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Not really. Like the angle of the tinder pics makes your face look a bit more angular than it really is but its close enough. I don't think its an issue, you should meet her.
/r/seduction30/05/19 01:20 PM
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Probably a defense mechanism you are using subconsciously to protect your ego and come to terms with being nervous and inexperienced. So you pretend to yourself you dont want sex. The most important thing I found that helped me was to come to terms with the fact that I am absolute garbage at social interactions with girls and sex, and that my first experiences are 100% gauranteed to be awkward and embarrasing. Once I accepted this, I dove in and things turned out much better than in my imaginati…
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:09 AM
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It can be better to be genuine and admit that, it can be sweet and exciting for the girl that she is making you nervous. Comes across much better than putting on an alpha male mask and pretending to be cool an confident when you are actually sweating on the inside. She will know you are nervous anyway, based on your energy, body language, tone of voice. You cannot hide it. By admitting it, you are releasing the tension on yourself and it can even make you stop being nervous. Thing is, you will l…
/r/seduction20/04/19 01:23 AM
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waiting to see if they escalate things There it is. YOU need to escalate things.
/r/seduction09/04/19 03:23 AM
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I feel like its damaging females because they are looking for love and they mistake hooking up for love, when in reality they are being taken advantage of. You have the misconception that all women are looking for love. Lots of women have fantasies about being fucked by a stranger and never seeing them again. Women love sex for the pleasure just as much as we do, they are not being taken advantage of by having sex lmao
/r/seduction08/04/19 03:08 AM
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Uh, go to the gym in the afternoon?
/r/seduction11/03/19 02:38 AM
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Question: How much success have you had overall? For me, when I was first starting I would self-sabotage and abort the situation when it actually worked and I could tell the girl was into me. I was basically scared of succeeding because I was very inexperienced and felt extremely nervous about escalating physically all the way to sex. So when a girl gave me strong IOI, I would get a nice boost of dopamine/adrenaline and feel happy, but I would avoid the situation because of the fear of what woul…
/r/seduction06/03/19 02:22 AM
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I look forward to the day when I can tell my mom or grandma about how I met my girlfriend by just randomly going up to her at the store/on the street/on a bus. It's not creepy its fucking dope.
/r/seduction06/03/19 02:14 AM
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It's hard when you meet a girl and she's sexy and you want to fuck her. That's why a lot of men have problems, they get nervous and lost for words because of the sexual implication. What this guy describes in the post is just treating her as a human, this is pretty much how you have a conversation with anyone but you don't think about it, it just happens subconsciously cause you're not analyzing the situation.
/r/seduction05/03/19 01:46 AM
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Just because they are rich, doesn't mean they don't have insecurities and sexual shame or hangups. Even if they could have sex with a bunch of beautiful women, what if they are too scared? I mean Zuckerberg seems like the most socially awkward, anxious, and nervous guy ever. He probably can't even hold a conversation with a beautiful woman, let alone relax enough to get his dick hard.
/r/seduction01/03/19 06:50 PM
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Thanks, will check those out.
/r/seduction01/03/19 08:24 AM
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Seen it, love that movie. That is exactly the type of thing I am looking for. I also enjoyed the seduction in another Woody Allen movie called Match Point between Scarlett Johansson's character and the male lead. Although I think he gets needy at a certain point, but their initial interactions are good.
/r/seduction01/03/19 07:28 AM
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Fuuuck, I would die.
/r/seduction27/02/19 05:14 AM
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Thanks, always good to hear input from women. Regarding point #3, often it is taught in seduction that breaking eye contact will show timidness or submissiveness on the part of the man, or just lack of interest. Thus, we are taught to stare until the woman breaks eye contact. What is a good middle ground for not staring too long, but also not looking like you are shy?
/r/seduction27/02/19 05:12 AM
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Happens to me too occasionally. Wouldn't mind so much except the sweat literally drips down my forehead sometimes...I think it's the general awakened state of nervousness that causes it.
/r/seduction28/12/18 12:31 AM
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This is some deep fucking shit man. Fucking saving this comment and reading it to myself in front of the mirror every morning from now on.
/r/seduction16/12/18 03:05 AM
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I eat the ass, I eat the pussy, I eat every motherfuckin' thang!
/r/seduction28/11/18 02:24 PM
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It's not being fake, it's learning a skill. Once you learn it, it is the real you. You just go threw a bit of an awkward phase first. But even then it's not fake because its the real you trying to change. To be more confident, get better at conversation, get better at reading body language, etc. It's a lifestyle change, it's not a mask you put on. It's more like taking off the social masks you have and putting yourself out there to experience things and thus change.
/r/seduction22/11/18 12:15 AM
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Exactly this. You will not come across as a perv, they are there for the same reason as you. If you keep it flirty and light, sexual topics are great. Obviously do not just give her the death stare and say "I want to fuck you". You gotta finesse it through innuendo. If she seems uncomfortable, that's when you dial it back to normal and maybe try again later. But if you don't escalate at all, that's when you get put in the friend zone.
/r/seduction19/11/18 03:39 AM
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Bruh you are sixteen. The fact that you are even on this forum means you are ahead of the game by fucking miles. I fucking wish with all my heart I could be 16 again (Im 22). You are fucking golden dude. Just ask her out and see what happens. Any experience is better than no experience. There's no way you can fuck up because whatever happens you've already won by asking her out, by taking her out. You don't need to keep sex on your mind because it is there naturally, you're a horny 16 year old. …
/r/seduction19/11/18 03:36 AM
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God that is fucked up.
/r/seduction18/11/18 10:49 PM
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Bro, I am assuming from your comments that you are serious and this is not a troll. If that assumption is correct, then I think you need to see a therapist, seriously. You look absolutely fucking fine. Like seriously, maybe get a slightly better haircut but it doesn't even matter because your face makes up for it. Your face looks absolutely fine, I am a man and not gay so I don't know if I can accurately judge 1-10 but I would say 8-8.5. Try actually making eye contact with and smiling at 20 gir…
/r/seduction14/11/18 06:08 AM
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You can feel the emotions but learn to change your mindset and behavior so you aren't projecting those emotions. This is basically the concept of inner and outer game.
/r/seduction08/11/18 12:36 AM
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Too small sample size but still, sounds interesting
/r/seduction06/11/18 03:52 PM
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Read the book "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion and watch his 21 convention videos. I was in the same club as you, with that faint hatred starting. This book absolutely changed my life and mindset. Whenever I see a girl getting guys or vice versa, I think to my self "you go girl!" or "fuck yeah bro" and feel genuinely happy for them.
/r/seduction25/10/18 06:00 AM
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No, I have zero experience with women and have never done an approach. However, I feel like I am ready. I am assuming you are right, and there must be something holding me back, but I can't figure out what it is. Maybe some sort of deep subconscious fear, but I want to find it and fix it.
/r/seduction24/10/18 03:04 AM
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Lmfao this is some next level shit. It's actually funny cause I just did the same thing on a midterm. There's a girl I really like but she is always talking to friends walking in and out of class together and I can never sit next to her or find her alone to approach. So my plan was to finish first then just sit there pretending to work until she was done, and just catch up to her in the hallway. It didn't work out because she fucking finished in like 15 minutes when I was only 1/3 of the way don…
/r/seduction24/10/18 12:22 AM
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This is a really great post man, I like your insights a lot.
/r/seduction15/10/18 08:29 PM
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Cheers and good luck
/r/seduction14/10/18 08:01 PM
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Shit, I'm not too big of an expert to be honest. Those details I think you should figure out based on how flirty or intense your previous interactions were and what type of girl she is. She doesn't seem like the shy type so maybe you can do something more high energy/fun like go to clubs/bars or some high energy event (concert?). It should just be whenever you both have time, preferably soon as possible I guess, cause why wait.
/r/seduction14/10/18 07:42 PM
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I think you need to ask her on a date at this point and make it clear that its a date. Don't just ask her to hang out or something that can be misinterpreted. Your tactics so far have worked to get her interest, now you have to start escalating.
/r/seduction14/10/18 04:19 PM
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She's given you enough signs at this point to let you know she's interested. If you don't act soon she will lose interest, if she isn't starting to already. I have no idea why you think not giving her attention is going to work, I think you need to make a move sooner rather than later. You need to at least try to make out with her at some point during this party.
/r/seduction13/10/18 08:19 PM
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Fuck this sounds terrifying. I recently took a small dose of Xanax with alcohol recreationally, and the effects were far more intense than I expected. I was on the verge of slipping away for like 2 hours, but it felt amazing and I was in a safe environment with people I knew. If I felt that coming on when I was alone in a bar I would freak.
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:50 AM
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University can have tens of thousands of people. (mine has 30k). Your high school grade is like 200-400 and the entire high school is like 1000. Ur gonna see new people everyday on campus and probably wont see the same person more than once or twice unless you are in the same class
/r/seduction02/10/18 05:53 PM
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Eh, not really. A 17 year old can be completely developed and look like a 25 year old woman while another 17 year old looks 13. It depends on the girl
/r/seduction01/10/18 08:50 PM
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congrats dude you seem high on life.
/r/seduction30/09/18 10:42 PM
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3 for me. Been in PUA for a bit more than a month and I feel like I learned more in that time than my previous 22 years...but I still haven't gotten over approach anxiety. Once I do though, I actually have some direction instead of being a clueless baffoon.
/r/seduction28/09/18 05:04 PM
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2 deep for me. Is that you jaden smith?
/r/seduction26/09/18 08:29 PM
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These qualities can be learned and developed though. You just have to go through a lot of awkwardness and rejection first. The question is, how badly do you want it?
/r/seduction26/09/18 08:23 PM
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Same for me. I've been into the seduction community for about a month, learning as much as I can on youtube and reading. I have had huge mindset changes and have learned so fucking much its amazing, but I still haven't managed to do a single approach. I do feel like every time I leave the house I am a little bit closer to actually doing it, and I visualize myself actually doing it (in the past I couldn't even do this, it would give me severe anxiety and I would start sweating, just the thought o…
/r/seduction23/09/18 01:00 AM
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Doing things to make yourself look nicer isn't lying. Purposely deceiving someone about fundamental aspects of yourself like your age and whole life story (as OP did) is lying. It's shitty. It's manipulative. It's sad. If you have to resort to that shit to get a girl you are honestly pathetic.
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:19 AM
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You're not hurting anyone but you are being deceptive and manipulative. You're just not being a good person. Part of seduction is having love and respect for every woman and genuineness and honesty to make real connections, even if its only a one night stand. If you are lying to women to get sex you are a scumbag, at least in my book.
/r/seduction19/09/18 11:34 PM
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Changed my perspective about not just relationships but life in general. His writing style is very inspirational and the book is full of rich ideas and quotes. If you adopt his mindset your social life will improve greatly.
/r/seduction10/09/18 02:37 PM
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Great advice, can you elaborate on how you would get her to divulge the real objection? So she asks how many people youve slept with, what's the move? Ask her why shes asking? Doesnt seem like she would just tell you.
/r/seduction09/09/18 07:26 PM
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Seconding Zan. His book is the closest thing to life changing that Ive ever read.
/r/seduction09/09/18 07:13 PM
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