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I wouldn't have bothered to answer...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:50 AM
2

These are so spot on! I laughed out loud at the last one - wasn't expecting it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 12:04 PM
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Can't wait to get off from work and listen to this episode! 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:43 PM
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Nope, everything she needs to be or have should be directly beneficial to and of service to him only😖 so, ideally she shouldn't have a life of her own 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:04 AM
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A minivan so that he can take his kids on trips, and a bangmaid to tag along 😒 when I see such posts, I can't tell if they are oblivious, trolling or simply plain evil🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:59 AM
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Decisions on a whim, which turned out to be really good decisions. He's green with envy. She takes initiative, can afford housing and education and has her own business. In short, she doesn't need him at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:53 AM
23

Yeah, that's why most men want to have sons instead of daughters... sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:22 AM
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Table manners are so important. I recall 2 men I've gone out on dinner dates with that had really bad table habits. One of them held the spoon like a shovel (literally!) while the other one ate most of our shared pizza (so considerate!). Not to mention that they were both super cheap and when the waiter asked whether we would like to have some wine or some other drink, they immediately responded "just water".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:11 AM
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Exactly! Couldn't have said it better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:57 AM
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Bacause she has found herself a manly Man 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:47 AM
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You're damn right they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:37 AM
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Who in the world gets aggressive when insisting on picking the tab?!! Going dutch is a terrible idea, sorry, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:00 AM
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Nope, their moms and sisters are madonnas, whereas all the rest of the female population are whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:25 PM
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there are definitely men who don't like the optics of a woman paying for them. I'm married to one. You should thank your lucky stars
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:22 PM
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A man insisting to pay and paying on a date is the bare minimum. There are men who might expect sex after paying (and these are the men you need to stay away from) but you don't owe them anything actually. There's absolutely no reason to feel pressured.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:21 PM
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This! Soo sooo trueee. I've wondered why this is too! In my country, for instance, men are ALWAYS, ALL THE FRIGGIN TIME, complaining about women being materialistic and gold diggers. I've noticed that men who say this , besides being broke and unabitious, have absolutely NOTHING to offer to women. And they don't even possess the qualities they claim & profess to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:15 PM
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I'm very confused by this question. So from what you're saying, it seems that your supposed son has only slept with 5 women - 2 being former girlfriends, meaning 3 were one night stands or casual hookups - because that's all he could get. That means that his "low number" is not related to conservative views or attitude on sex. Why the double standard then? Also, why would a guy share such intimate details about his potential wife with his mother?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:03 PM
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Yes, women can rape men. One can get physically aroused even when they don't want to have sex, so it completely makes sense biologically-wise. But can women really coerce men into having sex with them? I highly doubt it. You haven't really answered my question. Do you think that male victims should be treated differently? I think I have already answered your question. No, I don't think male victims should be treated differently. If one feels threatened or abused, they feel threatened or abused, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 05:50 PM
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"An average of 137 women across the world are killed by a partner or family member every day, according to new data released by the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime (UNODC)." - The rates are by no means comparable! It's hard to estimate the rates of female to men abuser and harassment, because it's expected that even less men than women actually try to get help and go to police. Also I might be wrong, but there were some studies showing pretty similar rates, although usually female victi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 05:01 PM
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Jeez. Male victims of domestic violence and sexual harrassment by women are largely, greeeaatlyy outnumbered by cases of male to female violence. This is not to say that they shouldn't get the help they need, it's just that they cannot be equalized, 1. Due to their mismatch in frequency and 2. Due to men being physically stronger than women and as a consequence being able to handle the situation better and 3. Due to the female to male violence situations being so much easier to escape from and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:25 PM
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This is so true! YOU ARE NOT A BURDEN! Back when I used OLD sites, I remember one or two guys asking me what I was looking for, and my response was: "Someone who can put up with me." Seriously?!! Ughh!! I thank my lucky stars for having bumped into this community!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:40 PM
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man, i hate when female friends police you like that The sad truth is that the majority of women sympathize more with men and think that most men are well-meaning, but simply naive or don't know how to express themselves, but they mean well, of course. And on the other hand, us women, oh we are a bunch of witches, bitches, evil, manipulative, hysterical and so on. There's even an expression in my language, which can be roughly translated as "Women 'outwit' the devil." It is not a compliment, of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:08 PM
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I'm 5'4 and have had comments that I was lying or didn't know what I was talking about. They even try to gaslight us about our own height 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:01 AM
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One guy tried so hard to lie to himself he kept trying to put his arm over my shoulder, but could barely reach it 🤣 Why are they so ridiculous?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:53 AM
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This reminded me of a quote from Simone de Beauvoir's "The Second Sex": "Representation of the world, like the world itself, is the work of men; they describe it from their own point of view, which they confuse with the absolute truth." 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:17 PM
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hit the wall This expression has to disappear for good 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 07:51 AM
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I've never met any woman who shames other women for being inexperienced!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:16 AM
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I just had at a look at your post history. It's utterly pointless discussing this with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:52 AM
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Neither do women. It doesn't matter where you work. You're not a woman. You CANNOT speak for us. You do not see the world through our eyes. Stranger rape is incredibly rare. So you're trivilizing rape and implying that fear of being raped is unfounded?! Again, you're not a woman. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:41 PM
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It's not a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:26 PM
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Frail old guys don't live with the constant risk and fear of being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:03 PM
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Women and men can not be equal, physically and physiologically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:20 PM
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And why is that? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:11 PM
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Are women doing something about how men are the victims of 80% of violent crime ? You mean victims at the hands of other men. Yeah, not much we can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:10 PM
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Patronise? Being protective and helpful is not the same as being patronising. Fighting against patriarchy and acknowledging inherent physical differences between the sexes are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:08 PM
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It's unclear why you believe men owe women protection without getting anything in return. Are you for real?! So you're only nice to and protective of women who can give you (and as long as they give you) something in return or who benefit you in some way??! If they don't, they can all go to hell then, right? Typical self-centered man. Men are still inferior physically to men with weapons and firearms. Do you have to live with the constant risk and fear of being harassed, followed, raped, murdere…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:30 PM
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The idea women need random men whom do not know them to make them feel safe is quite sexist in and of itself and goes against the idea of being a "strong independent woman". Strong independent women are still physically inferior to men, so I don't see your point here. The best way men can protect women is by leaving them alone when they tell them to, not being pushy, not stalking and harassing them, not giving them unwanted "compliments" and "attention", not ogling and staring, respecting physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:10 AM
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This "house husband" thing has never sat well with me. Firstly because, as you said, men who aspire to stay at home are, more often than not, leeches, and secondly because even if they did everything they are supposed to do at home - take care of all domestic chores meticulously (which is highly unlikely) - my man choosing not to provide financially for his family would be a hard pill for me to swallow. He would instantly be less manly in my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:39 PM
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he told me my hands were so huge they made his dick look small and that normal sized girls hands made his dick look big.... WHAT THE ACTUAL F***?! Just when I thought I'd heard everything. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:50 PM
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Midget, broke, narcissist. And yet feels entitled to hold auditions?! 🤣 Edit: punctuation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:07 PM
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I never understood why someone would lie about sth so obvious if they intend to meet with the other person, and end up making a fool of themselves. Do they think that by lying to us on OLD apps about their height, we will give them a chance and then shrug off the fact that they lied because we'll be sweeped off our feet by their charming, amazing, radiant personalities?! Please. Insecure short men jumped down my throat when I commented on a thread saying I was not open to dating shorter men, tho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:38 AM
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Your post history screams "I'm the one who's sexually frustrated".☹
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:27 PM
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Judging from your post history, you're a lost cause. Sicko 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:24 PM
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Omg, that's so humiliating and disrepectful! I hope she dumped his sorry ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:46 PM
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Yeah, I can relate. I'm sure my mom secretly thinks that I will make a horrible wife because I'm not exactly a domestic goddess...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:04 PM
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Wow, what a selfish piece of sh*t! Esp knowing that postpartum women are sleep-deprived! If you can figure out rocket engine you can damn well figure out how to cook the damn pasta you dipshit. Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:59 PM
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Lovely ring! Congratulations!! 😊 🧿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:00 PM
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Well duuuh, but in reality it is not "well duuuh" for so many women. I am sorrounded by such unbelievable pickmes, that I don't even know how to let them know that they're being taken advantage of without sounding crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:42 PM
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Isn't this the existing patriarchy, though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:02 PM
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Gosh! Too much?! These are basic requirements 😒 what should we expect then? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:27 AM
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Hahaha! But this doesn't mean we're now immune to the rona. We should never let our guard down, otherwise we may risk reinfection 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:41 PM
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Exactly! Video games, military, interested in much younger women of a well-defined age group, interests include shoes (this made me laugh out loud 😂), wants "some sort of relationship"... dream guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:04 PM
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"Some sort of relationship"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:59 PM
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"bUt WhAt AbOuT seXuAl cOmPaTiBiLiTy?"🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:54 PM
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Judging from the recent posts, guys in this sub seem to be obsesssssssseeeeddd with women's vaginas and sexuality 😐 have you guys considered taking up a hobby?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 08:17 AM
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Aahh, OLD. All kinds of scum there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:29 PM
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I have a few guys say I should join onlyfans and feel empowered. 😳😳😳 I really hope those MFs got the slap they deserved. How is it possible that they have the audacity to say things like that?! How in the world did onlyfans get normalized? Why would anyone need an onlyfans for sport? I mean, I have so many questions...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:16 PM
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Absolutely true. Couldn't have said it clearer. Self-proclaimed feminists that serve the male agenda are rampant nowadays. Andrea Dworkin got so much hate, but it seems that her radical views are turning out to true... I have been meaning to read her work. Any idea where to start?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:29 PM
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This is not a "one-size-fits-all" statement, sweetie. You seem to be full of hatred towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 05:55 PM
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Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 04:42 PM
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Also if both people are on board with casual where’s the pump and dump? I beg to differ. More often than not, casual relationships are dead-end relationships, which means that one party will end up pumping & dumping the other one (the more interested party) at some point. (I mean, that's the whole point of entering a casual relationship in the first place!) I think it only qualifies as pump and dump if you know that you aren’t interested, but know they are, and continue to pursue them as if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 06:35 PM
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I’ve casually dated people and it eventually turned into a long term relationship. 90% of the time you know if there's LTR potential from the get-go I think that’s every LTR relationship. It's not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:56 PM
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We are casually dating. The last woman I slept with we met at retail store, we ended up going on a few dates, had sex after all of them. We were having sex for about 2 months here and there. You know the outcome of the casual relationship from the get-go, so it still qualifies as pumping & dumping. Casual dating is pumping and slowly dumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:34 PM
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Unfortunately, from what I've seen, most end up getting harmed one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:25 AM
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So why is post-hook up hangover/depression well-documented and more prevalent among women, then? They all knew whay they were getting themselves into, right?! Also, why is it more likely for women to find themselves expecting sth more out of a hookup or casual relationship? https://www.google.com/amp/s/qz.com/685852/hookup-culture/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:14 AM
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Why? Are you using sex as a power-tool? Yes, I am. Problem? Were they forced or was it their own participation? They just bought into the BS that it is empowering and liberating. Some even participated unknowingly in relationships which turned out to be casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 01:21 AM
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Most women generally tend to want committed, meaningful and purposeful relationships, so I would argue that quite a lot of women feel like they've been taken advantage of when they engage in hookups or casual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:05 PM
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I said "many women". Of course it does not apply to every single woman out there. It goes both way to be honest, I have also heard men say they felt used after a fling or ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:18 PM
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I have the exact opposite method of vetting a potential partner - in my experience, it is one of the main indicators of a man's level of interest in you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:15 PM
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Regardless of how much time a man has invested in you? Ayyy, I'm afraid I don't share the same opinion. Sex definitely is pleasurable for women as it is for men, but jumping in bed with just anyone is not very wholesome, in my view, ESPECIALLY with men who don't work hard enough to win you over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 08:58 PM
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The only thing that’s harmful is teaching women that sex is forbidden fruit that they NEED to make men EARN and that any form of pleasure from sex is invalid unless that man put in time and effort. How is this harmful? Explain please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 08:15 PM
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I am a feminist myself, and it pains me to say that 3rd wave (liberal) feminism has made sex easier and cheaper for men. Shagging indiscriminately is definitely not empowering, neither for men nor for women. I actually consider hookup culture highly unfeminist because it benefits men way more than women. Generally speaking, hookups and one night stands leave many women feeling used and disposable (so much for "empowering"). I believe it has to do with liberal feminism's obsession of putting an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:01 PM
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That's not reason enough to draw the conclusion that they're "living for the attention of men". Both men and women use social media to show off, but that doesn't mean their life revolves around seeking attention from the opposite gender. Also, I doubt you post any unflattering pictures of yourself or try to present your life in a bad light. (Social media is a cancer, anyway.) ✌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:49 PM
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I have, unfortunately. Not a very pleasant place for a staight woman 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 03:03 PM
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Bitter much?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:59 PM
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Do you really think that women live for the attention of men?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:20 PM
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I get it. It's just that 'I was busy' is an absurd excuse. It only takes a few seconds to drop somebody a text. Can anyone really be that busy?!
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/20 07:36 PM
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Yes. You're basically the "fallback girl". Please do yourself a favor and cut off all contact with this guy. Do not keep him around as a friend! It is not going to work, and you know it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/20 12:56 PM
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So, you don't have internet access when you're outta town?! Please...
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/20 12:44 PM
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Attractive: Chivalrous, generous, kind, ambitious, supportive, able to take the wheel Unattractive: Cheapskate, couch potato, video game addict, sexist, selfish, overly jealous Lookwise, I'd prefer someone who's in good shape and taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:51 PM
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Guys who find a low n-count or virginity a turn off or "inconvenient" , more often than not, just want a hookup/casual thing/FWB etc. Since they just want a quick shag, they don't want to go through the fuss of having to teach you the ropes of sex, and that's why they see it as an inconvenience. Men who really like you and value you as a person, do not care about your n-cunt, be it low or high. The only conclusion I can draw from your observation, is that there are too many fuckboys around :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 07:34 PM
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If there's only a very limited number of 'adequate' men out there, and if they're already off the market, what's the point of discussing who should approach whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 04:25 PM
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How are women more likely to accept a man's approach out of desperation if women have far more options than men?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 01:14 PM
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No, they are neither low value nor desperate or dominant. They simply bought into the "shoot your shot" and other lib fem BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 12:34 PM
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A woman's breasts are not a sex organ, however men are hardwired to be erotically attracted to them. As for breastfeeding in public, that's a whole other discussion. Where I am from - and people here are generally very sexist - breastfeeding in public is considered NORMAL. Shaming mothers for breastfeeding their babies in public is just backwards and insensitive and honestly, I will never understand why some people do that, when breastfeeding is a very natural thing. As for going topless, ehhhh,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 12:21 PM
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No, because the odds of a guy accepting just out of desperation are quite high.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 12:01 PM
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Jeez!! So he's basically encouraging women to start doing porn or sex work. I would be interested to know if he also says this to the women he cares about - female family members, relatives etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:35 PM
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The men who have respected me the most and have been the kindest to me are the ones I've done absolutely nothing for Yes, this! I've noticed this too!!😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:08 PM
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