kace91 Archive

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1	Non Drinkers: What do you do when a girl forces a drink in your hand and wants you to drink it? What I'm curious about is shouldn't it matter more if people are having a good time rather than who is drinking or not? The point is, if things were happening at a bar, drinking is crucial for the expected way to have fun there. I personally don't have anything against drinking, but I can perfectly understand that you don't want to do it. What I'm saying is, if drinking is not for you, then for future times you'll probably be better off choosing activities to have fun where drinking is not expec…	/r/seduction	05/09/14 01:43 AM
3	Non Drinkers: What do you do when a girl forces a drink in your hand and wants you to drink it? Where were you? You don't need to do something because others want to, bit if you go with someone to a bar and then refuse to drink, well, it's like going to a swimming pool and them tell them to go into the water alone. Of course they are going to try and make you be with them, it's no fun doing it alone. Also, depending on context, she might have gotten the wrong impression: that is to say, that you were trying to get her drunk while being sober yourself, with doesn't sound nice.	/r/seduction	04/09/14 03:14 PM
5	At 30 years of age, I feel past my prime. Therefore I have a constant sense of urgency, leaving me completely outcome dependent. 30 years old and already divorced? Come on man, I don't know where you live but in my country most people aren't even married till they reach 30-35. Meaning, you're probably not only still not too old, but even ahead of the average guy. Men are in general more attractive in their 30s than in their 20s, while women peak earlier and become much more approachable as they're older, so now it's your time to shine. Furthermore, I don't need to tell you how common it is for women to look for men that a…	/r/seduction	31/08/14 01:19 AM
3	What could be the reason a man only attracts marriage minded women but never the ones interested in flings, hooking-up, FwB, casual sex? The probability for that increases with age.	/r/seduction	28/08/14 07:27 PM
3	A version of oneitis? Just be honest and clear. You seem pretty convinced that you only want hookups. You also seem pretty convinced that she wants a relationship. So, let it be clear to her that you only want to hookup, and let the ball in her court. She wants to still keep going? Perfect. She doesn't? You're out. She says she wants to keep going but still tries to advance into a relationship? Then if you were clear enough, it's her fault and her problem, and you can get out at any moment.	/r/seduction	23/08/14 04:30 PM
1	New here. I have a question on WHERE to meet women. First of all: What are your hobbies?	/r/seduction	02/08/14 06:20 PM
7	Autistic dude here. Forced myself to go to club. Having a plan and sticking to it allowed me to shine. Here's what I learned. As a general rule, if you want to know about X, don't go to the places where people who want to learn X go. They are going to be 99% newbies. That is specially true for community-based places like reddit. Instead, put some thought on it and search for the people who already know what you are trying to learn. In your specific case for example, instead of looking for social skills, look for people who are great at social skills. Seductors might be one possibility, but you can also look up for busi…	/r/seduction	20/07/14 12:25 AM
7	This sentence has helped me so much. Maybe it will help you as well. No es lo mismo, es peor. Al menos si te rechazan eliminas la duda de qué hubiera pasado si lo hubieras intentado.	/r/seduction	13/07/14 02:16 AM
2	How to fight feeling of panic at parties and social gatherings, and to stay cool even when not in conversation? Don't go to parties straight away if you feel like that. Well, you can if you want, but this things are much easier if you're in an event that has a purpose other than socializing. You can start by going to an activity: organized sports, art classes, a language course, whatever floats your boat. Just avoid picking something that has a lot of potential for awkward/introverted people, you want social people ( no Japanese, board games or things like that if possible). You'll see that things are muc…	/r/seduction	11/07/14 01:58 PM
1	[FR] Was I in the wrong? I'm going to go against the general opinion, and say that it all depends on context and wording, so we cannot know. I'm a man, and I usually split with people. But at least in my country, a phrase like "do you want to pay the next round" sounds inadequate, both for dating and when going out with friends. It's hard to explain, but it would be kind of a social faux-pass, as it would seem like a passive acusation to the other person for not paying until that point. Something like "so, do you expect…	/r/seduction	11/05/14 07:28 PM