kallistocosima Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	I’m Worth More	DISCUSSION	kallistocosima	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/20 11:47 PM
12	Is he worth it?		kallistocosima	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/20 11:58 AM
11	how to be confident, without attracting those who lack it	SEEKING ADVICE	kallistocosima	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/19 06:05 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	I’m Worth More Thank you so much for this, it means a lot to me. I’ll be sure to keep this in mind and remember it when I start to feel down again. Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/20 12:32 AM
2	Is he worth it? Thank YOU so much!! I almost had to laugh when he started trying to guilt trip me by saying he didn’t like that I sounded angry with him and it made him feel bad. It was all about him and how he felt. He said I was different now, not in a good way (which to me means VERY good, because I had no self esteem when I first met him). He didn’t like that I called him out. All the red flags came jumping out at me and I completely understood what you meant about him. I’ll keep on working on my strategy, …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/20 12:31 AM
3	I’m Worth More This is amazing, I’m definitely keeping these tips close to me! Thank you for sharing with me 💛	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/20 12:19 AM
16	I’m Worth More He tried to play it off as a joke, but I called him out on it and then he tried to guilt trip me saying that I hurt his feelings by telling him off. Yeah, I don’t think he should date anyone soon, because it was terrible.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/20 12:00 AM
24	I’m Worth More I’ve been talking to a guy for a while, and thought I was being treated well. He was nice enough. Then he mentioned he was “desperate” and I was his “only option” which made me feel unwanted, like leftovers. I’m trying not to care, but it did sting a bit. I told him off and blocked him, but I’m trying to get over the fact that he basically said I’m someone’s last choice, not a first.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/20 11:53 PM
1	Is he worth it? Hi! Not that it’s a big deal, but I wanted to offer you an update! I realized everything he was saying was bullshit when he “accidentally” told me he was desperate to get some. So I told him he can go fuck himself and blocked his number. If I’m your last option when you’re desperate then you need to get out of my life. I know I’m worth way more than that. I missed a bullet, and I’m thankful you advised me to be weary and take things easy, because I probably would’ve missed this if I didn’t start…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/20 11:43 PM
1	Is he worth it? I can see from an outside perspective how that looks. I also feel that a little of it is my own problem since I never really got to know him to begin with (fear of intimacy). I’m trying my best to keep my standards high and not settle this time around like my last relationship. It’s too soon to tell if this experience will end up anywhere, but I’ll keep my mind open, and be aware of how I feel. I’ll be sure to keep what you say in mind! I really appreciate your insight! Thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/20 09:57 PM
2	Is he worth it? I really appreciate your advice! I think I will go out to see if there’s anything there. If not, then I won’t continue with him. If you’d mind, would you please point out the red flags you see so I can be a little more aware of them? Thank you again!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/20 07:17 PM
5	how to be confident, without attracting those who lack it I think you’ve summed it up pretty well. I know for a fact I’ve grown “pickier”, but I think it’s better for me, as I don’t want to relive my first dating experience. Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/19 10:25 PM
6	how to be confident, without attracting those who lack it I really appreciate your advice!! I will definitely keep that in mind, especially that it’s not my job to save anyone. I had the mentality for so long that I need to fix other people, and it lead me down many wrong roads. Thank you! I’m not where I’d like to be yet, but I’m definitely happy to say I’ve grown some!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/19 10:24 PM