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OFF TOPICkaitopet/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 09:59 PM
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Heavy drinking is a blue pill hobby. This is apparent in college especially, where everyone encourages one another to binge drink, just like the girls encourage one another to sleep around or tell one another it's okay to be fat. No one is happy and they can't figure out why, so they drink more and find more guys to sleep with and try even harder to accept their body instead of working out, encouraging their friends to do the same so they don't feel like fat alcoholic sluts. These things will ne…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 01:09 PM
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Welcome to RPW! I think you're doing the right thing by going into monk mode and focusing on yourself. My advice is that in order to not waste any time, you should try to always be improving at least one thing about yourself -- strive for better mental health, better physical health, a more feminine appearance, a more feminine, confident, and elegant way of holding yourself, etc. Focus on your career and especially on your passions. All these things will lead to more confidence, more happiness, …
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/17 02:41 PM
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Lol sorry! Well, respectfully, I definitely disagree with your exact words too.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 03:34 AM
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This was such a well thought out argument! :) My interpretation of the post was that a man is satisfied when his woman respects him immensely, and a woman is satisfied when her man loves her immensely (but OP told me my interpretation was wrong... still confused about what he meant). Initially I agreed with this idea, but after reading your comment, I think it'd be better to reword. As you said, men obviously want more than just respect, or else they'd just get their respect from other sources. …
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 12:43 AM
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I'm a little bit confused. So your main argument is that women can't love men and men can't respect women? While they may love and respect each other differently, I strongly believe that both genders are fully capable of both sentiments. Since you talked about how men need respect and women need love, and didn't mention visa versa, I assumed your main argument was this: A man is satisfied when his woman respects him immensely, while a woman is satisfied when her man loves her immensely. That is …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 11:12 PM
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I agree that men need respect (and women do not) and women need love (and men do not) in order to be satisfied in their relationships. But I disagree with the first sentence of this post -- I think men can still respect women and women can still love men. The ideal relationship is one where the man and the woman love AND respect each other. As a personal anecdote, I love my boyfriend in the sense that you described. It's very irrational, and if he treated me poorly or did something else to lose …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 08:23 PM
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I wasn't aware that N led to deep discussions and playfulness, but I believe it -- my boyfriend and I share N and we are the same way! He is my favorite person as well, by far. I'm in love with my best friend :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/17 05:59 AM
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Absolutely. I think my "daddy issues" led me to such a strong alpha boyfriend. I was also incredibly spoiled by my parents with no discipline whatsoever, so my life was heading in a very bad direction before my boyfriend found me and gave me the discipline and guidance I needed -- things my father could never provide.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 05:55 AM
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This probably won't provide the kind of insight you were hoping for, but my relationship with both of my parents is pretty bad. I talk to my mother but rarely to my father. She is not at all feminine and he is not at all masculine, and the only thing they've taught me about relationships is what NOT to do in a marriage. Though my mother is a champ when it comes to household duties. Most of what I know about femininity and relationships I've learned from my boyfriend or discovered on my own.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 01:36 AM
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Lol I'm not totally sure! My comment about people down-voting got down-voted haha! Some people think it's bs, but I'm guessing most people just think it isn't interesting enough or red pill enough for this sub :/ I thought the "off topic" flair would make it okay but I think some people disagree. Oh well I'm glad people commented :) I'm always excited to have conversations with red pilled women. I go to an extremely liberal school and don't know a single person but my boyfriend who isn't a femin…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 11:11 PM
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Interesting! I know nothing about personality tests, but I do know Myers-Briggs isn't complete bs because I couldn't have written a more accurate description of my boyfriend myself haha
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 10:46 PM
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Don't worry I'm pretty sure the people down-voting everything just don't like that we're talking about personality tests lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 10:37 PM
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I love what you said about being as passionate as the CEO of a company! I'm not surprised that an ENTJ woman can still be traditional and feminine, despite the fact that I described my boyfriend's ENTJ traits as alpha. I don't think ENTJ women necessarily show masculine traits, and I hope my post didn't come off that way :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 08:37 PM
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I asked this before but you didn't answer my question... why do want to know? Maybe if people understand your intentions for asking about the racial demographic it will diffuse some tension in this thread :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 11:18 PM
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I didn't give you a thumbs down... I'm just curious why you're asking
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 10:50 PM
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Just curious -- why are you asking? Are you non-white and finding it hard to relate to things on this sub?
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 10:47 PM
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You explained it very well! That sounds like so much fun, and so delicious. I don't think of myself as a particularly inventive person, but you've inspired me to consider more creative solutions to my problems, especially in two years when my boyfriend and I can finally be together (we're long distance now). Building something sounds like a great activity for two. :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 08:00 PM
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I laugh and discuss big ideas all the time with my boyfriend too! I love it. What do you mean by building new things together?
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 07:36 PM
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Oh yeah people who take things too far like that are the worst. I'd have a bad impression of personality tests too if I had to listen to someone talking like that.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:42 PM
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Yeah I found that mine was pretty accurate too. But I don't relate to the official name, The Counselor. Apparently INFJs often like to listen to other people's problems, read the person, and come up an original solution. While I definitely play the counselor role a lot in my friendships, it's only because my kindness and quietness make people think I want to listen to them and give them advice, and I care about saving face too much to tell them otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:36 PM
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Ooh yes I would like that trait too. My boyfriend can get worked up about things easily :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:31 PM
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Lol no one on this thread thinks this is science -- it's just a fun thing to do. I'd put it on the same level of taking a quiz to find out your Harry Potter house, only the Myers-Briggs test is a lot more in depth so it gives you more relatable results. No one thinks that everyone falls into one of these categories perfectly. I have no idea how you got from personality tests to gender fluidity lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:28 PM
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Yeah I definitely don't think of personality tests as rules to follow, and I know they can be far from accurate -- it just so happened that my boyfriend fit their descriptions perfectly, and I love that. Also, I agree that being introverted complements an extroverted man! My boyfriend inspires me to act more too, and I love doing everything I can to be supportive and not get in his way on his path to success :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 12:21 AM
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I totally agree! I think these personality tests won't tell you anything new, and they definitely aren't science. The reason I loved them so much is because they described my boyfriend with perfect accuracy and reminded me of so many of the things I love about him. The descriptions for my type weren't as accurate, and when I came across something that didn't sound like me I didn't read into it. I hope my post didn't give off the vibe that I believe everyone fits into one these categories perfect…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 12:09 AM
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My long distance boyfriend calls me pet names but isn't super affectionate very often (when we aren't together that is). He shows it when he's sleepy, when he's drunk, or when he's appreciative of something I did for him, but otherwise he likes to keep those feelings to himself. I'm glad he isn't overly affectionate, because it makes the times that he is affectionate -- like today -- so wonderful. Today is National Girlfriend Day and he's been sweet to me all day long. I'm crying in bed now beca…
/r/RedPillWives02/08/17 03:37 AM
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Don't worry about getting bulky! Lifting doesn't necessarily mean you'll get big muscles. You are in control of how your body changes. It all comes down to what and how much you eat. If you want your muscles to grow, you have to eat a lot of protein, and a lot of food in general (bulking in a nutshell). If you want your muscles to look more defined, you have to eat a lot less than you normally would (cutting in a nutshell). You don't have to worry about looking anything like the freaky, masculin…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/17 12:56 PM
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I'm not totally sure what you mean by that. Again, "alpha" isn't really used to describe women in red pill theory. But if you're referring to the example I gave of what OP could have meant instead -- not settling for men who will take advantage of you -- then the answer is definitely yes! You can do that and be submissive at the same time. In fact, to increase your value as a romantic partner, you SHOULD be submissive. Being submissive does not mean saying yes to sex. (That's called being a push…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 04:32 PM
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You're welcome! I noticed a lot of people on this thread are being mean to you just because you said you wanted to be alpha. This sub is all about helping each other improve ourselves and find happiness in our romantic relationships. I'm glad you posted here! Realizing you need to change is the first step towards finding a happy long term relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 03:07 PM
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To red pill folks, the term "alpha female" makes us think of a bitch. The best way to find happiness, commitment, and respect is to stop being bitchy. Maybe what you're thinking of when you say "alpha female" is someone who doesn't settle for men that will take advantage of you. In that case, red pill theory can help you! Embrace your femininity, don't be slutty, respect men, and become the best person you can be in every aspect on life. Instead of focusing on sex and dating, focus on improving …
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 02:51 PM
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