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When I got divorced I declined spousal support. My lawyer looked at me like I was insane or mentally challenged. She wrote up a document I had to sign acknowledging that she had fully informed me of my rights and I understood that once I had denied spousal support I could never go back and request it at a later time. Oh, and that the judge could assign spousal support even though I declined it and my husband would still be legally required to pay it if that happened. Wtf? In my state once you've…
/r/MensRights30/10/16 04:09 AM
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More likely her complaint is that he doesn't pay her enough.
/r/MensRights03/07/16 12:32 AM
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He won't. Too ambiguous, motivated by desire to please wife and family. He's well and truly stuck. Fucked. Some court somewhere will declare he has a responsibility to maintain her the style she has become accustomed.
/r/MensRights02/07/16 11:35 PM
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And let's not forget, 10 month olds do not masturbate.
/r/MensRights10/09/11 07:58 PM
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The thing is, most such organized groups are bonded by anger and hatred. It's quite hard to motivate a group of like minded people that don't have hate in common but admiration.
/r/MensRights26/08/11 08:04 AM
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It saddens me as well, it really does. And once again my 4 sons had to remind me tonight that all the other girls aren't like me. That I think rationally, more like a cool guy with boobs. As a society as a whole, what are we doing so wrong that women find it acceptable to write such an article and so many receive it. (and thank you)
/r/MensRights26/08/11 07:57 AM
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I find most infuriating the loss of due process. A whole class of adults lose the presumption of inmocense until proven guilty in a court of law. This is really fucked up. Never be alone in a room with a woman. If she consents and refuses to put it in writing, pull out your phone and record her agreement.
/r/MensRights23/08/11 03:24 PM
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I would never marry a man that couldn't take charge. Fuck that. I would never date a man that says, "Happy fun time". Then again, I actually enjoy men.
/r/MensRights23/08/11 03:20 PM
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I attempted to discuss my own experience once here. I was attacked with an unacceptable viciousness. I'm quite surprised, OP is 30 years-old, that would mean her mother decided to have her daughter circumcised sometime in the early 80's. Very disturbing.
/r/MensRights19/08/11 05:52 AM
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Maybe I just have a foul mouth but I've called a guy a cunt-tease. He later texted me that he took it as a compliment. I've also referred to my lady parts as my cunt. I'm not particularlly pc.
/r/MensRights14/08/11 01:00 PM
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One of the most bizarre articles I've ever read.
/r/MensRights10/08/11 07:16 AM
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And then he has the convenience to attend the funeral :: is free and not imprisoned for such an act. Hilarious.
/r/MensRights08/08/11 03:17 PM
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Praise to everyone involved in rectifying such an outrageous injustice. However, the title is incorrect and should read, "Son reunited with father after years of injustice". Yes, it is the adult that is granted custody but it is the minor child who suffers the greatest loss when kept from his father.
/r/MensRights05/08/11 03:58 AM
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I would think his interest income and investment income would be legal and up for child support division. Not the capital which was obtained years prior to marriage and specifically awarded to compensate for the loss of limb.
/r/MensRights29/07/11 08:25 PM
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A partner able to support her? That couldn't be more subjective. Women are now back to being chattel in the UK? Married to her for 10 years are now responsible for finding her next husband in order to recoup his loss? This is one of he saddest most backwards ruling I have seen in recent memory. If he is the one with the financial capital and the roof, why wasn't he simply awarded custody of the 2 children? It seems I should search for a husband by researching whom has received the largest person…
/r/MensRights29/07/11 08:07 PM
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Insurance won't cover it, when performed for religious reasons it's not performed by a dr but by a mohel. Not in a hospital or even a medical setting but in people's living rooms.
/r/MensRights28/07/11 07:02 PM
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An offensively written article. As there are no medical organizations that back routine newborn circumcision, it has been deemed a cosmetic procedure and insurance no longer covers it I do hope that logic will prevail and it will not be legally allowed to be removed from the ballot for this reason.
/r/MensRights28/07/11 06:59 PM
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That does not conflict with what I am saying. Nor am I catholic or disagree. We never really hear about or have the statistics on the women that are so serious about their intent to not become pregnant that they never do. We don't have statistics on the women that alway utilize 2 and 3 forms of birth control together, everytime. Without neglect. Their partners may not even know.
/r/MensRights26/07/11 04:13 PM
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My sons are 10, 12, 15 & 17. Although we had been told we were having a girl the first time around I suspected it would be a boy. I had previously lived in Israel, during the first Gulf War, during that time I learned that many Israeli born Jewish men had not been circumcised. This trend appeared to have begun shortly after WWII with immigrants to Israel choosing to leave their sons intact. I began to question That time. I had witnessed circumcisions growing up, had been traumatized and horrifie…
/r/MensRights26/07/11 04:05 PM
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The only instance in which I agree with you is rape. But when a woman is sexually active of her own choice and she is firmly pro-life and would never consider abortion, she indeed makes certain that she does not become pregnant. Think of the concept of double-bagging. A woman that sincerely wishes to avoid pregnancy employs multiple forms of birth control at every encounter. Spermicide, diaphragm, b/c pills, condoms, iud, cervical cap, etc. When utilizing a combination of 3, pregnancy is avoided…
/r/MensRights26/07/11 03:39 PM
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Sorry to have contributed to your sadness.
/r/MensRights26/07/11 03:24 PM
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I think we'll find a massive drop in unintended pregnancies. Women have the means to control whether they conceive or not. When a woman knows from the outset that she 100% does not want to become pregnant or that abortion is never an option for her, she does not become pregnant.
/r/MensRights26/07/11 11:24 AM
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Parental alienation. It's when parent A talks shit about parent B in front of their children to such an extent as to somewhat brainwash the children against parent B.
/r/MensRights26/07/11 12:27 AM
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Point being, yes. It should also be a father's instinct to prevent harm to his newborn. But even yours did not. When we asked my father in law why he allowed his sons to be circumcised when he, himself was not, his reply was that he never would have allowed it. Men were not permited in the delivery or nursery areas at that time. Only a mother's signature is require for authorization. His ex-wife had it done and he could do nothing to protest or prevent it. They had a tumultuous relationship.
/r/MensRights26/07/11 12:20 AM
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What is news to you? When a newborn is born in a hospital setting, the mother is known. If the mother has the father's name, on nursery records the child will be referred to as "Baby Boy (mother's name)" which is also the father's last name. If the parents are not married or the mother uses her maiden name, the infant is referred to as "Baby Boy (mother's last name)". The child does not have his own name until the mother submits the relevant legal paperwork. All paperwork is signed by the mother…
/r/MensRights26/07/11 12:15 AM
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Of course. May I ask, are you male or female? If male, did you have a father around at the time of your birth?
/r/MensRights26/07/11 12:06 AM
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As a mother, please accept my sincere apology for what your mother allowed to be done to you. I stand firm in my position. There are many "outs" in the jewish custom, one being to oblige an emotionally distraught mother who has just survived a life threatening condition. Childbirth. Short of kidnapping and bribing a mohel, circumcision cannot be performed without the mother's consent. The same is not true with regards to the father in non-Muslim societies. I won't attempt to convert you as you c…
/r/MensRights26/07/11 12:00 AM
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As a mother of sons, I disagree. It is a mother's instinct and responsibity to protect her newborn from harm. In the US, it is the mother's signature and authorization that is required, not the father's. Edit: While of course anecdotal, my ex-husband was cut, none of our 4 sons are. Of every boy I know well enough to know his status, they are all uncut while their fathers are opposite. As well, my ex-husband's father is intact.
/r/MensRights25/07/11 11:44 PM
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I haven't checked, is the subreddit still up or did it get bounced? Who would I complain to?
/r/MensRights23/07/11 05:06 AM
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I am a woman, I find it offensive beyond words or comprehension. Is there also a subreddit dedicated to taking rights from Australians? How about from Muslims or Mormons? Asians? Is it acceptable to have a reddit dedicated to taking rights from Asians?
/r/MensRights22/07/11 10:15 AM
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My oldest son is 17, in his 2nd year of college (living at home...both of them, mine & his dads) and has 3 younger brothers. At dinner one night he informed us that his psychology professor stated that when a guy watches porn he is cheating on his wife or girlfriend. My 11 year-old was the first to respond by asking if the professor was female and the under his breath called her a feminazi. I asked if it was cheating when a woman watched porn. My 15 year-old followed up with, was it cheating whe…
/r/MensRights22/07/11 08:50 AM
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Which bring up a point I have never understood. He's going for joint custody. Why should he pay child support if the kids spend half of their time with each parent?
/r/MensRights22/07/11 07:50 AM
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I still have seen it. I get physically sick just reading about it. I know I can't handle watching it.
/r/MensRights22/07/11 07:30 AM
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Shit. That pr office is walking distance from me.
/r/MensRights22/07/11 07:27 AM
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I was just hit by a huge wave of nausea when reading that.
/r/MensRights22/07/11 07:25 AM
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Thank you, sir. I live in the heart of Los Angeles. In the city, not the suburbs. I have no problem with my 9 year-old walking a few blocks to Starbucks or blockbuster or going to the corner store right next to the mmj place. There is no difference in the amount of child abductions or molestations occurring now from when you walked to school in first grade. What is different is the 24 hour news and the sensationalism.
/r/MensRights22/07/11 07:22 AM
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What if it's in the garden or yard. I'm the mother of 4 sons and I disagree with you. You can absolutely allow young kids together play in a safe enclosed play area.
/r/MensRights22/07/11 07:17 AM
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So true and so very sad. When I was a child we had close family friends that suddenly gained custody of their niece. After her mother convinced a guy friend to kill her father. She was about 7 at the time.
/r/MensRights22/07/11 07:15 AM
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You asked for the address. Then instead of spying you find and approach the ex. When you follow up with her you present her with pics showing happy smiling family playing together in the "play area". Then discuss with her the importance of co-parenting and explain the evils of parental alienation.
/r/MensRights22/07/11 07:12 AM
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Why stop at people. She seems to be big on her pets. What do you wanna bet she would never treat one of her dogs in such a way?
/r/MensRights22/07/11 07:04 AM
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It just showed this time for me. Maybe an overwhelmed server-thing.
/r/MensRights16/07/11 07:31 PM
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Lost her mind for a moment? During several parties and 7 teenage boys.
/r/MensRights16/07/11 07:29 PM
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Could you even imagine? Single dad celebrates his divorce by inviting teen daughters friends over for parties. Serves alcohol, engages in sex acts, goes down on a 15 year-old girl. His 13 year-old son walks in, is offered a drink and invited to join, ends up having intercourse with some of the same teen girls as dad. Dad will serve 1.5 years, allowed work release during the entire time. Oh. Yeah. Sure.
/r/MensRights16/07/11 07:27 PM
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I'm getting the same blank page on a desktop.
/r/MensRights16/07/11 06:30 PM
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I've never understood the female feminist mindset when in comes to male/female sexual relationships. So much anger and needless hostility. Perhaps angry and unhappy feminists are simply angry and unhappy people using feminism as their catalyst to avoid facing that they are simply an angry, unhappy person. As a happy heterosexual woman, I love men. Their physique, aroma, taste, running my fingers through a man's chest hair or over his bald head. Advance apologies for TMI, I love the sight of peni…
/r/MensRights16/07/11 04:54 PM
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My parents are orthodox. If any of my 4 sons choose to become circumcised for religious reasons at some point in their lives it will be their own personal decision and their religion, their faith, will mean so much more to them. Because they had the opportunity to not only choose this religious bodily sacrifice, they also will be able to participate in it with full consent, desire and consciousness. It will truly be a religious experience. I respect the personal religious choices of all individu…
/r/MensRights12/07/11 08:27 PM
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Thank you for posting. I plan to start writing my congressmen in the morning.
/r/MensRights12/07/11 08:18 AM
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The article was sadly inadequate. Why were they performing a circumcision on a 2 year-old? Had the parents authorized a general or only a local? What type of dr was performing the surgery? At 2 years-old the foreskin would not yet have separated, there is no phimosis in a 2 year-old. If the parents had declined to circumcise him at birth, why at 2? Why not older when he could voice his own decision?
/r/MensRights25/05/11 01:43 PM
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A man's right to walk away from an unplanned pregnancy with his child. His ability to protest a termination or adoption and raise his newborn as a single parent.
/r/MensRights17/05/11 01:40 PM
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I share my 4 sons with my ex husband, ages 9, 11, 15 & 17. I am very sorry to have to tell you this but your ex is wack. My ex & I have a different custody arrangement, I basically have custody, he has the kids every other weekend, Tuesdays afterschool and whenever any of them fucking call one another on their own phones and makes plans. Oh. And we're both completely rational. I cannot even fathom him taking one of my boys phones away and then not turning it over to me. I cannot imagine ever min…
/r/MensRights17/05/11 08:08 AM
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I just read a very clear and lengthy article from the WSJ that clearly described it as having taken place all within the large floorplan of suite 2806 which was so vast to have included a conference room, dining area, living room and several bathrooms in addition to the bedroom suite. It also classified that the attack is alleged to have taken place at noon, checkout at 12:28 and he called looking for his phone at 3:40. Oh. And that there was DNA evidence on the maid and in the area of the attac…
/r/MensRights17/05/11 03:27 AM
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I'm a woman with 4 kids. Take a pill.
/r/MensRights14/05/11 09:44 PM
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Nor do I at any point or time claim to be. Do you take offense that pms appears to remain an affliction of only American women? Maintaining composure during ones monthly cycle is something women perfect the world over. If everyone else worldwide has the ability and maturity to accomplish I believe it is also something our women have within their reach.
/r/MensRights05/05/11 08:43 PM
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As a woman that has not only been menstruating for over 30 years, I do not agree with you. Each of us have within us the ability to rise above whatever our cycle brings us, behave with maturity and respect and in such a way that those around us have no idea where we are in our cycle.
/r/MensRights05/05/11 08:15 PM
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I might find this acceptable in a teen or young woman just becoming accustomed to the wonders of her body but in a woman over 20? No. By then she's had enough experience with monthly cycles to know what to expect from herself and to have figured out what to do to gain the upper hand. I agree with op. Ever using menstruation as an excuse for behavior is a trick a female has learned to profer as a form of manipulation. Because the male is unable to respond with, "Get ahold of yourself! It happens …
/r/MensRights05/05/11 08:00 PM
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I am appalled that a person in a workplace would profer such information let alone accept it as an excuse for poor performance.
/r/MensRights05/05/11 07:46 PM
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Yep. As a woman I concur. Even as a teen I recall being mystified by that bs. People have owies and tummy aches all the time; they keep it to themselves, exert control over their discomfort or emotions. The only pass I'm willing to give is a pregnant woman that gets teary at hallmark commercials.
/r/MensRights05/05/11 07:44 PM
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My sincere first thought when I read that? When does the guy have time to get any?
/r/MensRights26/04/11 01:39 PM
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Awesome. As a woman, I can personally attest to my own highly beneficial (anecdotal) response to semen.
/r/MensRights26/04/11 01:37 PM
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Cliffor's female.
/r/MensRights25/04/11 08:50 AM
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First, if they really wanted a child and nothing from you, she never would have informed you of the pregnancy. She would have disappeared from your life and you never would have known. And as I mentioned elsewhere, any document offered you would not be legal and would not absolve you of any child support responsibility. You need a lawyer. If the girl's parents adopt the child, then you would be legally off the hook and they get the baby. Could be your only legal way out.
/r/MensRights25/04/11 08:30 AM
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There is nothing you can do if the child is yours. Anything she would put in writing would be void, child support is not for the parent's benefit, it's for the child. She legally cannot decline child support. There are tests that can be done during pregnancy to confirm paternity. Amnio at 5 months, I believe villia sampling can be done up to 3 months. Proving it's not yours is your only option. Even if you had proof that she was attempting to fraud you in some way by sabotaging birth control, yo…
/r/MensRights25/04/11 08:17 AM
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But isn't it pathetic that our society is such that I standout enough to be recognized and thanked for being fair? We are each like mirrors. Sometimes looking at other people reflects back to us our own shortcomings. I am an outcast to other women because when they see the way I have done things and how successful and happy the result it reflects back to them the fault with the path they have chosen. Even men have a difficult time because then they have to acknowledge they fell for a woman that …
/r/MensRights19/04/11 07:01 AM
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From what I can tell alimony has at it's roots something quite different from welfare. It seems to go back to a time and concept of entering into a compact with the bride's father to provide her with the lifestyle to which she is accustomed or the one in which she becomes accustomed to during the marriage. During the divorce it doesn't seem to be established to ensure that the ex wife is fed until she finds employment. It seems to be configured to maintain the ex wife's standard of living so tha…
/r/MensRights19/04/11 06:52 AM
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WTF, truth hurts so much heads gotta roll?
/r/MensRights19/04/11 05:36 AM
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Has nothing at all to do with welfare. I know a woman that earns about $150,000 a year. She's not only legally entitled to alimony, she's demanding it. And don't think that she's not bitter that she isn't getting more. They're trying to avoid court, she hasn't gotten a lawyer...going strictly by the court formula.
/r/MensRights18/04/11 10:19 AM
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I'm not certain I understand your question. Divorce in California takes a minimum of 6 months. Once you file the necessary documents with the court and the non-filing spouse 'answers' with the court, everyone must wait at least 6 months before the divorce can be legal. If the non-filing spouse never 'answers' a divorce will still be granted, the minimum amount of time is 1 year. Once you have filed there are 2 basic options. If both parties have hammered an agreement amongst themselves or if the…
/r/MensRights18/04/11 06:53 AM
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In CA the law is married more than 10 years, lifetime payments. Sickens me how many times I hear of the wife suddenly telling her husband it's over just past their 10 year celebration.
/r/MensRights17/04/11 05:22 PM
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Me too. People like her are what disgusts me about 2xC
/r/MensRights06/04/11 05:00 AM
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I know! My guys have built a loft bed, hung drywall, cleared drains and installed hot water heaters. They always help with the dishes and laundry and all 4 know how to cook. Which can be a problem sometimes as they'll cook themselves 5 meals a day. We live in an area where everyone has gardeners, no one does their own yardwork. We've seen cars stop and watch while we're out mowing the lawn together. The kids friends have been envious that they have a weed wacker and that they're allowed to use i…
/r/MensRights05/04/11 12:11 AM
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Nope. Camp Runamuk is where we call home...
/r/MensRights04/04/11 12:48 PM
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I have 4 sons and have always been amazed by something possibly explained here. I would have thought the chance of having ONE exceptional child per family would be unusual but somehow to a point that actually shocks me, all of my boys are strangely bright. With this article in mind I wonder if the connection is that my ex (their dad) not only reads to them he includes them in household improvement projects, rockclimbing, golf, camping, surfing and even cooking. He may not live with us but when h…
/r/MensRights04/04/11 06:29 AM
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Yes, he should set her free. She's not passionate about spending her life trying to bring him happiness, trying to create a fulfilling partnership. She's passionate about her marriage obsession.
/r/MensRights30/03/11 06:06 PM
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I find it offensive that someone would refer to gentlemen acquaintances as "dudes". It seems apparent to me that someone needs to work with her meds.
/r/MensRights30/03/11 03:32 PM
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I have to throw out there that I am the mother of 4 sons that only ever wanted sons. My ex & I always agreed on having 4 kids, he had a vasectomy after the 4th was born but stored sperm at a bank just in case he could convince me to go for a 5th. After having 2 sons I have just felt I know better how to be a mother to boys. I kind of have a bit of panic at the idea of daughters. Sons are awesome.
/r/MensRights13/03/11 09:10 PM
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I hope hubby goes for a vasectomy without telling her. You know, while she's away visiting friends or while he's on a "business trip". Would be fucking classic. Wifey suddenly wants to have sex all the time and can't figure out why she's not getting pregnant as easily as she did the other times. Hubby wins.
/r/MensRights13/03/11 09:03 PM
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Which is why I prefaced it the way I did, "Hate to generalize" Next time, try quoting the entire sentance, less apt to take out of context that way.
/r/MensRights10/03/11 06:16 AM
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I'm a mom with sons. And I date. My guys know all about the guys I go out with but have never met them. My sons have never complained, I've never met a man that has whined about not meeting my kids. I seriously don't get the single moms involving boyfriends with their kids. When I'm around my kids, we do kid stuff. Parenting, household & kid oriented stuff. When I'm with my man, we do adult stuff. My opportunity to be away from kids, back in an adults only realm, doing adult activities. I don't …
/r/MensRights10/03/11 05:36 AM
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Your family has really got some serious problems if they find hour brother's threat acceptable. It's ok for sibling 3 to harm sibling 2 but never ok for sibling 2 to harm sibling 1, even in self defense? Some very bad messages are being sent here. Your sister is getting reinforcement that she is some special snow flake and that her behavior is always justified. A very bad message to raise a child with.
/r/MensRights10/03/11 05:23 AM
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Granted, you both are adult children but as siblings you likely get stuck in that child stage during these types of incidents and behave in ways you never would with others. I'm going to view your circumstance as a mother. Your family is wrong. If your parents or other family members feel at all that it is their place to say anything, it would be appropriate to advise your sister that thisis the risk she takes picking a physical fight with someone bigger/stronger than her. I have 4 sons, no daug…
/r/MensRights10/03/11 05:13 AM
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It's the noncustodial mom that's trying to squeeze money in an effort to reduce her own required financial obligation. The custodial mom is not the way going after him.
/r/MensRights10/03/11 03:53 AM
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He can't get visitation. He's dead. They're going after his social security death benefits now. Bottom line is that the children have 2 legally recognized parents.
/r/MensRights10/03/11 03:47 AM
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Guys: Keep your DNA away from lesbians. Hate to generalize but let's face it, twice the female---twice the drama. Reading this article makes me feel like it's a sign of the impending end of the world. Just fucking insanity. What's next? You buy your girlfriend's kid an expensive gift, you'll be found responsible for support.
/r/MensRights10/03/11 03:45 AM
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Ok guys. I've 4 sons, dogs, cats...so I do think I'm somewhat qualified to speak to this and I cannot fathom how there could be human and dog shit in the house. I can't even understand the garbage. I'd say 99% of the time my boys take out the garbage without my having to ask them. They see a bin is full, they take it out. Same with feeding the cats, they see a bowl is empty, they fill it. We have a pet door but anytime a dog or cat stands at a closed door that doesn't have the pet door, a kid st…
/r/MensRights09/03/11 12:57 AM
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The original article is clearly one of the most things I've ever read. Right from the start, fantasizing about her fictitious children with her inadequate boyfriend. If she isn't with someone she respects and admires, why the fuck is she with him? You show your sons how to be good men by respecting their father and the other men in your life.
/r/MensRights08/03/11 07:27 PM
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Awesome. While I absolutely am doing my damnedest to help raise my 4 sons into men I often wonder what their adulthoods will be like. Will they be lost like a foreigner in a strange land when they realize that there are no contemporary women that can cook. Is my being a feminine mother going to turn them into men griping at their wives, "Why can't you be more like mom?" While I may know how to change a tire or snake a drain, so do my 17, 14 & even my 11 year-olds. I'll be damned if I'm going and…
/r/MensRights08/03/11 06:11 PM
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Let's see what happens the next time a 15 year-old hussy makes a grab for one of daddy's pub buddies. "Well, yer honor, it's not really my fault. She stuck her tongue in my ear, grabbed me twig & berries and asked if I fancy a tumble! And just look at the way she's dressed! Girl had her own condoms & and told me she was on the pill...clearly sexually experienced" Right.
/r/MensRights08/03/11 05:25 PM
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I think you're allowing your feelings of not being needed to color what I said. I said I don't need a man, I want a man. Which is made quite clear to any of the men I am with. That I don't need them to support me or buy me anything. But I love masculinity and love wanting to be with this and doing everything I can to please them. (I'm a bit of a sub) You have no reason for concern. My sons are just fine. Extremely confident and popular with the young ladies.
/r/MensRights07/03/11 09:13 PM
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Reading comprehension is a wonderful thing...
/r/MensRights06/03/11 07:52 PM
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Yes, absolutely. But that's what I mean. If a man is of a certain income it seems to me that even if he does enjoy the company of one or several lady-friends his circumstances would long run prove so much better should he make all arrangements to have a biological child completely on his own. Hire a surrogate, the child his biologically his. In LA, most women insist on a nanny & a doula even when they intend to be a stay at home mom. Granted, many people have the romantic notion that they will b…
/r/MensRights06/03/11 06:19 AM
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What I have never understood is why more men don't go it alone. If they do want kids, I mean. I know a guy that lives in my area. He wanted kids but not the drama-mama. He hired a surrogate. Ended up with fraternal twin boys. Brought in a live in nanny when they were young, his parents came to visit when the nanny went on vacation. Now that the boys are older they simply stay later at school, homework club. No childcare required. They go to visit his parents for 6 weeks every summer and he gets …
/r/MensRights06/03/11 05:46 AM
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My my, aren't you full of so many assumptions. I absolutely did stick by my husband. I never would have left him. He decided it was better for us to separate and he left. He was right. No blame involved. It was better for all involved. He and I are still incredibly good friends. We had a completely amicable divorce, I declined all spousal support (alimony) even though I was a stay at home parent thoughout our 12 year marriage and would have been awarded support for life. We are family. We will a…
/r/MensRights06/03/11 05:26 AM
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Thank you so much. I had a wonderful evening out last night. I am asked out quite often by lovely & interesting men. Unfortunately, very few hold enough romantic interest for me to consider a 2nd date. As someone that is not marriage minded, all the men that are what I would call marriage determined lose points. I don't need a man to support me, raise my social status, buy me things or take me places. I don't need a man. But I love men and I certainly don't want to be without. If you're in Los A…
/r/MensRights06/03/11 05:13 AM
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Well, I am American, I live in Los Angeles. I'm not exactly certain when it started, perhaps during the grunge faze? For awhile now it has been very common to see women in the market, getting coffee, at brunch...pretty much anywhere before 4pm... out in their pajamas or torn and faded sweats that are several sizes too large. Often the residue from a previous days make-up smearing their face. A couple of days ago I saw a couple out in matching pajamas. It was around noon. Swear, not just stepping…
/r/MensRights05/03/11 10:47 PM
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I agree, there seem to be far too few of us. Hi, I'm kachapati and I'm one of the good women. I have successfully found a way to always be home with my kids, earn enough to provide for them and send them to private school, always appear in public well dressed and never in pajamas or sweats, taught them each to read prior to starting school and am always available to assist with their school work, science fair or bake sales. No matter how busy I never sacrifise my monthly pedicure or waxing appoi…
/r/MensRights05/03/11 09:48 PM
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He should fight for full custody.
/r/MensRights04/03/11 08:58 PM
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I dunno but I'll tell you this: It definitely creeps me out how many men I go out with that are looking for marriage. The ones that have never been married safe they now feel ready. Those that are divorced say they miss it. Once a guy tells me, it's my indication the date is over. Shit. This one guy told me his wife waited until one month past their 10th anniversary to leave. He now has to pay her alimony for life. $9,500 a month. As I sat there disgusted he pinned on and on about how he couldn'…
/r/MensRights04/03/11 12:38 AM
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Awesome suggestion. As well it may help with getting visitation granted as it shows the court that you are a suitable and experienced parent/guardian. If you are in the Los Angeles area, I know of a sliding scale/low cost family law practice.
/r/MensRights15/02/11 05:26 PM
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My 9 year-old son was recently in the hospital for illness. My ex-husband & I took turns so that he was never alone. One of the days we had no one to help us get our other kids to & from school so we just kept them home. Family emergency. Our 14 year-old son assured us not to worry and that remaining with his brother at all times was most important. He was concerned that if neither of us was standing guard at the hospital someone would circumcise him. That this should even occur to a child is a …
/r/MensRights15/02/11 05:12 PM
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My ex-husband had a vasectomy in 2001 in Beverly Hills while we were still married. He was not required to obtain my permission or request my signature. He had stored sperm at a bank prior to the procedure. I did have to sign a document there acknowledging that the sperm was his property alone and could never be transferred to me in the event of divorce or death.
/r/MensRights14/02/11 08:49 PM
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I do not think marriage benefits men at all. Nor do I think it has any necessity in our society. What I find so surprising is that there are so many men that want to get married. It's a major redflag for me as someone that meets and dates men in the age range of 35-50. The ones that have been divorced all say the same thing: they loved being married. The ones that have never been married before insist they feel so eager, ready now. Are looking for a wife. I find mysel arguing with them all the p…
/r/MensRights13/02/11 04:25 PM
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While I wish this were so in every state, I must say I was disappointed by the article.
/r/MensRights12/02/11 01:49 AM
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All of this just gave me a major headache. He's screwed. She sniffed out a future lawyers bank account and went off the pill when the relationship got rocky. If she keeps the baby I hope he sues for custody & gets it.
/r/MensRights07/02/11 06:45 PM
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I'm going to assume that is your really bad attempt at sarcasm.
/r/MensRights06/02/11 07:34 PM
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Just pathetic.
/r/MensRights05/02/11 11:29 PM
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No.
/r/MensRights31/01/11 02:15 PM
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This really fucking annoyed me when I saw it. It was just so weak and unfathomable. And I have the disease of the week and would ordinarily like that it receive more attention.
/r/MensRights31/01/11 01:59 PM
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As it was explained to me by both of the lawyers I have hired, my divorce lawyer and my financial attorney, when you are married to someone your credit is married. It makes no difference to a creditor which spouse created the debt or if it was with the other spouse's knowledge. They want their money and they can attempt to get it from a spouse. In my most recent issue, the creditor which bought the debt 'served me' by having a process server go to the wrong address. If I had received the court d…
/r/MensRights09/01/11 06:02 AM
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I hope that you're doing better now. Thank you for the well wishes. I was never not doing well :)
/r/MensRights09/01/11 05:57 AM
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I did research it when I hired a lawyer to deal with the most recent snafu. They do not have to respect civil judgments. Basically, they only have to respect a bankruptcy filing that lists them.
/r/MensRights09/01/11 05:55 AM
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My ex-husband never learned how to handle money/credit. When we were together I never faulted him this, his parents set bad examples. Hell, I don't fault him now. During the marriage, first I tried to help him. I paid off all of his cards/loans (he didn't even know how much he owed) and had him pay me back each month. After awhile he came into a lump some and paid me back completely. Throughout the marriage I watched his creditcard use diligently, at one point cutting his visa in half in front o…
/r/MensRights08/01/11 07:21 PM
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What a beautifully written post. It's always nice to see that there are like minded women out there, that respect men and wish for true equality. Equal rights, equal treatment in the eyes of court and law and that a whole segment of our society can stop being viewed as criminals with bank accounts. One day you will have sons and daughters. The best thing you can do is teach them to be a generation of respect for both sexes by your example to the men in their lives.
/r/MensRights10/12/10 06:53 PM
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Which is likely why that seems to be the only sex-ed warnings my boys have been getting. Nothing at all about saying no or hearing no...all about be weary of older women, they're either out to rape you or if it is consensual, she's gonna end up in jail.
/r/MensRights08/12/10 05:53 AM
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Do you currently have boys in the teenage range through college age? Because I do. That have gone to different schools. And that is pretty much all they have been teaching them, is that they have the right to say 'no' and the particular circumstances in which they should say no. I think you may be off on current sex education and you are certainly off on this one. How old are you, personally? Have you ever been in the situation in which it just wasn't going to happen for you? Did you communicate…
/r/MensRights06/12/10 07:40 PM
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Really? The fact that if they aren't feeling the sexual experience is going to lead to orgasm but they can't find it in themselves to communicate that is due to being told by educators not to rape girls? That really seems like a stretch to me. I have 4 sons and we have a very sex-positive household. My oldest has never received that message as yet but he has had the message to avoid dating older girls/women repeatedly impressed upon him. That she could be arrested even if it is consensual, even …
/r/MensRights06/12/10 03:43 PM
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How much do you think that has to do with their youth? That perhaps as they mature they will have less of a problem simply stating, "I'm done. It's just not gonna happen for me tonight." or "Let's give it a rest, maybe in another hour or 2." And then be able to discuss with their partner what was happening that was working and what was going on that wasn't, as to improve the sex for them both. I think if the interviews were with older men while the same percentage would have agreed to faking it …
/r/MensRights06/12/10 10:09 AM
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I do think there's some stigma from women, but there seems to be a lot of "if you're not a stud in the sack, you're not a real man" stuff coming from men. The only stigma I sense is that men should feel comfortable lending a hand with their own orgasm during partnered sex just as women should. Many women I've spoken too insist that they would never touch themselves during sex with their husband or boyfriend and that they would be bothered if their man, likewise, touched himself. I think it's fuc…
/r/MensRights06/12/10 10:03 AM
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that are really aggressive or competitive in the sack. I would love to know what you mean by this, not only to learn more about the competition but also to learn what behaviors to avoid. Then there seems to be another type I have run into that will drop casual insults once or twice during foreplay. Now this is just a huge WTF to me. I can't comprehend saying anything insulting to a man that you're into. His pleasure results in your pleasure. My concern the first time with someone is that if we h…
/r/MensRights06/12/10 09:52 AM
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Men are becoming harder to please because there more infatuated with their internet fantasy, which make it harder for them to reach their peak when with their real-world partners. Ok, this just sounds like bull shit. It doesn't matter what the porn favorite fantasy that a guy has going, once he has the real live, wet Trixie in front of him horny is gonna take over and shit is going down. I've definitely been with guys where every now and then it's just not going to happen. They've been honest ab…
/r/MensRights06/12/10 09:35 AM
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If i had sons, i'd take them hunting so they could know what it was like to kill something. And this is just another example of your confusion. If you have sons (or daughters) you take them hunting so that they can learn to kill, skin and cook something so that they can gain experience in self-sufficiency. Not to kill for killings sake.
/r/MensRights06/12/10 02:58 AM
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This shit always pisses me off. As a woman that is anti-feminist I have to insist that accepting alimony, spousal support or any form of funding from your ex for personal use is prostitution on the deferred payment plan. I am a traditional, stay at home-barefoot-and pregnant-have-dinner-on-table-type and there is no way I would ever stoop to taking my ex husband's money. When we were married, it was our money. As soon as he left I opened my own bank account and he had his and I had mine. Then me…
/r/MensRights06/12/10 02:53 AM
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Yeah. Lady needs to start living as a human in her own right and stop existing as Dave Foley's ex-wife.
/r/MensRights06/12/10 02:45 AM
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Last I looked at a globe Canada was part of North America.
/r/MensRights06/12/10 02:43 AM
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I just am aware that the court system exists to protect them from what we are, or at least were. Product of the public school system, eh?
/r/MensRights06/12/10 02:39 AM
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To be fair, men are pretty evil.. i mean, I'm a man and ya.. fairly evil. My first thought was, "I sure hope you're not raising sons."
/r/MensRights06/12/10 02:37 AM
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I couldn't say, I don't have one so I'd have to say it's completely a decision up to each guy. If I guy I know intimately, I'd be happy if he wanted to go for it.
/r/MensRights02/12/10 05:34 AM
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Just an FYI: I have had sex with men that were intact vs. circumcised men and there really is something to it that is physically addicting and invigorating. It's just amazing how there is just this little extra something that hits all the exact right places. Awesome and very orgasmic. I love sex regardless but I have had lengthy relationships (10+ years) and I absolutely can see where even if you have a sex as a woman you can become less interested, but with that guy that has that little somethi…
/r/MensRights01/12/10 09:57 PM
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Yes, I do. And I am concerned. Not only for the future but for the present as well. I have had serious talks with my older 2 boys, advising them to be 100% diligent with birth control because it doesn't matter if they are pro-life or not, it doesn't matter if they would want a baby or not, it doesn't even matter if they had discussed with the girl ahead of time that they would have any baby that was the result of a birth control failure...they get no vote. I have told them they not only have to …
/r/MensRights01/12/10 08:32 AM
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No. I never had one. Wow. You were one of those rare boys born with out a foreskin? Fascinating. You totally saved your parents from having to make the decision. Don't know if you're Jewish but the religion does accommodate for guys like yourself born without a foreskin. They still do the bris and the Mohel is supposed to scratch the shaft with a pin or needle. Same goes for a circumcised man that converts or a Jewish boy whose parents are not circumcising but who choose to have a bris. Not know…
/r/MensRights01/12/10 07:59 AM
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Do you still have your foreskin?
/r/MensRights30/11/10 10:15 PM
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Ah, so you're more interested in my softer side I'm not sure I understand. I love hard cock. Just not much longer than 6 inches or so and have found a hard, solid 3 inches to be far more orgasm producing than 8. I have a shallow g-spot and am far more vaginally orgasmic than clitorally. I'm also very attracted to men that are shorter than myself and love a nicely shaped bald (or shaved) head. I don't seem to abide stereotypes...
/r/MensRights30/11/10 04:37 PM
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corpseFLOUR sounds like you want to make gruesome, high protein cupcakes.... I'll eat your cupcake!!! ;-)
/r/MensRights30/11/10 04:31 PM
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Thank you so much. =) Now I'm going to have to take a minute to go back and reread what corpseflower and I have discussed!
/r/MensRights30/11/10 04:30 PM
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Hi. My name is kachapati. I have 4 sons. Oh. And I love men.
/r/MensRights29/11/10 02:04 PM
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I'm the biggest, Sadly, you wouldn't pass my screening process. I prefer a small to average sized cock.
/r/MensRights29/11/10 01:43 PM
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Also, any condom use pretty much erases the supposed 'benefits'. Really? Maybe you simply don't have a very sensitive asshole or aren't using enough lube. I can tell the difference even when he wheres a condom. Hell, I can tell the difference when a guy I'm with has been circumcised but still has quite a bit of foreskin remaining and he wear a condom.
/r/MensRights29/11/10 01:41 PM
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why don't circumcised men ever voluntarily elect to have a little bit more removed for EXTRA pleasure? In our society, it seems men are so obsessed with the size of their cocks. Yet when it comes to circumcision they never seem to be able to acknowledge that a bit of their size was removed from them without their consent. Why do you think that is?
/r/MensRights29/11/10 01:32 PM
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Could be that as a man your buddies are willing to discuss their unhappiness about their cock with you. As a woman, I think I've only ever been told by one circumcised man that I've known intimately that it's never occurred to him to be unhappy about it. And he still has quite a bit of foreskin remaining.
/r/MensRights29/11/10 01:24 PM
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And the only way circumcision rate will be reversed, Kristen O'Hara contends, is to make people aware that women are the primary victims, since they are the ones who enduring discomfort, punishing blows, and lack of orgasm. "The man suffers too, of course, because when women lose interest in sex, men are deprived. And when it ultimately affects the love bond, and can lead to divorce, it's a tragedy for everyone." How often are we reading here on reddit, men asking for advice because there women …
/r/MensRights29/11/10 01:20 PM
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Yay! He's finally gone!!!
/r/MensRights29/11/10 02:18 AM
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Start up assertion that their women-folk are also missing out! Women that are in tune with their bodies and have had both already know that we are missing out. But we also know that men are incredibly sensitive about their cocks. I know plenty of stupid women but not one stupid enough to tell a man to his face, "Oh. Bummer. You're cut. Why the fuck did your parents wanna go do that? Didn't they realize the insane orgasms they're depriving your women of? Damn. They've got to know you would've bee…
/r/MensRights29/11/10 02:17 AM
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Fuck I hope so. Dream come true. I'm female, with a passion for cock.
/r/MensRights29/11/10 02:10 AM
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I feel like this article is misplaced as it doesn't deal with men's rights, And then from the article: "Circumcision violates the first tenet of medical practice: 'first, do no harm.' According to modern medical ethics, parents do not have the right to consent to a procedure that is not in their son's best interest. The removal of normal, important part of the male sexual organ is not in their son's best interest." I think it is definitely a men's rights issue. The issue is the right to remain w…
/r/MensRights29/11/10 02:04 AM
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I really found this to be such a positive and informative piece, written with a cup is half full enthusiasm. Yet I still found myself so sad when reading it, a lump building in my throat. one can expect to add about one inch per year if the tugger is worn 12 hours a day. "Often only a remnant of the frenulum is left after circumcision, if it is not also removed," "Many circumcised men consider it their 'G-spot,'
/r/MensRights29/11/10 01:39 AM
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You'd have to ask a woman that requires alimony to be certain, as I stated, I declined it. But I would guess that they feel entitled to payment for enduring the marriage and all that entails. Which to me is equivalent to demanding payment for sex. My 14 year-old put it the following way the other day, "Slut, whore, the only difference is how she opts to be paid. Some demand cash."
/r/MensRights27/11/10 07:35 PM
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I just wish ANY given feminist would admit that it happens. Sorry I cannot make your wish come true, I am the anti-Christ of feminism. Which reminds me of another issue. I am the farthest thing from a feminist, yet I declined spousal support (alimony) and I am the type of person it was intended for. A stay at home mother of a lengthy marriage with 4 children that never had any childcare assistance throughout the marriage. Not a babysitter. Not complaining, that is how we wanted it. We did not wa…
/r/MensRights27/11/10 07:15 PM
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In total agreement with all you've said, as well what women do not realize (and I may have a difficult time articulating) is that women such as this demean all women. A woman that lowers herself to such a place as to fabricate something so horrendous is not simply torturing that one man in her life. She offends all men. She harms their children irreparably, damages the father-child relationship---which she can never give back. To her own children. And she harms all women as well. Just as for man…
/r/MensRights27/11/10 07:01 PM
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Another point that stood out to me as reading was that she seemed to place considerable blame on "the system". They should have provided greater support. They should have known he would try to get her to drop charges or retract. Time to bear a bit of responsibility. The police are not there to be your personal cheerleading squad. If she needed personal support she should been going to therapy, belonged to a support group, at very least should have sought the information of a local shelter. Witho…
/r/MensRights27/11/10 02:12 PM
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Agreed. My advice would have been quite different. Somewhere along the lines of, 'Wtf? Six months? It was time to leave this woman somewhen around 5 months ago. She never wanted to fuck you, only fuck with you, if you hadn't of done what you did should would have done something else to make certain your dick didn't make it past the gates. Why do you feel like you don't deserve a woman that hungers for your cock?' I also would have pointed out that girlfriend was likely projecting as she had avoi…
/r/MensRights27/11/10 08:45 AM
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Men and women aren't that different Of course we're different. I have an innie. If you're a guy, you have an outie.
/r/MensRights27/11/10 08:38 AM
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When I first read the original headline I thought, "Oh shit. Another football player-college student-rapist being protected for the good of a prestigious school". Then I read the article and a couple of the articles that were linked within. After all that reading I came to a different conclusion. I wonder if what the football player did was a typical and acceptable pass, but sadly it was a little more than this young woman in a fragile state of mind could handle. It seem that she was a very reli…
/r/MensRights27/11/10 02:26 AM
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I haven't read through the thread yet, my view may already have been addressed. I am a woman that prefers to date men that either actively support men's rights or have similar attributes in their everyday lives. I have a fairly traditional world view. I am a feminine woman, as there must be a balance to everything in life, I prefer masculine men. Men that enjoy their natural and instinctive attributes, that are not attempting to be women. I have a bit of a submissive streak. I love doing things …
/r/MensRights26/11/10 08:40 PM
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No, not $40. Try in the hundreds. In my area it's mostly performed by the ob that does the delivery. They ask what you intend to do prior to the birth and if you opt for circumcision, they require cash, up front, before delivery. From between $450-$750, depending on area and the doctor. A couple of our major hospitals do not allow non-medical circumcision to be performed on site, you have to arrange to take your baby to the doctor's office and discharge.
/r/MensRights24/11/10 05:35 AM
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Why did he serve the longest sentence for a sex crime in WA State histiry when there were so many flaws in the evidence?
/r/MensRights06/11/10 07:15 PM
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I'm a woman, I've gone to a male urologist and men have delivered 3 of my 4 kids. The one female ob/gyn I went to for my 2nd son was the worst experience of the 4 births. Granted one cannot assume that all women make bad ob/gyn's based on my one experience. Of interesting note, my 14 year-old son has a check-up last week. While we were waiting for his (female) pediatrician I reminded him that it was ok for her to check his 'private parts' because she is a dr. He became alarmed for a minute and w…
/r/MensRights01/11/10 02:57 AM
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Adoptive parents need to learn that it is more important to confirm that neither of the parents want to raise their child than their own desire for a newborn infant. They knew from the start that the husband was not the biological father and that the biological father was pursuing custody. They have involved an innocent child in their dramatic desire for an infant, a child that has now missed 3 years with his father.
/r/MensRights31/10/10 06:59 PM
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Son?
/r/MensRights31/10/10 05:49 AM
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Yes, English is my first and only language. I regret that I have no talent for languages. Thank you, but I am so much more impressed with my boys. It does make me wonder if everything my son said is really such common sense to any boy or young man that has been left intact, upon hearing such madness that pro-circ come up with. Years ago when my eldest thanked me for not circumcising him, he had tears in his eyes. He has said that his foreskin is his most favorite part of his body. That there are…
/r/MensRights30/10/10 08:07 AM
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All 4 of my sons are intact. I take my role as protector of their bodily integrity very seriously. I research all suggested medical treatments and have been required to sign a AMA (against medical advice) document. My parents are Orthodox. Before the birth of my first son I consulted several Rabbi's, they all confirmed the same story: Circumcision is not a requirement for anyone who's mother is Jewish, only for those that convert to Judaism after the age of 13. That a circumcision is symbolic to…
/r/MensRights30/10/10 07:02 AM
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Oh. I see. So just in case he might want it done, do it as a newborn? Take the chance of too much skin being removed or that he may not actually want his foreskin removed? Makes no sense to me.
/r/MensRights29/10/10 10:53 PM
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My sons have thanked me directly. One with tears in his eyes.
/r/MensRights29/10/10 09:27 PM
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I'm curious ladies do they feel better? While I tend to love whatever penis I am presented with because it is attached to the man I am interested in and I am a lover of all cock, it does indeed feel amazing. I love playing with a man's foreskin. I have never witnessed a 'dirty' or smelly penis. It smells and tastes like man-sex. Like hot, erotic, desirable sex.
/r/MensRights29/10/10 09:26 PM
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Cool. So you have no intention of circumcising your sons. Because that would be telling your sons that they cannot have the complete body they were born with.
/r/MensRights29/10/10 09:13 PM
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As the mother of 4 sons, my opinion is that none of us are entitled to have an opinion regarding the surgery/removal of foreskin from another person's body. Only you, lucidelife, should be able to decide to remove your own foreskin. Just as I have left the decision for each of my sons. It is not your place to make that decision for lucidlife jr. It may turn out that (as my oldest has said) lucidlife jr. finds his foreskin to be his most favorite part of his body.
/r/MensRights29/10/10 09:11 PM
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That's something that I, for one, would like to see. Hello there...
/r/MensRights29/10/10 09:04 PM
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it seems like there is a higher rate of complication from adult circumcision as compared to infant circumcision. That is not accurate. The majority of mistakes and complications arise from newborn circumcision. The penis is tiny in a newborn. The foreskin is still attached to the shaft & head of the penis and cannot be manually retracted. It is difficult to impossible for most doctors to be able to know where the foreskin ends and the penile shaft begins. They are guessing or estimating. There i…
/r/MensRights29/10/10 08:56 PM
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From my own experience, I am incredibly sensitive to sensation. Having sex with a man with a foreskin adds to everything I'm feeling. I can feel the subtleties of the foreskin as he moves. Intensely orgasmic.
/r/MensRights29/10/10 08:51 PM
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As a parent, I've always followed the guideline to leave it alone until the boy separates it himself.
/r/MensRights29/10/10 08:44 PM
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My first husband, whom I mentioned previously, spent years and untold amounts of money consulting doctors all over the world. They concurred with you regarding the removal of penile skin. In fact, as I recall from my attending consultations with him, they always all agreed that if adult men realized that they would be larger uncircumcised, the procedure would eventually cease.
/r/MensRights29/10/10 08:34 PM
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It is actually more common for doctors to mess up than Mohels. Circumcision is performed by either an Ob/gyn or a pediatrician. They do not do them very often. That is all a Mohel does, usually up to 4 a day.
/r/MensRights29/10/10 08:30 PM
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your skin tear from an erection This was what my first husband had to endure. He could not enjoy blow jobs, far too painful. If we had sex for too long a period of time or more than once a day, not only would the skin tear, break and peel his penis would also become red & swollen. Sex was also limited by certain positions being more painful than others. He was in his early 40's when we were married and had been going through this his whole life. While he never said so at the time, I have a feeli…
/r/MensRights29/10/10 08:28 PM
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Could you tell me what the procedure was called? Thanks!
/r/MensRights29/10/10 08:19 PM
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Insurance hasn't cover circumcision in my area since my first son was born 17 years ago. Area hospitals no longer allow non-medically necessary circumcisions to be performed on site. Fairly pointless data.
/r/MensRights27/10/10 11:05 PM
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I suppose many girls could not show for the first 3 or 4 months, I am tall, slender and usually lose weight due to severe 'morning sickness'. With each of my 4 pregnancies I did not show at all and could where the same jeans well into the 6th month. Even at 7 months I remember a friend asking me how many minutes I was pregnant when I realized she didn't know & I told her. While some women gain 50-60 lbs, other women don't gain as much and just don't show until the final months. I read another ar…
/r/MensRights27/10/10 09:15 PM
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Every time I see them I have to hold myself back from saying something. "Where's M? Just too far to drive to bring him home for the weekend?"
/r/MensRights24/10/10 09:36 PM
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Then there is the devastating case of my next door neighbor. My neighbor and his wife are in their late (late) sixties. He has a son from his first wife, who is much younger. When they first moved in, their son (I'll call him M) spent more of his time at my house then he did his own. He was a normal, if slightly goofy and excited young boy. He was cheerful and full of energy and creative ideas. His behavior was completely normal for a boy his age, about 6. When he ate with us, he sat at the tabl…
/r/MensRights24/10/10 07:50 PM
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Well, they can gripe all they want. Bottomline is the only thing that matters is the Court's opinion. And he won. They're likely lashing out in fear.
/r/MensRights24/10/10 01:24 AM
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I dunno... I'm about as white a female as they make em. I'm so white I glow. People have to shield their eyes, the reflection is so striking. My 4 kids are Mexican and I tried so hard to flirt with a very attractive black gentleman recently who was either to shy to respond or not interested in my skinny white ass.
/r/MensRights21/10/10 03:04 AM
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Vindictive, controlling women really piss me off. As do people that can't seem to control themselves and wait until after they break up to start sleeping with the next guy. There's a real good influence for children. If she was cheating on you and move new guy into the home a week after you left, what do you want to bet your daughter was exposed to new guy in less than 6 months? Stay strong. I wish I could do more to help. Don't know where you are but in my area men can arrange for the child tra…
/r/MensRights13/10/10 04:33 AM
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I wouldn't agree to mediation because he already has a custody agreement that is court authorized that he has no complaints about. There is nothing which he wishes to mediate. If he were asking for something, anything, then yes, go mediate. But the divorce is over & finalized. The child/parent agreement if over and finalized and both he, the ex and the court signed off on it and he isn't interested in asking for any changes. There is nothing he wants, nothing he wants to give up. Basically, the …
/r/MensRights12/10/10 01:36 PM
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I would not agree to see a mediator. You already have an agreement that you both had to sign off on. As your daughter is only 3, it would seem that the agreement you have is not very old. I'd make her take you to court. If she attempts to disregard the current agreement, she is the one causing problems, which can only be viewed in your favor. Document everything. Keep a journal. Include in it the things you do with your daughter when she's with you, what a good time she had. take tons of smiling…
/r/MensRights12/10/10 10:36 AM
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Either married, or the significant other cannot be in the house overnight when the kids are visiting. I have never heard of such a thing. How can this be legal? If your wife tried to stipulate this in your agreement, why would you sign off on it?
/r/MensRights12/10/10 10:34 AM
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Is the set 'child parent contract schedule' that you've mentioned a legal part of the divorce document or family court order? If so, she has no right to alter it or change it in any way...even as the legal & physical custody holder. Those times were set aside for her, your daughter, because every child needs time with both parents. Your ex-wife is not doing what is in the best interest of her child by attempting to interfere with her daughter's time with her father. Is there currently any stipul…
/r/MensRights12/10/10 10:30 AM
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Thank you. I really wish more people would be able to take a step back and realize breaking up doesn't have to mean being enemies but could simply mean accepting that your relationship has changed. There's no reason for vindictiveness.
/r/MensRights11/10/10 08:51 PM
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Thanks but I don't want to give the impression that my ex doesn't work hard for his kids, he does. He has a great relationship with them and he does what he can. We both do.
/r/MensRights11/10/10 07:00 AM
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Sugar, you must not recognize my name. Go ahead and read back over my comment history, why don't you... I already have 4 kids, that I pay 100% for their private school tuition for. Including books, school uniforms and trip fees every time my 2nd boy goes out of town with his Debate Team. I paid 100% for my divorce (amicable--my ex & I are still friends) and declined spousal support (alimony) completely. My ex-husband is always welcome in my home and can take anything he wants or needs, which he …
/r/MensRights11/10/10 06:21 AM
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Personally, I would want to rape him, in the traditional/physical sense for 18 years but I definitely wouldn't want or need any material possessions.
/r/MensRights11/10/10 05:24 AM
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There are just too many bizarre issues in this story. How was the mother ever able to get her enrolled in school without a birth certificate? How did the daughter get a job? Why didn't the daughter ask for her birth certificate in or to get a driver's license or passport or attempt to obtain one on her own? She seems to be 32 going on 12.
/r/MensRights10/10/10 05:36 AM
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One of those days when you kinda wish you weren't so decent and just woulda let her plummet.
/r/MensRights06/10/10 04:36 PM
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Absolutely. But I think the name needs some work. How bout "Crazy ex-bitch syndrome"?
/r/MensRights04/10/10 05:12 AM
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Absolutely wrong. How many times have you been pregnant? I have 4 sons. I started feeling each of them move around 14 weeks as did all of the other young mothers I knew at the time. By 17-18 weeks my first would kick so hard we could see his foot/knee pop out, which was creepy as I was underweight with that pregnancy and still didn't show at all. I still have my 'week by week' pregnancy books and both of them say that most women have felt movement by 15-16 weeks and not to worry if you don't fee…
/r/MensRights03/10/10 11:24 PM
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Not within 20 minutes of a clinic that will perform 2-3 trimester terminations. I know exactly where the clinic is and people arrive there from all over the West & Midwest because there isn't another one closer. LA's form of 'conservative' is nothing like even OC's form of conservative and is extremely liberal. Even the Catholic Churches here would shock most Catholics elsewhere. She's 20 years old. She's an adult. An immature adult. She's putting words into her family's mouths. Chances are pret…
/r/MensRights03/10/10 11:21 PM
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Because she's actually 17-18 weeks pregnant this time. She should be able to feel the baby kicking by this point. It's not just a bunch of cells, it's his child and on untrasound would look very much like a child at birth. In a few weeks it would have good chances of surviving outside the womb. Girl claims she's in SoCal. I don't buy that her family is so conservative ect. The whole thing disgusts me.
/r/MensRights03/10/10 08:46 PM
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No one has suggested turning back the time or 'making' women do anything. Unless of course you are.
/r/MensRights03/10/10 07:25 PM
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As we get older, the world becomes more and more stressful and worrisome to us men, and more and more of our strength is needed to simply survive in it. Nail on the head. While I definitely can be sexually frustrated at times I appreciate that he shoulders far more responsibility than I and that his life is incredibly stressful. One's perception of time varies depending on how overwhelmed you are. I'm not naggy & am definitely learning patience but it does make me practice my breathing exercises…
/r/MensRights02/10/10 08:39 PM
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Likely why most women here hate me.
/r/MensRights02/10/10 08:31 PM
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I've got today after 5pm and all day tomorrow.
/r/MensRights02/10/10 07:47 PM
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And this just makes me so sad. When women either don't or can't appreciate what they have. Maybe it has to do with the parental relationship I was exposed to. My step-mom constantly praised my dad in front of family. He'd thank her for making dinner and she'd thank him for being so damn sexy. Wherever we were, if there was a hottie around, she would always tell him that she wouldn't leave his side because she could tell the pretty young thing wanted him. He is not one that I would think just abo…
/r/MensRights02/10/10 07:46 PM
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Man, maybe it's my boobs. Whenever I pay a sincere compliment to a stranger they always assume I'm trying to pick em up. I remember I told this one girl that her skirt was lovely and really complimented her coloring while at Trader Joes. She followed me around the store, kept trying to 'accidentally' brush hands or touch me. Another time while looking at shoes at Nordstrom I told an older woman one pair of shoes definitely suited her better than the other. She had to be at least in her 60's. Tol…
/r/MensRights02/10/10 07:22 PM
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Los Angeles. You?
/r/MensRights02/10/10 07:13 PM
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And yet, here I am alone in mine. Granted, largely that is because I am only interested in good sex with someone which I share that special energy, that spark, which is not especially common. But tell me, corpseflower, what is it with a man whom I sincerely view as an adonis and make sure he knows it (although he clearly is not considered such by society's standards, of which I'm certain he also is aware) that doesn't take advantage of every opportunity with a woman such as myself. Yes, I know t…
/r/MensRights02/10/10 11:58 AM
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Basically, our puritanical society tells both genders that they should be ashamed of sexuality, Which is interesting. Because I actually wonder if it's the opposite. If our becoming less puritanical and old fashioned and becoming more of a society that seems to value 'gender equality' is what's fucking things up. For the last 50 years women have been burning bras, choosing workplace over raising a family and slowly adopting more masculine attributes. In doing so it throws off the balance. They t…
/r/MensRights02/10/10 11:42 AM
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I was taking streets this evening, stuck in slow moving traffic. Being a Friday, I drove past cafes and bars that clearly had an after-work crowd unwinding from the week. As I crept along at a slow pace I noticed a man having a drink with his buddy. He was not what I would have considered my 'type' but I realized that he was very attractive. He looked confident, his clothes suited him well, he was neatly groomed. I wanted to be able to simply tell him, "You are very attractive, I love your look.…
/r/MensRights02/10/10 11:23 AM
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Hope I'm not thread-jacking. While I do acknowledge that pretty much all of my life I have been reminded, "...but you're not like most other women..." I just wanted to let you know there are some of us out there. I (constantly) praise the man (sometimes men) in my life. It absolutely would be considered sexual harassment in any other situation. I'm in an open relationship currently. I constantly tell him that he's gorgeous, unbearably sexy and the things I plan to do to him. I assure him that th…
/r/MensRights02/10/10 11:11 AM
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I have to acknowledge that this confuses me. I breastfed all 4 of my kids for between 15-16 months. I did return to work after the birth of my first, I had a breast pump and was allowed the private office of a manager to pump once a day, whomever was with my son (my ex-husband 3 days a week, my in-laws once a week) would bring him to me on my lunch break to nurse him once a day. My ex-husband never assisted in the breastfeeding of any of our kids while they were nursing. He never woke up once at…
/r/MensRights01/10/10 03:34 AM
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Couldn't you file with the Court to have her wages garnished for the ordered child support amount? You could file such papers yourself & most Courts have law students & paralegals that will assist. If there is a filing fee, you can request that it be reduced and will get an answer right away. You should also be able to file for all retroactive support due to be garnished but that may require going before a Judge. All my best
/r/MensRights30/09/10 07:03 AM
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Thanks for the info kachapati! Anytime, glad to help. :) As a mom of 4 sons I'm often surprised to hear when guys tell me they didn't go for regular check-ups when they were young or that when they did their pediatrician never checked their genitals. Most guys don't spend time looking at other guy's dicks when they're young and I can only imagine a teenager thinking he's got something wrong or he's done something wrong. Especially in the days before google.
/r/MensRights30/09/10 12:10 AM
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However, there's no way in hell I'd decide to get circumcised as an adult, And I completely respect your opinion or belief that this would be the case. However, I actually have known quite a few men that have made that choice as adults. You know, I can't say with certainty if they would have rathered their parents had done it in infancy or not. I never discussed that with them to my recollection. I lived in Israel 20 years ago. I would have to say that most Jewish people don't realize that circu…
/r/MensRights29/09/10 07:51 PM
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IDK. I've seen plenty of anal porn with intact men, what comes to mind is that you're likely more often with partners that are, uh, tighter in that area. Likely due to lack of vast experience. Which in my opinion is an all around good thing. :) I would suggest either trying with a condom or with a superior lube, which is obviously more expensive. Look into Pjur, on sale here. Which helps, I paid full price. You'll never want to use anything else after you try it. Wish I could get a commission on…
/r/MensRights29/09/10 07:21 PM
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Nope. You're wrong. Either I likely didn't describe it accurately or you've simply got it wrong. ::sigh:: Ok. You know how the foreskin isn't meant to fully retract until it is able to on it's own? When you have a toddler who's foreskin is in the process of retracting it doesn't retract all at once. It's a process, over time, and you're not to force it or it can create scar tissue. The area of which I am referring is all the way around the rim of the head of the penis, somewhat the rim of the 'h…
/r/MensRights29/09/10 01:34 PM
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it's only been a nuisance for anal sex Really? How so? While I'm relatively new to anal, I crazy love it. I don't have near the sensitivity as I do vaginally but I get amazing anal orgasms.
/r/MensRights29/09/10 09:52 AM
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There are no deaths today from medical circumcisions in developed countries. That's simply not true. I recall reading about a circumcision related death in an article linked here on reddit within the last year. A child in Israel, I believe it was in Hararetz.
/r/MensRights29/09/10 09:48 AM
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And although I prefer an intact penis, if I were attracted to you, you would never know the difference because I would be on my knees begging you to please cum in my throat everyday. Please pound my tight ass and make me you butt-slut. Because when I crave a man, I love whatever he offers me. I tend to believe all women are the same in that aspect.
/r/MensRights29/09/10 09:45 AM
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First, I'd like to say that it is very unlikely that either of those women will be fucking OP's son. But also, surgery on an infant for the purpose of a woman (or man) that may or may not be in his future has got to be the most ridiculous reason I have yet heard of. Perhaps you do not have children yet. But when you've just successfully brought a new life to term and now it is out of it's mother's body and living and breathing on it's own, really, any procedure with any risk simply seems too gre…
/r/MensRights29/09/10 09:41 AM
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Your son with thank you.
/r/MensRights29/09/10 09:24 AM
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Now that you have described better your situation I can assure you that what you have is a perfectly normal, intact penis. Penai do not all uniformly look exactly the same. Some men have a foreskin that covers the entire head and then some when flaccid. Some, like yours, barely cover the head at all when flaccid. I have 4 intact sons that are all very comfortable with their bodies. When we go to hot springs, they swim au naturelle along with the rest of us and while as their mother I'm not in th…
/r/MensRights29/09/10 09:23 AM
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Because that happens if it wasn't properly cleaned when you were younger. This is not true. The foreskin is naturally attached when the child is born. NO one is to ever attempt to pull back or retract the foreskin for cleaning until the child himself is able to when the foreskin either retracts naturally on it's own or the child pulls it loose through play & self discovery. A penis that has not been cleaned well enough will not cause the foreskin to reattach but may eventually cause inflammation…
/r/MensRights29/09/10 09:17 AM
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Or quite the opposite when he learns what you have not done should you leave him intact. My sons have independently approached me and thanked me. Recently, my oldest heard about the kidnapping case, the girl taken from her school bus stop in Tahoe when she was 11 (I think her name was Jacey) basically made this old guy's sex slave for 18 years and forced to live in his back yard under tarps and have 2 of his children. Upon hearing all the details of her ordeal and discovery/rescue after 18 years…
/r/MensRights29/09/10 09:12 AM
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I have been with both circumcised and uncircumcised men and appear to be blessed with an intense ability of 'touch' sensation in my vagina. Years ago, my first husband used to say it was if i had fingertips in my vagina because I seem to have the same sense of touch as we all do with our fingertips. I can definitely feel a major difference when having sex with a man that has not been circumcised vs. a man that has. Likewise, I can feel the difference with one of those rare men that has been circ…
/r/MensRights29/09/10 09:01 AM
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If you are describing what I think you are, my son did the same when he was 12. We had anticipated it however as his pediatrician had noticed for years that there was a small area along the underside of the head of the penis in which the foreskin was still somewhat attached. She had said that at some point he wound finally complete the separation on his own while masturbating or playing around with it and not to be concerned. Basically, in a boy that has not been circumcised the foreskin is unab…
/r/MensRights29/09/10 08:45 AM
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because he needs to assert how serious the issues are. She won't take anything he has to say seriously unless she knows he's done his research and he's ready to move forward. I also think she was holding back her 'true colors' and that he has just realized in one swift week that she has misrepresented herself and she is not the woman he thought she was or that he thought he was marrying. People generally don't change. And it is not unheard of for women to behave slightly differently than what is…
/r/MensRights22/09/10 04:11 AM
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Here's what I suggest: Absolutely pursue an annulment. In the mean time, flip everything around on her. When she tells you that it's "my way or the highway", stand up right in front of her face and correct her. Get right in her face and throw back at her, "No. It's my way or the highway. And you see that, right there? That's the door. You're welcome to use it." Anything that was yours prior to the marriage remains yours. Including your classic car. You both split 50/50 anything earned or attaine…
/r/MensRights22/09/10 03:16 AM
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It also generated a lot of people questioning what it was doing in this subreddit.
/r/MensRights20/09/10 11:53 PM
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Excuse me? Are you trying to say that this is relevant because there are also men in the same circumstance of being garnished for health insurance that they already pay for and provide their children? If that is indeed what your point was it's quite a stretch.
/r/MensRights20/09/10 08:41 PM
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What is the point of posting this? The brief article says that she already provides healthcare insurance for her children and her wages are being garnished for a 2nd insurance policy that the children do not need. A mistake or oversight. So??? Am I missing something?
/r/MensRights20/09/10 03:14 AM
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She also says she's a virgin and has a history of filing sexual assault charges with the police.
/r/MensRights19/09/10 06:32 AM
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FUCK My 16 year-old son and I read the headline together. Shit, I told him that there wouldn't be an opportunity for a lawsuit. His dad would have already killed someone. There would be no way for me to hold him back. That would be it. He would be in prison. My son begged me not to read the article. Said he wanted to kill someone just after reading the headline. Some question why this is objectionable. After all many people are circumcised everyday in this country without any objection from the …
/r/MensRights14/09/10 06:49 AM
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We did the "you pick one, I pick one" Wow. We had none of that. I have to say, ours was truly amicable. He could whatever he wanted, I really didn't care. The point was that the relationship was over, I was happy it was over and I would have the opportunity to move on, this was just having to deal with the details. No hard feelings. He asked if he could store stuff in my garage...no worries. At first he paid me rent, then I said instead of rent, just fix the toilet when it clogs. He definitely c…
/r/MensRights13/09/10 06:48 PM
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I'm in CA so everything I say relates to here. There is no law that says you need lawyers, you need to give her half, pay any spousal support or go to court. My ex & I were married quite a bit longer (12+) separated for a couple on top of that, have 4 kids together and all that entails. We wrote up our own agreement, I declined spousal support although he would have had to pay it for life (WTF!!!) We included all details of visitation and custody, all property, all debt. Nothing was overlooked. …
/r/MensRights13/09/10 07:25 AM
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I appreciate his ethics but I wonder...I wonder if filing for bankruptcy alters the alimony judgment. Something to look into? He can always negotiate something with his creditors. The force of sale of property is not part of bankruptcy. It might be worth investigating further. Perhaps if your mother knew the situation involves Plan A or Plan Bankruptcy she might be flexible.
/r/MensRights06/09/10 07:27 PM
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Yep. I've seen it before. However, in the several cases I've personally witnessed the husband hasn't been wiped out completely in the end. Not saying that your father has been, he had the ingenuity to create and succeed before he likely will do again. What I've seen happen with completely unrelated people that didn't know one another at all; years after the divorce is final the ex-wife comes begging for a chunk of cash about once a year. She has no sense of value of money, has no concept of how …
/r/MensRights06/09/10 06:42 PM
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So, she doesn't actually need $13,000 a month for her to survive. He has been up until now making the $13,000 payments and she has been saving some of the money. I have no idea about the credit card thing as well other than to say that I know other crazy women that have gotten themselves into similar situations. It's usually the woman that left. She is an unhappy person regardless of her marriage. She feels the husband owes her the world. Because she didn't actually earn the money or realize wha…
/r/MensRights06/09/10 05:27 PM
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In other words, she's a prostitute. What is she currently living off of?
/r/MensRights06/09/10 04:50 PM
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Not always true. My first marriage, I was married to a millionaire that didn't work a day of our marriage. I didn't take a cent from him when we divorced. I declined spousal support (alimony) from my 2nd ex and was overly generous in our very amicable negotiations to the extent that I gave him the house I had bought prior to marriage. While I have never considered myself a feminist I could never live with myself if I took money from a man just because we broke up. It absolutely seems like prosti…
/r/MensRights06/09/10 04:08 PM
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As a parent, you have the gravest responsibility to above all do no harm. Contemporary society is so puritanical, so aimed at jumping to conclusions that my concern is more for the child being harmed by the reaction and the actions that follow more than I am concerned that anything harmful has happened to this child. A child does not have to have seen porn to dream about, imagine or become confused by sexual issues. She could have seen a very tall man kiss his very petite wife. Apologies for the…
/r/MensRights04/09/10 06:51 PM
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And there's no way that can have a good effect on the kids. My ex and I did everything as amicably as possible and our kids have nothing bad to say about either of us. They're happy anytime they meet the new person either one of us are dating. They invite their dad to cook dinner and watch movies at our house. How realistic do you think that is with the hostility she created?
/r/MensRights01/09/10 11:07 PM
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Those gentlemen have a condition known as phimosis and are not representative of men with an erect intact penis. Phimosis is quite rare and can easily be treated with the application of a steroid cream and massage. I do believe at this point you are a troll, it's either that or unfortunately thick. I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt and shall cease feeding the troll.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 06:35 PM
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No I didn't. And there is tons of porn with intact men. You just can't tell the difference because when erect they look exactly the same. I've grown weary of your unfortunate circumstances. Wishing you the best...
/r/MensRights01/09/10 06:29 PM
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When erect, it doesn't look different at all. It looks exactly the same. The difference in feeling is in function, in engineering. Either get an intact buddy to show you by letting you give him a hand job or find a porn of a guy giving himself a hand job or a girl giving him a hand job...then you will know and you will be able to speak from knowledge and not assumption.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 06:11 PM
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I seriously don't think she's ever seen an erect intact penis before. She showed me a photo of a flaccid penis as well.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 06:04 PM
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Don't allow him to frustrate you. His blindness isn't limited to his eyes.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 05:59 PM
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You've been reading my comments in other threads I see... =)
/r/MensRights01/09/10 05:55 PM
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The picture you showed is not only not what one would term a raging hard-on, it does not show an erect penis. Just as there are showers and there are growers, there are variations in penai when not engorged and that is a picture of a man with with a flaccid penis.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 05:54 PM
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It's not think it's know. Because when an intact penis is in the vagina, hand or mouth and is erect the skin is supple and not pull taunt. It still has a freedom of movement, not only within the vagina, hand or mouth but also to a certain extent within that portion of skin. While I can feel this within my vagina and in my mouth and it produces an extremely pleasurable sensation and is incredibly orgasmic it doesn't actually bring me any orgasmic pleasure whilst in my hand.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 05:51 PM
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Reading comprehension is such a wonderful thing. I never said I couldn't feel differences with my cunt, I said that women are not involved in taking measurements, as in using a tape measure. The only time I have ever known any woman to acknowledge being present when measurements of any kind were taken was when he insisted and she went along with his juvenile antics. I've said it before, I will offer it again. I'm sorry a part of your body was removed without your consent. We all have 2 opportuni…
/r/MensRights01/09/10 05:47 PM
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First, he's not erect. If that's from your personal collection I'm sorry to have to be the one to tell you that your weren't able to get your man hard. And 2nd, I have been with men that are circumcised and there are men that have had very little removed...I have absolutely been with a couple of when that when flaccid looked exactly like that. And they were definitely circumcised.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 05:37 PM
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ZenaLundgren doesn't seem to realize that an erect cock look the same whether it has been cut or not...
/r/MensRights01/09/10 05:22 PM
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One of my sons asked me once why he had heard people refer to uncircumcised as dirty. He asked if people honestly didn't realize that there was an opening at one end. I must admit, nothing surprises me anymore. I recently read in a thread women acknowledging that they didn't change their tampon or pad when they went to the restroom. In all seriousness, they continued to wear the old dirty one, soiled with old blood...slowly festering bacteria. Even the the packaging warns against doing such. Sis…
/r/MensRights01/09/10 05:18 PM
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Have you ever seen a dildo? Most of them are modeled after a circumcised man I would seriously consider deleting this comment if I were you, it does not bode well for you. The physical appearance of every man, whether circumcised or intact, is exactly the same. When the penis fills with blood and becomes erect if there is a foreskin or any portion of foreskin is completely pulled back into the length of the penis. This is why there are those that believe intact men have more length in comparison…
/r/MensRights01/09/10 05:06 PM
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It turns out that when you post on a board on reddit you are actually posting to everyone and basically anyone & everyone may respond. Next time, if you wish only for givemesnow to reply, send him a private message directly to his mailbox.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 04:55 PM
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This particular bris took place about 25 years ago but yes it had some very upsetting similarities to Lion King. I recall being mortified that they had this newborn essentially on a mirror in the sun. It was like they were cooking him. I might have been the only one that jumped up and yelped when the platter was raised high above everyone's heads. In this particular case the mother was calm and obviously ok with the whole thing. Most of the bris I've been to the mother is crying. I've been to a …
/r/MensRights01/09/10 04:53 PM
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Even if you do, you're going to note the girth of the penis before you notice and intact foreskin with your vagina. I have never measured a man's penis in any way. That is most definitely a boy's club issue. It doesn't actually have to do with the thickness of the foreskin or the girth of the penis. It has to do with the movement of the foreskin within the vaginal canal, the ridges (for lack of a better word) that are formed by that movement, the intense erotic sensation created by being able to…
/r/MensRights01/09/10 04:46 PM
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"He"? I'm not a he. I'm a 42 year-old mother of 4 intact sons. Three of which have already approached me and thanked me for not harming them when they were newborns by removing a part of their penis. My parents are orthodox, they know I went against tradition.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 03:10 PM
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One of the reasons it's amazing is because I care about him and accept him as he is. Would it be better if he were intact? Absolutely. I am not the only one out of millions. Away from the delicate ears of men all women that have been with both circumcised and intact men are aware of the difference, aware of the intensity of pleasure an intact foreskin is capable of. Women are aware of what a delicate issue this is for men, that nothing can essentially be done to change the situation and that it …
/r/MensRights01/09/10 02:53 PM
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Especially every time he urinates, is wiped with a baby wipe or his penis rubs against something rough. Like a disposable diaper.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 02:43 PM
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As a woman that really enjoys vaginal sex, I must assure you that there indeed is quite a difference. I can feel every ridge and movement of the foreskin with a sensitive intensity. That alone is quite orgasmic for me. I have never declined sex with a circumcised man that I was attracted to and I have amazing sex with the circumcised man I am currently seeing. Would it be better if her were intact? I have absolutely no doubt that it would be. It's also awesome and a whole lot of fun to play with…
/r/MensRights01/09/10 02:39 PM
4

I have been to one in which he sucked the wound to stop the bleeding.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 02:33 PM
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I'm not a dude. I'm a woman. A (nonobservant) Jewish woman that has attended plenty of brit milah since childhood. Not one was ever performed away from the guests of the party. I recall one that was done outside, the baby on a silver platter. When the moyel had finished cutting and sucking the blood, the screaming child was raised up upon the silver platter, up over his head and basically baked by the sun. There was one in which the mother was not in agreement and all the guests were essentially…
/r/MensRights01/09/10 01:32 PM
0

those crappy ribbed condoms which feel like shit to me Oh, I know! Hey, you need to give a studded condom a try. Totally fun for a little bit of variation.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 12:24 PM
1

And a wife that either doesn't want a pregnancy of for whom a pregnancy or abortion would be medically dangerous.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 12:19 PM
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Does she have the right to do this? Is she obliged to tell her partner that she is discontinuing their shared birth control plan? No, a woman never has the right to do this. Yes, she is always obligated to keep her partner updated as to her birth control status, even to the point of advising him to wear a condom when she has recently missed a dose.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 12:15 PM
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Not bloody likely. It includes a fucking lot of women that are remorseful for the loss of sexual perfection. For both of them, for themselves and for the men in their love lives. I am so sorry for what was done to you without your consent.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 11:32 AM
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Women that actually enjoy sex and love men absolutely prefer natural, non-mutilated cocks. It turns out, you can actually feel the difference vaginally. And it's over the top, insanely orgasmic. There's a reason why they say ribbed is better. I'm truly sorry for your loss. No woman that actually cares for your feelings will ever tell you to your face that she prefers an uncut man or that an unmutilated penis is by far more sexually stimulating. When a woman cares for you she knows to be delicate…
/r/MensRights01/09/10 11:27 AM
5

Not when it's a bris. It's done right in front of everyone. It's the entertainment for the damn party.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 11:15 AM
1

a fat Indonesian guy with his dick hanging out Great. Now I'm horny. Thanks. You could always read my comment history, I have a bizarre tendency of full online disclosure and complete honesty. I happen to find the entire concept of alimony completely offensive. Our relationship is over. We know longer wish to be together but will explore other options, other relationships and will each move on with our lives. Wait. Stop. Just one more thing. You must support me forever. Even if I never want to s…
/r/MensRights31/08/10 07:28 PM
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While I thank you for the thought I don't agree. How could I justify accepting money from an ex simply because our relationship failed? There were 2 involved in the relationship. He did not bring about failure on his own. And why should he be financially punished, simply because he has testicles? Is that saying he should have known better and either prevented the break-up or known better and prevented the marriage to begin with? I made the decision to enter into a relationship with him. When I h…
/r/MensRights31/08/10 07:23 PM
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We would never stand for arranged marriages, so why do we tolerate unilateral divorce, where the power rests in one person's hands to vote on behalf of the whole family? Because you cannot force someone into the servitude of being married to you forever simply because at one point they agreed to be. I read the entire article and frankly found her to be a ridiculously stupid bitch.
/r/MensRights31/08/10 01:46 PM
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One is surprised alimony exists, even if feminism is taking a long nap. From a woman that insisted on declining alimony, thank you for this. I am the least feminist person one can think of, as a more traditional mind set woman, a stay at home mother of 4 that did find a way to put my ex through nursing school, I find alimony incredibly offensive. Let us hope she fails in her attempts. Sadly, she likely won't.
/r/MensRights31/08/10 01:30 PM
2

I am single. You?
/r/MensRights27/08/10 08:32 AM
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It is not just men in /r/MensRights that are negative towards marriage. I am a woman and I am negative towards marriage as well. I caution every single, adult man I know. Question every man I've met that had intentions to wed. I absolutely would not encourage my sons to get married, however I will respect their decisions and treat any partner(s) of theirs as a daughter (or son, should the case such) regardless of marriage.
/r/MensRights27/08/10 04:29 AM
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Omg: When he was eight years old, doctors at his school performed an operation without his consent. I found this one article more valuable than any other article regarding circumcision I have ever read. I have never before been moved to ask my 4 intact sons to read anything regarding circumcision. It is important that they read this.
/r/MensRights27/08/10 04:24 AM
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My fiancee has decided to not take my last name Oh yeah. That's because she's already realized it will make it much easier for her once the both of you divorce.
/r/MensRights27/08/10 01:47 AM
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You pointed nothing out other than you have a reading comprehension problem.
/r/MensRights18/08/10 03:17 AM
2

Not retarded. Circumcised. Woman. And no. No man has ever noticed.
/r/MensRights18/08/10 12:33 AM
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This is kind of funny. When my first son was born (I have 4 intact sons) my mother in law was the only person totally upset that we were not going to circumcise him. She kept ranting and ranting about it. She and my father in law had divorced years earlier. He heard about her reaction and was mystified. "Why should she care if her grandson is intact? She was married to me for years and she never seemed to care that I am!" Once that got back to her it shut her up pretty damn fast. All of the circ…
/r/MensRights17/08/10 10:32 PM
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Did you happen to read this article? It was about the US. And stated that by far the highest risk group were homosexual men and that it had already been proven that circumcision had no affect on the HIV transmission rates of homosexual men.
/r/MensRights17/08/10 07:59 PM
1

Don't know how many 3 year-olds you've known. Mine were all pretty rational and able to make educated decisions by that age.
/r/MensRights14/08/10 08:21 PM
1

So do raccoons. Which is why I no longer grow beets in my garden. It was the only thing the raccoons were after.
/r/MensRights14/08/10 11:45 AM
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No, I think you have. They are not afraid of anyone. They are well behaved and do not run off. They are also intelligent and have no problems handling themselves around people they don't know. I only had to tell each of them one time, at around 3 years of age, not to wander. And not one of the 4 ever has. Nor have they ever embarrassed me or behaved inappropriately in public. Ever. OP mentioned twins running off. Never would happen with my boys. Even now, and they are much older and independent,…
/r/MensRights13/08/10 08:56 PM
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Omg. I didn't even consciously read your username and suddenly I was thinking, "Hm. Beets. I would love some fresh beets right about now."
/r/MensRights13/08/10 06:55 PM
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I have 4 sons. I have never told them anything remotely like that. Then again, I've never misplaced my kids. They may give me shit when I tell them to pick up their toys but they always listen to me in public. When they were each really young I made a point of showing them another family (mother included) and asking if they'd rather go live with them and call her 'mommy'? Cause that's what would happen if they ran off. Some other family would see a cute little boy and take him home as their own.…
/r/MensRights13/08/10 06:53 PM
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I live in a very racially mixed city and I'm continually shocked how often people have deemed it there business to make ridiculous statements.
/r/MensRights12/08/10 07:03 AM
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I'm a woman with 4 natural kids that don't look a thing like her. I am white. My kids are not. I am really white. Natural redhead, blue eyes, white. It doesn't matter whether you are male or female. When your kids look nothing like you, people are going to make assumptions, say shit and rarely, trouble can happen. But you are forgetting that your kid will love you and will hold tight to you, or talk shit right back...depending on the age. Oddly, I have a guy friend in a similar situation. He is …
/r/MensRights11/08/10 06:11 PM
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Parental abuse happens whether you are a male child or female child. The abuser is often the mother, but also often the father. Your recent history of finding yourself in personal relationship with abusive women is because subliminally you not only seek them out but stay when 'normal' people would be mortified and promptly leave. You on the other hand, are familiar with such treatment from women, do not find it shocking or appalling and may even find it comforting: it's what you know. The normal…
/r/MensRights10/08/10 11:38 AM
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I don't think sexual peak means what the author thinks it means. His little anecdote about his 3 weeks in a cabin with an older woman is exactly what the concept of sexual peak means. Sexual peak is a concept of when each gender is in a time period of their lives at which they are their horniest. The theory holds that for men, it is when they are quite young...their late teens to early twenties. And for women, that it is when they are pre-menopausal, their mid-thirties to late forties. If the th…
/r/MensRights09/08/10 07:52 AM
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This should have nothing to do with the mother or her rights or possible loss. This has to do with the rights of the child. The child has the right from the start of his life to know his families cultural, medical and interfamily history. The father has the right to know, care for and support his child. If the mother has indicated the wrong man there is some other man out there whose rights are being violated. He will never know his child, never have the honor of caring for him, financially and …
/r/MensRights01/08/10 01:53 AM
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Hey! been there, done that. I have 4 sons and my ex (also belongs to the same party...although not the reason we split) has always made such remarks about one of the boys. None of them look anything like me, they all look pretty much like each other. This son has a birthmark about the size of a quarter, instead of being a dark spot it is a white spot. Lighter than the surrounding skin. My ex has always said that son can't be his because he is a white boy.
/r/MensRights01/08/10 01:42 AM
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I absolutely support this idea but we must be realistic, hospitals charge for everything birth related. They've turned birth into a huge money making circumstance, there is no way a hospital is going to provide any test or service for free. The best we could hope for would be a requirement that all babies/parents have a dna test before leaving just as all babies are tested for PKU and galactosemia.
/r/MensRights01/08/10 01:39 AM
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As a woman and human, this horrifies me. It disgusts me to no end that this person that calls herself the mother would continue to pursue any action after the child is 18 or after it is discovered that there is no scientific possibility that the man and child are related.
/r/MensRights31/07/10 03:09 PM
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It sounds as if he has been incarcerated for the unspeakable offense of being a bad lover after exhibiting that he had the ability to perform otherwise::bad at sex, go to jail.
/r/MensRights31/07/10 07:57 AM
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Sounds like an interesting read. Where is it?
/r/MensRights15/07/10 06:54 AM
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How many children with a payment of $2,300? Or is that child support and alimony?
/r/MensRights12/07/10 10:51 PM
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Sorry to break it to ya, but that is not going to mean squat. Especially if she lives with parents, other relatives or friends that have no issue with paying her rent. If this is her first child (no other evidence of being a negligent parent) she's going to have to fuck up first. If she plans to breastfeed she's going to look golden until the child is at least a year+. Breastfeeding gets her huge brownie points and because so many women that are otherwise wonderful mothers go through a period of…
/r/MensRights12/07/10 06:39 PM
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paternity test a wife. You don't paternity test a wife, you paternity test the baby. Wife is not required for the testing, just you & the child.
/r/MensRights12/07/10 06:32 PM
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but from all accounts she isn't the most fit of the two parents. How does he know this? Does she already have other children that she is neglecting?
/r/MensRights12/07/10 06:30 PM
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I'm a woman. I love sex and I have my own money/financial stability. The majority of men I have had longterm relationships did not earn as much/have as much as I have. It was never slumming it, for me it was always that they had qualities that were far more important than our status differences. The other point I don't agree with from his theory is that when I think of a man from a good family I am not thinking of from money. I am thinking of a family that is tight, that never allows something a…
/r/MensRights11/07/10 07:20 AM
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While I realize we often generalize here, I must say that as a woman...my view is the only reason to be in a marital relationship (or long term living together partnership) is for sexual companionship. I don't desire or need a man's support. I can envision times when protection would be nice but I can figure out alternatives on my own and don't really need a man for protection either. Awesome sex by myself is not an option. For that I need a man. Granted, I'm older/wiser now, but I would never a…
/r/MensRights10/07/10 06:57 PM
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Apolgies for not understanding if this was already clarified, but did this happen in person? Is this a woman you know IRL or has all of this taken place on reddit & via email. I didn't take the time to watch the clip. As a woman that has been punched in the face by a man I don't feel as if I have the need to see it. But I also cannot ever identify with being bothered by someone posting such a link, engaging in discussion about male/female violence or being interested in the discussion of domesti…
/r/MensRights10/07/10 09:38 AM
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Loved this and wrote him to tell him so.
/r/MensRights09/07/10 04:26 PM
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While I agree that most women are not like me (I declined spousal support/alimony) this post is an obvious troll. She starts out with stating that she and her husband are happy. Chats with 2 strangers for a couple of lines and is convinced to divorce. Right.
/r/MensRights08/07/10 08:24 PM
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Exactly. You're not allowed to disagree with them. Oh no. Of course you can disagree with them. But only if you do it in the closet, in the privacy of your own home, silently whilst facing the farthest, deepest corner. With the lights off. And be certain to wash your hands afterwards.
/r/MensRights06/07/10 05:40 AM
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Scary how much it reminds of the conservative & republican sites. In their own little world, patting themselves on the back, so self righteous.
/r/MensRights05/07/10 04:01 AM
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Wonder how that's working out for her.
/r/MensRights05/07/10 03:57 AM
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What a psycho. You should be upset. I'm upset for you. Believe me, she's what's wrong with the world! Her and everyone like her. On the flip side, I hope everything works out for you and flirty (normal) girl and that you'll be spankin that ass again sometime soon!
/r/MensRights30/06/10 02:35 AM
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It's like you have a reading comprehension problem. I have not fallen prey to anything, have been influenced by no bias nor have I seen any harping on any other subreddit. I stated my observation that I came to all on my own and how I came to it. I have no interest in what is on the front page now or ever. I often click to view other discussions when something has been posted more than once, it's my reddit-surfing habit. That subreddit is the only one in which I have consistently found hostile, …
/r/MensRights23/06/10 04:27 AM
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Nope. Not from here. When an interesting article shows it's been posted prior I often review the other comments. Every time the thread and even the title of the article posted to 2XC is ridiculously offensive whereas the threads posted to other subreddits feature rational discourse. I'm always so put off and surprised that I then look through the entire subreddit at that time to see what else is posted. Irrational harping and threads filled with anger and hatred. Makes me embarrassed for you. (t…
/r/MensRights23/06/10 03:19 AM
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Every submission or post, every thread I've ever seen, I have found either offensive or filled with anger and hate. I do not subscribe to the subreddit yet have stumbled upon it on occasion. The point is that I am entitled to my observation and opinion, even if it conflicts with yours. Your huge monologue has done nothing to convince me otherwise, it has actually confirmed for me that you are a very anger-filled person.
/r/MensRights23/06/10 12:59 AM
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I have 4 sons. I must say, we have a great & open relationship. They talk to me about anything and everything. My oldest came to me at about age 10 and thanked me for leaving him intact. He's 6'4 now and a big hunk of man but he still gets tears in his eyes when he hears about a baby being circumcised. My 2nd has loudly proclaimed that his foreskin is his most favorite part of his body. His brothers all pipe in, "Of course it is." He is known to be quite a habitual masturbator. Point being, I ca…
/r/MensRights22/06/10 07:55 AM
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We'll see. I have noticed a difference come over the Mensrights subreddit over the last 6 months or so. I tend to ignore and hide the hateful posts and attempt to learn from and support the others. I have been completely unable to be a part of 2XC whatsoever. Every submission or post, every thread I've ever seen, I have found either offensive or filled with anger and hate.
/r/MensRights22/06/10 05:03 AM
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Not exacly how I would describe the femanazis either. As a woman that loves, respects and admires men and is in the midst of raising four of them I have to say that men have not cornered the market in wishing there were a place to be more supportive of men in society and less of the militant often times irrational concept of equality feminists have.
/r/MensRights22/06/10 04:32 AM
3

Four years is not enough.
/r/MensRights22/06/10 04:16 AM
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I think counter feminism sounds like a good name.
/r/MensRights22/06/10 03:50 AM
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I am a single mom with 4 sons. My ex was not perfect while we were together (he was physically abusive) but we have 4 sons together that we need to set an example for. We had an amicable divorce, I never filed a restraining order or did anything that would mean our kids would have to visit him in jail. No matter what happened between us he's their father and it only benefits them to view him with love and respect.
/r/MensRights22/06/10 03:28 AM
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I tend to not feel bad for evil people.
/r/MensRights22/06/10 02:44 AM
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My thought as well. Never trust the word of a crazy ex.
/r/MensRights22/06/10 02:43 AM
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The way the title is worded, I thought the woman had an unusual fetish & got off on making public pronouncements of abuse.
/r/MensRights04/06/10 04:26 PM
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No, not at all. Obviously, I would be in a better financial situation had I opted for spousal support which was fully within my rights to. In my state, due to the length of the marriage, he would have been required to pay spousal support forever. My lawyer made me sign something that I was going against her professional advice. I still think it is wrong for a man to have to pay a woman money monthly forever. In the circumstance of the court date, it was not at all right for me. It was incredibly…
/r/MensRights18/04/10 06:08 AM
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Beyond fucked up. That birth mother is just pure evil. There has to be something wrong with the hospital that they wereowed to bar him from seeing his child.
/r/MensRights17/04/10 02:31 AM
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We only went out for 2 years & 3 months. And no. I don't count the angry break-up sex he came back for 6 months later! Shit! I bet he tried to tell you guys his cock was 5 inches erect, too, didn't he? Fuckin so full of exaggeration. Don't you just love how 2 years, 3 months becomes 3 years & 3.75 becomes 5 full raging inches but I'm the bitch!!!
/r/MensRights12/04/10 09:34 PM
2

One of my son's has done something like that while asleep. I assumed he was dreaming.
/r/MensRights10/04/10 06:06 AM
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That's just really fucked up. Men with breast cancer is nothing new. My great grandfather had it and required a double mastectomy, that was over 50 years ago. His daughter, my grandmother, also had it twice, in each one 15 years apart. Doctors have made a huge deal over me because of it and I started having mammograms when I was 20, my father and brother have both been told they are at high risk and should have regular mammograms. Which they ignore.
/r/MensRights09/04/10 07:15 PM
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Stomach turning. Ridiculously hard to believe.
/r/MensRights05/04/10 06:19 AM
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I believe that I have only shown support for men in this subreddit as well as others as that is my personal and political view. I don't subscribe to 'women's' subreddits nor do I waste my time there because those views are not in my personal or political view and reading those threads would only frustrate and annoy me. Am I an advocate? I can't say. But I'm not all talk. I live my views. I put my money where my mouth is. I was a married stay at home mom of 4 for 12+ years and I declined all spou…
/r/MensRights04/04/10 04:12 PM
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North Hollywood? NoHo is not a nice neighborhood. I'd think he could do better earning $35,000 a month.
/r/MensRights01/04/10 07:26 AM
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If anywhere near Los Angeles, send me a pm...I know of someone that can help.
/r/MensRights01/04/10 05:57 AM
1

Somehow I always seem to attract these men that want to marry me. Deep down I don't think they even wish to consider a partnership. I think they are so compelled with the desire to marry me because they want to own me. "If you are my wife, then you can't so easily leave. Then no one else can have you or your time. Because you belong to me. You are mine." It has taken me a long time to have found enough inner strength to realize that if by standing firm and saying no it devastates a man, then it'…
/r/MensRights31/03/10 05:50 AM
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You can be "partners" without getting married. I tell all men to run fast when the issue of marriage comes up. I wish I had...except for the kids, of course. And we had an amicable divorce. It was the concept of marriage that I think did us in. My ex became extremely controlling regarding what was acceptable of 'his wife'. I still don't get the appeal.
/r/MensRights31/03/10 04:32 AM
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Oh, I wasn't at all offended. I just didn't know if you realized I was a woman in support of men. I find it so funny that I would describe myself as the anti-christ of feminism...I am the farthest from a feminist; very traditional, prefer a man to be in charge, etc. Yet I am the example of who spousal support is supposed to be for. The stay at home mother of 4 who's husband left after she put him through school and I am set against it and doing just fine. Then I know all of these hardcore mascul…
/r/MensRights30/03/10 07:19 PM
2

Hey. I'm a woman and I stayed home with my kids. When I did work I made more then my ex-husband. I had a substantial savings when we got married and used funds from that to fund his returning to school to further his career, to pay towards our household expenses because I was home with the kids, to buy our first home. Even though the down payment was mine, we were married so I insisted his name go on the title as an equal partner. I contributed to the household more than the cost of the monthly …
/r/MensRights30/03/10 05:38 PM
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Obviously, I'm sure it varies by location but I know in my area the magic number is 10. If you are married and residing together less than 10 years, spousal support is limited and a temporary situation to help the less fortunate spouse (homemaker, etc) get back on her/his feet. If you are married over 10 years, the spousal support is up until retirement or the spouse remarries. Speaking of retirement, the stay at home spouse is entitled to the working spouses Social Security credits if they were…
/r/MensRights30/03/10 04:57 AM
1

But you are incorrect. They still want her to pay and not the ex-husband. The ex is merely a business partner in the purchase of the house. He is irrelevant to the story, it could have been a house purchased with a parent, a sibling or a friend/business partner. Belgium is not trying to get any money from the ex-husband. Belgium wants the money from her proceeds of the sale of her half of the house. After the sale she will no longer be insolvent. They are saying the money should not go into an a…
/r/MensRights29/03/10 05:37 PM
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Misleading title. Article says the government goes after all criminals to fund their trials, they haven't singled her out. They are not trying to get the money from the ex-husband but from the wife's half of the property sale. That half isn't his, unless he sues her for damages for the loss of his children.
/r/MensRights29/03/10 05:28 PM
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It really isn't her choice, the counselor has a conflict of interest and should never be allowed to treat the both of you. Get a new counselor, asap. Does your sister know that Wife has been abusive? Does anyone know? While I realize that when you're in it, it's impossible to see the outcome and near impossible to fathom that life will ever be better, but it will. You actually need to realize and accept that nothing is worse than this. Splitting the family will be an improvement. Your children w…
/r/MensRights16/03/10 09:05 PM
3

Especially as it's on yahoo answers.
/r/MensRights28/02/10 08:30 AM
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Perhaps your uncircumcised son's foreskin retracted incredibly early and young, it is not typical to be able to retract an infant or even a toddlers foreskin and as the author said, it is dangerous to attempt to do so. Our pediatrician has always said the only person that should ever retract the foreskin is the boy himself. Most adhesions are caused by well meaning parents while cleaning. The child himself will not force it back too soon, nature has it that he does not have the strength nor the …
/r/MensRights27/02/10 03:27 AM
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O...M...G... Now that is just batshit crazy insane. She's so crazy and out of touch with reality that she can't even swiftly hide her desire to get pregnant from a man until she entraps him with her magic pussy skills. Crazy.
/r/MensRights20/02/10 06:20 PM
1

Let your friends deal with the psycho hose beasts. Trust your instincts and avoid drama at all costs. The reason everyone thinks men should want to fuck and willing hottie on command has to do with mans desire to propagate the species. But clearly your instinct is correct....save your seed for the healthy females.
/r/MensRights20/02/10 06:17 PM
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And the sweet, subtle...where he can be reached...
/r/MensRights12/02/10 03:20 AM
1

Don't apologize. Why should we give a shit about anyone that is being paid to do their job? At least they have a job. At least they're getting paid.
/r/MensRights10/02/10 03:38 PM
2

I love to see the expression of the man I am with. I find anything in porn fake and bad acting. Just not looking for that in porn.
/r/MensRights10/02/10 03:34 PM
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As a woman, what I continually find offensive by people like her is her 100% blindspot to gay porn. Every 'victim' she cries out about could easily be a gay male or gay female actor. She makes blatant assumptions that all porn is for an all male, heterosexual, hostile audience. Which is simply not true. Straight women love the same porn straight men love. Gay men & women love their porn. Couples enjoy their porn together. Fucked up shit goes on in just about any job out there and we all have cho…
/r/MensRights10/02/10 12:23 PM
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I'd say it looks like they need more lube, but you know what? They all look clean and they all look happy. I have definitely seen worse done to men in porn (prolapsed ass, etc) the only person that seems unhappy is Miss Cranky Blogosphere and maybe she needs to get laid.
/r/MensRights10/02/10 01:58 AM
5

Incredibly disappointed. returns to bukkake porn...
/r/MensRights10/02/10 01:53 AM
3

My curiosity is piqued. More dick. I like dick.
/r/MensRights09/02/10 11:33 PM
2

I'm a stay at home mom so I wouldn't require the services of a man-y but I have known a couple, especially of families with active boys or in one case in which the father had passed away.
/r/MensRights02/02/10 07:01 AM
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Years and years ago I had a friend that was about to get married that was going through so much stress with her intended. This article reminds me of him. He had essentially fled his mother as a teen. At some point she had tracked him down and phoned him constantly. She was of course, against the marriage. Or his marrying anyone. His father's name had been Mitch. His name was Mitch. His brother's name was Mitch. His entire childhood he never had his own bed but was made to sleep with his mother, …
/r/MensRights27/01/10 08:07 PM
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I actually had no idea there was such a thing as Tall Clubs. When I was younger I had really hoped to keep growing and reach 6 ft. Alas it was not to be. As a teen if I dated someone close to my height I always wore heels. Now I've just accepted that I find shorter men incredibly sexy.
/r/MensRights25/01/10 09:46 PM
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There you go! Mystery solved!
/r/MensRights25/01/10 12:30 AM
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I love cooking and there's always more than enough. The more people around, the better. One of things I try to change in my own personal environment is how distant towards one another we Americans seem to be. Not enough sense of community.
/r/MensRights25/01/10 12:29 AM
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Seriously? Just the simply matter of height? I wouldn't say my partners keep taking a feminine role. Really just the major relationship, my ex-husband. I've now been in the dating arena for awhile and I have to say that I am very selective to only continue to see men that are both very masculine and shorter than myself. But I am fairly tall, 5'10, so I do think a man of 5'6 or 5'7 would have to likely be a very confident man to feel comfortable asking me out. So although my ex wasn't exceptional…
/r/MensRights24/01/10 07:43 PM
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I find this very interesting and do wonder what it means that I am most sexually attracted to men shorter than myself.
/r/MensRights24/01/10 06:42 PM
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I wouldn't say that it's been had to meet men. I meet a wide variety of men, but one must also keep in mind there are other factors involved that make 2 people 'click'.
/r/MensRights24/01/10 06:37 PM
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Thank you. And I know it's absolutely realistic. I actually find it pretty laughable that an online forum would discourage me!
/r/MensRights24/01/10 06:33 PM
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Anytime, Sunshine. Anytime. ;-)
/r/MensRights24/01/10 06:31 PM
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Not necessarily academic smarts and it doesn't have to equate to a man's earning potential as long as he as the means to support himself just as I am able to support myself. And no, it isn't street smarts but intellect. Someone that has the capability to engage in challenging conversation on contemporary topics. I find intelligence very stimulating and sexy.
/r/MensRights24/01/10 09:39 AM
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I do now believe that you are a troll. I support everyone's rights. duh. Just saying that the marketing directors and male models and men they are marketing to are likely homosexual not heterosexual. You, Mr. Man, all of you, think for yourselves about what is masculine and about what real women desire, not what marketing suggests that you should do, because it might not be marketed to you. It's possible it's being marketed to the men trying attract other men and not women.
/r/MensRights24/01/10 09:24 AM
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My deepest, deepest sympathies to you and your children. I do hope you all are able to recover and heal from the damage and truly wish for the best for your family that this tradition does not continue with the next generation. I would seriously consider warning any future son in laws if I had daughters.
/r/MensRights24/01/10 09:16 AM
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Perhaps I didn't express myself clearly. I've been typing and watching a movie with the kids at the same time. I feel like a woman everyday that I'm single. It's not that I want to refrain from heavy thinking, I want to be able to do the heavy thinking and be challenged by someone of potentially greater intelligence. And I would like to be wrong. I'm extremely feminine, that's not an issue. But just as I can see that in a situation in which the woman is an ardent feminist she tends to take over …
/r/MensRights24/01/10 06:33 AM
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Supporter of Men's Rights. Absodamnlutely. Who was it that said behind every great man is a woman? I have no desire to be upfront or in the limelight. I want to be a woman backing up a smart, masculine man. But activist? No.
/r/MensRights24/01/10 04:32 AM
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Not at all. I'm fine meeting and dating men that are in a different social/educational/financial status as long as they are self sufficient and are not going to look to me to help pay their way. It's just a huge turn on for me when I meet someone that I realize is smarter than I am. That can correct me when I'm wrong. That I can go to and ask about some complicated matter instead of the other way around.
/r/MensRights24/01/10 02:49 AM
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Feminist? Take that back. Thems fightin words. I'm definitely no feminist. I don't mean 'keep me', as in a kept woman. Goodness no, I'm financially self sufficient (without working outside the home, where a woman & mother belongs ;-p) I meant in more of a sexual and intellectual sense. A spanking when needed. Do the heavy thinking so I don't have to. Challenge me and be able to back it up, show me that I'm wrong. Puts a smile on my face. Having a serious conversation with my ex was like having a…
/r/MensRights24/01/10 02:43 AM
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I 'married down'. Didn't last. We're fortunate, we had an amicable divorce but it's possible that is because of the whole marrying down situation. He didn't lose anything in the divorce. 13 years later he walked away with a degree I paid for, a far better profession and children that adore him. I'm left eager to meet a man that knows more than me and can keep me in my place.
/r/MensRights24/01/10 02:00 AM
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Obvious troll is obvious. Your big complaint is about 2 yeast infections. Women contend with moist places and yeast infections on a fairly regular basis, some as often as 4 or 5 times a year. Yeast infections have nothing to do with cleanliness, circumcised men also get yeast infections and as already mentioned, as do women and some children. Often times it has to do with an in balance of blood sugar. As a woman that has been with intact men and is the mother of intact men I have my doubts that …
/r/MensRights27/11/09 08:40 PM
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