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Disgusting. I hate how people dismiss or laugh off the sexual assault and rape of male students. As the mother of a son, I find it disgusting. I don’t blame people for not wanting their kids in public school with shit like this going on so frequently. I hope she gets put on the sex offender registry for life if she ever gets out.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/24 05:19 PM
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As someone who is currently pregnant (with my husband’s baby) I couldn’t imagine dating while pregnant. That sounds awful in so many ways lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/23 02:50 PM
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so the women (who identified as a man) who shot up that christian school recently doesn’t count?
/r/MensRights02/05/23 06:35 PM
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I can see it as a woman myself, but many women are hung up on feminism. I constantly find myself annoyed with sexism against men on reddit, youtube comments, etc. Like for example on news videos where a man finds an unattended small child on the side of the road (on dash cam footage) and a woman comments “thank god he wasn’t a predator”. I often respond to those comments and ask why they would even think to say that when the vast majority of men are kind, hardworking, and care for children’s wel…
/r/MensRights02/05/23 05:02 PM
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There’s a reason they call it geriatric pregnancy and it’s not just because. Geriatric pregnancies are at a significantly higher risk of complications than non-geriatric pregnancies. If that wasn’t the case they wouldn’t classify them as geriatric. The risks of stillbirth increase drastically with age, for example. For example a study from 2022: To reduce potentially preventable stillbirths, caregivers should perform a specific risk assessment for each pregnant woman. The impact of maternal age …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:06 PM
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That’s actually not true. Some obese women are high risk and still give birth in a birthing center. Some birthing centers are attached to full hospitals so the point is moot. And yes I am also pregnant and low risk (not geriatric, no high BMI, etc). The odds of being 40 with 0 risk factors is incredibly low and it’s disingenuous to suggest that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:10 PM
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Stanford deleted her page from the employee directory today, I screenshotted it: https://imgur.com/a/APJEfrK
/r/MensRights19/03/23 09:09 PM
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As a woman I find the double standards annoying and completely stupid. Older women are jealous and that’s simply it. Maybe if they’d considered finding a nice man when they were younger they wouldn’t be so bitter lol
/r/MensRights11/02/23 06:21 PM
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Or at minimum a blood type test because it could show if the father is or is not related if he knows his blood type
/r/MensRights02/01/23 06:50 PM
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They’re always victims of their own choices lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:49 PM
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No the failure rate is very low with perfect use. Literally 0.01% chance with perfect use of the birth control pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:48 PM
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“happy father’s day to me - a single mom!!!!!” lol it’s honestly laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:34 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:33 PM
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Are you a single mom? lol Look at the poverty rate of households with single moms. It’s not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:24 PM
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Be careful. Tattoo ink contains heavy metals that enter the blood stream during the tattoo removal process. Something to consider & thats why I’d never get a tattoo. Those heavy metals gather in your lymph nodes and can potentially cause cancer/autoimmune illnesses.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 07:22 PM
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Well the average woman in the US is overweight. So being a “normal/healthy” weight is enough to stand out these days. I’m 5’1” 98.6 lbs and on the low end of healthy BMI but I’m a pretty petite person (and i’m currently pregnant so I’ll definitely gain weight). I love being petite because it flatters my short figure and makes me look a little taller. I also feel 1000% more confident at a lower BMI. I’m definitely more “conventionally attractive” at a lower weight than I am at a higher weight and…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 07:21 PM
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Anything that isn’t made with paraffin wax because it’s toxic and contains heavy metals (that do pollute the air). Preferably any type of beeswax based candles
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 07:15 PM
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No. I love my husband and I am not scared he will cheat on me because he has earned my trust and never done anything to lose it. I used to be pretty insecure and had to learn to get over that. My husband has always been faithful and I have no reason to question it. My husband’s mom actually cheated on my FIL for 10 years with one of his coworkers. If anything, I believe women are more likely to cheat because women have far more opportunities for sex. He, somehow, found a way to reconcile and for…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 07:13 PM
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Yeah I’m a sahw and I’ve never felt disrespected or unappreciated by my husband. I help him with running his business, maintaining the house, doing tax prep, etc. I am currently pregnant with our first and plan to continue staying home. I’m grateful to have a husband who respects me. Both my husband and I were raised in homes with stay at home moms, so we both wanted that for our own children. He owns his own business so it helps to have someone maintain the home/do business stuff when he works …
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 07:03 PM
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Same here lol I will never forget it
/r/MensRights11/12/22 04:37 PM
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It was some stupid pop up scare video disguised as a car ad lol ghost car youtube
/r/MensRights11/12/22 03:15 PM
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My sisters and I (I’m a woman) had one or two neighbor boys (14-17) babysit for us a few times growing up and they were, by far, our favorite babysitters. A lot of female babysitters were bossy/rude and would put my younger sister and I in our rooms early because they wanted to watch shows/movies that we weren’t old enough to watch with our older sister. One of the girl babysitters showed my younger sister the ghost car video on youtube and scared the shit out of her. The boys actually played ga…
/r/MensRights11/12/22 02:23 AM
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I’m upset with this (though I’m a woman - who supports men’s rights). I think its bullshit and Biden and his administration are beyond incompetent/corrupt.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 02:16 AM
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That makes me sad :/ I’m married and I like to believe my husband and I will always be faithful. Idk maybe I’m being naive but it really is disappointing when you realize how widespread infidelity is especially with social media. I think its even worse now than in the past because women are increasingly having more affairs as they work outside of the home and spend time with coworkers on a daily basis. It’s sad how “normal” it is now. All I’ve learned is to not underestimate what people are capa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:31 PM
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Some people cheat because they’re never satisfied. My husband’s mom cheated on her first husband and left him (he tried to work it out) with her 2 kids. She remarried my husband’s father, he supported her and her 2 kids, they had 2 more kids and she went on to have an affair with my husband’s dad’s coworker for 10 years! They’re still married, god only knows how I couldn’t stomach to look at her everyday if I were him, but it’s truly shocking when you find out someone you “thought” you knew woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:09 PM
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Women easily by far. Women have far more opportunities for sex than men do. I am a woman myself. Just one example: my husband’s mom had a 10 year long affair with my husband’s dad’s coworker. They are still married. I have lots of feelings on it that I’m not adding here but the respect I had for my MIL is significantly lower than when I discovered that info. She had an affair when my husband was a diapers. You’d have a hard time convincing me she isn’t a selfish bitch, but weirdly enough, I stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:05 PM
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I just got downvoted for arguing on the marriage sub (as a woman myself) that women are not victims of every situation by default and that women can also initiate sex with an authority figure to gain leverage. comment They all discounted me and downvoted instead of addressing my point. Apparently they like to believe all men are perpetrators and all woman are victims. I for one, am not a victim. And all of the men I know are great people who would never harm anyone. Idc if I get downvoted becaus…
/r/MensRights08/12/22 05:20 PM
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I’m 100% a woman lol. I didn’t say anything about the woman, if you even read my comment, and the post didn’t say anything about her safety either… It was the starbucks employee who automatically assumed the woman needed “help” because a man approached her in a public place. She would’ve, presumably, been capable of asking the man to leave her alone as an adult woman if she felt uncomfortable, no? I’d be annoyed if a coffee shop employee did that while I was studying. I’m an adult woman and I ca…
/r/MensRights05/12/22 10:08 PM
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I would say so! My parents got divorced when I was 11 but they got along and stayed in the same city so it worked out pretty well for us. I agree that they must be projecting. If there are so many men with “bad intentions” around, like their post implies, then why wouldn’t the girl be equally as skeptical of the barista? It also reinforces the stupid premise that women aren’t capable of speaking up for themselves. I feel like these stories are made up for PR at this point. All of the “articles” …
/r/MensRights05/12/22 09:03 PM
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Yeah I don’t understand this? Even at 16-18 (I’m a woman) I never once felt threatened when a man approached me… I regularly had homeless men ask for change when I walked to class and even they were extremely respectful (saying “thank you, god bless” when I gave them bus fare). The default assumption that men are predators really gets on my nerves. I once got drunk in Washington DC and didn’t have a way home and a professional driver (a chauffeur service like a high end cab) pulled over, helped …
/r/MensRights05/12/22 05:01 PM
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As a woman I think it’s only fair if women are drafted too. Equality is equality
/r/MensRights05/12/22 01:52 AM
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As a woman, I agree. I am a healthy weight and I feel like a rarity. It’s so weird. Most average women are fatter than me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:48 PM
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I would be considered obese at 150 lbs because I’m 5’1”. I weigh 100lbs and I’m not boney lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:38 PM
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As a woman, I think your wife is wrong. Even in just personal lives women rarely take accountability for the consequences of their choices. It’s annoying. It’s always someone else’s fault
/r/MensRights09/11/22 06:42 PM
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I try to talk openly about how women can be because a lot of it disgusts me as a woman myself. Men are constantly bashed and everyone conveniently ignores the blatantly bad shit women do like baby trapping men (which is far too common yet always denied) or cheating on their husbands. The way some women talk about men makes them sound like men aren’t human and it’s just wrong. I often get insulted by other women (especially online) for defending men, they call me a “pick me” or some other insult …
/r/MensRights26/10/22 02:29 PM
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They can hardly wipe their own asses or type with those nails on. They’re gross and it destroys their natural nails so they have to keep getting nails to cover their ugly damaged nails. It’s a huge waste of money too
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/22 01:01 AM
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I got pulled over at 3 am when I was 17 with a bottle of vodka in my car (I wasn’t drinking) for running a light (it was yellow lol). The officer asked if I had anything in my car so I told him about the vodka, he wrote me a ticket for it, and I gave it to him before going home. All I got was a minor in possession charge ticket which I was able to get rid of by taking a class. I don’t understand why people run because it’s usually much easier to just cooperate. Sure it sucks to get in trouble bu…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/22 05:43 PM
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I don’t get it either (as a woman) and I’m 5’1”. I’ve always preferred that men are taller than me, which is super easy considering my height! I don’t know my fiancé’s height but I think he’s around 5’8”. I’d have no problem if he was shorter than 5’8” because I’m extremely short. I think selecting for height is stupid. The only time I could maybe see why is my mom’s bestfriend because she is 6’4” and she ended up marrying a man who is taller than her by an inch or two. She’s obviously much tall…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 03:44 PM
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Women in today’s society value money and material items over raising their children and outsource childcare as if raising kids isn’t more important than some bullshit desk job. They aren’t willing to sacrifice some of the material things (new cars, big house, expensive clothes, newest phone, etc.) to stay home and watch their kids. I am a woman and I strongly believe children do better with a mother at home raising them instead of sending them to some daycare where they get 1/15th of the attenti…
/r/MensRights16/08/22 02:18 PM
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This article talks about how she was allegedly sexually assaulted before the crash. I think I was wrong when I said she had 1 previous DUI, and believe she had 2 (I could be wrong but can’t find an article on it). This article/video shows the father of the girl who died, Alexandra Linscott (15), speaking to the court before Paige was sentenced. She was sentenced with 40-50 years in prison, and won’t be eligible for parole for 20-25 years.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 02:11 PM
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I knew a woman who caused a fatal accident while driving drunk (killed a 15 year old learning to drive with her mom on the highway and her mom had to be life flighted), and she tried to say she was “sexually assaulted” before the accident. All I could think is “so what??? she still killed someone”. She did end up getting a pretty long sentence, thankfully, but I was amazed she would even try using that as a defense. Someone died because of her selfish actions and I’m sorry but sexual assault is …
/r/MensRights12/08/22 01:28 PM
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madinamerica.com is a good place to start
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 01:42 AM
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I would, I think tradesmen are incredibly attractive.
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:18 PM
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You think tradesmen don’t use their brains? I hope you realize construction and trades involve math. Do you think people who sit on the computer writing emails all day use their brains? Probably not much
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:17 PM
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If it helps, I’m 24F marrying my fiancé who is a self employed carpenter/small businesses owner. I find it incredibly attractive that he is a carpenter/tradesman, but I am not a professional or a career woman. We met and started dating while I was in college so it’s definitely possible, especially if the woman doesn’t have an elitist attitude about dating a man who didn’t go to college (with the rates of women graduates vs. men they better get used to that idea or they likely won’t marry). I’m p…
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:15 PM
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She had 24 years to divorce him and waits until he gets out? What a bitch. I guarantee she found someone else a long time ago and didn’t tell him until he was released.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/22 09:02 PM
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True, I guess it bothers me more that it’s becoming acceptable. Standards just keep getting lower.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/22 10:17 PM
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For the future, if the video doesn’t work on the post try clicking “streamable” (it works for most video sharing sites) next to the date/time it was posted. (hopefully that makes sense, it took me a long time to figure that out lol)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/22 09:11 PM
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I love this lol. I don’t understand women that insist on dating tall guys. I know one woman who is 6’2” and she married a man who is taller than her (I believe she dated men shorter than her though), but other than that I really don’t get it. I’m 5’1” and my fiancé is 5’8” or so and I really wouldn’t care if he was shorter than that. Also, being fat is always unattractive so I think it’s funny she acted surprised or offended by that. I’m tired of the normalization of being overweight/obese. Peop…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/22 09:07 PM
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That’s probably true lol. I just find it pointless and I really don’t feel like I look better with makeup. Everyone knows what I look like without it so it’s normal for me. I assume it stems from insecurity for women who won’t go out without it
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/22 04:46 PM
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Yeah I mean regardless of whether teen boys fantasize about, it’s wrong. He wasn’t condoning it or anything but he was saying that most boys would easily go along with it, which is proof of how wrong it is (imo) because the teacher has authority over the students.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 10:09 PM
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I had good friends who would put on makeup before going to the pool and even the gym. It annoyed me because they took forever to do it lol
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 05:56 PM
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I don’t blame you lol. I never wear makeup and I met my fiancé for the first time without any makeup. It was perfect for me because I don’t wear makeup very often and he loves me with and without it. Makeup products, nail polish, hair dye, etc. have a bunch of toxins and heavy metals in them and it’s honestly probably better to avoid wearing it if you can lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 05:54 PM
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Disgusting. My fiancé was telling me the other day that it’s every boy’s dream, and don’t get me wrong I know what he’s saying, BUT it’s just plain wrong. I’m glad the media is finally highlighting female sexual predators because women are usually the ones who work in childcare/education/etc.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 05:52 PM
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I know a lot of women that sit with their legs spread apart like men do. If the way other people sit bothers you that much maybe just stay at home? Also those chairs look uncomfortable and stupid. Nobody wants to sit on a hard flat surface. Normal chairs have some curvature on the seat for a reason
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/22 03:09 PM
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I could care less if men put the seat down after, i just flip it down with my foot because I’m not touching it with my hands lol
/r/MensRights09/06/22 09:22 PM
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Lol, right?! I don’t have any sympathy for women like that, and sadly they are everywhere these days.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/22 10:03 PM
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I totally agree. I was watching a podcast the other day where a lawyer said his adult son and his friends are supporting Amber and I was shocked. I’m a woman and I find her story and fake, forced emotions hard to believe. I don’t know how anyone could be rooting for her after all of the crazy shit she did. Women abusers are rarely called out on their abuse and sadly there aren’t very many resources for male victims of abuse. There are only one or two men’s domestic violence shelters in the entir…
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/22 02:56 PM
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Did you ever hear about this Mary Letourneau? She raped her 12 year old student, got pregnant with his child, and only served 6 months in jail (the first time). She was caught with him again shortly after, I’ll have to copy and paste it from wikipedia because its so disgusting and appalling that I don’t want to type it all. Long story short, this 12 year old boy was groomed and taken advantage of, they even got married for a while until divorcing in 2019… Mary Katherine Letourneau (née Schmitz; …
/r/MensRights07/04/22 03:55 PM
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It makes me think it’s much more common than we are led to believe (and I am a woman). Women are equally as capable of abuse as men are, and women are less likely to get in trouble for it. It’s pretty scary, and the comments encouraging and cheering it on are disgusting and hypocritical.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 03:49 PM
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I do think part of its cultural, but marriage used to be the norm (in the US). Children born to unmarried parents, in the US, are at a disadvantage compared to children of married parents. There is a lot of research to back that up. I am not passing judgement for your decision to remain unmarried, but the statistics definitely show that children benefit by being born in families where their biological parents are married prior to birth, in multiple ways. Even when cohabiting parents eventually m…
/r/MensRights05/04/22 12:25 AM
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I believe it, and I feel for your friends. I think men should have a say in when they want children. It is unfair for a woman to unilaterally make that choice are force it on a man. Every marriage in my fiancé’s immediate family (aside from ours) was due to accidental pregnancy. We are the first of his siblings to get married before having children, which is pretty crazy to me. I’ve always thought it was pretty low class to have children out of wedlock, and my immediate and extended family all e…
/r/MensRights04/04/22 02:51 PM
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Yeah I don’t currently take BC and haven’t for 2 years, so we’ve been using that method successfully. The big difference is that I discussed it with my fiancé (then boyfriend) well in advance and we were on the same page about it. I took it for the first 3 years we were together and would never think to “accidentally” tamper with it. In the 4.5 years we’ve dated we have seen 3 of his friends, AND his older brothers, girlfriends get knocked up after a few months of dating. They all proposed to th…
/r/MensRights03/04/22 11:58 PM
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As a woman I can tell you it’s definitely a thing. The women can simply play stupid or ignorant because nobody questions them, and I think some men want to believe it’s “accidental” because otherwise they would be resentful.
/r/MensRights03/04/22 06:26 PM
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Liposuction and/or lip injections probably lol. It’s crazy how many women are insecure enough to spend large sums of money to mutilate themselves. I don’t believe that plastic surgery will ever solve their insecurities or obsession with vanity, and imo it sets a bad example for their kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/22 03:37 AM
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As a woman, I think paternity tests should be done on every newborn. At the very least they could/should test the newborn’s blood type and compare with the parents. They outlawed “personal” paternity tests (court ordered paternity tests are still legal) in France because it was such a big problem. Men have a right to decide if they want to support a child that is not theirs. I know way too many men that dated women who accidentally got pregnant within a few months of dating. I’ve heard multiple …
/r/MensRights01/04/22 11:47 PM
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As a woman, I find it hilarious. I used to think college was the end all be all when I was in high school, but I eventually realized I was completely brainwashed (thank god). I saw some article recently that a woman was upset her husband wouldn’t pay her student loans for her… They should’ve thought of that before they signed the dotted line to borrow $10’s or $100’s of thousands of dollars for a useless degree. I met my fiancé while I was in college and he owns his own business as a carpenter (…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 12:10 AM
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To preface, I am a woman, but I make sure to bring up the topic in discussions where it’s relevant because so many people are ignorant of the problems. For example, I bring up the fact that there are hundreds of women’s shelters across the country and only 2 shelters in the entire US for men. If there is more I could do to help I would gladly do so. I don’t think either sex should automatically get the benefit of the doubt, and it seems like usually women do by default. I personally know women t…
/r/MensRights31/03/22 11:51 PM
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I think fat people are in a constant state of hunger to be honest lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 03:35 PM
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Yeah it’s not necessarily that government is the only one who can give loans but that government is the only institution that guarantees school loans for students who have minimal chances of success and will likely fail out. Private institutions would never invest in these students because it’s too risky. The government funding incentivizes taking out loans, potentially failing out of school (or even succeeding/graduating and not finding a job), and not being able to pay them back. Private lende…
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/22 08:21 PM
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Yes 100%, even as a woman if another woman started telling me these things at work of all places I’d be super weirded out and probably avoid that person… It kinda sounds like she may have a personality disorder (like borderline personality disorder) or something to be talking about those inappropriate topics at work. Either that or she’s super emotionally and socially immature.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 05:37 PM
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I agree 100% and sadly it’s everywhere around us. I’ve had conversations with men who seem to always defend women over men and that really irks me. Women are not infallible, and I wish we could stop treating them like they are. Frankly, I find it impossible to garner even an ounce of sympathy or respect for the women who end up in bad situations as a direct consequence of their poor decisions. Especially when they find a way to somehow blame their *own** poor choices*, or the outcomes of those p…
/r/MensRights11/11/21 02:35 AM
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Ehh I’m a woman and I have never been offended by the stuff they wrote because a large portion of it was true, or at least true of their personal experiences with women. Women have multiple subs literally bitching about men saying reprehensible things and making sweeping generalizations about them. That is a blatant double standard. Women saw what the MGTOW men wrote and got offended because what they wrote was TRUE, and if it wasn’t true why would the women get so offended? There are so many wo…
/r/MensRights10/11/21 05:39 PM
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To be fair, myself and my 2 sisters had 2 older neighbor boys that babysat us growing up and they were the best and nicest babysitters we EVER had! This was in the early 2000’s, not sure if it would be “allowed” today
/r/MensRights05/11/21 03:26 PM
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2x chromosomes i think
/r/MensRights05/11/21 03:14 PM
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Good. Now if only we could convince companies and institutions to hire and recruit on merit instead of using their discriminatory qualifications to fulfill their diversity quotas. We should make a law requiring companies and institutions to disclose, to all parties, when a candidate or applicant was hired or admitted due to affirmative action or based on their race or sex.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 12:25 AM
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As a woman, I can say the toilet seats are ALWAYS up in the morning after someone cleans, it’s totally normal. That’s usually a signal they are clean….. How dumb of her to accuse you of that. Please don’t feel guilty, she sounds like a total psycho
/r/MensRights28/10/21 03:19 PM
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Not only cosmetics, but now women my age (24f) are getting plastic surgeries and fillers or botox injections. I personally think people who get plastic surgery purely for the sake of vanity are vapid and insecure, regardless of what they say. And they always deny that because they’re trying to convince themselves they’re happier looking like clowns. These women will never be happy or satisfied with anything or anyone because they don’t like themselves. There’s a whole private sub dedicated to wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 05:41 PM
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As a woman, I think it’s a good general rule for men not to date women that weigh more than them. Women tend to gain weight as they get older and starting out overweight/obese is not really a good sign (although it’s getting hard to find women who aren’t overweight these days). Plus why would a man intentionally seek out an overweight/obese woman to have his children over a woman who maintains a healthy weight? There’s no logical reason for it. Most overweight/obese women tip the scales in the w…
/r/MensRights22/10/21 01:40 PM
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I’ve been saying it forever but nobody wants to listen to me lol. Women are deceptive and conniving when they have something to gain. My fiancé’s brother proposed to his pregnant single mom gf, of less than a year, and she made him REDO the proposal because the first proposal wasn’t good enough for her. Her own dad attempted to warn my fiancé’s brother of the impending shit storm, “are you sure you want to marry her? she’s a real piece of work”. At this point it’s getting harder to have sympathy…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 01:44 AM
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Wow, I feel really bad for that guy whoever he is. At 38 years old she’s been having her period for over 20 years and she claims she didn’t know? I’m 24 and I know better than that. Women play dumb when it’s convenient for them. It’s gross and extremely disingenuous. They are ruining men’s lives for their impulsive and selfish desires, and they’ll still blame the man when it doesn’t work out… Like the whole “oh my antibiotics must’ve cancelled out my birth control”. Bullshit. If you look it up t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 01:33 AM
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Lol I know it’s obvious to us but whenever I bring it up in conversations with men in real life they find ways to deflect. I brought it up in a conversation with my mom’s husband, who has an adult son with kids by 2 different women out of wedlock, and he said “it’s the men’s fault for running out!”. My mom’s husband is a great guy but the fact that he defends the various trashy women intentionally getting knocked up, over his OWN son bothers me. They idealize women and can’t see how a woman coul…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 01:22 AM
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(Repost with link in the correct format) Stumbled across this article today and it reiterates what I’ve been trying to warn the men in my life about. It’s not only narcissistic women who do this, any woman is capable of it. I’ve seen this played out over and over and over, man finds nice woman, gets sex, she gets knocked up, he never saw it coming and now he is trapped, for 18 years (19 in my state!). I’ve seen this happen way too many times to have respect for the women who do it. 99% of accide…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 11:08 PM
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Good point, I never really thought about it like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 11:00 PM
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They sell fake, customizable (name/date/whatever else) ultrasounds on amazon. I showed my fiancé that the ad popped up when I was looking for thank you cards, he was just as appalled as I was.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 09:15 PM
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That makes me a little sad especially if those men originally wanted kids and were scared away by the actions of so many selfish women. But at the same time I can’t blame them for protecting themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 09:11 PM
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There ya go, perfect example of the fucked up shit they’ll do. I’ll bet she lied to him and she broke up with the first guy because he didn’t want to have a baby, at least not with her. These miracles don’t just happen, and there is NO reason to assume a woman in her early 30’s is not able to get pregnant. The mention of IVF was the first red flag tbh. Did you say anything to him about it? Men usually dismiss me when I say that pregnancies are not accidental because they are in major denial and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 09:06 PM
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I hope that the system eventually turns on women as they start out-earning men and having to pay child support, so they can get a taste of their own vindictive medicine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 08:22 PM
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I’m glad your mom knows what’s up! She sounds like a cool woman. Seems like most women turn a blind eye instead of calling out the bullshit these days. Women use these DUMB excuses for why their birth control failed, and I will tell you right now, they’re lying. For example, the “antibiotic” excuse used in the story, and all too often in real life, the only antibiotic that makes birth control ineffective is rifampin, a drug used to treat TUBERCULOSIS. How many women do I know that have had tuber…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 08:14 PM
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Plus size is basically synonymous with obese at this point. Someone got offended that I stated my weight in a reddit comment and asked why I was bragging about it for simply stating my height/weight to add context to the conversation
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 07:54 PM
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Stumbled across this article today and it reiterates what I’ve been trying to warn the men in my life about. It’s not only narcissistic women who do this, any woman is capable of it. I’ve seen this played out over and over and over, man finds nice woman, gets sex, she gets knocked up, he never saw it coming and now he is trapped, for 18 years (19 in my state!). I’ve seen this happen way too many times to have respect for the women who do it. 99% of accidental pregnancies are not accidental on th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 07:39 PM
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I hate to say it but I don’t and can’t feel bad for them because they did it to themselves. They know exactly what they’re doing and they act like predators to get knocked up by random men. I think it’s disgusting, deceptive, and negligent. They’re never held accountable for their own poor choices because they blame the man, despite the inconvenient fact that women are the gatekeepers of sex. Being a woman myself, I’ve seen women lie about this shit endlessly, and I’ve even read studies about wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 08:56 PM
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Until she gets ”accidentally” pregnant, on purpose, to trap you…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 01:11 PM
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Sex with a single mom always has consequences. I know way too many men who have been trapped by women with one or multiple kids by simply getting knocked up as soon as the relationship started. They have to trap men with pregnancy because they don’t know any other way to get a man to stay. The single moms are the desperate ones, hence all the baby trapping.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 01:08 PM
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Hopefully she has a plan for a job after her stripping days are over lol. Why would any man want to date a sex worker? Sex work is gross and it’s no surprise that she’s single at 34
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 01:02 PM
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She looks like a meth head
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 03:53 AM
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Still risky to fool around with attractive single moms cause they all manage to somehow ”accidentally” get knocked up, a second or third or fourth time, by their new partners before ever building a solid relationship. And yet they wonder why their relationships don’t work out long-term…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 03:23 PM
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Yes that’s true but kids don’t take 20 years to raise and a woman could easily find a part time job to stay busy and make extra income when the kids are in school. Everyone has to start somewhere, but it would probably be ideal for those women to consider working before becoming a SAHM to give them at least some job experience. I could see someone being a SAHM for 20+ years if they have a child with cognitive disabilities or something similar, but most kids don’t need to live at home for 20 year…
/r/MensRights25/08/21 05:57 PM
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It makes me mad that women do this without any remorse for the man. I’d say another contributing factor is that they are celebrated and congratulated regardless of the circumstances surrounding the pregnancy. This is why I will not have any children until my boyfriend and I BOTH agree on it, and within a marriage because I’m not trashy. I say it all the time, but women hold all the cards from the moment they get pregnant, and it’s an easy way for women to manipulate or coerce men into things the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 06:40 PM
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I’m so tired of the delusional women saying that any and all criticism of other women is sexist or misogynistic, yet they insult and disparage men everyday. If they want “equality of the sexes” then they should be fine with people criticizing men and women equally. Most of these psychotic women will even go as far to insult me, a woman, for having different beliefs and accurate criticisms of women. Someone called me a “pick-me” on one of my comments on this sub the other day, kind of ironic that…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/21 10:47 PM
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I have no clue. I’ve always believed that everyone’s natural hair color looks best with their own features. It’s super expensive to dye your hair in a salon and maintain it. I have really long hair which would make it even more expensive. Most women with bleach blonde hair get their hair bleached and dyed (or toned),professionally, at the very least. It signals high-maintenance to me, kinda like acrylic nails (fake nails are disgusting). Other than not liking your natural hair color, I’m not sur…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/21 05:46 PM
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It’s funny how the worst parents always want to have the most kids. My bf’s brother knocked up his single mom girlfriend after dating a mere 4 months, and on our recent family vacation he said they both want 5 kids.... We were all thinking wtf, how will you ever afford that? They’re already mooching free full time childcare from my bf’s mom, when the baby is born. His mom has to quit her part time cleaning job to do so. They basically guilted her into it and would even put her on the spot asking…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/21 08:15 PM
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Uh, she chose to be a SAHM. Nobody needs to be a SAHM for 22 years unless they are literally avoiding work. Kids don’t take 22 years to raise. I say this as a woman. They should make sure they have their own job experience so they can use it after they are done being a SAHM, most likely when the kids are in school. There’s no reason for the woman not to work, at least part time, once all of the kids are in school.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 01:40 PM
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And they should get a job when the kids go to school regardless. My bf’s sister is a SAHM for 3 kids and she hasn’t worked any job since she was 21 (she’s now 31) yet she keeps going to college online to get degrees. I’m not sure how she’ll find a job with a degree without any job experience.... it will be interesting to see.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 01:34 PM
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I hate the idea of baby showers for unmarried women. It probably makes me sound like a bitch to some people, but it’s essentially celebrating and condoning their bad decisions. People will still give baby gifts, if they want to, but a shower implies you have to bring a gift as a guest. I’m conflicted on whether I should even go to baby shower for my bf’s brother’s pregnant single mom girlfriend, that bf’s brother guilted his sister into throwing for the attention whore pregnant gf. She already h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/21 09:21 PM
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I’m 23 and I’d say she looks quite a bit older than me. For the hair she probably dyes her hair herself. Boxed hair dye makes your hair all one color and makes it look dull and flat, that’s why I refuse to ever dye my hair lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/21 03:01 PM
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These women obviously have no shame if they’re willing to post pictures on a site for hookups while visibly pregnant. It’s disgusting and the opposite of conservative lol. Her poor parents will be stuck taking care of the baby. I’ve made it clear to my bf that if we have a daughter (after we’re married) and she gets knocked up out of wedlock or while living at home, I will tell her to move out and figure it out. If a woman is old enough to have unprotected sex she is old enough to live like an a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/21 02:50 PM
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Yikes lol... also, been single for many months? yet she is 6 months pregnant? I wonder how that works
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/21 12:11 AM
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Honestly it is, but it’s also sad to see it happen to the men. He’ll be expected to make the same sacrifices that he would for his own child, for a child that will never be his. It’s just crazy that anyone my age 23-24 would date a single parent at all... lol. I think the guys that are willing to go along with it are either gullible or desperate, or both.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 02:46 PM
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Maybe they should have thought about what kind of guys they would attract as never-married single moms...? Men that want kids deserve to start a family with a woman who hasn’t already done all that on her own. Men continue to date and marry single moms giving other single moms the idea they will find some cuck to marry and pay for their kids. My bf’s friend just called yesterday and the friend apparently just got married to a single mom of a 7 year old, he is only 23. Like wtf? A a stepdad at 23…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 01:44 PM
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Thank you, that’s very kind! I feel like we were lucky to meet at 18/19 because we’ve been able to grow and mature together. I know marriage isn’t exactly popular on this sub, but we do plan to get married eventually since we want kids, and we want to do things the right way lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 08:00 PM
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Can confirm, bf owns his own construction business and he never has time to cook. I cook for him, do tax prep, workers comp insurance audits, clean, help him on jobs, etc. It’s pretty much impossible to run a business and get everything else done, at least until the business is well established.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 09:03 PM
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I hate when people have their mouths open for anything other than talking or eating, it’s gross.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 08:56 PM
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Wow, that was crazy to read because that’s exactly what I see happening with women today, except today most women choose losers. I feel bad for the men who get trapped with a woman because she unilaterally decides to get pregnant. I’ve seen it happen way too many times, usually early on in the relationship, and I have a hard time believing their relationships are happy or fulfilling ones. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship or marriage built on lies and deception. Men deserve so much better …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 04:37 AM
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You don’t even get pregnant once on accident unless you’re a moron. lol They either chose to have unprotected sex or chose to not take their birth control as directed wile having unprotected sex. My bf’s older sister said she got pregnant the first time because she was switching birth control, but the first thing the doctor, and the birth control packages, say is that you are not protected until you’ve taken it for a month. They also clearly tell you to use a 2nd method of protection until you’v…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 02:04 AM
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I’m the same way with money and taking risks in general. I’m also not a big eater so going out feels like a waste of both time and money to me lol. I also agree on the rape stuff, regretting sex after the fact is not rape.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 01:56 AM
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I think it’s projection on their part since their egotistical attitudes repel men that would consider dating them if they weren’t so self-absorbed. I’d like to think there’s a chance they’ll learn from their mistakes one day, but they’ll probably just blame men instead unfortunately
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 08:49 PM
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This reminds me, when I first started dating my bf these miserable single bitches told me “you’re too attractive for him” and I was like WTF who says that?? I didn’t even know how to respond to them other than saying I am attracted to him so their opinions don’t matter. I wasn’t even good friends with these women so I’m not sure why they felt the need to share that opinion with me lol. To me they just sounded like vapid and conceited bitches who would treat a man like shit because they see him a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 05:35 PM
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It’s nice to have a place to be honest about these things without being called judgmental or shamed for calling it like I see it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 12:57 AM
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Lol at the fact they think they’ll make any real money selling nudes. They’re risking their entire reputation and any future career or romantic prospects for a few dollars. I doubt they even think about the implications it will have on their futures
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 09:16 PM
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I didn’t say that to hurt anyone’s feelings, I was just stating my experiences with liberal men in general. I’m a woman, so I don’t think my insecurity has anything to do with my own observations and experiences. It was rude of me to say all liberal men are unattractive, that was definitely an unfair generalization on my part. I’m sure there are some attractive and masculine liberal men. If you’d like some evidence I’d be happy to offer some below: My findings suggest that we should not think of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 07:22 PM
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I can’t believe women have the audacity to ask men they barely know for money. When I first started dating my boyfriend I was hesitant to let him pay for me/buy me food because it made me uncomfortable. I couldn’t imagine expecting money from anyone lol. They have no shame
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 03:36 PM
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Ironically, if she was self-employed with a legitimate business she wouldn’t have time to be on tinder. My bf owns his own construction business and it takes a lot of time and effort to keep up a business. When you own a business time is money lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 03:31 PM
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I 100% agree. I’m a woman and I’m so tired of lies, deception, and willful ignorance that women perpetuate everywhere. I’ve seen this situation play out too many times to stay silent about it. It is abusive, on the woman’s part, and they are doing it for control and stability. They are willing to lie and manipulate for their selfish desires because they don’t care about the implications it has on the man’s life, career, goals, or even trust in the woman/relationship. What’s really sad is that th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 11:08 PM
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I agree, many of them don’t have a conscience at all. I have a sneaking suspicion there is a positive correlation between IQ and conscience/morality, if only there was a way to quantify it. Anecdotally, this confirms my experiences that women who fool men into impregnating them do not feel any guilt or remorse whatsoever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 10:27 PM
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Yeah definitely. Her dad also moved out of his own house when he found out she was pregnant, again. We all live in Nebraska and he moved all the way to Ohio and now he is selling his house. I never mentioned the part where my bf’s brother proposed to her after she found out she was pregnant. She said yes the first time, but later changed her mind and said she wanted a better proposal story “to tell her friends”. He proposed again and she said yes, so she is obviously a piece of work just like he…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 09:24 PM
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First, telling her to be honest about how she fucked up birth control and why she didn’t tell you she wasn’t taking it according to the prescribed instructions. If she denies it, threaten to leave. What can she do about it? They’ll always make up an excuse and men shouldn’t just go along with it. One clue is that the women get excited or happy about the pregnancy because they planned for it to happen. I linked a study about unilateral pregnancy in one of my comments earlier and I’ll link it belo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 07:38 PM
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Oh trust me, I know. Whenever I ask how it happened they have some stupid excuse and I just roll my eyes. I feel bad for the guys who fall for that shit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 05:16 PM
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Yeah that’s probably true but legally an 18 year old is an adult. My mom always told me “if you’re old enough to have sex you’re old enough to face the consequences” and that’s what I will tell my kids when I have them down the road. A lot of young women will get pregnant and depend on their family, but their family is only supporting their bad decisions. I believe they should be forced to figure it out on their own. Family values have been flushed down the toilet because women make bad decision…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 03:53 PM
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Single men deserve so much better. Don’t settle for a single mom cause I can guarantee she’ll find some way to get pregnant with your kid and then it’s game over. It’s never worth the risk
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 02:44 PM
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It’s a big risk to even mess with single moms. It’s already obvious they won’t go the adoption or abortion route, and they will find a way to manipulate you. My bf’s brother dated a single mom for 3 months and she got pregnant lmao and they’re both in their early 30’s. It’s funny seeing them act like immature teens when I’m 7 years younger than them. I’ve been with my bf 4 years, 2 of them not on birth control and I’m not pregnant. Their pregnancies are not accidental
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 02:40 PM
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Don’t feel sad for them, they chose this for themselves and for the men they were with. I feel sad for the kids that have to suffer due to their mom’s selfish choices. A lot of women unilaterally make the choice to get pregnant without telling the man and this is why I have no sympathy for them. Here is an interesting study on unilateral pregnancy indicators if anyone is interested
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 02:33 PM
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Someone should make a new sub with the letters in reverse order, WOTGM
/r/MensRights04/08/21 12:41 AM
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That’s crazy. I read some studies a while back on this phenomenon and it is a real thing. Here is one of the studies
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 11:43 PM
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My boyfriend’s mom got pregnant at 19 or 20 with my bf’s oldest (half) sister. His sister then got pregnant with her daughter at 20. Both of them got married to the fathers, but my bf’s mom later got divorced before marrying my boyfriend’s dad. Bf’s sister is still with the children’s father and they have 3 daughters now, so it will be interesting to see how it plays out. She just recently had a “second” accidental pregnancy which was her 3rd daughter. I really like them both as people, so that …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 11:36 PM
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I think it’s hilarious when women who had kids too young say “they’ll be out of the house in our 40s/50s” because their kids are more likely to end up in the same situation and will depend on their parents for support the same way they did. I kinda see it as karma for making poor decisions lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 11:28 PM
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I was going to say the same thing lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 11:19 PM
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Oh wow that’s crazy I honestly couldn’t imagine being married at 19! I’m 23 now and my bf and I plan to get married within the next year or so because we want kids while I’m still relatively young. Did you guys date for a long time before getting married?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 11:02 PM
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Lol it’s hilarious because my friend in college did the whole sugar babying thing and they definitely 100% expect sex, or they wouldn’t pay you & the money would not keep coming. Men that have the money to pay for sex will not put up with the bullshit, hence why they’re paying for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 10:59 PM
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Do you mind if I ask how old you were when you married?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 10:57 PM
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I see a lot of ghetto women (like the one pictured) driving super old luxury cars or SUVs, so I could see her driving an old ass lexus lol. My mom sold her old 2003 lexus GX a couple years ago for like $6-7k so it’s possible
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 10:50 PM
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If she wanted to show her abs she should try flexing instead of sucking her stomach in lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 10:45 PM
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What a whore, he should dump her. How embarrassing for him and his family! I hope he doesn’t take her back. I’m not sure how she would think it’s okay to marry someone without disclosing that, it’s deceptive and disgusting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 02:37 PM
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I stop believing the “accidental pregnancy” lie after the first one, and usually I’m suspicious of the first pregnancy too. A lot of women take the liberty to make unilateral reproductive decisions and they have no remorse for the men who get trapped in their selfish lies. I’ve seen women lie about their fertility “I can’t get pregnant”, or lie about birth control (flushing their pills down the toilet, which puts artificial hormones in our drinking water), or even the old “I was switching birth …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 03:53 PM
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I guess I’ll warn you since I’m a woman and I’ve seen it myself, but most chubby women get fat, eventually. So be careful. A lot of them will probably get fat after they go through pregnancy and won’t do anything to lose the weight or change their eating habits. I’ve seen “chubby” women with my height (5’1”) that get pregnant and gain 50-60+ lbs and they pretend to try and lose it by going to the gym but it never happens. I am 5’1” 102 lbs and I would be mortified if I got fat. Not only is it gr…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/07/21 01:50 PM
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They sure are predators and a lot of them will use pregnancy to tie a guy down, those types of women are disgusting. I see a lot of posts on reddit with women saying they got pregnant in a new relationship (less than 12 months dating) and I can guarantee 100% of those pregnancies are intentional. They have no shame since they see other women doing the same thing and nobody calls them out on it. I’ve seen it in my own life too. My bf’s brother started dating a single mom.... within 3 months she w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 07:40 PM
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This is true! I went to college right out of high school and my bf graduated high school early to start his own construction business. I have a lot of respect for him because he’s always known exactly what he’s wanted to do and he is really good at what he does. He is the one who encouraged me to drop out of college because I hated it and I’ve never been happier to be honest. I hated college and only went to make my parents happy lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 04:29 PM
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Because liberal men are unattractive and usually too feminine lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 03:56 PM
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Lol I know you’re joking but a long face is a sign of chronic mouth breathing which is super unattractive to me. I can’t stand mouth breathers
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 03:03 PM
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I mean that’s true and she is definitely someone that loves attention
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 02:27 AM
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That’s a good point! It’s sad to see good people fall into that. Sorry to hear about your friend, it’s tough when you realize you’ve outgrown a good friendship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 04:27 PM
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Not 100% sure to be honest, but I would guess they come from majorly dysfunctional homes/families/childhoods, or just plain bad decisions. One of my bestfriends in college started “sugar babying” sophomore year, and while I stayed friends with her, I openly teased her that it is prostitution. I feel sad for her because she is a truly fun, highly intelligent individual, and a great friend that deserves much better than that. I’m honestly not sure why she does it when she has a bachelor’s of scien…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 03:44 PM
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I agree. The smile immediately disappeared when she read the papers, seemed genuine to me. She thought she’d get away with it forever
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 01:21 PM
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This makes me laugh cause I know a girl I was best friends with in kindergarten through 3rd grade that became a stripper after high school and then got knocked up by her bf (who already had a kid with his ex gf). Now she is raising her daughter, as an “ex stripper”. That poor kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 01:15 PM
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Thank you so much!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 01:11 PM
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Probably her, she seems crazy. She throws temper tantrums like a child (not in front of us but we hear about it). For example, after they announced the pregnancy, 2 months into their relationship, she cried after because she isn’t married yet, despite the fact that she wasn’t married when her first child was born either.... My bf’s brother still treats her like she walks on water lol. If she ever leaves and divorces or dumps him, he will provide have to pay support for both kids because her ex/b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 04:54 PM
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Worst part of it all, is that my bf’s brother was working as a plumbing apprentice and going to school for it, but stopped going to school when he started dating her. They’re going to struggle with money for a long time lol he could’ve made good money as a plumber so I was disappointed to hear that. On vacation last week he said they want 5 kids... Pretty much all of us chuckled at that, knowing how weird they are about money, and knowing that they can’t even afford childcare for the 1 they are …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 10:55 PM
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Thank you! lol They recently got engaged for the second time, apparently the second time was good enough for her. I could honestly care less if they got married before us but I know they’ll expect my boyfriend’s parents to help out financially (despite them being in their 30’s and despite the fact that his parents promised to help pay for our wedding, I never asked or assumed they would, they just offered). Not only are they expecting help with the wedding but they expect my boyfriend’s mom to q…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 06:25 PM
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I completely agree. It’s unfortunate that women will actively shame women, and men, that dare to criticize other women for their poor choices. Maybe they shouldn’t have made those choices if they didn’t want to be judged for it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 06:08 PM
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I personally don’t think single, unmarried women should have baby showers at all. Why should people openly support/celebrate their horrible decisions? That just shows other women that it’s perfectly acceptable to do when it’s obviously not. I’m still trying to find a way to get out of going to the 2nd baby shower (she already has a 5 yo, with a different guy) for my bf’s brother’s pregnant gf. It’s against all traditional etiquette to throw a baby shower for the second child, it’s literally aski…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 04:45 PM
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That’s crazy, I’m 23 with 0 kids I couldn’t imagine having 3 kids at my age. Do you all have the same dad?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 08:01 PM
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I don’t know many intelligent women that are clueless to how birth control works, it’s always the dumb ones. I also don’t know many intelligent women with values that would actually have a baby out of wedlock because they see the implications. I know at least 3 women who have barely worked a day in their lives because they “accidentally got pregnant” and tied their men down. Then they’ll naturally have another Oops right when the last kid is old enough to go to school because they know they’d ha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:57 PM
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Exactly. It makes the women who do this sound dumb, most likely because they are dumb. They couldn’t find a man who wanted a future with them, so they decide to trap some unsuspecting fool. I’m happy to hear that other people see through their lies! I’ve seen so many men trapped by women that selfishly, and unilaterally, make the decision to get knocked up. It’s extremely selfish and pathetic that they have to trap a man in order to keep him, and sometimes, when that doesn’t even work out for th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 03:14 PM
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I totally agree. And they always have some sketchy story about “switching pills” or “taking antibiotics”. The funny part about that excuse is that only one antibiotic, rifampin, is proven to lower the effectiveness of birth control and it’s only prescribed to treat tuberculosis lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 03:37 AM
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Either that or she ”accidentally” gets knocked up with your kid and you have to support 3 more people. I say this because this is exactly what happened to my boyfriend’s older brother lol I predicted it the first time I met her and my suspicions, of her getting knocked up, were quickly confirmed within 1 month of meeting the girl. They had only been dating for 3-4 months. My bf and I have been together 4 years and never had pregnancy scare because we both agreed, no kids before marriage. I don’t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 01:22 AM
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We found out last night from my bf’s sister that she wants (and asked him) him to to “re-propose” because she wants a “good” story to tell her friends.... Her 4 yo kid helped him propose the first time so I’m not sure how that wasn’t good enough for her. She sounds unstable lol at almost 30. Idk whether I should even feel bad for him since he did it to himself lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 01:30 PM
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That’s literally what I’ve been saying. Oh & there’s the part where she’s been “too tired” to help him with chores or hangout at night, so she’ll leave him a list of stuff to do. But she wasn’t too tired to go photograph her ex-baby daddy’s performance while pregnant lmao. (She works in a doctors office or something, definitely not a photographer, to add context) The worst part is that my bf’s brother stayed home to watch HER child while she went to photograph at baby daddy #1’s concert.... Gues…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 10:20 PM
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My bf’s older brother started dating a single mom last year, she (predictably) got knocked up within 4 months of dating. He proposed to her after finding out she was pregnant, she said yes & then changed her mind. Now he’s going to propose a second time because apparently she’s been asking him to wear the ring at night? Like wtf lol. Definitely avoid them completely or they’ll trap you with no shame at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 04:18 PM
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I literally refused to let my, now, boyfriend of 4 years pay for my food when we first started dating lol. It’s so weird to me that people expect other people to pay when you’re first getting to know each other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 04:23 PM
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Wait til you hear about my bf’s brother’s girlfriend, single mom with a half mexican 4 year old (dad’s name is Yayoi, he does not pay child support). She got knocked up by my bf’s brother, within 3-4 months of dating, and now she wants a Catholic wedding lmfao. I’m not sure if the church will allow it but they did attend premarital counseling lol. So 2 kids out of wedlock and now she wants to be a Catholic
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 01:55 PM
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Not directly but they kind of imply it by calling me skinny or making weird comments that I should eat more lol. Compared to the “average” size/weight these days I probably look skinny but I’m a healthy weight for my height
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 04:58 AM
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What bothers me is that fat women are so normalized to the point that people think think that I am underweight at 5’1” and 100-105 lbs. Most of my bf’s friends are dating women that are overweight, and I don’t mean by just a few lbs. I think it’s super weird because we all know women do not tend to lose weight as they start having kids and aging, usually it’s just the opposite. The men all work doing construction and physical labor so it surprises me to see them with such girthy women. My bf has…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 04:14 PM
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100% chance she’s not funny because most women are not funny at all lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 01:38 PM
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That’s risky cause she will for sure get fat in the future I’ve never seen a thick woman get skinnier with time lol most of them get significantly fatter
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 01:29 PM
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Lol luckily her dad isn’t that dumb, yet, but he did move away to not have to deal with it. They’re living in her dad’s house and supposedly they’re paying him rent. I heard that she pissed her dad off by selling the things out of her sibling’s rooms in their family home. Honestly none of us have known this girl that long so we barely know anything about her family situation, etc. it’s all pretty weird to me lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 12:50 AM
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I know right! and they went through the counseling while she is pregnant. It will be an entertaining wedding for sure. It will be interesting to see how it plays out. He plans to propose in front of HIS entire family for god only knows what reason. Maybe just to piss me off, by making a big show of it, since he already proposed in February & they are well aware of our engagement plans? I presume this “public” proposal is to satisfy her desire to be the center of attention. Their announcement of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 08:16 PM
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Yep, it’s an excuse to get him to do the work she doesn’t want to. Oh and wait until you hear this, she wasn’t too tired to go and photograph her ex baby daddy’s band at a concert, when she was 4 months pregnant, and the father of her unborn child (my bf’s brother) watched her 4 year old at home. You cannot make this shit up.... I truly feel bad for him. Worst part is that my bf’s brother proposed to her already, she said yes & then changed her mind. My bf’s brother called my bf & asked if we ca…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 07:05 PM
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How can she take road trips with a kid?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:25 PM
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I think it’s more like 0.01% failure rate when used correctly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:23 PM
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These are facts. Women like to use the whole “birth control can fail” thing, but they ignore the fact that user error is the reason for failure. Birth control pills are 99.9% accurate when taken daily at the same time. They play dumb because they know their men would leave their crazy asses if they knew the truth. I roll my eyes whenever I hear that excuse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:18 PM
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And the worst part is that sometimes it does work for them, which is why they think it’s okay. For example, my bf’s older brother started dating a single mom, and just as I had predicted, she’s pregnant 3 months into their relationship. From what I hear she walks all over him while he does the chores & cares for her child because she’s “too tired” when it comes time to help out and goes to bed early, imagine that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:14 PM
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Your reply reminded me, my bf’s half brother knocked up some almost 30 year old single mom after dating 3-4 months. I heard from my bf’s sister that she has been “too tired” to do any chores because of “pregnancy”, but she went to photograph her ex-baby daddy’s concert while the father of her unborn child watched her & baby daddy’s son. Is that NOT the most fucked up shit? Oh & worst part, this stupid ass guy called my bf to make sure he wasn’t proposing on the family vacation because he wants t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 04:21 PM
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I am 23, and I genuinely don’t understand what these women are so busy doing in their 20’s that they don’t have time to date before getting too old. Unless they are physicians or lawyers, it really doesn’t make sense to prioritize ONLY your career for 10 years. I read a forum about women dating over 30 last night and one woman was saying how it’s “easy” to date after 30. When someone asked “well, if it’s ‘so easy’ why are you still single?”, and they just gave lame excuses. Obviously it’s not so…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 04:57 PM
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If I were her brother’s fiancee I’d be annoyed that she wants to bring some random guy to their wedding. Will he be in the family wedding photos? And if she is a bridesmaid that will be super awkward for him to have to meet her family & possibly sit at a different table. That sounds like a nightmare. She should honestly just bring a friend if she NEEDS a date that bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 07:28 PM
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I’ve been with my boyfriend 4 years in August, we started dating when I was 19 almost 20, he is a year younger so he was 18 (almost 19) at the time. We are currently planning on getting engaged this year & have designed my engagement ring together. We’ve lived with roommates for a few years and we both agreed we should wait to get engaged until we have our own place. I couldn’t say for sure whether I’d qualify as a decent woman, because I have made my fair share of bad choices in life, but I kno…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 06:28 PM
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My only guess for a plausible explanation is that they have a low IQ
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 06:19 PM
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Your comment just reminded me, I know a woman who got knocked up 1-2 years ago, had the kid, and now she’s engaged to be married to a woman. It’s insane to me, I hope the kid has a good life though. No child deserves to suffer for their parents bad choices
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 04:04 PM
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I’m 23 and I think it’s crazy that I know multiple women, around my age, with multiple kids. One of them has 3 babies with 3 different dads (I live in the midwest lol). Sounds like a very sad life to me, I couldn’t even imagine having 3 kids right now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 04:02 PM
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I know it for a fact lol. Women that have been pregnant know exactly how it works & playing dumb won’t change that fact. It felt a little rude to not say congratulations, but why would i congratulate them for such a monumental fuck up and a complete lack of remorse for the child she already has?! Poor kid. In general I think it’s really weird for a 30-something couple to sit down their younger brother & his gf in their 20’s to announce an accidental pregnancy lol. Like congratulations on your la…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 03:48 PM
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You could be right lol. I’ll probably never know since I have little to no interest in getting to know her, we don’t really relate since I don’t have kids yet anyway. They sat my bf and I down one night to announce the pregnancy and I said absolutely nothing other than “wow”, my bf said congrats but I really didn’t feel the need to congratulate their irresponsibility lol. (though i did have a feeling she would rush marriage/pregnancy/or both) She seems to like drama so I’m just keeping my distan…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 12:46 PM
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I saw this exact same situation with my bf’s older brother and his new gf, or now fiancee. She is a single mom of a 4 year old & got knocked up within 6 months of dating my bf’s brother. He proposed a couple weeks after, with a ring that he financed. She got exactly what she wanted! My bf’s older sister told me that the brother’s girlfriend stopped taking her birth control & “didnt know it would happen so fast”. I call bullshit, considering she already has a 4 year old child. She got pregnant on…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 06:35 PM
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Did the ring come after the pregnancy? lol I usually assume that was her intention if that’s the way it plays out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 04:09 PM
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You are not wrong. Though I will say I’ve noticed that most of the women who take that route have quite a few things in common, and high intelligence is not one of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 09:00 PM
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His half brother knocked up his new gf of 6 months, a single mom with a 4 yo, and announced it to us recently. My bf and I both said, thank god his other brother can’t get pregnant lol They’re engaged now... and the real kicker is that she wants a CATHOLIC wedding lmao. It’s honestly just funny at this point
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 04:35 PM
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True. I think they deserve to feel like shit for being so deceptive and manipulative, even if most won’t give it a second thought.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 04:32 PM
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You’re 100% right and I can’t blame them for not trusting women. I don’t even trust most women
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 04:24 PM
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I once found this article on women who intentionally stop birth control without telling their partners. Of course the article is from 1998, because we could NEVER believe women to be so deceptive in 2021...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 02:51 PM
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I’ve said a few things around them that may make them think about it more. His sister said to me “just get pregnant”, I told her that I respect my bf too much to ever put him in that position, and that it would be shitty for him to be stuck with me only because of said child, as opposed to a relationship built on mutual respect and love. She got pregnant within 3 mos of dating her husband, and they are married with 3 kids. 3rd was also accidental, somehow. idk, i dont care enough to ask a 32 yo …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 02:40 PM
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I’m trustworthy with it because I want to be married before having kids, and my bf is on the same page. His whole family (aside from his gay brother) have done the whole pregnancy before marriage thing, which is not for me. I dont want a man to marry me out of obligation because I was pregnant, how embarrassing would that be? lol I wonder if the women who do that ever look at it that way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 01:59 PM
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Don’t do it, she’ll accidentally forget her birth control & get knocked up by you. Never trust a woman with a kid...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 01:43 PM
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I do some general insurance restoration/construction work for my bf, usually anything that doesn’t require super heavy lifting, and it really is like that. The project managers spend like 10 minutes on the job & spend the rest of the haggling you about your invoices or asking when you’ll be done.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/21 04:09 PM
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It is definitely underweight for someone who is 5’6”. I am 5’1”, 102 lbs, and my BMI is 18.5-19 which is on the low end of healthy. I’m trying to gain a few lbs, but have a hard time eating enough to gain
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 03:57 PM
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I don’t think he would ever take it out on the kids, his comments were only ever made with adults around. He is a good guy, I just don’t think he was ready to settle down at 21-22.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 06:40 PM
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I know some men who stayed and are obviously resentful. For example, my bf’s half-sister got pregnant 3 months into dating her bf. They got married a couple years later & now have 3 kids. Her 3rd was also an “accident”. He occasionally makes comments like “yeah she got pregnant after 3 months, she’s a little slut” and “we barely got to know each other before we had a kid”, in front of her and the rest of the family. it’s a little awkward when he says those things but I really don’t think he’s jo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 05:51 PM
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As a woman, this 100%. “my birth control failed” = I didn’t take my birth control (and didn’t tell you) because I want a baby. I’ve seen women joke about this on forums, saying that woman should “accidentally get pregnant on purpose” when their husband or bf isn’t on board to have another child. Women love to deny “the accidentally on purpose” scheme & place blame on the birth control that is 99.9% effective, its only 91% effective when women conveniently “forget” to take their pills. They can t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 05:03 PM
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That’s smart to keep a distance. My boyfriends’s brother started dating a single mom 8 months ago, she’s now pregnant and they’re engaged lol. I called it, even though my bf doesn’t like me saying anything about it. They’ll be having a shotgun wedding at almost 30 years old lol We’ve been together 3.5 years (I’m 23 F, he’s 22M) and plan on getting engaged & married in the next year so we’ve been talking about it with our families. I predicted the brother’s gf would rush him into marriage, since …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 03:44 PM
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