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Translation: I'm unable to justify any of these awful, antifamily policies without revealing how backward my beliefs are. Pathetic and weird, as usual.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 05:01 AM
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Incredible counterarguement. Really 10/10 stuff. Keep losing, though!
/r/MensRights08/08/24 04:39 AM
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Say it louder, brother
/r/MensRights08/08/24 03:13 AM
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That's a shame cause it sure as hell interacts with you
/r/MensRights08/08/24 03:12 AM
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Ech. I hate the alt right part of this sub. Like Tim Walz said, rights aren't like a damn pie. Giving someone else more doesn't mean you get less. Women deserve the right to bodily autonomy, just as men do. If you don't hate women or see them as basically sentient breeding machines, we need to step up to help them. Also, roping "married families" into the equation... give me a break. If you chose to not have children, or have a same sex partner, or anything beyond standard family structure, the …
/r/MensRights08/08/24 03:05 AM
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I mean, that's fine, I disagree with the federal government on several things, lol. It's a strange law to me. Why force businesses to put out ads saying they're looking for anyone and everyone? When everyone knows behind closed doors, they have a very particular set of requirements and preferences. To put it another way, let's say a restaurant or something is hiring, and internally, the management knows they specifically want a woman as a waitress. They feel it's would work better with the kitch…
/r/MensRights19/06/24 11:53 PM
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Personally, I don't really agree with attacking this. In fact, reporting it to get delisted is ridiculous. Hiring companies should be able to list any specific requirements they want for their employees, male/female, young/old, particular skill sets. That's how they don't waste everyone's time with applicants who they don't want.
/r/MensRights19/06/24 09:24 PM
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No, I think it's you who's missed the point here. Your bank robber analogy is a anti-abortion argument. You're saying that if two people have sex, they need to saddle up and deal with whatever results, even if that is a child. That isn't what my discussion is about. I am prochoice and don't believe that abortion should be legal. Women deserve bodily autonomy and should be allowed to do what they want with their bodies. What I was talking about is that men should get equal rights to walk away fro…
/r/MensRights04/06/24 01:02 PM
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Haha, no, I assure you I understand the concept quite well! The thing here isn't a misunderstanding on either of our parts, but the fact that you are a pro-life individual, and I am not. Yes, I am made up of cells, but I am also a functioning adult with sentience, and I'm above the age of 18 to boot, making me legally entitled to rights like autonomy. Would you humanize a spare kidney or a booger you picked out of your nose? Those things are human cells, too... No, I’m arguing that an abortion i…
/r/MensRights04/06/24 11:20 AM
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Do no harm? Don’t abort babies because people make bad decisions then. Again, unfortunately, you've entirely failed to substantiate any claim that abortions do any harm. The cells that are removed in abortions are non-sentient, non-viable, and incapable of being harmed in the way that you are implying. Anything else is frankly anti-science nonsense. The point is you can demand surgeries and procedures as an adult and not get them. Looks like you didn't get my point. That's because every day doct…
/r/MensRights04/06/24 07:11 AM
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Hahaha, got me there. I meant more in a hypothetical, good ethics way, not how hospitals cheat people, but yeah
/r/MensRights04/06/24 05:25 AM
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So why would we require something similar of women? Right, we shouldn't. That is more to my point that bodily autonomy is the most important thing. Still, to your first point, why does it matter the reason? One partner decides they don't want to be a parent. For any reason, they should be able to walk away.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 02:57 AM
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Thank you for your words and for those recommendations. I'm about as left as you can get on most things, so I'd probably fit in more over there. I do care strongly about men's rights, so sometimes I jive with the posts here. Other times, though, it's like I stumbled into one of the conservative/red pill/incel subs and want to flush my phone. Case in point, you see the guy in this thread who compared abortion rights for women to enabling slavery and the holocost? That is some industrial strength …
/r/MensRights04/06/24 12:55 AM
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So... you're saying we should be cool with "an eye for an eye" mentality? Those are all areas we need to be fighting for our rights. However, they don't constitute an ethical basis on which to take away the rights of others.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 12:01 AM
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Thank you. That's exactly what I meant.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 11:55 PM
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That's a fair take! I'm a big supporter of vasectomy when a man doesn't want children and takes that responsibility on himself. Condoms, though not 100% infallible, are always important.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 11:47 PM
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Unfortunately, it isn't, because I'm really struggling to parse your argument out here... but I think you're trying to make an argument against abortion? Which isn't the point of this topic. If you really want to say that checks notes "giving women bodily autonomy is treating them like children"... which makes no sense to me, that's cool, and you're entitled to that thought. But for me, the right to an abortion is a forgone ethical conclusion. This topic is more about men's rights after that dec…
/r/MensRights03/06/24 11:12 PM
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Brother, to be honest, I have no idea what you're talking about here. I was responding to the other guy who was arguing that because actual, under 18 year old people (children) aren't old enough to give consent, that means bodily autonomy isn't a right.... which isn't the case.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 10:53 PM
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I 100% agree with your whole post. People forget about how integral bodily autonomy is for an ethical society. It pertains to all healthcare, not just this situation. Imagine a doctor forcing you to get a procedure you don't consent to... and so on.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 10:33 PM
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If you definitely never want to have kids, then get a vasectomy. Already taken care of, haha. This topic juat something that bugs me on a societal level.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 10:30 PM
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Children need parents permission to have certain medical procedures performed on them. Friend, that's because they're children. They are legally unable to consent, that falls to their guardians. And doctors can refuse to perform surgeries on patients if they don’t believe they are necessary. That's because all surgeries come with risk, and medical professionals are bound by other aspects of medical ethics as well. Have you ever heard of "do no harm"? Bodily autonomy doesn’t mean you get to deman…
/r/MensRights03/06/24 10:24 PM
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See, the problem is it’s not just her body. There’s another body with separate DNA, half of which came from the father. That is the issue here. So I don’t buy any of the ‘it’s my body’ crap. Let's be clear... at the stage we're talking about, there is no "another body", it's a group of cells... inside and entirely nourished by HER body. The body of a conscious, consenting adult entity. Even if the fetus somehow had 100% the male donor's DNA (impossible of course), she still gets to decide what s…
/r/MensRights03/06/24 10:16 PM
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I certainly agree, after the child is viable/born.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 10:06 PM
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Ah, but would there be a need for a lawsuit if the father can simply choose to walk away from parenthood?
/r/MensRights03/06/24 10:01 PM
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Right, I understand. It's easy to imagine the worst-case scenario where a man who desperately wants to be a father is forced to bear the knowledge that his potential offspring is teminated beyond his control. That said, I'm forced to persist in my stance that bodily autonomy trumps anything else, even in that very dark situation. It's literally a cornerstone of medical ethics. You can not do something to someone or control their body without consent. That is the most important thing.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 09:58 PM
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he chose to have unprotected sex Did he, though? How many times do women lie or forget about one of their many options for birth control?
/r/MensRights03/06/24 09:44 PM
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Women are making bad mate choices and then the government forces all men to pay for it. Well, everyone pays for it. Women pay taxes, too, after all. I agree, though, it generally feels unbalanced for lack of a better solution.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 09:40 PM
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I see what you mean. My first thought is, "there needs to be some standard by which the government can determine fitness of single parents (men or women), and dispense aid accordingly". Perhaps the true roadblock for this is the logistical nightmare of determining that standard and then measuring it for each situation...
/r/MensRights03/06/24 09:28 PM
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How is a successful child a competition for you, an established adult? Who do you think is going to run the world and take care of you in your old age?
/r/MensRights03/06/24 09:16 PM
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In my view, EVERYONE deserves bodily autonomy. It's part of living in free and just society. Think of it this way. A hypothetical blood disease exists that requires a constant blood infusion from a participant for them to stay alive. Their donor has to give up their freedom in order to keep this person alive. Is that fair? Should the healthy person be forced to stay connected to the sick person (even if that person is a child, the president, etc.)? Certainly, it's "nice" or the kind thing to do,…
/r/MensRights03/06/24 09:14 PM
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Agreed, no one should be able to FORCE an abortion, which would also violate bodily autonomy. They should, however, be able to "abort" their fatherhood and walk away from that decision. That's my argument in a nutshell.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 09:06 PM
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See, I think I disagree. The woman deserves the right to bodily autonomy, first and foremost. She gets to decide what happens to her body, regardless of what you or anyone else wants. It's that power that comes with responsibility, however. She is the one who has to carry the child. To rephrase, both have the right to walk away and abdicate responsibility. No one is forced to do something with their body that they dont want to.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 09:04 PM
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That's an interesting point, I hadn't considered the case of unfit mothers who made the decision to carry the child anyway. I guess it really does come down to personal politics. In my view, we SHOULD be using our tax dollars to beef up both child protective services and government run childcare facilities. I would rather pay more in taxes than have the threat of potential required payments to a mother (for nebulous reasons) hanging over me. Moreover, it's to the direct benefit of society. Child…
/r/MensRights03/06/24 09:00 PM
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I know. Wasn't directed at you, just at this dumb thing in general
/r/MensRights02/06/24 01:13 PM
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This is turbo cringe. Let's be better men in this sub.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 11:13 AM
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It's literally 1 in 10,000 chance.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 11:44 AM
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Found the asexual guy
/r/MensRights26/05/24 11:42 AM
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Oh please, stop spreading blatent misinformation. That isn't even how the anatomy works. The chances of the complications you're talking about being bad enough to effect daily life are less than 14% in clinical trials (source), and even then it's usually very mild and treated with NSAIDs. There are risks to ANY surgery, and you can still experience epididymitis as an intact man. Personally, I'll accept the (very minor) risk in order to enjoy a childfree future.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 11:34 AM
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It's possible to care about men's rights without hating women
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/24 07:46 AM
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I dunno man, I have a couple exs who are pretty big losers. Sounds like I'm just salty, but I check in. Single, cats, no direction in life. Losers.
/r/MensRights22/03/24 08:36 AM
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And don't forget, WE'RE the privileged ones.
/r/MensRights15/03/24 09:34 PM
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Ahhh, yeah. You reminded me of an ex I had once. Owned one set of lingerie, the kind with the straps on the legs. I begged her to wear it, but she never did. Then, one night, she had it on and was ready for me after I got home from work... on my 10-hour manual labor shift. I was too tired to make anything happen on my end, in spite of a valiant effort. She cried, refused to sleep next to me or talk to me for a few days, and even had several of her female friends text me and berate me. I never sa…
/r/MensRights15/03/24 07:24 PM
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Well, of course. It's just... if I say, "You know what? This dating bullshit ain't for me. I have other goals in life." Or something to that tune. But then most of the traditional TRP thinkers spin on their heels and say, "N-no! You can't do that! If you don't even play their game, you'll be a loser!" Well... we can see who is self-conscious about the decisions they've made about their life goals, lol
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 11:51 PM
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"Winning pushes you up the hierarchy, which gives you access to more mates. That is the purpose of all your drives." - definitely not a selfish hedonist justifying himself At least have the intellectual courage to defend your position before running away. But yeah, have a good one? Lol
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:29 PM
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Pssssst. Hey man. Wanna know a secret? It's all for nothing anyway. You get one beautiful, wild, amazing life... and that's it. I won't care about who or what my possessions or money or legacy is left to, because I'll be fucking dead. Having children doesn't guarantee your legacy is carried on anywhere. This isn't fucking game of thrones. And I'm gonna be enjoying backpacking through India while people who think like you are living paycheck to paycheck or picking up diapers at the grocery store.…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:19 PM
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Shame and project, same old strategies, huh? It's hilarious. You are coming at me about my "selfish, hedonistic lifestyle" from the same position that advises you to "spin as many plates as possible" and "always live in abundance." What a stooge.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:14 PM
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being analytical about human interaction is autistic Yall can't really be taking this seriously, right?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 11:16 AM
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Yeah, sorry man, but this is the saddest and most depressing take I can think of. By being born into this world you're already forced to play the game of reproduction. I absolutely am not. Proudly childfree here. My life and everything in it is about ME, and fueling my hobbies, career, and things like travel. Just because my body is "designed" for something, doesn't mean it makes any sense in a modern society. I'm also designed to eat only the highest sources of carbs I can find (sugar, fat, etc…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 11:15 AM
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I think the sad part is, TRP/game/sexual strategy crowd really shame MGTOW hard (along with pretty much everyone else) for deciding that the only wining move is not to play. I think it's very valid, myself. It'd be much nicer if both parties that have internalized these ideas could have more mutual respect and understanding.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 05:20 AM
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I'm getting one because I have zero idea why anyone who hasn't been tremendously lucky or successful early in life would willingly have kids to begin with. I'm happy to hear this tbh.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 08:37 AM
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Say what you want, man. But the idea that women can't communicate above the level of a child is inherently disgusting, sexist, and based outside reality. Sidebar be damned.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/23 01:19 AM
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You don't even know what that phrase means. White knight implies I'm virtue signaling to earn a woman's praise, but there are no women here. These are my real views.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/23 06:37 PM
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I agree, but that doesn't automatically make it their responsibility. I cringe at the notion because there are many many full competent, amazing single dads out there, and it grossly minimizes the role of the father in either case. We should be fighting the specter of the mother being "the real parent" at every turn we can.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/23 06:35 PM
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"Women are responsible"... woof, okay, frankly insane take aside. Have you ever spoken to an adult woman in real life? I don't mean that as an insult, honestly. Even taking your point that traditionally, women are more attuned to looking after children, they are fully capable of differentiating between them and other adults and communicating accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/23 05:48 PM
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The fact you didn't really read my post and retreat to boasting and fear-mongering speaks volumes, my guy.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/23 03:59 PM
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Yep. I think it honestly goes back to that "AWALT" saying, which IMO is bad messaging. Too many people take it to mean "all women are inhuman, animalistic, lesser than men (who have honor and deserve respect)", when at most it's supposed to mean "guard your heart, there are those who you love who would break it." If we're looking to appeal to the lowest common denominator of comprehension, the idea should be more plain.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/23 03:18 PM
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I think it's fine and fun to treat women you see as potential friends or relationship partners like that. But definitely not women in the general population of people you interact with on a daily basis. You 100% should not be treating your female boss/superior at work, the barrista at Starbucks, or your adult female relative like they are a 10 year old invalid. That's just dickhead behavior, and a big part of the reason being "redpilled" gets the bad rap it has. Everyone deserves basic respect..…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/23 02:18 PM
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Oof. You know, I stopped routinely checking out this sub a while ago, and I think it's kinda because of posts like these. I strongly disagree with modern feminism, and believe in fighting for men's rights and the objective observation of sexual dynamics and so on. But "women are not mentally adults"? My man, that's just unhinged. This just reads like you were hurt, really bad.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/23 01:58 PM
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You sound fat and weak OP <3
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 01:31 AM
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I can't get this post out of my head. Honestly I've been half considering proposing to my folks that we find a big house together somewhere with a mother-in-law suite I can call my own. I'd get the security of having a home base with people who are basically never going to betray me*, and they get someone to help them out as they get older. It's kind of a win-win. I'm lucky my parents are great and general cool people
/r/MensRights21/08/23 10:29 PM
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I never really see anyone talking about it in this sub, but you know it is possible to stretch the skin there to "regrow" a facsimile of a foreskin? Obviously it won't reproduce the nerves and stuff that we're lost in the circumcision, but it will give you more gliding action and coverage, and look essentially uncircumcised the untrained eye... Check out /r/foreskin_restoration
/r/MensRights21/07/23 03:42 AM
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Mmm. So, "men deserve special privilege and commendation because they are born men, and thus have higher physical strength. Only they can work these jobs, as opposed to the men and women who work hard for years in school to become nurses, so they should be considered equals." That's 100% nonsense man. It's no difference from feminists who try to say women deserve higher pay or representation just for being women. How about YOU step back and realize that two wrongs don't make a right, you are cur…
/r/MensRights06/07/23 02:48 AM
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Well, it wasn't MY argument to pick on healthcare workers. One of these professions requires a college education and quick thinking that saves people's lives on a daily basis, and the other is scraping shit into drains. OP's whole argument is boiled down to "man, why do these nurses get special treatment when garbage men are important too!". It's a really stupid thing to say. Of course, those physical labor jobs are important to society, but it's a terrible tactic to try to build them up by brea…
/r/MensRights06/07/23 01:12 AM
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Intelligent response
/r/MensRights05/07/23 11:28 PM
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Honestly, it's a little silly to compare nurses to power line workers or whatever. One is a job that requires a competitive and difficult 4 year degree, the other is mindless physical labor. The jobs you listed are physically demanding, but so is nursing and in that case lives are typically on the line. Just saying.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 07:09 PM
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What's your point? Is living in an actually good society, working to make itself better, not worth paying taxes for?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/02/22 02:46 PM
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No, you're missing my point. Those debts shouldn't exist to begin with. They should be a collective burden that all of society (including myself) pays for, for those who are smart or dedicated enough to earn it. Just like we already pay for grades 1-12.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/02/22 02:45 PM
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Two reasons. One, the loans are pushed on people too young to know any better. You wouldn't give a jobless 18 year old a $20k loan for anything else, because they have no idea what they are getting in to. All the actual adults around them push them into it, saying it is their ticket to upper middle class, they'll have a job good enough to handle it, etc. But there is no guarantee. Maybe when those adults were kids, but certainly not anymore. Second, predatory interest rates make it so you could …
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/22 09:37 PM
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Well, I mean yeah. I wouldn't be friends with another guy either, if he never returned the favor of treating me to food, or requesting a hang out sesh, or whatever. It's a two way street. Honestly, I have read the side-bar and stuff, but I don't agree with the typical consensus that "women make poor friends" or "women are boring". It sounds more like people who think that haven't tried hard enough to find some good ones?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/21 01:51 PM
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What about in the case of just being friends with a girl?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/21 12:03 PM
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Dude both of those sources have been debunked countless times. Especially the porn one. There is no science to back it up, nada. They are so obviously selling a silver bullet. "This one simple thing will make all your dreams come true!" And dopamine, of all things? You know what else gives you a nice big hit? Listening to music. Petting a dog. Giving a handshake. lol You are focusing on chasing after some magic answer that will solve everything and turn you into a supersoldier, when in reality t…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 03:47 AM
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This is patently false. Citation needed! lol
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 03:08 AM
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This is dripping with bro science
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 02:56 AM
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When you put it that way, makes sense. It wouldn't be fair to try to LTR some random girl, but I was thinking of more just like casual stuff? What kind of time investment that would be... though it's probably vastly different between people. Honestly it feels like it's all a game of delayed gratification. I'm a lonely fuck now so my smv can be higher later... I guess that's how it's supposed to be.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 06:40 AM
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Yeah, it just started, so it's definitely a work in progress. I'm a lot older than most of them so readily connecting takes a lot of work. Sometimes the cost is more social energy than I have ya know.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 06:36 AM
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Yo Vasiliy, could you field a quick question? I know you know what's up. Would you say it's still worth it to make an online dating profile if you feel like you really don't have a lot of time for dates and shit in life atm? I know a lot of guys use that "I'm busy" thing as an excuse, but for real... I'm currently full time work, full time school, plus an internship. Aside from gym time and sleep, I barely have time to breath. Of course my bed is empty aside from myself, and it sucks. My LTR bro…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 04:43 AM
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If you waist is getting bigger but you're not getting stronger, go to a doctor and get your hormone levels checked. Can you expound on this point?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 11:20 PM
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Yeah, I do... he's one of my best friends. Thing is, he's basically in a sexless relationship with her, and often pretty miserable. When we go out to the gym he often wingman's for me, but I know he'd much rather be in my shoes. Dude has more charisma than I do...
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 09:39 PM
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So, what about if I have a close guy friend/best friend, who has a live-in girlfriend. If I go over there a lot and we end up interacting together fairly often, am I supposed to suddenly feel bad about it? I was friends with him long before I knew her, but yeah if I go over to hang out and have food or something obviously she's there... we chat and play board games n shit... she's not super attractive or anything and had been a good ear for when I'm going through shit from time to time.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 08:59 PM
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I mean, to be fair I don't know you or your genetics or your training stats, or anything like that. Im also a powerlifter, not a bb player or runner. But, I'm willing to bet that you haven't made much progress lately, or else not as much as you COULD be making. You'd be much better served decreasing the frequency slightly down to 4-5 days, and increasing the intensity of your workout. Not only does this give you more time to recover, you can push yourself old limits in order to illicit some actu…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 09:12 PM
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That sounds like a case of too much my dude. I'm not a licensed expert (yet) but I am in PT school and study overuse injuries. You gotta give your body a chance to heal a little
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 05:06 PM
2

Yo for real though, what kind of program yall on that you go to the gym 6 days a week?? Even when I'm serious powerlifting mode, gearing up for competition, 4 training days are plenty... you need to rest also.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 09:48 AM
31

No, they still don't see fat as beauty. /u/adawk91 is right. Most men are just so desperate that they'll tell land whales that they are beautiful just as they are, in order to get even a little attention...
/r/TheRedPill13/06/21 04:15 PM
0

Oh my god. Bro. Of course, I scheduled an appointment and spoke to my GP about it. I'm an extremely health-minded man, I lift heavy weights daily, track macros and carefully program everything that goes into my body. I'm under a lot of stress (full time student) and work over nights in a busy hospital (7 days on 7 days off) but other than that I'm in perfect health. I had him do blood work, and my testosterone came back at over 800, which according to him is even higher than average. He thinks I…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:01 PM
1

You didn't read my post, but I wrote about doing all of those things...
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:26 AM
1

Just see a doctor and get T injections I had him do blood work, and my testosterone came back at over 800, which according to him is even higher than average. Did you read my post?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 04:23 PM
2

Why even take the time to post this if you're not going to read what I wrote?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:02 PM
1

Okay man, good for you. I'm glad you have it all figured out! Have a good one
/r/askTRP06/06/21 08:32 PM
1

There's a problem with your thinking though. I have much bigger, more important goals in life than seeking sex. My without regimen, my friends, my work, especially my school all come before trying to have sex with women. My point is, when your libido has already grown so out of control that you are actively seeking sex from women, you're already operating in a scarcity mindset. The anti-science "nofap" group has you believing that by abstaining from jerking it, you're somehow going to become thi…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:40 PM
1

Uh, because you can't just instantly have sex whenever you want to? And even if you could, it takes energy and requires you to interface with someone else. Healthy masturbation is about taking time to listen to your body and celebrate yourself and stuff dude. Only the mentally un-well use it as an escape from life problems and shit
/r/askTRP06/06/21 05:45 PM
1

Except that's the same bro science I'm talking about. There is absolutely, 100% no peer-reviewed source that implies there is lasting "damage" done from practicing healthy masturbation. Testosterone production doesn't change, and the spike in prolactin that you are talking about creates the euphoric feeling that lasts for a total of about 90 minutes. Then levels return to normal. You are torturing yourself for absolutely no reason, and spreading your misinformation and personal shame onto others…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:38 PM
0

Hmmm you don't say. How about then, masturbate before you take a nap? During a relaxing shower? Before bed time? And not compulsively before you go to the gym or have to get a bunch of shit done for work? I mean really, even with out the complete lack of meaningful science, you can tell no fap is a bunch of horseshit just from the fact that the people spouting it seem to have no understanding of how their own bodies work...
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:46 PM
0

The idea that you can "transmute the energy" is complete horseshit. You telling yourself that is a mental placebo. "I'm not gonna jack off and so I'll have the energy to do X". When in reality you'd be perfectly capable to do both. Ridiculous.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:44 PM
1

Oh my god, then nofap bro science in this sub is completely out of control. Yall need to realize mastubation does not effect testosterone production
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:29 PM
1

> I can deliver negs Cringe
/r/askTRP29/05/21 04:46 PM
4

Life is like a garden. Perfect times can be had, but not preserved, except in memory. Accept that even with all the cultivation and mastery in the world, eventually, winter comes. Plan for spring and just keep moving forward brother.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:08 PM
1

It's a bit of an art, a learned skill. Basically, wrap the subject into something that you DO know about. Bonus points if it's something cool about you. Let's take something I don't know anything about, yeah? Motorcycles. I couldn't tell you anything about em. But, I do know a lot of really interesting kinds come from Japanese manufacturers. You know, I traveled to Japan for 3 months on a business trip once.... etc. etc. and on and on. Again, practice. Literally go up to someone outside you have…
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:50 PM
2

Practice makes perfect. Talk to everyone, men, women, children, old folks. Learn how to talk about a wide range of subjects, and be confident in discussing things you don't know a lot about.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 08:47 PM
1

Es ist Zeit, erwachsen zu werden 😉
/r/askTRP21/03/21 03:09 PM
-2

Hey kiddo, when you grow up, sometimes you realize it takes strength to admit your mistakes and apologize for things you did wrong. I am not ashamed of the above draft, if that's what you were going for.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 02:26 PM
15

Maximum autism lol. OP, learn to ramble/vibe. Eventually she'll find something to click on and you can have an actual conversation. Master the art of the "old man talk". Also, avoid asking questions, and make assumptions about her instead. So instead of going into an impromptu interview about her, just be like "you look like someone who does a lot of X/comes from (place)" or "I picture you really enjoying X". You can be really playful with it... pick something ridiculous. "You seem like you like…
/r/askTRP21/03/21 02:05 PM
0

I'm with you bro. Sometimes bigger chicks get funny (like haha funny) instead of mean. They are nice to hang out with, are generous in bed, and you can be yourself without really fearing falling below her in SMV. My secret to an abundance mentality lol
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:31 AM
2

I went down the rabbit hole a little bit and watched a few of his videos. I like his approach in that it's much more natural and playful than the typical lines PUA type stuff. Do you think it's still doable, even during covid?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:49 PM
1

a dissenting opinion of a political nature Yeah, that's kinda where I'm at personally. I managed to get banned from the original board for voicing an opinion, just once. Not even in an inflammatory way. I'm 100% for men's rights, going you own way, and so on, but there are many more political aspects of the left (Medicare for everyone, environmental protections, fixing education, etc. etc.) that I agree with than the right. The Trump presidency was sheer lunacy all the way through, and I was kin…
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 09:39 PM
1

google twitter and facebook ban him Lol, that's because they're fair weather friends bro. You think the billionaires behind those giants dont know when to fold 'em? Notice how they were fine with Trump spewing his cancerous rhetoric across the internet his entire time in office, and only banned him to save face once it was confirmed that the office would change hands? Oligarchy doesn't care whether it's Trump or a "democrat" like Biden in power, as long as they have all the money and control. Sa…
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 08:19 PM
11

I don't see how Trump's America wasn't just as much of an oligarchy. The super rich control everything and will continue to do so...
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 06:04 PM
2

I totally agree, but it really does and up having an effect on your friends though. I'm totally in the introvert boat, would rather go home and workout, play video games, etc. In my spare time... that's time I'm not spending becoming someone's good friend. "Why don't you do some of those things with your friends?" Because having to interact, be "on" in any way is obnoxious. I'd rather spend my energy on myself... it's a tricky situation. Right now, I only have 2-3 good friends, and only one I se…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:58 PM
0

Man I don't have time to sit here and waste on someone who basically sounds like the "aliens.jpg" conspiracy theory meme. I hope no one you love ends up dying a senseless death as a result of your careless, callous actions. Peace
/r/MGTOW206/01/21 11:53 PM
2

You are beyond help.
/r/MGTOW206/01/21 11:49 PM
-2

Well, that's the crazy thing man. It actually doesn't matter what you think. You aren't a scientist, or a doctor, or specialist of any kind, probably.
/r/MGTOW206/01/21 11:48 PM
0

Except, that's fucking bullshit you festering dill-hole. Why noone gets flu anymore? Hahaha bro, are you okay? Was that even English? "Why noone gets flu anymore"? Hahaha look at this pathetic, conspiracy theory nonsense.
/r/MGTOW206/01/21 11:35 PM
0

You’re in an ICU and you see people dying. I don’t see the connection between that and this pandemic not being a hoax. Sigh. Well ya see buddy. Get this: the people that are dying? They are dying... from covid! You know, the thing you could be helping to prevent? It's not a "hoax". Viruses exist even of you can't see them. Not that you can understand with your 3 brain cells. Hey, know what else is hoax? Gravity! Turns out, everyone can actually fly, and it's those evil scientists that want to "c…
/r/MGTOW206/01/21 11:26 PM
3

Actually, you fucking mouthbreather, I work in an ICU and watch people die from the disease daily. I wish you could take their place. It's sickening how you MAGA chumps have taken over mgtow and other men's rights sectors with your insane lunacy. Get lost, please!
/r/MGTOW206/01/21 11:06 PM
0

Go back to your containment sub, we don't want your anti-science bullshit here
/r/MGTOW206/01/21 11:01 PM
1

Don't you have to keep using it though? Eventually you'll shed all the hairs again...
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 09:04 AM
1

I've run into similar problems. Could give MGTOW a shot. Get a dog, maybe a few close friends, the occasional "with benefits". Fuck everybody else.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 06:13 PM
10

What is this bro nonsense? Lift with good form...
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 03:21 PM
1

Gross, thanks but no thanks OP. I lift for myself, to truly see the power my body is capable to produce. This bodybuilder mindset is basically just "common bro, do more curls and girls will sleep with you". Take the pussy off the pedestal, maybe you can accomplish something.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 03:20 PM
6

Same here bros. Actually just happened to me a month ago. Had a girl for 2 years, was really happy most of the time even though I was just trying to work myself up the food chain at work and had very little. Eventually I was in position to quit a high paying job to go back to school, and she started making more than me (by a lot). I'd payed for food and dates the whole time she was doing her data science program. Suddenly she told me she'd been "miserable for months"... "crying herself to sleep"…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 09:58 PM
1

I mean. I watched the debate where Trump refused to stand up against white power groups. Which are legit racist entities. It was pretty obvious? Also all that "build a wall" stuff probably didn't help. I think he spoke to a lot of uneducated people by promising them something (MAGA) that he had no hope of actually realizing. And don't get me started on his handling of coronavirus and things like ecological issues... this is a guy who doesn't even acknowledge global warming as an eminent threat t…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:42 AM
1

I ended up having major beef with mgtow dude. It got very political... I got banned from the sub because I criticized the "bad orange man" during the election. I get that most feminist-y types are very liberal, but to me that's no reason to go to the dark side of racism, homophopia, etc...
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:51 PM
1

I'm the same way OP. I don't care as much about the girls thing as I do about just friends. All my old high school friends, etc. who went down the married with kids route, and are all the time like "hey man when years you getting on x video game" or "when did you wanna hang out this weekend?" and I'm just here with full time work, training in the gym, part time classes, etc. I wish I had time, but it just doesn't follow...
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:06 PM
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Connery probably had no idea about red pill or MGTOW, but he didn't have to... he was raised in a time where men were men and that was that. A man's man. For that reason alone he's worth looking up to as a sort of role model for how we should really be dealing with feminism and its supporters. Hint: into the garbage they go.
/r/MGTOW31/10/20 08:28 PM
4

She's a slut dude
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:50 PM
7

> she likes hooking up. > but I’m not sure if she’s ltr material Uh. No.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:11 PM
-2

The whole thing is pseudoscience/broscience bullshit
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:04 PM
1

Great recommendation thanks, I'll check it out
/r/askTRP13/10/20 12:56 AM
2

Thanks for this post, was pretty much the info I was looking for. As I said in the other thing, I dont want/need meds, I literally just wanna talk to another human. I like the idea of it being a martial arts/coach person, but most of that stuff (at least in my area) is still closed down due to the virus. Still, something to consider for the future.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 10:13 PM
2

I see... yeah I don't think I need any drugs. I dont want the side effects of a SSRI either lol. Do life coaches typically take insurance? As a full time student, disposable income to tough to come by... *a google search says nope, unless they have a professional certification. Which brings me back to a psychologist? "Life coaching" is close to what I'm looking for though.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 08:08 PM
3

This is true. I also have a tendency (again kind of out of desperation) to use forums like this one to pour our how I feel. The problem is, Reddit posters vary by an enormous margin day to day... and it sucks to have to basically reintroduce my whole background every time I post. Doesnt seem terribly healthy.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 08:06 PM
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Well I sure dont. Obesity is terribly unhealthy and 99% preventable (accepting of course for those with terrible glandular problems or what have you). It should not be normalized or celebrated among either gender.
/r/MensRights29/08/20 08:08 AM
4

The problem with either of those two "solutions" is that they are blatantly against biology. Mother nature says men are the "pursuers" and women are the "choosers". You arent going to magically see women start to make the first move just because society tells them to...
/r/MensRights16/08/20 12:37 AM
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Short kings rise up
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/20 03:52 PM
2

You might be right. You mean I'm probably resting too much?
/r/askTRP09/08/20 11:15 PM
1

It isn't my life goal, per se. I have bigger fish to fry at the moment, especially school. That's gotta come first. Also, I can't let sleep and taking care of myself and our home slip away so much.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 11:15 PM
0

Yeah, it's about 3-5. If I get any kind of volume, say 6x8, it takes quite a while.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 11:13 PM
2

Thanks for the input, yeah you definitely get where I'm coming from. It really does feel like an addiction at times. What I'm leaning towards, like I told the other guy, is moving towards an every day schedule. Most of what takes me so long is the fact that I require a lot of rest between sets. If I focus on just one movement per day, I think I can more than halve that time. So for example, instead of Day 1: Stretch/Squat/Bench/Accessories (3hrs) Day 2: Rest Day 3: Stretch/Deadlift/OHP/Accessori…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:53 PM
1

That's where I'm leaning towards. Speaking from a physiological perspective, I know I must be suffering from diminishing returns after more than 2 hours. There's just so much I want to accomplish and when the weight gets heavy I need additional time to rest between sets. It's pretty frustrating. So my options would be: A. Do the same amount of work, but split it up into more days? So hit the garage every day for an hour, perhaps in the morning before work? B. Do less overall work, less accessori…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:50 PM
2

Thanks for input. I'm glad we came to the same conclusion... I initially did basically treat it as a shit test ("you're free to come keep me company between sets, wink wink") but honestly I dont think she's just fucking around. She's really unhappy about the imbalances. I mean, 2 days ago I was "taking a nap" on the couch after work (aka. Passed the fuck out from being 100% physiologically drained) for hours and she made dinner... then I ate and dipped to go back to the garage to work out. She's…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:45 PM
6

I 100% agree and concur with this, however I still think "polyamory" as it's defined doesnt really exist. Basically that's just a nice label for what are really brutal, amoral, and naturally unbalanced sexual mechanics. High value men who are polyamorous basically just toss it out as a ploy to continue doing what they were gonna do anyway, perhaps for a little longer. It's a silly distinction to make for them. Low quality men use it as a coping mechanism to deal with the fact that their onitis i…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 07:15 PM
4

You're a human being, not a machine. Made of blood and guts. You can't expect your body to work the way you want it to 100% of the time, just like sometimes you can't sleep even though you're tired and want to. Or when you know you can get 225x5 on bench at the gym, and you feel good, but for whatever reason (stress, sleep, nutrition, etc.) you fail the set. Very unlikely low T, unless you have other much worse symptoms. You were probably just in your own head. Most of the women I've been with d…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:22 AM
2

This is true. The broscience is always strong in these threads.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:20 AM
6

If you have some kind of horrible porn addiction, obviously cut it out. But nofap/semen retention is 110% pseudoscience bullshit. Not jerking it has 0 effect on testosterone long term. I thought we debunked this long ago?
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:19 AM
80

Well said. Honestly, "a polyamorous woman" doesnt really exist anyway, it's literally slutbags discovered they wont get shamed for promiscuity if they somehow group together with LGBTQ peoples
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 01:29 AM
7

Emphysema of the the cornhole
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 08:05 PM
3

Yo my old LTR had one, and I've been with a few girls since that had em. What pokes your dick is not the device itself (which is inside the uterus, hence intrauterine device, your penis doesnt get that close) but the tiny cords their doc leaves behind to help remove it/replace it. Sometimes they leave these cords too long, because on some girls it can be tricky to reach them to pull the thing out when it comes time. I guess uteruses tend to suck em up like spaghetti. The sensation is kinda like.…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:36 AM
2

I’d say it’s way more likely your girl cheats by “going to lunch” with a coworker that you’ve never heard of than “helping the homeless” out of nowhere on a Saturday. But you literally just listed two scenarios that break routine. If my LTR went to lunch with someone she hasn't told me about in detail (especially a male coworker) or randomly disappeared for hours to do something she's never done before... yeah, you'd know something is up.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 08:10 PM
1

I never said they didn't. My point is, people eating nothing but massive quantities of meat and expecting to get shredded is a real problem.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 07:43 PM
2

Honestly not the case. I eat vegan for personal reasons, moral and health combined. It's a very balanced diet, with high protein, fiber. All the macro and micronutrients required. The "carnivore" diet does not have any of these. We are not carnivores, nor were our bodies meant to consume only meat. It plays into the idea that because protein is important for growing a strong body, more is always better, which simply isn't the case. Do you know what your body does with excess protein? It pumps it…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 02:52 PM
0

Lol okay kid. Enjoy your colon cancer. Maybe think about a salad? I don't know
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 02:45 PM
-7

Yo, this is just some other random dude's opinion, but I study nutrition for school... carnivore diet is ludicrous, and unsustainable for a healthful body composition long term, so please reconsider. Anecdotes from people saying it "cured inflammation" are entirely without scientific merit. Eat a balanced diet, with plenty of vegetables and fruit for vitamin/mineral/fiber.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 01:30 AM
2

Semen retention is pure pseudoscience nonsense. Please get a clue
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:52 PM
1

Eat more Fuck cardio Lift heavy for more reps
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:21 PM
20

I agree with the general analogy for sure, but I'd probably argue that video games are better than weed. Smoking fucks up your lungs dude. Anyone who cares about their body at all shouldn't apply.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 02:05 AM
15

All Women Are Like That Sure, but they aren't women, they're children. Which is the problem here.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 05:41 PM
22

I dont think its necessarily "hoeism" that's the problem, but that a lot of the content is from children. I'd agree there's something kinda fucky going on.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 02:13 PM
1

Durr if you eat 1.1g of protein more over 30g it gets pissed out and u loose gainz. No one said you'd lose gains, you just won't benefit past that point. You're wasting your money. Also note that vegan protein is either soy based or filler, probably just as detrimental. lol okay bro. You know there are a ton of plant based protein options that have nothing to do with soy... and even IF that was the only option, there is 0 actual science that says soy is detrimental to one's health in any way. Wh…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 10:08 PM
1

Hey, I'm majoring in Kinesiology! I've got plans to go into PT though. 👌
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 10:00 PM
1

2 kg/lb? Bruh. " While athletes' protein needs are greater than that of non-athletes, they're not as high as commonly perceived. The Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, Dietitians of Canada and the American College of Sports Medicine recommend 1.2 to 2.0 grams of protein per kilogram of body weight per day for athletes, depending on training. Protein intake should be spaced throughout the day and after workouts. " https://www.eatright.org/fitness/sports-and-performance/fueling-your-workout/prote…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 03:34 PM
3

That's complete hearsay. Soy does the job just as well as say, whey protein, and no it does not increase estrogen like so much broscience tells you it will. There are many athletes who are vegan and still compete. The bias against soy is ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 02:02 PM
1

Then you're eating the wrong bread. Get something whole grain, with plenty of seeds and fiber. A favorite of mine is Dave's Killer Bread Powerseed. It'll knock your socks off if you've been eating only white bread you're whole life. It's in most grocery stores.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 01:56 PM
4

If you’re not that serious don’t worry about it. Just focus on having at least 1 lb of protein for every pound you weigh, and stay away from sugar. Just wanted to say, this amount of protein is entirely unnecessary (and yes, I know you meant grams, not pounds). The DRI for strength training athletes like body builders is still just 1.2-2.0 g of protein per KILOGRAM of LEAN BODY MASS. Anything you eat over like 2.2 is just pissed out, and you've likely wasted your money. I see so many athletes be…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 01:50 PM
1

> I know im making progress but im 22 and still a virgin, my best times are going away. Hahahhahahahh oh man. Sometimes I'm reminded of the average age around here. I'm sorry kid, but in no way are "your best times" before 25. Educate yourself and get a mission. Comon'.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 10:11 PM
1

Yes, and the fact that they naturally shed blood has nothing to do with PMS symptoms, much less masturbation. Or are you trying to say jerking it is gonna give me mood swings? Seriously?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:45 PM
1

What on earth does their mental state have to do with the physical process of menstruation? Holy shit dude just stop
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:09 PM
1

A basic human function is sex not masturbation. Disagree. Masturbation is different than sex, and they certainly cause different chemicals to be released in the brain... but they are both normal, healthful behaviors with no harmful effects. The is 0 scientific data that contradicts this, despite a lot of testing. The comparison wasn’t the best your right but give a man regular sex, food, and comfort he will lose all motivation. This is nonsense. Take a man who's earned "regular sex, food and com…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:04 PM
1

Nah dude look. Can you imagine how many times you'd have to jizz before you lost ANY significant amount of metabolic resources? We got the entire female population out here literally bleeding for a week straight. But you're like. Nah, that one 3 ml cumshot. TOO EXPENSIVE. I'm dying dude. Even if that was how the body handled sperm production, which it isn't.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:31 PM
1

Imagine believing this
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:23 PM
1

Ugh, this is seriously the most retarded arguement. Just because you enjoy performing a basic human function does not imply addiction. That's like saying, "oh you like taking a hot shower after the gym? Feels good huh? You must be addicted because you like how it feels... try going a month without it!" Literally WHY? There is no reason to do so...
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:23 PM
1

Just wanted to chime in with my personal experience... keep in mind this is 100% anecdotal of course. I started nofap about 2 years ago, and have since slept with multiple women and got into a LTR. Long story short mate... nofap does absolutely fucking nothing. You don't get more "energy", so don't get a magical boost of testosterone, honestly you don't even feel more inclined to approach. It's pseudoscience quackery and I never experienced one iota of benefit. I quit about a month ago, and have…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:10 PM
2

And of you still can't grow a beard by 30...?
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:06 PM
9

This is bro science. Do no fap but dont expect it to magically make your facial hair grow lol
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:04 PM
2

That's only partly true though. Yes, most men to read this browsing Reddit all day really do need to get on a better diet and take better care of themselves physically in order to help the situation. However, I disagree with "most guys with OP's problem don't lift...". You can be perfectly healthy, lift, eat well, sleep well, and avoid porn/masturbation, and STILL have these problems. I'd argue that premature ED problems are actually much more likely to be the result of psychology (performance a…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:41 PM
6

Holy shit. What a fantastic fucking video. Thanks guy
/r/askTRP27/02/20 06:26 PM
14

lay off the heavy carbs Agree with everything here, minus this. Should be "lay off empty calories and eat a nutritious diet". Carbohydrates are an essential macronutrient and give us energy... also if you're looking to improve blood flow (including to certain organs) eating whole grains and vegetables high in carbs (ie. potatoes, etc.) will help do that. Too much of our "health food" society is obsessed with ONLY PROTEIN NO CARBS but really what we should avoid is solid fat and added sugar... an…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:47 PM
1

By car my commute was 45-60. On the bike it’s 60-75 but I just punched out 60k and burned about 2000 calories instead of sitting on my ass in the car. Yeah... I was planning on maybe working in more running/cardio days. They aren't exactly helping lifting but I feel great afterwards and they are easy and quick because I can leave from home.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 02:08 AM
1

No offense intended, but fuck no. Sleep is non-negotiable, and I sure as hell am not using drugs to compensate either. You aren't wrong about potentially limiting gym time though
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:40 AM
1

My program flow is like: -Warm-up (15-20 mins depending on how sore I am) -Squat or Deadlift (or derivative like Romanian or trap bar deadlift, or machine squats, depending on recovery) --> these are progressive overload, build up to 1 or 2 rep max and then 5 or so sets of back off work -bench or bench derivative -4 accessories exercises, rotating, to hit weak points I lift pretty heavy, so I take usually 3-4 mins between heavier sets... usually comes out to around 2 hours
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:37 AM
1

Could you share? I think the problem is goals... thus far in my "career" at the gym my goal was to gain as much strength as possible. At 205 and 5'11", I dont look anywhere near the physique in your picture (in fact quite doughy in comparison) but I can 1 rep max over 500 on deadlift. I was always focused on getting stronger. I've never focused on aesthetics as hard, but I could give me a bit of perspective as well as control that I feel I lack on life as well. I think I could make it work if I …
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:33 AM
1

if you don’t have an extra hour or two in the day to go to the gym then wtf are you doing all day. It's called a 40-50 hour work week plus several hour of study/class. Factoring in commuting, eating, and sleeping, there isn't much time for a lot else. Sometimes having a set schedule works out, but more often than not I find my plans falling through, because of life stuff. My friend needs help watching their kid, my car breaks down, I have to work late, etc. You definitely watch tv or browse redd…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:30 AM
1

Yeah. I forgot to mention that travel time is a thing. Accounting for that I'd be spending around three hours every other day on gym. But those are great suggestions, thanks
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:09 AM
3

I'm not gonna bother with the science on this, but this smells like horseshit dude. You can eat a few carbs and still get fucking shredded. Stick to whole wheat, cut out the pizza and fast food and you're golden.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 06:05 PM
1

Man, it's shit like this about this sub and TRP in general that just blows me. Nothing about this was just "testing" you. She really did get dicked down by some other dude the night before, and you're still IDGAF, escalate anyway. That's fucking gross as shit! I would not put my mouth or far less my genitals anywhere NEAR that, do you want a disease?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 11:43 AM
29

but what if she would? AWALT brother. They all would
/r/askTRP08/11/19 01:02 PM
6

Dont ask for selfies dipshit. What are you 15? Give time and place to meet and stuck it in
/r/askTRP24/10/19 01:54 PM
1

I feel you, but anytime I've used that arguement I get "No, I mean men are payed more for doing the same job, silly!" and kinda lose the debate...
/r/MensRights05/10/19 01:16 AM
2

I recently (as of a week or two ago) was suffering pretty badly with brain fog and legit memory problems. Like I'd completely forget where I parked, important parts from days prior, and constantly leaving things behind... I was borderline concerned I had some actual issues... Until I realized, I just needed to fucing gets some sleep. I was making time for work + school + the gym + friends by cutting dramatically into my sleep. Like I'd average 3-5 hours a night. No fucking bueno. I made the chan…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 07:08 PM
1

But, doesn't stuff need to be aligned before it'll heal? Isn't that the whole point of chiro?
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:19 AM
1

Very very true. Especially as we get older, you gotta think about what you're doing to your longevity. When I was younger (5 or so years ago) I could train all hours of the night, no rest, shit hydration, not even stretch, and be fine. Now I wonder if I'll even be able to get up tomorrow...
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:14 AM
2

Thanks boss, I'll check this stuff out. My coach (great guy, he gave almost a full refund on training to help pay for back stuff) recommended McGill stuff to me too. I'm already starting to feel better and have another chiro visit on Friday. I WILL recover from this... even if I'm not gonna do squats/deads anymore, I know I can still be strong.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:49 AM
119

You know, you're allowed to enjoy the interaction too. Sometimes it's not about the destination it's the journey? I think if you're like "shit I could've done that in half the time" you're too outcome dependent.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 04:00 AM
1

It took a couple months to be honest. I was having sex fairly regularly during that time which probably prolonged it... and it's not like black and white either. Your brain off porn makes arousal more intense when it happens, but libido more quiet at normal times when there's nothing to get excited over. You get used to the idea that sexual stimulation isn't a Google search away anymore.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 03:05 AM
2

Yeah really. Then you do you dude. It sounds like you wanna experience that abundance lifestyle right now, and nobody here is gonna stop you lol Personally, after living that way for a couple years, realized all sex is kinda the same after a while. I like it better with a person who I'm used to. But again, some like the variety...
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:29 PM
15

I’ve tried to fix this by completely not looking at porn That's a good move, did you look at porn/masturbate a lot before? Go Google "nofap flatline effect", it happened to me too and it could be your answer....
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:22 PM
8

Really agree with this. To change course just because she's "boring"... surprise, most women kinda are. She's not your entertainment or your hobby. It's up to you to make things interesting.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:17 PM
2

I don't really understand why she thinks circumcision changes anything about the way men act?
/r/MensRights12/03/19 12:57 AM
2

Rebound shittest... how to get around that one?
/r/askTRP18/10/18 07:31 PM
1

Right, I agree. The question then becomes how to polarize without seeming... maladjusted? For the situation. How should I proceed to escalate? Greeting with a hug is a no-brainer, and I can incorporate touch/kino into our conversation. From there, do I try to hold her hand? Just go for a kiss later on? I feel like I should fight the urge to just ask, "are you interested in more with me?"...
/r/askTRP18/10/18 03:15 PM
2

Thanks man. There's a big part of me that still hesitant about the situation. Like, she really does just think of me as a potential beta orbiter or whatever. I've been fairly forthcoming with how rough the break up was on me emotionally, so she might be thinking that I'm too much of a pussy to fuck with even though I was the one to do the breaking up. Regardless, I don't think I'm going to be too hard on myself even if I managed to fuck it up. This is the first time in my life that I've had this…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:45 PM
1

So, basically, just practice walking up to randoms wherever you're at and starting a conversation? Men and women... and eventually the women will sense your genuine interest and give you their number when you ask for it? Seems much more wholesome that PUA that's for sure...
/r/askTRP18/10/18 01:43 PM
111

Fuck. Yeah, I know it's true, and yet here I am with all these fucking apps in my phone. I know, "excuses", but the only reason I don't have a chance to do anything else is I'm either at work (50+ hours a week) or the gym or too tired to do anything else at home. I don't even like bars, or alcohol, so where the hell am I supposed to go to be in my element and meet women?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 12:14 AM
95

I get the point of the story, but wasn't it kinda dumb to fuck this girl without a condom? In the same place I wouldn't have gone through with it, cause a) she could have been lying about the pill and b) who knows who else she's shoved up there recently. Didn't rollo say never let them control the birth or whatever...
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 08:48 AM
5

That's some sour grapes shit dude. They are all wondering why the typical doesn't work on you, and instead of admit they might just be low value office bitches they assume you're gay. All it would probably take if for you to say something mildly sexual to one of them for her panties to fly off. Not that you should shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 12:39 PM
1

How did you give it to her OP, I'm curious. Like did you introduce yourself?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:49 PM
33

You're 24, you still have so much time to eject and craft a gorgeous frame for yourself. Do yourself a favor and leave today. Take it from someone who suffered in a relationship just like this one.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 03:23 PM
3

Thanks for clarifying, that was a great answer. So I suppose, I should avoid committing to anything at all until I've improved myself enough to be sure that I'm someone worth pleasing in the first place.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:47 PM
-8

There's something wrong with asking hypotheticals? What kind of fucking weirdo has enough free time to dig through someone's post history before answering a simple question?
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:02 PM
4

If you do well getting dates in person, then why not just do that and not worry about tinder. It's just a free attention fountain for needy women
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:26 PM
1

Why is it that they make bad platonic friends?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 04:37 PM
1

I mean, that's typically what you'd expect out of a male friendship, no? If she doesn't give you attention and time in return, then she's a shit anyway
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:55 PM
1

True, but that doesn't really get at what I'm asking. So you physically escalate with this woman that you're "just friends" with. She suddenly is like "woah, no, we're just friends dude". Is it still okay/healthy/even possible to continue the friendship even though there's this imbalance in play?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:15 PM
2

Yeah, I mean hypothetically it's a woman you'd love to fuck her brains out. But then she gives you the LJBF, is it healthy to just be like "oh okay" and just keep on being friends, as long as you accept that that will never happen?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:11 PM
1

No one gives a shit. Hit the gym and be a monster, no one will care. Women by biology are programmed to be extremely plastic in their attraction so just have masculine traits on display, ie. muscle mass, and a strong frame and you're golden. Men if anything will look up to you. Three years is nothing anyway.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:04 PM
2

Not trying to have that argument here dude.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:05 PM
1

Oh I didn't mean it like that. I'm gonna keep doing whatever, it's just interesting to me. I was curious about what people here thought.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:11 PM
1

The fuck, no dude. I'm 28 doing the same thing. You'll have an edge over other dudes for being older.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:37 PM
1

Probably after school/college ends. The number of people around you with something in common gets lower especially in a lot of work environments, and people often don't feel like they gotta actively look for new friends as adults because they can rely on their few remaining childhood ones. I think the trick is to find groups of people who like to do what you do and have similar values. At the gym, hiking groups, hobbies...
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:42 PM
6

Absolute 100% true. It's harder to make friends as an adult but it's so worth it. It really helps to have someone you can turn to that you aren't fucking..
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:42 PM
2

It lowers it. End of story. How? What's your evidence of that beyond personal experience? You've presented as both poly and "just dating around"... how? I'm not sure we're talking about the same women here... wouldn't women who identify as poly understand that the relationship model doesn't preclude the commitment they are looking to chase? Why would someone who's non-monogamous by nature want to chase a monogamous ideal?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:18 PM
1

I see where you're coming from, and if you are on the lower end of the SMP then yeah I have no doubt it's difficult to see it from any other perspective. On the flip side, I've read countless posts here, /r/theredpill, and elsewhere as well as my personal life experience that says women will share men of high enough value. Maybe instead of just believing (as I'm sure many women would LOVE for us to do) that absolute commitment (ie. sexual fidelity) is required for love and relationships to happe…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:33 PM
2

Additionally, women will often have many more offers than men, for obvious reasons... any dude weak enough to suffer oneitis in a LTR with a polyamorous woman is sure to get cucked over and over again. Yep, sounds like I'm imagining quite a harem. I fully acknowledge that women will get more offers than men, but that's true regardless.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:22 PM
2

She's going to be out, getting piped regularly, while you're twiddling your thumbs trying not to think about what's happening. Why would you be in a poly relationship with such a low-value woman, interested in going out and getting "piped down" regularly? You wouldn't date a woman like that monogamously, and would not promote her above a ONS or plate. Also, AWALT, but not all women DO that. Rollo himself said that hypergamy isn't a straight jacket. Just because women have the freedom to do that,…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:18 PM
2

Thanks, I'll read over your link and see what I think. I don't know if what you say about "two betas fighting" seems right to me... because I'm not fighting over anything, just living my life and letting women be a part of it because they choose to be. If at any point I have to exert any more effort than I would otherwise I next. You might also have a point on the "high sparrow" thing, but that's why I wanted to share my thoughts and have someone else see them..
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:04 PM
2

Some people want to turn polyamory into that, no doubt. In reality there are many who agree it's a relationship style just like any other.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:56 PM
2

Being poly, gives her all the power. Even swinging is preferable to that. I still don't understand why. What I don't get about your argument is, it seems to me from TRP-endorsed stuff that I've read the "lopsided" nature of women vs. men is a constant reality regardless of monogamy, polyamory, or just having random plates. Men will ALWAYS have to work harder to get that shit, or rather, to be in the local top 10% of men and as a result be attractive to women. Women need only to exist to be attra…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:06 PM
3

Ah, cool. Yeah, this is about what I expected. Some reasoned responses with a lot of "cuck" thrown around. Let's take a look at a recent /r/theredpill post with 600 points and gilded: here. You are giving her attention and fucking only her, she is fucking others: You are a CUCK. Obviously, if you are fucking others, going about you life, practicing self-improvement, etc. you are not a cuck. The relationship I'm talking about with polyamory is more like FWB: You are giving her attention and both …
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:41 PM
34

I think I agree more with this. Being dishonest and machiavellian will undoubtedly bring you success in the short term, but when it inevitably eventually hits the fan why bother lying? I think it reflects true abundance if you express yourself in a way that doesn't telegraph shame in your own behavior. You are the prize regardless of how many women you have in your life.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 10:25 PM
0

A 22 year old woman and a 40 year old male are actually probably around the same smv dude. Go re-read sidebar, and stop making excuses
/r/askTRP01/07/18 05:39 PM
14

Why are you trying to bang women over 35 though?
/r/askTRP01/07/18 01:42 PM
1

Gotta agree. I suffered with fuckarounditis for years... I didn't look bad and definitely had more muscle tone than the average fat fuck. It isn't till I came here that I learned to actually make progress.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 11:06 PM
7

"That's cool, he can watch" Don't be a pussy it's a test
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:51 PM
15

Right? "Only 74 followers, wow I'm low value". Seriously? Who gives a shit
/r/askTRP24/06/18 05:42 PM
1

Depression and guilt can do it. It's happened to me in the past, and since getting over it everything went back to normal. Also, yeah nofap helps... it's not a "desensitization" thing, more just a life tip. It will help everything, stop it completely.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:24 AM
1

What's a shell introvert?
/r/askTRP21/06/18 08:05 PM
1

True, true. I guess Manson kinda advocates the easy way out... you don't have to learn how to actually be social...
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 04:10 PM
1

Okay, that's the info I was kinda looking for. I've read Roosh too, "Day Bang", and was incredibly confused in the differences. Manson's methods are more appealing in that they are easier (if you have the balls to willingly be rejected) and more "honest". Roosh's seem more effective in turning numbers into dates, even in my own (very limited) experience. I'm interested in trying to find a copy of "Bang" as well to see the differences he puts into day and night game...
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 04:09 PM
6

Ask for an opinion, ask for advice, make a random comment about the environment you're in. Worse case scenario and you have no idea what to say, ask for the time or directions and try to ramble from there. Same benefits, without the negatives. This is what I have the most trouble with still. I just can't wrap my mind around how to go about doing this without sounding... well, autistic as fuck. "Hey, how about that weather?" I guess I'm just making excuses, but isn't that weird? My social skills …
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 03:12 AM
1

That makes a fuck ton of sense, but I'm still kinda lost on how you or anyone who understands that would do an honest cold approach. "Hey, you're kinda cute and I wanted to talk to you." Am I supposed to make up a secret excuse of why I'm talking to her? I guess like... just talk about the weather of some shit and the eventually just ask for her number without saying why... ?
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:55 PM
1

I have a follow up question. When cold approaching, is it okay to be like "hey, I thought you were cute/pretty/beautiful and wanted to talk to you/get your number"? I mean technically that is an honest expression of why you walked up and started talking to her... but at the same time it gives her an earful of validation for free...
/r/askTRP18/06/18 04:16 PM
10

Unfortunate to hear. I hate alcohol.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 07:28 PM
1

Yeah, that's pretty much 100% my issue. It mentions that one long term cure is to just keep practicing and eventually you'll be able to go for longer and longer. I guess the meat of my question is how long do I have to practice before that happens?
/r/askTRP04/06/18 02:06 PM
2

Ah ok. So focus more on the exercise itself and not on whether or not results are happening, because you can modulate your actions but not the other person's. I think I get it, but it still seems hard as fuck. Can you recommend resources for how to make my approaches better? I've read Manson's book Models, and been going for a very direct honest "hey how are you? my name is my name, I thought you looked cute and I wanted to say hi." with a handshake. You find out really quick that most women are…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 05:45 AM
1

Yeah, that's a lot how I feel. For every approach I get (what feels like) +1 in a good attribute and -1 in a negative. Sometimes 2 or 3 because I have so much to learn. So I "feel" the learning curve, it's just moving glacially slowly, because I get tired the fuck out after 2 or 3 approaches.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 05:27 AM
4

So honestly, why not your mother? Or other women in your life you have absolutely 0 intention of ever trying to plate? I completely understand TRP notion of being stoic in the eyes of women you are sleeping with, including LTRs and wives. But what's the harm in your own mother?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 05:14 PM
1

It isn't, like I said I'm trying to work more on daygame too, which is in theory an "any time" thing. It's just bars get all this buzz about being The Place to meet girls. And when you're horny and wanna fuck, seems like the natural place to try and be... I dunno.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 01:26 AM
1

I'm 27, and there's recent pics of me in my profile
/r/askTRP26/05/18 01:24 AM
1

Yeah, this shit is why I hate alcohol dude. I've been more or less monk mode-ing it for months, I'm used to being home and in bed by 9 or so. I don't wanna get sloppy drunk or sleep in my car... I wanna eat a balanced dinner, read and sleep for the gym in the morning.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 01:23 AM
2

This is more along the lines of what I wanted to hear. I'm REALLY far away from being capable of any of this advanced shit, but I have a better idea of what to focus on. Thanks dude.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 01:21 AM
8

Still better than sitting at hope jerkin off again
/r/askTRP26/05/18 01:19 AM
3

Okay, I think I understand. Thanks for typing all of that. To be honest it scares the ever-loving shit out of me, I'd rather die then keep living in the dark. So fuck it. I've got nothing to lose. Wish me luck.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:58 PM
2

10% success? That's awesome. Approach 20 girls, fuck 2, one becomes a regular fuckbuddy. For a few hours work. At best you're looking at 10% solid approaches leading to a date, and fucking maybe one in three of those. Yeah, that's the plan. And proof that I've been kinda half-assing it so far. It's not bad tactics by any means, it's just frustrating. I need to try harder. Talk to everyone. I've seen that posted before, I know it's solid advice. At the risk of revealing my extreme level of autism…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:40 PM
1

You play by yourself/just for fun? The bar I'm thinking of does have a few tables, and I like the game. Could be fun...
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:36 PM
3

Why do you think anybody goes to bars? I guess for the same reasons I'm considering it, to be generally more social. It's just a foreign as fuck concept to me. I guess I'll just force myself to go and figure it out. It feels like jumping into the deep end but I can't keep treading around in the shallow side with my shirt on forever. I feel like I still have so many questions on "etiquette" I guess? Where do I sit? What the fuck do I order (like I said, not a big alcohol guy)? Do I even need to k…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:18 PM
2

So... you just sit there drinking until you see a decent girl walk in... right?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:04 PM
1

This post is really relevant to me, thanks OP. I'm planning on going out for the first time tomorrow after work to a local bookstore to try some of this stuff out. I have very low expectations especially since I have basically no experience but, wish me luck anyway. Everyone's gotta start somewhere and I'm not afraid of rejection. Have you read Day Game by the way? I often wonder about the difference between Roosh's approach (using an "elderly conversation" to display value over time without sca…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 09:48 PM
1

Shut dude, you pretty much described that girl... I gotta agree with you it's hard to not like how willfull they can be...
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:58 PM
2

I wanted to give a double recommendation to running. I think it gets a bad rap, because hey if you don't do it in moderation, like anything else, you lose a bunch of your gains from the gym and end up looking kinda scrawny. But in small doses it's a great hobby to have. Personally I go to the gym every other day, and then do a nice long run (~10-12 miles) every other rest day. I don't use music and run outside (usually early morning just before the sun comes up), and practice meditation while I …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 01:57 PM
4

I'm gonna try BJJ this summer... I found an awesome gym but it's $130/month so it's a bit of a steep investment. Also I feel like once/twice a week classes might start to hinder my weightlfting occasionally. I figure it's still worth it for the friend-making aspect...
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 01:47 PM
1

Damn dude. I really wanted to live somewhere warm close to a beach out west. It looks impossible.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 06:05 AM
1

Learn basic game in terms of how to approach. There's shit on the sidebar for this. False time restraints, simple openers, number close etc. I know this might be seen as spoonfeeding, but can you link to that stuff? I have read the sidebar, and I vaguely remember these topics, but I lost it amongst all the other information.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:27 PM
1

Also, remember to sleep. I had forgotten this from before I had discovered women or TRP. You need at least 6, hopefully 7 hours a night to function. If you are working hard at the gym, it's all for nothing if you don't consciously decide to go to bed at a reasonable hour.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 11:08 AM
7

Why are you fat then? Is your frame so weak that you let women's rejection destroy your ability to function in life?? This whole thread is FUCKING CANCER. Read the sidebar, grow a cock and balls, do SOMEHING
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 03:56 PM
4

Sorry dude, but that shit is ridiculous. "My SMV dropped to 0 and women stopped looking". No, you lost your confidence and they stopped looking. It was about what was happening INSIDE your fucking head the entire time, not what's on it.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 03:42 PM
4

So, this is absolutely me, and I'm not sure how to unfuck my head on this one. I do my fair share of bicep curls, but I also focus heavily on form and the major compound exercises, squats, deadlift, etc. I even recently downloaded the 5x5 app that let's you track weight and reps and such from workout to workout (previously it was just in a Google doc). I also go religiously every other day. My problem I think is some crazy ass body dismorphia shit. Every time I go to the gym, I work out pretty m…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 06:25 PM
1

That's ultimately what I did. I know it's an almost impossible task to change someone's mind about your SMV once they have a good read on you. The rest of our conversation went like Me: Come over? Wear nice panties? Her: That's better <3 Be over soon And we had pretty good sex. I still felt kinda gross though. Like I'm playing her fucking game.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:57 PM
1

I was planning on doing something like that this weekend... ever read Models by Manson? He suggested for guys with really bad approach anxiety to just go talk to girls in public and ask for the time/say your phone is dead. It's baby steps for sure but better than staying home.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 07:18 PM
1

What is a good response if comfort test?
/r/askTRP31/03/18 07:16 PM
2

Approach anxiety. I'm working on it, with urgency.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:54 PM
-2

Yeah, you hit the nail on the head. I realize I'm probably wasting my time and energy trying to instill alpha traits into by behaviors with someone who's seen me less than perfect already, but still. If I'm suppose to "Be the prize" and have that mentality, why should I "please come over later I'm lonely ;(" at her? Why does an attractive leader have to beg for his followers to listen to him? She says "bend down to my will, man!" And I'm supposed to listen?
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:47 PM
1

I know it's kinda stupid to bother. But as a student of this stuff I think it feels pretty normal to wonder about why this guy has almost as much success as me. I would never emulate him, because in the long run he's fucked. I just wanted to make sense of the situation.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:59 PM
1

Nah, he's 30 and basically has what he earns at his work. Was a marine back in the day, now does nothing to take care of himself. Lives with 3 roommates, mostly has a social life through them. And, this is too much, but that girl said he wasn't particularly well-endowed either... "about normal" she said. Without a red pill understanding, dudes like this would drive me insane.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:04 AM
1

Yeah, that's about what I was thinking. I even expressed to the girl he slept with something like "you know as soon as he flips over to you full-time, he's going to be the needy one..." and she slept with him anyway.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:00 AM
1

very small when flacid The fuck? It should always be about the same size when not erect?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 10:07 AM
6

We don't deserve you bro lol
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:47 AM
5

I find this absolutely horrifying. What's worse, there are men walking around my age or older who are oblivious. It makes me sick.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 07:03 AM
5

Yep, the girl talks just like the one plate I have, almost word for word. As usual I think the best course of action is just the same as always, spin other plates like no one's business, never overcommit yourself or your resources.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 06:32 PM
4

Pretty much spot on I think. That "pair down to women only" is exactly what happened when I said I was thinking about calling it quits, as they are both highly bisexual, ie. Not the "look I kissed a girl" kind but the "I want to get up in that pussy" kind. It works out for me because I get exposure and pure affirmation for any of their girlfriends, two of whom I've slept with and once had a threesome. You have to be EXTREMELY careful with your resources though. It's literally I'm buying this for…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 06:05 PM
1

I've outlined this in The Deal. Here's how it shakes out. Men sacrifice polygamy (male value), and embrace monogamy (female value). Women sacrifice hypergamy (female value) for loyalty (male value). So, I have a question for you: what about a woman who isn't really interested in monogamy? The "polyamory" crowd? This is the one example in my life that runs counter to AWALT in the red pill. I've had plates (two to be exact) that claimed "polyamory", that is, an open relationship where we'd both go…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 05:31 PM
48

I fucking love these videos, please keep up making them!! They are perfect refreshers for me... and I think hearing sidebar quotes in spoken word makes them stick in my mind even better than when I read them.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 06:24 PM
3

Someone stop me if this is nonsense, but I feel like it's already pretty squared dude. The "don't give a fuck" part of trp doesn't mean literally don't care about anything, it just means to put yourself first, maintain a strong frame, and make and keep ironclad boundaries in your interpersonal relationships. So if some ho is trying to get your goat, you literally don't give a fuck, etc. None of that means you can't deeply care about friends or other causes, or care about their shit. I can't reme…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:20 PM
1

What is beta about stating your requirements openly and leaving if you are disrespected?
/r/askTRP06/03/18 09:43 PM
0

I think your approach is pretty good, but why not just "hey, don't spend time on other people on your phone when we have time together". If she can't even respect that, next.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:26 PM
2

Could you link me as well? I'd like to try this too!
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 05:18 PM
1

Consider this an opportunity to switch over to the superior reddit is fun app?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 09:02 PM
1

Most apps have a "reddit in browser" thing that you can switch over to the desktop version temporarily and see everything
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 08:50 PM
7

So outcome dependant it hurts. Learn to not give a fuck dude.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 02:34 AM
2

I'd actually check out BJJ and MMA if I were you. You need some vent and you need some friends. You'll find both in high quality and abundance there. There's a BJJ dojo(?) near where I live called - that offers a free first lesson. It's pretty far out of my comfort zone, but I could check it out? You are very correct that I need both of those things. When that bitch commandeered my life I cut contact with the few friends that I had, in her name. Without going into it, it makes me feel sick.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:19 PM
1

Multiple times I walked by a group they would stop talking and look at me because they could just sense it. This is me through and through, especially because I work with people in a pharmacy. I have to actively remind myself to stop scowling sometimes, to get out of my own head. Early last week I overheard a group of women nurses talking to one of their younger colleagues about her sex life and how she "just felt kind of slutty" for having slept with 2 different guys that week, one of whom she …
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:13 PM
3

Yep. I took the "recommended RP reading list" to heart, and read through all of Starting Strength. I love lifting and put my all into it, but I know if I just go all out everyday I won't make progress or worse, end up injuring myself and have NO outlet.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:05 PM
4

I once saw someone refer to them as "attention faucets for women". You are literally wasting your time.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:58 AM
1

Yeah, that's my current road block. I've actually never approached, ever... I'm a newbie here. After ingesting a bunch of RP material I know it's what I have to do, I just can't get over doing it for the first time yet.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 05:26 PM
99

Ugh. Yeah, still bumbling around between phase 2 and 3. Send fucking help.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 12:44 PM
1

I just read thus aloud to myself in the car and laughed my ass off. More writing please lol
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 06:49 AM
1

Delete the buffer app, grow a pair and approach in real life
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:32 AM
1

Nope, sorry bro. Gotta burn down the whole life and get a new one.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:29 AM
1

How do you manage without the ability to apply dread though? I feel like you'd be dropping hints like "yo, this girl at work was flirting with me today" etc. And she'd be like "yeah, so?" You lose all power over making them want commitment and shit.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 02:19 AM
1

So for example, let's say your LTR does something shitty and disrespectful. In the moment you are incredibly frustrated and angry, but instead of being slave to your emotions/breaking frame, you leave the situation until you've had some time to simmer down. Then reapproach and tell her why what she did was unacceptable. Right?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 05:30 PM
3

The only answer I can think of besides the gym is "a bar", but fuck that scene man. There's gotta be a better way.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 12:56 PM
18

It's good to know that I'm not the only one who has that "I need to share this with my fellow man" feeling. My friends, brothers... even my own father, probably the one persom who had the most influence in my life over the blue pilled world where I ended up. I've often thought about showing them my copy of, say, the rational male, and shaking them awake. Or "No more mr nice guy" at least... I could show him why his life ended up the way it did.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 12:41 PM
10

This is a really interesting topic to me, especially in relation to trp. I tend to fall squarely in the introvert camp, not because I don't like people or whatever, but because loud/noisy/"fun" clubs with rowdy drunks is so not my idea of a good time. Get me in a small group of 4-5 people (even people I've never) and I'm the life of the party. Time and again I follow this pattern. So where I am right now in my life I'm having a fucking hard time coming up with places to approach women, even just…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 01:23 AM
1

So, what if the girl starts asking you questions about yourself after the date has already been set. I know TRP says to keep texting to a minimum/for logistics only, but I wasn't sure how to get around it. For example, I matched a girl on tinder and set up a date, but then "what do you do, what do you like, etc." in the time between. Do I ignore, say "ask me tomorrow"?
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:48 AM
1

Gotcha. So, your post kinda enticed me to do some research a learn about nofap a little bit. Personally I'm not addicted porn or have so many girls that I'm not asking out, but it was a personal way to relax and feel good by myself. I guess it couldn't hurt to go for a while without and see how it changes my drive. Long term it seems like nofap is about no longer using porn to mb, which is what creates that "false reward" thing. I could go without porn forever, if that makes a difference.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:11 AM
1

Those are all excellent points. But how do I stop and not go insane? Isn't it just a natural thing to do from time to time? Aren't there health benefits?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 09:39 PM
0

Except that's not true. Women will always be looking to swing to the new best thing, and AWALT. Keeping a high value just deters cheating/interest in other men, it does not stop it. Example: A high power, in-shape executive who can give his wife all the shit she wants to buy. She'll still cheat on him with the hot pool boy given the chance. AWALT
/r/askTRP01/02/18 08:51 PM
1

The "power to take care of yourself" you reference is actually "the lack of self control". We don't do things whenever we want to, we do things when they are appropriate. I hear you, but still feel confused. I thought the whole idea behind "power" was the ability to change the life circumstances around you. If you feel horny, you don't wait for someone to come along to care of that for you. You either (ideally) actively find a mate to take of it, or if that doesn't happen (because this is real l…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 12:25 PM
1

Pfff yeah okay. I guess my problem is then, what the fuck do "suggest" we do together? Like I said, telling her to "meet me at the bar at x time and place" doesn't really jive with me. My place leaves her with no plausible deniability. A food place means I'm a meal ticket. I guess I could just try to get her number, but then what? Maybe I'm just creating stupid mental road blocks for this, I don't know.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 12:17 PM
1

Daygame, is that something I missed in the sidebar? Got a quick link?
/r/askTRP01/02/18 11:40 AM
0

As an aside, I'd recommend not bringing up if your OLTR is seeing other men with your plates since that may come across as unintentionally making you look weak. Does this happen? Do men let their LTR see other men? If no commitment what's the point?
/r/askTRP01/02/18 09:35 AM
1

Doesn't giving up the power to take care of yourself whenever you please kind of take away some personal freedom though? Won't it naturally make you more clingy/reliant on outcomes when approaching women?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 09:30 AM
8

I'm currently trying to get a grip on my Tinder shit as well. I'd like to do more cold approaches in real life, but I'm busy with work so this is all I've got right now. I swipe right pretty much constantly but haven't had any matches in weeks... maybe I'm just not attractive enough right now? I'm working hard at the gym recently, but I dunno. Would it be too much to ask someone to judge the shit out of my profile? If you want a shot OP, since you've clearly been around the block, I'm open to cr…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 06:13 PM
14

These are fucking awesome, please make more!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:44 PM
0

But, why? I'm not saying you're wrong, but why does it rot your brain? And my friends are all good people. They play more video games than me, but it's not all they do.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 11:31 PM
2

Good for you bro
/r/askTRP08/01/18 11:15 PM
0

It sounds like you had an addiction. How the hell men put video games over getting laid is beyond me dude. Also no, I won't smash my systems, that's fucking retarded. They are valuable electronics, if I decided to get rid of them I'd sell.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 11:14 PM
0

So never watch tv? Or enjoy film? Is spending an hour a day on something fun like a meth addiction to you?
/r/askTRP08/01/18 11:09 PM
0

So basically, as long as I choose for myself and back up that decision it's fine. It doesn't matter so much what I choose just that I made a definitive choice.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 11:08 PM
1

Right. Vidja is a fun reward for me at the end of the day after all my other shit is done, nothing that interferes with life. Probably wouldn't want a career with them though, it's a cluster fuck industry yo.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:54 PM
1

Understood. I don't have the time for them the way I used to anyways; life creeps in ya know.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:46 PM
1

Don't live at home anymore, but I get the sentiment.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:45 PM
1

Nah dude. AWALT
/r/askTRP05/01/18 04:10 PM
3

That's why I'm here too. I love my dad, but he has no fucking frame. His entire life is based on doing shit for other people and what he can get out of it. Gets angry at the drop of a hat.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:49 AM
1

I don't want my mouth to be where some other dude's dick has been recently. That's basically cuckoldry So what you're saying is your frame is so weak that you can't help but care what other people do. It's "cuckoldry", a term I don't think you understand, because you feel bad about it. "Wahh, why can't my toys just me mine?" Your preoccupation with dicks is pretty funny too. What if another woman's mouth/genitals had been there last? Would you still not fuck her then? You're arguing against your…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:45 PM
1

I know that as a red pilled man, thinking is always better than feeling. That isn't to say you can't trust your gut. There isn't any translation needed; polyamory kind of implies being a sort of "ethical slut". The reason people dislike sluts is because of lying and cheating right? This way is just being honest. No one gets lied to, everyone is respected. I don't see how being emotionally invested makes me a chump, but you are more than welcome to explain. If any of the standards of what I would…
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:31 PM
2

Condoms are a thing? There are dudes on this sub who fuck way more random women than I do.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:21 PM
2

But why though? I like kissing and going down for one, they turn me on. If it's some weird "I don't want my mouth to be where some other dude's dick has been" thing, don't you think most 7 and up girls have had their stint on the carousel? Do you ONLY fuck virgins? "Investing emotions" implies I have a limited amount of love to give people. And I mean emotional love, not time/money/energy. For example, I really love this one movie, It's probably my favorite. Guess I can't love any other movies? …
/r/askTRP03/01/18 07:53 AM
2

To be honest sex has been going downhill in frequency recently anyway, so I was prepared to next anyway. I do like my current a lot, so it’s a bit of a shame, but she has given me pretty strong “not with my roommates” vibes. I could issue an ultimatum I suppose, something like “better get back on your game (and my cock), or you’re gonna loose what you have to her right now.”
/r/askTRP24/12/17 06:33 PM
1

Perfect.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:26 AM
1

I am on chapter 4 of that exact book right now. Shit is so close to my life it might as well be written about me. It’s fucking scary as hell. Actually what’s more scary is how close I came to losing myself. My only excuse is that this gf is my first LTR and the first I’ve ever had sex with. Even then, holy fuck...
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:15 AM
2

So, what you’re saying is, I was (albeit shakily) taking a step in the right direction? Because if need be, I can keep this up no problem. It’s a lot easier to care about myself than it is to care about her and then myself. I feel like if and when she brings up this “being an asshole” thing again, I want to have a good response. At this point damn, I’m not above “you want me to be nice? How about get on your knees first”
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:06 AM
0

What does that get me? She is supposed to see how ridiculous she is? I come off as an even bigger asshole?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 11:29 PM
1

How do I build a strong frame?
/r/askTRP24/11/17 03:46 PM
28

I understand. The way things are going realtionship will be over before long, but I want to learn first.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 03:44 PM
2

Gotcha. What do you mean by “don’t bet on borderline”?
/r/askTRP24/11/17 01:47 PM
20

Pretty much dude. I’m gonna learn some shit first though. Mistakes are okay I think, but not repeated ones.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 01:44 PM
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