k82dan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Separation		k82dan	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/19 02:01 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Separation 3-4 times a week mostly chose it over more important things in life.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/19 03:24 AM
2	Separation She’s going to therapy also. I chose to do these things myself.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/19 07:44 PM
1	Separation Thanks appreciate that. I’ll be attending a A.A. meeting hopefully soon. Hope all works out for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/19 05:55 PM
2	Separation We have 3 kids and talked this morning and decided we will get an apartment close to the house. We will take turns rotating to and from the house when it’s our turn to have the kids (she can not legally take ownership of our house do to me being Native American and my/our house is on my reservation) we decided that buying a separate house isn’t a good idea due to the fact we would need to scramble to buy one and furnish it. And get attorneys involved.And we really don’t want to displace the kids…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/19 05:04 PM
1	Wife finally admits she needs to decide to move forward (one way or the other) after four months of no movement or decision. Going to our third counseling session today, hoping for the best, preparing the worst. Wish me luck! This post sounds like a subreddit advertisement. Maybe try and give him some advice instead of promoting another subreddit.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/19 09:59 PM
2	It’s happening I think Honestly you need to decide between her and your drug use. If your dealing with mental health issues seek professional help. If you chose drugs over her I can guarantee you will live the rest of your life in regret and end up using more. This is a moment in your life that you won’t get to do over so I suggest you look deep within yourself and decide what’s more important. I’ll pray for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/19 06:05 PM
1	It’s happening I think Get into A.A. or N.A you got to want it or it won’t happen. Addiction is hard I’m a ex meth user.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/19 04:37 PM
3	Wife finally admits she needs to decide to move forward (one way or the other) after four months of no movement or decision. Going to our third counseling session today, hoping for the best, preparing the worst. Wish me luck! If you love her still fight for her. Take that night out with no kids take that long weekend together. Try to be a better version of yourself. My wife told me she wanted a divorce on the 20th due to the fact I haven’t been the best husband/father after 14 years of marriage. I pleaded to her for 6 more months to show her I can be the man she wants/needs. I’m 10 days sober now and have my second therapy session this Thursday. There’s no guarantee she will fall back in love with me but I’m willing …	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/19 11:02 AM
6	Almost Ex-Husband Are you still in therapy ? If so I’d probably make this your number 1 talking point.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/10/19 12:27 PM
5	How to handle the inevitable insult fests of a live-in divorce? Is it worth taking a sit at her if it ends up being a full blown meltdown on her part?? And I understand she’s doing it to you but maybe just be the bigger man and there may be less drama?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/10/19 12:28 AM
2	Boy did i get myself into a mess... Just hang in there do the best you can and be strong for the kids. I know things may feel hopeless in these dark times for you but remember things will slowly get better. Try and not let her negative actions bring you down even though it’s hard. Stay positive listen to your lawyer don’t do anything dumb and I guarantee happiness will come with time. PM me if you need a person to vent to I’m no therapist or attorney but I can listen. Stay strong	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/19 02:05 PM
4	She finally called the police Enjoy time with the boy	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/19 02:32 AM
11	She finally called the police Way to stand your ground don’t leave the house no matter what.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/19 01:07 AM
3	Soon to be ex (of my brother) says she will drop false restraining order with false dv charges if he notorizes a statement allowing her and his daughters to move out of state or she will follow through with lying He should talk to his commanding officers and let them know what’s going on before doing anything. Tell your brother thanks for his service.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/19 11:31 PM
1	Just got the I want a divorce talk We were able to sit down today and talk about things since life was pretty busy this week. She agreed to give it 6 more months to see if I can be the man she married. I’ll admit it I have been selfish in our marriage and drink to much. So I’m putting down the Booz going to see a therapist weekly and give it my best. It feels really good to acknowledge that I had a big part in this situation. I will keep you all posted on my progress. I just hope I can make her love me as a partner again.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/19 11:25 PM
1	Just got the I want a divorce talk Thanks man	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/19 03:16 PM
1	Just got the I want a divorce talk Thanks	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/19 07:26 AM
1	Just got the I want a divorce talk Meeting is set for man day and I here the be polite and get along the best I can.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/19 07:25 AM
10	Just got the I want a divorce talk Thank you for your time and post I have the crying and breathing down pretty good so far.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/10/19 10:14 PM