| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | HVW after my boyfriendDon’t forget, even though she looks good on paper she is not high value. The true test of being high value is having good character and integrity. By cheating and (most importantly) knowingly flirting with someone who is in a relationship she will never be high value. Remember that you can’t lose. If he cheats, he was never high value to begin with or never loved you in the first place. If he’s loyal then congrats. She on the other hand will always loses. Either she ends up with a cheater/emotio… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as Vagina Envy?Yes there is vagina envy. It’s very common for women/girls to be insecure of the color and shape of vaginas, due to standards in porn. You see these phrases like “I bet it’s pink” or “ew roast beef”, even when a majority of women do have discoloration or uneven labias down there. That’s why there is a rise in labiaplastys and bleaching of genitals. Just because it presents itself different doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. There’s also other things like hairlessness, bumps, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | N-Count: How high is too high and how low is too low? Furthermore, how does age factor in?Men with N-Counts above 5 are a turn off to me. 3 is pushing it. I suppose if he’s above 30 then <8 is somewhat okay. Men who have high body counts tend to have commitment issues and generally are unsuitable for LTR’s. I think this is something that should be talked about more, since N-Count seems to be focused on women. Obviously there are nuances and N-count doesn’t tell the entire story, but it can say a lot about a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Would you ever LTR a man with a lot of sexual partners?Absolutely not. This is something that applies to both genders IMO. Personally, 3+ bodies is pushing it with me. A man who has a high body count (10+) tends to be unable to maintain high quality LTR’s and pursues women as a game which instantly turns me off. I don’t know why this isn’t discussed more, men with many sexual partners tend to be shitty partners. They should be avoided at all costs / last resort for an LTR. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/21 08:13 PM |
| 26 | This makes me sad. Front page of Reddit too.Honestly the way she wrote it sounds like a man larping | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:16 AM |
| 15 | Cardi isn’t the best example of FDS, but this is straight facts.I think it’s hard to find someone else when you have that level of wealth / status. Plus it’s just hard starting over in general when you’ve been with someone so long and especially once you have kids. At least they are getting treated well and being majorly spoiled? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:04 PM |
| 44 | Cardi isn’t the best example of FDS, but this is straight facts.You’re such a good sister <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:37 PM |
| 9 | I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old.To be honest 99% of men won’t be porn free when you first meet them. But an HVM will stop watching porn for you once he finds out it makes you uncomfortable. Also once you tell a man about all the horrible things about porn such as sex trafficking, erectile dysfunction etc they should stop watching for their and your benefit. If he thinks porn is worth it after knowing the truth he was never a HVM in the first place. It’s certainly possible to find men who will stop once you explain the dangers … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:59 AM |
| 10 | Dumped Him For Suggesting That I Pay Rent to Temporarily Stay at His HouseProud of you!! It speaks volumes that he did not want to help you when you lost your job, and instead tried to profit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:02 PM |
| 2 | ‘What should I do?’ Really???This is so sad. Looking at her post history, she is only replying to comments that go “tell him how you feel and go to therapy”. She is putting her child in so much danger by staying with him, especially since it looks like he has abusive tendencies. I will never understand Pickmeishas... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 10:41 PM |
| 6 | Is dating even worth it?I had this mindset and I wasn’t even looking to be in a relationship, but then the right guy came along organically. Best advice is to focus on you and your growth, don’t bother wasting time on dating websites or whatever especially when you’re young. When you’re older, if you want a man that’d be the time to start looking proactively imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 11:08 PM |
| 8 | How on earth do you meet a porn-free man?Probably Christian circles. Also if you do meet a HVM and he’s not porn free, I think it’s possible to change their mind on the subject especially if they’re not addicted and only watch it casually. Start by telling him how bad porn is for him mentally and how abusive it is to women, if he’s a decent person that should get him to reconsider his views and try cutting it out of his life. If you don’t want to go through this, bring up how you’re anti-porn on first dates and weed out from there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:26 PM |
| 8 | What are some pills you've swallowed about dating?My cope with this is just to value the memories at the moment and never leave myself vulnerable. If I’m married, I will be sure that if I ever decide to leave it will be EASY for me. Such as being financially stable without him and having belongings that are in my name. I also think you should have a plan in case your husband or boyfriend does cheat on you / is a pedo / whatever. The amount of stories I’ve read have really left me jaded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:27 AM |
| 13 | What are some pills you've swallowed about dating?1) You can never fully trust a man. It doesn’t matter how well you think you know him! He can still cheat on you, turn out to be a pedo, etc. I’ve seen so many stories like this and it’s so sad that you can be married to a man for 10+ years and not really know who he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:16 AM |
| 48 | The F*cking Audacity of Them to Use Me and My Sisters for Good PR. Duck them and Duck All Who See Me This Way!!ITS FAKE... we should really fact check ladies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:23 AM |
| 1 | We deserve more. In other news, the world is roundHAHA I LOVE IT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 05:15 PM |
| 6 | I was gonna post this on a throwaway acct, but IDC I'm crying and I just want to stop feeling painI think you should have a firm talk and tell him to respect your boundaries. If he’s defensive about it then just leave him. He seems HVM in other areas, although the age gap is something questionable. Honestly proceed with caution, which is something you should do in all relationships honestly. My best advice is listen to your gut, because we’ll never know the full story. Do you honestly feel like this man has your bests interests at heart and genuinely cares for you? If not RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 04:54 PM |
| 15 | I just learned what the red pill subreddit is about and idk how to processYes. I’ve lurked many Manosphere subs for years and their outreach is only growing. A lot of men will resonate with at least some parts of their message. The sad part is there is no (popular) sub for men that encourages morality, being a good husband, or self growth. The majority of men nowadays (especially younger) are hidden behind the surface of equality while actually being misogynistic. I hope FDS and other subs like it keep growing to educate other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 04:36 PM |
| -2 | Boyfriend said another girl was hot while he was drunk. Pass or no.I feel like the advice here is too harsh? Tell him how deeply disrespectful it is and to not do it again. If he’s like 98% HVM and makes a few mistakes I think you should give him a chance. If LVM behavior is consistent like weekly, DUMP. No one is perfect all the time. Probably was drunk and joined cuz didn’t want to ruin the fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 09:30 PM |
| 39 | Do you know a HVM who gave you some faith in men?Honestly I only know like one true one, but for the others they do treat their women decently. The best trait in HVM is honestly a kind big heart and strong good moral values. Everything else like intelligence, looks, money can be built up but I find it’s difficult to find genuinely kind and moral men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:03 AM |
| 4 | Boyfriend Watches Porn EverydayHoly frick. That’s so evil. Stuff like this really makes me lose faith in men... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 06:23 AM |
| 40 | Trigger warning! I happened upon a disturbing subred...Not only do they find such degrading dehumanizing acts hot... they think it’s justified “oh ho ho the things you do for money” I wouldn’t be surprised if some these girls were legitimately forced or blackmailed into doing these scenes... there are so many stories out there of where porn studios will hold a paycheck hostage if they speak up and straight up just take advantage. Funny how men never acknowledge that huh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 5 | We’re going out for Saturday night drinks and out of nowhere he says ‘my flat mate is really sexy’ I go back home. My friend says I overreacted and I should be coolerThe bar keeps getting lower... seriously gross. You dodged a bullet. Hope you find somewhere better to stay 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 12:42 AM |
| 14 | Forever girlfriend supports her LVM financially for years then is asked for a "break" so he can date her roommateThis is insanely disgusting... i feel so bad for her. It’s clear they’re both taking advantage of her trauma. Rotten people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:25 PM |
| 8 | Lesbian dating stategySame shit. She pays for dates. Filter ruthlessly. The thing FDS gets wrong is that men have to pay for dates because x,y,z. It’s about how I wanted to treated. If you like being chased after and spoiled then it doesn’t matter what sex the other person is... own it :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:37 AM |
| 5 | 14 years...This is clearly satire guys... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Is it not near impossible to find men who dont watch porn?Yes lmao. The closest I’ve come is one who only reads erotica, but almost all men will be consuming pornographic content. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Is my boyfriend porn sick?In the past did he have a porn addiction / sex addict? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 11:57 PM |
| 13 | Don't call me "princess"Queen in life. Princess in relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:58 PM |
| 53 | How to weed out LVMYes. The biggest red flag is when he doesn’t want to impress you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 09:28 AM |
| 5 | Boyfriend paying for me to impress another girl?Whatever you do don’t pay him back lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:22 AM |
| 5 | Is it selfish of me to break up with a guy who -after the subs standards, are perfect?Honestly if you still love him and you’re 100% he’s a HVM then I’d say keep the relationship but tell him that since you’re very busy you’ll have to spend less time with him which should give you more space. All the same, when you come across an opportunity that’s amazing for you but may put your relationship at risk (such as moving) choose yourself and hope that he makes the right sacrifice. You’ve been with him for 2 years and if he’s as perfect as you say then I don’t think it’s worth giving … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 07:56 PM |
| 34 | How do I justify having men pay for me?The truth of a matter is that when a man pays for you it largely signifies that he is willing to invest in you and that he genuinely likes you. Among other things it signifies that he is a gentleman and a romantic, which are traits I look for in a partner. If you don’t care about those things then him paying shouldn’t matter I suppose. I’m not entitled to him paying for my meal, but I do use it as a filter. If he doesn’t pay, to me that’s a huge red flag and suggests incompatibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Get him to say goodbye to pornI tried doing the same thing after reading all the information on this sub and explained the issues it causes such as ED and addiction. His solution was just to do it every other day and he said that was the absolute best he could do. Lmao 🤢. Hopefully your conversation goes better than mine does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 06:09 PM |
| 55 | The type of men who won't pay for dinnerMen not paying for a meal is a huge red flag. It literally means that he see’s you as not worth investing in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 04:52 AM |
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