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1	How do you pass the "I'm not that easy" shit test? Im so stumped and could not find anything online. This is a defensive action that she is using to avoid being viewed as a tramp. In the past, I think I said something like, "Why is that?" to put her defenses into the limelight. She would say "This is going too fast" or the very obvious "I don't want you to get the wrong idea." Then I would reply "But nobody's forcing you to do anything" then slowly back away. Classic freeze out technique. The key is to slowly back away so you would never get eaten into her "not-a-tramp" frame. If you pull out s…	/r/seduction	03/01/15 09:41 AM
1	10 Commandments of Pick up Experience taught me (and Ross Jeffries :D) that implied compliments work better. Instead of telling her "you smell good" you can say "I like girls who smell good." You can also communicate intent through intense kino and eye game.	/r/seduction	16/10/13 06:49 AM
1	Need advice: what does r/seddit advise men do to re-seduce their own wives? Specifically, if a man is in a relationship with a woman who has become depressed, what can he do to reawaken her passion and love of life? Before anything else, make sure her clinical depression is treated. No amount of good times can squash depression because of its I would highly suggest that you two take a trip together. A change of surrounding does wonders to burned out passions. Get her to involve with new activities like pottery, speed painting, hiking and other unique activities. Take her to a romantic date. A quiet restaurant, with some ambient music and empty spaces is ideal for a romantic date. Don't take her to a club or…	/r/seduction	15/10/13 06:10 AM
4	10 Commandments of Pick up I like number 6, and I hate that many guys fail this. Number 6 is your key out of the friendzone.	/r/seduction	15/10/13 05:52 AM
7	What are good examples of "playing hard to get" vs. no interest. Playing hard to get is simply doing the "push-pulls." No interest is simply not rewarding someone who's giving you attention. Push-pull is done by giving her challenge (being flirtatious this minute and being stone cold the next). Keep giving her crumbs. If you want to show you're not interested, you just brush her off completely. An example of Push-pull" Girl: Hey, you can read my palm right?" You: (take her hand, fondle with it for a while) Yeah.. (then let it go) But it would cost you $10 If …	/r/seduction	04/10/13 09:34 PM
11	Where to go from getting girls attention? But I do not know how to escalate it from here. I diagnosed something. It's this. but conversation wise and chemistry wise, idk. We have great convos in person and online. I just don't know where to take it from here. I get a feeling that you are a bit too friendly for her and not too sexual (or not at all) and that vibe has been going on for too long. Okay, the kino is there, her attention is there, that tight hug is locked on but still, friends do that too. I suggest that from the moment you s…	/r/seduction	01/08/13 07:12 AM
1	How to Use a Pivot? A friend told me this some time ago, bisexual girls are open to threesome if you bring a hotter girl on the mix. She will be jealous, and will be attracted to her at the same time. It's good if you do some research first, like what kind of girls she is into, what turns her on. And when you're both in the club, she will do the work for you if you point her to a really hot girl.	/r/seduction	29/03/13 05:06 AM
3	How to Use a Pivot? A pivot (wingwoman) is your sales man. She will bring up the positives that will make the buyer (your target) consider you. According to some theory, a woman is likely to be attracted to you if she is aware that other women are attracted to you too. That's the job of the pivot. She will play the "your ex" card or the "got a crush on you" card. Well in your case, I advise that you should not make her a pivot. She got feelings for you man, and it will only end up bad when she sees you approach som…	/r/seduction	28/03/13 05:53 PM
6	Pickup Locations Based on experience, these are the locations that guarantee women's receptiveness toward being picked up. Ranked by effectivity: clubs/bars speed dating events school events coffee places art galleries And Many More. See the pattern? The places are where people go outside of their usual social routine and there is a reason why will they go to that particular place. Of course, women are everywhere but I am just outlining the locations where people are open to communication and bonding. EDIT: Oh t…	/r/seduction	27/03/13 07:02 PM
1	"How to Be a Pickup Artist?" by Wayne Elise (Juggler) I don't need any more of them. I don't need RSD, Magic Bullets, Stylelife, Speed Seduction etc. For me, my pantheon is just enough to govern my philosophy.	/r/seduction	20/03/13 07:00 PM
3	What is your all time favorite infield video? Alex Coulson brah!	/r/seduction	20/03/13 05:26 PM
1	"How to Be a Pickup Artist?" by Wayne Elise (Juggler) Juggler is one of the gods in my Pantheon, along with Mystery, Gambler, David D and Carlos Xuma.	/r/seduction	20/03/13 05:25 PM
0	Text/Online game: Why do girls delay responses? This is the only acceptable answer.	/r/seduction	20/03/13 05:23 PM
7	Advice on keeping conversation playful rather than deep No. These topics are for superficial convos with anyone, the ones that will not induce heart rending soul searching talk. You can switch to deep topics if the situation warrants it.	/r/seduction	27/02/13 09:13 PM
13	Advice on keeping conversation playful rather than deep I read the thread and you don't know DHVs. I assume you're FNG. So here's a practical advice you can use later: Remember this statement I POP the CD in, eating some SUPERNATURAL FOODS while WATCHING the DRAMA Pop - talk about pop culture. Who's who in the circle of entertainment. Who's the new guy Kim Kardashian's banging? CD - music and stuff. You can talk about your own tastes of music and you can find out what's hers. Supernatural - the occult, fantasies, future-telling, spiritual stuff, yoga…	/r/seduction	27/02/13 06:37 PM
2	Should I be in 'The Game' if I only care about a specific girl? I feel you brotha, and I would normally say NO but some things are rather the exception of the rule. So I will be mushy here. You said you had spark, that chemistry. Usually girls will appreciate that chemistry if other people confirmed it. She will believe it if they said the two of you had spark. She will feel it for a long time if she had mutual feeling for you. I think the reason she is friendzoning you is because she thinks you're a player, not because you're a chump. Stay away from her. If…	/r/seduction	27/02/13 06:28 PM
2	How to transition from being able to befriend girls to being sexual with them? Agree. Claw her early on!	/r/seduction	16/11/12 05:43 AM
5	"Hot Girl Illusion": Saw a hot girl, approached, appeared less hot. This happen to anyone else? Congratulations. That conundrum is called the Law of Diminishing Returns. First time you saw her, you are like "Jesus Henry Christ she is gorgeous!" This is where your expectation of quality spikes up. Then you talk to her and notice the minor flaws which subtract to the overall expectation of your quality. Then you date, then you have sex, then....	/r/seduction	15/11/12 06:04 AM
-1	How to deal when she says she has a boyfriend? she: I have a boyfriend he: I have a Bic ballpen she: what? he: a cabinet. I thought we were discussing something irrelevant. she: My boyfriend is a Wall street guy who drives me in his red Porsche and dates me at Blah.. blah. rich kid blah blah. Amex does not max out blah blah. he: I am sorry to hear your problem she: I have a boyfriend he: Good. I have a boyfriend too.	/r/seduction	14/11/12 03:55 AM
3	Are any of you non-dancers? Do you still go to clubs to pick up girls? I am not a dancer, but my master Will Smith taught me the perfect moves. watch here Remember to look up when you are dancing alone. Look to the DJ, look to the lights but direct your eyes away from the girls.	/r/seduction	13/11/12 08:12 AM
2	Seddit, what do I do with those numbers that nothing ever came from it? Yeah you can do that, it will work. Mine just works fine. I never had an awkward moment with them because I can carry myself pretty well. The idea was that you just wanted their company to celebrate a long-lost icon or something. Nothing else. Just remember to present your cocky, romantic self who worships Peewee Herman.	/r/seduction	13/11/12 05:43 AM
2	Seddit, what do I do with those numbers that nothing ever came from it? I keep it for some hideous purposes like what CP_Cuddler does. Booty calls that can likely burn bridges. From my experience, previous flakes can turn into a nice drinking session if you build a party. Just name that party like "Peewee Herman Fan's Club Day" or "Charles Bronson Appreciation Week." Buy a bottle of cheap whiskey or a tequila. Then text 10 girls max (I recommend that you text all the flakers) and set it up. From my experience, 10 texts can yield two positives. You can delete all tho…	/r/seduction	12/11/12 06:30 AM
2	Girls write their info/numbers down at my job. Can I take advantage and not seem creepy? Man you're in a bad situation. First, I was always told that you don't shit where you eat. We don't game the customers. Secondly, if you take the girl's phone # and text them, they might report you to the Man and lose your job in the process. Third, you are texting their number with them knowing you just got it from the forms they signed. Girls don't like it. BUUUUUUT you asked "How would you guys do this in a confident/smooth way?" and I am a rulebeaker. I did game at work but on my colleagues …	/r/seduction	09/11/12 06:40 AM
1	Whats the protocol on hitting on girls in the street? Hi! I am sorry to bother you... I am on my way to browse Facebook... I noticed that you really have a nice comment and I will be punishing myself for a day at /r/spacedicks if I didn't get to introduce myself to you at least... =)	/r/seduction	08/11/12 07:53 AM
1	Best First-Date Convo Threads? Upvote for the additional E and N. Notice that the FORD is focused with the things that matters to her and the EN are the things that's going on around her, things that she may not care about. But you can always use the EN if you want some low-key topics just to lighten things up.	/r/seduction	06/11/12 08:09 AM
3	Whats the protocol on hitting on girls in the street? I am just following a formula but you guys can replace the "I'm sorry" with something in your mind. The trick is you just have to show that you are a courteous, alpha-nice gentleman because it's daytime and the usual assumption is that everybody is minding their own business. It will work with a smile, solid body language and eye contact. If you lean forward while saying "I'm sorry" then you're dead.	/r/seduction	06/11/12 07:53 AM
40	Whats the protocol on hitting on girls in the street? Uhhm? Adam Lyons anyone? He broke this down into this, then I applied it with golden results: "Hi! I am sorry to bother you... I am on my way to see my friends... I noticed that you really have a nice smile and I will be kicking myself for a day if I didn't get to introduce myself to you at least... I am Adam!" The ellipses meant pauses. Lyons broke it down and explained the choice of words. "Hi. I am sorry to bother you" - something about being courteous. Remember this is daytime gaming so girl…	/r/seduction	05/11/12 04:23 PM
9	Best First-Date Convo Threads? The FORD thread. (Family, Occupation, Recreation and Dreams). This thing can be recycled and can be used up to two hours using just this. A maximum of two EV's like strawberry fields game + the cube. Or a kokology + palm reading. Please just two. Any more than that might get you shrinkzoned haha. For some sexual seeding shit, try the "My friend did this... Oh never mind it's too gross.." technique. If she follows up like "come on tell me." then you're a go. It's from Carlos Xuma BTW.	/r/seduction	05/11/12 01:06 PM