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| 10 | [deleted by user]There was a Saturday night live skit that addressed this topic in the 90's. Go to the bar. Find a guy that you would like to sleep with and say, "hey I'd like to sleep with you tonight." That should be about all the advice you need. You're very welcome! | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do women only describe my looks as `cute’ instead of `hot’ or `sexy’?. Also how do I increase my sex appeal?I ask the same question! Why am I always handsome? I once was promoted to sexy and demoted right back to handsome in the same text! | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | I don’t go out to bars much because I really don’t drink much and I hate dating apps - what do I do? How do I meet women? (28M).Maybe challenge yourself to strike up a conversation with one person per day | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | She can’t make up her mindYeah...it didn't just slip her mind. | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Any tips on how I can slide into a woman’s DMs?If only I used such creativity cultivating sales leads at work. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Any tips on how I can slide into a woman’s DMs?Keep in mind...I live in the same town I graduated HS from in a class of about 1400...so pretty much everyone I'm connected to on IG has at least known who I am for 30 plus years. But...yeah lol. I've even gone so far as to show up at church 👀. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 10:54 PM |
| 6 | Any tips on how I can slide into a woman’s DMs?IG is my online dating. You have to prepare and strategize though. You have to develop some something to reach out to them. Two examples that worked for me: one girl was posting stuff every once and a while about witchcraft so I went outside a museum of witchcraft and took pictures with a friend like we were there to check it out. I posted those to my story. Next time she posted something about potions or spells, I sent her a message and asked if she'd ever been to the museum. My current gf (who… | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 08:42 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Well you obviously have a good sense of humor lol. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:58 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I think a good rule of thumb is if you are asking yourself if you messed things up beyond repair... You probably did. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:54 AM |
| 17 | Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out?Idk...that's an advanced maneuver | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I would bet that he secretly wants to be in a more intimate relationship with you and when he was tipsy his mask slipped a bit. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 05:23 AM |
| 1 | how many of you actually have a rotation ?Yep, I just went from 3 to 1 on purpose. I think I found my unicorn! | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Balding attraction killerShave it. Bite the bullet now or later | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 05:00 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]🦍🚀🌝 | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 04:16 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Change of plans...let's go straight to the banana stand. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 04:09 AM |
| 23 | [deleted by user]Ooga booga | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Sex With 1 Girl A Day Doable?Yeah, you get it | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Sex With 1 Girl A Day Doable?That is a good way to wind up with fewer options because you would have to cancel last minute. That's a dick move. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Sex With 1 Girl A Day Doable?Everytime I think I have the perfect trifecta weekend lined up something always seems to get messed up with at least one of the plans. So...I've yet to complete the Friday, Saturday, Sunday trifecta...2 days though... | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | why do so many dating books recommended you just approach random girls?Because the alternative is approaching random guys...? | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 02:36 AM |
| 2 | A shit test I couldn't fully respond to.Idk what to say but...you definitely played that wrong smh... | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 07:03 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Lol | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 04:31 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Real talk! | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 04:30 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I'm with you! | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Gagging for you? | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yep, people love talking about themselves. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:37 PM |
| 3 | During sex can u use your pubes to stimulate the girl clitoris?Get that under control. I had a gf once tell me...nobody likes pubes stuck between their teeth. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 05:38 PM |
| 3 | What’s the best way to lead into doing the dirty with a woman in my room?Say these words...I need to show you something in my loft. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | What are the peak dating/HU years for a man?I think that is different for everyone depending life's situations. I got married young and divorced after 16 years so...36 to 42 for me. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else get anxiety after you send a girl a message or is it just me?Nah. It's exciting | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop over sharing and blabbering on?Read Emotional Intelligence | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop over sharing and blabbering on?Say anything that can't be replied to with a one word answer. Start sentences with things like...tell me about a time when...help me understand... | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 03:07 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Idk different people are attracted to different things. I shaved my head and grew a goatee once and noticed a different type of woman was checking me out. As far as with the ladies...I did pretty good at 280 pounds and do pretty good at 200. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]You miss every shot you don't take | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 06:30 AM |
| 2 | I was snooping in my girlfriends phone and found this, what now ?I always say don't ask questions you don't want answers to. You already did...it's time to cut her loose. | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 11:08 AM |
| 49 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?Okay, it's on the official record. | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 06:26 PM |
| 24 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?That does help | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 06:25 PM |
| 14 | Delete her numberGo to bed | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 11:00 PM |
| 1 | My friend who I was flirting with starts Dating someone else, and it is getting awkard between usTheir relationship of course! | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 03:07 PM |
| 2 | My friend who I was flirting with starts Dating someone else, and it is getting awkard between usSabotage? | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 01:03 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]How you doin? | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Seduction vs Escorts?*instant gratification | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Is "Just be yourself" actually good advice?Not if you're an ass | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionSumo platform diving champion 🏆 | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 01:39 AM |
| 14 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionI don't mean to brag but...I'm a pretty big deal in Japan | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 01:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you talk to shy girls?I think that's probably your best approach | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 11:05 PM |
| 11 | If you were to go from a 7/10 in attractiveness to a 5/10, would you rather this decrease be ENTIRELY due to a decrease in your height or ENTIRELY due to a decrease in your facial aesthetics?Height | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 03:48 AM |
| -8 | What to do when you’re in the receiving end of simmering (pre ghosted)Yeah, move on. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 04:56 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveI've always said leverage your female friends to make introductions. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 04:32 AM |
| 3 | ApproachHell, you got the number. Work it from There. Are you expecting her to say I'm dtf too in case you were interested? | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Best way to reject a girl when she approaches to get together?What do you mean by her needing to get where you are? Physically? Mentally? You lost me there. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 10:49 PM |
| 2 | [ Removed by Reddit ]No | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | [M, 20] How can I best use my good looks to my advantage?You need a dose of Dr.Zog's confidence serum. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Help-Married woman asked for my #Does she have your number even? | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 02:23 AM |
| 6 | Signs when she is not interestedAh that's an important distinction | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 05:26 AM |
| 9 | Signs when she is not interestedI think I'm trying to date an exception to the rule. She is a busy woman. Powerful job, politics, fund raisers, sits on the board for a few large organizations and on and on...but she's been making herself available pretty regularly for about a month. So I got that going for me. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 05:08 AM |
| 12 | Signs when she is not interestedLeave them on read | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on meeting girls at sporting events?I think it's a good idea. Certainly increases the odds of having things in common. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 12:41 AM |
| 2 | How can short men sleep with many women?The short guys I've seen successful in life and with the ladies own it. Some have big attitudes and it works others confidence works. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 12:35 AM |
| 60 | Signs when she is not interestedand nearly every time I do that I get a message from them within a week...wyd? | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 11:12 PM |
| 3 | If you want to be more than just a friend, then stop acting like her friend on dates. Don’t be ashamed of being sexualWell put. I had this reality hit me midway through a date Saturday. I shook myself and made my move. Success. | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Guys please help i have zero gameBet on you | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Have you had a serious relationship start from clubbing?No | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Lay - friday 13th (freaky friday)Not law of numbers! You're in the zone! | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 05:15 PM |
| 0 | 22M virgin contemplating suicide.I think you posted this in the wrong place. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 03:51 PM |
| 13 | Asked a girl I’m attracted to out for ice cream and she suggested her friends come with?What if this? What if that? Some times you just have to do stuff and see how it works out. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Need some tips on how to meet girls in collegePledge a fraternity. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Got scammed thr online girlsSubtract the amount of money you gave him from your checking account ledger and move on with your life. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Make your bedThank you | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Girl goes cold after 4 datesLearn from this and move on | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 01:10 PM |
| 2 | What to doYou said "True. Alright, have a good afternoon." That sounds like you are ending the conversation. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 12:57 AM |
| 3 | What to doIt's something you would say to close a conversation not to continue it. Ask open-ended questions. Questions that cannot be answered yes or no. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 11:36 PM |
| 3 | What to do...good afternoon. Kinda seemed like, okay, piss off... | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Are Dating Apps Worth It?No | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 03:52 AM |
| -1 | Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps?In the wild | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 12:57 AM |
| 2 | The Best Advice For Getting WamenI think you spelled Ramen wrong | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Cooking a meal for a girl I’m seeing… but I’m a poor cookOrder carryout. Warm it in the oven and pretend you cooked it. Leave that part of the evening to the experts. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 01:13 AM |
| 6 | have you ever been interrupted by concerned strangers mid-set?You're putting obstacles between you and your goals. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Matched with a girl I used to know on tinderI am proactive to this potential situation. I put in my bio...if I know you in real life I'm going to swipe right just to make things awkward lol. In your instance, it would seem like hey what have you been up to for the last 2 years would seem like a decent enough opener. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 07:53 PM |
| 14 | Matched with a girl I used to know on tinderI think sorry I meant to swipe left would be off putting. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How should I Cold Approach women in my college so that I don't develop a reputation?If they hold eye contact - approach If your eyes meet and they look down or sweep the floor with their eyes - approach If your eyes meet and they look up - don't approach If your eyes meet and they look left or right - maybe...maybe not | /r/seduction | 07/08/21 12:56 PM |
| 6 | How can you avoid getting overly exited (obsessed) when you are dating a girl that has everything you are looking for?Just go down that road a few times and have it flame out in glorious fashion. That should get that under control. | /r/seduction | 07/08/21 12:21 PM |
| 0 | How do you become more confident?Fake it til you make it | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Are there any advantages to being a short guy when cold approaching?Sneak attack? | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | I met my match and ended thingsEnjoyable read | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 03:38 AM |
| 2 | What does it mean when your girl does not want to have sex or give an oral when you meet?Gotta be more privacy than in the car no? | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when your girl does not want to have sex or give an oral when you meet?Why don't you go in her place? | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Weed 🌱 on dates - good or bad idea?My brain gets all weird on me when I smoke...2nd and 3rd guessing everything. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Self esteem-issue, guys I need your help pleaseStupidest thing I've read on here all year. Congratulations 🎉 | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 01:42 PM |
| 1 | I have a BIG crush on my past student. HELP4 year age gap is huge lol? | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 01:22 PM |
| 1 | This is a last resort. Dating apps have just buried me and made me hate myself so much.It is impossible to get positive results when there is nothing but negative thoughts in your head. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 01:16 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I have tried and can verify | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Men and women cannot ever be just friends.This is true because one of the two always wants to sleep with the other. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Any sexual CNC foreplay ideas?🤔 | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | how do you make people interested in you without having to flirt with them?Put a basil leaf in your wallet and cleanse your home with sage. What are you talking about? This is the stupidest question ever on the sub. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 06:46 AM |
| 2 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey statusGood post. | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How are people are able to hookup with people they met the same night?You're doing it right | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Anybody turned shit around at 30 ?Yes...at 42😳 | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 05:49 AM |
| 1 | I wrote a book about Seduction, and I don't know where to sell it.Maybe overdrive or consult r/selfpublish | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 01:13 PM |
| 8 | Does it bother you if a girl has mostly guy friends?Not sure why this is being downvoted...it's the truth. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 10:01 AM |
| 6 | 2nd date : invite her to my place directly?All of the above but just call it dinner | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 10:35 PM |
| 3 | What’s better to say?Then she could resell them. See you are helping. | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | girl's only school graduate and now a girl's only college student, so it's safe to say i need helpCase closed | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 09:51 PM |
| 3 | I’ve never been on a dateI know it's easier said than done but don't overthink things before or after approaching someone. | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 09:46 PM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]I'd say you are right | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 07:21 PM |
| 4 | Hey women of reddit. I want to know what perfume collection is a must have for guys that is irrestible to you.Cringe | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | I rejected a job with a good salary because the working hours were 15:00-00:00.And these hours is when i flirt with women on road.I've always said 2nd shift is for antisocial people | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Body countI have no idea 47 | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 11:09 AM |
| 0 | What’s ideal way to slide into a girls dms?From the side | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 10:57 PM |
| 2 | I have a date soon and I want it to end in sex. Any tips?I don't see anything wrong with that. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 06:05 AM |
| 3 | I have a date soon and I want it to end in sex. Any tips?I'm not sure women give the best advice on how to pick up women. But your strategy is certainly safe. You are not going to wind up being accused of being too forward. You're probably not going to wind up having sex in your scenario but maybe after a couple of more encounters. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 06:00 AM |
| 1 | I have a date soon and I want it to end in sex. Any tips?Start with the tip | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 05:56 AM |
| 5 | Flirtationship with coworkerAttention whore I think is the technical term | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 06:42 PM |
| 0 | How to tell your date offThis gets my vote | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | How to tell your date offHad a date... | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 12:32 AM |
| 59 | I have a weird habit where I give minimum attention or none to girls I’m interested in and casual attention to girls I couldn’t give a shit about.Opens door for all Reddit arm chair psychiatrists... | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:35 PM |
| 2 | I found out I can't drink Alcohol due to my acid reflux. I'm trying to go out to bars/clubs to meet girls. What should I do? I'm depressed. Any advice?Acidic drinks are probably not the best thing for someone with acid reflux. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:43 PM |
| 60 | What happened to my approach anxiety after 140+ approaches in 1 month.Isn't that the truth!!!? The ugly girl always drags the group away. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Girl from tinder wants to chill at her place. Any tips please?Start with just the tip | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 08:19 AM |
| 2 | How do I complement my crush without letting on I have a crush on her.Why don't you try letting them know... | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 07:10 AM |
| 2 | The apology barrierThese are people pleasers. You just need to tell them sincere positive shit about themselves. | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Seduction Method.I've found that the quickest, easiest way to connect with a female is through a personal introduction from a mutual friend. It gives you more room for error. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 06:10 PM |
| 4 | I am 26 and just hooked up with a 19 year old.The weekend trifecta. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 11:37 AM |
| 31 | Where should I cumI love the logistics flare!! | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 10:47 AM |
| 1 | I've been here for a day and that's what I observed.Sometimes you just need to go for it! | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | What are some techniques for a women? To approach a guy or text him?I'm going out on Saturday. Can I borrow your looks for the night. I promise not to damage it. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 11:42 PM |
| 1 | "Natural" dancing = The most powerful IceBreakerI so agree with this. The one thing President Obama taught me was you got to keep it in the pocket on the dance floor! | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Fun bets to make on a first date.I believe they call that a win-win situation LOL | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Folks, is this an L?You did the right thing. If they were so down for you to come drinking with them it should be no big deal to take a quick selfie. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I'm 28, male, read the rules of the game and all the other pua books but still have no game of my ownPractice makes perfect | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Nudes, Text, Question, Need HelpWhy are you wasting your time with this nonsense? | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out for dinner, things were looking good, then she casually tells me she has a boyfriend.You're ridiculous. I've pounded more hole than all of you bad advice givers put together. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 06:41 PM |
| -2 | Asked a girl out for dinner, things were looking good, then she casually tells me she has a boyfriend.This is all bad advice. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Asked a girl out for dinner, things were looking good, then she casually tells me she has a boyfriend.I think you did the absolute right thing by totally ignoring the boyfriend comment. If that relationship was solid she wouldn't be going to dinner with you. Escalate things quickly and you'll be in the catbird seat. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 02:54 PM |
| 3 | I’m a good looking dude but get no pussySounds like an SNL skit | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 05:12 AM |
| 1 | How to intrigue a girl on snapchat?Sorry bud. I got nothing. I'm not on the snap face or insta chat. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 05:00 AM |
| 0 | How to intrigue a girl on snapchat?Have you tried a 🦆 pic? | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Small situation with my exMaybe ask her if she'd like to be FWB. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 03:08 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Putting you in orbit right out of the gates. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 02:22 AM |
| 1 | I kinda stopped trying, and now I'm getting attention lolThanks for checking in | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 09:03 AM |
| 1 | What do you think?Sir, this is a Wendy's | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 05:50 PM |
| -9 | Guys falls asleep in my bed but doesn't want to cuddle??I didn't mean in the mood for cuddles pal | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 01:44 PM |
| 7 | Help a little brotherStop sitting on your hands and go talk to this girl. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 01:25 PM |
| 5 | Help a little brotherI would say it another way. Like is it just a coincidence that we keep catching eyes? | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Is "sliding" into the dm's outdated/weird?Apparently it is not outdated as I just had someone "accidentally" start sending YouTube videos of songs to my DM on Instagram. She's a cute girl so I replied with some ambiguous response. Fast forward 2 days and we've been messaging regularly. I guess it worked. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Im a bald, chubby 25 yo male with a beard. It's really kinda funny:It's funny you say that...people definitely have a type. I didn't realize this until I shaved my head a few years ago. I started getting eyes from an entirely different type of female. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 03:52 PM |
| 2 | How do women approach men they like?Well put. I was going to say something similar | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 03:25 PM |
| 40 | Interesting snap shot into mind of woman who cancelled on me.Maybe you weren't the only scheduled date she cancelled today...you did say she was an Instagram ho | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Ex gf [F 20] lies to me [M 20] about new bf and lies to him about meI was going to say just bang her but you put it a lot better. | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 10:10 AM |
| -1 | What to do if a girl DMs you but you are not interested?Leave on read | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 09:59 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]If you're sitting just touch them on their elbow or forearm when you're making a point. I'm not a touchy person either. You just got to get out of your own head and touch them. | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 02:16 AM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]Touch them flirtatiously and reassuringly while talking. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Update: Had one of the worst first date scenarios ever, but saved it by staying composed and in controlThanks for posting the follow up! | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 11:30 PM |
| 3 | How do you recover when you cancel on a girl?Of course she was annoyed. You would be too. However, any reasonable person would accept your reason and give you an opportunity to reschedule. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 11:07 PM |
| 56 | What do you do when people flirt with you?I act awkward and then realize she was flirting with me 15 minutes later. I then resolve to pick up on the queues next time. Rinse and repeat. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on thisYou are being kept in orbit for...just in case | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | im sorry guys but you can not play hard to get if you dont have a lot of options.Gene Simmons coined the phrase "fake it til you make it!" | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Need advice badly - 27 year old virginWhat do you have to lose? Text her with are you free on x day? Have something in mind and ask her. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 03:14 PM |
| 30 | [deleted by user]I've had 3 FWBs over the last several years and they were all girls I've known forever but didn't have a chance to hookup with before because I was married. All of them ended because they caught feelings. Post divorce I had a tiny black heart and void of emotions. I'm better now🤗 | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:17 PM |
| 2 | She sends me her photos, selfies, random tiktok videos ,but upon talking to her she only replies ''yes'' ''hahahahah' should I stop talking to her?What? I thought they were really interested in getting to know me! | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | what should i do?Maybe do something irl. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you approach a group of girls drinking at a table?From the side | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 04:58 AM |
| 152 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?This will never happen again. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | What do I do?Seems like dudes got a point. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 04:19 AM |
| 0 | Great confidence and approach but girls always seem interested in my friendsI'd rather be the least attractive of the attractive than the best looking of the ugly. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 03:45 AM |
| 75 | She sends me her photos, selfies, random tiktok videos ,but upon talking to her she only replies ''yes'' ''hahahahah' should I stop talking to her?Wisdom☝🏼 | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Girl reaches out after a few dates. How to properly respond?I have feeling you know exactly what she's looking for | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How to text a girl after almost a week of no textI like this the best☝🏼 | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Any tip on bio that DHV ?That's some good shit ☝🏼 | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Should you chat up with a girl in steam room?I'm going to give you the all clear for take off. If she's not receptive maybe say something like your family is from the Netherlands. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 11:22 PM |
| 9 | Girl invited another dude?Respond with Go Fuck Yourself | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 06:23 AM |
| 12 | How to make sex memorable for the girlPerfect! | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Is there any hope of salvaging this?There you go | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Is there any hope of salvaging this?Well, that's a very objective self assessment. I think you're 100% accurate. Maybe a few weeks and you get another swing at it. | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Is there any hope of salvaging this?Yeah...you botched that one man. I always try to be glass half full here but... | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallYep, look for the ring. If all clear it's fair game! | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallWhy didn't you go for a baker's dozen? | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 01:38 AM |
| 8 | Update ( date with girl from gym)🖖🏽 | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 02:58 PM |
| 3 | I have the hardest time with banter and witI never hear anyone talk about Vin DiCarlo's seduction program on Reddit. I'm the kind of person that likes to go into any situation with a game plan. His program was brilliant for me because it did just that. It laid out a way that you could profile females and once you have them profiled you are able to match them up with the right approach for the female you profiled. Once you embraced his process and profiled regularly you actually get pretty good at it. Oftentimes you can just look at someo… | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | I have the hardest time with banter and witBanter: absolutely. Wit: that's all whole different animal. It requires having foundational knowledge and then using words and ideas that aren't obviously related to create humor. All that while knowing the recipient has the same foundational knowledge to connect the dots and find humor in it. I guess the most important part would be to know your audience. | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | I have the hardest time with banter and witI'm on the dose for people with narcolepsy! | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 04:13 AM |
| 2 | I have the hardest time with banter and wit😂Sorry, that was my best advice. Gotta get those synapsis firing! | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 04:07 AM |
| 19 | I have the hardest time with banter and witAdderall | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else lose interest in a woman when she shows lots of interest in you?All these arm chair psychiatrists in here are out of line and way off base. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 09:06 PM |
| 0 | why do i attract the same type of womanI can relate to your post. I always assumed that women I was with would or should know I think they are attractive and cool. Next time, remind yourself to give at least two sincere compliments per time you are together. Make sure to be sincere and not just flattering. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 05:18 AM |
| 9 | why do i attract the same type of womanI don't mean to get all Men are From Mars Women are from Venus on you but...lots of girls need words of affirmation. If you aren't providing them unprompted then they are going to prompt you...often times by acting insecure. They are looking for you to reassure them. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 05:07 AM |
| 2 | I am 28[M] generally successful in life, yet inexperienced guy who needs your adviceYeah, definitely avoid the escorts. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 05:01 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Never play by the rules! | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 04:55 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]This isn't emphasized enough. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 04:51 AM |
| 9 | Forget what you read, just get out there and see what happensThis is some of the best advice out here | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 01:24 AM |
| 6 | Update (gym)🖖🏽 | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 01:18 AM |
| 1 | If I work on myself long enough that should increase my confidence, right?Not necessarily. | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 07:06 AM |
| 1 | What's your 'go to' move to sexualise an interaction that's too platonic?Perfect | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 04:01 AM |
| 51 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.I get it. My son is 6 ft 6 in and I always tell him shoulders back, head up. He's not going to hide from anyone at that height so embrace it. | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 10:17 PM |
| 67 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.That was funny! | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Trying to win a woman over is a ultimately waste of time. If she has a high level of initial attraction, things will progress naturally and easilyWell put. You can't make someone love you | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Trying to win a woman over is a ultimately waste of time. If she has a high level of initial attraction, things will progress naturally and easilyWell put. You can't make someone love you | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Am I just wasting my time?Escalate a little with some flirtatious touching, see how it's received, choose your path from there. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 07:07 AM |
| 10 | I’m in highschoolLearn to play the guitar | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 06:55 AM |
| 4 | 24 m. Cannot get a reply back from matches on tinder. FrustratedIt's a joke | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 11:08 PM |
| 8 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?You got that in 4 minutes ahead of me! | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 11:01 PM |
| 38 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?Bring condoms | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Successful guys; what hobbies or interests do you have?Making music seems to be a trend in these answers. Informative discussion. | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 07:58 PM |
| 7 | Successful guys; what hobbies or interests do you have?Time to write that novel | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 07:57 PM |
| 33 | Successful guys; what hobbies or interests do you have?I've always thought swing dancing would be a no-brainer way to get to know the ladies. | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 07:55 PM |
| 8 | Successful guys; what hobbies or interests do you have?Work, gambling errrrr investing...seriously though...I make music and spend a lot of time on the hiking trails. | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach women?Of course | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 07:08 PM |
| 9 | I love this subreddit, but i hate most of you.I haven't seen that here...but I don't have my glasses on. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 02:24 PM |
| 9 | Don't fake too much indifference. You'll become a slave to your personality and it may hurt youI think I get it. Essentially, if you act like you don't give a shit all the time you're going to miss out on opportunities. So...if you see someone you're genuinely interested in, go for it. Let them know. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 12:39 PM |
| 3 | There are a lot of posts of people who weren’t successful attracting partners and then were. For people who were once very successful attracting partners and now aren’t, what happened?This☝🏼 | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | 25 and I have no idea what to doI can relate to that. I want to be perceived as a good person so when I meet new people I become this non threatening friend type. Then I watch some prick make his move and succeed from the onset. It becomes troublesome to shift gears from non threatening friend type to alpha male conqueror. What I'm saying is, if you position yourself as a friend, you might wind up a friend. If you position yourself as interested in them in another way, you are more likely to manifest the results you're looking… | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | What are a few relatively small things that can seriously hurt your success?Posture | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 03:52 PM |
| 8 | Where are the slutty girls at?These answers aren't helping find the honey hole of sluts people! | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 08:07 PM |
| 3 | I'm horny and don't have a boyfriend.Well hello there lol | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 08:45 AM |
| 8 | My Most Successful Cold Approach TechniqueAppreciate the input | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | I keep making out with girls at the bar, but can’t closeI have a PHD level life's work of learning my lessons the hard way | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 04:58 AM |
| 6 | I keep making out with girls at the bar, but can’t closeKiss them | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | I keep making out with girls at the bar, but can’t closeThat seems easy enough to remedy. | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Got coworker number easilyThat's awesome to hear! | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 10:11 PM |
| 0 | How do you meet more nerdy women?Hahaha I was going to say that! You are a genius! | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 05:03 PM |
| 8 | Are these good enough signs to make a move?You have a reading comprehension problem. I was saying shoot your shot. Go for it. The signs are all there. | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 03:00 PM |
| 11 | Are these good enough signs to make a move?Those are code red, five alarm fire signs my friend. I'm an expert in your field of uncertainty. I used to get uncomfortable when a girl would laugh at everything I said...I'd think "This girl has a really low bar for humor. I'm not that funny. Maybe there's something wrong with her." | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Advice needed.Good advice. Shoot your shot. | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 02:11 PM |
| 3 | I'm a 6 .. My new GF is a solid 9. Today in an argument she pointed out this as a fact. Is this a red flag?Exactly what I was wondering | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 10:58 AM |
| 56 | I'm a 6 .. My new GF is a solid 9. Today in an argument she pointed out this as a fact. Is this a red flag?Hell yeah it's a problem. Better get used to that if you keep going down that road. | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 12:25 AM |
| 6 | she is playing hard to get - should i keep pursuing her?Done. Don't chase. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Grew a pairShe was living in your head rent free. You just evicted her. | /r/seduction | 01/06/21 12:38 PM |
| 2 | How to know if my boyfriend likes boobs more or ass ?Then he'll say both. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 03:12 AM |
| 2 | How can I be more charming & charismatic around my female friends? **Someday, Please help me on this**It could be as simple as asking, "Do you have a single girl friend that you could introduce me to?" From experience being the funny engaging guy friend...make sure they know you're asking them seriously. | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 06:38 PM |
| 4 | How can I be more charming & charismatic around my female friends? **Someday, Please help me on this**I suggest leveraging the female friends you have good rapport with for dates with girls they know and you don't. | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Want Her to Come Over? Have More to Offer Than just SexInteresting take | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 06:21 PM |
| 6 | You can't logically convince someone to find you attractive.Truth | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 4 | The number one trait you need to get laid.Yes! I have certainly talked my way out of scoring before. Same concept...I've talked myself right out of sales at work before. You have to just know when to shut up and close the deal. | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 05:34 PM |
| 4 | This girl put her legs up on my chairs leg rest. I jokingly grabbed her legs and threw them off. Then she smiled at me and put her legs back up. Is she flirting?Hello!? | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 05:04 PM |
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