kaamkerr Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Dubai is on HARD mode. If you’re in Dubai, don’t even waste your time on the apps. When I’m abroad, I get like 200 matches a week. In Dubai, I might get a 100 a year.	/r/seduction	18/07/26 12:42 PM
7	Dubai is on HARD mode. Agreed. It’s become a global destination for sex work and gold diggers, and the simps happy to pay up and skew things even with non-working women.	/r/seduction	18/07/26 12:35 PM
43	She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that? very few women who actually like you will talk about fucking other men	/r/seduction	18/06/26 02:53 PM
5	How do I playfully handle women who assume I'm gay? It also hints that they’re thinking of you within the context of sex. I’ve hooked up with several women who either directly or sideways asked if I was gay.	/r/seduction	04/06/26 07:37 AM
2	Men with high bodycount. Your experience? I feel similarly, and I still do. Mostly short term though. Anything longer than six months rn and we’re only meeting several times a year. Something long term isn’t off the table though, but cohabitation is out the window completely.	/r/seduction	20/04/26 01:16 PM
1	Going to Dubai Dubai is for hookers, not hookups	/r/seduction	11/06/25 10:08 PM
4	Dear Indian Men, What's Your Excuse Now? A lot of these guys need to wipe their subconscious clean of many nasty self-limiting beliefs. To do so takes a lot of inner work though. Like years probably. The outer work is the easy stuff. Like getting fit, grooming, wealth management, etc, usually it will shift alongside.	/r/seduction	09/03/25 07:34 PM
31	Girls Getting Attached After Several Dates That’s normal and the way dating used to go	/r/seduction	04/03/25 09:38 PM
1	Do this if she leaves you on read! Let him keep wasting time. The biggest lesson in seduction is that relationship building and pursuing are the women’s role.	/r/seduction	03/03/25 01:41 PM
2	Do this if she leaves you on read! I’m not gonna be upset, but if I don’t get a response within a day I’m asking someone else out. I have very limited free time to wait around for someone to confirm their availability. Not just dates but friends and family too.	/r/seduction	03/03/25 01:29 PM
3	Do this if she leaves you on read! Spoken like someone who hasn’t experienced a woman’s true desire. Expecting a timely response is levels below “being a priority.” If that’s all you require to be considered a priority, lord help you if you ever get in a relationship	/r/seduction	03/03/25 12:31 PM
2	Is hookup culture still alive in 2025? Plenty of them revert to non monogamy after the kids are grown	/r/seduction	19/02/25 09:21 AM
0	instead of a real man...? Did you not watch west world?	/r/seduction	20/01/25 05:49 PM
4	Is she into me? If you have to ask, probably not. Especially if you work together.	/r/seduction	24/12/24 11:51 AM
1	Common advice is to spark emotions… examples? Tell her she looks fat	/r/seduction	11/12/24 06:38 PM
3	Being called sweet a death sentence? Fuck why is this so accurate	/r/seduction	30/11/24 08:49 AM
29	When did women gain so much leverage? I do agree, but at the same time I’ve been ghosted abruptly by multiple women I’ve been fucking and dating for a few months. In all likelihood, they couldn’t handle the shift in the power imbalance	/r/seduction	13/10/24 08:03 PM
1	How should I approach hookups/dating? She is probably just being extremely nice because you are probably deserving of that. BUT, the harsh truth is that a woman, even in the lowest depths of rock bottom, will usually do her utmost to keep a man she considers as truly amazing. Don’t listen to women. Observe their actions. A woman who wants you will move mountains, even if she struggles to get out of bed due to depression or whatever.	/r/seduction	13/10/24 11:49 AM
69	Emotional availability and starting to lose faith in women and modern dating Most people today, men or women, are not emotionally available anymore. Easier said than done, but simply just don’t get your feelings involved. I also learned the same lesson the hard way. A couple women ghosted randomly after 3-4 months of sex and dating— most, as you’ve experienced, are quicker on the trigger and that’s okay. You have to understand that most women have crazy optionality. Even the mid ones and sometimes even the uggos. I’ve had female friends I wasn’t dating show me they can g…	/r/seduction	13/10/24 05:36 AM
2	How much does occupation matter in regards to game? For real I got laid way more when I was funemployed	/r/seduction	14/09/24 09:49 AM
1	Do women have higher standards than men? Charisma, assertiveness, and leadership usually develop along with looks, but they can be developed without them too. Anyway, those are all attraction predictors for long term relationships. For casual sex, status/resources is not important at all. I've had wives who live in million dollar houses hooking up with me when I was more or less a bum working service industry jobs at bars and restaurants. I was like, wtf, why are these women stepping out for me. One of them divorced and basically becam…	/r/seduction	15/08/24 04:33 AM
16	Do women have higher standards than men? Lived experience. I’ve been overweight and fit back and forth twice due to surgeries. Asides from that, after you become a side piece to a number of different wives you can see some women’s true nature and the deviation between mating strategy for provision and for sex.	/r/seduction	14/08/24 06:31 PM
25	Do women have higher standards than men? Women have always favored looks highly in terms of sexual selection. The difference is that it used to happen only in the shadow world, like cheating. Today, they’ve been granted freedom to act on this openly.	/r/seduction	14/08/24 02:16 PM
27	What to do if someone is competing with you for a girl? I just assume everyone else is fumbling and only further perpetuates me as the best option.	/r/seduction	12/08/24 06:28 PM
1	Is a woman saying she’s looking for friends on dating apps subtle code that they’re looking for NSA? National Security Agency	/r/seduction	09/08/24 08:07 PM
1	Trying to make this women obsessed Makes sense. Commitment is a pain in the ass for a man. It’s her job to convince you, not your role to be the one offering it.	/r/seduction	28/07/24 07:25 PM
25	In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state? A lot of women are intimidated by attractive men with their shit together. They know they gotta act right or they’ll be nexted. That bum though, she feels like she can control him.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 04:01 PM
1	You need to spend money to get laid! Yeah, economists called this “opportunity cost” and figured this out centuries ago	/r/seduction	15/07/24 05:54 PM
14	You need to spend money to get laid! Boom. You learned the lesson. You’ll also screen for time wasters and gold diggers. Get two birds stoned at once.	/r/seduction	15/07/24 04:44 PM
15	You need to spend money to get laid! A hobosexual is not a literal hobo.	/r/seduction	15/07/24 04:40 PM
34	You need to spend money to get laid! Hobosexuals*** autocorrect	/r/seduction	15/07/24 04:36 PM
28	You need to spend money to get laid! Making an emotional connection costs nothing financially. Homosexuals are a real thing and an important archetype subset of players. My advice to all my nephews is to get good with women when you’re still a broke high schooler/college student.	/r/seduction	15/07/24 04:22 PM
8	Really slow reader of texts but quick replier Idk if you’re just choosing to be ignorant, but response time is based on when your message was originally sent not when it was opened.	/r/seduction	15/06/24 01:00 PM
1	What does she mean by this text? Bro after a divorce is when a woman is often easiest to hook up with. You’re just feeding her validation that she can still attract someone.	/r/seduction	10/06/24 07:48 PM
3	How do I crack the Miami dating scene? Wtf happened to america for $350k/year to be middle class	/r/seduction	06/06/24 01:59 AM
1	To the subset of seducers/seductresses here in LTRs, how do you maintain the relationship and keep your partner actively engaged? What are your tips to alleviating boredom, both for yourself, and your partner? thats what kink is for. you can spend hours having sex without intercourse	/r/seduction	05/06/24 12:39 PM
1	How to get over awkwardness after asking someone out? relationship anarchy more to it than just sex Pick one	/r/seduction	08/05/24 03:17 PM
2	How to get over awkwardness after asking someone out? Here’s a writing tip: don’t use double negatives saying he’s not interested in non casual stuff	/r/seduction	08/05/24 03:15 PM
0	How to get over awkwardness after asking someone out? He’s probably got other women to fulfill his physical needs if y’all never meet again. If you want commitment from a man with options, you have to offer more than your competition is offering.	/r/seduction	08/05/24 03:08 PM
3	How to get over awkwardness after asking someone out? Rare case of a half decent dude actually trying to protect you from yourself. It’s a common mistake to continue a casual friends with benefits situation when one wants commitment and the other doesn’t. Guys, this is also evidence that when a girl has really high interest in you she’ll keep pursuing even after you’ve outright said no to a relationship.	/r/seduction	08/05/24 03:05 PM
1	If you're a straight man, going to gay bars to pick up women is the best decision you could make Not true. Blowing a “straight” or questioning dude is one of the ultimates for them	/r/seduction	07/05/24 04:32 PM
3	Would you guys date a high body count woman? Average used to be around 7 twenty years ago, probably closer to 30 today	/r/seduction	07/05/24 02:58 PM
1	When will you be done with pickup/active dating? I feel the same way. All my cousins/nephews who were brought up by maids and both parents working 50 hours a week— they’re jerks, and it’s not their fault.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 08:26 PM
32	Never go on Dinner Dates yeah that’s an automatic swipe left, leave her for the simps	/r/seduction	05/05/24 11:04 AM
8	I don’t get this cuck stuff Sounds like someone else is fucking his girlfriend	/r/seduction	03/05/24 02:23 PM
2	Here’s what works for me on Hinge - discussion I started taking days to respond— not on purpose I just didn’t really care about an online dating match— and I’ve had way better success getting dates.	/r/seduction	02/05/24 11:03 AM
7	Women’s interest just die out Lol what a joke. That’s why she dumped him at the end of his career right, just when he would start having time for family after amassing millions of dollars for them	/r/seduction	26/04/24 05:30 AM
34	Nice Guy texting mistakes to avoid just next her. I’ve followed up and gotten dates, fwb, relationships, friends, etc— but in hindsight these flakey people are not worth the effort	/r/seduction	17/04/24 06:51 AM
2	Opinions on girls with lots of piercings I hit on every single woman with a tongue piercing. Lulu, your head game was magic. I will never settle for a woman that doesn’t suck dick like it’s a hobby.	/r/seduction	17/04/24 06:09 AM
11	Classmate texted me randomly and suggests meeting at her place to study but then mentions she has a partner? What do? She would meet in public like you suggested if she just wanted to study.	/r/seduction	17/04/24 05:44 AM