kaabam Archive

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2	Should we still try when we get older and like uglier? The benefit of being men is that we do tend to age well, when compared to our female counterparts. For them, from about 30 onwards, it is quite the uphill battle. But for us, we tend to look pretty good. Balding can be taken care of by shaving it all off. Typically a bald head means a thick beard, and that has been shown to be attractive to women. As far as being a player for life, it all depends on you. Maybe you want to only bang 22 year-olds for now, that is just fine! Perhaps later you will …	/r/seduction	20/01/18 05:09 AM
5	Loaning money to girlfriend As her more recent behavior has already pointed out... giving her the initial money has caused her to see you as a provider. You are the lover, not the father. I would try to revert to be her lover and don't give in to her crying and emotional manipulation. Does she not have a family she can call or other friends? Something tells me she is not really the type of girl to get into a relationship with. Anybody should have 6 months of living expenses available at all times. All in all, you are bette…	/r/seduction	17/01/18 11:52 PM
2	My shitty situation It is good to hear you don't want to continue down the path your peers are on. Weed kills motivation and a lot of people hide their sorrows and insecurities in it. You could easily try some dating apps. Or get a fake that way you can buy alcohol. Word will get around quickly that you are the cool guy who has a fun time and has the balls to use a fake. Girls will come soon thereafter. If alcohol isn't your thing you could always sign up for volunteer events, girls love that stuff. Especially if y…	/r/seduction	16/01/18 09:41 PM
2	[FR] Day two... This is awesome! Very detailed report, glad to see you are learning what works and what doesn't. Most guys shrug everything off, but you are determined! I also found myself chuckling quite a bit, very entertaining. Can't wait to see tomorrows! Keep it up! Kick Ass and Be A Man (YouTube) http://youtube.com/c/kickassandbeaman (don't mean to include a link, but some people can't find it, would rather save time).	/r/seduction	13/01/18 11:33 PM
2	Advanced techniques? I highly recommend Troy Francis - https://realtroyfrancis.com/ He is in his 40's and has been in the game for over a decade. Really has an interesting viewpoint on a lot of topics. I am not affiliated, but a lot of guys ask me for game advice, and I just send them there. Kick Ass and Be A Man (YouTube) http://youtube.com/c/kickassandbeaman (don't mean to include a link, but some people can't find it, would rather save time).	/r/seduction	13/01/18 11:27 PM
2	Logistics after getting her back to your place, what's your move? Don't worry, it is not a dumb question. In all honesty, (I am sure you are already working on this) my best advice would be to get some money and move to a place that has a living area, kitchen, and detached bedroom. That way you can psychologically escalate with her to the bedroom. If you already take her straight to your bedroom (as you do now) she will feel pressured, and hence less likely to feel comfortable. Or you could just bang the girls that you know are already down, that can save you …	/r/seduction	13/01/18 11:24 PM
1	Where can I read about college hookup game? Girls in college have very little expectations. Just be cool, be the best version of yourself (weight, fitness, hygiene, clothes), then go to these parties and have a few drinks, and then talk to some of the girls there who are having a few drinks, and before you know it, you will be slamming some chick back at your place. Plus most colleges have a ratio with a lot more women than men, so the odds are forever in your favor. Let us know what you find though! Kick Ass and Be A Man (YouTube) http:/…	/r/seduction	13/01/18 05:51 AM
1	How Do I Hit On A Girl While Still Being Respectful Just go read realtroyfrancis.com He cold approaches all the time, and he happens to not drink alcohol. He has a wonderful book called" the seven laws of seduction" - a good read for sure. The book should answer all of your questions about game and he does a great job of explaining. I have no affiliation, just like his content.	/r/seduction	12/01/18 08:03 AM
1	In High School Go to volunteer events. Girls there are bound to be better than the ones at parties. If you have not had sex before I recommend you get that out of the way with the least amount of friction possible (no pun intended). Other than, be creative and realize there are more opportunities than meets the eyes. Let us know how things go! Kick Ass and Be A Man (YouTube) http://youtube.com/c/kickassandbeaman (don't mean to include a link, but some people can't find it, would rather save time).	/r/seduction	12/01/18 07:51 AM
-3	How do I get girls to notice me, and improve my game? I don't want to give advice that may lead to an addiction, but you need to go get drunk. And by that I mean it is very easy to have a lot of sex by picking up a mild alcoholic habit. Go get yourself a fake ID so you can buy alcohol, just having one is bound to attract girls. Then as you get experience under your belt, you will be able to pick and choose the girls you want to sleep with. This may sound absurd to someone in high school, but this is what the world looks like. ... Most men and women…	/r/seduction	12/01/18 07:49 AM
–	How Do I Hit On A Girl While Still Being Respectful How do you be respectful to your parents? As far as hitting on a chick, just act like any normal human being would. Girls want to be hit on, that is why they were revealing clothing. If they did not want to be hit on, they would not flaunt their sexuality. Most humans find their ego's inflating when people approach them, just because some stranger wants to get to know them. Other than that, just read basic game articles on cold approach pickup and you should be good to go. Let us know your progr…	/r/seduction	12/01/18 07:37 AM
1	Dont know if I should ask her out As opposed to an opportunity for her to "pour her feelings out to". Don't be her emotional tampon, be the guy she wants to fuck... pardon my french.	/r/seduction	12/01/18 05:38 AM
2	Hardcase Newb - How to approach on Fb? Send her a poke? Go out and cold approach to find a better girl? That would be the best option. Let us know! Kick Ass and Be A Man (YouTube) http://youtube.com/c/kickassandbeaman (don't mean to include a link, but some people can't find it, would rather save time).	/r/seduction	10/01/18 10:51 PM
–	Dont know if I should ask her out Believe it or not, I was in a situation very similar to yours at one point in my life. The long and short end of it is that you are in the friend zone. And if there is one rule about the friend zone is it this: YOU WILL NEVER LEAVE THE FRIEND ZONE. I don't mean for that to sound or look harsh, but a lot of guys have a huge issue getting that through their heads, even I did! In short, you need to accept that you have screwed up by becoming her friend first. If you want to have sex with women, the…	/r/seduction	10/01/18 10:35 PM
1	If a girl says she gets wet from your voice does it mean she’s also physically attracted to me? Ha ha she definitely is!	/r/seduction	09/01/18 09:57 PM
1	If a girl says she gets wet from your voice does it mean she’s also physically attracted to me? Haha she definitely is!	/r/seduction	09/01/18 09:56 PM
–	If a girl says she gets wet from your voice does it mean she’s also physically attracted to me? I enjoy your sense of humor about this, don't worry, we all had to learn at some point! Yes, you could have her over at your place in 15 minutes and show her a good time. She would love for that to happen. Based on the presumption that she told you she was wet. Go for it! Let us know how it goes! Kick Ass and Be A Man (YouTube).	/r/seduction	09/01/18 09:24 PM
1	Help me navigate a common school/college situation that I often seem to get stuck in You showed you were interested by kissing her and approaching her. If she is not intrigued enough to show interest herself, then you must move on and go find a girl that will reciprocate your energy. I hate to be cliche, but there are a lot of fish in the sea. Even if only 1% of girls are interested in you, that means millions and millions of girls in the world would be down. Go get the ones that aren't gonna give you a hard time. I am sure there are 9's and 10's in those millions!	/r/seduction	09/01/18 09:11 PM
1	She's out of town for 2 weeks. How to play this? If she isn't keeping the conversation going, then let her go and move on to finding a chick that is interested in keeping the conversation going (with some seeming regularity). Let us know how things go! Kick Ass and Be A Man (YouTube).	/r/seduction	08/01/18 11:53 PM
–	Help me navigate a common school/college situation that I often seem to get stuck in Don't ask her out! You will scare her away... Go to a party with her (or see her at a party) and have a few drinks and then kiss her, and then lead to more things. You do not want to be the one initiating commitment, or asking out. You want to be the fun guy who could care less whether she stays around or not. Repeat: You do not want to initiate commitment. Plus asking her out is too formal and tells her you are a conventional guy who is boring as hell. Break up the rhythm, give her something ne…	/r/seduction	08/01/18 11:51 PM
1	How do i get closer to this girl I rarely approach a girl who is in my social circle. I only approach if the IOI's are so strong that I have to. Go learn some game and date chicks who you don't know already... that way she won't feel stigmatized if you break up and still have to see each other every day... and you will seem far more mysterious if she does not already know you. For this situation... forget about her. If she hasn't already given you IOI's then there is no point. Go bang the hottie that you see at the mall. Kick A…	/r/seduction	08/01/18 11:47 PM
–	How do you meet nerdy girls like gamer girls? Ummm... I hate to be the one to say this, but you answered your own question. Most girls are not interested in those things, which is why you don't see them at conventions. Realize that girls are different and you will probably never find one that matches your interests completely. Estrogen and testosterone have different effects for a reason. It is why you will find a lot of men at car conventions and a lot of woman at makeup convetions. Just keep approaching and eventually you may find one, bu…	/r/seduction	08/01/18 11:43 PM
3	What is your experience doing Game alone? You could always get a fake ID... Regardless, try to be always "on" with game. See a girl you like as you get out the gym? Approach. See one at the coffee shop? Approach. See one in the nightclub? Approach. The opportunities are limitless if you are willing to let yourself see them. As far as going out alone? I by far do my best when I am alone. Going out alone allows you to be in complete control of your surroundings; i.e. you can't blame your wings, and your wings can't blame you... whether th…	/r/seduction	08/01/18 07:19 AM
2	How do make girls take you seriously and get out the friend zone? You will never leave the friend zone. Let me repeat. You will never leave the friend zone. You will never leave the friend zone. You will never leave the friend zone. You will never leave the friend zone. You will never leave the friend zone. You will never leave the friend zone. You will never leave the friend zone. You will never leave the friend zone. You will never leave the friend zone. You will never leave the friend zone. You will never leave the friend zone. You will never leave the frie…	/r/seduction	06/01/18 06:22 AM
3	Do I text her or do I let it go? I agree that you going for the kiss is a good strategy. But, the guy she went off with obviously seemed like more of "the life of the party". Or at least that is the way you have described him. I hate to admit this, but your description gives me the impression that you were not on top yesterday. That is completely fine! At least you were out there gaining experience. I would keep her number. She just sounds like she has standards most would not be used to. Just don't let her waste your time, and…	/r/seduction	06/01/18 06:18 AM
–	Whats the difference of running game on strangers and running game in a friend group? Need advice ASAP I agree with Conor, don't put too much pressure on yourself. If you don't get this one, who cares? You will be shagging some chick tomorrow. I do have to say that if the chick did agree to come along, chances are she knows what is up; and chances are she knows that her girlfriend has already banged your friend. So don't get your hopes up, but just be open to whatever happens, there are always 50 other girls who would line up for you anyways. Kick Ass and Be A Man (YouTube).	/r/seduction	06/01/18 06:09 AM