kagayaki Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Men not being allowed to have dating standards And that's kind of my point. I'm sure lots of people would agree with that binary regardless of how accurate it is as a statistical claim. It's a useful rhetorical tactic.	/r/MensRights	23/04/21 08:54 AM
1	Men not being allowed to have dating standards I assume they are trying to apply those words in the same way that homophobia could argued to be applied. When you think about it, homophobia is probably more of an accusation about the inner workings of the so-called homophobe than an indictment of their actual opinion of homosexuality. You know how there's been some vocally anti-gay preachers over the years who eventually were caught having wild, gay sex, sometimes with boys or prostitutes? That proves that people who are vocally against the n…	/r/MensRights	23/04/21 12:12 AM
11	USA: George Washington U. tells ‘Girls Who Code’ student group it cannot discriminate based on sex \| The College Fix It's only brainwashing when the person making the accusation doesn't agree with the end result. It's kind of similar to the application of words like propaganda and conspiracy theory.	/r/MensRights	24/10/20 07:07 PM
1	(Serious) Do Women have more rights in the United States than men? .. circumcision. Gotcha. That has nothing to do with my question. I'm not even saying I necessarily agree with the religious motivations people have for things because I'm not religious myself. I just mean that just because someone's reasoning is questionable doesn't mean the position itself is one that ought to be discarded, although I'm also not saying that one should adopt positions unless there is a compelling argument for it either. There's also an interesting talk about how the plant based…	/r/MensRights	21/09/20 05:53 PM
2	(Serious) Do Women have more rights in the United States than men? What exactly are you arguing here? That because the most vocal opponents of abortion are religious (or even are against abortion for religious reasons), abortion is ethical / moral by default?	/r/MensRights	21/09/20 10:17 AM
13	Dear Women: your opinions have value and are welcomed here If I may ask, what exactly are you arguing for here? That we not criticize feminists or feminism? And to what end? Are you suggesting that the reputation of the MRM is because of people being broadly critical of feminism?	/r/MensRights	30/08/20 12:14 AM
1	I was banned for merely mentioning a right that men don't have while the subreddit is filled with women's need for "rights". Somehow we are "far right" and want "supremacy". .. but power that they value Who is "they" in this context? Feminists? Government generally? No argument there on either case I suppose.	/r/MensRights	28/12/19 03:17 PM
6	I was banned for merely mentioning a right that men don't have while the subreddit is filled with women's need for "rights". Somehow we are "far right" and want "supremacy". Also, just the introduction of male birth control in general. Of course, that's more of a technological issue than an issue of rights. I have no doubt that whatever company develops a male birth control pill with tolerable side effects would probably go down in history as one of the most profitable drug companies.	/r/MensRights	28/12/19 01:50 PM
7	I was banned for merely mentioning a right that men don't have while the subreddit is filled with women's need for "rights". Somehow we are "far right" and want "supremacy". "Reproductive rights" is a phrase borders on doublespeak IMO. Reproductive rights are essentially a euphemistic phrase for women having access to abortion, which is kind of the opposite of reproduction. Perhaps there are actually other things under the umbrella of "reproductive rights," but 10 times out of 10 (at least in my experience), when that phrase is used, they're arguing for abortion. Beyond that, the obvious link between a woman's right to choose whether or not to abort the child is tha…	/r/MensRights	28/12/19 01:40 PM
75	These double standards are in most TV shows nowadays Presumably less than 30% of them since women initiate ~70% of divorces.	/r/MensRights	14/04/18 12:16 AM
6	A common narrative I don't think /u/kellykebab's point was that the drug war hasn't disproportionately affected black males. His point is that the sentencing disparity is far worse when you compare men and women vs. black and white. I suppose the implication being that even if we assume both disparities are predominantly due to discrimination in whatever way you'd like to argue, you would get a bigger bang for your buck by focusing on the gender disparity rather than the racial disparity.	/r/MensRights	24/03/18 03:32 PM
2	Karen Straughan: if men are liberated, "you're left with a bunch of free agents, and everything will fall apart." For those who were asking for timestamps, I happened to be listening to Rantzerker 99 on HBR and the section in which he's referencing is about 30 minutes in (at least in their audio platform). The quote OP posted was basically in the context of someone saying they don't like Jordan Peterson due to him being a tradcon. (youtube link) I don't know if we can really say that she is in opposition to men's "liberation" based on the 3-4 minute clip of her talking about her sympathizing with people lik…	/r/MensRights	10/02/18 03:30 PM
16	What real feminism is It's not really a strawman as much as it's a no true scottsman fallacy. Feminism is an ideology, not an action. Western feminists are no less feminist than this lady, assuming she even identifies as one. As such, I have an issue with the framing of this meme. I've always thought the problem with feminism, especially in the context of the MRM, is that it's an incomplete, subjective, simplistic and non-falsifiable set of hypotheses that assumes, in the end, women are the only demographic about who…	/r/MensRights	28/01/18 04:31 PM
17	Results of a search on how many boys are circumcised. First result is about how it affects women...WTF? Given the circumstance, I could look past that gaffe if that was the only dumb thing he said. The guy just said "What about Aleppo" without any real context, and if they were talking about something different previously, I could certainly understand not remembering right off the significance of Aleppo. His tone policing about the phrase illegal immigrants during an interview was what made me realize I coudln't vote for Johnson.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 11:46 PM
6	Feminist answer my question without saying anything at all The when, where and how of these alleged trickle down benefits are anybody's guess. I think a much more fundamental question must be answered before we even get to the discussion of how dismantling patriarchy helps men. How can we ever know when patriarchy has been defeated? Patriarchy as a concept is unfalsifiable, so I have no idea how you can ever empirically say when patriarchy is no longer an issue.	/r/MensRights	19/09/17 11:46 PM
12	The Red Pill MRA and Feminists made totally different points, and I can't understand who is right, the truth has to be in the middle. Is that still her position? The fact she no longer identifies as a feminist makes me think she doesn't really believe the truth is in the middle anymore. The video diaries were shot, AFAIK, when she was still doing her interviews, so they were taken when she her brain was still processing that info. Intelligent or no -- I do give Cassie a fair amount of credit for what she wen…	/r/MensRights	29/05/17 01:37 PM
1	Makes my blood boil. This is what feminism looks like. I hear the "masturbation decreases your chance of colon cancer" quite often. Is that anything more than a correlation? Observational studies are really only good enough to make a hypothesis and quite often newspapers and magazines will publish these kinds of findings from one of these observational studies as though it closes the book on a given subject. That's why there's always a new cure and/or cause for cancer every week. That being said, NoFap is less about the masturbation and more about t…	/r/MensRights	20/05/17 11:42 PM
1	shoe0nhead AMA I don't think as many people are in on the joke (about feminism) as you think. ;)	/r/MensRights	13/08/16 02:43 AM
1	There's No Hiring Bias Against Women In Tech, They Just Suck At Interviews Right. It seems we're using the words more or less the same. I just wanted to make sure we weren't talking past each other. Is this just a gut feeling for you, or do you have something a little less anecdotal to base those assertions on? I'm willing to assume I'm not representative of the male gender, but I don't think that part of me is that unfounded in males. Internalizing a certain amount of criticism is necessary for improvement. Externalizing failure would mean that guy is never improving.…	/r/MensRights	04/07/16 11:36 PM
4	There's No Hiring Bias Against Women In Tech, They Just Suck At Interviews I'm not sure if I understand what you mean. Is feminism not the epitome of the externalization of failure? This very post is a study attempting to prove the external cause of why women are underrepresented in tech. That sounds like "externalizing failure" if I've ever heard it. Maybe I'm misunderstanding what you mean. Women do seem to be a bit more self critical, but I've never known (non-insecure) men to place the blame for their failures on others. Elliot Rogers is a good example of a man who…	/r/MensRights	04/07/16 09:11 PM
9	Just posting this to remind feminists visiting that we do not advocate the following. I'd say having the kid is the woman's "right," but I don't believe the father should be forced to support the child if he didn't want to have the kid in the first place. A financial abortion if you will. So in the circumstance where the man wants the kid but the woman does not, I would say the woman's right to choose overrides a man's desire for the kid. In the opposite situation, a man's unwillingness to support the child doesn't hinder the woman's right to choose to have the child. Woman shoul…	/r/MensRights	29/05/16 03:58 PM
7	Until now I never really believed that these people were real. After correcting a feminist's point, she replies that Evidence doesn't matter and calls the Moderators. MRA has been used as an insult for as long as I've known the term, which has only been for a couple years to be fair. It makes sense when you consider that men are thought to be "in power." It's like if a group was started up to fight for "white's rights." It just sounds sexist.. because reasons.	/r/MensRights	06/02/16 05:03 AM
9	Mary P. Koss thinks that it is "inappropriate" to consider men who have been raped by women as rape victims, because "their penetration experience is not similar to what women are reporting". She calls it "unwanted contact". How does society cater to men socially or politically?	/r/MensRights	27/12/15 09:26 PM
1	I feel like this guy is destroying the PUA scene with this disgusting behavior. I'm confused. That's Julien from Real Social Dynamics. "msdoom99" likely has nothing to do with him since he has his own youtube channels. As far as Julien's game, shrug. I don't even know the stuff in that video is the worst the guy has done. This is the guy who is pretty well known for calling women sluts and dogs. Taken out of context, I'm sure that sounds horrible. I'm not defending the guy, and it's not like the "PUA scene" is in particularly great standing with conventional society anyway.	/r/seduction	02/11/14 12:51 AM
2	Why Approaching is Like Mortal Kombat. Or as you talk to a girl, you next her because she's not fitting your criteria in a conversation, even though she might be ultra interested in you and attractive. Sounds like qualification.	/r/seduction	28/08/14 01:13 AM
7	Approach time That's about as close as you can get using English equivalents but saying it in its original language it wouldn't sound like under at all. Here's a video about Japanese maidcafes -- the point I've linked to the girl says "tsudere course." (both say tsundere a couple times after that initial one) Not very close to "under," in other words.	/r/seduction	10/04/14 09:51 PM
3	Is it uncommon for a guy to have never talked to a girl at a bar? That's actually a good point. Most people who go to those types of places, more often than not, go with friends and very rarely venture to meet people outside of their social circle. I know that's been my experience whenever I've gone to a bar or a club with anyone in my social circle -- we generally talk amongst ourselves and only meet people if someone from within our social circle happens to know that "outsider." Of course, that's also bearing in mind the fact that it's probably been a year s…	/r/seduction	27/10/13 06:44 PM
14	Is it uncommon for a guy to have never talked to a girl at a bar? I'm not really sure what the purpose of this question is. For what it's worth, I'm probably "worse" in every conceivable objective way than you in this area. 31 years old, virgin, never kissed, never been on a date, etc. I've also never really made my feelings known to a girl to whom I was attracted. I'm not a bad conversationalist, but I get totally lost when it comes to bringing emotion or sexuality into the conversation. I imagine the amount of people who have made it to their mid/late 20s wi…	/r/seduction	27/10/13 04:50 PM
1	How I bend reality to live each day to the fullest Movies can teach you things you will use in your 20's. Not all of them but some of them are worth your time. I suppose the tricky question is how can you really tell whether or not a movie is worth your time until you watch it? Do you only watch what other people tell you you "should" watch? I watch a fair amount of media, but most of it doesn't help me relate to people. I'm still "waiting" to meet someone in real life who doesn't balk at the fact the majority of music I listen to is in Japanese…	/r/seduction	15/10/13 11:14 PM
1	HBO: Hello Ladies I didn't really get a vibe of it being about self improvement.. kinda seems more like a show set up to poke fun at guys trying to "date out of their league." Still, looks like it could be funny and Stephen Merchant makes it worth watching regardless.	/r/seduction	28/09/13 02:16 AM
3	Nice guy/big brother syndrome help But in truth, all the girl ive ever "hit on" ended up seeing me as a big brother who they go to when they need brotherly advice. Dont get me wrong, i have asked them out on a coffee/lunch date before but it never goes in that "hey im interested in you" kinda way. How are you hitting on them? Obviously if you girls are seeing you as more of a "big brother" than a man you are not being clear with what you want. Even if you start off direct "hey you're cute" or whatever, if you don't continue to sh…	/r/seduction	29/06/13 02:56 PM
32	These are making the rounds today and many are saying they're exactly how all rape campaigns should be. What do YOU folks think? They should be offensive to women too. These people are assuming that a woman is too irresponsible, immature and childish to make her own decisions, especially when alcohol is involved.	/r/MensRights	14/06/13 10:48 PM
1	Hardcase Newbies NEED to read this. Blew my mind. "The Science of Loneliness and how isolation can ravage the brain & body" I'm not the grandparent, but I for one took that UCLA questionnaire and that in itself depressed me. I had "Often" more often than any other option (0 Nevers). "Extreme" loneliness. Many of the questions are things that go through my head verbatim quite frequently about my current social circle. I actually hang out with them semi-often, even excluding the ones I see every day since we work at the same place. I just don't feel I relate to them too much. Logically I know that it's mostly my fault …	/r/seduction	14/05/13 01:32 AM
2	False reports outpace sex assaults in the military. Isn't that how it's supposed to work? Isn't that what innocent until proven guilty means? It didn't happen unless the prosecution can prove it did happen.	/r/MensRights	13/05/13 09:36 PM
4	Realized my fantasies have been killing my drive to ACTUALLY achieve - I'm definitely not the only one Heh, this article was tailor made for me. I kinda realized the fantasies I have about myself and where I'll be in the next few years weren't really helping me any. I imagine myself being a fit, suave motherfucker in a club and I definitely feel the dopamine hit; I knew it wasn't a good thing how satisfied I felt after I'd imagine myself being in some exotic place (which for me is pretty much anywhere outside of the Bible Belt for me) or approaching some hot woman.. but I suppose I didn't know wh…	/r/seduction	04/05/13 01:35 PM
0	The Million Dollar Mouthpiece That's why you have to be unafraid of failure. You aren't going to be able to internalize what the "right" thing to say is without fucking up a lot previously. So yes, not shutting up might not help you with that single interaction, but making a fool of yourself probably helps a lot more in the long run than agonizing over whether or not you're saying the "right thing." Besides, I'm sure the intent behind those words will make a much bigger difference to their reaction to you instead of the word…	/r/seduction	04/05/13 12:28 AM
2	Is it better to "be myself" and act as I normally would, or to adopt a persona (ex c/f) in approaching? Ultimately this is something only you can decide for yourself. Neither your friends nor some random people on the Internet can decide what makes you authentic. Do you enjoy being extroverted before it tires you out? Are you sure you're not confusing introversion with shyness and/or social anxiety? I'm as introverted as the next guy; social situations where I'm not completely comfortable make me tired as hell. But I'm also very socially anxious -- I assume I know what people think of me and I ten…	/r/seduction	13/04/13 02:52 PM
2	Great guide on how to have interesting and engaging conversations with women It's definitely something that takes practice, but it becomes second nature after a while. I suppose I had heard of nouning about three years ago, but where I heard it, it was called keyboard backtracking. The idea was the same; listen for potential keywords in their statements and use it to thread the conversation. I don't remember it being particularly hard to pick up, but then I had been trying to "actively listen" instead of thinking about what i should say next around the same time too. You…	/r/seduction	03/01/13 07:33 AM
2	Great guide on how to have interesting and engaging conversations with women It's the first time I've heard it called that, but I do it all the time. Take tonight, there was a new girl that came to my skeptics group. I wasn't trying to "game" her but just to get to know her a bit. I didn't really talk directly to her initially but talked to the whole side of my table (there was probably around 12 people so I really only talked to about 5-6 at a time). She mentioned going to "clients" houses and being nervous about big dogs because of some personal experiences with a dog …	/r/seduction	03/01/13 05:03 AM
13	Great guide on how to have interesting and engaging conversations with women Just like pick up in general, there are many variables that are out of your control. She might be in a bad mood for some reason. No matter how "smooth" you are, you won't catch the interest of every person/set/girl you approach. It might also just be that you haven't really given her anything that she's interested in talking about. The guys at RSD talk about "plowing," where you basically "bombard" her with different topics until you find something she gives you something to ask for elaboration.…	/r/seduction	02/01/13 10:44 PM
1	Im sorry brothers, but im stepping down this has just become too much for me Women are definitely more communal than men, but that does not mean men are stronger or even necessarily independent. The suicide rate for men compared to women also speaks against men being "self healing." Society's idea of a man being a weakling if he asks for help from somebody else is one of the things that got me interested in the MRM in the first place. I've never been particularly social, so for sure I seem plenty independent.. but the truth is I just learned to cope without human interac…	/r/MensRights	25/12/12 12:45 AM
3	My Mother sent me this. I wouldn't mind riding around a nice golf course on a nice summer day, but I'll pass on actually playing golf.	/r/MensRights	22/12/12 01:45 AM
5	My Mother sent me this. check your privilege and because patriarchy.	/r/MensRights	22/12/12 01:44 AM
1	Jezebel: Fuck You Men's Rights Activists. I'm guessing War Against Boys by Christina Hoff-Summers. Looks like she gave a talk based on it.	/r/MensRights	14/12/12 06:21 AM
6	Jezebel: Fuck You Men's Rights Activists. Lying to a women in order to get her to sleep with you is manipulation. How can you be clear with your intentions and congruent with your intentions if you're lying? As I said, people can be manipulative with or without reading a book on how to have success with women. The very idea of creating an "abundance mentality" (an idea to have enough success with women to feel you have "options") with women might sound manipulative, but that's kinda stretching the meaning of the word. How is it manipula…	/r/MensRights	14/12/12 05:35 AM
2	Jezebel: Fuck You Men's Rights Activists. Ultimately, what someone does with the material they learn from the pickup community is up to them, and they may use it to "manipulate" women into sleeping with them. It is not an inherent part of pickup as it is taught now by most of the popular teachers I look at. In fact, most of the general principles of pickup as they are taught now run counter to trying to manipulate someone. If I had to boil down core ideas these guys feel is important to having success with women it'd be something like t…	/r/MensRights	14/12/12 05:12 AM
5	Jezebel: Fuck You Men's Rights Activists. PUA's are a bunch of assholes. For someone active in a subreddit/movement that's maligned for no reason, why are you doing the same to the pick up community? There are definitely assholes in the pickup community, but there are assholes in every community based in the Internet.	/r/MensRights	14/12/12 03:33 AM
13	was the jezebel f.u. piece a negotiation? UofT fiasco.. for context, this was the talk they were protesting and claiming was hate speech.	/r/MensRights	13/12/12 10:43 PM
12	I am 15 years old. Should I be reading these? All about Inner Game from the sidebar.	/r/seduction	08/12/12 05:42 PM
1	Just being a better man But how will I find it out by "shutting down"? Meditation is not "shutting down." Reading your original post, meditation is actually what you need, because it cultivates your ability to be present to the moment. The problem is that when you spend a fair amount of time by yourself, you start subconsciously identifying with your mind. Identifying with your mind, identifying with rationalizations that lead to AA. It happens on a small scale for me every day I go to work, because I spend quite a lot…	/r/seduction	08/12/12 03:53 PM
2	It seems the further I get into seduction, the worse I feel when there is a 'cold streak' The term he's describing, in essence, is outcome independence. A quick google search gave me this blog entry by David Wygant from a couple years ago. His actual bulletted points aren't all that great IMO, but he talks a little bit about why outcome independence is important in the intro paragraph. Stop caring outcome -> Entertain self Outcome dependence - From the other side Give the all about inner game sticky a read if you haven't already.	/r/seduction	06/12/12 06:01 AM
2	It seems the further I get into seduction, the worse I feel when there is a 'cold streak' Maybe I should look for a new hobby, or way to put in my time? It never hurts to try something new, however, I also think it's important to avoid the mindset of "some guy said I should get some hobbies so my game improves." You're totally missing the point if that's what you're getting from me. If your hobbies really only include video games, strength training, and reading.. yeah, it definitely sounds like you need more stuff to do. There's nothing wrong with playing video games even if I don't …	/r/seduction	06/12/12 05:34 AM
1	As a recovering nice guy, I thought I'd share the best pieces of advice I've learned throughout the last year or two. It worked both ways. You're a nice guy if you give thinking you'll get some kind of emotional reciprocation from it You're also a nice guy (well maybe not a nice guy but the same idea as a nice guy) if you actively avoid doing things for somebody thinking you'll get some kind of emotional reaction from the person. Essentially what not being a "nice guy" means in this context is that you don't act as expecting a certain reaction; you act merely because it was something you wanted. It's all about …	/r/seduction	22/11/12 06:38 PM
3	You're probably not a nice guy. I thought this was a pretty cool video on getting rid of a "pitiable me" attitude. I suppose it's because I'm one of those (recovering?) "nice guys," I don't believe this type of person is as much of a minority as you seem to think it is. It's not even people like me are "secretly scheming dicks," it's that because of that insecurity I believed at one point that all I had to offer is what I could do for other people. I implicitly extend that mentality to other people, thinking "if I do this for Sue, maybe she'll like me." That's the problem with the nice guy mentality; they tr…	/r/seduction	03/11/12 01:31 PM
1	Why nice guys and gals finish last in love There should be no expectations there and you should never be butt hurt if she doesn't reciprocate. But isn't there a two way street when you actually are in a relationship? This is kind of a hazy area for me, but I get a little nervous when people start using words like "expectations" and what friends/lovers "ought to" do when speaking generally. I don't know the specific circumstances of you and your ex's relationship, but I had a friendship that feels a lot like what you're talking about. Onl…	/r/seduction	03/11/12 12:10 PM
1	Tyler's The Game Is FUN AS HELL! On the other hand, i still can not associate my self with him. I will probably never be a true RDS believer but i am glad he improved. Why? Because of his history, or for some other reason?	/r/seduction	30/10/12 01:26 AM
3	Avoiding interview mode? You might try cold reading. Basically guess what you think her answer would to your question and turn it into a statement. Say if you were wondering what kind of job she has or whatever. You could tell her that she looks like a librarian or a nurse or whatever. It doesnt need to be a serious or realistic guess as long as you keep your playful tone.	/r/seduction	18/10/12 06:05 PM
3	20 Ways To Be More Interesting Hell, even if you're older, better late than never!	/r/seduction	15/10/12 11:46 PM
2	Lifestyle Guide (crosspost from /r/YouShouldKnow) Heh, I'm thirty and most of the stuff that's suggested to do early I've already done pretty much the opposite (mostly dealing with finances, and I've only recently gotten not-fat) on most of the list so far, if that makes you feel any better. ;) Kinda makes me feel sad if there's truth to the statement that we're the most energetic and creative at 22.. since all I really cared about back then was video games.	/r/seduction	15/10/12 11:39 PM
2	Hey fellow older guys (I'm 35). What did you do to improve your life in this area? I dunno if I qualify as an "older guy" (just turned 30 in January), but I don't really see how the basic concepts of seduction/PUA don't apply to older guys too. Expand your social circle by trying new things, especially new things that are more likely to involve females. If you have AA, work on that as well by, well, approaching. I really like the book the guy from postmasculine wrote called Models: Attract Women through Honesty. He concentrates on more on ways to "fix" our inner game issues ra…	/r/seduction	07/10/12 05:00 PM
2	Want to be instantly bolder? Stop watching porn. TLDR; not fapping is not a panacea. YMMV. I've experimented with nofap off and on for about five months or so. By experiment I mean that I consistently attempted to stay fap free for about 3 months, my longest streak being just under 40 days. For the past two months I've more or less let myself fap whenever I wanted to. Fwiw, my average lately is about once a day, although when I started fapping again I probably fapped 3-4 times a day. There's definitely a point that is "too much," and that poin…	/r/seduction	04/10/12 04:57 PM
14	20 Life-changing things I learned from Robert Glover's book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' Be aware of what lines you don't want crossed. If you notice someone crossing one of those lines, tell them they shouldn't do that for whatever reason. How you actually achieve it is up to you, but the main point is to avoid being a pushover. Setting boundaries (and enforcing those boundaries) is how you avoid being a pushover.	/r/seduction	30/09/12 04:41 PM
1	Has anyone bought Simple Pickup's project GO? I've been paying for it for the last 4 months or so. They do one episode a week which is usually around 10 to 20 minutes long. They just started their 5th month so I guess around 2-4 hours? It's not horrible for only $5/no, but you aren't missing much if you don't get it. Also bear in mind that you only get access to the videos released in the month you register and the subsequent months. You have to pay for any previous months you want access to.	/r/seduction	17/09/12 02:31 AM
2	“Women are people, not puzzle boxes.” Why is it still so hard for women to open up? Or if a man openly and very verbally wants to express that he is in fact looking for sex, why is it so hard? Why do people still need a probable deniability tactic when inviting/going to someone's place? It's human nature. People are hesitant to open up to others they don't know because they don't want to get hurt. Step into the proverbial newbie sedditor's mindset when he's just getting started with this kind of stuff. Maybe he's had a couple relati…	/r/seduction	16/09/12 05:21 PM
1	“Women are people, not puzzle boxes.” But the world still sees the male population as the better/stronger gender... When you combine third world countries and old people who think the 50s were the greatest era in history, I suppose you might be right that most people do believe that men are "better." You might also consider the "War on Women" happening in America might either be inherently sexist or at the very least it's a horribly misguided attempt to save lives they feel are more important than the mother's life. It's very possib…	/r/seduction	16/09/12 01:24 PM
1	"The Good Guy Myth" -- I'm curious: what does Seddit think of this article? I agree with the author though. Their bodies' are their own and at no point are we "entitled" to receive sex from them. Are you suggesting otherwise?.. that at some point because of something you do, you deserve sex from the woman? Honestly, fuck the guy complaining because he can't get a girl "because he's a nice guy." He feels there's some proverbial score card, and that score card says that the nice guy "deserves" sex more than the alcoholic. She's not saying the nice guy deserves sex. She's …	/r/seduction	13/09/12 11:16 PM
1	"The Good Guy Myth" -- I'm curious: what does Seddit think of this article? I don't really see this article as dating advice, but more a description of why being a nice guy and expecting something out of those good deeds is a losing proposition. Sure, it's great if you do something for someone and they give you appreciation.. but why the hell would anyone actually find somebody who bows to a girls' every whim interesting? Nobody deserves anything when it comes to sex or attraction. The Nice Guy doesn't deserve to be reciprocated by the girl giving him a blowjob for fixi…	/r/seduction	13/09/12 09:01 PM
2	Where’s your statement of intent? I dunno.. most fitness/weight loss subreddits I'm subscribed to talk about the benefits of females lifting weights in addition to simple weight loss. At the very least, they don't discourage females from lifting weights. Women can have the same "skinnyfat" issues that guys have if they don't have much lean body mass under their fat. It may not be quite as obvious on girls as it is on guys, but girls who build muscle in addition to losing weight look unbelievably better compared to those girls wh…	/r/seduction	12/09/12 08:33 AM
8	you guys rock.. i want to do this. But i'm at square zero right now. Stop making excuses and go out. Until you face your fear of rejection nothing will happen. It doesn't even frikken matter if it's something you would like to do, but of course it's a bonus that whatever you're going out to is something you already have an interest in. Maybe you'll find some new interests beyond video games when you go out? There's also meetup.com if you have no clue about the goings on of your city/town. Beyond that, you should also look at what you want to improve about yoursel…	/r/seduction	30/08/12 11:30 PM
3	I want to become a sex god. His advice still stands. There's much more information available for trying "to tag a piece of pussy" in the FAQ than asking us to spoon fed information to you.	/r/seduction	26/08/12 11:40 PM
1	Stop seeking her approval, and you will notice a drastic change in how women will relate to you. I think the way people act has less to do with genetics and more to do with the way one was raised and how they look at the world. There might be a small part of our personality that is genetic, but I'm pretty sure that the vast majority of "alpha male" characteristics can be learned. The fact natural game that goes beyond routines and gambits seems to work at all is proof enough of that fact.	/r/seduction	26/08/12 10:02 PM
13	Stop seeking her approval, and you will notice a drastic change in how women will relate to you. It's sad that a person must pretend that they do not care about the opinion of the one they are hoping to court, in order to obtain their favor. There's a difference between not caring about others and what this submission is suggesting. The key difference is this: we want people who care about us, but I don't think anyone wants to be wrapped up in somebody else's identity. Somebody who is visibly distraught because of a single missed date is a sure sign of somebody who has way too much invested…	/r/seduction	26/08/12 02:50 PM
6	What is your greatest fear that is preventing you from becoming who you want to be? It may be a cliche but "life is what happens when you're busy making plans." If nothing else, I definitely know that feel. I get stuck in my head a lot less than I used to, but it's still something that happens a little more than I'd like it to.	/r/seduction	17/08/12 09:04 PM
14	"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love & affection." - Buddha Some people go much beyond a "little Fap'n." I think NoFap is good for those kinds of people who have created almost a lifestyle out of masturbating in order to break those habits. It's very easy spend all day inside masturbating if you don't have express reasons for going outside when you get into those kinds of habits. I never made it to a 90 day streak (longest was 38 days), but it seems the habitual fapping I did before attempting to go cold turkey.. those habits are broken. I'm not "NoFappi…	/r/seduction	07/08/12 09:55 PM
1	How To Attract Girl Using Role Plays Social considering is a bitch isn't it!	/r/seduction	05/08/12 10:13 PM
8	10 Myths About Introverts \| Someone that me, and several other redditors can relate to... I'm always a little hesitant to "ra-ra go introverts!" when articles like this come up. Not only that, but it seems to be preaching to the choir to an extent with this being posted to a subreddit dedicated to people trying to get off the Internet more than anything else. If anything, it might be interesting to use this as a jump off point about how pick up affects introverts. To be honest, I haven't really started working on my "outer game" yet, but I suppose that's why I mostly lurk. I do agree…	/r/seduction	18/07/12 12:33 AM
2	Read List for Beginners v2 RSD stands for Real Social Dynamics. It's the company that put out Blueprint. If you saw the video for "Hardcase newbies" that was posted a day or two ago, that was also from RSD. From the founder (right?) of the company, actually.	/r/seduction	17/07/12 09:29 PM
5	RSD: Wake Up For Hardcase Newbies: What To Do If You're Depressed, Overly Passive, And Socially Weird How's that going for you? That's actually kinda hard to answer honestly. Only turned 30 about 6 months ago it didn't really happen that long ago. I could go on forever out my issues, but meh they aren't that interesting anyway. I suppose most of the reason I responded to the post was because he mentioned jacking off and video games, which were both basically the way I passed the time back in the day.. how I avoided life without getting bored. I did eventually get bored of video games once I star…	/r/seduction	14/07/12 09:26 PM
9	RSD: Wake Up For Hardcase Newbies: What To Do If You're Depressed, Overly Passive, And Socially Weird For what it's worth, I was one of those guys. Thing that sucks for me is that I didn't "wake up" until well after I turned 30. It's pretty easy look back on the last 30 years and be depressed about things, but like you said later.. stay positive, right?	/r/seduction	14/07/12 02:18 PM
6	RSD: Wake Up For Hardcase Newbies: What To Do If You're Depressed, Overly Passive, And Socially Weird Subscribe to the channel that the video is from if you enjoyed it. Tyler posts blogs and snippets pretty frequently. This is the first one I've seen strictly for hardcore newbies.. but most of the stuff I've seen from him is good.	/r/seduction	14/07/12 02:12 PM
3	For the (relatively) older men of Seddit: if you could do college over again, what would you do differently (regarding women)? Heh, in a similar vein -- go to technical school for Microcomputer Programming. I think there was about 3 girls in the whole two years I went to that school.	/r/seduction	13/07/12 12:36 AM
2	[LR] Self-improvement and development Yeah, that's what I gathered from it too. I feel like we're missing a few steps in between step 1.) join seddit, ... profit! Like was posted a few days ago, whether it's a FR or a LR, it's nice to point out things other sedditors can learn from your situation.. rather than it just being an excuse to say "see, look what I got."	/r/seduction	11/07/12 09:58 PM
5	These guys inspired me to stop giving a fuck again. That quote is very true, even if only technically. Still, I think you're putting words into his mouth he doesn't mean. For example, in that article I linked to you he wrote: Won’t that lead to complacency? If you are fulfilled by watching TV, then yes you will be a bum. You may be motivated by saving endangered animals from a burning rainforest or killing noobs in Modern Warfare. For most of us there will be something that brings excitement to our day and this should motivate us to perform that …	/r/seduction	01/07/12 09:21 PM
12	These guys inspired me to stop giving a fuck again. "Not giving a fuck" is not the same as being a selfish asshole. It's better phrased as not being attached to an outcome or something similar to that, but "not giving a fuck" packs a bigger punch than that I suppose. But no where in the actual bullet points does he say anything about not caring about things. Reading his other article about why you shouldn't give a fuck might shed some light on that. Hell, if the guy who wrote that site/blog truly didn't give a fuck, why would he have even written…	/r/seduction	01/07/12 08:34 PM
6	How to stay out of the "creep zone". So you're saying I should dress in black so I can more easily roundhouse kick her in the back of the head without her noticing?	/r/seduction	28/06/12 02:42 AM