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two things. It's easy if you just persist.. and persist. It takes work. that's not what this sub is about. it's about the path of least resistance. banging your head against a brick wall doesn't make any sense unless that's the only kind of woman you can pull, or the only kind you're attracted to. it isn't good advice for anyone else. At the end of the day, they have to go out with a guy. not true, many women are single. many women are asexual. many women date other women. there's no REQUIREMENT…
/r/seduction05/09/18 03:01 PM
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studio apartment typically means only one room, so no separate living room and bedroom. usually just a bedroom, mini kitchen, and a bathroom.
/r/seduction05/09/18 02:54 PM
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Approaching doesn't bother me anymore. It's not getting the results that is bothering me. So I went looking at what I offer and it equaled nothing. Based on how you speak, I can see that you are still what this community refers to as "outcome dependent." You need to learn to just have fun chasing women and not let it effect you so deeply on an emotional and personal level. You have not built the armor, so of course every rejection stings. You aren't getting the outcome you want and you're lettin…
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:37 PM
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THAT is actually really bad advice my friend, you're telling an inexperienced dude to watch porn for sex tips? everyone knows porn is about as real as professional wrestling. like yeah its really happening, and yeah someone is really there with a camera recording, but it never works quite the same in real life.
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:32 PM
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You got the wrong attitude man. Believe me when I say I am sometimes in a similar place. I used to spend a lot of time in that place too, and i'm working on it every day. Believe me when I say that this dry period will pass. You need to focus on approaching. You need to get out of your head. You say you've spent YEARS bettering yourself and haven't reaped the rewards yet. You're beating yourself up over not feeling good enough for these women. You're in a negative headspace. Women can SMELL this…
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:24 PM
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disagree. ive had several LTRs from OkC, all 7-8s in my book.
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:35 PM
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Find something you have in common with her that you can share, and then combine that + some variation of "i'm gonna fuck you until you can't walk afterwards." Obviously just realize you probably won't bang every girl you use this strategy on, some get offended or try to make you qualify yourself super hard (and no girl wants to fuck a tryhard).
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:45 PM
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Depends on what type of girl she is. Others here have said some of this but I will explain it how I understand. If you swipe and she doesn't, and then you chase after her on social media, you are putting her in a position of power. This can work for you but only if she is the kind of girl who feeds on that kind of power. For example I swiped on this girl last week who I later looked up on instagram. She didn't swipe back but I sent her a pretty standard copy-paste message I use for this purpose:…
/r/seduction22/08/18 05:44 PM
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You're so fucking immature lol. I hope you're still pissing your pants drunk!
/r/seduction20/08/18 07:09 PM
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Here's a weird idea. Is it possible to walk the line between Alpha Lover and Provider Guy? I have a tendency to try and express both personas simultaneously. I'm also having problems lately (last 2 weeks) getting women to comply and/or follow through with dates they have already agreed to. I'm starting to wonder if the dichotomy you describe here is what is fucking me over. Is it possible I'm sending mixed signals? Is it possible that the effort required in keeping up both personas to the same w…
/r/seduction20/08/18 03:25 PM
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I'm so sick of reading the same post, word for word, posted multiple times during the same day, by different accounts. Can we get a moderator on this crap please?
/r/seduction07/08/18 07:32 PM
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Take it from a guy who’s respected a women for two years and not once did I get rewarded for that respect. THIS IS YOUR PROBLEM. You are treating women like a punch card at a frozen yogurt place. You think you can "respect" them (whatever that means to you) until they give you pussy. You are working on yourself, and that's good. It helps to be in shape, it helps to be confident, to be educated etc. But your attitude from the get-go is flawed. No woman owes you anything. Sex is not a reward for b…
/r/seduction07/08/18 04:32 PM
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2.) Overly Broad / Beginner Topic Posts asking things like: How do I approach? How do I get a number? How do I talk to girls at college? How/When do I kiss a girl? Without specifics, there is not much help we can give than "Read the sidebar," which already has guides and posts on this subject.
/r/seduction02/08/18 01:55 PM
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then don't say " u tryna get ice cream " because that sounds retarded. You: "hey what are your plans this weekend?" you're trying to narrow a window down without making it obvious what your plan is. if/when she gives you her availability, "well I was thinking about checking out this ice cream place on x,y [location and time] and i could use company from a cutie such as yourself, you down to get some free ice cream?" if she doesn't bite, you probably can't score with her through the ice cream pla…
/r/seduction31/07/18 01:59 PM
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It works for me. They usually get a little miffed but I just move on as if nothing happened and they get over it.
/r/seduction31/07/18 01:53 PM
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Be straight up without being dismissive. Just say something like "sorry but im seeing a few girls right now and tbh you're not really my type." If they get butthurt about the truth then there's not a lot you can do except lie. you don't want to be a liar, do you?
/r/seduction30/07/18 09:13 PM
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What this guy said.
/r/seduction30/07/18 07:51 PM
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I have found I get a lot more matches with no bio at all honestly. I've also narrowed it down to just 3 pics. Two of them are different instances of me hanging out with (male) friends laughing our asses off, and the final is a pic of me onstage playing guitar (i am in a band and play 1-2x a month).
/r/seduction30/07/18 07:50 PM
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I'm sorry, what? What do 16 year olds do where you're from? If she ain't down with ice cream is this really a girl you wanna date? Who the hell wants an expensive date at 16, you probably either don't have a job, only work part time, or only make minimum wage. There are BILLIONS of women on earth and a very large number of them are beautiful. Don't get hung up on Snapchat babe if she isn't cool.
/r/seduction30/07/18 07:35 PM
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You need help, buddy. This sub is about getting laid mostly, with a secondary relationship focus. I would try talking to a professional if you can.
/r/seduction30/07/18 07:15 PM
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Absolutely none of the shit you're worried about matters. If she digs you, get after it. You wanna feel bad about this in 6 months, that you wouldn't try with a girl because she had a fucking website?
/r/seduction30/07/18 04:32 PM
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For what it's worth, only one person in the house goes to college right now and we don't have parties. It's just a really cheap living arrangement for all of us. It's not a nice house, its not in a nice area, and none of us knew each other at ALL before living here. For me it's temporary because prior to this I was briefly homeless haha.
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:48 PM
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It's $500 all bills paid, which is next to nothing in Houston, TX where I live. But i also don't live in the best neighborhood and the house is in disrepair. It's not ideal.
/r/seduction27/07/18 08:39 PM
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2.) Overly Broad / Beginner Topic Posts asking things like: How do I approach? How do I get a number? How do I talk to girls at college? How/When do I kiss a girl? Without specifics, there is not much help we can give than "Read the sidebar," which already has guides and posts on this subject.
/r/seduction27/07/18 07:45 PM
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Yeah, sorry, I'm just not buying your story pal. You bang the hottest girls in Scandinavia by being a drunk. Nah, you're a terribly hubristic teenager living in a fantasy realm where anything you say on reddit that gets upvotes MUST be true. I'm actually laughing at your "tips." They're so entry-level. Maybe one day you'll be able to talk to women without pissing your pants drunk at the pool table of a dive bar.
/r/seduction27/07/18 06:59 PM
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It might work like a charm for you right now, with chicks in their late teens. And it might work in the future, with decidedly low-quality women. Idk, I bang 8s and 9s regularly, and I'm in my late 20s. The women that I am trying to attract aren't interested in fucking a dude who is drunk off his ass at the bar with his douchebag bros. The women I want to fuck are the ones that require skill. When you can get more pussy than you could ever want, you start being a little more selective. If i want…
/r/seduction27/07/18 05:54 PM
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I am literally only talking about these specific tips: Please stfu you guys who say that they can easily go to a party sober and pull girls. when you drink alcohol, things get so much easier. Face the truth, nerd you'll just enjoy yourself This is terrible advice for younger dudes trying to learn game. You're trying to bring all these other details into the debate that are strictly irrelevant. You're posturing on Reddit like you understand seduction but you're literally the antithesis of this su…
/r/seduction27/07/18 05:37 PM
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read the sidebar.
/r/seduction27/07/18 05:32 PM
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I'm sorry, what the hell are you talking about? I didn't say anything about "scientifically proven flirting techniques" or "following a 'push and pull' script." I would even say you are NOT acting naturally by getting drunk. You realize being drunk isn't really natural right? You're shooting yourself in the foot by thinking you got game when you drink every time you try to pull. Take off those training wheels sometime, let the approach anxiety build up, and then walk up to a 8-9/10 and try talki…
/r/seduction27/07/18 05:27 PM
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Fuck em. If you're paying rent you don't have a curfew. If you have a curfew you're not paying rent. Either you're a subordinate or a roommate, your stepdad doesn't get both. If he has a problem with that then get the hell out of there.
/r/seduction27/07/18 05:23 PM
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You're riding with training wheels and acting like you're some don juan. Your inexperience shows in how you need alcohol to pull women.
/r/seduction27/07/18 05:18 PM
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I didn't say make her lead. I said let her lead. If she knows what she's doing and she gets on top or something. Just relax and enjoy the ride. I've been told its kind of a turn off for a dude to act like he knows what he's doing and then be bad at sex. Most likely if you already got her in bed she's not gonna leave or stop fucking you just because you let her be in control. Also this isn't the last girl you're ever gonna fuck. So for your first time it's alright to let it just go the way it goe…
/r/seduction27/07/18 05:17 PM
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Just practice with him. He's not going to be the last dude you make out with, i promise.
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:54 PM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:20 PM
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TLDR. If you like her, ask her. Fuck whatever reason you have not to. What's more important to you, your happiness or some other bullshit?
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:08 PM
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If she has experience, let her lead.
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:42 PM
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I live with 5 other people in a 6 bedroom house. I bring a girl over maybe once every couple weeks. They notice but they don't care. YMMV.
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:33 PM
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You will never know before the start of an interaction if she will be interested. Even looking for IOIs can be misleading, some women just like playing with their hair or looking strangers in the eye. You need to just accept the fact that it can ALWAYS go either way. Once you have that ingrained into your game, failure becomes less about all the chicks you can't bang and more about honing your craft.
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:32 PM
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uhhh maybe you didn't get the memo, sweetie. a "dad bod" is hereby referred to as a "father figure."
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:28 PM
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If you're at a party with alcohol, just get fucking drunk. Please stfu you guys who say that they can easily go to a party sober and pull girls. Like sure, maybe you can go to a party and pull a girl sober, but when you drink alcohol, things get so much easier. Face the truth, nerd. Your confidence peaks, and you'll be able to conversate with anyone if you're drunk. To make things short, you'll just enjoy yourself. Garbage advice. If you need alcohol to enjoy yourself or to "make [game] easier" …
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:24 PM
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The longer you wait, the more likely it is that he will see you as just a friend. If you want his dick you're going to have to find a way to ask for it.
/r/seduction26/07/18 07:40 PM
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Let him know you're interested. Many men are bad at hints and subtlety. Just be upfront with him. If he doesn't like you he'll let you know.
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:29 PM
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I always say "So you don't have many pics where I can get a good look at you, what can we do about that?" They usually either link me to social media where there are more/better quality pics, or they send me a pic directly if we're texting/snapping.
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:21 PM
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2.) Overly Broad / Beginner Topic Posts asking things like: How do I approach? How do I get a number? How do I talk to girls at college? How/When do I kiss a girl? Without specifics, there is not much help we can give than "Read the sidebar," which already has guides and posts on this subject.
/r/seduction26/07/18 05:55 PM
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I can't believe this question is serious.
/r/seduction26/07/18 01:58 PM
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I've gotten a little better at targetting women I think will respond favorably and I get laid off of a random facebook girl (usually 8/10s) maybe once every 2 months. And those are pretty good numbers, so if you're hoping for better than that, good luck.
/r/seduction26/07/18 01:49 PM
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I have her number somehow Did she give you her number or did you get it through some other way? It has been 8 months, do you interact with her at all? Calibrate your approach based on your history with her.
/r/seduction24/07/18 06:35 PM
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I would generally agree to this but an interesting scenario happened to me this weekend. About 3 weeks ago i slid into this girl's DMs on facebook. She gave an initial reply but then when i asked her a question she went silent on me for a week and a half. So i unfriended her. I had nothing to lose; she was a stranger to me. She finally replied last week and then when she realized I deleted her she got hella butthurt. I explained that if i wait around for 2 weeks for a reply and get nothing I mov…
/r/seduction23/07/18 02:08 PM
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I still disagree, that the ultimate fear is the unknown. Because there are a great many things we know about, that give me greater fear than the unknown. In fact, the unknown excites me, because it is an intellectual frontier that I can explore. It's easy to say you aren't afraid of death when you aren't dying.
/r/seduction12/07/18 02:05 PM
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yes but why is the unknown scary? because you can die if you don't know what is coming. approach anxiety is like the fear of your genetics dying. because if you get rejected by this potential mate, maybe you won't get laid and won't have kids etc. it's all programmed into the biological imperative to breed.
/r/seduction10/07/18 03:29 PM
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