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| 1 | Men's and Womens Standards | kaazifreak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/20 11:48 PM |
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| 1 | Is it even worth it to try to get a girlfriend as a 30+ year old virgin!?I'm 30, same spot. Seeing a therapist. I still think it's doable. Though I look younger than my actual age. Do you look your age? Older? Younger? | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I'm 6'2, reasonably attractive, 29, dress sharp, good job Never got pussy But I have some moderate trauma I'm resolving, so maybe not the best example 🙃 | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Consider what makes you valuable. Being physically attractive isn't the only thing that women look for, it can help, for sure, but if you don't have confidence in yourself, your already starting off handicapped to your own detriment I'd also consider, why do you only see super attractive women as being the only ones you like? Are there habits you have that only puts these women in your radar? Also, there are very attractive women that do get with dudes that are not attractive. It's possible, kin… | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward?No sex since March?... bruh... Unless you decided that was OK, you're being taken advantage of... | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 07:01 PM |
| 2 | How to approach and start/keep a conversation going?Bro! Gotta get the number! ...tho tbh, I would bailed too 🤣 I had a woman, neighbor, knock on my door at 1:30am because she thought her driver who had just dropped her off was rude (she was drunk) She wanted to come in to see my dog, then invited me to her apartment, gave me a tour... bedroom last... (now I'm an oblivious dude...) then chatted on the couch for an hour after she started the fireplace... I believe I had all my ducks in a row for all the signals... but I'm an absolute dumbass... | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 02:48 PM |
| 5 | How to approach and start/keep a conversation going?Yeah, dudes are more likely to get assaulted if anything. But as soon as you throw in another guy in the equation, a woman will likely not be attacked... so smart on her part But I was gonna say, a girl approaching??? Damn that never happens lol | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 02:54 AM |
| 2 | How to approach and start/keep a conversation going?Never ask the fish how to fish... ask the fisherman that has caught the fish | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 02:19 AM |
| 2 | What to do when you’re in the receiving end of simmering (pre ghosted)He's probably interested, just shy, and just because he's shy doesn't mean he doesn't want the sex... it's a careful balance. But if he were given the sex, he may be more committed to the relationship | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!It's easy for a woman to ask a man to have sex. It's much harder for a man to ask a woman to have sex. That's why it's easier to be a slut than to be a stud. Therefore, if she's slept around she's low value because she didnt learn her value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 04:16 PM |
| 3 | What are these “high standards” that women have?You seem to be an exception. Women don't typically act like that when everything is laid on the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 04:12 PM |
| 6 | What are these “high standards” that women have?I think what's funny is a totally hot guy can be disrespectful and get the girl. But should a guy not be as confident and not as attractive, but a way better provider and potential mate, can be deemed as creepy and be disregarded as an option. Girls dont say they care about looks, but they care more than men do. A man can and will date down. A woman will hardly ever, if she even does, date down. I dont know many girls that have ever dated below them... maybe you have tho... It makes sense. They … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Would you be offended if someone changed their opinion of you because of your n-count?Wouldn't be offended at all. I'd be more impressed at the ability to not chase and actually seek a meaningful LTR not based solely on her emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Men who think "men age like wine" while saying women hit the wall are exactly the same as fds women who look at an obese, unhygienic woman and call her a "queen."So, you're dictating that a woman cannot choose for herself what she does with her own body at 18?... what if they need an abortion when they have sex before turning 16? Was she incapable of making her own decision to have sex at that age? Should we then create more draconian laws on the 18 year olds so they dont have sex until age 20? (They already can't buy cigarettes but can go to war and kill people... that's an insane example of the modern day draconian laws. If a woman should not have sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/20 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Men who think "men age like wine" while saying women hit the wall are exactly the same as fds women who look at an obese, unhygienic woman and call her a "queen."Girls mentally mature faster than boys. Have you not compared the mental maturity of girls in high school compared to neanderthal type of behaviors in boys in high school?... Boys who are 18 still have no idea what they want in life. Girls by 18 generally have some type of passion. But like you said, were comparing 20 year olds, so slightly older. Still tho, 20 year old men are not as mentally mature as 20 year old women. The graph starts at 20 year old women... 2 years is honestly not that much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/20 03:50 AM |
| 0 | Men who think "men age like wine" while saying women hit the wall are exactly the same as fds women who look at an obese, unhygienic woman and call her a "queen."Not just when they're "old" just "older". That chart shows that old men do depreciate in desirability. And that's what my comment was about, the desirability of a man isn't solely in his looks but also his status and wealth. An 18 year old still looks like a kid, has a mind of a kid, and isn't mature. Those who are older gain more maturity, look more manly and less boyish, are capable of logical decision making and are more likely to have a plan for their life. The graph is based on responses fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Men who think "men age like wine" while saying women hit the wall are exactly the same as fds women who look at an obese, unhygienic woman and call her a "queen."Men do have a "wall", but it's much later than women. Women generally can be good looking up until their 40s (if they take care of their body even into their 60's, but American women don't generally...). But after they get into their 40's, their looks generally start to decline, and rapidly at that. This is not a foreign concept, earlier generations called it over the hill. Today we've just termed it differently. Men on the other hand, do generally look more attractive as they age. Not just in l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/20 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do European men care more about their appearance than American men?Just said foreign women, my eye is on the Mexican ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 11:06 PM |
| 39 | Why do European men care more about their appearance than American men?Probably for similar reasons why foreign women care more for their bodies than American women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 08:28 PM |
| 3 | If men stopped using women for sex, you'd find the connection you're really looking forIf women stopped using men for their monetary assets and height, you'd find the connection you're really looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 03:19 AM |
| 9 | Men don't approach anymore ...I can agree with that, that's batshit crazy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 01:25 AM |
| 9 | Men don't approach anymore ...The point was, if having an abortion is a much more important right and is only relevant to one sex, then porn, something both sexes do about equally should have the same societal outcome for both sexes. Society has villainized men that use porn when women do it equally. Why don't we also villainize women for using porn? If feminism is for equality, why arent we treating women equally, in terms of villainizing women using porn, the same way men are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 01:24 AM |
| 10 | Men don't approach anymore ...What about women with an extremely low libido and men with an extremely high libido. Is he just supposed to not do anything? If a woman had an extremely high libido and a man had an extremely low libido, pretty sure society would be ok with her doing what she wanted with her body. 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 01:17 AM |
| 20 | Men don't approach anymore ...I hear stories how women also watch porn, and they don't seem to ever get backlash for that, seems to be normalized enough... but heaven forbid a man glimpses it, lol. His body his choice? If women expect no societal consequences for having abortions, shouldn't men also not have societal consequences of doing something that women do just as much? Whatever happened to equality? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 01:15 AM |
| 2 | What if a girl reachs out but then doesn't actively partecipate to the convo?Not necessarily true... hate to be the pessimist, but you should typically expect them to be worse after marriage. So if you can't converse well with them in courtship, that doesn't magically disappear with a legal paper. The relationship is still the same... | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 09:18 PM |
| 2 | How should to handle a girl giving you a compliment? Compliment back?Giving a compliment back is not as genuine as being the one to give the compliment first. Best course of action, graciously accept the compliment and find an opportunity to compliment whether it be in conversation or another separate time. It will make it seem more meaningful and genuine. | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 06:17 PM |
| 9 | [Discussion] U.S. Marriage Rate Plunges to Lowest Level on Record!Well the metoo movement really picked up momentum during 2018. Guys dont want to be left alone as much with a woman. Dating apps are all the rage now for hookups, so when you give the benefits of marriage to any individual so you can "explore yourself" sexually, especially during those marriage years... people probably won't get married in those marriage years since they're too busy having fun sexually and some dudes just dont even want any allegations that will threaten their jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Are men upset about not being able to get relationships or causal sex?I'd like to think it's for relationships. As relationships/dating have begun to change their field to online meetings and apps, it seems women have their choice of men. Men message more women on these dating apps than women message men. So men are feeling like they are not getting the same amount of attention. Sure, there's an aspect of sexual frustration as well, but I think it does mainly come down to the inability to acquire a meaningful relationship. Men have become less confident in approac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 05:18 AM |
| 3 | How to seduce a girl who is much higher in position but of same age as me?Don't date people at work unless you're intending to switch to another place of work... | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Men: do you find sexual rejection/disinterest to be an insult?I've found it to be just disinterest over an insult. An insult would need something negative about my character versus just a rejection. Now if they said no because that would be disgusting... then that's more of an insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/20 05:28 AM |
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