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| 5 | Dubai is on HARD mode.If you’re in Dubai, don’t even waste your time on the apps. When I’m abroad, I get like 200 matches a week. In Dubai, I might get a 100 a year. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 12:42 PM |
| 7 | Dubai is on HARD mode.Agreed. It’s become a global destination for sex work and gold diggers, and the simps happy to pay up and skew things even with non-working women. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 12:35 PM |
| 43 | She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that?very few women who actually like you will talk about fucking other men | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 02:53 PM |
| 5 | How do I playfully handle women who assume I'm gay?It also hints that they’re thinking of you within the context of sex. I’ve hooked up with several women who either directly or sideways asked if I was gay. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Men with high bodycount. Your experience?I feel similarly, and I still do. Mostly short term though. Anything longer than six months rn and we’re only meeting several times a year. Something long term isn’t off the table though, but cohabitation is out the window completely. | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 01:16 PM |
| – | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Bro I ain’t ever meet so many former escorts and bdsm enthusiasts | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Best thing a woman has said/did to you that made you feel extremely desired?Recently there are a lot of African sex workers in all major Indian cities | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Need advice about my arranged relationship – she’s suddenly distantStop projecting onto her and reflect on yourself, internally. Why are you afraid of losing someone who won’t answer your calls or respond to your texts and rejected your love saying they don’t have feelings for her? | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 03:59 AM |
| 1 | SaudiThings have calmed down some, but about 5 years ago the women were down bad when things started opening up | /r/seduction | 23/08/25 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Calling out ghosting successfullyrare occasion it worked worked 70% of the time | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Going to DubaiDubai is for hookers, not hookups | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | When a lady tells you someone else she's seeing wants to be exclusive, what's your angle?Yes that’s very true, but a woman who respects you won’t bring it up | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Imagine dating a woman who's been with a superstar - Red flag or nah?Most women don’t need to be provided for financially anymore, until they’re pregnant, but ask a single woman making $200k/year if she enjoys bringing in the groceries by herself. | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Dear Indian Men, What's Your Excuse Now?A lot of these guys need to wipe their subconscious clean of many nasty self-limiting beliefs. To do so takes a lot of inner work though. Like years probably. The outer work is the easy stuff. Like getting fit, grooming, wealth management, etc, usually it will shift alongside. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 07:34 PM |
| 31 | Girls Getting Attached After Several DatesThat’s normal and the way dating used to go | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Do this if she leaves you on read!Bro just looking at your username I can tell you ain’t all there | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Do this if she leaves you on read!Let him keep wasting time. The biggest lesson in seduction is that relationship building and pursuing are the women’s role. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Do this if she leaves you on read!I’m not gonna be upset, but if I don’t get a response within a day I’m asking someone else out. I have very limited free time to wait around for someone to confirm their availability. Not just dates but friends and family too. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Do this if she leaves you on read!Spoken like someone who hasn’t experienced a woman’s true desire. Expecting a timely response is levels below “being a priority.” If that’s all you require to be considered a priority, lord help you if you ever get in a relationship | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Is hookup culture still alive in 2025?Plenty of them revert to non monogamy after the kids are grown | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Is she actually interested in me or just stringing me along?What you described is not just shyness, it’s low self esteem. Low self esteem women are near impossible to date | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Her Story Made Me Rethink Everything About DatingIf the first 3 guys she sleeps with treat her like shit, it’s a really difficult cycle to break. It’s imprinted upon her. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | For women that treat dating transactionally, do you think you are partially responsible for the commodification of sex and dating?Women don't provide this transparency because the clear transactional boundaries makes them feel like a whore. A whore, not a slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 07:08 AM |
| 0 | instead of a real man...?Did you not watch west world? | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 05:49 PM |
| 4 | Is she into me?If you have to ask, probably not. Especially if you work together. | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Common advice is to spark emotions… examples?Tell her she looks fat | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Being called sweet a death sentence?Fuck why is this so accurate | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Just Get a Girlfriend.You probably suck at sex. Giving a woman an orgasm is one of the peak experiences. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Girls i need help,idk how to ride a Dick, any tips?Is his dick too small or not hard enough? | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 08:40 AM |
| 29 | When did women gain so much leverage?I do agree, but at the same time I’ve been ghosted abruptly by multiple women I’ve been fucking and dating for a few months. In all likelihood, they couldn’t handle the shift in the power imbalance | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How should I approach hookups/dating?She is probably just being extremely nice because you are probably deserving of that. BUT, the harsh truth is that a woman, even in the lowest depths of rock bottom, will usually do her utmost to keep a man she considers as truly amazing. Don’t listen to women. Observe their actions. A woman who wants you will move mountains, even if she struggles to get out of bed due to depression or whatever. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 11:49 AM |
| 69 | Emotional availability and starting to lose faith in women and modern datingMost people today, men or women, are not emotionally available anymore. Easier said than done, but simply just don’t get your feelings involved. I also learned the same lesson the hard way. A couple women ghosted randomly after 3-4 months of sex and dating— most, as you’ve experienced, are quicker on the trigger and that’s okay. You have to understand that most women have crazy optionality. Even the mid ones and sometimes even the uggos. I’ve had female friends I wasn’t dating show me they can g… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔I’m not a woman, and if that’s you in your profile pic you have self esteem issues | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 09:24 PM |
| 2 | How much does occupation matter in regards to game?For real I got laid way more when I was funemployed | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Is age a limiting factor as a man?Maybe for you, but I get way more play with 25 year olds at 35 compared to when I was in my mid to late 20’s | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Do women have higher standards than men?Charisma, assertiveness, and leadership usually develop along with looks, but they can be developed without them too. Anyway, those are all attraction predictors for long term relationships. For casual sex, status/resources is not important at all. I've had wives who live in million dollar houses hooking up with me when I was more or less a bum working service industry jobs at bars and restaurants. I was like, wtf, why are these women stepping out for me. One of them divorced and basically becam… | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 04:33 AM |
| 16 | Do women have higher standards than men?Lived experience. I’ve been overweight and fit back and forth twice due to surgeries. Asides from that, after you become a side piece to a number of different wives you can see some women’s true nature and the deviation between mating strategy for provision and for sex. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 06:31 PM |
| 25 | Do women have higher standards than men?Women have always favored looks highly in terms of sexual selection. The difference is that it used to happen only in the shadow world, like cheating. Today, they’ve been granted freedom to act on this openly. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 02:16 PM |
| 27 | What to do if someone is competing with you for a girl?I just assume everyone else is fumbling and only further perpetuates me as the best option. | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Is a woman saying she’s looking for friends on dating apps subtle code that they’re looking for NSA?National Security Agency | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Better empty or full?I agree, but OP is talking about masturbating not having sex | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Girls that leaves you on read/seen/liked the messageI’ve heard it described as men are thirsty stranded in the desert. There’s no water in sight. Women are thirsty stranded at sea. There’s water everywhere, but it’s not potable. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Trying to make this women obsessedMakes sense. Commitment is a pain in the ass for a man. It’s her job to convince you, not your role to be the one offering it. | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 07:25 PM |
| 25 | In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state?A lot of women are intimidated by attractive men with their shit together. They know they gotta act right or they’ll be nexted. That bum though, she feels like she can control him. | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 04:01 PM |
| 6 | “are you gonna murder/kill me?”“If you’re lucky you’ll get your own episode on my Netflix true crime miniseries” | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | You need to spend money to get laid!Yeah, economists called this “opportunity cost” and figured this out centuries ago | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 05:54 PM |
| 14 | You need to spend money to get laid!Boom. You learned the lesson. You’ll also screen for time wasters and gold diggers. Get two birds stoned at once. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 04:44 PM |
| 15 | You need to spend money to get laid!A hobosexual is not a literal hobo. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 04:40 PM |
| 34 | You need to spend money to get laid!Hobosexuals*** autocorrect | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 04:36 PM |
| 28 | You need to spend money to get laid!Making an emotional connection costs nothing financially. Homosexuals are a real thing and an important archetype subset of players. My advice to all my nephews is to get good with women when you’re still a broke high schooler/college student. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 04:22 PM |
| 4 | do women care about your past history or notMen care about a woman’s past, women care about a man’s future | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Dating influencers isn't all its cracked up to beYeah in your case y’all just have mismatched values. Second part to my photo game, I only take photos of “things” on my phone. No direct human subjects. I think they pick up on that subconsciously. Also on the photo shoot thing, you gotta keep it down to about 4 times a year, or that will become a chore too. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 07:00 PM |
| – | Dating influencers isn't all its cracked up to beI made a rule. If you want your photos taken, I’d enjoy setting aside an hour two to do a real photo shot with a camera, but I’m not taking phone pics of you all day. I’ve found sensible women prefer the attention of a dedicated photo shoot. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever read a romance novel as research?“Through my window” on Netflix. It’s fucking terrible, but this is what women like. | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Girl shaking at first kiss, rainchecks second dateThis usually the case, but we can’t speak in absolutes. Sometimes when a women is TOO in to you and thinks they are not good enough for you, they’ll self-sabotage | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 10:19 AM |
| – | Cocky&Funny or Calm&Relaxed, which one is more attractive to women?Those two are opposite. They want a daddy who can’t be moved by their feminine chaos | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 09:20 AM |
| 1 | The Summer That Will Change Everything For You (Even If You’re Shy/Introverted)You definitely can dude. First, you need to scrub your subconscious clean of any and all Bollywood influences. | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you think someone could have woman having no job no house no car (being poor and not independent)Yes, they’re called hobosexuals. | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 01:12 PM |
| 12 | Really slow reader of texts but quick replierBro you’re delusional. If you aren’t gonna listen stop spamming posts here every other day. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 01:10 PM |
| 8 | Really slow reader of texts but quick replierIdk if you’re just choosing to be ignorant, but response time is based on when your message was originally sent not when it was opened. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 01:00 PM |
| 1 | What does she mean by this text?Bro after a divorce is when a woman is often easiest to hook up with. You’re just feeding her validation that she can still attract someone. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What is socially "dangerous" in a fun way?aka innuendo | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | What kind of social interactions with women do you enjoy the most?Trivia night at the bar | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 04:11 PM |
| 3 | How do I crack the Miami dating scene?Wtf happened to america for $350k/year to be middle class | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 01:59 AM |
| 1 | To the subset of seducers/seductresses here in LTRs, how do you maintain the relationship and keep your partner actively engaged? What are your tips to alleviating boredom, both for yourself, and your partner?thats what kink is for. you can spend hours having sex without intercourse | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 12:39 PM |
| – | Why will women suddenly turn their backs on you?some of them just enjoy chaos. its not that deep. | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 12:09 PM |
| 45 | How do I crack the Miami dating scene?Yep, very true about Dubai. Also, every third pretty women under 30 is a prostitute. | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 08:38 AM |
| 1 | How to get over awkwardness after asking someone out?relationship anarchy more to it than just sex Pick one | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 03:17 PM |
| 2 | How to get over awkwardness after asking someone out?Here’s a writing tip: don’t use double negatives saying he’s not interested in non casual stuff | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 03:15 PM |
| 0 | How to get over awkwardness after asking someone out?He’s probably got other women to fulfill his physical needs if y’all never meet again. If you want commitment from a man with options, you have to offer more than your competition is offering. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 03:08 PM |
| 3 | How to get over awkwardness after asking someone out?Rare case of a half decent dude actually trying to protect you from yourself. It’s a common mistake to continue a casual friends with benefits situation when one wants commitment and the other doesn’t. Guys, this is also evidence that when a girl has really high interest in you she’ll keep pursuing even after you’ve outright said no to a relationship. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | If you're a straight man, going to gay bars to pick up women is the best decision you could makeNot true. Blowing a “straight” or questioning dude is one of the ultimates for them | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Would you guys date a high body count woman?Average used to be around 7 twenty years ago, probably closer to 30 today | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | When will you be done with pickup/active dating?I feel the same way. All my cousins/nephews who were brought up by maids and both parents working 50 hours a week— they’re jerks, and it’s not their fault. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 08:26 PM |
| 32 | Never go on Dinner Datesyeah that’s an automatic swipe left, leave her for the simps | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 11:04 AM |
| 8 | I don’t get this cuck stuffSounds like someone else is fucking his girlfriend | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Here’s what works for me on Hinge - discussionI started taking days to respond— not on purpose I just didn’t really care about an online dating match— and I’ve had way better success getting dates. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 11:03 AM |
| 7 | Women’s interest just die outLol what a joke. That’s why she dumped him at the end of his career right, just when he would start having time for family after amassing millions of dollars for them | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Where to look for high income women?Wrong. This is ground level for gauging high interest. A coffee and a walk is so low key she’s only gonna show up if she’s into you. More importantly, you won’t be spending excessive amounts dating multiple women when you start w just coffee | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 02:47 PM |
| 34 | Nice Guy texting mistakes to avoidjust next her. I’ve followed up and gotten dates, fwb, relationships, friends, etc— but in hindsight these flakey people are not worth the effort | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Opinions on girls with lots of piercingsI hit on every single woman with a tongue piercing. Lulu, your head game was magic. I will never settle for a woman that doesn’t suck dick like it’s a hobby. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 06:09 AM |
| 11 | Classmate texted me randomly and suggests meeting at her place to study but then mentions she has a partner? What do?She would meet in public like you suggested if she just wanted to study. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Observation: The women who post relationship goals type of content on their social: are the Most active and practicing hoes.It’s a sad truth though | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 12:21 PM |
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