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As someone who was always looking for a HVM, I'm 40 and don't really know what I've been up to either. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:07 AM
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The wrong woman is also the one who won't enable his shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:59 PM
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The best is the ones who say they want kids but don't know if they want a relationship and are over 40! hm, k. These are the "what do you bring to the table" guys who think well, I'm not really looking for a relationship but if she is good enough, maybe. Even for this supposedly perfect woman this is bad news.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:10 PM
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I think it looked good on paper and she wanted kids. The love bombing was enough to make it tolerable for awhile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:59 AM
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My ex got married last year and while I don't think one day he will tell his now wife he wishes he married me (maybe a different gf), I suspect he'll say/do something shitty like this in the future. He is a super passive person who suffers depression and I think he is able to maintain a veneer of happiness and stability for awhile but generally trends back towards misery. When the misery hits, it's not like he's going to take responsibility for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:10 PM
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As a Software Engineer he has many opportunities to make a lot more than 120k. If he's any good at it. Seems like he is too busy making poor investments and gambling his money away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:48 AM
11

I came here to say this. A guy who is unwilling to treat his mental health diagnosis and do the work. Nah sis. I don't care if he is Kanye West.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:22 AM
29

yup, the men are really the ball and chain ... not the women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:43 AM
19

Most men I meet make money but less than I do. If I have to do everything else too because men don't MuLTiTasK then how is this partnership supposed to make any sense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:02 PM
152

If I need a safe word with someone I am out the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:48 PM
3

This is like my co-workers who think collaboration is automatically agreeing with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 05:22 PM
61

She should have left him last year when he took the red pill. At the time I figured she'd just had the baby so I cut her some slack...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:52 PM
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I have never been in an abusive relationship. My dad is a rare HVM. The only thing that has ever happened to me is being sexually harassed and gaslit by a narc at work, which is nothing compared to most women. I STILL don't need to see this to know exactly what went down and be sick to my stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:21 AM
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Men are allowed to literally have any preference they want, no matter how obscure. Women are only allowed the appearance of preferences. For example, I went on a few dates with a guy who was like "both partners should be able to ask for whatever they want in bed and the other should oblige" (more or less, i forget his exact wording) ... which to me basically means he gets whatever he wants b/c I don't think there would be anything I could ask for he wouldn't be willing to do. And, even if what h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:03 PM
146

This reminded me of a friend of a friend’s husband who will remotely turn down the AC on their nanny and kids from work … and they live in Texas where it is HOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:50 AM
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Ethical Non-Monogamy 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 04:20 PM
79

Many of the same dynamics are true for us xenials. I have also found the "nerds will rule the world" thing is also true in dating. It's not just not working if they don't get the perfect job it's also not dating if they don't find the perfect woman. Nerdy guys who don't take care of themselves will only date hot, fit, smart (but not smarter than them!) women who will also act out porn fantasy or are open to ENM! But somehow they turn it on its head and have the audacity to say it's the women who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:08 PM
7

Most recently I had someone say “we don’t need a plan” for a 5th date and then have the audacity to be upset afterwards that his expectations for the evening had been different. Dude, I suggested having a plan which was your chance to shape the date in the way you wanted (and sink yourself anyway with low effort … but STILL)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:56 PM
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I know this sub skews younger but I'm curious if this is different for people over 30 or over 35? I've not been able to meet anyone through friends for at least 5 years b/c everyone is either already married or has been deemed un-datable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:05 PM
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I know of three people where their boyfriends at some point were like “why isn’t this like in the movies?” and women are supposedly the deluded ones!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:08 AM
29

Haha, if you know a lot about it it’s almost worse… they don’t want someone who can compete with them intellectually… my ex (phd electrical engineer) basically said they were all nerds who thought being smart would get them the hot girl, so in other words entitled…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:46 AM
11

There seems to be a big overlap with libertarianism and red pillers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:59 AM
14

Good manners and being polite are also not enough. It’s sad he is already zero help … usually they at least start out helpful …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:48 PM
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I also do a fair amount so that I look young at work. I think it's really important for career opportunities, etc. but I guess that is also for "the man".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:23 AM
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- 5'8" to 6'3". I'm 5'5.5" so 5'7" could be OK but I'd have to meet IRL b/c OLD numbers are whack ... too tall and I don't feel safe but again if I met IRL might be OK - Takes care of themselves. Well groomed, good hygiene. - Somewhat but not overly fit ... there is a decent range here. - Wears clothing that fits, isn't rumpled, doesn't smell, and doesn't have holes. - Features fit their face. - In the picky category, I like nice hands. I really don't like fat hands/fingers. - Also in the picky …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:39 PM
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Oh god, trying to explain this to my LVM ex did not go over at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:47 AM
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gorjana, mejuri, Monica Vinader
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:16 AM
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They actually like high maintenance in the end. They will say they like low maintenance and "no make-up" but that is delusion. In the end they go for someone who takes 2+ hours to get ready and wears noticeable (but not ridiculous) make-up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:14 AM
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I think this is more true than anyone would like to admit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:13 PM
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