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If she wanted you she’d make it easy for you. She isn’t because she doesn’t want you. Invest your time and money somewhere else. She’s wasting your time.
/r/seduction27/04/24 03:01 PM
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Ask around or look it up, maybe not, maybe so. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 03:00 PM
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Copy pasting: “Today, fault divorces are not as common. When a spouse files a divorce petition based on fault grounds, "matrimonial offenses" are commonly given as grounds for divorce. These fault grounds include the following: Adultery Abandonment for a certain length of time Prison confinement Physical inability to have sexual intercourse (if this condition existed before the marriage, but the spouse hid the condition) The other spouse has inflicted emotional or physical pain (cruelty) A criti…
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 02:31 PM
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“avoid alimony since we haven’t been married long enough” Bro. SIGN THE DAMN PAPERS AND END IT. She’s acting like this when she CAN’T get alimony? Can you imagine how she’ll act when she CAN? AND you can’t pay alimony right now? Don’t run the risk. Don’t move out the house, don’t leave the kids, but END IT. Preferably WITH FAULT, if that’s even possible.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 02:25 PM
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So log off your phone and take the time to fix it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/23 06:06 PM
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First off, let her go. There’s no point in wanting to be with a woman who doesn’t want to be with you (sexually or romantically). Best case scenario, she’s going to come back and treat you like a consolation prize? Or a chore? Or a placeholder until she gets someone else? Or a regret when she meets someone she really wants but can’t cause she’s with you? Man, Let it go. Next off, this is a win in terms of divorce. You’re 33, about to hit peak earning years, with no kids to custody or child suppo…
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 09:48 PM
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It doesn’t matter if you’re horny for them or not. I just told you the difference between your slut and the town slut. And it’s the “I’m an experimental freak in a relationship, but hate casual sex” girl. There are definitely people “who love to fuck who hate ‘variety’” and most men have a preference for those women for actual committed relationships. Also just because men prefer to fuck a lot of women does not mean they want a woman who fuck lots of men. You’re assuming your value to us is base…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:23 PM
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Wanting a low partner count woman to have sex with YOU a lot is not the same as wanting a woman who has sex with a LOT of other people. There’s a huge difference between wanting her to be YOUR slut and wanting the TOWN’S old slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:08 PM
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For casual sex, yeah. For relationships? Definitely not. And they will tell you that both in the bar and on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:02 PM
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The problem is ... you're a whiny nitpicker. Who cares if he follows some model who doesn't even follow him back? She doesn't know he exists. OH NO HE'S LOOKED AT PORN... just like everyone else over the age of 15. Worry about her cashing out of his bank account via onlyfans or zelle/cashapp or them messaging each other, not him looking at random pictures. You'd better be perfect making posts like this, by the way. If you want some picture perfect relationship, you need to be perfect. Regular Hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:54 AM
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Where's the "Perfect"/"Flawless Victory" sound effect they have in fighting games? Oh wait, Original Poster is probably against those too. She'll want you to work 24/7... unless you're carrying her designer bags to the Mercedes you bought her with your overtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:49 AM
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"Anyway, I have no spousal support obligation now, per the divorce order. I have been paying my ex's rent, bills, and other things since the divorce, because I love the kids, and if left to her, they would be homeless and starving." No. She would be homeless and starving. You would have custody.... "I found out she is buying lottery tickets, bought a brand new van (whick caused Social Security to cut her off from SSDI." ...Which you obviously should have. You should pay only the child support, a…
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/21 04:32 AM
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E.R already had complaints and multiple incidents. He wasn’t just mentally ill, he had a multi year pattern of behavior. It’s all on his wiki.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:45 AM
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I’m friends with multiple women I have zero intention of sleeping with, even if they literally called me up and ask. There’s girls I want be inside, and there’s girls I *don’t *. My lack of attraction doesn’t equate to willingness to spend time with them, especially when/if they’re decent company/helpful in other ways. I’m still friends with women from college (10 years ago) I have no intention of having sex with (never have). I won’t lie, it’s a lot easier to be friends with girls I don’t want …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:37 AM
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34, and this is it. The longer I’m single, the more money I make, the more money I save, the more investments I have, the more Italian my closet gets, the more German my cars get, and the less I am interested on gambling it all in divorce court on washed up spinsters and single moms who wouldn’t have talked to me ten years ago. And you can always tell who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:40 AM
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Are we talking “pleasure” or sexual pleasure? Half of the things you’re talking about aren’t related to women having an orgasm at all, which is the primary issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 02:02 PM
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That’s for YOU, though. Reality doesn’t care about individual opinions. The reality of the difficulty difference makes men with high N-count higher status than women with high N-count, irrelevant of whether you like it or not. As long as it is harder for men to get sex, they will be praised more than women at the same N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:47 PM
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Of course it’s fair. It’s easier for women to get sex. It’s harder for men to get sex. Here’s simple and obvious videos for proof: Man asking 100 random women for sex: 0 yes, 100 no. https://youtu.be/gxyySRgrYsU Man asks 100 random women, Vegas. 6 yes, 94 no. https://youtu.be/V81Ca54e4SI Man asks 100 random women Miami. 4 yes, 96 no. https://youtu.be/wlswoKFqVGU Women asking 100 random men for sex. 30 yes. 70 no. Almost 1/3rd. https://youtu.be/QBtF3I7fDfU Woman asks 100 guys on tinder for sex. 7…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:56 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s a problem per say, I’d say it’s a tactical flaw in the strategy. If your target is inundated with choices, he’s less likely to ever settle with you unless you’re significantly better than the other options... which is pretty much all the other women with a similar list of desirable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:49 AM
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The problem with this is the men women want to marry are so flooded with options they have little incentive trade in freedom. But I agree with your point completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:24 AM
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Right? All the party boys I know aren’t lying about their sex lives are loaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 05:31 PM
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Here’s the comment I was looking for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/20 08:22 PM
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Ask everyone in relationships if they're happy in their relationship (and let them respond anonymously without their partner present). That was the first question. Don’t want the other answers influencing replies to the first which is why it is first.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:50 PM
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Bad Strawman. Sex isn't the only basis, it's just significantly harder to have a happy relationship without sex as an expression of mutual partner attraction. See /r/DeadBedrooms and /r/relationshipadvice for more evidence than you'll actually want to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:38 PM
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Ask everyone in relationships if they're happy in their relationship (and let them respond anonymously without their partner present). Then ask them when they last had full sex with their partner and how often they do it, or better yet if its at the frequency they desire. ...Also ask them if they've had an affair or want an affair, if they'd like or are seeking a divorce, then if they're physically/sexually attracted to their partner. Since they're already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:28 PM
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All you have to do is go outside dude and see that most people are in relationships. And? Being IN a relationship does not equal being in a successful relationship. Sexless marriages, affair infested marriages, and divorces are all red pill memes for a reason. (and yes, all 3 problems are in some way, shape, or form related to attraction relative to other options)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:27 AM
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Ok... The point is that's where all the sky high standards are *actually* buried, in the "red pillers say relationship standards are sky high". It's not buried in the "honesty, loyalty, commitment, pays the check, has a job" list you're given up front, which makes this entire exercise pointless. It's buried in the fact you must first be attractive relative to the literally global amount of other options she has (or even just thinks she has) in both real life and social media in her 20s/30s when …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:10 AM
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Agreed. I read OP and thought “you realize everything they’ll say is predicated on attraction already existing?” When women list what they want in a man you should always add “and I’m attracted enough to bother” to everything they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:07 AM
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That a woman loves a man for who he actually is, and not what he gives her, that’s a huge assumption that isn’t true just as often as it is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 12:56 AM
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Age is the equalizer to online dating. Men in their mid 30s with their life, income, business, fitness, cars, and homes in order can date high quality women from 25-36. Women who are 35+ will find it harder to get high quality men they want to settle down. Sex will be easy, marriage difficult. OLD is unfair usually comes from men in their early 20s and guys with their life in disarray.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:21 PM
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Truth. Realized it after my crushes went through 20+ frat guys each in college. Most of whom said they hated frat guys before or during continuing to do it. 😂 But at 30 you couldn’t pay me to get married now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/20 10:15 PM
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They’re fucking lawyers man. They know every trick to fuck you over and get away with it in court. They also know the judges personally, often for years. It’s not even a matter of awalt, lawyers are like cops. If they’re not in your pocket you’re better off not even talking to them. Then make one TRULY vindictively angry at you? In divorce court? After you “merged families”? She knows tricks you haven’t even thought of to fuck you over.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/20 11:08 PM
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There’s a huge practical reason to swipe limits: charging guys to get around them. Girls swipe on less than 2% of profiles they see. Guys swipe on over 50% of them. So they put in limits and charge you for tinder gold or green or whatever. Then you can swipe all night and see who liked you first (which is single mother land whales if you aren’t built like a Greek good).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/20 12:19 AM
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The perceived decline of western women is why the MGTOW say they don’t want spouses. The decline into many women being “hoes” or divorcing men “frivolously” due to easy divorce laws lead them not wanting spouses, not the reverse. Most MGTOW I’ve talked to either were or once wanted to be married, they think Risk now is too high to bother with marriage (or in extreme cases, associating with women in general). Or they just lost shit loads in divorce court. Some would marry if those circumstances w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:38 PM
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Never give them cash. Ever. Just like homeless people and lazy family, just give them what they say the money is for.
/r/MGTOW09/05/20 07:26 PM
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Most MGTOW don’t even know they’re MGTOW, they just have an internal regulation towards marriage and the why attitude that comes with high risk towards dating.
/r/MGTOW01/05/20 05:11 AM
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YES. Their hobbies also include reality television and “exploring” Uber Eats fine selection menu with their girlfriend’s credit card.
/r/MGTOW07/04/20 06:24 AM
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Good catch, editing.
/r/MGTOW03/04/20 04:26 PM
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So is losing $15K to your rapist and the kid the judge insanely let her keep custody over. The median US weekly income is around $900*52= $44980/3 = $14993... that’s 1/3 gone, before taxes, before living expenses. And that’s if he’s even at median.
/r/MGTOW03/04/20 04:10 PM
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She won’t have 6 figures if she thinks cyber security is nerdy. Those types of people don’t get paid. You say you work cyber security I know you get real dough and have infinite career security... apparently this chick has no fucking clue where the money is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/20 07:04 PM
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War is best won against someone who doesn't even know they're at war yet.
/r/MGTOW22/01/19 03:43 AM
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The tinder penis train known as the cock carousel,
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/18 12:25 PM
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Social Media, Hypergamy, Tinder like apps, MTV culture, and hyper-sexualization of society created a race to the bottom, tbh. The shit cocktail finally perfect mixed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/18 09:23 AM
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That shit reworked my mind. And the higher your status the more your attention becomes valuable as you have less of it to spend on things that aren’t the empire anyway.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 10:32 PM
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"Then bam she tells you she misses you and wants things to return to how they were between you both in the past." I'd rather just shit test her by telling her "That's not possible, you have 3 kids that aren't mine and no money". And then get in my luxury coupe with Samantha, Lingerie model and Olive skinned Kate Upton lookalike, and drive away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/18 09:00 PM
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When the judge seizes your assets for turnover it won't matter if you are or aren't the father. "In some states, paternity fraud also happens through a process known as "the presumption of paternity." This happens when a man is designated by the state as the child's biological father simply because he and the mother were married at the time of the child's birth or conception. An actual law in some states, the presumption of paternity causes some men to pay child support on behalf of children the…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 12:20 AM
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At first I was unimpressed... then I was very impressed. That's what creative looks like.
/r/MGTOW14/06/18 02:12 AM
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Did you see this article linked in the relevant section of that NYP article? Outtakes: Today there’s a universe of disgruntled men, called the Manosphere, ranting online about how women only want a “Chad,” a euphemism for a good-looking, accomplished guy who can have any woman he wants and often has several. The Manosphere guys are widely mocked for their obsession with being a Chad. But what’s a Mr. Big except a Chad? ... The good guys on the show were inherently boring. Aiden, Steve, even Smit…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 01:20 PM
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Tennis is mostly cardio. Sounds like weight is his problem.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/18 08:11 PM
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