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| 1 | women have it worse than men when it comes to being able to secure long term relationships when put to the test of time | Discussion | k_aevitas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 10:23 PM |
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| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?I think there's been a clear breakdown in comprehension on your end and going in circles. Once again, sexual fluidity exists for some people even many I'd say but not everyone, I never said 'everyone' and the fact you or anyone else would interpret something that literally is a failure of your own interpretation not mine. In language nobody is saying 100 percent for all idk why you are still arguing about that And what on earth are you talking about? you are denying history at this point if you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Where are all the straight women!?This level of vitriol against men is literally CAUSED by their actions, I am talking about men as a whole, not every single guy as an individual. How can women have any positive reaction to men when they see shit like that, you wouldn't either if you saw your female relatives and friends get that treatment. If you saw even 10 percent of the stuff these guys say to them you'd be out for blood. I've had comments from guys telling me to go kill myself, that they wanted to see me get raped, torn apa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Where are all the straight women!?Here's what the actual research shows btw "The argument that people have to be absolutely heterosexual is not backed by actual research is that the idea of sexuality being strictly “black and white” (100% straight or not straight at all) does not match findings in Psychology or sexuality research. Sexual orientation is generally understood as a pattern of consistent romantic and sexual attraction over time, not a perfect on/off switch determined by every fantasy, porn preference, or moment of ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Where are all the straight women!?I'm not sure how you don't see the contradiction in what you said. You just said sexuality isn't fluid but it is fluid for some people? That's literally what I just said. Ofc it's not every single person in the world however you aren't considering the fact of nurture vs nature. Just because you and your straight friends have never thought of it now or enticed by same sex attraction doesn't mean you wouldn't have under diff circumstances a diff era, without christianity, if you were born in ancie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?It depends where on the world you are. On the western world LGBTQ is extremely and heavily pushed. Growing up where I am in the west it was everywhere and this was 20-30 years ago it's far more intense now, all these people claiming to be trans as well. Either way I think sexuality has always been fluid though for humans or societies wouldn't have all had it at some point, but some more rigid than others. I would say though just because they carried out the motions of fluidity doesn't mean that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?Not sure if you meant to respond to someone else but I said the opposite..? I said men by far are the ones who are like id rather be straight or die kind of harsh mentality but I just meant OVERALL throughout humanity sexuality was fluid all around across the world spanning eons for either gender. Greek soldiers would have sex with each other before battles to improve bonds between each other etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?I also don't know if you come from some super conservative area of the world but I legit have barely come across straight women who told me they have never not once even entertained the idea of getting with a woman or seen lesbian porn or explored the idea, like almost nobody actually. Even the straightest girls I know told me otherwise like extreme I'd rather be straight or I'd die kind of thing is usually only guys who say that and it's from social conditioning too, throughout human sexuality … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?Not sure what your argument is. Just because it's set for you and your friends doesn't mean fluidity doesn't exist for others. From my experience and growing up I met more fluid people than people who were 100 percent straight . Most have at least even entertained the idea even in their head a few times even if they never acted on it what , do they lose their straight label card now? Also I wrote in another post in a response scientists and researchers don't even support that and if you say you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?I literally told you the issues, they don't go away just because you don't know how to read and wanting to ignore them. You sound like a total broken record at this point. Don't you have anything better to do? You are clearly not able to absorb basic information, when you can take two minutes to browse why straight women can watch lesbian porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?It's the fact they think a woman stops being straight for fantasizing about it sometimes and must be repressing her sexuality and secretly want to do it in real life, like what you are doing. It causes harmful rhetoric and invalidation for those people Plenty of straight women fantasize about it even guys do, that doesn't mean they actually want it in real life in most situations it's just a curious fantasy they try to visualize to see how they'd feel about it that's all Also you really don't un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?I looked that up as well and yes but it's SIGNIFICANTLY way more common with man on man sex it's common sense and obvious and statistically proven | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Where are all the straight women!?I get you don't get anything out of lesbian porn that's not what I was saying though. You were saying you actually openly watch and enjoy graphic gay porn as a straight woman... But two guys fucking each other in the ass how on earth is that a turn on for you as a straight woman? It's like the most unmasculine thing a man can do , at least when two women are at it they maintain their femininity. By aesthetically pleasing I am not saying you are sexually turned on from it I'm saying you can stoma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?I'm a woman and gross and ugly is not the same thing. Gross to me is being actually disgusting no hygeine, calling someone gross for being ugly is totally harsh when they can't always control it. Can you answer my question though ? If to the extremes , which one are you choosing? I have a feeling you would get with the woman at that point most straight women dont think she's equal to a gross guy that's not how it works. A gross guy has many definitions and ranges but in theory would be absolutel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?You just said you'd choose a gross man to have sex with over any woman at all, I was using the worst case examples obviously . What else does gross mean to you? Haven't you seen those creepy gross men that make your skin crawl and don't feel safe around? You are saying you'd still rather have sex with him than an average to beautiful woman you can at least trust ? Just wondering if gun to your head legit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Where are all the straight women!?How on earth are you grossed out by lesbian sex but then can literally stomach seeing guys take it up their ass by another guy that is revolting lol. Women are far more aesthetically pleasing , two guys doing each other in the ass is traumatizing and I'm bi myself . No hate against gay dudes but I don't want to see it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?I think we have to acknowledge that sexual fluidity definitely exists not everyone is 100% straight or gay and women are more fluid than men however just because a woman decides to try out lesbian sex and didn't mind it doesn't automatically put her in the bi category imo. Anyone can carry through the motions and even if it's not someone you are attracted to, the physiological reactions in the body can still happen if someone keeps touching and stimulating you. They may enjoy the overall experie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?I think we have to acknowledge that sexual fluidity definitely exists not everyone is 100% straight or gay and women are more fluid than men however just because a woman decides to try out lesbian sex and didn't mind it doesn't automatically put her in the bi category imo. Anyone can carry through the motions and even if it's not someone you are attracted to, the physiological reactions in the body can still happen if someone keeps touching and stimulating you. They may enjoy the overall experie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?Are you ok in the head lol ? Seriously think about that for a moment if you had to choose between an absolutely disgusting old hideous mentally unstable Smelly homeless guy versus a kind nice average to beautiful woman who is clean, you would still do the homeless guy??? Wtf you are gonna get a severe UTI infection from the dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?Imagine having to choose between some horribly gross smelly old homeless man or an average to beautiful woman if you had to choose to kiss or have sex with one, it's not even a contest. Guys seem to think straight women are as grossed out by sexual fluidity like they are and most aren't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Where are all the straight women!?Hands down even the straightest woman I've known said they'd absolutely sleep with another woman than some disgusting old ugly creepy man as well, like the latter is absolutely traumatizing and yes invasive and guys don't understand how disgusting that would be for a woman to get over. At least women can be beautiful and do self care, it just won't do anything for straight women but they will not be throwing up and making a scene like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?That's a load of bull Most straight women are way more sexually fluid than a straight guy. Many fool around with other women as well they just move on and accept they aren't into women but most won't throw up or act like it's the worst thing in the world that's nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like itWhat horseshit. So whenever thousands of comments online from manosphere and redpilled Men online telling a woman she's ugly gross fat expired recreational use only pump and dump list goes on, that's trying to be helpful is it ? Even If they talked to other guys like that on the regular they would likely at some point become hospitalized after they fucked around and found out with the wrong guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 03:22 PM |
| 3 | How do I go about letting men know that I have certain financial standards when it comes to dating someone seriously without seeming like a gold digger or hurting feelings?That's perfectly reasonable actually make sure that he doesn't have debt and such just put something in your profile it can be written tactfully like Non negotiables: please be financially responsible and have an active career, I'd like to build a family one day so this is important to me etc Something along those lines. Be prepared to know it's going to weed out any guys who are looking for flings or hookups if that's what you want temporarily | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/26 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Where are all the straight women!?Tbh lots of younger men are actually attracted to older women too that whole MILF fantasy is prevailant so it does seem to be really strange there is a division amongst them but even if they like it's usually for sexual purposes only anyway. Seriously men say well women should have been better at picking and choosing and they wouldn't have gotten into that mess blah blah even though I've seen and experienced guys who literally what do absolutely everything peacock around for months sometimes yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:11 PM |
| 6 | Where are all the straight women!?It really shows that misogyny is an everlasting problem to tackle indeed.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Where are all the straight women!?You are the type of low quality man that would bash a virgin woman for being too picky and now she's expired and old, like what do women have to do to actually win with you people? There's no way to and it should be kept that way because ain't nobody fighting for you to match such bs expectations. The way of the world is you are not entitled to a woman's love body or anything, she's not obligated to date or have sex with anyone she's not attracted to and life is not a fairy tail. Shit happens to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Where are all the straight women!?If women could remove their attraction to men and be rid of it to be spared from this agony I feel like many would because that is just absolutely tragic and unfortunately shit I see guys post and say ALL the time even many of the nice ones who claim to be nice deep down think it too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 11:08 AM |
| 4 | Where are all the straight women!?The same reason anyone else man or woman who is still single beyond 30s. Many think life has to be the same for everyone or they fucked up or something severely is wrong with them but that's not reality. Maybe they had severe trauma growing up, maybe they were married or had a partner but they died or cheated on them etc list goes on and on. Or they were preoccupied with school and life and didn't have finances to be able to. Also I would question the stats I mean the vast majority of marriages … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 11:04 AM |
| 9 | Where are all the straight women!?The level of vitriol and rage I see so many guys have against women is actually scary and sad. I literally follow this beautiful hot fitness model lady she's like 40 years old she posts nice positive videos things that empower women and a healthy lifestyle and literally I see hundreds to thousands of comments from men who are saying the worst things possible to tear her down saying that she's old gross expired Haggard b**** too late to get a man or kids you name it all . She's really strong to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?It's definitely the fantasy thing influenced from porn but tbh a lot of bi women really are into it. I lost count of how many would even try to lie to get me to get into a threesome with them and their guy and it pisses me off like i don't want your Crusty ass bf, some of them I question if they are even actually into women and bisexual themselves or just lying to get me with their partners it's a fetish for sure. Female cucks exist it's actually more common than male cucks I believe . I'd be op… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?Just curious Are you a man or a woman? I think for me if I'm truly in love I guess it doesn't matter but it would definitely irk me and would concern me to a certain point and he'd have to get an STD test . Stereotypes are just that for a reason, like I said it's not all of them but they stereotypes come from some form of perceived generalized reality that came from somewhere and the ones that I've seen are exactly those stereotypes. Their life If they use protection and are single and want to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 10:40 AM |
| 1 | How do I go about letting men know that I have certain financial standards when it comes to dating someone seriously without seeming like a gold digger or hurting feelings?What is the minimum income that you're asking for here and if you're making your own money why does it matter how much he makes as long as it's decent enough and he's not in debt? I think that's the first question to answer because I think finding respect and love is more difficult than financial security in my experience not that you are obligated to settle for anything you don't want to. If I was you I would just put it on your dating profile somehow right away to weed any out so you don't hav… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/26 05:24 AM |
| -1 | Where are all the straight women!?Oh I never hooked up with that guy at all it was just someone I met while I was on a trip, totally platonic I am not attracted to him in the slightest. Also regarding promiscuity and std rates, this is what I meant compared to straight men. Across large surveys in North America and Europe: Gay men (on average) tend to report more lifetime and recent partners than straight men. Bisexual men often fall in between, but results vary a lot by age, sample, and how “bisexual” is defined (identity vs be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 01:15 AM |
| -2 | Where are all the straight women!?I didn't say it automatically makes one a cheater it's just kind of a high risk from not just my own experience but even his own words as he's been with other bi it's just statistically they really are the most promiscuous I read that somewhere. I question if he is actually bi but he said he started off gay but he does find women attractive from time to time and does hook up with them he's just very picky and is much more popular with men. Most girls don't want to date or hook up with bi guys, h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Where are all the straight women!?I'm glad it worked out for you I guess and hopefully he is legitimately loyal , I just speak from my experience with bi guys (never dated any) just some I know of one he lost count he has like probably a thousand body counts and he has a preference for men even though he keeps saying he's bi so it's like a ticking time clock anytime he's actually trying to commit to somebody whether it's a man or a woman but especially if it's a woman because he keeps thinking about men. Does your partner not te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Where are all the straight women!?To be honest as a bisexual woman I never used to care either until I read about the statistics of AIDS STDs and the fact that bisexual men are the most promiscuous out of anybody and obviously I'm not saying that is the case for every single one of them but I am not taking a risk with it it's just to turn off for me no disrespect to them . Literally every single bi dude I've met were giant manhos barely used protection and just screwing around so unbelievably much and struggled to remain loyal, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:40 AM |
| 0 | Where are all the straight women!?How would you feel if he asked for a threesome with another man involved with you though or if you even caught or seen him have sex with another man? I don't think I can stomach it tbh even as non judgemental as I try to be and I'm bi as well , even worse If he took it up the ass by a guy infront of me.. I think I'd be traumatized lol how did you find out he's even bi? It came way later or you knew from the beginning? It truly didn't matter to you at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?LMFAO your question made me laugh out loud at how blunt that was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 12:35 AM |
| 11 | Women love one night stands as much as men doOP also said they got six pack abs AND a doctor. Would they do that with some average guy working at McDonald's ? Meanwhile tons of guys, even men that are those doctors, good looking men are screwing obese women and having one night stands with below average looking women all the time who are broke or works at Starbucks. They won't date or wife them up but they don't mind having sex with them. Women aren't really wired for that, they still look for status and some kind of connection, even if it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Women love one night stands as much as men doYou just said they got six pack abs AND a doctor. Would they do that with some average guy working at McDonald's ? Meanwhile tons of guys, even men that are those doctors, good looking men are screwing obese women and having one night stands with below average looking women all the time who are broke or works at Starbucks. They won't date or wife them up but they don't mind having sex with them. Women aren't really wired for that, they still look for status and some kind of connection, even if i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 11:21 PM |
| – | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexWhere are you now for you to get constantly approached? And I hate to say it but the reason for that is not just cultural as English and northern people like Scandinavians and such, Germans and Anglo saxons in general are known to be more reserved than the Latin people, but also the feminist movement. The feminist movement in Canada hold enormous power and it has pretty much wiped out men from being able to approach without coming across as some desperate unhinged creep. It's quite extreme up he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 02:39 PM |
| 1 | I think the red pill is morally wrong in almost every aspect.What a shame you lost yourself to that terrible extremist ideology.. so to you women no matter what do not deserve care or be respected for because you imagine that all women somehow get wonderful dating experiences than men. It's a fucking disgusting advice to ever give out or follow and it's not even true. That's like me saying I imagine all guys are like Andrew Tate. Plenty of women get the dog shit end of the stick with life in every way that men has and more especially considering age and g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 04:56 AM |
| 2 | I think the red pill is morally wrong in almost every aspect.He obviously is not saying there is zero transaction, but if that's all there is its just treating someone like a bag of meat. the other guy straight up said all women , no matter what do not deserve care or be respected for because he imagines that all women somehow get wonderful dating experiences than men. It's a fucking disgusting advice to ever give out or follow and it's not even true. That's like me saying I imagine all guys are like Andrew Tate. Plenty of women get the dog shit end of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 04:54 AM |
| 5 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexI agree with this for the most part but it is a little extreme I would say. Plenty of women do not ever get even thirsted over and women get horny as well,many are also not all about getting relationships or are not in a position to and don't mind casual sex either. I would rather get some sexual attention than nothing at all in my entire life, man or a woman. However I only want that attention if I'm turned on and from other people I find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 04:45 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexIt's definitely cultural. I got approached nonstop in Europe especially in Italy I couldn't walk for 5 minutes without getting approached or complimented there, the people are very very forward and open same with south Spain, parts of France, etc. In Canada where I am nobody ever approaches, like as a woman if you don't make the move , introverted and have no connections you will die alone here . Women have to make the first move here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 04:44 AM |
| 4 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexIt's definitely cultural. I got approached nonstop in Europe especially in Italy I couldn't walk for 5 minutes without getting approached or complimented there, the people are very very forward and open same with south Spain, parts of France, etc. In Canada where I am nobody ever approaches, like as a woman if you don't make the move , introverted and have no connections you will die alone here . Women have to make the first move here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 04:43 AM |
| 1 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?He's an example that exceptions exist as always. I know younger men who love older women, sometimes much older. It's rare but it happens and because the world is big, depending on where you pay attention to, you can find a lot of them. I know a young guy like 24-26 who said he strictly and only dates and finds older women attractive, not too old but at least in 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?You mean she got married to him?? And Was that your first heartbreak/ getting cheated on? Usually people never ever forget that experience and hold it to their grave especially if it was extremely traumatizing and depending how much you loved her. That's really good you learned to let it go but I really hope they at least apologized to you, dumb teenagers make mistakes but they are old enough to know that was wrong, did either of them apologize ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalIt's basically the same thing for men or women. People use hot people for sex but over time realise that they can't really do relationships with the. Overtime the hot people get old and become self conscious and wonder where the good people have gone and the tables flip unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?No way she would choose some gym rat over. Rich as hell politician..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 05:30 AM |
| 7 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?Damn that is brutal...they are both shit. Have you seen what became of them now ? Don't be surprised if they turn 300 lbs and living in a shithole . I've seen karma catch up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?How do you actually know if these women actually slept with him?...are these just rumours or you heard it from the woman's mouths ? Also he is like a walking festering manwhore the guys probably crawling with stds and likely treats women like cum buckets. The married women and girls with BF's cheating to do that are total scums too. What does TRP action even mean ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 05:27 AM |
| 1 | If youve a woman with OnlyFans Can You really Object to "Sharing" Your Man.Do you not realise there's a huge client base for male nudes as well?? Gay porn stars get paid a lot more than straight guys for a reason... It does not matter what has the bigger client base it's the actual action. I know a guy who did it and he made money off of it. Having sex with people in the physical world is no way ever equivalent to stripping on camera a virgin can even do that. How on earth are you even comparing it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | If youve a woman with OnlyFans Can You really Object to "Sharing" Your Man.Your comment made me lol 🤣🤣 ... Gay sex workers get paid a lot more than straight ones too apparently.. I don't really understand why. It's why I heard lots of straight guys will do gay porn for the money... How they get turned on to perform I don't know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 01:44 PM |
| 0 | Would you give up video games for sex?You don't have to drop it all completely but excessive video playing is extremely unhealthy and going to the gym and working out should be considered basic life skills at this point there's a reason there's so may obese people. It also clears up the mind and changes hormone levels and makes someone feel much better and more confident it will impact every aspect of someone's life even if it doesn't seem like it. Finding a compatible girl and becoming obese together and obsessed with video games i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 01:15 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?The issue is you are already piling every woman to be the same when asking that question instead of thinking about it logically. Men and women aren't motivated by the same things. You still don't get the whole premise and intention of why he's even asking that question, it wasn't for open dialogue he literally said he can pay for all the stuff women can do and saying the same stuff you just accused all women of saying. Even if the woman said she can provide him sex, companionship etc he will say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 09:54 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?if that's what someone wants to do, as she said, he can pay a surrogate, bang strippers and prostitutes, nanny for his invitro child.. but then he should not be making demands to any women on what they bring to the table in terms of a relationship . Trust me he doesn't seem like the type of guy that recognizes what value his own mothers bring to bring him to this world, let alone tell a woman he values her for her wonderful personality pft | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:57 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?I can understand that but I'm going by what that woman said in which the guy is said to list every single thing a woman can and does, he can just go and pay for it. He wasn't looking for open dialogue but to demean women and tell them they aren't worth shit when he can just go pay for everything . There's a lot of ungrateful toxic women don't get me wrong , that men should stay away from. But he's targeting that question to all women no matter what kind of a person she is. That can translate to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:18 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?Men can have standards all they want, so can a woman, but like I said it's the intentions and the entire point of what that guy was asking. Literally anyone can pay for anything, he's clearly asking that to set women to fail and truly doesn't understand the actual point of having human relationships. Would you ask your guy friends what they bring to the table for you to grace them with your prescense ? Some things just shouldn't be asked like that. Through people's actions you get to quickly fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 02:32 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?there are far more that won't do that. It's like saying most women will choose a broke ugly McDonald's worker some might but most won't. My point is what is considered high value for women and men are different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 02:02 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?I watched that video and totally agree with that girl. It's not the actual question itself but the intention behind it that makes all the difference. A relationship is transactional at the end of the day but there is a purpose to build human deep connections and a bond that goes beyond that, it's not a business transaction or a job interview where someones entire worth is solely based on what they bring to the table with things that someone else can pay for in the physical world. That's why that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 01:37 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?I watched that video and totally agree with that girl. It's not the actual question itself but the intention behind it that makes all the difference. A relationship is transactional at the end of the day but there is a purpose to build human deep connections and a bond that goes beyond that, it's not a business transaction or a job interview where someones entire worth is solely based on what they bring to the table with things that someone else can pay for in the physical world. That's why that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 01:35 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?I watched that video and totally agree with that girl. It's not the actual question itself but the intention behind it that makes all the difference. A relationship is transactional at the end of the day but there is a purpose to build human deep connections and a bond that goes beyond that, it's not a business transaction or a job interview where someones entire worth is solely based on what they bring to the table with things that someone else can pay for in the physical world. That's why that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 01:33 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?A woman's value is also her looks, youth and fertility no matter what at the end of the day. No matter how much she earns, educated she is, her brain, her IQ etc her value as a woman in the eyes of the media and the world can't compete with desirable conventionally beautiful youthful women . Guys don't have photos of 38 year old average looking Nobel peace prize winning physicists on their wall, they have 20 year old bikini models. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 01:28 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?I watched that video and totally agree with that girl. It's not the actual question itself but the intention behind it that makes all the difference. A relationship is transactional at the end of the day but there is a purpose to build human deep connections and a bond that goes beyond that, it's not a business transaction or a job interview where someones entire worth is solely based on what they bring to the table with things that someone else can pay for in the physical world. That's why that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 01:25 PM |
| 0 | The male 'aesthetics' popular in South Korea are not attractive to western womenLMFAO I died laughing at your comment.. I had a woman tell me she went to a BTS concert in New York and just saw a sea of super overweight tatted up women screaming for them at the top of their lungs , I wonder if that really is the common north american fan base for kpop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 04:20 PM |
| 0 | The male 'aesthetics' popular in South Korea are not attractive to western womenThis is less about male aesthetics In Asia being less popular (quite the contrary it's boomed ever since the whole Kpop bts craze) but more about the demographic I guess. Like both of them would appeal to certain age groups regardless of the country, look at Justin Bieber. He looks like a butch lesbian woman until the day he dies probably but he had little girls going crazy for him in the west for awhile and still do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 04:19 PM |
| – | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?I think I sort of understand but what I meant was didn't you feel like she 'owed you' in some way ? Like didn't you want her to start paying you back or something at some point or buying you things as well to break even? I just have a hard time understanding how you were ok with paying for her majority of everything when she made a lot more.. also the fact she blatantly said she is spending it on herself and not on you...did you not even argue about that ? Usually though men do want a form of pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 03:42 PM |
| – | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?But why wouldn't you consider her money ? If I made way less but paid for everything id be resentful as fuck, but I think this is where gender norms and social expectations lie. Most guys are ok with paying for women as it's expected of them (to a point, not all men obviously) while most women would not be ok with paying everything for a man. Were you genuinely ok with doing that though ? If I had to spend majority of my money on her while she didn't, there's no way I'd be ok with it Personally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 02:47 PM |
| – | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?Depends what you mean though what do you mean considering ? If the guy spends everything on her he'd be resentful as fuck though far more than the other way around if she didn't spend anything on him. The guy would want some kind of pay pack but then again he signed himself up for that life to begin with Usually from the woman it's because she provided kids emotional support and everything else To the relationship where the resentment happens so she wants the monetary value back as a safety net | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 01:34 PM |
| – | Would you donate an organ for your partner?Yes same. I can love someone to death but I don't see myself doing this still for a partner. Family member is different but a partner? Don't even know if I'd do it for a family member. Ultimately a partner can literally become a backstabbing stranger to you in an instant. I saw a video of a woman who donated her kidney to save his life and he cheated and left her. I cannot even imagine the amount of pain that she was left in, I wouldn't survive that kind of betrayal. I've already suffered immens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 01:27 PM |
| – | Would you donate an organ for your partner?I can love someone to death but I don't see myself doing this still for a partner. Family member is different but a partner? Don't even know if I'd do it for a family member. Ultimately a partner can literally become a backstabbing stranger to you in an instant. I saw a video of a woman who donated her kidney to save his life and he cheated and left her. I cannot even imagine the amount of pain that she was left in, I wouldn't survive that kind of betrayal. I've already suffered immensely with h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 01:25 PM |
| – | Would you donate an organ for your partner?I can love someone to death but I don't see myself doing this still for a partner. Family member is different but a partner? Don't even know if I'd do it for a family member. Ultimately a partner can literally become a backstabbing stranger to you in an instant. I saw a video of a woman who donated her kidney to save his life and he cheated and left her. I cannot even imagine the amount of pain that she was left in, I wouldn't survive that kind of betrayal. I've already suffered immensely with h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 01:21 PM |
| – | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?That's insane. Tell me your story and how did you even find a homeless woman attractive ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 01:19 PM |
| – | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?Money does matter though because if she's not spending it on you...it means you have to spend everything on her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 01:17 PM |
| – | Are forever girlfriends another category of women?People can learn and grow in relationships but remember that's just your partners side of the story, we don't know how much of it is the truth or not. Ultimately there's usually two sides to everything, I've seen people talk shit about their exes and it can be a red flag to tread carefully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Are forever girlfriends another category of women?Must be nice to be able to do that. I still can't and I think this comes down to personality and how deeply someone attaches to someone. When I date someone I am EXTREMELY loyal, like death do us part type of loyal. Even my ex that I left and was dragging out the inevitable for I haven't been able to date anyone that quick, it took like 2-3 years before I felt ready and this is me recognizing that I didn't really have feelings for my ex anymore either in the way they wanted me to. Also empathy p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Are forever girlfriends another category of women?From research though the number one reason actually is because of money though. The incompatibility is probably second but money ties into that also. I also really can't wrap my head around still how someone can date someone for 4 YEARS and move on that quick in 4 months and marry someone else in a much shorter time frame. Did he already fall out of love with his ex for awhile long before meeting you and was just dragging out the inevitable ? Even then how does one just trash 4 years of attachme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Are forever girlfriends another category of women?The fucked thing is I see tons of women and men with red flags, walking poster people for cluster fuck of problems who have no issues getting laid, attracting people and having a ring put on their finger even if they are repulsive, annoying, narcissistic ugly sacks of shit. I worked with people like that, and knew someone married to someone like that. extremely ugly both in personality and looks, abusive and just downright awful but somehow the guy was in love with her, meanwhile I have seen gor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 10:43 PM |
| 2 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?....that second line is not true. There's biological differences between men and women. Are there women who enjoy casual sex and never want to settle down ? Certainly there's tons of them but overall eventually women hit a biological clock earlier than men that expires faster and they gain zero biological advantage sleeping around random dusty guys. They are hardwired to be more selective than men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:56 PM |
| 8 | How do you explain successful men that end up marrying sluts?That's a horrible misogynistic thing to say. You have no idea at all why or how she got herself in that situation. Maybe she was raped maybe she was raised by abusive caregivers who neglected her or abused her didn't teach her proper sexual education, maybe she was groomed sexually at an early age. Maybe she just god forbid fell in love with a boy who lied and pressured her to have sex when she was innocent and didn't know any better or was coerced into it and it was too late. You have NO idea r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:18 PM |
| 0 | How do you explain successful men that end up marrying sluts?Unfortunately they might as well be in the same category for a lot of guys the amount of misogynistic terrible things I've heard them call single moms is off the charts. I have seen some terrible single mothers but they are not all the same but in terms of dating prospects they are generally the bottom of the barrel for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you explain successful men that end up marrying sluts?Have you asked these men and seen how these women interacted with them? Do they even know their actual history? Chances are they don't know or if they do it's a really watered down version. Many may want trophy wives that look hot they want to boast about but don't actually love. Just look at their divorce rates later down the line. Also how good looking are those men? They may be doctors and such but if they are old fat nerdy or just physically unattractive suddenly dating their dream girl anim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:12 PM |
| – | For the first time since 2010, the percent of women under 35 who have not had sex in the last year has surpassed that of similar aged menCombination of factors Women are able to live without men as higher income potential and access to resources have improved and usually on average have lower sex drives Stress, overworked no time to go on dates or even plan for it 99 percent of guys don't do it for majority of the women, they are wired to be more selective than men to find them attractive enough to expand their resources and energy to have sex with them in the first place. Even the highest sex drive women usually would rather be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Why should I even care?You are not considering something here though. The guy could be selective and picky or only attracted to specific women who he genuinely feels love for or attracted to Those ugly guys getting girls could just be in it for the sex you don't know that Good looks don't mean anything if the person has mental issues or self worth and confidence issues. We don't know how he's actually like in person Online dating is absolute shit for many people good looking or not, it's worse for those who look bad b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:00 AM |
| 1 | As a man, can you be interested in sex but not relationships?That's what I just said... Let's see where this goes is opening up the possibility in the context of what they are already talking about..because he ALREADY KNOWS what she wants, which is a relationship. That is manipulative and fraudulent. So if he has no intentions to go there with her or anyone, then he should NOT be saying let's see where this goes. Do you not understand the homeless man example with the pennies? Telling him your gonna try to find some coins to give him means you genuinely m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can you be interested in sex but not relationships?It's very simple and nothing to disagree on. If you match with a woman knowing she's looking for a relationship and in the context she point blank asks you what your end ideal goal is , it's fraud to tell her let's see how this goes when you have zero intentions of going anywhere with her but only sex. Let's see how this goes is only ok if you actually mean LETS SEE HOW THIS GOES. You are making excuses now for men to say this when it's not appropriate in the situations I'm talking about. It's e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 03:14 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can you be interested in sex but not relationships?You aren't understanding context and intention and overcomplicating this. What exactly is the problem with you just saying you are looking just for sex/hooking up if that's the true unfiltered answer ? Because you are in fear most women won't respond well to that so your still risking the chance by not being fully forthcoming in hopes she will sleep with you. It's a tactic many guys use. You don't need to just start off the convo a first line message as 'helllo I'm looking for sex, dtf?' obvious… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | As a man, can you be interested in sex but not relationships?Let's see where this goes is a direct LIE though if he already knows there's zero chance of that being involved and if that's not his intention, that's my point. There are legitimately people who want to date and have relationship to be an end goal and actually do mean it when they say let's see where this goes in which it's not a lie, there's people who only want Fwb arrangements for hookups, there's people who just want ons. You can't know exactly what you want in the future with every specifi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 11:03 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can you be interested in sex but not relationships?Then they can go pay for sex. Seriously if that's literally all they want, there are women who are willing to do it..but usually for payment. What they shouldn't do is lead a woman on by withholding information like that making her think a relationship is possible when he has zero intentions of ever doing so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can you be interested in sex but not relationships?That's just being shitty and manipulative though there is no moral grey area at some point you have to come clean with the real intentions because you can't have half a relationship either you want it or you don't. There's a difference of a man who is genuinely open to having a relationship after seeing how it goes verses intentionally and deliberately withholding that information to get some sex out of a woman first before saying 'oh btw ya I don't want a relationship and never did. I'm not ava… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:29 PM |
| 2 | As a man, can you be interested in sex but not relationships?That's just being shitty and manipulative though there is no moral grey area at some point you have to come clean with the real intentions because you can't have half a relationship either you want it or you don't. There's a difference of a man who is genuinely open to having a relationship after seeing how it goes verses intentionally and deliberately withholding that information to get some sex out of a woman first before saying 'oh btw ya I don't want a relationship and never did. I'm not ava… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:27 PM |
| 1 | As a man, can you be interested in sex but not relationships?That's just being shitty and manipulative though there is no moral grey area at some point you have to come clean with the real intentions because you can't have half a relationship either you want it or you don't. There's a difference of a man who is genuinely open to having a relationship after seeing how it goes verses intentionally and deliberately withholding that information to get some sex out of a woman first before saying 'oh btw ya I don't want a relationship and never did. I'm not ava… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Which man would you pick?Lower risk of std is a game changer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Are women really not able to love unconditionally?This is why red pill is a stinking pile of misogynistic trash. In no logical scientific study anywhere does it say one gender has more unconditional love than another there's no such thing. It's pulled straight out of their ass. In fact studies show that men leave women up to 7x far more than the other way around when the partner is sick and needs caring. There is no such thing as unconditional love between romantic partners for th very nature that it HAS to be enforced with healthy boundaries a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners?It's kind of more complicated than just stating it to be a flaw to be honest and being a good person or life partner is subjective. There are many beautiful amazing kind hearted people who struggle with finding long term partners because deep down inside they have some kind of damage usually from childhood abuse that makes them feel abandoned and unworthy of love. Not just that, many people can put them on some unreachable pedestal and treat them as a trophy and not a person and leave them becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners?It's because of your perspective. It's kind of more complicated than just stating it to be a flaw to be honest and being a good person or life partner is subjective. There are many beautiful amazing kind hearted people who struggle with finding long term partners because deep down inside they have some kind of damage usually from childhood abuse that makes them feel abandoned and unworthy of love. Not just that, many people can put them on some unreachable pedestal and treat them as a trophy and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?LMFAO thank you for responding to apeman 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 05:31 AM |
| 1 | How I imagine life as an attractive woman is likeUnfortunately beautiful women are human too and can and often be victims of abuse because men will do anything it takes to court them as trophy but dump them when they find she's actually a human with feelings and not some fantasy goddess character to serve them forever. https://youtu.be/PYmivmkZvIg This beautiful woman has had a shitty traumatic childhood, has permanent brain damage from the abuse from her exes, tortured cheated on and abandoned by them all even when she bailed one out of priso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Imagine this: you always went Dutch with your LDR partner/hubby when dating and your finances are more or less split 50/50; then you learn he spent a lot on his previous partnerWell it would depend on the context of WHY he did all those things. Since op said he specifically said that's not what he wanted in the end, and he learned a lesson that he didn't want to date without a 50/50 arrangement I Guess, I wouldn't care much However if I found out he spent tons on her , treated her better somehow, genuinely didn't mind doing it yet he demands 50/50 out of me and expects it, that's different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Imagine this: you always went Dutch with your LDR partner/hubby when dating and your finances are more or less split 50/50; then you learn he spent a lot on his previous partnerIt would depend on the context of WHY he did all those things. Since you said he specifically said that's not what he wanted in the end, and he learned a lesson that he didn't want to date without a 50/50 arrangement I Guess, I wouldn't care much However if I found out he spent tons on her , treated her better somehow, genuinely didn't mind doing it yet he demands 50/50 out of me and expects it, that's different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:18 AM |
| 0 | Mathematically speaking, if there aren’t enough high value men to date what will the “average woman” do?They do what anyone else does. This isn't just about gender it depends on the person. They either set their standards lower and find contentment and happiness by doing that, maintain their high standards and become bitter lonely and extremely frustrated/depressed femcels, give up and become old cat lady spinsters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 06:05 AM |
| 1 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.This is going to sound vulgar but...p*ssy and gold/money has been the greatest assets and traded goods on earth since humans existed .. not new news.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?..there's A LOT of people on this earth. Even if you meet 1 million people with no issues having partners there's several billion left in the world from all ages, socio economic backgrounds, mental state, personal history and everything of all infinite ranges that struggle with relationships of varying degrees. Also not everything is what it seems, you don't truly know someone's love lives just by observing either. Sometimes people can not have issues landing people but it can be shallow horribl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”He may have low self esteem caused by childhood wounds we don't know of that conditions him to score lower than he deserves , that's evident also by those women not sticking around . The same happens for women as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Men love whoresWell it does also prove not all men think sex workers are trash to put them up in such high pedestals .. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 07:13 PM |
| 13 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.That's because as an insecure man your attracting insecure women... Not all women are the same just like not all men are the same. The women you like are unfortunately damaged and because you have low self esteem you attract and are attracted to that it's how energy works. People who grew up with secure attachment with no insecurity issues wouldn't tolerate that shit for a second | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Men love whoresYa but I don't get why marry her, they can just pay her for her services and leave it at that. Marrying risks him losing half his entire life if divorce happens and likely it will as trusting a sex workers fidelity is pretty risky.. while the girl gets the benefit as if he divorced and cheats on her she gets the 💰💸 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Men love whoresLet me ask you something are YOU a stripper or worked with strippers ? It also doesn't matter if it's just america. Strippers exist in even more huge quantities all around the world. Again YOU are the one putting words in people's mouths. She didn't say all strippers are prostitutes nobody did you keep choosing to interpret it that way. I don't find how the op described it to be that offensive she was just blunt and to the point. You realise how strippers even talk about themselves like that did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Men love whoresMost porn stars date and marry other porn stars. I honestly wonder how their marriage and dating life is like but I did talk to a few very open minded men who genuinely didn't mind and would date sex workers too actually although it's rare, I saw a post from a 27 year old guy who fell in love with a 50 year old ex porn star... Usually men from very liberal countries. Thing is I think all of them would need to be ex porn stars because otherwise...how the fuck will their partners feel when their w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 04:37 PM |
| 9 | Men love whoresI get what you are saying but to think prostitution and stripping have zero to do with each other is also naive as fuck. I also knew strippers even male ones, did ALL of them sleep with clients ? No but the law can't do anything if what they do after hours is between their business and a significant portion of them definitely did sleep with people. I also don't see where the OP said ALL strippers are automatically ALL prostitutes. Read between the lines. Ultimately ALL of these fall under the um… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 07:47 AM |
| 25 | Men love whoresWhy marry her then ? She said these women got diamond rings and legit marriage. I knew someone whose friend was an ex porn star and she got married to a really wealthy guy. I think he must have known her history too... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Men love whoresI have a few questions. How old are these women who were 'winning' exactly? Like how old are they when they somehow get married to these rich guys? What country are they from, geographical location, culture etc these things make a difference. Sure a beautiful whore at 23 years old can still get married even pornstars do I think Dani Daniels got married as well. But can she get married at age 46 when she's loose and strung out and doesn't look so good anymore or have as much stamina? It also matt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 07:38 AM |
| 2 | A lot of red pilled dudes seem to think women are into bad guys, but they also forget if you're an average or ugly looking, fat neckbearded dude using asshole behavior to compensate for in the looks department, that will be just as off turning as being a shy timid nice guyIt's not an anecdote and what nonsensical research ever said personality makes no difference at all? It makes a huge difference. I know some gorgeous beautiful people men and women who can't even get a text back and have struggled to date all their lives. Especially considering you have no idea what mental condition someone has, ptsd, childhood trauma, ingrained behavioural traits etc. To say it doesn't matter at all is complete bs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 04:50 AM |
| 1 | A lot of red pilled dudes seem to think women are into bad guys, but they also forget if you're an average or ugly looking, fat neckbearded dude using asshole behavior to compensate for in the looks department, that will be just as off turning as being a shy timid nice guyAll of them are... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 06:36 PM |
| 2 | A lot of red pilled dudes seem to think women are into bad guys, but they also forget if you're an average or ugly looking, fat neckbearded dude using asshole behavior to compensate for in the looks department, that will be just as off turning as being a shy timid nice guyI was floored when op used Messi of all people as an example ..like wtf?? That guy and people like Brad Pitt, Leonardo DiCaprio can not shower for weeks, become morbidly obese and not even speak, and they would still attract women like bees to honey. I saw a photo of fat, unkempt out of shape DiCaprio walking out with a dozen model girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 08:24 AM |
| 2 | A lot of red pilled dudes seem to think women are into bad guys, but they also forget if you're an average or ugly looking, fat neckbearded dude using asshole behavior to compensate for in the looks department, that will be just as off turning as being a shy timid nice guyIt's not just about being a bad guy, you have to know how to do it PROPERLY. otherwise a guy who pushes random people down escalators, punches and steals from old women, trips a small kid and laughs at him will all be getting ladies and they don't. Typically being an attractive bad boy in this context includes exuding surface level confidence, not caring about what other people think (including what other women think), knowing how to carefully balance that line between being an asshat and being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Are you sure it's 'sex skills' or just incompatibility personality wise ? Some women just want to fuck too and that's it, I don't know how you assess them do you guys talk about it beforehand ? Most women who want relationships wouldn't just hop into bed that fast either with a random guy. Also if physical appearance is the issue, go to the gym start lifting, get a flattering haircut, and dress in fitted nice clothes with good smelling cologne. That alone makes a HUGE difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Most people have no understanding of how desperation and lack of sex for a below average guy who borderlines on being an incel feels though. At that level of desperation and being deprived of sex, I've seen guys go very very low. Like I had a roommate who was dating this obese super abusive woman twice his size who would literally beat him up every night. I tried to stop it and should have called the police but he'd never stand up for himself either. I think he sadly too was stuck in it for sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Your insecurity makes you cling to this relationship as you find it to be one of your only hopes but...do you at least even love this woman ? I get dead bedroom is horrible so it is grounds for a divorce but do you have any form of genuine affection and love for her as a person? And her to you? I also don't understand how and why she would SOLELY be activated from initiating this bizarre competition ritual like she's not a dog , there's something weird going on there. Most people wouldn't go fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Women: "Im not a sex object" ... also women...They don't have to be a cam girl though.. just posting graphic thirst traps alone..it's legit everywhere on instagram , there are a fuckton of these types of women everywhere. That's the only types of women this post would be relevant to and it's calling them out. What do you mean ? If the op is pushing ALL women under the bus then yes that would be shit but that's not how i interpret this information | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Women: "Im not a sex object" ... also women...I've seen tons of the same women do both of these. Like legit saw a post of a girl tearing guys new assholes for commenting sexy messages when she literally films and posts herself spreading her ass and making twerking videos for fun and literally asks guys to 'be bold' while posting thirst traps and even has onlyfans..I think it's idiotic tbh and I think girls like that are trashy without even realising it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 06:47 AM |
| 1 | This is just sad but we need to talk about itHonest question do you think most guys would be weirded out if a woman discloses she's got acne like this ? Back when my acne was quite bad I honestly got to the point where I felt I would be catfishing if I didn't write it even for hookups, like I just legitimately didn't know what to do. It's not like I was going to post a bunch of nasty closeup shots of my zits. It was very depressing and frustrating it totally kills dating life and destroys confidence. I'm on accutane for like for the 6th ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:38 AM |
| 2 | This is just sad but we need to talk about itNot all of them can be... This girl got lucky actually but I am on accutane for like the 6 th time because my acne keeps coming back it's genetics for a lot of people. Others can't take it if they have certain conditions, also it's very expensive and many can't afford it Keep in mind that level of acne people have issues being able to even get a job or make friends because subconsciously people find them dirty.. it's horrific to deal with and very misunderstood.. Go to the acne forums you will s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:33 AM |
| 2 | This is just sad but we need to talk about itI wonder if this level of acne would even turn all guys off though some guys don't care especially if her body and personality is good but I imagine most this level of acne is a dealbreaker.. I've rarely ever even seen it in real life for acne this severe..but I've seen some people with acne like this and they got partners somehow ... I get it sucks to be catfished but for her case...acne this severe...this poor woman most people have no idea how much of a killer acne is. There's no way anyone s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:26 AM |
| 2 | This is just sad but we need to talk about itShe has a YouTube video this is after a very long period of accutane.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:24 AM |
| 5 | This is just sad but we need to talk about itI get it sucks to be catfished but for her case...acne this severe...this poor woman most people have no idea how much of a killer acne is. There's no way anyone should tell her 'stop covering it, go outside daily life with that and embrace it' like gtfo.... Try living with acne this severe for a day most people won't last or have even a fraction of the resilience she has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:18 AM |
| 11 | The group photo of the Men's PPD Meet Up! Thanks for coming everyone! Great fun was had and interesting opinions on women were shared.Yeah lmao I know one who married my childhood friend . They don't have issues like the people in the west as it's all arranged | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 12:59 AM |
| 5 | Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating?Trying to find a husband in that age via dating app is way worse.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.Where's the source ? Americans have a lot more people and it's gonna depend on what job it is they are doing too. I know for a fact students don't study as hard as in Asia though which is worse than working it's hell on earth for them over there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.Japan is a bag of worms they have cultural and social reasons and they work more than even most Americans combined and die from it. But point is it's not just Japan , even in other large cities everyone says it's much more difficult to meet people intimately. You can meet people yes but getting more intimate and building connections that is much easier for those who grew up in small towns. I observed a really big cultural difference and social differences between how small town people behaved so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 10:56 PM |
| 4 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.That's precisely why it's failing if you do the studies places like Japan Tokyo with the highest concentration of humans have the hardest time finding connections and love. I've seen far more people living in smaller villages and towns have success and marriage tbh I don't exactly know why but it's because of limited options and they do with what they are exposed to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:47 PM |
| 2 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.The concept of dating didn't exist though. People weren't bombarded with unlimited options, what you don't know you don't suffer. People were either arranged marriage, given to lords as concubines, sex slaves or mistresses, slaves or died alone. This is specifically talking about DATING which is a completely modern phenomenon. It's not even comparable to discussing about black plague | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.People lived in very small tightly formed groups back then...probably some inbreeding happening too but they also didn't have the concept of living any different or meeting someone better. Oh that ugly bucktoothed smelly man there, well he was able to take down a hog and bring home the meal several times and they were even arranged to be together or the alpha leader provider man got the women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Women are indeed incredibly complicated to understand.There's no need to be brutally and viciously blunt though. I'm not gonna tell an ugly obese nice person who I went on a date with I'm not into and say 'ya you fat fuck you ugly I'm not into that' ..there's ways to break it easy. There's literally nothing more that needs to be said than 'i don't feel a connection but it was lovely to meet you. Good luck ' I've had some guys beg and ask me why I'm not into them though which gets more complicated but still I just try to keep it consistent and not o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Women have more to offer than menThat woman is the exception to the rule and likely lives in a western country. That's extraordinarily rare in other parts of the world to the point of it being nearly impossible for some women even if they get in good shape. I know a 38 year old Sri Lankan woman who cries all the time she's a teacher and pretty but no man will date or marry her saying she's already too old to have kids. She's hired a match maker but to no avail, the only man willing to marry her was some old ugly ex divorcee who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Women have more to offer than menI was just saying so many guys legit think these cougars are so lucky and have it all handed to them because they can get sex from young studs not realising those guys are just using her for sex. Very very few of them would legit consider her as dating material let alone marriage material and most older women eventually want love they don't just want sex. Female sexuality doesn't work the same way as men, over time they see her to be this desperate unhinged old lady that couldn't get a husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Women have more to offer than menLife becomes absolutely hell for women if they are unwed, not partnered but desperately wish to be, unattractive and jobless past age 35. Most of the women I know in that position are currently suicidal. Granted that life is terrible for anyone but at least guys can physically do something about it and have the advantage of knowing most women prefer older men so they can take that time to change. Women however can't reverse their biological clock to become younger again and to be able to bear ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Women have more to offer than menYou think those young guys legitimately want to stay and marry these women and in love with them ?? What a joke. 99 percent of them are only in it to bag her for sex and ditch her as soon as he finds a younger woman to be with. I legit personally had guy friends and were involved with guys who said they would never date a woman past a certain age, they had no issues sleeping with them but their ideal was always younger women, or at least no more than 5-6 years their age ideally. I had a friend w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Women have more to offer than menNot to mention, It primarily allows to western society but tbh those 'benefits' women have cease to exist if she doesn't land a good paying job, or find a man before age 30 for the most part. Life starts to get a lot harder and the script flips when they find that most of the men their age and older still prefer younger and younger women, who they slowly realise they can't compete with. It becomes a devastating cycle that's when you get mid life crisis middle aged women who are lonely as hell. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Women have more to offer than menIt primarily allows to western society but tbh those 'benefits' women have cease to exist if she doesn't land a good paying job, or find a man before age 30 for the most part. Life starts to get a lot harder and the script flips when they find that most of the men their age and older still prefer younger and younger women, who they slowly realise they can't compete with. It becomes a devastating cycle that's when you get mid life crisis middle aged women who are lonely as hell. Men have a bigger… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | In a perfect world, how often would you have sex?1-2 times a day, probably could do more would love to do it all day if I could but I don't want to push it and end up getting bored or boring the other person where it doesn't feel special at all anymore, also my sessions last a long time so it would be a waste of time if I push it past that I need to do stuff as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?Lmao...these theories are turning whack now. I think the final conclusion is something to do with being south of the equator in warm climates makes men thirsty for some big asses and flesh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?The original thing I said was why do guys suddenly start to prefer overweight and thick women with large asses the southern you go of the equator ? It's not a joke it's the truth and someone said it's because of diet but it doesn't really make sense still | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?I found that too a bit actually although overall Europeans are much leaner than Americans I've come across . For Italy it also is mostly when the people get old The women really pack on the weight but young girls were quite slim. The young guys were very skinny as well. The most lean countries I've ever seen was in eastern Europe, I'm quite lean myself but when I was there I felt fat. Most girls and guys were built like sticks, it was a bit surprising considering fitness and such I thought was q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?I really would need to see some more sources on it but I don't get how diet would affect where you store the fat honestly that comes down to genetics though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?I get diets are different but people eat fast-food all over the world now ever since american diet also spread globally. I think it's going off tangent it has no basis to explain why men would suddenly find fat women attractive just due to diet reasons as we go south of the equator there must be a bigger reason . A northern European eating the same diet by that logic would still find those women attractive and they dont in general, same in eastern Europe the food is fattening. It's splitting hai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 02:57 PM |
| 6 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?I mean I'm not sure if I really buy that to be the main reason, because so many of them do not eat healthy at all and even look morbidly obese also even if that diet is the case , why would that mean men like that more? Lots of people love fattening food even up north yet they aren't into fat women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 08:43 AM |
| 3 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?I still barely saw any fat people even there but it's odd why do people suddenly start to be into that more as you go south of the equator? I'm not even jk lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 06:07 AM |
| 7 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?Lol why specifically northern Europe and not all of Europe ? Asia I understand but when I lived and traveled around Europe pretty much nowhere were they into bbw, the same girls american guys were going crazy over the guys there couldn't stand. Diff standards of beauty tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | People who say sex is a need don’t understand what needs are.And so does not having sex means you are dooming the future of your entire LINEAGE to end with you, meaning it defeats the essence of life and for your cells to exist in the first place. Not having limbs and being disabled those people actually reproduce sometimes and have kids , marry (although they really shouldn't) but in the grand schemes of things their lineage will survive and carry forth. You don't seem capable of any abstract thought. This issue is multilayered. It's not black and white,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | People who say sex is a need don’t understand what needs are.The woman is scientifically illiterate and just refuses to see basic points I don't understand how she doesn't get what you are saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | People who say sex is a need don’t understand what needs are.It's not going to be simple because it isn't. Evolutionary psychology offers one compelling answer to this question. It tells us that, for all its complexity, human desire is the result of something quite simple: our struggle to stay alive. Lust, infatuation, true love – these are all just mechanisms we have acquired in order to reproduce and to keep our children alive. There is more to it than simply procreation because oxytocin, the chemicals needed to form bonds between humans also are requir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | People who say sex is a need don’t understand what needs are.What on earth are you talking about ? Your choosing to ignore scientific. Research and evidence at this point when you are fundamentally incorrect. You also asked the question, people provided the answer and now uncomfortable with the answers when it's not up to you to accept it or not. The research and evidence is all there regardless of what you believe and it doesn't agree with you. When something is coded into our mitochondria to ensure the survival of our species for genetic variation it's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | People who say sex is a need don’t understand what needs are.Hard to believe how this just completely flew over your head. That's not how that works. War is the CONSEQUENCE of human need and desire, it's not a need itself but throughout history it has occurred since the dawn of humanity and it will continue to do so until the end of time. You need to go back and read what I said again. I brought up removing the testicles because I am telling you, that's what would happen when you REMOVE ones desire for sex specifically for a man however the same would hap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 03:39 PM |
| 0 | People who say sex is a need don’t understand what needs are.Great response, also constant rejection and being an outcast actually was a death sentence for humans in our past. That's why breakups and being an outcast hurts so much enough to make people feel physical suffering and even commit suicide because in our past without living in communities it was certain death out alone in the wild. people need to study biology and you will understand why sex by far is the BIGGEST Need of the human condition. It is far more complex than how you are addressing it.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | People who say sex is a need don’t understand what needs are.Study biology and you will understand why sex by far is the BIGGEST Need of the human condition. It is far more complex than how you are addressing it. What happens in war and makes the world go around? Money and sex. Think about it, like REALLY think about it. It's a multi underground billion trillion dollar business. If you study biology, if you cut off the testicles off male creatures do you know what happens to them? Their fundamental drive to want to do anything else usually gets affected, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Do women stay in abusive relationships because they can't get better ones?The reason people stay in abusive relationships is far more complex than that. It's not just women. The number one biggest reason is usually down to unresolved childhood trauma. it's extremely misunderstood because people automatically assume abused people willingly choose and stay in relationships that hurt them, it's not really a choice in their brains it turns into a chemical addiction proven to be hard or harder to break than even heroine. Unresolved childhood trauma usually with primary car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Do women stay in abusive relationships because they can't get better ones?The reason people stay in abusive relationships is far more complex than that. It's not just women. The number one biggest reason is usually down to unresolved childhood trauma. it's extremely misunderstood because people automatically assume abused people willingly choose and stay in relationships that hurt them, it's not really a choice in their brains it turns into a chemical addiction proven to be hard or harder to break than even heroine. Unresolved childhood trauma usually with primary car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Being monogamous does not benefit a man in any way except oneI can think of more benefits. Much lower risk of stds and not being a strung out jaded mess handling several women at once maybe up to dozens or even hundreds of them and become a manwhore to the point where his pair bonding abilities end up getting completely fucked up beyond repair. Most guys are in denial about that but guys too have a limit and sleeping around has a cost. You end up creating soul and body ties energetically with people every time you sleep with them whether you like it or no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manyoung guys can still have luck but many aren't into dating older women, there are women who are into younger guys . Setting it to 33 is a pretty big age gap I couldn't and wouldn't want to date someone with that big of an age gap personally. I'm rarely attracted to older but then again I'm proof peoples tastes vary again I've legit met women who like chubby short hairy guys, or girls who actively like weaker looking feminine men or the shy mathematician Stephen hawkings type and despise the mach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manThere's no guarantee or any kind of proof that all women cheats and fucks some masculine guy behind their back though, in the end I've seen extremely beautiful women get cheated on while men go and screw very ugly women. If you take it that way unfortunately anyone and everyone can cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl posts me vs the girl he cheated with and it backfired on her, people (largely men) defend the bf cheatingWhy people embarass themselves like this I'll never understand.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manThank you for finally saying this, peoples tastes definitely vary, overall women do like classical masculine traits but there are many variables many women also use them for sex but get married to the more docile kind man when it comes down to settling down. There's many variables to this but simply being macho and masculine isn't enough to maintain a woman, if he doesn't know how to do it properly, too much comes across as a pompous asshole and also imagine if he works a min wage dead end job. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:16 PM |
| -2 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manBut many women also use them for sex but get married to the more docile kind man when it comes down to settling down. There's many variables to this but simply being macho and masculine isn't enough to maintain a woman, if he doesn't know how to do it properly, too much comes across as a pompous asshole and also imagine if he works a min wage dead end job. She's gonna go for the less masculine looking doctor or ceo even if he's more awkward with less sexual experience, I've seen this happen a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of datingMost of the ones I met on the spectrum were very intelligent I guess it depends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of datingThe intelligence levels of autistic people, in general, are highly polarized, with many autistic people scoring average to above-average; compared to the general public, more autistic people score in the gifted range (140+ IQ).[1] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of datingDevelopmental disorders are not the same though... Not all autistic people are even the same, granted I haven't met too many but some seem to be extremely intelligent and fine living day to day life. Well I recently found out I'm on the spectrum and fit a lot of the similarities with them, yet I have higher than average IQ in many areas and have no issues taking care of myself. I am highly sensitive to certain things and triggers but that's only if I'm forced into it. If I willingly choose to go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 09:18 PM |
| 7 | Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of datingI laughed while reading this tbh because it's so negative but I can see why you'd say that. Thing is the guy never ever said about being developmentally challenged... Why are you making it sound like we are sending off a down syndrome severely mentally challenged person on a one way ticket to Siberia ? Lol being on the spectrum actually has a higher likelihood someone has a very high IQ compared to average. When I was severely depressed nearly suicidal, traveling saved my life actually regardles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 09:07 PM |
| 7 | Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of datingIt's weird I recently found out I'm on the spectrum myself and absolutely love trying new things and going to new places especially traveling and different countries. What I hate is if I have to be FORCED into it or engage with random new people which is totally different than if I do it by choice. Also most autistic people I read don't really have friends or close with their families anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Are attractive women truly single?I'm not saying this to boast but this is how others perceive me. I get told constantly by men they thought I am out of their league, that I look beautiful, etc. At the same time I get ghosted, betrayed, used, people peacocking around me like predators trying to get their hands on meat, and didn't get valued for who I actually am. I've been single for over 10 years now, and the clocks ticking. Beauty fades, I don't want to be another statistic or anything but it's absolutely false that all beauti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 03:52 AM |
| 0 | Are men with more partners really better at sex?Can you explain why so many men downgrade though ? Like you hear and see so many guys even good looking ones downgrade and cheat on their beautiful gfs to fuck some really ugly woman, morbidly obese etc. Someone told me they knew a guy who was doing that...cheat on his hot wife with this obese woman down the street.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 03:30 AM |
| 0 | Are men with more partners really better at sex?Uh have you seen porn lol? I know it's not real but tons of women. Orgasm to the ugliest nastiest men ever...although beauty is subjective it's crazy what money can do I guess... Like Ron Jeremy is nasty as fuck but he's slept with tons of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Are men with more partners really better at sex?I've heard of that study, where's the link? I question it though because it doesn't take into effect a lot of factors like how old are these women, culture, what kind of 'hot' guys are they? Maybe the hot guy has mental issues and is actually a virgin etc. Like it doesn't seem to factor in personality traits of anyone Like people are not the same at all, maybe young girls who care about looks a lot for hookups but for women, it's all mental so they have to associate good feelings with that man a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder or easier to date as a man with a low sex drive ?If you couldn't get a girl I'd get it but I'd never watch that much porn it's boring as fuck I'd rather find a real life person at that point but i know it's easier and safer to be abstinent and just masturbate at home I guess , anyway there's lots of people with low drives so your bound to find a girl you like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder or easier to date as a man with a low sex drive ?I'd have to do more research because I don't really understand it still I guess. Also I never meant you don't have any sex drive but if it's low enough usually people like that dont watch porn at all , so that's bizarre. Like I can imagine you'd watch it once in awhile with a low drive but not get addicted. Are you thinking of sex or something else while even watching it ?? I wonder if having ED makes drive even lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder or easier to date as a man with a low sex drive ?But if you don't have a sex drive what would even compel you to be remotely interested in seeing it in the first place , let alone get addicted ? It doesn't make sense. You still have ED? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder or easier to date as a man with a low sex drive ?I don't understand how a guy can be a porn addict but not want sex... Can someone explain this to me because thats definitely not the first time I've seen and heard of that and I even knew guys personally who had this issue enough to develop erectile dysfunction.. for me the more I watch porn the more aroused I'd get so I have no idea why it would affect others differently. Also the answer really is this. Find a girl who also has a low sex drive and you guys would probably have the best relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsConsidering majority of the earth India China middle East Africa , Asia in general Are THE MAJORITY of the earth, yes my generalization is far more true then the miniscule amount of random women you know in America who want to be single , and I mean truly want to be for the rest of their lives, not due to any external events. They aren't gonna stop shaming that it's their culture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsYour seriously dumb... So one as to be hideous to be single ? All those leftover women as well? Leftover STARTS at 27 but could go up to age 60 or older..and why the fuck would she marry some 50 year old ? Presumably if she wants to she would have but what makes you think the 50 year old wants her ?..and not everyone wants to marry foreigners or are in positions to want to leave their native countries https://thediplomat.com/2017/07/chinas-trafficked-brides/ Those women aren't all doing it for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsIts not that safe to have kids after 35 let alone 40.. the eggs go bad as early as 27 and by 40 it's absolute crap and dangerous as documented by recent scientific research and I was talking about even older women 35-60 who have high standards..also it's not just the ability for the kids , in Asia you don't marry just for yourself you marry the whole family...no traditional family is going to like having an old daughter in law that's older than their son ..it's tradition even if it seems unfair … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsIt's not anacdotal because I'm not an idiot that claimed everyone thought the same, I specifically said they weren't while you said I was lying and exaggerating that these women I'm talking about can't possibly exist. You sincerely do not know how the world works typical of American arrogance. These cultures around the world even today demand and pressure women and men to be wed especially women for having kids. That's the reality so yes they care very much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsThe ARTICLE is saying that and the culture..I'm not the one that actually calls them that. Your really not bright at all to not differentiate that in the first place.. Also those men aren't gonna give a fuck that older women they aren't into are picky and have standards... Just like she's not gonna give a fuck that these poor lonely men want them. That is a completely useless point that you keep saying over and over. And ultimately your agreeing with me without realising it which basically is to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsYour still so one track minded and can't think outside the box . If they want children and a family...which most traditional countries it's NOT stupid for them to want to date younger women. It's an obvious necessity..they are not obligated to find older woman attractive the same way she's not obligated to date some broke farmer or some homeless guy.. which means BOTH of them have to accept their options or stay single. not to mention low birth rate due to those problems doesn't MEAN the people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls..why would I lie about that ? This is what I mean you got some internal weird insecure emotional issues tying you to this thing that boils your blood about women who want to be partnered. I don't know why but I'd take that off of here and resolve it yourself that's not my issue. So because your mom didn't care everyone else is the same?? Your gaslighting this and putting words in my mouth I never said but it's not gonna work. If you try to copy and paste a single time I ever said anyone needs t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsThere's a fine line between that choice though since you going to say incels are also choosing that because they can technically date a homeless person or pay for a hooker or If they drop their standards enough they can get someone at some point.. lots of people don't want to be single I talk to people in their 40s-60s who desperately want to be partnered, mostly older women but they can't because they are too old now and guys they want won't like them or they can't find another person they like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsBecause this isn't about justification...🤦🤦 It doesn't matter whether or not I lower my standards for my case...it doesn't matter how many people I reject or they reject me. You keep claiming all these people are single due to choice... Fact of the matter is I would rather be single then date someone I'm not into....THAT DOESNT MEAN I actually wish to be single. The same goes for many others who are single. This isn't rocket science and your gaslighting your own self and over complicating this i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsLiterally nobody is suggesting anything...Your completely incapable of extracting emotional bias into this and misnterpreting and botching what I said into your head. If some statistician gives you a report that talks about certain cultures refusing to eat beef are you going to say 'oh your suggesting that nobody should eat beef huh??' wth is wrong with you? That's not what this means. The reason I brought that up is because people seem to enforce WESTERN ideologies just like you are doing onto … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsThat's NOT the implication, your creating that nonsensical implication in your head because of your own bias. It's saying it's hard for them to date regardless of whether they want to or not due to age discrimination at a certain point, what part of that do you not understand ? So that includes women who are picky as fuck and chose that, others desperately wanted to but still couldn't find someone she wanted, OR other guys didn't like her. I never said women didn't reject the men or men didn't r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsThen argue with someone else ? I don't understand why you keep bringing that point up with me about what women and men should or shouldn't do, this solidifies the fact that you didn't read jack all I wrote and it's disrespectful and wasting time. I told you I don't care what these people do, that wasn't my point. I'm telling you that women suffer age discrimination there while they also have a crisis of men who want young wives but also can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsWhere did that insult come from?.. wtf ? You got mental issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsThat's still not even true... I really want a relationship more than most people but I've been single for over 10 years and prefer to be alone even if it bothers me then force myself to date someone I'm not attracted to, because I can't. People are very different when it comes to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsYour not using your brain. So everyone who are old CHOSE to be single? .. what kind of nonsensical conclusion are you making now.. There's multilayered factors to why someone remains single, none of that matters to this point. It's simply indicating as a general overall perception and research, it's difficult for women to marry once they past a certain age REGARDLESS on whether or not they choose it to be due to age discrimination. In fact her options go down less the more picky she is as she gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsOk but point is many DONT want to be single yet still have standards. What is your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsYou sound like a straight up tool at this point. Those OLD women are from an older generation where it was even more pushed to marry...also the article does NOT say anything about this impacting just old people . Your arrogance and refusal to admit you are simply incorrect especially as I come from a similar culture , is just bizarre at this point. Why on earth would you have more credibility ? I wouldn't be so obnoxious to be an idiot to do that. Nobody is saying there aren't women single by ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 01:59 PM |
| -1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsSo only people willing to be single should have standards ?? Everyone else should date obese neckbeards ..wtf? This is going around in circles again. Nobody is obligated to date anyone I don't care what standards someone has she can choose what she wants. All I'm saying is life can get more difficult if she wants a partner or expects one to fit all of her standards competing for the same type of people who have younger women at their disposal. Guys who have options typically those who are wealth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsYou didn't read anything I actually wrote...and haven't done the research . Go and actually read that article , am I supposed to believe you over the professor who verbatim just said they are NOT single by choice ? Again. Please read. Also I don't care what the Chinese men and women are doing, I have zero emotional ties to this unlike you do. I'm simply just giving you facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 05:38 AM |
| 0 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsWell if she is fine on her own and doing ok as a single mom that's good for her she's not obligated to date anyone or lower her standards but I was just saying if she is trying to have the same standards it gets harder when she's trying to compete against young girls without kids.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 05:23 AM |
| -1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsAre you Chinese do you come from that culture ? China is huge first of all consider what you are talking about which socio economic group etc yes there are people choosing to be single but that doesn't mean they don't want to find a partner, many leftover women or not still have very high standards so rather than lower it they can remain single while unable to compete with younger women... I saw a documentary of a female Chinese billionaire who was talking about this. . You should do research. L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:44 AM |
| 0 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsHuh ? I mean it gets harder for them to date, most people don't want to date single moms or dads or those with kids already and if your in that obscure age like I am where everyone's popping out kids, the dating market gets fucked. On the other end of the spectrum for women who desperately want kids but just can't find anyone to be with and time keeps passing, she's also screwed because it's a time bomb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:32 AM |
| -4 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsYa but that's actually the worst example because they are a conservative traditional society, most men there would absolutely not want to date an older woman let alone OLD. China's birth rates also going down too yet culturally they see women being left over and useless after age 27 let alone after 35.. I know women from these societies , one from Sri Lanka and some from India they are beautiful, well educated etc but completely fucked in the dating marriage market. Nobody wants them. Ultimately… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:14 AM |
| -3 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsThat's a very very small percentage of people. Unless you want to date single moms and divorced people with kids already the vast majority of humans want kids. I would know because I don't want kids ever and you'd be surprised that wipes off nearly everyone off the market when you choose that criteria in apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsThere's different takes on this. Women can do the same and have high standards if that's what they choose but it doesn't mean they can get away with doing the same. The biggest difference is that they have a limited biological ability to have kids and it expires much earlier than men. Male attractiveness peaks when they are older, most women prefer guys who are older actually way more than some inexperienced immature 20-25 year old guy who likely has way less money as well. The dating game ends … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:27 AM |
| -3 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsWomen can do the same if that's what they choose but it doesn't mean they can get away with doing the same. The biggest difference is that they have a limited biological ability to have kids and it expires much earlier than men. Male attractiveness peaks around your age, most women prefer guys who are older actually way more than some inexperienced immature 20-25 year old guy who likely has way less money as well. The dating game ends up becoming rigged where women can't really win as they can't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Women here constantly assert that the only alternative to their inflated value and refusal to lower their standards would be “dating men they aren’t attracted to” but in reality attraction is fluid and relative, and based entirely on one’s options and availability - hence the prison effectIt's not 'outdated' our biology didn't change just our culture and environment did. Women choosing to sleep around isn't the same as having biological advantages. That is a personal choice but there's still no biological advantage when if she chooses the wrong partner and not selective she will have to bear the burden of that pregnancy. Also as mentioned the average woman will still be far pickier than the average man.. even the most promiscuous women I've met were picky as fuck compared to most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Women here constantly assert that the only alternative to their inflated value and refusal to lower their standards would be “dating men they aren’t attracted to” but in reality attraction is fluid and relative, and based entirely on one’s options and availability - hence the prison effectAnd why the fuck should or would anyone do that ? The world is sick and messed up as it is the last thing we need is having people force themselves to train and get aroused by people they have no business associating with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Women here constantly assert that the only alternative to their inflated value and refusal to lower their standards would be “dating men they aren’t attracted to” but in reality attraction is fluid and relative, and based entirely on one’s options and availability - hence the prison effect...I need bleach for my eyes after what I read lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:21 AM |
| -1 | Women here constantly assert that the only alternative to their inflated value and refusal to lower their standards would be “dating men they aren’t attracted to” but in reality attraction is fluid and relative, and based entirely on one’s options and availability - hence the prison effectI'm gonna have to obliterate this argument. Men and women's sexualities aren't the same. Using prison butt rape as an example to tie it down to how female sexuality works is ridiculous and nonsensical. There's a reason why women and men on average are not even turned on by the same things even at the root biological level, these are studies that show universally all across the board. Men's highest desired qualities are always youth, fertility and a woman's ability to be a caretaker. (Which is wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather get the amount of attention women get, or amount of attention the average men get?Tbh...you'd be surprised at the male mind when it's been deprived of all love, affection and attention from women all their life when biologically engineered differently from women since our creation, please don't think they are the same. There's a reason why there are women and people in general that are such as you described, smelly rank hideous women get husbands and boyfriends. I've legit known them personally.. I have seen absolutely putrid women, ugly and absolutely disgusting (had a roomm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them"This is really hard because imagine you as a man get involved with a woman she gets pregnant and get an abortion when you begged and pleaded for her not to. The laws don't care and have zero say for men. She has total control and power to completely tear her unborn apart if she wants and also the power to force him to pay if he doesn't want the kid. Ultimately the child suffers so I think the laws should make both parents pay it's why this exists otherwise there's no way to control guys running … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 12:07 AM |
| 2 | What's some shit you see on dating profiles that just makes you throw up your arms like "DUDE WHY?!"I've asked before and just got one word responses , chucked it to trash on to the next lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Do you think men hit the wall around 45?Madonna is completely fucked up now especially if you see her recent bizarre bed photos basically looking like a drugged up stripper. Her ass and breasts also look totally whack they look fake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 12:05 AM |
| 3 | What's some shit you see on dating profiles that just makes you throw up your arms like "DUDE WHY?!"I laughed out loud at this because I think the same and it's why I pretty much gave up on dating apps. Babies in the pic for guys , or guys taking photos with cute puppies and kittens actually catch women's attention though because subconsciously women are drawn to the provider caregiver type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men hit the wall around 45?Madonna and cher lol? You are not ugly just poor is a saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior?Ya and someone who has one thing can not have another etc. Someone can be old with no body count or young with high body count, I'm saying how would someone cut losses when you can't know anyone until you get to know them which takes awhile? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 01:23 AM |
| 10 | Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior?What does that mean though ? The dating market is shit for everyone, even the top percentage of 'hot value' people are on there as either fake bots or just get used for or looking just for sex anyway. I've matched with these so called high value people they just look good but their personalities were fucked and they were not high value in the end, in the dating app world you can't tell until you truly get to know someone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 12:16 AM |
| 9 | Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior?Cut what type of losses? What do you mean by that ? Being serious about dating applies to anyone man or woman but when it comes to body count and age, those are things that are already set by the time you meet them. You can filter age out with apps though. Also what age group are you trying for ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 11:33 PM |
| 22 | Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior?The same reason why guys would care if women care about those same things. Neither things can be changed it's already happened...wtf would they do? Become younger or erase their body count ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 11:04 PM |
| 2 | “Among heterosexual women who reported having engaged in sexual activity, only 6.1% wanted to have daily sexual intercourse”Maybe it's because I'm sexually starved and barely ever had it in my life but I'd like it multiple times a day daily if I could tbh but I can only really enjoy it with someone I'm in love with or at least infatuated with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 03:19 AM |
| 4 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?I think both of you share some fair points actually neither of you are wrong but the thing here though is the risks for women still overall are much higher. Say a man and a woman both want sex, by biological differences most men are significantly stronger , more aggressive and have a higher likelihood of being more violent, the unfortunate reality then is that even if they both go out and venture off to try to get sex, the risks of her getting stds, pregnant, meeting some fucked up mentalcase gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?They can pay though , honestly if it gets to the point where absolutely nobody is willing to have sex with someone I wouldn't shame them for paying for that. Some people really just can't , especially disabled people or whatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 03:14 AM |
| 4 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?Yeah and it's actually the same for lesbians and gays as well... They are still wired the same way as straight girls and guys when it comes to that in many ways which is why gay guys can have tons of casual sex while most lesbians i know are still super super picky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 03:13 AM |
| 4 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?Just because she's a woman doesn't mean that shit doesn't come with consequences. Stds, pregnancies , the risk of meeting mentalcases,falling in love with pieces of shit ,sociopaths psychopaths and narcissists that will be on their best behaviour until they bag her leaving her with trauma , shame or even death etc. There's pros and cons to abstinence and having sex. Most women even ones who love sex, don't like it for the sole purpose of getting their body counts up... A lot of it still requires… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | What are the consequences of having a colourful past?Depends but usually most people who slept with that many people end up being Trainwrecks. Take it from Japanese male hosts there's documentaries about them they are rich as fuck making good money but completely destroyed and even admits it. After sleeping with over ,375 woman (one of them admitted) he said he's. Completely wrecked . He didn't even look happy anymore like soul sucked out and can't bond intimately with one lady anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What are the consequences of having a colourful past?It depends on many factors like not just about her sleeping around but how she carries herself and who she is. Is she a destroyed trainwreck after banging 500 men? Or is she ok , confident and still thriving? There are severe consequences but oy more so in traditional conservative societies. If she's from the western world she's relatively safe but the older she gets it's still going to get harder if she slept around a lot if she's not able to pair bond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 06:05 PM |
| 2 | What are the consequences of having a colourful past?It depends on many factors like not just about her sleeping around but how she carries herself and who she is. Is she a destroyed trainwreck after banging 500 men? Or is she ok , confident and still thriving? There are severe consequences but oy more so in traditional conservative societies. If she's from the western world she's relatively safe but the older she gets it's still going to get harder if she slept around a lot if she's not able to pair bond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 06:05 PM |
| 4 | Women feel entitled to men liking themMost women don't use guys for sex...men and women use each other for diff things because they aren't wired the same way and motivated by other things. Sex is easier for most women to Get than men, it's not that big of a reward like it is for men . Most aren't getting fulfilled just getting random dick and getting their body counts up, for women they would use guys for attention, money etc things like this while men's greatest reward and pursuit of chasing is for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:00 AM |
| 4 | Women feel entitled to men liking themWell it all ends the same but can have very diff circumstances. I was just explaining why it's valid why some people would feel entitled to someone's affections if they have deliberately led on enough to even have sex with them, it still doesn't mean they are entitled to actually getting it because nobody can force themselves to feel a way about anyone. Some random person coming out of the bushes and demanding me to love them is not the same as if I led someone on, slept with them knowing they l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 09:01 PM |
| 11 | Women feel entitled to men liking themSome women feel that way, some women don't care and then there's the ones in the middle that wish men would stop leading them on sending mixed signals of hot and cold and then get mad at women for getting disappointed about how they feel. Like many guys will literally be on their best behaviour peacock around women to sleep with them and once they get what they want they ghost them, then they get mad at the women for feeling entitled to their love.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Women feel entitled to men liking themSome women feel that way, some women don't care and then there's the ones in the middle that wish men would stop leading them on sending mixed signals of hot and cold and then get mad at women for getting disappointed about how they feel. Like many guys will literally be on their best behaviour peacock around women to sleep with them and once they get what they want they ghost them, then they get mad at the women for feeling entitled to their love.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you be mad if a man you liked a lot made you wait for sex?It's insane to know billions of people around the world get into arranged marriages and legit stuck...for all they know could have all those issues, sexual incompatibility, infertile woman, man, genital issues etc. It's crazy I'd never be able to marry someone I didn't have sex with before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you be mad if a man you liked a lot made you wait for sex?Depends on how much I love him and if everything else is fair game. If he doesn't want to touch or do anything sexual AT ALL, nah I don't think so. I have a very high drive that would be torture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ?Go to big cities and to expensive hotels and streets...I've seen plenty of times with young beautiful girls in their 20s with old hideous ugly Men, sugar daddies clearly but still | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ?One time I was absolutely floored when I saw a woman in UK in the subway station, she looked literally like a troll. Her body was awful, I've never seen someone built like that looked like a sausage, no neck, cankles (like...she didn't have ankles it looked like her legs just melded together with no break) and her face was hideous as well. Then I saw a man who leaned into her who was her partner and he was looking at her lovingly ...and I was like WTF ? Dude looked like a model lol I also saw an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 08:16 PM |
| -4 | Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ?Look more, it definitely happens and I've seen it quite a bit and vise versa too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?What if she's ugly messed up or stronger than you and tries to rape you and force herself onto you etc ? Stalks you at night etc these are issues that's all too real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?You know it's crazy but male creatures of nearly all species actually does that, literally. Male spiders risk their lives to mate with the female spider that's much stronger and larger than them, if she chooses to mate with him she eats him after to get his seed and nutrients for their babies Male tortoises, apes, deer, dogs etc I've seen all of these creatures fight each other to death in agonizing ways to try to fight for the female. They even discovered male fruit flies and male insects also … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?I don't think those are the same... The physiological and biological differences between men and women doesn't really have it so that women are naturally inclined to sodomize men, however men are naturally inclined to have vaginal sex with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?They'd trade it off but sodomized is a different story...most guys or people in general would not be down for that, that's fking rape. Also this would imply somehow that women would be the more dominant sex they'd want male sex slaves, constantly lust and go after men to an aggressive level etc like it would actually turn off a lot of guys and guys underestimate how annoying that would get for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 06:25 PM |
| -3 | Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ?I understand, it's easier said than done. I worked with someone she's a stunning beautiful girl 5.7 could be a model her husband is actually a 5.2 short fat balding ugly brown guy And no he wasn't and isn't rich. She was absolutely CRAZY about him, her eyes were and always only for him. Just saying don't lose hope, if he never approached her that day he never would know. Seriously though working out does help though, what's your ethnicity if it's ok to ask? Have you ever tried to date or approac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 06:23 PM |
| -2 | Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ?What exactly is unatrractive about you and have you tried to change it ? Working out and changing haircut and style does wonders but primarily working on your self confidence works wonders I've seen absolutely HIDEOUS men without money get beautiful loyal gfs still. Do you feel sexual desire for women at all or no? And how do you control it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:38 PM |
| -2 | Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ?Why did that happen though ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Should a man, in dating, treat women just like he treats men?You'd be surprised but as I said she did have issues dating and didn't ever really get approached. it wasn't until I analysed her personality and how she interacted with men that I understood. Looks are not everything, I get told I look like amazing but people don't really approach me and I've had struggles dating my entire life. I can't even imagine what it's like having a partner at this point and only person I dated was over 10 years ago . Your brain, inner self worth , personality is everyth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:34 PM |
| 3 | ONLINE DATING TRENDS: It turns out that Bumble, the app marketed as 'female-friendly' where only women can message first, has a user base of over 80% men in the UK. In the US, where the app is used by far the most, women are less than 1 in 3 usersThis isn't new news. It's well known that dating apps of every kind are giant sausage fests. Even ones meant for friendship apps and lesbians have majority guys on them and those posing as women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you care whether or not a man has been “run through”?There's no way in hell you had sex literally thousands of times in your life. It's impossible by age 38 to do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you care whether or not a man has been “run through”?I was involved with a guy who told me he couldn't remember how many people he was involved with, I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and not really give a crap as long as we were compatible and nice person. Well, it wasn't long until when I met him he was an absolute trainwreck and yes a lot of it had to do with him basically being a porn addict and addicted to one night stands as well. He ended up having STDs as well. He was unable to be loyal or commit to people as well. Do I believ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Should a man, in dating, treat women just like he treats men?Well the op was talking specifically about dating situations, not everyday situations though. Outside of that ofc treat people like people. Ive gone on dates where the person just had zero sexual or romantic energy, it is a turn off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Q4W - which of the following two men would you rather have?I totally get what you meant I was just stating why it is for me and if I didn't have the experiences and put in the ringer and got jaded by enough people I'd also agree with you. Now I don't, I just want a guarantee someone won't cheat or do the hot and cold bs or leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4W - which of the following two men would you rather have?I totally get what you meant I was just stating why it is for me and if I didn't have the experiences and put in the ringer and got jaded by enough people I'd also agree with you. Now I don't, I just want a guarantee someone won't cheat or do the hot and cold bs or leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Should a man, in dating, treat women just like he treats men?I used to have a female friend who was really pretty but she had zero sexual game or energy. She'd talk to everyone like someone would talk to the mailman, some grandmother, a cashier or some random passerby. She was very polite to guys but chronically single and im not too surprised that seems to be why. I mean I didn't really see how she spoke to a man she was truly interested in but even then I could tell she couldn't bring herself to do it. It's not always about looks that's when I realised … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Should a man, in dating, treat women just like he treats men?I used to have a female friend who was really pretty but she had zero sexual game or energy. She'd talk to everyone like someone would talk to the mailman, some grandmother, a cashier or some random passerby. She was chronically single and im not too surprised that seems to be why. I mean I didn't really see how she spoke to a man she was truly interested in but even then I could tell she couldn't bring herself to do it. It's not always about looks that's when I realised people really are about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:13 AM |
| 7 | Should a man, in dating, treat women just like he treats men?I used to have a female friend who was really pretty but she had zero sexual game or energy. She'd talk to everyone like someone would talk to the mailman, some grandmother, a cashier or some random passerby. She was chronically single and im not too surprised that seems to be why. I mean I didn't really see how she spoke to a man she was truly interested in but even then I could tell she couldn't bring herself to do it. It's not always about looks that's when I realised people really are about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4W - which of the following two men would you rather have?Interesting.. For me it's A. Just because he's a virgin and won't cheat doesn't make him boring or an incel, there's literally anything or everything else that he has free will on anyway and someone can still betray you even without cheating. Still one step above B I've endured way too much bs , liars, misogynistic pièces of crap with childhood trauma thrown in there in my life to last me a lifetime, so don't want anymore of that EVER again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:08 AM |
| 5 | Q4W - which of the following two men would you rather have?Interesting For me it's A. Just because he's a virgin and won't cheat doesn't make him boring, there's literally anything or everything else that he has free will on anyway and someone can still betray you even without cheating. Still one step above B I've endured way too much bs , liars, misogynistic pièces of crap with childhood trauma thrown in there in my life to last me a lifetime, so don't want anymore of that EVER again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Q4W - which of the following two men would you rather have?A. Just because he's a virgin and won't cheat doesn't make him boring, there's literally anything or everything else that he has free will on anyway and someone can still betray you even without cheating. Still one step above B I've endured way too much bs , liars, misogynistic pièces of crap with childhood trauma thrown in there in my life to last me a lifetime, so don't want anymore of that EVER again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?When did I say we are all fucked ? I mean to say looks don't matter to get long lasting relationships I've seen absolutely HIDEOUS people have people devote their lives to them and love them to death and get married to them, meanwhile I know the most beautiful people I've ever seen and they are single lonely get cheated on and abused and thrown away like trash. I know some instagram model girls you'd assume they would be dating rich guys in yachts, no they post about how they nearly died from be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?Yes watch the movie called Malena with Monica Bellucci and it's the case of how beauty can attract toxicity. Very sad movie but makes shows the dark side of beauty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?https://youtu.be/tOcQjCVkskQ Btw It's unreal. Rotting skin woman finds a hot husband https://youtu.be/yUvgJkiVKRc Male to female transgender amputee finds a bf Now I'm gonna have to clear history lmao the search key words I had to put in to find this was fucked up... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?https://youtu.be/tOcQjCVkskQ It's unreal, you tell me. Rotting skin woman finds a hot husband https://youtu.be/yUvgJkiVKRc Male to female transgender amputee finds a bf Now I'm gonna have to clear history lmao the search key words I had to put in to find this was fucked up... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?🤮🤮🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 05:38 AM |
| 3 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?The fucked up thing is I heard homeless people actually have sex... I've never seen it in person obv but I cant and don't even want to imagine that it always seems like an urban legend to me because I can't imagine being able to attract anyone being a smelly homeless person. The stds must be skyrocketing and the pregnancies , miscarriages abortions etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?Damn that sucks sorry to hear that. It hurt me so much when I'd see people who were narcissistic, horrible, unattractive and just ill natured people able to get true love while I drained myself giving love never to have it returned. Unfortunately this is due to childhood trauma for us and again, no amount of miss or Mr universe level of beauty will change that. I followed some influencers before who were insanely gorgeous talk about how they almost died due to their exes abusing them etc and it'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:58 AM |
| 5 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?It's sad because it doesn't matter how many simps she gets her souls already destroyed. Street prostitutes don't last long and the quality of guys she's getting ...she most likely will be dead in a few years I wouldn't envy her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:41 AM |
| 4 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?I have been told I look amazing yet I've been treated like absolute garbage from people I fell for, because my love map was based on my abusive caregiver and an absent father. I'm kind of sick and tired of people assuming I had the life handed to me, I've had people get jealous to the point of sabotaging relationships with me because they thought I'd steal their partners. I know it sounds like I'm complaining about looking good but that's not what I'm saying. It's that if I didn't have such a fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 03:32 AM |
| 26 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?Well...she's clearly a street prostitute and those guys aren't doing that to wine dine and marry her..it's just for a quick nut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?Ya and then you imagine them having sex and it's just like....noo urg wtfff??? I'm not gonna lie though it does make me hope that I can get someone too if she got them... I also don't want to make fun of those women at all I just had to be brutal with the descriptions to get the point across I was in a group bus few years ago going on a European tour trip and the most hideous girls there all are married with kids now. One of them morbidly obese with cottage cheese legs too. Crazy world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 03:27 AM |
| 6 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?I've been treated like absolute garbage from people I fell for, because my love map was based on my abusive caregiver and an absent father. I'm kind of sick and tired of people assuming I had the life handed to me, I've had people get jealous to the point of sabotaging relationships with me because they thought I'd steal their partners. I know it sounds like I'm complaining about looking good but that's not what I'm saying. It's that if I didn't have such a fucked up past I know I wouldn't be in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?It depends on the guys perception of himself tbh. One time I was absolutely floored when I saw a woman in UK in the subway station, she looked literally like a troll. Her body was awful, I've never seen someone built like that looked like a sausage, no neck, cankles (like...she didn't have ankles it looked like her legs just melded together with no break) and her face was hideous as well. Then I saw a man who leaned into her who was her partner and he was looking at her lovingly ...and I was lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?Depends where the guys from. Guys from countries like in eastern Europe where beautiful women are everywhere have much much higher standards. I showed some guys from there some girls who were considered really beautiful at my college to them and they were like 'wtf? No' their standards are much higher than most American guys tbh when people walk around looking like models. I mean if people haven't seen how Slavic and Balkan women look they will know what I'm talking about when they go there. I h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 02:59 AM |
| 27 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?Sometimes but not necessarily it's about inner self concept and personality. People will deny this to the grave but it's true. I've had no issues turning heads, the opposite sex throw themselves at my feet ,put me up at a pedestal to unreachable standards but have had trainwreck relationships in my life. I've only had one partner in my life like over 10 years ago and I can't even remember what it's like to have a partner whatsoever at this point. Most of the people who I've attracted were absolu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?You are absolutely correct. People will deny this to the grave but it's true. I've had no issues turning heads, the opposite sex throw themselves at my feet ,put me up at a pedestal to unreachable standards but have had trainwreck relationships in my life. I've only had one partner in my life like over 10 years ago and I can't even remember what it's like to have a partner whatsoever at this point. Most of the people who I've attracted were absolute freaks, narcissists, those who just wanted me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 02:51 AM |
| 6 | “Women make their own money now”I'm financially stable so while I won't say no to have a partner who spoils me that's not my main goal, I can be with someone who makes less as long as they are compatible and have some ambition. I care about personality and looks the most as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Ladies have you thought about going on the Fresh and Fit podcast to debate Myron on red pill talking points or is it too much of a challenge?I laughed at you mentioning your a butch lesbian attorney 😂 had to mention that point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Couple of reasons here. Age and biological factors , culture and geographical location Where I come from in Asia, it's pretty common for widows or older women (40s and up) to just remain single for the rest of their life, a lot of them also remain virgins. There are strong cultural components to this as their western counterpart still dates and has sex but these things are seen to be more decadent and not really of importance for women in those cultures, unless they have no means to survive on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?Because not everyone can actually be or get into a relationship. That is a sad pill to swallow but it's a reality and everyone's situation differs. For those people if they try to wait to find someone they love and be loved back, they may never actually be able to get sex and waiting until like 50 years old for sex honestly I think is shitty if that's not what they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?To be honest I think it does matter but I'm not saying just for sexist reasons. I once knew a guy who couldn't even remember how many people he's slept with...(red flag) I didn't judge him since he was like 26 , young and had his life ahead of him but it was soon to find out that he was and is an actual trainwreck and his compulsion of sleeping with random people was destroying him and other people he was sleeping with. He also didn't do it responsibly so he ended up spreading and getting diseas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want?Yeah but what does that have to do with how an individual feels and their personal reasons for why they hook up? It varies tremendously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want?I answered your question and your just being a troll now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want?You just said trends though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want?These things can't exactly be restricted to trends though because when it comes to someone's personal reason for hooking up it tremendously varies. I've met guys who do it for the same reasons the OP listed, they were miserable but were addicted to hooking up due to trauma. Other guys hookup because they are horny and love it. The same applies for women. These trends can show what gender in specific age groups, geographical location, culture hooksup more than others and certain things can be stu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men?Definitely but it gets worse depending where you are geographically and culture. If she's not financially self sufficient and doesn't care about being alone forever , living in a western country then she will be fine. If she's getting old but still didn't have kids or a partner her biological clock runs out much earlier than men . She's having to compete with younger women in the dating market who older men don't have a problem with getting. Meanwhile most women are not attracted to younger men,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 03:19 PM |
| 2 | What does being "sexually assertive" even look like?To be honest this is something that is quite difficult to explain because sexually assertiveness is something I simply just SENSED someone having or they just don't. It's not even something they are consciously doing or not doing, it's an energy thing that I can't properly explain. Although sexual assertiveness can come across as borderline being creepy, absurd and over the top obvious, it doesn't always have to be. Most of this is ingrained into the biological personality of that person which i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | I don’t see anything wrong with pumping and dumping a womanLook, this is fair game as long as BOTH sides are understanding what they are in it for. However pumping and dumping a genuine person who truly cares about you and wants something serious is being a serious fucked up scumbag. If you wouldn't want it for yourself, why would you do it to them? If it's a shallow narcissistic piece of shit who doesn't mind just also using you for a one nighty pump and dump go ahead but make sure to communicate to the first. you can't just assume everyone is the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 08:59 PM |
| 37 | Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative)That goes both ways. men and women who already have everything they want and don't need to rely on each other wouldn't be adding value unless that person values companionship , love or sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?I can't think of anything worse for myself . I am much older than 21 and never want kids and don't care about marriage. That would be a hellish life for me if I got married that early it's unfathomable for me. People have different goals and priorities in life. Not everyone cares about kids and family. I can see myself getting married maybe if the person is a unicorn that I can see myself spending the rest of my life with but even then I can't imagine it much. I'd be fine just being in a relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?I wish I had that..where are you finding these guys? Every guy I keep meeting young or old all want kids and marriage and I don't. I want to travel around still be free and I don't want kids. It's infuriating to me because I don't want a Fwb, I do want a real relationship but I dont want kids and marriage is still too early and not a requirement for me to be in a relationship. It's hard to find guys who want that actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 06:56 AM |
| 0 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?I think it's far less than civil to condone cheating, don't you? It's because you seem to be making excuses for wanting to get your genitals wet for a cheating college whore instead of getting my point instead of just owning what it is you actually did . If your gonna do something like that, or ANYTHING in general you have to be willing to accept the consequences of your actions and realise you are literally lowering yourself for primal base desires, it isn't rocket science. You haven't done tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?You are completely morally bankrupt and you don't even realise it. It's not simply about the cheating. The fact you said 'a need that's not filled' instead of bringing something else up meaning...you signed a literal oath to the grave till death do us part with your wife and assuming that you love and respect her as a person. It's not simply about your needs That's also not a ME problem. You seem to think your actions stay contained to you. Also using cheating experiences where somehow the conse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?Your still missing the point.. Just because you may survive a breakup doesn't mean others will. Most people do not just up and move on short of being a sociopath of some kind with zero emotional attachment to someone else, if their wife of 20 years just cheats and leaves them. I don't know what world you live in but that's a fact. I'm not saying everyone actually dies from heartbreak but some don't and can't get over it. I know people who didn't get over the loss of their exes even decades later… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?It can destroy your life if you share significant trust, assets, and family with someone... That's a very naive way to think. You'd need to get a divorce and she'd be taking all your money, kids lives can get destroyed also etc Regardless my initial point is it seems you have zero moral compass or remorse. You willingly partook and engaged with this person when you knew they were not single when you just said you wouldn't want to be cheated on yourself. Just because she's batshit insane is all t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?Why is it fucked ? Are you serious ? Would YOU want to be cheated on? What kind of a question is that She's a scumbag but her bf, maybe he was an innocent guy whose gf was getting railed by a willing participant, you. I'm just saying it's a scummy thing to do when there's tons of actual single girls with none of that drama attached you could have had fun with Cheating can destroy lives. You may not give a shit until you actually experience how it feels to have someone you love cheat on you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?I agree you need to clean after the kids but deep cleaning absolutely everything every day is what I was talking about mostly. Also yes I agree it does depend what kind of job someone does, how hard it is and also what kind of kids someone has. Again having triplets of very young ages isn't the same as. If the kids are older or teenagers, also depends on their personalities. Also I don't agree with last sentence at all. I could say you chose to marry a man/woman that breaks rocks 10 hours a day.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 03:59 AM |
| 2 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?Wait..what? So both of you were contributing to her cheating on her boyfriend the whole time? You willingly knew she had a bf and became fwb with her anyway ? Why would you do that ...that's fucked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 10:36 AM |
| 0 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?She was interacting with them though all the time, but she had multiple kids so they would entertain each other as well, personally I think she could have done more with herself as well as teaching the kids to do more intellectually stimulating things like having them read a small book a day etc instead of just letting them watch brainless material. I don't fully know though since I wasn't there but her life seemed relaxed. They also were not so young that she needed to change their diapers and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?What ?..who said it ends at 5, and it's really not easy to change jobs depending on a lot of people's situation and their skill level, its a risk to change jobs as well if the new one doesn't work out everyone is screwed.. The stay at home parent also gets paid indirectly...they aren't bringing any money in so where is that coming from? They have a roof over their head and They usually also have joint bank accounts so they'd be using all the money whenever they want as well. They can go do dayca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?Well that being said I think both parents should contribute to actually engaging and raising the kids but I don't agree with sharing ,50/50 on the cooking and cleaning. Unless I guess the breadwinners job requires hardly anything to do (legit my local shop had an old security man who sat there and slept in the corner everytime I saw him, never saw him do much) while the SAHM/SAHD had to mow the lawn, drive kids around all day, and had to clean up after her 3 triplets had massive diarrhea or vomi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?That's really hard to say what average there is for such things. Like in this type even for the sake of the argument it doesn't work. Also that tiktok mom was constantly engaging with her kids, they were watching same stuff she was and were always around them etc. There are billions of people around the world with kids with billions of different jobs and diff temperament for the children. I have seen strikingly different personalities for toddlers and kids as well. I babysat a few of them that w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?I don't understand what you mean by the first paragraph. And sending the kids off to school means that parent can just sleep some days because they don't need to clean constantly everyday . Cooking and also be done meal prep style too, like there's ways that can be done where the stay at home parent really can have more of a relaxing life. I know many who barely do jack all at home and it's precisely why they don't want to even work when I asked them as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?There is something you don't understand here.. if you actually add up the time that you have because it's mentally and physically impossible to CONSTANTLY be coddling and talking to your kids (that's not healthy anyway) and obsessing about their extracurricular activities (how many exactly are they having? They aren't going to swimming, basketball and dancing all in the same day) , your 'break' is going to be way more than that meager 30 min rushed lunch break that you may or may not even get de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?Ya but I could also be getting yelled at by my boss, harassed by my coworkers and doing a job I hate being nearly suicidal so the family can eat. There's no 'this is worse then you so be quiet ' contest. This is something that depends on the family, the kids , what job the breadwinner is doing etc. I know stay at home parents that love what they do and it's not that hard for them , they would be extremely stressed and not capable of holding down a corporate job or out breaking rocks. Vise versa … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?I think that entirely depends on the job and the kids...I know tons of stay at home parents that barely have to do anything...one I know she could have gotten an advanced degree by now. She chills, sits there watches her kids play around, she's just watching and addicted to tiktok and mindless soap operas all day in and day out and sent me instagram shots to prove it. She barely does anything she even said. Not all kids are disobedient screaming brats either. That being said I get your point tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?Well lots of them are doing only fans on the side now so ..haha some guys would be ok with it some won't. Would you be ok with your partner doing that ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?Well lots of them are doing only fans on the side now so ..haha some guys would be ok with it some won't. Would you be ok with your partner doing that ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?Yeah some could, some couldnt and it was killing their male partners... The sad thing is the guys would sign themselves up for it and get destroyed. I know a young guy his ex basically used up all his savings of 2 years that he voluntarily spent basically -shudders- The other ones like my aunt's were married to my multi millionaire uncles so it would be pointless for them to work I guess. They also had a maid 24-7 so my aunts literally would just shop, chill, go have fun or do what they want wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?I'm surprised you think that. Every single stay at home parent I knew were women and they would not be doing anything at all to contribute financially. It seems different for men who are stay at home father's I talked to another one he also had a personal business on the side as well. In both of your cases it would be fine, kids get raised and you are able to contribute financially as well as have a backup financially as well and wouldn't be left destitute if and only if something goes wrong. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?It sounds like you had a very busy calender prepared for your kids. I don't know how often you'd have all those scenerios realistically come up but it depends on the ages of the kids and how active they are and how active you are socially etc. The thing that would be annoying as fuck though is teaching kids on how to do their homework especially math because it would have been ages since most parents would have done that to help them. As for being a primary breadwinner the entire reason any of y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?You just said you are an independent contractor and work from home. So you are not literally a stay at home parent that doesn't do anything else or contribute financially. You are a working man, just happens to work from home. That's not what the OP is saying , he's saying in situations where the stay at home person doesn't work AT ALL and will never financially contribute. I was looking at it from a long term thing. Marriages can fall out for any reason down the line, one partner will take the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?You just said you are an independent contractor and work from home. So you are not literally a stay at home parent that doesn't do anything else or contribute financially. You are a working man, just happens to work from home. That's not what the OP is saying , he's saying in situations where the stay at home person doesn't work AT ALL and will never financially contribute. I was looking at it from a long term thing. Marriages can fall out for any reason down the line, one partner will take the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?You just said you are an independent contractor and work from home. So you are not literally a stay at home parent that doesn't do anything else or contribute financially. You are a working man, just happens to work from home. That's not what the OP is saying , he's saying in situations where the stay at home person doesn't work AT ALL and will never financially contribute. I was looking at it from a long term thing. Marriages can fall out for any reason down the line, one partner will take the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:41 PM |
| 7 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?You need to sit down and have a talk because that is fking ridiculous. He needs to contribute and do that stuff not you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?That's not the same thing as what the question is asking . It's not asking about raising kids but actual housework meaning cooking and cleaning. Unless you have 0-2 year old triplets the same age shitting their brains out every few minutes most kids don't need constant chronic attention. They would be fine being interacted with each other for some moments on and off and there would be plenty of time to still relax. Now if we are talking about having to actually teach them schoolwork and such I t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:32 PM |
| -2 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?I don't really agree because the entire reason any of you would be able to even survive is because of your earnings. Unless you live in a huge mansion, cleaning honestly doesn't take long. 2-3 hours max. And you wouldn't be cleaning literally everyday, that leaves rest of the day to do anything and everything else sitting at home with the kids. Cleaning wise for me Depends on what it is. I prefer to clean certain things specifically the way I want it to be. Also since I have really long hair it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?If both parents each make 50000 then it's affordable. It's expensive but id rather go in debt than stay at home and rotting my brain. No offense but that's not a life I can do and I'm a woman. I need to be out being productive and making money and using my brain. Also look at it long term, at least If the marriage fails there's a chance both partners still keeps their jobs and rise up the ranks to make more. One of them quits then the other one is completely fucked and can't get back in the work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:25 PM |
| 7 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?If both parents each make 50000 then it's affordable. It's expensive but id rather go in debt than stay at home and rotting my brain. No offense but that's not a life I can do and I'm a woman. I need to be out being productive and making money and using my brain. Also look at it long term, at least If the marriage fails there's a chance both partners still keeps their jobs and rise up the ranks to make more. One of them quits then the other one is completely fucked and can't get back in the work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?For me Depends on what it is. I prefer to clean certain things specifically the way I want it to be. Also since I have really long hair it gets everywhere so I'd try to pick that up in the bathroom. Other then that, I wouldn't do jack shit. If im bringing home the bread, I expect the stay at home partner to clean and cook and do everything expected in the home. In return I am providing financial security and paying for everything. I think this is completely reasonable and a fair trade. I'd be th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?For me Depends on what it is. I prefer to clean certain things specifically the way I want it to be. Also since I have really long hair it gets everywhere so I'd try to pick that up in the bathroom. Other then that, I wouldn't do jack shit. If im bringing home the bread, I expect the stay at home partner to clean and cook and do everything expected in the home. In return I am providing financial security and paying for everything. I think this is completely reasonable and a fair trade. I'd be th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingOk, and that doesn't discriminate gender either. I don't get why you would even see it that way. Lgbtq man woman intersex etc they are all human, and they will all be variety of people who will care about intersexual dynamics and those who don't. If you think for a second that men are more empathetic to female causes compared to the other way around just because they are a man, that's complete nonsense. I've met tons of guys who treat women like absolute shit and dismiss their struggles and I al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingThat first point is the truth. Tons of human beings don't give a shit about other humans it's got nothing to do with gender. It's about the person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingNor do men care about women's, but we can't speak in absolutes. It's more like some people in general won't care about someone else period. Also my main point was good looks does not guarantee happiness or success in relationships, your brain does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingWon't care about what ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?I see. Well I just wanted to offer a perspective on why being a stay at home dad has more severe consequences at least in the eyes of society. In terms of financial ruin or anything else that's a diff story | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?Probably not especially playing basketball their knees and legs will eventually be shot. Tall guys have disadvantages people don't know about I guess , it's hard for them to build muscle also especially in the leg area | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?That's how evolution happened I guess because if men were picky like women the population would plummet. Maybe we need pickier men though as the world's overpopulating but that's another topic altogether. As for me, I'd rather die alone then force myself to be chained down to a random person I'm not attracted to. Sex is different but Even then I need to be sexually attracted to them. Even if someone's the last person on earth if I'm not attracted to them, I'm not going to get with them, would ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?Well it also makes a diff between fucking and dating her. Tons of guys would have sex with a lot of girls even low quality ones, dating is diff. Most guys wouldn't turn down Jennifer Lopez or Shakira even if they are 6 feet or a tall girl who is super good in bed who worships their dick aha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?Well that I can understand it's why sometimes I got so turned on I just tried to find Fwb but that never worked out for me . Same for you every one of them got bored or ghosted. One night stands are shit as well. However your capable of finding satisfaction with just orgasming and getting your penis stimulated, lots of guys are like that. Some guys are very picky though . I know guys who are extremely good looking and have high libidos but they won't just fuck any girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?I find it hard to believe it until you have actually turned a hot girl down just for being tall. I think guys get horny for a beautiful women in general even if she's tall What doesn't work with a 4.11 out of curiosity ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?I think like after 6.2 guys joints start to look slightly wonky and weird , usually they end up having twig legs and back problems, spinal deformities from bending a lot unless they work out often. All the very tall men I know have told me this as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?Well then does connection matter at all to you or it's just not what your looking for right now ? Most men say sex is better with a girl that they can have a good time with, don't even have to love or be in a relationship but at least enjoy their company. Otherwise are you saying you can still enjoy sex completely and for a long term period with a bitchy girl and you don't like her personality, as long as she wants the sex ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?I'm not that extreme but id rather avoid it. It ends up just amping up your body count while feeling used or gross, for me I can still be sexually attracted to someone and find them physically hot and I can do the deed but without connection, I end up feeling unfulfilled empty and bored. Even with a very high libido i need that connection to keep it going so feels like a curse since connections rare to find. As for yourself are you a complete demisexual then? Like you can't even get turned on or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?Feels so empty though, don't you want an emotional connection? Sex gets way better otherwise it feels like doing a prostitute or a blow up doll after awhile. I mean don't get me wrong I can still be sexually turned on by people but without the connection I eventually get bored and unfulfilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?Really ? You would turn a girl down at 5.11 even if she looks like a Victoria secret model and is a great match for you ? Also do you have a limit on how short they get? Like under 5 feet is too short maybe ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?6.8 wtf...I think that's too tall for me anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?How tall are you? What if she's like 5.11 or taller than you but super model beautiful with wonderful connection to you and sweet ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?Height matters more to western women I find If you go to South Asian countries and south American countries...it's not too uncommon to see men who are like 5.2-5.6 actually but those men still had no issues getting laid. They were funny, charming and good dancers usually and the women in those countries are even shorter than them so they don't care. They stop being picky because If they had western standards they would be wiping out the entire market and would die alone. in Asia It was super com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?Go to Europe lots of guys taller than 6 feet lol especially northern Europe and even in Slavic countries. At your height I wouldn't even be concerned with dating a taller guy as it would be wiping out so much of the market Would you be ok dating a guy slightly shorter or same height as you ? Like 5.9-6 feet can't be that hard to find | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?Damn it's the same for me, I hate being this way because I have a super high libido but i need emotional connection to feel satisfaction during sex otherwise it feels like a shitty unsatisfying ONS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?Not really...I talked to lots of guys who said they'd never date a girl taller then them..one told me even if she was his height he wouldn't no matter how pretty she was | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 03:58 PM |
| 8 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?Height matters more to western women I find If you go to South Asian countries and south American countries...it's not too uncommon to see men who are like 5.2-5.6 actually but those men still had no issues getting laid. They were funny, charming and good dancers usually and the women in those countries are even shorter than them so they don't care. They stop being picky because If they had western standards they would be wiping out the entire market and would die alone. in Asia It was super com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?There are risks being a stay at home dad that stay at home mother's don't deal with the same way. traditional the society the man's from, being a stay at home dad makes him an absolute loser laughing stock never to be taken seriously like it's enough to the point of losing face , people judging him and he won't easily be hired again in the future without job experience. Other guys would think something is wrong with him also and stop hanging out with him. In places like Scandinavia though like S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 03:23 PM |
| 2 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?The thing is the more traditional the society the man's from, being a stay at home dad makes him an absolute loser laughing stock never to be taken seriously like it's enough to the point of losing face , people judging him and he won't easily be hired again in the future without job experience. Other guys would think something is wrong with him also and stop hanging out with him. In places like Scandinavia though like Sweden and such they have the highest rates of stay at home dad's in the worl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?I agree with you and the more traditional the society the man's from, being a stay at home dad makes him an absolute loser laughing stock never to be taken seriously like it's enough to the point of losing face , people judging him and he won't easily be hired again in the future without job experience. Other guys would think something is wrong with him also and stop hanging out with him. In places like Scandinavia though like Sweden and such they have the highest rates of stay at home dad's in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 03:20 PM |
| 2 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?Lmao me too 😂😂😂 he's got a point though. I don't get why he got downvoted so much . As a man lots of homeless guys don't want to be cooped up in shelters they actually prefer to have freedom and be out. A woman can't because she's vulnerable to getting raped, has periods and can't protect herself as easily and sometimes has children with her to take care of. Both are horrible conditions but it's worse being a homeless woman than a man. Now, in some societies though there are shelters for women b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 03:12 PM |
| 2 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?Good points. I think the only way it may be worth it is if the spouse is absolutely crazy rich/wealthy where the divorce settlement would be enough to feed them for a lifetime . Maybe she'd be able to sell her Gucci bags and such and invest it. Even then though sadly there's a risk. I saw a documentary where there was a woman who lived a fabulously wealthy life but one day after 20-25 years her husband decided to ghost her, and toss her and their kids out of their house. She ended up living off … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 02:58 AM |
| 2 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?That story makes me sad but it's definitely one of millions/billions.. luckily it worked out where the kids at least got a privileged life and hope she got some money out of divorce .if they had prenups she wouldn't get anything I guess . Did she eventually get some kind of a job or no? How long has it been since she worked that finance role? Many say you can't live in fear. It's not about living in fear. This can happen to anyone and blind side them that's the whole point. You can never truly k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?It's not about living in fear. This can happen to anyone and blind side them that's the whole point. You can never truly know what can happen down the line it doesn't even mean that person hates you or cheats. It can simply just be that they fall for someone else or circumstances out of their control happen where they can't be with you anymore for whatever reason. The split can even be amicable but that doesn't mean the stay at home parent wouldn't take a hit from that, while the other spouse ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 02:16 AM |
| 2 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?Ya civil engineer to cleaning toilets , she's one of the luckier ones...there are most who can't find a job at all. It's delusional when they think they can keep their experiences and education as a backup just incase they decide to become an engineer again after 25 years...that's not how that works I know women where their husbands just decided one day to toss them out and leave, leaving them with nothing. They live through government assistance doing horrible jobs to survive scraping toilets o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?You can work and still raise kids somehow I'd rather pay the babysitter than sit on my ass forever in the house with the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:45 PM |
| 3 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?Fuck no for me and I'm a woman realistically what would happen if she wants a divorce ?..let's say down the line in 10-20-30 years. You would not be able to get back in the job market. Your education and experiences wouldn't count anymore employers barely hire people with a few years of age gap, let alone decade. Not trying to be pessimistic but i would never be able to do what you do. I know a woman who gave up her civil engineering job to raise her kids as a stay at home mother, she tried to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:44 PM |
| 9 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?Fuck no for me and I'm a woman realistically what would happen if she wants a divorce ?..let's say down the line in 10-20-30 years. You would not be able to get back in the job market. Your education and experiences wouldn't count anymore employers barely hire people with a few years of age gap, let alone decade. Not trying to be pessimistic but i would never be able to do what they do. I know a woman who gave up her civil engineering job to raise her kids as a stay at home mother, she tried to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:41 PM |
| 2 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?Fuck no for me and I'm a woman realistically what would happen if she wants a divorce ?..let's say down the line in 10-20-30 years. You would not be able to get back in the job market. Your education and experiences wouldn't count anymore employers barely hire people with a few years of age gap, let alone decade. Not trying to be pessimistic but i would never be able to do what you do. I know a woman who gave up her civil engineering job to raise her kids as a stay at home mother, she tried to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:40 PM |
| 0 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?I'm happy for you but realistically what would happen if she wants a divorce ?..let's say down the line in 10-20-30 years. You would not be able to get back in the job market. Your education and experiences wouldn't count anymore employers barely hire people with a few years of age gap, let alone decade. Not trying to be pessimistic but i would never be able to do what you do even as a woman. I know a woman who gave up her civil engineering job to raise her kids as a stay at home mother, she tri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Women, what exatly do you feel when you see a naked man?It has to be that way or the entire world would be more overpopulated than it is. Women biologically are at a significant disadvantage. 9 months of pregnancy is on the line and no joke . They are hardwired to be pickier on average than men, however there are exceptions as always. I've met guys who were pickier than some women and women who were barely picky and took what they got | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Discussion : Women moving on faster than men.There's no such thing. I take years to get over someone and even then I don't really ever truly get over them. It leaves a gaping hole in my heart. It also depends entirely on circumstances on how it happened who dumped who and genetic predisposition not based on gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t seem to listen to men here nor care about what they are saying. This is perhaps most evident in their continually responding to every complaint men make about dating by implying they only want sex, when a good number of men here want companionship.The amount of younger guys or guys in general that wants to commit and devote themselves to an old woman is slim to none, it's the same amount of girls an ugly broke guy would get, maybe somewhere in the world they exist but not many and it doesn't mean they will ever meet such people . How many actual older to legit old women have you talked to regarding this? Not just that but it's common sense. I don't know a SINGLE guy who would want to date a woman seriously if she's like 40 plus, especiall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t seem to listen to men here nor care about what they are saying. This is perhaps most evident in their continually responding to every complaint men make about dating by implying they only want sex, when a good number of men here want companionship.I said earlier though, it's literally only in her youthful years. Shit goes down hill for women in a much worse way than guys can fathom after like 35 and in many cultures as early as 27. I think your also confusing dating with sex. women can get sex easier sure, and men can too if they set the bar low enough or pay, but we aren't talking about that. We are talking about how many guys are seriously going to want a relationship with a woman who is old, dont want or can't have kids. That's a dealb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t seem to listen to men here nor care about what they are saying. This is perhaps most evident in their continually responding to every complaint men make about dating by implying they only want sex, when a good number of men here want companionship.I don't think you fully understand though. Only in the youthful fertile years if she's attractive. If she's ugly and doesn't have a charming personality, she is screwed just like a guy in the same position. And trust me guys don't truly understand this because they have never been an old unattractive woman whose past child bearing age, especially as women have higher likelihood of getting muscle atrophy and issues involving her bowels and bladder to prolapse. I know a woman in her forties whose … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t seem to listen to men here nor care about what they are saying. This is perhaps most evident in their continually responding to every complaint men make about dating by implying they only want sex, when a good number of men here want companionship.If we are comparing pure true equivalents that still isn't true though once she's past 30 truly. Note that women have an earlier expiry date for fertility, she literally can't control that. The eggs start to deform as early as 27 science has even proven that. However men can have kids at a far later age (although not recommended as they too have a limit) . Consider that most humans want kids so if she hasn't had kids already most guys won't want them, they'd want a younger one who can actually h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t seem to listen to men here nor care about what they are saying. This is perhaps most evident in their continually responding to every complaint men make about dating by implying they only want sex, when a good number of men here want companionship.That's not true. A woman's value in society as brutal as this sounds primarily is her youth and fertility,. That is their greatest asset. Yes an old ugly woman can be rich and live a good life being single if she doesn't mind that but society will not place value on a woman's achievements , her educational background as much as it will for a man. Most guys also don't care about that stuff and will always value a younger fertile broke woman who is bubbly and kind than some introverted social recl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 05:20 PM |
| 8 | Women don’t seem to listen to men here nor care about what they are saying. This is perhaps most evident in their continually responding to every complaint men make about dating by implying they only want sex, when a good number of men here want companionship.I agree with you, but know that women also have to deal with shit in different ways. Their reign ends the moment they start to hit 30 plus if they haven't landed a good man yet. If you are ugly and an introverted woman with bad social skills nobody cares about you. I've seen endless horrifically abusive comments being made against fat women, old women , women in general telling her to go back in the kitchen, derogatory things about her body parts and more . Keep in mind most societies still are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t seem to listen to men here nor care about what they are saying. This is perhaps most evident in their continually responding to every complaint men make about dating by implying they only want sex, when a good number of men here want companionship.Regardless the same end result happens and that kind of mentality makes the guy build his own self fulfilling prophecy of continually attracting women who will just use him or will be repelled by him as well. It also will subconsciously make him cast all women in that same light so even if a real genuine good one comes along he's so jaded or uninterested he'd repel her away before he can see that she's even real. Thus, the guy literally just becomes that guy that doesn't care about women but jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingI think so for both of those cases especially for the girl but for him I think it's a cultural thing too. Like men pay for everything where he's from and he's used to it he's conditioned to believe he needs to do that to make things work. Also the girls he was involved in were narcissistic bitches and just incompatible i guess As for attracting people, once you stop caring so much of what they think and focus on the self that's when it starts to happen. Never look outwards for happiness since it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingI know what you mean I know one who is like 6.3, ripped/fit, tall , very good looking but struggled to date and got ghosted and flaked on. He got cheated on twice and used and basically abused by every ex for his money even when he's not rich because he was too nice and also comes from a culture that spends on women. Good looking guys get jaded too like anyone else , sometimes worse than ugly guys and same goes for women ..looks aren't everything. Ugly people may look at hot people and assume au… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingI know one who is like 6.3, ripped/fit, tall , very good looking but struggled to date and got ghosted and flaked on. He got cheated on twice and used and basically abused by every ex for his money even when he's not rich because he was too nice and also comes from a culture that spends on women. Good looking guys get jaded too like anyone else , sometimes worse than ugly guys and same goes for women ..looks aren't everything. Ugly people may look at hot people and assume automatically they have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:33 PM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingYa dating sucks for everyone man or woman in different ways but I don't think a lot of people realise what actually happens.. have you truly seen what happens when women drop their standards ? Ever seen that woman on skid row begging for money and getting pimped out ? I saw a documentary where a woman was conned and was thrown out of her house by her husband and she was left homeless. He was extremely wealthy and money laundered through expert means so she had no proof. Many guys also just knock… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 01:05 AM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingI know one who is like 6.3, tall , very good looking but struggled to date and got ghosted and flaked on. He got cheated on twice and used and basically abused by every ex for his money even when he's not rich because he was too nice and also comes from a culture that spends on women. Good looking guys get jaded too like anyone else , sometimes worse than ugly guys and same goes for women ..looks aren't everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 01:01 AM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingYa dating sucks for everyone man or woman in different ways but have you truly seen what happens when women drop their standards ? Ever seen that woman on skid row begging for money and getting pimped out ? I saw a documentary where a woman was conned and was thrown out of her house by her husband and she was left homeless. He was extremely wealthy and money laundered through expert means so she had no proof. Many guys also just knock a girl up and run away , many women are at risk of getting ro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameSo you are admitting you are a total user? That sounds fucked up . Why would you go for that ? Go for girls who clearly want the same thing you do to prevent headache and also heartbreak. There's lots of girls who don't want commitment as well and just sex Also being hot isn't everything. Looks don't last and what if her personality stinks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......That's what the OP is talking about though...he literally is talking about the major advantage he has over woman is he doesn't have to fear for his safety as much compared to a woman due to the strength difference and less risk of him getting raped or assaulted that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameSo how are you different from them ? You like to use each other and if it's consensual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | is it that impossible for women to believe that?I can say as a bicurious person Ive been trying to get with a woman for over 10 years with no luck. Only ones I had zero interest in or seemed to have mental issues etc were mildly interested. This is coming from someone who people think looks really good, I work out and have had people throw themselves at me. Men are much easier but that being said, neither gender is a easy for relationships. Finding someone you actually connect with enough to want to date is harder than sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameI was floored but I knew extremely attractive men some that women would throw themselves at their feet for get used abused and thrown out like trash by shallow women as well, or cheated on. Same happens vise versa looks don't mean shit hot people can still be treated like crap This gives no context on why the girl was dumped and what kind of a person the hot guy is. They aren't all the same. So because he's hot he's automatically high value ? Maybe he's a piece of shit maybe she's a piece of shi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameYeah I was floored but I knew extremely attractive men some that women would throw themselves at their feet for get used abused and thrown out like trash by shallow women as well, or cheated on. Same happens vise versa looks don't mean shit hot people can still be treated like crap This OP also gives no context on why the girl was dumped and what kind of a person the hot guy is. They aren't all the same. So because he's hot he's automatically high value ? Maybe he's a piece of shit maybe she's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameThis gives no context on why the girl was dumped and what kind of a person the hot guy is. They aren't all the same. So because he's hot he's automatically high value ? Maybe he's a piece of shit maybe she's a piece of shit and he actually dates an uglier girl but with better compatibility for him and is a nicer person. Maybe she was a good girl but wasn't right for him and he wanted something else or wanted to remain single. Maybe he has mommy or daddy issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......You have never posted anything verbatim that says 30 percent of intimate partner homicides from WOMEN are men. In fact I tried to even look that info up it doesn't say that anywhere not even in the websites catering to male victims. You are so full of shit it's sad , you sound genuinely mentaly ill at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:42 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......It's not basic mathematics when the math doesn't work that way, you are a retard. Thats not how you interpret that data in the first place because it's not talking about 30 percentage of men dying from women. It's saying 1/9 men are victims not indicating if the abusers are male or female either, that's it. And acknowledging the stats also means more male victims are victims of other men so it's not adding to your misogynistic bullshit points about how most guys are killed by women I gave you so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Again what the fuck are you talking about? You are braindead. We are talking of male victims not the female and those stats are not talking of deaths. And I didn't bring that up, you brought up 30 percent or guys die by females which has zero basis, you still clinging onto this like a loser. You have been wrong about every stat especially the thing about how rare it is for a woman to be sexually assaulted or raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 09:25 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......1/9 is like 11 percent...and it's not related at all indicating about guys dying by women ...wtf is wrong with you? X.x your brain is broken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Stop gaslighting you are a fucked up tool. If it's unrelated then why the hell would you indicate just now that equates to 30 percent of guys dying by females ? NOWHERE does it indicate that. Your taking that out of your ass completely. I literally gave you stats of actual deaths ... 12 guys dying a year isn't 30 percent especially when it doesn't even indicate if they are dying by women or men And look at how you aren't addressing everything else I wrote which supports the OPS point because you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society.........victims doesn't mean death. And 1/9 of male victims means 30 percent of guys dying to you by a woman? You specifically said they are dying by female partners when the studies don't indicate it. Given the fact that it literally states there's more guys dying by other men?12 men per year dying verses like 74 women as well? You are officially retarded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK499891/ 1/4 female victims 1/9 male victims. That's not 30 percent of guys dying. You can't do math Your unable to stick to the main topic and ignoring the major points that he said because you have literally nothing else to hold onto. And also here is what proves how utterly stupid you are and you can't even see it.. Your banging on about this 30 percent holding onto it for dear life but not taking into account These factors: 1) you aren't even differentiat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 07:43 PM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Over the past five years (April 2015 to March 20), on average 12 men per year had been killed by a partner or ex-partner (74 women per year Only 4.4% of victims of domestic abuse being supporting by local domestic services are men according to SafeLives data. Domestic violence occurs in gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender couples, and the rates are thought to be similar to a heterosexual woman, approximately 25%. There are more cases of domestic violence among males living with male partners… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Because those stats again are taken out of context and you don't even understand how to interpret it. It gives zero context to why it even happens. Those stats also take in cases where a guy was beating a woman up to death and she kills him in self defense, same vise versa. Some of those cases could easily be justified you don't know the context of why it happened. Maybe he was beating her to death maybe she killed his dog and his family you don't know Secondly even when it does happen in most c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:35 PM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......The OP was not even talking about intimate partners and chances of dying by a woman in domestic abuse...wtf are you talking about ? And it doesn't matter if YOU don't give a shit about that, the facts don't go away. The stats with domestic abuse doesn't change the fact that guys can still beat the shit out of their GFS or wives If their life is at stake and survive it. you are a total idiot for continuing to ignore that. So that's why the example I gave of a jacked guy getting beat up by his scr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......You are dumb as a rock. I am posting this again Again pit EQUIVALENT Cases against each other , not 'well men are more prone to get attacked etc ' That doesn't explain shit when you compare a jacked big guy getting jumped vs a small female getting jumped. Just use your actual head. so because the jacked big guy is systematically more prone to getting attacked by other guys, that DOES NOT MEAN the small woman has a higher chance of survival than him.. AND in the instances where guys would jump a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......That argument goes both ways, you don't have any data explaining the circumstances to WHY it happens or anything. Your just assuming all that data is based off of shit similar like amber Heard beating up Johnny Depp. I never said I outright believe that but biologically across the world and culturally, men are more prone to aggression and violence on average, they are more. Domineering and less agreeable than women, that is an overall general scientific fact. That isn't make believe , so of cour… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 02:01 PM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Your not even arguing any basic points here that was addressed. You even know for a hard fact men are stronger than women, you know for a fact that they have a higher chance of survival if the same shit happens to them. We established Using guns and mass weapons as an example is stupid because everyone and anyone would die from that which makes that proposition equal which is why I brought up the stabbing example. I don't think the data you presented is false necessarily but it's extremely easy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 11:47 AM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......your insane prosposterous statement is still saying men are invincible nobody is saying that it just means a guy just has a higher chance of surviving that if the EXACT same shit happens to them. We are not talking about what gender is more likely to die by violence, especially as it's extremely easy to misinterpret that data just like you are doing now. In terms of domestic violence if you do the actual in depth research it also says a lot of the times of women killing a man it's due to self de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......You sound nuts. So physical strength doesn't matter what soever ? I know guys who were jumped by multiple guys and survived to live the tale BECAUSE they had the strength to fight them off. Women can't, you have zero common sense if you think size and physical strength difference doesn't mean shit. He was being stabbed and he survived because he had the strength to fight the guy and redtrain him, a woman won't be able to . So unlike your insane prosposterous statement saying men are invincible n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......The vast majority of MEN aren't attacked brutally by an axe murderer or a gun wielder either so what is your point ? We are comparing extremes because we are talking specifically about extreme situations. Why on earth would you assume I am talking about date rapes? I am not talking about some chick who decides she didn't like the sex while being half drunk and decides to press charges . The type of guy whose capable of doing that to a woman are the types that give no fucks, and they will brutall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......you are still missing the point You think the dick casually slides in?? How exactly do you think rapes happen on a woman? Usually they are beaten black and blue half to death If not tortured, robbed as well, and sometimes even disemboweled. So while it sucks to be beaten and mugged, most guys and people would agree it's far worse to be beaten AND raped. This is why a man being forced to penetrate a woman isn't the same type of rape as a man getting raped in prison as well, trying to equate the t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......You sound idiotic as hell. I never said men NEVER get raped I said that there are different types of rape and equating all of them is retarded. Raped up the ass prison style is not the same as date rape either usually how made to penetrate would even happen. Overall most guys just aren't at risk of getting raped or sexually assaulted compared to a woman, if you don't want to embrace reality that's your own problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......And even again, you are still missing the point You think the dick casually slides in?? How exactly do you think rapes happen on a woman? Usually they are beaten black and blue half to death If not tortured, robbed as well, and sometimes even disemboweled. So while it sucks to be beaten and mugged, most guys and people would agree it's far worse to be beaten AND raped. This is why a man being forced to penetrate a woman isn't the same type of rape as a man getting raped in prison as well, trying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:25 PM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......1) so the west is a giant fairy tail conglomeration with no differences and because it's in the western world, all those problems cease to exist ? And western world itself is broad as hell, you think Canada is the same as all of America, what about Europe ? The argument he made works all across it just so happens that he can be even more free to walk around in the west compared to third world shitholes and even then regardless of where you are, as a single lone woman walking around at night, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 07:12 PM |
| 0 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Your creating a crazy hypothetical situation that doesn't even happen. Most women do not have anywhere near the strength to hold down a man, let alone forcefully have his penis in her pussy (somehow he's hard from all that??) While he's screaming and crying. And even then let's say that happens, he's not gonna have 30 YEARS of pain from that. A woman getting raped results in her carrying it for 9 months a rapists baby as well, nobody is denying that is a horrifically shit situation to be in payi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 05:09 PM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......1) you don't understand statistics and how to interpret data regarding that and again completely ignoring geographical location. Many places like Honduras, India, Pakistan and lots of third world countries the risk of rape is astronomically high, ignoring that is retarded when majority of human beings live in those areas, western world is less than 3-5 percent of the entire planets population. Also you aren't understanding the fact that we are pitting against violence when it happens against a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......How do you think most rapes happen then? The guy just gave a source indicating about guys who are made to penetrate, that's not how most women are RAPED. That's the whole point, most guys who get raped it's by other guys and it's still at a lower rate than a woman in a public setting. And a guy getting raped in the ass in prison is not the same as him being made to penetrate a woman. Ones far worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:36 PM |
| -2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Mental scarring isnt the only thing the physical act of it matters or are you saying getting stabbed by a knife feels the same as being burned alive ? Wtf ?? The ACT itself isn't the same therefore it's not the same result. Gender aside getting raped up the ass is worse than being made to penetrate someone, ask any guy right now, even ask yourself that. Also when guys get raped they aren't at risk of getting pregnant either. Most guys who actually get raped are usually raped by a man, not a woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:05 PM |
| -1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......It's not sexism..it's the act. I'd say the same thing other way around, getting ass raped is worse then if a woman was forced to penetrate as well. The action isn't equal, just like saying men are stronger than women on average, you going to say that's sexism as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......1) that study or whatever it is you found is taken completely out of context it's absurd you don't see it. Most men are raped...by other MEN and in prison. Not everyday life or by some random guys they know and trusted usually, on average most guys are not gay and women are far more sexually harassed and raped. Just look at how many women get sexually harassed even in the street compared to a man 2) that wasn't even the point what are you talking about ? His point was based on perception. You se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Well that's why there's a huge surplus of western men getting women from abroad and dating /marrying foreign women . This can make some western women mad but it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 02:39 PM |
| -5 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Are you serious ?.. you are comparing being made to penetrate to be the same as being dragged into an alleyway, and gang raped up the ass and mouth ? Yes I am aware men get raped but it's usually in prison by other men, but vast majority of sexual assaults and perpetrators are done by men to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......That's not a cop out, what does that even mean? You keep thinking in absolutes. Again nobody said men are invincible but you are just wrong if you think women are capable and as strong as men, they are not. They have different physical standards to achieve for everything even in the military. You are nuts if you sincerely think women and men have no biological physical differences in strength. Pound for pound they are not as strong as men in every way which means if they get attacked in the same… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:08 AM |
| -2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Where are the sources for any of this you are saying though ? Who said women don't get robbed or mugged as often as men?.. lots of women dress and look rich they get their purses stolen way more. I can't recall the last time I heard a guy who was jumped to rob him unless he looked like a million bucks Who also even said robberies don't end in rape ?.. also you prove my point. Would you rather be beaten up and robbed but walk away from that or be beaten up, robbed and ass raped ? I'm saying for w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:41 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......To a point but keep that in mind that's relative to the woman. Women care far more about what he actually brings to the table, confidence his status, financial background and personality than just a full head of hair , big dick and looks. It may not seem like that at first but a good looking guy who is a loser who can't keep a job living at mom's basement, women get turned off from it , he'd get hookups and one night stands but hard to have a relationship. The world also treats guys better for w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:26 AM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Yes but old women also lose hair often and it looks way worse than men losing hair because people don't expect it as much. Also they have to wear diapers earlier and have prolapsed vaginal walls that leak urine otherwise much faster than men especially if she had kids I knew women in their 40s that had to have it due to being torn up from kids. I know that's tmi but most guys have no idea the physical struggles women have the older they get especially with menopause. She ends up losing the femin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:20 AM |
| -1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......And women don't get killed and robbed also? They do the exact same shit to women after raping her sometimes raping her corpse. Most guys don't get ass raped when they are being beaten and robbed. Also they don't kick each other in the balls even during vicious fights. I knew guys who were jumped and beaten and even stabbed they said none of them went for their balls though it's some unwritten code. Women don't have that. Anything and everything goes and guys who intend to harm them will destroy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:13 AM |
| 3 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......How so? We all gotta pay the same bills and rent. Many guys won't date a girl with huge debt anymore who doesn't work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......That's more important how ? It depends what you do I guess but if sex is all that's important to the person maybe but overall that's not true. Functionality is more important and in fact women care less about men's looks than vise versa BECAUSE she wants it to function. A man's body allows him to do the things be does to make money, to work, to do physical labour as well that built our world. If men's bodies were like women's bodies we would be fucked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:09 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......All of that can be answered with the fact that men are still STRONGER. I don't get why that is hard for you to understand. Nobody is saying men are invincible, Its insane people interpret it as such. It's simply saying Pound for pound they have a higher chance of survival when it comes to physical harm.again women and men both get attacked but usually women get raped or sexually harassed a lot more in romantic or public situations than men, that's just the truth. Men have to watch their backs an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:05 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......People arguing against this man's point .. I responded to another post but this is still relevant 1) most guys still don't have to worry about getting raped like women do ON TOP of being beaten and mugged. As they are also stronger than the average woman, they have a higher chance of also fighting it off and surviving 2) being passive isn't easier for women , women still have to do the back maintenance and work by looking GOOD and having sexual value to men. Men don't care about how much money s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......I responded to another post but this is still relevant 1) except most guys still don't have to worry about getting raped like women do ON TOP of being beaten and mugged. As they are also stronger than the average woman, they have a higher chance of also fighting it off and surviving 2) being passive isn't easier for women , women still have to do the back maintenance and work by looking GOOD and having sexual value to men. Men don't care about how much money she makes, her education , etc they c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......I responded to another post but this is still relevant 1) except most guys still don't have to worry about getting raped like women do ON TOP of being beaten and mugged. As they are also stronger than the average woman, they have a higher chance of also fighting it off and surviving 2) being passive isn't easier for women , women still have to do the back maintenance and work by looking GOOD and having sexual value to men. Men don't care about how much money she makes, her education , etc they c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 07:07 AM |
| 3 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......1) except most guys still don't have to worry about getting raped like women do ON TOP of being beaten and mugged. As they are also stronger than the average woman, they have a higher chance of also fighting it off and surviving 2) being passive isn't easier for women , women still have to do the back maintenance and work by looking GOOD and having sexual value to men. Men don't care about how much money she makes, her education , etc they care for sexual and emotional appeal and making him feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Your last point is about aesthetics but think of functionality. A man's body is superior to a female in pretty much every way, stronger, more functional , more power, just more capable in pretty much everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......It's still not the same, you are at risk of getting jumped or robbed while a woman is at risk of having that done AND getting raped. Your still stronger than the average woman so even 1 percent chance of survival is higher than 0 in comparison to her. Most guys also aren't gay so they won't take any interest in coming near you especially if you are not attractive or look rich. People have to watch their backs in general but when it comes to this women do have to do it far more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 06:37 AM |
| 0 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......I think women age worse than men though..yes everyone ages and looks bad with age but men don't have the same pressure to look good and youthful while women do. I seriously see a lot of older women who completely let themselves go to the point id have to gouge my eyes out to even imagine her in a bikini let alone naked. I've seen terrible looking old men too but not as much as old women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 06:35 AM |
| 4 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......I agree with the first one but not the second. It's not better for anyone to not want to do anything with their life. A woman still has to do something and get herself out in the market to attract a partner or at least have people who give a shit about her to support her then for the rest of her life. Otherwise she's gonna die a miserable death like everyone else gender aside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 06:33 AM |
| 6 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Thing is A lot of men here are pretty much all from the western world. Try going to third world countries and see what 'advantages' women there are dealing with, the men here wouldn't last a single day there. Keep in mind western world is less than 5 percent of the entire earth so majority of women , human beings in general live in those cultures and conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......A lot of men here are pretty much all from the western world. Try going to third world countries and see what 'advantages' women there are dealing with, the men here wouldn't last a single day there. Keep in mind western world is less than 5 percent of the entire earth so majority of women , human beings in general live in those cultures and conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?It's sex drive basically overall. When a woman goes for a long time without having sex her sex drive drops while for a guy it goes up. Overtime when she gets older her drive vanishes nearly completely and she has no desire to seek a mate especially if she knows her options are limited to over and she's self sufficient. I know lots of middle aged well off single women who have no desire to date or marry. Culture also matters a lot, in some cultures the widows just don't remarry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 08:22 AM |
| 7 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?It's sex drive basically overall. When a woman goes for a long time without having sex her sex drive drops while for a guy it goes up. Overtime when she gets older her drive vanishes nearly completely and she has no desire to seek a mate especially if she knows her options are limited to over and she's self sufficient. I know lots of middle aged well off single women who have no desire to date or marry. Culture also matters a lot, in some cultures the widows just don't remarry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their RessourcesGuys do care less about how much she makes and her education, social status etc than girls, because those things are not required in order to reproduce and make him happy. Men are wired more for sex and being a provider so they will be more open to dating a broke young very attractive kind girl with a nice complimenting personality to him, then some rich ugly fat old ceo women because men and women value different things However it's just starting to shift more in the modern world due to skyrock… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their RessourcesNobody said you do ? I'm just saying more and more guys don't want to pay for a broke , in dept person just like women also don't want to. Everything is getting way too expensive for that. Most guys I know will never date a girl where she doesn't work and where they have to pay for everything unless he's some rich millionaire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their RessourcesMore and more as redpilled men become a lot of them also want a woman on their level and don't want to pay for them. Culture also matters. I don't know where you are from but most guys I know in northern Europe like Scandinavia and western Europe especially and even Canada, they won't date a girl who doesn't have a job , in debt or self sufficient. I don't really know guys who will endlessly want to pay for the girl as well, more and more that's starting to lessen. As the new gen comes, it's sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverageWhat 'women'? They aren't all the same , they come in a huge range and don't experience the same stuff. Lots of women get nothing and the few times they do get something it's sex from low quality mentalcases or dangerous people she shouldn't even be involved in. She's at higher risk Think of age and geographical location and culture, religion etc. That makes a huge difference. You think a 55 year old ugly socially awkward disabled woman who never married before in Siberia is getting that? The ty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 06:09 AM |
| 6 | Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverageAnd they don't get women can't really win with this and also comes in a huge range An ugly or hot woman still gets used for sex and tossed out like garbage just the same if sex is literally all we are talking about. Those lined up dicks use women like leftover dirty tissues. They likely haven't seen an actual whorehouse or a brothel, underground prostitute houses to see it When they realise how female self worth and self esteem is developed they may finally get a semblance of understanding that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 11:32 PM |
| 19 | Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverageThese guys always think life is automatically better for a woman because she gets sex easier... So I wonder if some smelly fat mentalcase pervert offers them dick or pussy they are going to take it ? Just because dick is offered doesn't mean all women get top quality sausage...wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverageSo if some smelly fat mentalcase pervert offers you dick you are going to take it ? Just because dick is offered doesn't mean all women get top quality sausage...wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | The 80/20 doesn’t mean only 20% of men are having sex and relationships…it means 20% are having the interactions and relationships THEY WANT with womenThe ugliest people I know get laid the most. Not gonna say their partners are top notch quality but still, they find love or at least sex. So I have no idea how that happens but I'm sure everyone else has seen it. Ever seen that couple or people where you just scratch your head and go...how the fuck did that happen??? But it does. They descended down from millions of years of evolution somehow lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 07:57 PM |
| 3 | The 80/20 doesn’t mean only 20% of men are having sex and relationships…it means 20% are having the interactions and relationships THEY WANT with womenThe ugliest people I know get laid the most. Not gonna say their partners are top notch quality but still, they find love or at least sex. So I have no idea how that happens but I'm sure everyone else has seen it. Ever seen that couple or people where you just scratch your head and go...how the fuck did that happen??? But it does. They descended down from millions of years of evolution somehow lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 07:56 PM |
| -3 | It's perfectly reasonable that women are horrified by men not wanting to raise children sired by another man, because cheating is an equal offense, but women are assigned disproportionately severe consequences compared to men.There's nothing weak about my point. It's LOGIC. You are saying it's the same, I'm just saying it's different. Nobody is saying you need to care about cheater and their baby, I wouldn't care about them either but you are not a woman, you don't carry the baby and go through physical disfigurement for life. It's like saying getting a cut and getting tortured and stabbed and maimed for life is the same. It's not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 10:37 PM |
| -3 | It's perfectly reasonable that women are horrified by men not wanting to raise children sired by another man, because cheating is an equal offense, but women are assigned disproportionately severe consequences compared to men.I'm saying your argument is it's the same thing. You can cheat and also be raped, we were talking about doing it raw, woman doesn't get to choose which raw will get her pregnant. So either way whether she does it raw with a cheater or gets raped, end result still diff. A man doing it raw he can just disappear and his body suffers zero damage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 10:15 PM |
| -1 | It's perfectly reasonable that women are horrified by men not wanting to raise children sired by another man, because cheating is an equal offense, but women are assigned disproportionately severe consequences compared to men.I agree, for men who disagree...You aren't carrying the child for 9 months and going through insurmountable pain pushing it out. Your body doesn't get permanently disfigured for life reminding you of your rapist every day or whoever you sexually got involved with in many cases or nearly die from child birth. There are billions of people living today where the guy can just fuck raw, and disappear. He doesn't have to be responsible worth shit and it's the child and the woman that suffers after tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 10:14 PM |
| -3 | It's perfectly reasonable that women are horrified by men not wanting to raise children sired by another man, because cheating is an equal offense, but women are assigned disproportionately severe consequences compared to men.No, it's still not the same... You aren't carrying the child for 9 months and going through insurmountable pain pushing it out. Your body doesn't get permanently disfigured for life reminding you of your rapist every day or whoever you sexually got involved with in many cases or nearly die from child birth. There are billions of people living today where the guy can just fuck raw, and disappear. He doesn't have to be responsible worth shit and it's the child and the woman that suffers after that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 10:10 PM |
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