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Wait, guys talk about more than sports and jacking off????
/r/seduction05/03/19 02:29 AM
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Women like to know that a guy has a job. And some women love a guy that is handy. She has probably noticed you in the past and knows that you aren’t homeless. And it’s always nice when a guy has the gumption the make a move, but especially in this case since she’s at work and probably can’t do it while there. Good luck 🍀
/r/seduction03/02/19 01:49 PM
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Just add her. Sometimes people make mistakes and maybe she is realizing that she should have given you a chance. Once you add her see what she says. Don’t get ahead of yourself, it’s Snapchat, not a serious chatting app, so you can just add her onto your list of people you send random pictures to. Good luck. 🍀
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:32 AM
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I think that you are doing well if your approach is to find a girlfriend. Just know what your goal is and don’t stray from the goal. If your goal is to find a potential girlfriend and lasting relationship then keep up at what you’re doing and you’ll find someone. If someone doesn’t want to go out then you can cross her off and move on to the next, it doesn’t have to be a bad thing. If you want a girlfriend, you can still continue to flirt and have logical conversation, just remember to ask her o…
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:14 PM
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I guess it could depend on your age, but Thursday is too far past for my comfort. Did you text her? You should have texted her. I love to communicate, so I need a guy that can text, call, and go out. If text is just for setting up a date, do you not ever talk until you go out again and why would someone want to go out again? If you haven’t texted her at all, put yourself out there say that you enjoyed that date and see what you get in return.
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:47 PM
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Text her because you want to get to know her and because you feel like you want to text her. Don’t text her just because you’re trying to win her over. If you’ve established a text routine with her continue to follow it. If you stop texting for a couple of days she’ll assume you ghosted and then move on. Don’t play games with texting. Have you set-up a second date and if not, why?
/r/seduction26/01/19 03:03 PM
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As a women, I’m saying to ask lots of questions! Google conversation starters and questions to ask a date. Within a couple of days I ask deep questions, but I’m looking for a relationship not just sex, so maybe for just sex you would send flirty emojis and innuendos. And then if the guy doesn’t ask me on a date within a couple of days, which I prefer, I ask them. I like to meet within a week and hopefully less time. Like if we start talking on Sunday and talk all day Sunday and after work Monday…
/r/seduction24/01/19 12:20 PM
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You should look secure not scary! If I’m at the bar and a scary looking guy comes up to me, I’m going to find an excuse to get out of that conversation or situation really quickly. Why have the stance that, you have to have an overbearing attitude, because people suck and they are going to disrespect you. That’s negative from the start and it sounds a bit distrusting and disturbing. If I’m at a bar and I see a secure guy talking with his hands and having fun, then that’s the one I want to talk t…
/r/seduction13/01/19 03:46 PM
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To be honest I don’t have a percentage answer for you. I’m pretty selective in whom I engage with. I’m going to say maybe out of 10 guys, 5 don’t listen at all, 4 listen half the time or less and 1 listens most of the time. My numbers could be skewed, because I initially like confident guys, but then it’s a turn off when they think they know everything. What I really want is a secure guy that will take action, but listens, and then can make changes if needed without getting hurt feelings.
/r/seduction06/01/19 03:41 PM
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Good advise. On many occasions I have straight up told guys what I needed for either fooling around or to build a relationship. And many times they ignored my stated needs. They get stuck in the game, focused on winning, and forget that it’s a team sport. So frustrating! It’s like a basketball player trying to make all the shots and failing. When instead he should utilize the team and pass the ball. Pass me the ball! I’m open, damnit! (I’m sure women do the same to men at times)
/r/seduction06/01/19 02:46 AM
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Are you planing on going out tonight and drinking water with friends? If you have money to go out with them, I’m sure that you could swing a date if a girlfriend is the goal. And calling this lady a skank is what hurts the game in the first place. I’m going to say that this lady is a saint for occupying your time and in doing such spearing others from your disrespect. Unknown lady, I raise a glass to you!
/r/seduction31/12/18 08:28 PM
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Haha, that sounds a bit gross to me, but to each their own. Why does it matter about moving past the sex talk if all you want to do is fuck. I might be confused, but I think that you want a girlfriend and in that case you’re not going about it right, but you do you.
/r/seduction31/12/18 05:15 PM
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I’m so confused. A date is when you go out and do something with someone in effort to get to know them. You just want to knock boots and then go out later with friends. Which is fine if the lady knows this. Does the lady know that you just want to fuck? If she’s DTF you don’t even need the beer, just tell her what dirty things that you’re about to do with her and that the deeds will have to be quick and dirty since you have plans with friends later, but you want to “eat something before going ou…
/r/seduction31/12/18 03:51 PM
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I’m not usually for telling others to get an escort, but if your view of women is that you just want to bend them over the bed and fuck them, then maybe an escort is a good idea. It sounds like the women is being describe as an object instead of a human being. I know that you’re sad and horny, but you have to find hope in something. I hate when people say work on yourself and then things will happen, it’s probably true but not always helpful. First of all maybe we aren’t working on the right thi…
/r/seduction11/12/18 12:36 PM
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I agreed with the majority of what you said. I would make a few small changes, but this is one of the best things I’ve read on this sub!
/r/seduction04/12/18 03:53 AM
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Go for a walk after a date so that you can hold hands, touch shoulders/arms, and bump into her in a teasing way. Try to sit on stools or seating next to each other. Make sure to have your hand on the table and try to nudge her hand as you’re laughing or to get her attention, or to tease. Think of a few cute/funny/interesting short video clips. Bring the video/act up in conversation. Tell her you’ll have to show her and lean over the table toward her or move over to the seat next to her, because …
/r/seduction29/11/18 02:11 AM
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If he’s asking fun interesting questions and having a laugh with me or teasing me, then yes I would reciprocate back. I would be very attracted! If the guy keeps repetitively asking me about how I think that date is going, if I like him, if he thinks that there could be something, if I think he’s cute, and keeps telling me that he can’t believe someone so beautiful would be with him, then of course I wouldn’t chase him and in fact I would back away. But, that’s not what these questions are about…
/r/seduction20/11/18 10:21 PM
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It depends how one defines success. 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction20/11/18 03:47 AM
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I’m sorry you had that happen to you, it sucks no matter the gender/orientation. Thank you for the nice respectful conversation and our ability to recognize each other’s vulnerability!!! You seem like a good person! 😎
/r/seduction20/11/18 03:45 AM
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They don’t have any useful input on what process? The process of being a bear that never attracts women. You’re correct, I can’t help you with that. You got me there!
/r/seduction20/11/18 03:40 AM
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Haha if someone said that to me I would respond back with “it’s sure was (a car crash)! Don’t worry one day you’ll learn how to communicate properly!” 😋 I stop talking to people if I was three questions and they answer the questions, but don’t ever ask me anything back. I’m sure some people think I’m the car crash, but everyone has preferences in communication.
/r/seduction20/11/18 01:08 AM
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I love when a guy puts effort into thinking of and asking questions! Show interest in me. Ask me questions. Ask me follow up questions. Laugh and relate to me. When you have an answer in common, touch my hand and chime in. Yes, questions need to move beyond career and goals, but that’s a good start. When you turn on the shower, the water takes a few minutes to warm up and make things wet. Good things take time and effort.
/r/seduction20/11/18 01:01 AM
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Yes, put some preparation and effort into it and you’ll get the same energy back.
/r/seduction20/11/18 12:50 AM
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What if you ask the lady what her favorite Disney Villain is and she responded with “I like Queen Grimhilde from Snow White, because she had the power to trick people into eat her innocent looking apple!” Then your date looks up at you and says “Would I have to trick you into eating my sweet apple? 😉” How bout them apples?! 😜 This probably wouldn’t be the answer I would personally give on the first date, but If a women wants something like sex she will go for it. Edit: Why is this being down vot…
/r/seduction20/11/18 12:47 AM
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Its rare for me to find a guy that ask me fun and interesting questions! I want to know that you’ve put some effort into it and that you want to know me. I’m usually the one putting in all of the work, which if draining. Shoot, make it into a game, pull out the list or bring it up on your phone. The competitive side in me loves a good game. If I’m the only one asking questions then that’s when it becomes an interview, so they need to step it up and ask questions back. Tease me and say that you c…
/r/seduction20/11/18 12:30 AM
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I would also hope that you would not respect yourself in that situation for not taking somebody’s words seriously and for taking advantage of a “weak mind”.
/r/seduction19/11/18 11:41 AM
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If you don’t have sex with her that night, you might end up with a girl friend that you can have sex with lots in the future. 😲 “We are not having sex” is not a shit test. If the girl has flirted and wants to hang out with you later, and says “we are not having sex”, then she probably wants to cuddle and talk, and is interested in getting to know you. I guess what is your end game to being on r/seduction? Do you want pussy only then don’t fuck this lady, because you could get pussy and charged w…
/r/seduction19/11/18 11:37 AM
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I guess because when I mean no, I mean no, and if people can’t respect that then why would I want to see a person again if they can’t show me respect. I deserve respect. Why would I say “pressured into it”, because I’ve felt pressured into in on many occasions. That’s why I say don’t do it, don’t have sex if she said no. If anything don’t do it just to protect yourself. Why did I feel pressured By personality I am a people pleaser. I don’t want someone I like to be sad. I will put my desires asi…
/r/seduction18/11/18 04:02 PM
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Yep, talk and cuddle is the short answer.
/r/seduction18/11/18 02:56 PM
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I probably wouldn’t flirt and invite someone back because I have a guard up about people not understanding that when I say “no sex” I mean “no sex”. In the case that we had flirted and I did ask the person over and said “no sex”. I would have done so because I want to go somewhere that we can talk longer and maybe sit close or snuggle and maybe just maybe kiss, but no sex. Because I have learned that many guys get confused about “no sex” meaning “let’s fuck”, I instead will invite a date to a di…
/r/seduction18/11/18 02:55 PM
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As a women, I’ve said that statement a couple of times and I truly was telling/reminding the person that sex was not on the table that night! It doesn’t mean that it’s not on the table for another night. But, if I say that and a guy talks me into something that I specifically said that I didn’t want, then I’m not likely to go out with them again, because of the manipulation and distrust. Maybe some women use it as a test, but some women say it because they are trying to be very clear and state a…
/r/seduction18/11/18 03:43 AM
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That’s a load of absolute bullshit, and I hope no guy actually thinks that this is something that they should follow through with.
/r/seduction11/11/18 03:13 AM
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I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become. - Carl Jung
/r/seduction08/09/18 12:28 AM
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Just don’t tell the lady that she’s a side dish. 😬 hahaha That would not go over too well.
/r/seduction04/09/18 12:16 AM
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I’m sure that she is scared that you are going to reject her by not texting/calling. Just text/call her. She gave you her number without you asking, so I doubt that she would reject you right away. Even if you were to get rejected you can be proud of yourself for making a move and then use what you learn for the future.
/r/seduction02/09/18 02:15 AM
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What I do know is that I really want to be asked questions!!!!! And I guess would probably fall for the assumption thing, but when a guy can have a conversation that’s what is sexy!
/r/seduction26/07/18 12:37 AM
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There is a subreddit for breakups. I’m not on it anymore, so I forget if it’s breakup or breakups. I’m also unsure how to link other threads. It was helpful for it’s time and then I had to do my own legwork. Today I’m actually going and claiming this bar that has fun crafting activities from an alcoholic that doesn’t deserve such a fun place. This feels like the final step I needed to recover. I guess seeing him and being fine would be the final step, but this is really close to that step. Good …
/r/seduction25/06/18 11:21 AM
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You could say “Hey, I have a feeling that I might have went too fast, but if that’s the case I can slow down. 🐌 I promise.😋” If she’s still interested she will continue to talk and if not she won’t. I don’t think you saying something will hurt.
/r/seduction25/06/18 02:29 AM
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Sometimes ladies don’t feel comfortable saying no so they just halfheartedly go along with things, hoping that the other person will pick up on other clues. Ugh, I sound a bit like this lady. (I’m not smoking hot, but in the personality sense of the situation.) She probably gave you body language that said that she wasn’t interested, but you didn’t catch it. She moved back to her seat, which tells me that either she didn’t like you in a romantic way or that you were intimidating to her. Talking …
/r/seduction25/06/18 02:20 AM
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