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| 1 | [deleted by user]my pleasure. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]tbh, that's part of what's it about. You won't be able to say the right thing every time. No one can. I especially have trouble doing this when I'm in large groups. But, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take, and every shot you take decreases the likelihood that you'll miss said shots. You can't calibrate without trying it out and being a bit out of the ordinary is what will set you apart when you're going about meeting new people. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 01:33 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]that’s ok. if you put in the work, it’ll happen for sure. id suggest checking out “charisma on command” and craig ferguson interviews on youtube to see a bit of what I’m talking about. It’ll take time and a lot of practice/ emotional pain, but the progress you’ll make is worth it. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 01:05 AM |
| 40 | [deleted by user]not op, but: one example of flirting is doing that thing you probably do with your friends when somebody says something (don’t attack me) a “bit sus”. you jokingly take it out of context and create a whole new conversation thread b/c it makes the other person explain what they really meant and you both can build on/ contribute to that humorously incorrect scenario. you have to be comfortable with yourself before you do it tho. another example would be playful exaggeration, similar to the other m… | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?that makes sense, but even if that person is pushed to try new things, they could still use fuck yes or fuck no in other areas of their life, at least imo. If this phrase was limited only to pickup, then yea it wouldn’t help someone with zero experience, but I’ve never thought of it as an exclusively pickup thing, so my concept of it is very changeable based on the situation. But at the same time, as we’ve both said, a person with no experience wouldn’t be able to make those kinds of distinction… | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?Yea dating is a market, but like everything people have preferences, and it's your job to market yourself to the "demographic" that's most receptive to what you're selling. Fuck yes doesn't mean the same thing in every situation. It just gives you a reminder to keep doing a cost benefit analysis. Too many people take what they can get, even if it's not what they really want. As children we are not as set in our ways and developed as we are as adults, so we'll get on the rollercoaster and see the… | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?idk if I agree. Just because you weren't rejected doesn't mean you're getting the level of engagement you want. I use this mentality all the time usually not on people that are rejecting me, but who I reject or feel free to change my mind on b/c I have this mindset. For people that are super inexperienced, sure they might use it as a trick, but that's not what it's for. It's just another way of knowing "you are the prize", and being the prize means that you don't have to put up w/ bs even if she… | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 01:46 PM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]If you want to do it, you can and should do it. just make sure the environment is conducive to that form of approach (ie: quiet, relaxed environment, a place where you’d talk to a woman you knew of, but not well). Strangers are just people we haven’t met yet. Think of every cold approach like meeting a new friend and escalate from there. You won’t be doing any kind of real seduction type work if you’re running daygame anyway. However, tbh cold approach is a real numbers game, so the likelihood o… | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 07:04 AM |
| 16 | I just asked a tinder girl out.yea, but any girl that’s ATTRACTED to that tinder rando, at least in a way that matters to the tinder rando, will make a sacrifice for the tinder rando. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 10:21 AM |
| 42 | I just asked a tinder girl out.yea, but you’re making a sacrifice any time you choose to go on a date, cuz you could’ve been doing something else. if you want to go on a date with someone, you’ll try to make it happen in a way that works for you. long day at work, but you think someone’s hot? you’ll make it to the bar. this weekend you were going to stay in and do some errands, but this girl you’ve been talking to is free? we’ll get those errands done another day. this is an IOI and he read it right imo. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 09:56 AM |
| 2 | She is rooting for youyea the deja vu i felt was disorienting to say the least lol | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 10:50 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]fam, imma level with you: you need to figure out why this matters to you so much, because its not about her. its almost never about them, even if they do something that pisses us off. the word “hoe” is used by people butthurt that a woman they desire is having more sex than them. period. it comes from jealousy and an insecure sense of self. don’t worry about her giggle, worry about making the best parts of you even better, so that you know you’re the shit regardless of what anyone else says. its… | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 10:19 PM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]had us in the first half, ngl | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 10:10 PM |
| 43 | [deleted by user]eh ignorance is bliss. dont hurt yourself op lol | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 10:09 PM |
| 1 | If being needy is the least attractive thing, why do so many needy guys end up doing well with women?the opposite of neediness lol. their only true devotion is the to the needle | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 03:46 PM |
| 4 | If being needy is the least attractive thing, why do so many needy guys end up doing well with women?award worthy^ | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 03:45 PM |
| 9 | Well I asked out my classmate today.this is a little harsh imo. you can be firm, state intent, and still ask when somebody is free. tho i do agree with you a little too. one should have what they want to do and when they’d want to do it in mind first, as it’s less steps to a yes. you always want it to be easier to get what you want and putting the burden on her to figure out a time and whether she’d be down for something she doesn’t even know the specifics about. op did well in this situation tho we shouldn’t be tearing each other… | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Some of you don't have a personality, that's your problem.One of the most poignant things i’ve ever heard about making conversations interesting is just using your environment to your advantage. Use what she’s wearing (ie a band tee etc.), the even you’re at, or something else. At best, it’ll set a spontaneous tone and at worst (which only happens if you’re not doing it right) she’ll think you’re random and you’ll both laugh about it. | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]this. putting in visible effort doesn’t work as well as people think it does. Don’t be innactive, but the right one will act like they like you. she’s not there yet and that’s ok. trying to change the situation is asking for a case of oneitis (not in the incel sense, but just in the opportunity-loss sense). | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 09:02 PM |
| 2 | The more you want them the less they want youooof ik this feeling all too well | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 11:30 AM |
| 8 | I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before.block and delete, the unironic answer to every toxic relationship problem imo | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 07:56 PM |
| 6 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?storytime? | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:06 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]could you link some of the stuff you’re talking about (patrice o’neil) | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Lifting....Changed everythingstart w/ this: you wont need anything else (at least in regard to weights) until you’re interested not in just getting in shape, but into lifting as a real hobby: https://stronglifts.com/5x5/ | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | If women like good men, why do they date bad boys?I find that I bounce between good guy and nice guy. When i’m around people i feel really safe with, the nice guy starts to break through, but I predominantly act on good guy traits (and have modest success with women), because of my high self awareness. however, when the nice guy breaks through, i feel really bad about myself and ik its affecting my relationships. how can I strike a balance between the two? | /r/seduction | 25/12/20 01:36 AM |
| 2 | If women like good men, why do they date bad boys?id award this but im broke lol | /r/seduction | 25/12/20 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Alright, here it goes, the simplest advice, but the most counterintuitive.why was this downvoted lol | /r/seduction | 25/12/20 01:06 AM |
| 17 | Why would some people consider game immoral?I think people have issues with it because if you are open with the lessons you’ve learned from game and tell them to people that have never used or benefited from them before, it comes across as manipulative, creepy, toxic etc. The problem is that most people like to leave things up to chance where game takes more chance out of the equation. We’re taught that we’ll “find the one person who will love us for who we are”, but conveniently forget that the person we are with their friends is differe… | /r/seduction | 25/12/20 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Women Love High Value Men ( Here's What To Do)I agree. a lot of it is superficial habits that should be a result of being comfortable in your own skin and staying authentic to your own goals, but its dialed up to 11 and becomes a caricature of those desired qualities of a high value person, in essence, going from confident and driven to being a self-absorbed asshole. | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Masculine v. Effeminate menhappy cake day btw | /r/seduction | 08/04/20 04:19 PM |
| 0 | Why do American men like Asian women but don't like black women like me?Thats actually crazy because I know for a fact that if I knew you I would have pulled up by now. | /r/seduction | 09/04/19 03:44 AM |
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