM
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Then probably you should either look for new friends or find hobbies in life :)
/r/MensRights01/03/22 11:00 PM
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And what are the signs? As a woman myself I'm super curious :)
/r/MensRights01/03/22 10:59 PM
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Instead you could find friends and this problem would be solved :)
/r/MensRights01/03/22 10:52 PM
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So? How is it relevant to the fact that she 'hates men'?
/r/MensRights27/11/21 05:19 PM
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I (female) personally congratulated many men today. The females you know probably are not aware that such a day exist. So happy men's day to you. Hope you have a wonderful day.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 08:12 PM
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Unfortunately not many people know about the international men's day. I (female) congratulated many men today and none of them knew about the men's day. They were very surprised :) Btw happy men's day to you. Hope you have a lovely day.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 07:56 PM
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Well, happy stories are boring so you won't see too many of them on TV or social media. Also feminists are really loud so sometimes it might look like that we all think like them which is not true. Most of us know that most of men are wonderful - you love us, support us, protect us and sometimes even give your lives for us and your countries. And we know that most men will try to be the best that they can be. So let’s celebrate all that’s good in men, most of whom are … wonderful :) Hope you hav…
/r/MensRights18/11/21 11:49 PM
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It's Time to Thank Men for All the Love and Support! Happy Men's Day! I know that many men here think that we women do not appreciate you guys but most of us do. Thank you for being in our lives as wonderful partners, fathers, brothers and friends. We love you.
/r/MensRights18/11/21 08:22 PM
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'Men in western territory (and over the world) commit most of domestic violence and rape crimes.' No one is denying this however nowadays feminism is trying to show men and masculinity as something evil and fundamentally wrong. Yes, most of violent crimes against women are done by men however feminism portray every man as a potential rapist or abuser. Some men are really horrible however I believe that most men are decent people and they shouldn't be judged because a small percentage of them com…
/r/MensRights15/11/21 08:21 PM
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And where do you find racism? Do you deny the fact that in certain cultures women rights are not existing? If someone grew up in a country with sharia law, do you think they will have the same values and respect to women as europeans? Europe is currently being overwhelmed by a wave of rape committed by Muslim migrants. Particularly in Scandinavian countries, the number of rapes of white women and girls is rising. About 58% of men convicted in Sweden of rape and attempted rape over the past five …
/r/MensRights15/11/21 02:48 PM
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Well according to most surveys done in western countries, most women prefer to have male managers and supervisors. Also male bullies normally bully other boys at school while girls bully other girls. So if we talk about 'toxic masculinity', we should also speak about 'toxic femininity'. If you live in one of those western countries (Germany, Sweden etc) which have big numbers of immigrants who come from middle eastern or southern asian countries, then maybe this issue is more relevant in your su…
/r/MensRights15/11/21 12:51 PM
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I don't think that nowadays society is more sick than previous ones. Just due to social media every psycho can have a platform and followers. I have never heard any feminists laughing at such cases.
/r/MensRights15/11/21 07:16 AM
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I don't know who could laugh when a guy gets raped. Only a sick person could laugh.
/r/MensRights15/11/21 12:50 AM
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The number of newly married couples has fallen almost everywhere where couples can live together unmarried. China is not an exception. I doubt that Chinese women experience lack of suitors as China has 33 million shortage of women. 33 million chinese men don't have a chance to find a partner. If a man doesn't have a house or a good job, he is doomed to be lonely for the rest of his life. Women there can be very picky, also their parents do not let them to marry men who do not have money. So I re…
/r/MensRights15/11/21 12:38 AM
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I do not deny that many women get sexualy harassed, including myself, I've been inappropriately touched many times, however it applies to few individuals, not all men in general. Most men are decent people. 'Patriarchy keeps women away from great careers' Maybe in middle eastern countries but definitely not in western countries. How men prevent women from achieving their goals? We are free to choose whatever we want in life. If you haven't achieved what you want in your life, you are the only on…
/r/MensRights14/11/21 09:55 PM
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What is toxic masculinity? Can you define it for me please? And how does patriarchy work in western countries? Sexism is also very vague term which I constantly hear.
/r/MensRights14/11/21 09:31 PM
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And what is wrong with men in our society? I mean not with few individuals but men in general in western countries?
/r/MensRights14/11/21 09:18 PM
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Dravidian communities were living isolated from each other. Most likely there were no big nations or centralised governing bodies at the time so you could not expect any resistance. Also aryans came to India to settle while British people came to India to exploit it. They didn't try to make you British. Also most likely there were many separate dravidian dialects or maybe languages. The same way Latin was spread in nowadays Spain or France, or anglo-saxon language in celtic communities. Same way…
/r/MensRights04/11/21 07:39 AM
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So you don't think that nations living in the same subcontinent could take over some words especially if they share the same religion. There are also some ugric-finnic, arabic, basque, estruscan and etc words which were borrowed by Indo-European speaking nations, also vice versa. And that Indra part shouldn't have been there as I copied that part by mistake. There was a picture of Indra there, so that's why it stated 'above'. It was just explanation of the image.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:43 PM
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Well when I google, I get a bit different info : Devas are benevolent supernatural beings in the Vedic era literature. It is not necessarily that you use the same words today in modern indian languages. Sanskrit - देव deva, balinese - dewa, bengali - debota, hindi - devatā, javanese - déwa, kannada - deva, malayalam - devan, nepali - devatā, tamil - tevarkal, telugu - dēvuḍu.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:32 PM
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Well when I google, I get this info : Devas are benevolent supernatural beings in the Vedic era literature. It is not necessarily but you use the same words today in modern indian languages. Sanskrit - देव deva, balinese - dewa, bengali - debota, hindi - devatā, javanese - déwa, kannada - deva, malayalam - devan, nepali - devatā, tamil - tevarkal, telugu - dēvuḍu. However I cannot argue about pronunciation at all as I cannot speak any of those languages.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:31 PM
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Well when I google, I get a bit different info : Devas are benevolent supernatural beings in the Vedic era literature. It is not necessarily but you use the same words today in modern indian languages. Sanskrit - देव deva, balinese - dewa, bengali - debota, hindi - devatā, javanese - déwa, kannada - deva, malayalam - devan, nepali - devatā, tamil - tevarkal, telugu - dēvuḍu.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:29 PM
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Is it a case in modern indian languages or sanskrit?
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:22 PM
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They are still divine beings. These words in latin, lithuanian or sanskrit predate christianity. They were used by pagans as well to describe gods and goddesses. Also if they have slightly different meaning in sanskrit, which is not that different is absolutely understandable as languages change.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:21 PM
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But what does it actually mean in sanskrit? These words in latin, lithuanian and sanskrit predate christianity or maybe even any monotheistic religion existing today. So talking about christianity is pointless.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:16 PM
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Well tell this to language experts. This is not something what I made myself. This is a widely accepted opinion between most of academics who study ancient and modern languages around the world. Languages stop existing or transform into new languages. Nothing stays the same.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:13 PM
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And what does it mean in sanskrit (not in hindi) ?
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:07 PM
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And what does devatas mean in sanskrit?
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:07 PM
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Well I found this: Deva (/ˈdeɪvə/; Sanskrit: देव, Deva) means "heavenly, divine, anything of excellence", and is also one of the terms for a deity in Hinduism.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:06 PM
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Sanskrit didn't derive from european languages and european languages didn't derive from sanskrit either. They all derived from a mutual language which no longer exist. Indo-European languages -- including Hindi/Urdu, Bengali, Punjabi, Persian, Russian, English, Spanish, Gaelic and more than 400 others -- make up the largest language family on earth. No one actually knows where they came from and genetics show that they came from somewhere to India and Europe at the similar time. Before them com…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 10:07 PM
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The ancestors of living Native Americans arrived in what is now the United States at least 15,000 years ago, possibly much earlier, from Asia via Beringia. Also analysis of maternal genetic lineages revealed that Aboriginal populations moved into Australia around 50000 years ago. So yes they managed somehow to get there.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:56 PM
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Well I cannot write it in original script as I don't speak hindi, sanskrit or any other Indian language. And all sources I have found didn't include the original script. You can also find thousands of european words which are very similar or even sometimes identical to sanskrit.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:54 PM
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Well we focus a lot on Greek history as there are many scripts which survived up to this day, also it had a huge impact on the whole continent. However no one is denying that indian civilisation predates european civilisations. We just share the same ancestry, I mean just part of our ancestors. And no one is saying that aryans were europeans as it's nor truth. We just share common ancestry. Also as you mentioned 'devathas', have a look at this : English: God gave teeth, God will give bread. Lith…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:48 PM
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People managed to get to Americas and Australia, I'm sure they could find a way to get to India as well.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:40 PM
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It's definitely not the case. Common genes are most prominent in the societies which didn't intervene with each other for centuries. Also it is even known approximately when they split. Also from comparing languages, scientists know that they definitely split after agriculture was established as most words in European languages and Sanskrit are very similar or in some cases identical however words for metals are completely different, so it is known that they separated before iron age.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:38 PM
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I'm not sure however it's just a term used internationally.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:33 PM
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Well how about the Harvard University's analysis i sent to you? Ancient DNA from populations linked to the common origin and subsequent spread of Indo-European languages. These genes are especially prominent in Eastern Europe (slavs especially). And it's especially visible in male lineage - certain genes are passed over from a father to a son. These people, mostly male came to Europe, also to northern India and intermixed with local women. And also linguistic finding are really fascinating. If y…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:31 PM
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Haha thank you :)
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:18 PM
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No one is saying that they came from Europe. Actually there are many debates about this topic as no one really knows where they came from. They just had same ancestors. They established different societies after they split. Rigveda was written most likely after they settled in Indian subcontinent. I never said anything about it being european. I only said that these Indo-European people invaded India as they did in Europe. From genetics and also linguistic we know that those people also came to …
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:18 PM
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It's a widely used term in the academia around the world. It might have a different meaning in India.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:10 PM
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Well I'm very healthy without spicy food as well. Also you most likely genetically adjusted to spice. That probably wouldn't be the case for me.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:09 PM
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Aryan, name originally given to a people who were said to speak an archaic Indo-European language and who were thought to have settled in prehistoric times in ancient Iran and the northern Indian subcontinent. The word itself derives from sanskrit, which as you mentioned means 'noble' however this term is used not only for aryan people of India but also for iranian people.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:06 PM
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Well my understanding of 'tasty food' is very different
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:03 PM
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It can also cause damage to the lining in the stomach, which in turn can cause gastritis, stomach ulcers and even intestinal disease such as colitis.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:02 PM
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https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/09/190905145348.htm
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:55 PM
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https://www.thehindu.com/sci-tech/science/how-genetics-is-settling-the-aryan-migration-debate/article19090301.ece This one is also interesting https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/09/190905145348.htm Sorry had to edit
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:47 PM
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All monotheistic religions are intolerant.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:46 PM
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You can have a taste of boiled, grilled or roasted vegetables. Food made with loads of spice taste more like spice rather than cooked vegetables. Plus also I use some spice but not to extent when spice surpass other flavours.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:39 PM
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Vegetables are healthy without spices as well. I use some spices as well however not much and my food is not spicy.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:34 PM
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So you deny all genetic studies and Indo-European theory?
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:33 PM
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I had to google to find out what sabji is :)) well it looks good to be honest, is it spicy?
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:25 PM
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Well, you do not have to eat them raw all the time. There are so many options to cook vegetarian dishes.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:23 PM
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Fair enough. On top of that you also have sikhism, buddhism and islam. You have quite many christians as well.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:22 PM
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There are so many genetic studies which prove that.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:20 PM
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I'm vegetarian, I love vegetables :)
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:15 PM
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Well like almost every other empire. Monarchs together with armies who were made of people of that kingdom. Human history is full of this crap :)
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:14 PM
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India is great being diverse, other countries are great being homogeneous :)
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:06 PM
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Aryan people came to India. It's upheld by genetic and linguistic studies.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:05 PM
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Because I love the actual taste of products, it's rich enough for me :)
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:03 PM
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Well I guess then you would be able to say the same thing about most invasions in human history.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 08:01 PM
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Well India with the monarchs at that time did invade other territories. The Chola Dynasty which ventured into the north-eastern states of India and then went further - to Burma (Myanmar), Indonesia, Malaysia, Cambodia etc., Also Lalitaditya ventured out to conquer the kingdoms which had attacked Kashmir. When his campaign ended, his rule stretched from Karnataka in southern India to Central Asia and beyond, to the borders of modern day Turkey. As a modern country, yes India has not invaded anyon…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 07:58 PM
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But it is so much different when most people share the same culture. Diversity is not for everyone. Tell japanese that they need to have many religions, languages and etc. They won't appreciate your suggestion :) they already have a rich and interesting culture, same for many european cultures.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 07:41 PM
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Well when aryans came to India, languages changed in most parts of India. Plus even if they didn't manage to change a language in the region, it is still an invasion.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 07:38 PM
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If you live isolated from everyone else then yes, it will most likely be the same but even in this case you will have exceptions.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 07:37 PM
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This is not about the stomach, it is about you eating habits which are normally formed by your culture and family. Almost all indian meals I have eaten were too spicy and I couldn't stand a smell of some of them. Even though I do not eat meat and India has many vegetarian dishes, I prefer middle eastern or greek cuisines. I also love spanish cuisine very much. Also because of spices you cannot taste an actual taste of products food was made of.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 07:35 PM
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That's how it was in the past - either nations conquered or were conquered. For the last centuries my country was conquered by stronger nations and many people were killed and exploited, and even though it influenced for my country to become the way it is now, the reality that most problems we face now are our fault.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 07:29 PM
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I don't see anything bad in being homogeneous. When people are homogenous in a country they have less problems. When you have many different religions or cultures which contradict each other then you are in trouble. Some people prefer Indian cultures, some European and there is nothing wrong in that.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 07:22 PM
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A country is a word conveying a sense of a discreet area where generally the inhabitants are ethnically and linguistically homogeneous. This is not a hard and fast rule and there are many exceptions. A kingdom or a domain of a king is an area ruled over by a monarch. What it has to do with our topic?
/r/MensRights03/11/21 07:17 PM
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Always? This is not true. Maybe there is a possibility however I know so many wonderful people from 'not so good' families. Your parents are a big impact on you however they are not the only ones. The whole society and surroundings play a big role in your life book.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 07:13 PM
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Well obviously you do not know much about other european countries apart from Italy, France or Britain. Europe has 44 countries, plus 4 Asian countries with european culture - Cyprus, Armenia, Georgia and Israel. The continent is very diverse and we have so many different cuisines, cultures, languages and festivals. I do not deny that India has an amazing nature, history, culture, music or food (even though I'm not a fan of curry and spicy food in general) and would love to visit India one day f…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 07:05 PM
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Hindus? Do you mean religion? So if a Christian country invades another Christian country is absolutely fine right?
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:57 PM
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You are mistaking that neanderthals are not your ancestors. All people who live outside Africa have neanderthal genes to some extent as sapiens and neanderthals interbred. As you are asian you most likely have a bit of denovian genes as well. Even if you didn't have any neanderthal or denovian ancestors (which you definitely have) would it be justifiable of the sapiens killing them? Native Americans are not your ancestors either and mine neither however I cannot justify what was done to them. We…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:55 PM
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I respect my family and try to follow morals I was taught as much as I can however I would never judge a person by their family. If a person is a murderer I wouldn't assume that all family members must be bad. I would not reject a possible partner just based on his family. Also my neighbours or other people I know wouldn't judge me if I left my husband fir whatever reason. If people want to go separate ways then it's only up to them.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:44 PM
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If it was believed at one time that Dravidians were the original inhabitants of India, that view has since been considerably modified. Now the generally accepted belief is that the pre-Dravidian aborigines, that is, the ancestors of the present tribals or Adivasis, were the original inhabitants. Who are indigenous? At some point in history neanderthals and denovian people were indigenous in Asia and Europe, then sapiens came and replaced them. Same thing happened when aryans or dravidian people …
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:36 PM
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I'm happy for you. However these things do not happen in our society. We do not need to fight anyone to be able to choose whom to marry. Women here are not submissive because we were raised differently.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:14 PM
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Yes, so this is my point - I love my life in Europe.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:11 PM
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Every country in the world is a result of some kind of violence. At some point one tribe invaded another one and then another one and ended up dominating the territory they call now their homeland. Are you talking about India? Were aryans very peaceful when they came to the region? During the reign of Rajaraja Chola I and his successors armies invaded Sri Lanka, the Maldives and parts of Southeast Asia like Malaysia, Indonesia and Southern Thailand of the Srivijaya Empire in the 11th century. Th…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:11 PM
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It's not only news, I have few Indian friends who live in Europe and are very unhappy because their parents want them to marry a partner they choose. Some have a backup plan where to run away once they don't have another option. One friend recently told me that she agreed to marry a man her parents choose because she is tired of fighting. She is super unhappy. They also say to me that I have no idea 'what it means to have asian parents'. And this applies not only to women. Same goes for men as t…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:00 PM
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But at what cost? I personally not afraid to stay single because I can take care of myself. And this is only because I live in a country where I can do this. I have all means to do this.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:53 PM
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No one justifies that. All nations in the world have bloody and horrible past. All nowadays countries and nations are result of some kind of violence. We no longer live in the past. Those people who did that are no longer alive. I also wouldn't agree with your statement that the US doesn't have culture as they do. They have contributed so much to human civilisation. American history is full of both good and bad things.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:50 PM
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Well my father also treats me with respect and most fathers here as well.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:40 PM
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However it doesn't stop them to mistreat them. Of course in every society you can find abusive people but we are talking about how people react to it. If a woman is afraid to leave her husband because you are pressured by your parents or neighbours, it doesn't sound good to me at all. It might be acceptable for you guys but not for me.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:38 PM
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It was acceptable of course however it's no longer acceptable. We live in 21st century.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:34 PM
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Yes, it was however we no longer in middle ages. A women's position in medieval Europe was way worse that an Indian women's life today. Things have changed.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:33 PM
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Well I'm not trying to change anyone. I even couldn't do such a thing even if I tried. I'm just grateful and appreciate my country and western culture. And also we do not roam streets naked as this is illegal :))
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:31 PM
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Good for you guys.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:28 PM
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Well never heard about it, I will definitely research it :) Human history is full of horrible and nonsensical things. I'm just glad that we have come to the point were we no longer believe in things like that.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:25 PM
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Well I'm glad to hear this :)
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:22 PM
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Well it depends on your understanding what is vulgar. The Indian dresses would be vulgar and indian women would be characterless in Saudi Arabia. In southern european beaches no one even cares if a women is topless. Well cultures are different - you won't understand us, we won't understand you. Your perception and norms depend on the environment you were brought up.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:21 PM
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Fair enough. You don't have to like our culture, a perfect culture doesn't exist. I'm just really grateful that I'm was born in Europe :)
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:16 PM
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Well I've heard so many stories about Indian parents disowning their daughters because of this reason. Not only from media but from some Indian women. How can you compromise with someone who beats you? 'oh sweetie give him time if he doesn't kill you then he might change one day'.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:13 PM
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You can dress however you want here. It's up to you. You have free will to choose. Not every woman dresses vulgarly and those who don't still date and marry. There are so many indian women who wish to have this freedom however there are not many westerners who want indian restrictions and customs in their life. We admire many things about India however not this one.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:08 PM
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It is so sad.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:04 PM
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Of course there are abusive husbands everywhere however we do not have any pressure from our society and families to stay with them. Our family members would be the first ones to encourage to leave them.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:02 PM
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Sorry to say this but it sounds really miserable. I will never understand asian parents - how society's opinion can be more important than your child's happiness. This is something what I can't understand. I've read stories about girls committing suicides and parents saying that 'she did a right thing that she killed herself, good that she didn't leave her husband' or parents forcing their daughter's to stay with abusive husbands. You live just once so why anyone should sacrifice their happiness…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:43 AM
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I cannot agree with you here. Everyone should have a right to look and decide with whom they want to be with without their parents pressuring them. If my parents didn't like my partner then it would be their problem as they are not going to live with him. I cannot sacrifice my happiness so I could please them. I'm lucky that my parents absolutely love my partner as he is wonderful however if one day I would think differently, at least I could only blame myself for my bad decision. Btw why can't …
/r/MensRights02/11/21 11:36 PM
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Yes, you are right. I'm happy that arranged marriages do not exist in my society and women and men here have a right to choose their own partners.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 11:18 PM
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Well I guess you most likely live in middle eastern or southern asian country. I personally know many couples where a woman is older than a man, in some cases even more than 20years older. Of course most women here date/marry up to 5 years older men.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 11:13 PM
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Fair enough. I know some women like this and I always found 'not even a year older' thing a bit weird. But I can see that there are guys like this as well. I myself think that choosing a way older man for a long/lifetime relationship is crazy however there are some people who think differently. Dating a few years older man is fine, but anything above 5 years difference is a huge no no for most women I know. But you are right everyone has their own preferences.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 11:03 PM
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No, I mean if a woman feels the same way about older men.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 10:43 PM
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Fair enough, you absolutely have a right not to date anyone, you are an owner of your own life. I respect that. In general in the world there are more men than women, so you are doing a favour not only to yourself :) plus if you live in the US/Canada or UK it is a very wise decision not to get married as you have horrible divorce laws which I find repulsive. Also I don't blame you being tired of toxic feminism there. Well I team up with many men in life, my partner, father, brother, friends and …
/r/MensRights02/11/21 07:59 PM
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'My point is, you seem to expect to solve our problems in a way that benefits women,' If a man wants for his partner to be financially independent and not to rely on him, this would solve the problem. Both equally would share responsibility and cost of raising a child. You expect for a woman to be able to work, raise a child, do house chores and take care of her partner as you mentioned before at the same time? At the same time you probably expect her to look good, to have nice body and give him…
/r/MensRights02/11/21 07:18 PM
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I cover my colleague's work when they take a paternity/maternity leave because people have kids. They also take days off once they kids get sick or they are on holiday off school. I also cover their work once they get sick even though they harm themselves by smoking and eating junk. So yes, I expect them to cover me as well once I go on my maternity leave if I have a kid one day. That's mutual help for each other. Also companies very often hire people for a temporary time as well. In order not t…
/r/MensRights02/11/21 06:40 PM
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You won't be able to feed your baby every 3 hours and have sleepless nights. If you are a builder, surgeon, pilot, driver or etc you won't be able to do that. Plus if you do not sleep and have to work, your productivity will fall and you will become a burden to the company. Once the baby can crawl, you cannot leave without keeping an eye on him (not her as those ones shouldn't exist in your utopian world). You know how delusional you sound? Have you ever been even close to a newborn child? Keep …
/r/MensRights02/11/21 05:13 PM
1

' artificial uterus is just around the corner of clinical testing' that's fine, but once the kid is born who is going to spend time with a newborn? Let's say a man who no longer can work due to being a parent and needs to quit his job, how is he going to be able to survive? In this case only rich people will be able to have kids.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 04:59 PM
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How anyone is able to work when they bave a newborn baby? Once the kid is a bit bigger then you can leave him/her at nursery and you can go to work. I would even prefer if my partner would take a paternity leave instead of me once I give birth as I earn more than him however he wouldn't be able breastfeed the baby :) 'woman should offer monetary reimbursment for that' shouldn't both pay for this? The baby is not only her child, both parents are responsible. Well about company loss, most people h…
/r/MensRights02/11/21 04:50 PM
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Haha, so should women stop giving birth? It would solve the work problem, right?
/r/MensRights02/11/21 04:28 PM
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What do you mean take care of your partner? He is an adult person who should be able to take care of himself, the same should apply for a woman as well. House chores and child care should be equally done by both partners. I definitely agree that women shouldn't give birth before they have a financial independence. If both men and women would have to go on paternal and maternal leaves, women would be able to build their careers and be independent.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 04:20 PM
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It depends where you live. In country I'm from we do not have a 'housewife culture'. Both men and women work and build their life together. We do not have those horrible laws which only favor women, at least not to that extent. If a married woman earns more, their fortune is still equally divided to both parties.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 04:12 PM
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I agree that women should earn their own money. I don't like an idea that many women are dependent on their husbands /partners. Even if you have a great partner who is willing to support you financially for the rest of your life, what are you going to do if he dies or leaves you when you are no longer young and don't have any work experience. It is better for a woman herself to be independent. Of course when you raise a child it is hard to keep up with your career that's why both men and women s…
/r/MensRights02/11/21 04:06 PM
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It's absolutely fine as long both people are willing to go into relationship however I really do not understand women who date way older men. I personally would never date a man who is more than 5-6 years older. Don't find older men attractive at all.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 03:55 PM
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That's fine however if a woman has the same opinion then it's fine as well right?
/r/MensRights02/11/21 03:52 PM
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I definitely support feminism in most of non western countries. While most women in western countries can enjoy equality and sometimes even privilege, women in most African and Asian countries do not have equality.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 03:28 PM
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I think this is the best suggestion. It's already 21st century, why people want to get married at all when you can live as a 'married couple' without getting married. I'm a woman and I really don't understand why women are so obsessed with getting married.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 03:14 PM
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It is a case everywhere in the world, not only India. Globally, death by suicide occurred about 1.8 times more often among males than among females. Males die by suicide three to four times more often than do females however suicide attempts are way more frequent among females.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 03:09 PM
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I think a fact that women in general are more careful than men might be one of the reasons why they invest less. Men are more willing to take risk than women. This also might be one of many reasons why an average woman earns less than an average man. Edited mistake
/r/MensRights02/11/21 02:56 PM
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Well if a woman doesn't want to have a child and an abortion is not an option it is a wise decision not to have sex at all. Don't see anything wrong in that.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 06:47 PM
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Oh my, you poor little thing 😢 it must be tough.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 09:29 PM
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What is NK model?
/r/MensRights02/09/21 10:12 PM
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It works for most of people, believe me you live much better than an average north korean 🙂 100% equality is impossible. Nature is unfair.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 10:04 PM
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It at least works. It's not perfect, it's actually a really bad system but there are no alternatives. All others systems are worse. Which countries in the world are most successful? All capitalists. How can you really believe that something what didn't work in the past dozens of times, will work now? If your faith in communism is only based on your wish for it to work, it's not good enough. If you want to destroy capitalism you first have to know with what you're going to replace it.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 09:56 PM
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Which part? Unfortunately I'm a big girl now, no longer believe in fairy tales, santa and utopian ideas. However please tell me how you are going to achieve real communist haven? How are you going to make sure your 'real' communism will not fail the way it failed in dozens of countries? Please share with me those secrets which all those millions of people didn't know in the past?
/r/MensRights02/09/21 09:48 PM
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There had never been a real communist country as real communism is just an utopia, nothing else. To have a perfect country you must have a perfect society. People are not perfect and they will never be. I admire your optimism, I really do 🙂
/r/MensRights02/09/21 09:41 PM
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My only point was that I have a doubt that's it. I said before if it's true then she should be punished for this. For example if I read an article that a Saudi woman was arrested for false rape claims and was sentenced by sharia court, I would definitely have some doubts. Maybe I would be wrong however it wouldn't stop me from doubting sharia law. Would it make me islamophobic or racist? I apologise if I offended you or someone else as I can assure you it wasn't my intention. I hope you have a l…
/r/MensRights02/09/21 01:21 PM
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I didn't say that. I said that in India men are valued more than women. I said 'I wouldn't be surprised if'. It's more about the cultural and criminal situation in India and the fact that women are treated badly there. I didn't say anything about him being indian and doing this. This is your assumption darling not mine.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 12:49 PM
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Well if you call me racist just because of assuming you are british then it's definitely proves my point that unfortunately you guys see racism everywhere. Even though there is no racism at all. Same for sexism etc Also do you deny that India has this problem? It is not politically correct to say that right? We all need just close our eyes and pretend that those things do not happen, as its so 'racist'. And we do not want to be racist. Let's leave all Saudis, Indians etc - to do their thing beca…
/r/MensRights02/09/21 12:42 PM
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Where did I mention 'race'? Pointing out at certain problems in certain countries is not racist. Stating that one race is better than other is racism. And now by your 'mate' I'm sure you are either British or Australian. Is this assumption also racist? 😉
/r/MensRights02/09/21 12:23 PM
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Let me guess you are definitely from US/UK/Australia or Canada. Why racism? Why everything for you guys is always caused by racism? It is a fact that an average family in India prefers to have a son, especially in rural areas. A son is more valuable because he is going to stay with you and take care of you when you grow old. In the mean while your daughter will leave you and will take care of her parents in law. Because of this way of thinking asian countries like India have a huge shortage of w…
/r/MensRights02/09/21 11:31 AM
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Capitalism is bad but it's still better than anything else. And jumping to capitalism doesn't answer the question I asked. You cannot answer it as you know that there has never been a successful communist countries. People on the left are normally really nice people who really want good things for everyone however they are only dreamers who keep dreaming about unachievable things. People on the conservative side are maybe not as nice as the ones on the left but they at least realists.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 07:12 AM
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Well it's India, human rights are non existing there. Men there have more rights than women however it's other way around in western countries. I support feminism everywhere in the world except for western countries because I believe that women have equality there and in most cases are even privileged.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 07:07 AM
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Ok show me at least one successful communist country example then. All countries which try to implement communism eventually become authoritarian regimes.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 05:52 AM
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Many countries tried to build communism and all of them failed. Show me at least one successful communist country which managed to achieve prosperity. Look at what is going on in Afghanistan, communism caused Afghanistan to become a failed country.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 05:44 AM
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If it's true then she should be punished for this however knowing that it happened in India I wouldn't be surprised if he really raped her and later she was forced to retract her statement by her family.
/r/MensRights01/09/21 07:24 PM
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From all Eastern european countries, russians are the most nostalgic about communism and soviet union. Once Putin said that Soviet union fall was the “greatest geopolitical catastrophe” of the twentieth century however he also stated 'Whoever does not miss the Soviet Union has no heart. Whoever wants it back has no brain.' I must agree with him here. Communism idea is beautiful however it's unachievable. It didn't work anywhere in the world and it won't work in the west either. It only leads to …
/r/MensRights31/08/21 05:28 PM
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I believe that male rape statistics do not show real numbers because rape of males is still a huge taboo. Society and service providers often react differently to male victims based on their sexual orientation and the gender of their perpetrators. It may be difficult for male victims to report a sexual assault they experienced, especially in a society with a strong masculine custom. They might be afraid that people will doubt their sexual orientation and label them homosexual, especially if rape…
/r/MensRights29/08/21 12:38 PM
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I understand your point and it would be up to you who you allow close to your children however the law mentioned before allows men to work with children, it only forbids a male teacher to assist a minor in the bathroom without female colleague's supervision. If a minor is taken to toilet by female member of staff only, I don't think that the society will become more feminine. I agree with you that it is very discriminative however if it helps to save even one child from sexual abuse, I would sti…
/r/MensRights28/08/21 09:35 PM
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If you were a parent of a child and would need to pick one person who would assist your kid in the bathroom wouldn't you really mind if it was a guy? I personally agree with this law, even though I understand that it's discriminative law however children's safety comes first. I understand that majority of men are decent people but you never know. Women abuse kids as well but numbers are incomparable. Also paedophiles very often choose jobs which give them an access to children. I know that it's …
/r/MensRights28/08/21 05:37 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/642458/rape-and-sexual-assault-victims-in-the-us-by-gender/ Not sure how reliable is the source to be honest, I just Googled 'how many women and men get rape statistics'. I found more info about European countries as I live in Europe. And statistics in Europe show that around 20% of women and 4% of men have experienced some type of sexual assault since the age of 16 and approximately 90% of those who are raped know the perpetrator prior to the offence.
/r/MensRights28/08/21 10:15 AM
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Listen I do not try to understate the extent of the problem for any of the victims of rape regardless of gender however your statement that men get raped almost as much if not even more by strangers is not really correct as more women get raped in general. For example in 2019 52336 American men and 406970 women reported being raped. So using the data you have provided- 15,1% of male victims were raped by strangers = 7903 and 9.1% women = 37034. Also don't forget the fact that men are more likely…
/r/MensRights28/08/21 09:53 AM
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Haha, well your statement shows how you guys in the US or Canada generalise the whole Eastern Europe. Eastern and central Europe is so diverse. I come from one of the Baltic countries which is a member of EU and Nato. We absolutely support Navalny and Baltic nations and their governments along with other ex communist EU members were the biggest critics of Russian government when Navalny was arrested. For example the Belarusian opposition leader fled Belarus to Lithuania and currently lives there…
/r/MensRights28/08/21 01:24 AM
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I have lived in few european countries, also traveled a lot and met many people of both sides. I'm not leaning to any side to be honest. I'm just saying that your so called 'educated' people who are leaning towards one side is only an American and few other countries thing. Ex communist countries are actually biggest critics of communism because they know how damaging communism is in practice. It might look very attractive however it doesn't work in practice. There is no such a thing as socially…
/r/MensRights28/08/21 12:55 AM
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Good, now women should feel so much safer because of that. If you have a daughter, are you going to tell her 'don't worry to walk at night alone sweetie, no one will attack you unless of course you know that person. Don't be more cautious at night if you meet a stranger, be more cautious if you meet a friend, partner or acquaintance'.
/r/MensRights28/08/21 12:37 AM
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My point was just that people complain too much. I don't see much difference between feminists complaining about men and men complaining about horrible women who use them for money. By the way I have many hobbies, thank you :) Sorry for wasting your time. Have a lovely day x
/r/MensRights27/08/21 10:46 AM
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Well I don't know what world you are living in but I do not see left speaking much about it. I really don't. You are very incorrect about russian influence in most of ex communist countries - most of them, especially those in EU are especially critical when it comes to Russia - Baltic countries especially (I'm from one of them). The difference between the academia in western countries and the academia in central/eastern countries is that one has experienced that and lived in this delusion by for…
/r/MensRights27/08/21 05:26 AM
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The predominantly left leaning academia is an American and some western European countries phenomena. Western countries learned only about atrocities done by far right european movements in 20th century however they do not know much about left wing crimes. An interesting thing is that academia in post communist countries oppose left wing political parties the most. I by the way come from one of those countries and when I look at western countries believing romantic social utopian ideas I get tru…
/r/MensRights26/08/21 11:36 PM
1

'It's certainly a possiblity isn't it? And they can't leave it out if they want to be honest.' Well possibility is not a fact, however academia, left wing political parties and movements, media and feminists state that is definitely the case. And about your statement that I didn't recognize that I was discriminated - maybe most of women actually focus too much on how they are oppressed and very often exaggerate and see oppression there were actually it does not exist. I agree that there are mill…
/r/MensRights26/08/21 10:46 PM
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I stated the reasons in one of my previous replies. Well social studies data is very often bias. The conclusion very often depends on the person's doing the survey, experiment etc political views and opinions. The fact that an average man earns more than an average woman is a fact however the statement that it is caused by discrimination and privilege is just an opinion. When people hear about a pay gap they naturally come to a conclusion 'it must be discrimination, what else could it be?' witho…
/r/MensRights26/08/21 10:18 PM
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Ok, so I can see the data stating that white men earn more and end up in high positions. I do not deny this fact but where is an evidence that it is caused by discrimination or privilege and not other reasons? In addition knowing that 75% of American academia is leaning left, gives me some doubts.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 09:58 PM
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Do you mean the survey?
/r/MensRights26/08/21 09:22 PM
1

I agree but a guy fighting a guy have a bigger chance to win than a woman. Plus we all know that most of the attacked women get raped. It happens to men as well however women get raped much more often.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 09:16 PM
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Most social studies are very bias. It depends on the person doing the study. I'm sure that feminists would give you hundreds links supporting their statements. My life experience observing people doesn't let me easily to believe the 'data'. Well I might have different experience as I grew up in more conservative society than most western countries so my opinion most likely is based on what me and my surroundings have experienced. In my native language we do not have any degrading words for promi…
/r/MensRights26/08/21 09:06 PM
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Well that's what most feminists would say as well 'It is not whining, it is stating the facts'. I do not want to offend anyone but I'm so sick of everyone being so 'oppressed', 'attacked' and 'discriminated' and hearing 'women that', 'men that'..
/r/MensRights26/08/21 08:51 PM
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Ok women: 1. An average women work less hours than an average man for obvious reason - motherhood. 2. Men work most dangerous and disgusting jobs - does a firefighter shouldn't get more than let's say a receptionist? More than 90% of all employees dying at work are men. Shouldn't we have equality in this statistics? 3. Men are more willing to be relocated to other countries or areas. Women because of family reasons are not willing to be relocated as much as men do. 4. Women make different life d…
/r/MensRights26/08/21 08:12 PM
1

Yes but she cannot know your intensions. It is a natural thing for a woman to be cautious at night when a man is walking behind her. You hear horrible stories and become paranoid.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 07:57 PM
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Well in the world I grew up definitely called promiscuous women sluts and still do. Even women themselves call 'these type of women' sluts. Guys normally cheer for guys when they lead a promiscuous life. I do not like feminism but I completely do not agree with this statement.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 07:51 PM
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Oh no, not again - more restrictions. You can't make fun of anyone these days. Soon the world will be so boring and sarcasm will be a criminal offence.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 07:39 PM
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Men toilet? Why should it be available in men toilet?
/r/MensRights26/08/21 07:34 PM
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All this crying 'money earning computers' sounds similar to women always whining 'he sees me only as a sexual object'. Sick to hear both sides constantly whining.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 07:31 PM
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Do you actually need a safe space? Do you feel unsafe? Do you need these spaces because you feel unsafe or because women have them?
/r/MensRights26/08/21 07:21 PM
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Well it's a mainly an American problem which is spreading to other countries. This is caused by marxist ideas which say that there is an oppressor and the oppressed one. So the oppressor here is a straight white man and the oppressed ones are everyone else. 75% of academia in the US is left leaning, so looking at the students these days future doesn't look promising.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 07:19 PM
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Most of all cases of homelessness in western countries are caused by alcohol/drug abuse regardless of skin colour or gender. An upvote from me :)
/r/MensRights26/08/21 07:12 PM
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Evidence you have provided looks more like an opinion than actual facts. Men earn more than women in western countries not because of discrimination, there are many reasons for that. If a white man earns more than a person of colour or a woman it is not necessarily caused by discrimination.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 06:58 PM
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The solution is not to get married at all. If I was an American man I would not get married because of those draconian laws.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 06:46 PM
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Of course not however not in every case. If you let's say use a knife against man and woman, who will have a greater chance of survival? Even a fact that men run faster can be crucial in some cases. Wearing a long skirt is also not very useful when you try to run away. I do not say that women lives are more important however I do understand why people very often prioritise saving women and children over men.
/r/MensRights15/08/21 02:25 PM
1

Well she didn't have a great husband in the first place so no wonder she hates men :)
/r/MensRights15/08/21 01:54 PM
1

Maybe there's something wrong with your taste in women? How come you end up dating really insane women?
/r/MensRights15/08/21 01:26 PM
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Yes, however she is the one who needs to go through very unpleasant changes of her body, , carrying a baby for 9 months, going through enormous pain, breastfeeding, sacrificing her career and plans. Women sacrifice their prospects of building their careers and being financially independent. So it's not an easy decision to make.
/r/MensRights15/08/21 12:37 PM
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How about the fact that women are physically weaker and cannot defend themselves as well as men do?
/r/MensRights15/08/21 12:17 PM
1

Every woman? I would understand if you said many women, but seriously every woman? Not every man in a relationship is a wealthy man and not every woman is a gold digger.
/r/MensRights15/08/21 11:35 AM
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