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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | I use art to stop myself from craving male validation.This is so beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Examples of HVM in mediaThis comment is so late in the game but I think Dacre Mongomery who plays Billy Hargrove in Stranger Things may be a HVM. Dacre talks highly of his family, his sister and mother in particular. He doesn't refer to his girlfriend as his girlfriend very often he makes a point of calling her his "partner", if she helps him with anything at all on his projects he credits her, he credits her for his career taking off because she created a "home" for them when they lived out of hotels during filming, s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 06:34 PM |
| 24 | Guys who ask to be FWBs while expecting the girl to see no one else. Be careful of these types out there ladies, especially if you’re young or working on becoming more assertive.Hahaha, yeah. There rarely is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:11 AM |
| 275 | Guys who ask to be FWBs while expecting the girl to see no one else. Be careful of these types out there ladies, especially if you’re young or working on becoming more assertive.Gross. Stop expecting a girl to give the "girlfriend experience" to your loser ass if you're giving nothing desirable back in return. Hes essentially asking to be subpar company or worse and maybe give you an orgasm. You could just spend time with your friends, have an actual good time and then use a vibrator at night with much more fulfilling results. Wtf is up with men thinking they're so great that we will just submit and oblige to such a disgusting treatment. 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 17 | I am still terrified that my nudes are floating around out there.There are ways to search the internet to see if they're out there and easily found. As for someone having them and sharing them privately, it does happen of course but if you stop/stopped the behaviour the interest could have been lost by now. If you no longer engage and they have no reason to be angry, they may not even keep it. Sometimes memories keep it alive but unfortunately they could be using some other woman now and just discarded the images. Also, only really really despicable losers sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 09:13 PM |
| 13 | LADIES I NOTICED SOMETHING IN MENA guy I was friends with told me that happens to him. A girl he likes maybe even only a little tells him she wants casual, or they start sleeping together and right after sex she get up, gets dressed and leaves.. he's more interested. And he pursues her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 06:24 PM |
| 7 | How I feel about an LVM.I sing this song a lot actually lately. Compete with the dance from the little girl in fist fight. Whenever my sister who is in her 30's pisses me off because her fuse is short I start singing this. Lol. She hates it but laughs every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Guy keeps spreadsheets and rates sex with his GF....didn’t fit in the screenshot but he also has spreadsheets of all his ex’s too 🤮🤮🤮 why oh whyyyySomeone fucking compared tracking your period on an app where it asked if you've had sex etc. My brain just stopped working for 15 seconds because I wondered how an actual women could be so .. just brainwashed and dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 07:26 PM |
| 7 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!In highschool I never made excuses for men. As far as I was concerned, you're acting shitty then you're the enemy and I'll call you out. It really damaged a friendship of mine at the time but he told me years later that me telling him how shitty he was helped him in the long run with his relationship - which he has maintained for 10 years. Our friendship was never as close because I took his girlfriends side, whom I actually felt less close with but he was wrong and I wouldnt budge lol. With my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 06:08 PM |
| 3 | On oral sexI don't even know. Not sure what they mean by that. I actually wonder what the hell would be so bad. I think there being such a misconception on how to clean down there? I use fragrance free soap but before I started, I often found I had a really not great scent there. Now it's what I assume is normal. And then I tried the whole "just used water" and I found theres a "bad" scent then too. But maybe others are different? And I guess theres when you don't know you have an infection yet. Some women… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Catfish MTV: Women that aren't a size 0 being rejected by ugly LVM or NVMAh, that's really fucked up. I had weird feelings about him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 05:35 PM |
| 2 | I made a giant step forward because of this group! So thank you.Thank youuuuu 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:46 AM |
| 2 | I made a giant step forward because of this group! So thank you.I do not let men back into my life, honestly. I make 1 exception only for very poor behaviour, which is grieving a loss/still processing a big grief. That's the only one because of how serious it is. I highly doubt that happened here. Now I know it's more likely during covid. My gut is telling me he either cannot man up and tell me he was wrong about his feelings or that he did something hes not proud of and is ashamed to talk to me about it, so hes making me feel worthless. Either way, fuck tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:46 AM |
| 18 | Catfish MTV: Women that aren't a size 0 being rejected by ugly LVM or NVMI stopped watching when they got guest hosts. I appreciate Nev, I love that he had a super ingenious idea too and he made it something with Max who was pretty small time then too. I just loved Max. You always think you want to grow up and marry some really hot tall man who looks like he has it all. I was busy wanting to marry a Max. He seems caring, aware, empathetic and like he wants change for the right reasons. Somewhere between then and now I kind of lost my way but I'm getting back lol. He'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:21 AM |
| 8 | On oral sexI was briefly seeing one guy, the only guy who never really asked to do oral and I asked him why out of curiosity (it's a sickness, I just need to know.) He had several bad experiences where a girlfriend kind of just did not take him needing to breathe into account and just girls without the best hygiene but mostly what he didn't like was being forced. He was a very gentle person too, he didn't enjoy rough sex and was kind of like a teddy bear, really sweet. He ended things because he started fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 07:53 AM |
| 34 | Catfish MTV: Women that aren't a size 0 being rejected by ugly LVM or NVMAh, it's sort of a weird show. The hosts themselves are pretty cool, though. Neve isn't, well, I dunno. Mixed vibes, not good, not bad. Not totally sure though. But Max is pretty much for womens rights, gay rights, humanitarian efforts. He just seems to take it super personal when he finds out theres more than one lie and it's like 40 lies. He gets noticeably upset with it. The guest star hosts are the weird ones though, you don't know what to really expect from them. But more likely to be watch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 07:38 AM |
| 2 | I made a giant step forward because of this group! So thank you.Omg, yes girl. I don't know what he got out of this. I actually don't, but whatever it is does not make up for how cruel it was. I was being patient, kind and understanding but the bitch has been released and I owe no man anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 01:43 AM |
| 2 | I made a giant step forward because of this group! So thank you.I have hope that you know.. he will grow the fuck up and change his attitude, but hopefully he does that in time for when someone else comes along he cares about like that. Or just cares about because this is years of friendship that he just threw away for literally no good reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.Ugh, gross. I have dealt with that before so I get it. This time was different though, I wasn't letting myself get high on this shit anymore because I think I've grown. I used to think that a lack of that feeling meant I wasn't into the guy but now I think that its more realistic and clear. I know that I loved him for a time, usually I'd say theres a part of me that still loves him because there usually is that but this time I search for it and at feels like .. cold, haha. I can understand the "… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.I wont be trying to figure it out, theres not a way in hell I'd forgive this.. so it doesnt matter Edit: but thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.Thank girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 08:18 PM |
| 5 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.I know, I will be doing that. I just need time to come to terms with the fact that I will be doing that or I will regret it. It's a process and maybe it sounds dumb but it's kind of like cutting off a dying limb, you know you have to do it before you go septic and die but you have a small window to make peace with it and say goodbye in your own way before you do it. I tend to write goodbye letters to exes and shitty friends and burn them. It's my thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.I had a friend just like the one you're describing too, like pretty much to a T lol. A DIFFERENT ONE THAN THE ONE IN THE POST. And I could never figure him out and I don't know what the deal is. I was never jealous of his interest in other girls but always confused because I never understood what was going on between us. He would just block everyone out for a girl who put only a fraction of the effort he put in and I think he just liked them because they Mothered him. I Mother friends, I Mother … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.This is true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.I haven't yet. I kind of do this thing where I bitch for a day to a week then I just let it go. Except it goes somewhere like the fucking upside down and demagorgan in me is enraged,wants blood and takes over. And then after a little bit of that I feel nothing. Its messed up but it's what I do to deal, also if you're not familiar with Stranger things.. then I am sorry for the reference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.That's the weird thing, he kept up with me for a month and a half? Daily check ins, several texts a day. When he was busy he would respond saying he was going to be pretty busy and he forgot to respond. I've seen him with people in person though, with me in person, he will not touch his phone unless I touch mine or someone calls and even then he usually only picks up if hes expecting it or its family. It was really weird for him to all of a sudden just dip the fuck out. I recall it the last time… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.Oh that's so awesome! Good for you! I really was aware like years ago with him, and several months ago with men in general. I just gave a "friend" the benefit of the doubt. I have brothers, I know what dudes do, but my brothers have suffered too so I guess I had empathy. No ones perfect, you know? At the same time, my brothers are super soft on the inside. My little brother in particular outs up a front that he is using every girl he has sex with as a side piece and then the girl he bashes the m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:42 PM |
| 4 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.Ugh, what a fucking loser. I'm sorry that you had to deal with a similar kind of asshole. Takes a special kind of prick to do that. I'm so angry and I'm tempted to reach out and just say something along the lines of "fuck you" and that's it and just block him. Just to be a bitch for the sake of standing up for myself without needing to explain thoroughly how shitty he is and how I feel. Just a simple one line or two words. It just depends on whether that would indicate a lack of respect for myse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 08:48 AM |
| 16 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.Who knows. He's a bastard and at this point I'm questioning everything he's ever told me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 08:03 AM |
| 4 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.Oh, he's not anymore. I'm so over being treated poorly and accepting this kind of treatment. It's hard to imagine that he did this but against my better judgement I put trust into him. I lost my trust in him prior because I found so many parallels to a cheating ex, not the cheating parallel but character traits and I felt like I was following a pattern. I thought to myself "Well, that worked out so well that time that maybe I should just not do it again" and I distanced a bit because of it. I fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 07:59 AM |
| 7 | How to deal with feeling you are "missing out"? Everyone around me is starting to get married (mid twenties)You just remember that life doesn't stop in your 20's and the thing that ruins your 20's the most is thinking you need to be in a place you're not in right now and thinking you're behind the curve. You also remember that people can be complete garbage and that standing your ground and refusing to settle for less is the best way to keep your sanity. Have faith. Adriana Lima is considered one of the most beautiful and sexiest women in the world, she was a virgin until she was married because she b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:23 AM |
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