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| 115 | 3 Simple things that can really improve initial attraction. | kalakalakalulu | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 08:04 AM | |
| 12 | Solo Night Out [First FR in quite some time] | kalakalakalulu | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 08:29 AM | |
| 10 | Getting out-gamed by a girl. Need help. | kalakalakalulu | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 04:18 AM | |
| 4 | [First FR] Worst luck ever and some bad AA on my part and kind've a funny story (might be a bit long) | kalakalakalulu | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 08:01 AM | |
| 4 | What do you do when a girl calls you 'cute'. | kalakalakalulu | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 08:01 AM | |
| 3 | get the number, but no response after afterwards? | kalakalakalulu | /r/seduction | 26/04/11 03:41 AM | |
| 1 | HB9 wants to drop Acid with me. Tips? | kalakalakalulu | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 05:55 AM | |
| 1 | Need some advice on how to handle this (Blind date situation) | kalakalakalulu | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 05:37 AM | |
| 1 | After reading seddit, this is now how I approach girls | kalakalakalulu | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 02:09 AM |
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| 1 | So, and this is to work out some frustrations, based on what I've said so far, what should I do?Go to the gym everyday. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Using the skills you've learned from the PUA community, you walk into a gym/club/room, with no one you know -- how would you begin making friends?If it's a movie club per-say just talk about the movie. There's certain situations where hitting on girls will get you bad points in a group. When in a group situation where everybody knows each other and you plan on seeing these people again and again, it's best not to do any gaming to the girls beyond eye contact. Focus on bonding with the guys (who knows might meet some good friends), and just having a good time. Introducing yourself works fine in most instances. If the people aren't assholes… | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Living abroad in Korea, any advice on pursuing casual relationships?are you teaching kindergarten by any chance? | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 11:38 AM |
| 1 | HB9 I was going to meet found out I had a picture of her in my office, suggestions please.lol....? this has to be a troll | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 11:37 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Faced my AA fear and opened first set in daygame!dude if she looked that happy, you should have kept talking to her. but its nice that you brightened her day anyways | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 06:08 AM |
| 7 | I cock blocked a new friend and I want to patch things up with him.Too bad for him. If he's calling her a slut then he obviously doesn't really care about her anyways. He's just being selfish. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 05:09 PM |
| 8 | What's the best Facebook message to send to a girl you haven't met?Trust me, from experience on the receiving end of this shit, it just comes off as creepy and weird. Just tell your friend to bring her along next time you hang out. | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 10:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR#3] - Two f-closes; one becomes a FWB, the other looks like it's burnt out. First date with an HB9 TOMORROW. Seddit, I make a point of acting independently, but right now I need tips.Word. Remember though, she probably has hot friends lol | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 05:26 AM |
| 1 | OKC first date: f-closed, now how to keep momentum?LOL | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 05:09 AM |
| 2 | [FR#3] - Two f-closes; one becomes a FWB, the other looks like it's burnt out. First date with an HB9 TOMORROW. Seddit, I make a point of acting independently, but right now I need tips.You know what I would do? I would friend zone her and use her for social proof. It'll make things a lot more natural for you, and it'll catch her off guard. You're obviously not looking for any sort of commitment, and she seems to be quite the free spirit, but I would hold off it. Anytime a girl you're hitting on sees you with this girl, they're going to immediately become interested. Long Term Game, my friend. 9s and 10s can be harder to game for people who aren't as experienced, and since this… | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Solo Night Out [First FR in quite some time]yeah spot on lol | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Solo Night Out [First FR in quite some time]I would say that most of us are below average. I'm just average. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Solo Night Out [First FR in quite some time]yeah | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 05:50 PM |
| 4 | [FR] HB8 D1 Kino a.k.a. "Armrests Must Die!"Dunno if going for the gold so quickly was a good idea but it seemed to workout nonetheless. Was the film you saw called Tree Of Life by any chance? | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Reddit, help me not F this up...Before she comes over wank it and take a shot. Shower up, groom, and dress up yourself. When she walks in the door, give her a hug. Start kinoing and making eye contact. Words are important, but it's most important to listen. When you do listen, the eye contact you make automatically builds rapport with her. Don't mention her platonic friend, and if she brings him up, just shrug him off. She'll look to you to see how you react. You don't care about him, you care about her. Touch the small of her… | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Need some advice for tomorrow night...Focus on having good presence within the social group. Crack jokes and try to snipe one of the girls. If this looks to be a repeat situation with your friend and his basketball buddy, make sure to use your seddit skills on both of them as well. You don't have to be the Alpha of the group to snag girls man, remember that. You just need the Alpha's respect, and pretty soon he'll start DHVing you. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 08:36 AM |
| 4 | Guys, Some Nights...Fuck this shit, I'm going out tonight | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Had a "prank" pulled on me at work when I was in a hardcore low-confidence state. Not sure how much of a DLV it was in retrospect.This. You're not going to be 100% on-point all the time. Who cares. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 07:05 AM |
| 19 | [FR] Cigarettes got me laid.sounds like a keeper tbh | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 09:49 PM |
| 2 | When should you stop trying to pursue a girl?There's no set number. You gotta learn to feel it out. Sometimes after months and months of no contact, they'll start randomly pursuing you out of nowhere. Sometimes you just have to make sure the setting is right. Some girls you meet at the club take another night out in order to get them away from that kind of setting. So maybe be like 'Hey, me and some friends are going to the club tonight, what are you guys doing?' Implying that her friends are welcome to come along. It relieves a lot of the… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 05:52 PM |
| 18 | My thoughts on PUA community and fulfilling healthy relationships. Long read, please take the time.I think one of the most dangerous things a PUA can do is let his ego get the best of him. By the looks of reading a lot of the FRs that I've seen people write-up here, more than a few people here have that problem. There's is a problem with relationships in the PUA community. I mean how do you build a relationship with someone? Through shared experiences. The PUA community calls it Rapport, and building it is very important in both the dating scene and the PUA scene, just for very different reas… | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Woman's view on physical escalationI'm glad she explained the whole cumming part. That was always incredibly awkward for me to figure out. | /r/seduction | 17/06/11 05:23 PM |
| 2 | I don't know how to be emotional IRLtell them to fuck off. just say it firmly and look them in the eye when you do it. works much better than throwing a temper tantrum, and it shows everyone else present that you're serious. | /r/seduction | 15/06/11 04:33 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got 2 #closes and a WIP over okcupid, inadvertentlyDrunken freestyle rap battles never end well in my experience. | /r/seduction | 31/05/11 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Men, what do you wear when you go out on Friday nights?Depends on where I'm planning on going for the night, but it can range anywhere from an old school Pistons jersey to a cardigan over a collar shirt. Generally though, I try to go for something that's clean and subtle. No big graphic tees, or flamboyant suits. Just a well-fitting collar shirt and some slacks. | /r/seduction | 31/05/11 05:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] #-/kiss close at the passport office.Closed like a pro. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 05:20 PM |
| 1 | [xpost] Yea this shit happens to women dating tooI love it when girls play hard to get. Otherwise I lose interest really fast. If a girl's too hung up on me after only a few weeks or months, I find it really hard to still be attracted to her. If you're trying to find a girlfriend, think of the chase as a kind of screening process. If the girl's texting you all the time or always calling you, what makes you think that'll stop once the relationship gets serious. Obviously this goes both ways. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Hey seddit any good movies/documentiares I should watch?Before Sunrise. Seriously. | /r/seduction | 20/05/11 07:41 AM |
| 1 | FR: Seddit, I have quadriplegia and thanks to your help, I am kinoing like a motherfucker!dude this is fucking awesome. im so fucking happy for you. don't stop man keep practicing. | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 04:54 AM |
| 2 | I'm on a Mission (Sort of a Follow Up...and kinda long)cool. | /r/seduction | 12/05/11 09:07 PM |
| 4 | A DC taxi driver said this to me this and I thought you guys might like itHe's a bad troll. Don't feed him. | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 11:09 PM |
| 2 | 3 Simple things that can really improve initial attraction.A good tip with that neckline thing. Also keep your hands between your shoulders when you gesture. The key is small gestures, especially in one on one scenarios. It adds a small bit of intimacy, especially if you lean in slightly as you did it. This makes the kino escalation really natural as well. A small touch on the arm for added emphasis can help ring a point home. Or if you're trying to be sincere, place a hand on your heart as you deliver the line. By being 'active' I simply meant particip… | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 11:07 PM |
| 5 | 3 Simple things that can really improve initial attraction.Nice throwaway. Next time you want to be taken seriously try logging into your real account. It's not like you have to worry about what your (nonexistent) black friends would say if they read this. | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 10:22 PM |
| 3 | AFC to PUA MovieI love Ryan Gosling (especially in Half Nelson), but I doubt he can save this movie. | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 09:20 PM |
| 4 | 3 Simple things that can really improve initial attraction.http://hypebeast.com/ http://hypebeast.com/streetsnaps/ A good website that has links to all sorts of clothes for guys who want to dress well without having to look like someone out of GQ (not that GQ is bad, but the clothes they plug there are extremely expensive). It's not a perfect website, but it's a great place to start and explore different styles. Their main focus is 'streetwear' or clothes that you can wear everyday. | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 06:59 PM |
| 4 | 3 Simple things that can really improve initial attraction.You don't have to act like a dick. Just act like you're enjoying yourself. Not only will you become happier, but people will notice. | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 04:03 PM |
| 30 | [FR] 4 F-closes in a day and a half or What to Do When Moving Away.I am happy for your penis. | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 08:23 AM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in the club?I don't like this. Makes it seem like you don't have the balls to just ask her to dance or grab her and dance. I've done it a few times and had success, but overall it just seems creepy to me. | /r/seduction | 10/05/11 08:46 AM |
| 1 | [First FR] Worst luck ever and some bad AA on my part and kind've a funny story (might be a bit long)Good idea, I should have thought of that. For some reason the thought never crossed my mind. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 08:04 AM |
| 1 | [LR] Praise to all things pink and squishy!!!On behalf of all of seddit, thank you. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 08:03 AM |
| 1 | [First FR] Worst luck ever and some bad AA on my part and kind've a funny story (might be a bit long)Good advice, I'll do my best to keep a level head next time. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 07:57 PM |
| 1 | get the number, but no response after afterwards?see i guess this is what's so confusing to me because she was all over me that night. all of her friends like me, and she couldn't keep away from me for 5 minutes. if i tried to escalate things, i definitely coulda taken her home, and i talked to her that night about getting together later on. she coulda been just drunk... | /r/seduction | 26/04/11 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Just met this Girl.. Like her a lot.. but I seem to always fall to fast.. Help:?this might be the most pretentious thing i've read in a month | /r/seduction | 26/04/11 03:46 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Going for the first kisswell man you gotta escalate the kino and go in for a kiss. i would say you have to do it the next time you see her too. you're borderline friendzone material right now my friend, and i think you may have already fallen into the trap. remember this: it's only awkward if you make it awkward. if a girl senses your hesistance, she'll have second doubts. but if you're smooth and confident with your kino, it'll feel natural to go in for the kiss. you really gotta nip it in the bud with this one my fri… | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 05:16 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First faildude the only reason you bombed it is because you walked away. when she said no you shouldve asked why shes even in this class. do something man. she probably wanted to talk to you but you were just too nervous. | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Tips on Teasing and Jokingwhenever she disagrees with you just say 'im breaking up with you' and look her dead in the eye when you say it. back straight and do a little head twirl as you say it. sort of like a dignified british man who just had a fly land in his tea. | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Need some help between acquiring the alpha status rather than the creepy statusits almost impossible for normal human beings to 'look' creepy. its all about how you act. the easiest way to remedy any creepiness factor is to simply act as if the conversation you're having is no big deal. if you're so concerned about competition, just leave the conversation, and come back to the girl later. your body language while talking to the girl should also help alleviate this problem. if you close her off to outsiders and lessen the space between you two, it makes it harder for some r… | /r/seduction | 07/04/11 06:14 AM |
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